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| 10 | They all lie, trust your gut. No unicorns.Bro this is what you gathered from your experience? Holy shit. Your first mistake was giving a shit whether she was a virgin or not. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/07/26 01:48 AM |
| 8 | Men on the whole are objectively worth less to date now than ever I believeIt’s people as a whole. There is an expectation on men though and especially with women that are less capable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/26 03:13 PM |
| 2 | Handsome and Socially intelligent dude tries for 6 months in dating apps and failing miserably, shows that as a man if you want playtime, you must make dating your everything to get anything in the dating marketLol. Be a good looking fit dude with a real profile showing real things that are masculine. You will align with some women. Not every female will want you. But some will. Examples: pic with your dog, at the beach, boat, hiking, hunting, free diving, ATV, motor cross, jiujitsu, wrestling, tournaments, sports leagues. Idk guy shit. Outdoor shit. Then throw in some pics where you are dressed up a bit with friends at a bar. Normal group of guys. Nothing try hard. Have a normal description in your pr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 06:04 AM |
| – | Society didn't lie to men about women and dating. Porn did.100% this, and also why dad is needed. Or rather both parents (of different genders). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Women will inevitably change after kids, if you can't understand this just don't have kidsSorry to hear that my guy. Not sure what kinda health problems and if they are the reason. But if they aren’t THE sole reason then try to look inward a bit. What are you not doing? How do you look in front of the mirror nowadays? If kids, what kinda dad are you being? Are you providing? I think my wife knows (barring health issues) if the bedroom was dead then I would not stay. Everyone has their line in the sand, that is one of mine. If I’m with you it’s because you bring value to my life and m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/26 12:57 AM |
| 12 | Women will inevitably change after kids, if you can't understand this just don't have kidsUmm life changes for you and your wife. I still have hobbies, I still have friends, I still enjoy sex whenever I want with some prerequisites now. eg kids are sleeping. But most importantly both me and my wife enjoy being around our kids, laughing with them and still showing affection to each other in front of the kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/26 12:16 PM |
| 2 | Guys Who Get Women on a Deep Level: Has It Killed Your Ability to Fall in Love?After being married and having kids, your awareness fades a bit. But things will always snap you right back into place. It never goes away for long. You just accept it and enjoy life with them anyway. It’s ok. Life is too short, enjoy it with someone that compliments you. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/26 01:51 AM |
| 2 | Its not That Red pill is "Controlling" or even Wrong. They just want it silenced and snuffed out. as well as unselected menReplied to someone else above. Don’t want to write again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/26 12:32 AM |
| 3 | Its not That Red pill is "Controlling" or even Wrong. They just want it silenced and snuffed out. as well as unselected menWhat an interesting way of looking at it. I don’t fear anything. Just because I can rationalize that attraction is not negotiable does not mean I am scared. There are so many women out there if my wife ever chose to leave. I am happy with my family. More happy than I have ever been in my life. I make $310k, I work remote. My wife can stay with the kids at home and not work. We take all kinds of vacations. You could not possibly be more wrong. I will turn grey, I will gain weight eventually etc e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/26 12:30 AM |
| 3 | Its not That Red pill is "Controlling" or even Wrong. They just want it silenced and snuffed out. as well as unselected menYou’re literally saying everything RP says. The difference is that you’re not realizing just how much more the attractive traits matter > being nice. I am not an AWALT rp man. Because statistically it’s impossible for every female on this planet to have the exact same desires. But the reason RP uses that phrasing is because if you simply just focus on being attractive, having passions, interests and hobbies then women will flock to you. Regardless of being super nice, respectful etc. They will n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/26 03:14 PM |
| 7 | Women have no idea what an average man isI think that last sentence is the point OP is making, yeah. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/26 03:52 PM |
| 2 | Draft should be accompanied by more rights for menAh. Why didn’t I think of not marrying a cheater. And yes, why didn’t I think of the face that the court will just know she cheated. This problem can be marked solved now. Nothing to see here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/26 06:40 PM |
| -3 | Draft should be accompanied by more rights for menIt’s because men that are away at war, usually get cheated on at a high rate by women. Also, when they come back they’re usually so fucked that their marriage fails. Women should not profit in anyway from that marriage if the reason for their lives falling apart is war / deployment for our country. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/26 06:37 PM |
| -2 | Yes, some women actually want to be single and childlessMany? You mean like almost every woman right? I have never come across a woman that told me she did not want to find the right man that she’s happy with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 12:43 PM |
| -12 | Yes, some women actually want to be single and childlessYes, all those women in here posting will regret not settling down with the attractive men they met when they were younger. The wall is very real and it’s an emotional thing. Men suffer from it too, but it comes much later. The idea is that by that time, you are successful enough financially that you can choose what you want. All in all though, women definitely suffer at the later stages much more than men do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 12:40 PM |
| 56 | Any successful guys here still play video games? What’s your relationship with them?You have to ride the fine line. If they bring you joy, then play. But be mindful of how much time you are putting in. It seems like your gut is saying that you may be putting too much time into it. Games like WoW have a lot of upfront investment. Once you get into the later stages it’s more of a scheduled thing, eg you get together with the crew to raid something. I find that scenario to be ok. The issue is it can take too much upfront time. And yes, it’s probably better to do real life activiti… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/04/26 12:25 PM |
| 5 | Would you be a Single FatherThen absolutely I raise the baby. No questions asked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/26 06:42 PM |
| 5 | Would you be a Single FatherI would never want the child aborted. I would absolutely be a single father, but not to a child of another man that my wife cheated on me with. I would adopt, and I would also raise my own kids alone if I needed to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/26 06:05 PM |
| 1 | Most women want socially liberal men who are capable of engaging in “benevolent misogyny “.I would probably hold the door for you and can guarantee you that my wife has a better ass. Point is I would be less than impressed, and my reasons for holding the door would not be to get the opportunity to look at your ass. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/26 01:52 PM |
| – | it’s depressing that money feels like the only way out .First of all stop feeling sorry for yourself. Secondly, life isn’t about finding a woman. You are not defined by the woman next to you. This mentality you have is actually what’s repulsive to people, not your appearance. Moving forward everything you do is for you, because you want to. Because it will bring you value. Most of all cause it makes you happy. When you’re happy with yourself and you’re confident about who you are as a person, maybe you can give an average looking woman the opportunit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/26 03:51 PM |
| 1 | Are male virginity stats true?I use the his muscle during sex sometimes to be playful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 02:27 PM |
| 1 | Conservative men don't need to pretend to be liberal in order to get relationships. That's a ridiculous conspiracy theory.This is incorrect. I found plenty of liberal women in apps like tinder, as well as conservative, as well as middle of the spectrum. If what you mean by conservative is a woman that won’t lose her virginity until she’s married then yes. But most conservative men do not want that. They just want a woman with slightly conservative values. And there is plenty of that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/25 11:53 PM |
| 2 | Men on here don’t understand women’s approach to casual sex. A massive failure to cross sex mind read from the red pill.All true - and apps like Tinder basically put you right into the pool of women that want casual sex. I basically stopped going out to meet women at one point because it was just so easy on apps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/25 02:43 AM |
| 1 | The bluepill is by far the nastiest dating ideologyPhysically attractive, interesting and not shitty is 100% red pill truths | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/25 12:49 PM |
| – | I am startled at how easy it is for my female friend to get sexLots of “make out sessions”. I don’t think I ever had a single make out session not turn into sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/25 02:13 PM |
| 11 | AWALT: The toughest pill to swallow.None of this really matters if you think about what your long term goals should be. Be the best version of yourself. If you do that then you will always continue getting “the best” woman you can get. For as long or as little as that time is. Regardless if it’s you or her who ends it. See, when you’re the best version of yourself and you know your value, then she will know it too. And if she’s retarded and doesn’t, you go find someone who does. Just stop giving a fuck. Work on yourself and bring … | /r/TheRedPill | 28/06/25 03:10 PM |
| 8 | AWALT: The toughest pill to swallow.Had a girlfriend like this. I knew I didn’t want to be with her long term but for the time I was with her, man my career jumped in orders of magnitude. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/06/25 03:05 PM |
| 2 | The bipolar nature of the alpha maleMeh yeah. The more that I had women the more that I craved for an emotional connection. Pussy became meh because I guess it was so abundant. It really changed my perspective. It was just empty. So much so that my wife now sees another good looking female and thinks I want her or crave her. And I just think to myself, “if only you knew how many of those I’ve seen”. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/06/25 01:12 PM |
| 3 | Women, in your experience how long do men usually last in bed?Is that why he is your ex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/25 03:20 PM |
| 1 | In a city like Miami, is paying for it actually the more rational option for sleeping with 9s and 10s?But why, I’m from Miami and I had some where around 70+. I was flat broke then but I hit up clubs and bars cause I knew people. I lived in a tiny efficiency and I rotated between 7 chicks all the time. Probably would have about 3-4 a week in my bed. These were real, attractive women. Why do you need pornstars and super models? Honestly IMO paying and wowing them via money and status takes the fun out of it. I really enjoyed knowing these chicks wanted me cause I made the juices flow without any … | /r/TheRedPill | 01/06/25 02:43 PM |
| 3 | Men need to be aware that they are easily replaceableSo much to unravel here. It doesn’t matter if she can get on tinder and find someone for dinner that night. It doesn’t mean he’s a quality man. Same way that when I used tinder I had multiple girls a day in my bed. Most weren’t quality. They were just fillers until I found someone that was worth keeping around. If you can’t go out with a girl you’re dating due to work and she goes on Tinder, you dodged a bullet. Good men are not so easily replaceable. Because being replaced does not mean she got… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/25 08:39 AM |
| 14 | Plate Spinning Crossroads | Out of an 8-Year LTR - Navigating Freedom, Abundance & GuiltI went through a really hard and long phase of this. And you navigate it by making sure you treat them as human and not as objects. What does that mean? Be honest. You shouldn’t need to lie or keep confidential your intentions just so that you can get laid. There are plenty of women that would still be down for that. Let the ones who want a commitment go find it from someone else. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/04/25 02:27 PM |
| 3 | Plate Spinning Crossroads | Out of an 8-Year LTR - Navigating Freedom, Abundance & GuiltThat’s not why we consider them to be good here. “Because they will stick with us” So that’s kinda a moot point. The good ones have good qualities once them deem you worthy. So OP or anyone can easily see women with good qualities while spinning plates and feel like maybe they are damaging women with potential. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/04/25 02:22 PM |
| 1 | The Overabundance of Male Validation Has Made Us DisposableLol. People are replaceable in general. The less replaceable you are the more value you have. Do you have any idea how many women I’ve replaced just because I didn’t like something and I knew there were 5 others right behind her waiting? I’m sure women can say the same about some of the men they’ve been with. The point is, it’s tied to your value. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/25 03:55 PM |
| 2 | I lost a girl in a beach party to another girl.You either take your chick back or you walk away and find another one. But definitely not what you did, which was nothing. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/04/25 12:18 AM |
| 1 | Starting to give up on dating and looking for adviceI get that. What I’m saying is you will actually be attracted to qualities. My wife is no where near as hot as she was when we started dating. But I’m still attracted to her due to other reasons. You can’t force those reasons they kinda just happen. And usually just with maturity about what makes you actually happy. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/03/25 12:29 PM |
| 1 | Starting to give up on dating and looking for adviceI think you need to measure your expectations and learn to appreciate positive qualities in women outside of pure physical attraction if you’re looking for marriage. Like I said in my previous comment, I believe this will happen naturally for you after enough time. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/03/25 12:14 PM |
| 1 | Starting to give up on dating and looking for adviceIf your issue is you’re dating girls you don’t find attractive, maybe you should try dating girls you find attractive then? If you can’t date those girls (the attractive ones) then spend some more time alone learning and getting more game. If you still want these “attractive girls” then it might be an expectation problem. I suspect as you get older much like women hit a wall you will hit a soft male wall where you will learn to appreciate and love other things, and something or someone will stic… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/03/25 09:46 AM |
| 23 | Cooking for a woman is a personality hackI do this with boating. Does she help prep the boat Does she offer to make sandwiches or bring snacks / fruit Is she hands on about the launch and retrieve process Does she offer to help me clean the boat Did she complain? You’ll usually find that most women are happy while being out on the boat but not so much with cleaning after being sun baked and tired. When they’re tired and not in the most amazing mood it really helps identify flaws and just general personality traits you might not like. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/03/25 06:52 PM |
| 6 | What Constitutes Being An Asshole? Starving Her EgoThis is 100% incorrect. Been there done that, for LTRs of course. It wasn’t clear to me if the post was referring to a generalization of women, LTRs or dating. Yes you can be an asshole when dating it’s easy. You can also be an asshole in an LTR, that is also easy. But too much alpha in an LTR leads to her looking for comfort. It’s just balance. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/01/25 05:54 AM |
| 17 | From A Psychological Perspective, It Pays More To Be An Asshole, Even When A Woman Is Being Nice To YouPhenomenal write up | /r/TheRedPill | 26/12/24 09:40 PM |
| 2 | What i’ve learned as a 18 y/o red pilled guy.It gets tiring but it’s definitely fun when you’re young and you’re discovering what you want in women | /r/TheRedPill | 10/12/24 02:09 PM |
| 13 | If TRP believes it’s mostly unsustainable to meep LTRs, why does it always blame the guy if the girl leaves him?You’ll never check off every scenario. Women just like men are complicated creatures. There will always be one offs. Your internal dialogue should be pretty straight forward. Lead, improve yourself, be a respectable person. There will be women who don’t want to follow your “good lead” and those are the ones you walk away from. If not, prepare for a lifetime of arguing and questioning. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/12/24 07:38 PM |
| 2 | Committing to a woman will never take you to your dreamIt’s really just about the people you go for. What works for you and what matters to you isn’t what matters to others. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/12/24 05:53 PM |
| 1 | How to overcome redpill rage after learning the truth about female nature ?Women can write this exact thing in reverse about men. They want a certain thing from us, and we want a certain thing from them. You’re just mad at the lie you were fed your whole life. Give it time. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/24 01:44 PM |
| -1 | Women and men who make more than their partners generally treat them like shit.You’re making general claims about people and you’re wrong for it. That is all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/24 01:10 PM |
| 1 | Women and men who make more than their partners generally treat them like shit.My wife doesn’t even work lol. She loves her life, family and me. You’re lost | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/24 12:59 PM |
| 10 | In 2024, Women Are More Valued Than Ever in the Dating MarketI think OP has a point. We are probably near the ceiling. Sex bots, etc. Will open the door for prostitution being legal. And like anything with supply and demand it will bring the cost down to be able to get laid and or see women naked doing things you want them to. So, yeah. This is probably peak era. Not sure on timeline but robot affordability and practicality is a big factor. How much you want to bet that sex robots will be used by businesses and charged by the hour. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/24 05:36 AM |
| 5 | Men of reddit would you have a problem if your girlfriend was a Cuckquean?Anything? Change your flair sir | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/24 09:50 PM |
| 6 | Don’t change who you are even if it gets you resultsThat’s not true. Like 7-8 years ago TRP gave me the knowledge and tools to better myself like gym, sexual strategy, clothes and the importance of generally taking care of myself. Couple that with the knowledge of female nature and some dating apps I was with two to three different women per week. I came to this same conclusion as OP. So what happened? I didn’t give af if a chick didn’t like me, I was just me. But not the old me, the new “me.” As in, not the nice guy pleaser me, or the me that di… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/08/24 12:20 PM |
| 14 | My ex GF wanted some time, I gave it to her, now she wants to come back, I am fucking other girl.The thing is she was going to get a break by literally being gone for two months. She didn’t need to break up on the break away from him. That behavior implies she wanted guilt free time. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/24 12:30 PM |
| 4 | My ex GF wanted some time, I gave it to her, now she wants to come back, I am fucking other girl.No my guy. You’re settling for your ex that wanted a break from you. You don’t need to be with your ex, and you don’t need to be with the young girl. If you had found a chick that made you as happier than your ex you would no longer be replying to your ex. You do you, whatever makes you happy. But you’re 100% settling | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/24 12:27 PM |
| 9 | Thank you for helping me find a 6-year LTR. It all ended just as you said it would.Right. Not to mention and this is really important; there are women that align better with your authentic self. This is a big point that TRP misses on. People are different, and personalities align better than others. So in your journey to improving yourself, also learn to look for what type of woman aligns with you, in addition to her having good values. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/08/24 08:13 PM |
| 6 | Body count is a strong predictor of infidelity and divorceIt’s just our turn anyways has never resonated with me. Is it just a cute quote so that we don’t feel they are OURS? If so, cool. But the reality is that shouldn’t matter. You do you, and if she is the one to mess around you just go. Because you value yourself lol. I don’t get why we recite these things like they’re gospel. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/24 07:32 PM |
| 1 | The Red Pill showing itself in real lifeYou’re still angry. The chick might want casual. The chick might be super cool and wasn’t a whore. She might’ve had an asshole partner prior to reaching out. You don’t need to settle with anyone but stop being angry about a compliment from potentially good company | /r/TheRedPill | 21/06/24 08:08 PM |
| 5 | Be The VillainI think this post is just more of a jaded outlook. Who cares if she cheats? You will have another lined up because you’re valuable. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/05/24 02:15 AM |
| 6 | Man or Bear? The best public example of collective womenspeak we've had in likely years.It’s simple. Just go to a zoo and ask all the women if they want to release the bears and put the men in the enclosures. Take that answer / questionnaire and you have your data for the stupidity of this. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/05/24 03:14 AM |
| -4 | Man or Bear? The best public example of collective womenspeak we've had in likely years.I know everyone has their journey and I’m not sure where you are in yours. But you need to live by your username a little more | /r/TheRedPill | 08/05/24 03:13 AM |
| – | For the men who believe having a high body count positively contributes to their status, how does it translate in reality?I never went around telling the women, nor did I even tell the boys. Generally you’re more confident as a man when you have a high count, and you’re also a lot more comfortable and better at pleasing women. I think that’s where the clues come in for women. I will also say there was never a time that I started dating a woman where she didn’t know I was casually dating or talking to someone else. No details are said but they’re aware there is interest from other women even if just one or two. If t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 01:54 PM |
| 0 | Are many guys here not interested in casual sex?Uhh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/24 02:00 PM |
| 2 | The Big Difference of Aging between Men vs Women is...This is really all it is, yeah. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/24 05:10 AM |
| 20 | Analysis: What Happens When Men Show Women Too Much InterestDon’t forget to mention that your value is also tied to her perception of you. My value to some women is far higher than others. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/04/24 01:55 AM |
| 3 | Why do women get turned off if a guy is living with parents even though they live with parents too?You’re missing the /s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/24 06:45 PM |
| 1 | Women Love Mysterious Men. Here's How to Do ItIt’s completely diff and more about meeting needs / being proud of the man she landed and father to her children. Continuously feeling like her man is striving forward in life, being a good parent, owning his shit and seeing his success especially compared to his peers and her circle is everything. No amount of seduction will keep a woman in an LTR / family without all the above. The above IS the seduction, it’s what confirms to her that SHE needs to keep you. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/03/24 12:45 AM |
| 4 | Women Love Mysterious Men. Here's How to Do ItThat’s it. None of this shit exists outside of the casual chick. Once you get into any kind of LTR it’s about just having your shit together, and not making her your world. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/03/24 12:22 AM |
| 1 | Do alpha males ever regret not settling down when they get old?I mean that’s the natural circle of life it’s ok | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/24 01:56 PM |
| 0 | Men, if you made $1M a year, would you want a bang maid or a 50/50 relationship?I disagree with you. If numbers are exponentially different then it changes the dynamic. I do agree with you in that time spent with each other is what matters, which is why my wife doesn’t work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/24 02:36 PM |
| -5 | Men, if you made $1M a year, would you want a bang maid or a 50/50 relationship?He’s right. Full time work has nothing to do with it. It’s about income and value brought / lifestyle improvement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/24 03:21 AM |
| -3 | Men, if you made $1M a year, would you want a bang maid or a 50/50 relationship?I’m already doing #1 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/24 03:19 AM |
| 1 | manosphere dudes are turning off the very women they are trying attract and seem oblivious to this.I’ve never watched the podcast but there is value in rollo’s writings | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/24 05:31 PM |
| 5 | manosphere dudes are turning off the very women they are trying attract and seem oblivious to this.Here’s a really shocking truth: He would’ve cheated anyway regardless of the verbal confirmation that you’re in a relationship. That had nothing to do with it and everything to do with him. If it’s just so you can point the finger at him and say “ha! You cheated you broke the rule.” Then fine, but reality is outcome would’ve been the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/24 05:27 PM |
| 6 | manosphere dudes are turning off the very women they are trying attract and seem oblivious to this.Yep 100% | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/24 05:25 PM |
| 1 | manosphere dudes are turning off the very women they are trying attract and seem oblivious to this.But there’s valuable information there. The issue isn’t in the information it’s in how you dissect it and take it as gospel. We can’t remove the responsibility of the viewer / reader to realize what is good for them or not. If we start doing that we’re going to end up real bad as a society in general | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/24 05:25 PM |
| 5 | manosphere dudes are turning off the very women they are trying attract and seem oblivious to this.To be fair he doesn’t need to ask to show interest. He can very much involve you in all aspects of his life and it will be known. I never asked my wife to be my girlfriend. Just kept asking her to come around, and inviting her to family things. It was just known that we wanted to be together | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/24 04:05 PM |
| 9 | manosphere dudes are turning off the very women they are trying attract and seem oblivious to this.The issue with the pills (society) is people are dumb and lack common sense. They align with something and it’s gospel to them. Every aspect of it. Instead of healthy disagreeing where you need to and realizing things work differently for certain people and goals are always different in someway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/24 04:02 PM |
| -1 | Why do men crave a stay at home wife so much?Thank you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 04:29 PM |
| -1 | Why do men crave a stay at home wife so much?Traditional family values is all. Home with the kids all day when they’re not in school, or too young for it. Home made meals for everyone almost all the time. Natural dynamic where the woman leans on the man for everything. Your question was why would men want it. I think the above is pretty clear. I have that and wouldn’t ever change it. In fact, wife is pregnant with another baby. So rinse and repeat cycle again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 01:45 PM |
| 4 | So, is talking to women at bars just… over?Yeah I think it’s pretty much dead in that scene. Has to be organically through a friend or a family party where you meet and trust is established. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/24 06:21 PM |
| 1 | I left my high school sweetheart after being an abusive asshole and I still think about her every single day. She turned into a hoe.It’s just a turn on. Makes you feel powerful. But see it, and realize why it is you like “THIS” woman in the future. If it’s for the wrong reasons then be honest about your intentions and plate them. Being an emotional ninja to them does nobody any good. When you find someone that you want for different (right) reasons you will know. Because it will be a whole different challenge | /r/TheRedPill | 02/01/24 05:38 PM |
| 3 | I left my high school sweetheart after being an abusive asshole and I still think about her every single day. She turned into a hoe.It’s the control you miss. The fact that you had her in anyway you wanted however you wanted. You didn’t really want her or value her though. So the thing you need to explore is “what is it about your personality that makes you want to keep / control a woman you don’t want.” If you don’t figure that out you’ll just find yourself in a similar situation. People tend to gravitate to the same kind of partners / toxic relationships. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/01/24 02:42 PM |
| – | Your girl wants to go clubbing without you, how bad Is It?You’re worried about keeping her and trying to win the manipulation game. You have two right options: - Let her go and stop caring about whether she finds a “better” man. Define your boundaries and leave her. Your boundaries are yours for a reason, and she should respect it. Maybe you’re scared. Maybe it’s just about respect. Maybe it’s pride. Reality is it doesn’t matter. If you don’t want it you don’t want it. The faster that you yourself accept what you want, and don’t take anything other tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/23 12:55 PM |
| 3 | THIS IS THE WAY to Text Girls on Tinder, Hinge or Bumble (Full Example + Breakdown)I did the same thing except not a bar. Lol All this other nonsense is silly. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/12/23 10:58 PM |
| 1 | Oneitis from an evolutionary perspectiveYou left her because you had oneitis lol | /r/TheRedPill | 05/12/23 07:25 PM |
| 6 | I have accomplished 95% of the things I wanted and dreamed from life, yet I feel empty and in happier than everNeed some solid friends to live life with or a family. The rest is just noise and “look at me” on Instagram. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/12/23 07:33 PM |
| 0 | What’s the magic number?Yes ma’am | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/23 03:06 PM |
| -3 | What’s the magic number?Put off meaning, for the prospects of an LTR. For the purpose of casual sex, she’d have to be very attractive. It’s supposed to be fun. The going out, the chasing the playfulness. When you have multiple women you’re seeing regularly you don’t want plain Jane to open her legs so easily. It’s just meh. But if you guys have insane chemistry it might be ok. Just by the nature of desire. But there’s no doubt that no matter what, waiting and having him crave / chase you is better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/23 02:43 PM |
| -1 | What’s the magic number?I was always turned off by the many women that put out date 1. Unless she was smoking hot, I’d typically look elsewhere. It’s always better when you gotta chase. You can both feel when there’s tons of chemistry. Through kissing, body language etc. So if chemistry is through the roof then I don’t think the man would be put off by it after the second or third date. But if chemistry is whatever and dude just makes a move yeah 100% it’s the feel of an easy girl and an easy lay. Take that for what yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/23 02:35 PM |
| 1 | Should I end the relationship?What makes you feel you don’t see a LTR with this girl OP? Or are you strictly talking about marriage? | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/23 02:40 PM |
| 2 | Should I end the relationship?What a great set of questions | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/23 02:39 PM |
| -2 | Most single lonely men are not struggling with women because they're old fashioned misogynistsDon’t see that girl anymore. Unless it’s for night caps | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 08:45 PM |
| – | The fact that so many women have a problem with a man who goes 50/50 is proof that most women just want to use men and don't actually care about them.This is pretty much it. If wife stopped bringing traditional values to the table she’s going to work. No reason I should take on more burden and the other person fans themselves. Maybe for a little but that stuff gets old | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/23 03:39 PM |
| 9 | Dumped. Need some short advice.Comment you responded to above is likely reality. The logical red pill thing to think is that she’s riding a new dick. As weird as it may be you have to treat it the same. Don’t be “there for her.” No comfort or any of that. That’s just giving her for free what it is that she gains from a relationship. So unless she wants to come be a plate(and if you want it) then there shouldn’t be much contact. This is likely all she wants and why you think it’s weird. You were her comfort and the big scary w… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/11/23 03:35 AM |
| 2 | Remember, She's Never Yours, It's Only Your TurnNot to mention that the simple act of going your own way if she doesn’t follow will lead you down a much less stressful path in life with that woman. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/11/23 06:05 PM |
| 1 | Quitting sugar will change your life.Maybe, and that’s all great. But no matter what he’s a reminder. Just my opinion | /r/TheRedPill | 20/10/23 06:04 AM |
| 1 | Quitting sugar will change your life.Honestly, I wouldn’t be friends with that dude. Just a constant subtle reminder of your bad times, and how he took advantage of it. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/10/23 05:40 AM |
| 8 | If The Girls In Your Friend Group Have Zero Sexual Interest In You, It's Time To Move OnHad a lot of partners, but I had women who were hot in my circle I never pursued and they never pursued me. We’d catch up, they’d talk about their lives (guys) and I’d talk about my chicks. I never used social media. But I think it becomes an issue when you are not getting laid and just the loser they’re talking to. The girls I spoke to knew I had multiple partners simultaneously. There’s an inherit respect when they know that. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/10/23 11:41 AM |
| 4 | As a man that’s getting older it’s literally impossible to not smirk at the problems my female peers are beginning to faceI would agree typically unless OPs family teased him and made him feel insecure about it. Which happens a lot between sister / brother growing up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 02:15 PM |
| 1 | As a man that’s getting older it’s literally impossible to not smirk at the problems my female peers are beginning to faceDon’t even pay mind to them. I can tell you from experience the more you maintain yourself and simultaneously ensure your income keeps growing the better it will be. When and if you settle down it will help immensely with having peace at home. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 02:13 PM |
| 2 | When banging new girls stopped being fulfillingI kind of agree. Had about 60-70 in a two year window. Only maybe 5 really knew what they were doing. You tend to deal with a bit more Bs with those. Cray hot matrix and all. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/10/23 11:02 PM |
| 7 | What does the popularity of AI girlfriends say about real life western women?This is wrong. Women love to talk and talk to friends. They can have free sex whenever. You might get the random ones that want an AI boyfriend but that will not be the norm. I love when people try to compare sexual dynamics between women and men as if they are similar | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 11:46 AM |
| 8 | What does the popularity of AI girlfriends say about real life western women?I’ve had women more than happily pay and or split checks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 11:43 AM |
| 15 | She asked: “How Many Girls Have You Slept With?”Point is just do what works for you. That should be the biggest take away from all of RP. Do what you feel confident doing for literally everything. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/09/23 03:00 PM |
| 1 | Is it true that almost every average couple has a dead bedroom?Have not seen that as a thing. But cool | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 10:24 PM |
| 6 | Is it true that almost every average couple has a dead bedroom?Definitely eat ass, have used vibrator with her but she prefers not to. Bisexual sex? That’s part of a non dead bedroom? Lol What a low effort comment and attempt at trying to shit on me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 09:54 AM |
| 1 | Is it true that almost every average couple has a dead bedroom?Most women like to be validated by knowing they’re dating someone of perceived value. It’s exciting for them. Like an accomplishment. Men don’t necessarily do this. Men get this from the hot chick they banged in a one night stand. Or the huge boat they just bought, which brings other chicks. Wifey at home doesn’t fall into this category. They want the sweet, mommy, that takes care of kids and holds it down. It gives them security that they are needed at home. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 03:44 AM |
| 2 | Is it true that almost every average couple has a dead bedroom?If you’re a man that makes perfect sense. Not if you’re a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 03:41 AM |
| 2 | Is it true that almost every average couple has a dead bedroom?Nope, you don’t do it on purpose. You literally just choose to live a high value life. Not for her for you. Because the unsaid truth is that if she doesn’t meet your expectations, she knows you can get what you want elsewhere. That’s really the unsaid rule. Once she believes that you’re not better than her, or that she’s the “best you can get” then you’ve lost that leverage and respect. Of course I’m speaking about this on a deep level but realize that a lot of men don’t even think of this shit.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 03:39 AM |
| 2 | Is it true that almost every average couple has a dead bedroom?37M one child and married. Going for child 2. Bedroom is not dead. Keep dating, be attractive, be bold, maintain high value. That’s pretty much it. Women know when you’re attractive toward other women and when you’re a good catch. So long as they believe that, it doesn’t matter whether it’s two weeks in or 20 years in. If they perceive you being wanted by other women, then they will want you too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 03:22 AM |
| 7 | Is it true that almost every average couple has a dead bedroom?Negative | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 03:17 AM |
| 11 | Don’t be me.Came here to say this in a simpler way. OP should be grateful. He’s just angry with himself. It’s got nothing to do with that woman who’s probably not very attracted to who he is right now, and yet has continued forward. Regardless of her reasons, she’s helped him. He should be able to take a step back and look at that for what it is. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/23 09:58 PM |
| 5 | Don’t be me.Agree with you. But it doesn’t mean OP needs to be ungrateful, and hamster about how he’s broke and gained 40 lbs. If anything OP should set his goals, get his shit together but be grateful for a good person who held him down. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/23 09:55 PM |
| 47 | Nuclear shit test exampleThis is the answer. And the reason you do this is because you already know there’s a next. I don’t play games. If she wants to play some games I’ll move on to one that doesn’t. Life is short, fuck all that. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/23 02:21 PM |
| 6 | WOMEN DONT ENJOY SEXI’ve had horrific sex. Literally could not finish. Mix of I didn’t like how their vagina felt for me, their body, the way they moved or didn’t move. You’re very clueless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 04:36 PM |
| 47 | How it feels to not get married and live a single life?Everything you’re saying and assumptions are true. The part you’re missing and can’t see is that you’re happy to make those sacrifices. There’s tangible real enjoyment because of kids, and hopefully a loving partner. But yeah it could go wrong. You don’t know till you jump. But don’t jump until you have a good idea of where you’re landing. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/07/23 07:38 AM |
| 2 | Married BP Alpha to Chad…A world I didn’t know existedMentally and emotionally. Not physically cause you’re in great shape. In fact it became difficult to climax at a certain point. I had no urge to want to have sex. Felt like work, especially when you’re wanting to maintain those “plate relationships.” So yeah eventually you say fuck this, you take a break and whichever chick sticks around when you’re ready you just roll with it. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/07/23 01:45 AM |
| 2 | Emergency! Got a complex test. Need immediate advice.You’re fucked because of how much thought you’re putting into portraying yourself in a certain way. The fact that you are sitting here wondering if she’s testing you or not is ridiculous. That’s the reason you have multiple women. So you don’t worry about the “one.” And then if one comes around and actually fits the bill perfectly you drop the others. If that’s your goal | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/23 03:24 PM |
| 5 | Emergency! Got a complex test. Need immediate advice.“Get other women to show interest in me.” No no. You need to get under other women, and stop caring so much. If she comes around into your frame then great if she doesn’t then cool. As it stands right now if you land this girl you’re absolutely fucked. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/23 06:31 AM |
| 1 | Married BP Alpha to Chad…A world I didn’t know existedThey don’t know or understand | /r/TheRedPill | 11/07/23 08:58 PM |
| 12 | Married BP Alpha to Chad…A world I didn’t know existed100% I went through this for two years and couldn’t do it anymore. I was tired of the sex. Even if I could’ve kept getting sex 2-3 times a day and rotating women, it’s exhausting. Miami is a different beast that’s why I left. I make a little more than you I’m at about $200k and living comfortable outside MIA | /r/TheRedPill | 11/07/23 08:53 PM |
| 5 | I wish my Dad had detoxed my family of Feminist propaganda with a camping trip to the Philippines.I actually like this idea. Even if not for “the wife” it’s good to have everyone(the family) get slapped with some perspective. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/23 04:31 PM |
| 10 | TIFU by going out with tinder girl and falling in love.Painful to read. Listen it happens, sometimes you just really like something about her. But why would you be in a no strings attached relationship and not be with other women to keep you level headed? If you felt yourself slipping, retract, go do something else, literally. Instead you pushed on to impress her. Did you think that she didn’t know exactly what you were doing? She was probably waiting for the moment you came out to ask her. And as you write this she’s probably right back on Tinder t… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/23 12:16 AM |
| 2 | Do girls NEVER help with life? Never ever??That’s incorrect. If she likes you enough and respects you, she will fulfill her motherly and wifey duties | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/23 01:48 PM |
| -5 | Do girls NEVER help with life? Never ever??It’s really just about her being submissive, supportive, and builds your confidence. Now the things that make you feel that way might be different than someone else, but what matters is you feel them with her. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/23 04:54 AM |
| 1 | Never fucking show your weaknesses.Honestly I don’t feel you did much wrong except not go to the gym and talk about your past. Mind you that’s pretty harmful, especially if your past is somehow intertwined in current partners circle. Betrayal fucking sucks cause it eats away at your core. You will carry this with you for some time, let yourself be angry and go through the process it’s totally normal. But I’ll be honest I think she was just a shit person. You could’ve probably done this very thing with a good person and been fine.… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/06/23 10:49 AM |
| -2 | Women don't appreciate male breadwinnersAh yes, find someone who makes more. Divorce them and collect child support . Murika | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/23 02:14 PM |
| 1 | Why do women really live in constant fear of men?Uh huh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/23 12:50 PM |
| 2 | Why do women really live in constant fear of men?So interesting that I’ve seen endless comments confirming that men are stronger and women are weaker. So, that confirms that people generally know there are differences between men and women. Which means, men shouldn’t compete with women and that explain why generally women won’t compete with men. I’m using the gender as the actual gender not the made up one people like to assign themselves. Why is it that we can all logically talk about this stuff but then literally turn a blind eye when people… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/23 05:21 AM |
| 1 | Why do women really live in constant fear of men?This isn’t true for all men. I’ve had sex with over 50 women, and I would literally go through phases where I didn’t want sex for easily more than a month. No masturbation nothing. I never felt this insane urge to have sex. In fact at times I would be the one that was playful and stopping the act from happening, even though I was aroused. It really just never controlled me. Not sure why, but yeah. I don’t align with everything you’ve described. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/23 05:16 AM |
| 2 | Would you date these "overweight" women?No to all. Not hating it criticizing I’m just into women that are more thin. With all that being said they aren’t unattractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/23 04:29 PM |
| 2 | How do you solve the "The Fatherless Crisis"?It’s not a solution at all. Not even one bit. Fathers making an impact on children need to be the actual fathers unless it’s from birth | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/23 03:40 AM |
| 2 | Struggling to truly be at peace with TRP teachings.Yeah. Just keep doing it. Eventually you won’t feel like you’re being fake because you’ll find a way within your own personality to be you, in a more dominant way. Even a World of Warcraft gamer can be dominant over his girl, and the most important part is that he believes he can replace her. So learn to still be you, but playfully and dominantly. It won’t feel so much like a grind then. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/02/23 08:44 PM |
| 2 | "Why I Went Looking For A Wife Overseas": A happy relationship between a Western man and a non-Western woman where both partners are happy and in love with each other should not be looked down upon. [WATCH VIDEO]It’s definitely difficult. But I actually do it with my income and I’m not rich. Fiancé and son, single house hold income paying about $2k mortgage flat | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/23 04:50 PM |
| 1 | "Why I Went Looking For A Wife Overseas": A happy relationship between a Western man and a non-Western woman where both partners are happy and in love with each other should not be looked down upon. [WATCH VIDEO]That’s not true. From personal experience I’ve had quite a few that I’ve largely supported. Some did contribute 50% or at least helped where they could. But maybe this is the problem no? Our culture became so obsessed with two household incomes, feminism, that the market requires two to three incomes in order to live. I can see why women just don’t have the energy, the patience or the personality to be like the girl in this video. They were at one point though. Either way, it’s better for a man … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/23 03:26 PM |
| -2 | "Why I Went Looking For A Wife Overseas": A happy relationship between a Western man and a non-Western woman where both partners are happy and in love with each other should not be looked down upon. [WATCH VIDEO]It’s not a myth. I can even go with you there and say it inflates male ego as you said. But because it inflates our ego’s, we thrive with women who are/act submissive because yeah, it inflates our ego’s. Not to mention the biological differences in men and women. Sure a woman with a career can hire a man to do tasks, but she still needs a man. Obviously we disagree and I respect your opinion. Have a great night | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/23 02:27 AM |
| 0 | "Why I Went Looking For A Wife Overseas": A happy relationship between a Western man and a non-Western woman where both partners are happy and in love with each other should not be looked down upon. [WATCH VIDEO]Maybe providers is the word I mean. Not givers. Although they are kind of similar | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/23 01:59 AM |
| 0 | "Why I Went Looking For A Wife Overseas": A happy relationship between a Western man and a non-Western woman where both partners are happy and in love with each other should not be looked down upon. [WATCH VIDEO]He provides everything except material things. You didn’t hear the part where she wanted toys for Christmas to give for kids, and for her birthday she wanted food to feed people who cannot eat? There’s a stark difference between people who grow up in poverty versus here in the states. Men like to have purpose, and are givers naturally. So they feed off each other. She needs him, he needs her affection and femininity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/23 11:33 PM |
| 0 | Stopped filtering what I say, but Im still boringI was/am fairly introverted. What worked for me was story telling, and doing things that allowed a lot of down time. Lots of talking but not around other people. It was either that or the other extreme of hitting a club and going dancing where there was no talking at all. Keep in mind I had a lot to talk about from life and careers. So that helps. Maybe pick up some cool activities / hobbies you can talk about or even take dates on? | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/22 02:59 AM |
| 2 | Who are the men who consistently date attractive women?I did consistently after red pill. I was generally more attractive than most men around me. But didn’t know how to carry myself, be charismatic and was way too nice. So even though girls would be interested, I did lose their interest fairly fast. After finding RP that never happened again. Had my pick of the litter with the exception of the 9s and 10s that were instagram models hoping to get paired with millionaires. I guess being in a big city helped as well with the constant flow of beautiful … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/22 05:11 PM |
| 3 | Do men you know advocate for their own mental health?Let me know how I can help? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/22 04:36 PM |
| 1 | Should more college educated women ''date down'' in terms of status?It’s really about money. They could she shared interests and even get along. If the man makes significantly less it will make him less appealing to the woman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/22 03:35 PM |
| 1 | men who care about a women's body count, how would you even know what it is?You absolutely would based on natural dynamics. Before you tell me no and I’m a liar, I’ve had a lot of partners. I can smell it on them. You just know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/22 02:53 AM |
| 1 | Do you view sex as an equal exchange between the man and woman?Why is it everything so complicated? Meet a female, you find her attractive? Great. Let her know you want to hang out. You don’t want anything serious and just want sex? Let her know you don’t want a commitment. Keep hanging out and have fun with sex. You want a commitment? Great. Don’t tell her you want casual fun, and instead proceed to get to know her in a more romantic way while still potentially having sex. All of the above is totally equal because women are told up front and have equal say… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/22 01:27 PM |
| 1 | What do men want? As candidly and honestly as possible and from a male’s perspective.To be respected, admired and needed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/22 04:23 AM |
| 1 | “Why are men in Crisis?” discussed on Bill MaherNurture is why we are here. I’m telling you what makes men happier, and women happier. I’m living it. I’ve experienced it, and seen it in my circle of friends and family. I’ve had conversations in bed after sex with a lot of women(over 60). Deep conversations that women generally don’t open up about. I went through a phase where I was very curious about why people do what they do. The modern day feminist movement, the new norm, and the men that are out there right now are not what women want. An… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/22 03:43 AM |
| -1 | “Why are men in Crisis?” discussed on Bill MaherYou’re making the very common assumption that a lot of women don’t want this. I never said control them. I said the woman respects and wants that kind of man cause she needs it. Don’t be silly and assume every woman is a feminist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/22 03:33 AM |
| – | “Why are men in Crisis?” discussed on Bill MaherBecause that has been the natural order of things, and always will be. The same way you’re trying to make a point about “what is a man” is the same point a woman tries to make when she says “why do I need to listen/submit to you.” If you look at the healthiest natural dynamics of men / women, it typically (not always) is when a man leads and has his shit well put together, and he dates a woman that needs/respects that. And as a result of those two things, they just work. It’s really that simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/22 03:03 AM |
| 1 | RedPill - sexual deviancy and casual sex is bad for society. Why endorse it instead of building families?Not sure I see it as RP. I see my journey and beliefs about dynamics to be RP. I always felt like the point of TRP was to take ownership of your life, improve yourself and then decide whether you wanted a LTR or to keep enjoying the single life. I had a lot of partners and I felt like this one complimented my life. If that changes one day then I would reevaluate. Not sure if that answers your question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 01:57 PM |
| 2 | RedPill - sexual deviancy and casual sex is bad for society. Why endorse it instead of building families?In short, yes. Raising good children (for me) is worth it. She’s obsessed with me. That can change any minute. But it can also change with me to her. Stay fit, keep making more money, and be an awesome dad. The moment I feel I no longer have a firm hold on her emotions, doesn’t respect me, or doesn’t respect what I say. I walk away. It’s as simple as that. I understand you though. Hope for the best for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 10:54 AM |
| 2 | RedPill - sexual deviancy and casual sex is bad for society. Why endorse it instead of building families?Yep. And really the answer to why is because I wanted a traditional family. Have kids, and raise them etc. Didn’t want to do co-parenting, despite very easily being able to. I met a lot of women that would’ve been down for that. I guess another reason is that I became confident enough in what I bring to the table, that I don’t feel scared despite knowing the hypergamous nature of them. I still maintain the mindset of I can walk away whenever, and she knows that. Having randoms every week was fun… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 10:25 AM |
| 2 | RedPill - sexual deviancy and casual sex is bad for society. Why endorse it instead of building families?I’m engaged. Fully believe in TRP. Not sure that we’re all the same | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 04:49 AM |
| 3 | RedPill - sexual deviancy and casual sex is bad for society. Why endorse it instead of building families?I never got that from TRP. I got “Learn sexual strategy, have fun, and then decide what you want with your newfound knowledge of how whoreish women can be.” Just cause some dudes from there shame a LTR, doesn’t mean they all do. I can 100% attest to the fact that TRP saved me from my false illusions of women, and I am happy in a relationship now. Just took me a while to digest it all and change myself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 03:35 AM |
| 1 | 80/20 is common sense and it appears the mainstream is getting it...No I think they were referring to the denial of women in the past about this. Now it’s who cares about loser guys. And they shouldn’t care, just funny they’ve denied all of this for years and still try to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/22 10:00 PM |
| 1 | Women fuck emotionally distant men, and keep "good communicators" in the friendzoneYikes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 08:47 PM |
| 19 | Women fuck emotionally distant men, and keep "good communicators" in the friendzoneThey don’t think that consciously. But on some level the mystery of the unavailable guy that is attractive plays well together. You could be attractive and an over communicator and turn some women off. Notice how I said some. There’s people for everything. But OPs experience is 100% true depending on the market he’s in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 08:43 PM |
| 1 | American women are some of the most overrated women on the planet.Sounds like you’re a victim of our American feminist culture. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 05:13 PM |
| 3 | I wanna vent for a difficult period in my life...There’s no easy answer here, and therefore this post is really just a venting session. Which is OK. It’ll be a good reference for you to go back to in a years time. Like other comments here have said. Living at home No income Self esteem Seems to me like you’re self aware enough of this and are doing things to correct it. So trust the process. Stay true to goals and don’t fucking worry about vagina. You’ll get all the vagina you want when you’re confident, financially stable, and living in a nic… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/09/22 12:14 AM |
| 15 | To men who want biological children: It might be better to pay a surrogate than to have children with a woman. What do you think?There are, and it’s hard to tell what their lives were like. I’m telling as a father and man who was in your shoes just 4 years ago. I debated all these same things. I came to the conclusion through my conservative beliefs that children need mothers and fathers. Society seems to shun fathers now a days but I’m hoping that will change. I’m glad I made my choice because I see how the healthy dynamic between my partner and I affect our son. It’s absolutely necessary for his mental health and emotio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/22 04:46 PM |
| 5 | To men who want biological children: It might be better to pay a surrogate than to have children with a woman. What do you think?I believe it’s wrong, hence my original comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/22 04:40 PM |
| 23 | To men who want biological children: It might be better to pay a surrogate than to have children with a woman. What do you think?As the father of a two year old boy, your first downside is huge. Bigger than you might think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/22 04:16 PM |
| 4 | What is the end goal according to redpill?You just basically described TRP without the white knight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/22 05:54 AM |
| 1 | What is the end goal according to redpill?So you’re actually wrong and totally misinterpret TRP from the angry folk that are still in their healing anger phase. End game if RP is to not care if women don’t return your interest because you have made yourself so valuable that you have other options. The literal end game is having no fear due to an abundance mentality. When you reach that you can decide if you want an LTR, single, or whatever you fancy. But it’s the desperation, anger and fear that TRP tries to kill. And it does so by expo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/22 05:51 AM |
| 3 | Would you rather have a loving husband? Or guaranted 2,000 USD a month for the next 18 years?By give you 2k a month do you actually mean him depositing that money into your account? Or are you suggesting he should be able to contribute 2k into the family expenses? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 07:42 PM |
| 15 | Would you rather have a loving husband? Or guaranted 2,000 USD a month for the next 18 years?It’s sad that this is so hard to believe. But I choose to believe you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 07:40 PM |
| 5 | If women are fed up with dating men, isn't it on the men to change?If everyone took accountability like this the world would be a better place. I hope you procreate and pass on the “accountability” gene on to your children. Hell, even as a step dad you could do this. Keep on keeping on, friend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/22 01:45 PM |
| 5 | Picking up women is probably the hardest skills ever to learn as a man.No lie, when I decided to start gaming and juggling women after a couple failed LTRs. I was pretty antisocial. I didn’t have much game. I am good looking though, and that allowed me to at least get a few dates right out of the gate. The more that I was successful, the more carefree I became. Which is basically “game.” It got to a point where I genuinely did not try to impress women. I just took them along with me to do whatever I wanted, and they were happy to do it. Women can genuinely feel whe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 04:44 AM |
| 18 | Q4men: do you REALLY want women to be like men?This is all a fallacy. I’m an attractive male, have many options and don’t cheat | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 06:04 AM |
| 4 | Have you ever changed your mind on a man you initially weren’t attracted to?Very common | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 01:44 AM |
| 1 | In your opinion, what are the benefits of dating men for modern day women?Be single and date for a whileeee. You’ll have your answer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 05:11 AM |
| 4 | Why is the physical act of cheating so devastating to men?Both hurt. But as a man you can hamster away the emotional aspect of it and chalk it up to bad times in the relationship, she was going through a rough patch in life, and you move on from it. Knowing that she gave herself to someone else hurts more because it makes you feel like you were inadequate, and the other man did something to her physically that you could not. You start thinking about how it happened, was he in fact better. There’s a really deep ego pride behind it that gets destroyed. T… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/22 03:08 AM |
| 3 | Alpha Widow - Woman Divorces Tall, Handsome, Loyal, Successful Man for AlphaAbove 5 imo. Don’t care about age either. If you’re young and have 5 it’s kinda a red flag but maybe just coming into your own. If you’re older and have more than 5 it shows you don’t sustain LTRs. You just don’t want that. With how difficult dating is today, the last thing you want is to get seriously involved with anyone that has trouble staying with men long term. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/06/22 01:19 AM |
| 2 | Alpha Widow - Woman Divorces Tall, Handsome, Loyal, Successful Man for AlphaOne of the most obvious signs to avoid is n count. Never date a woman with a high n count. How was she when you first hooked up? How easy was she? Did she get with you cause you were better than her bf? You need to look at the obvious signs we don’t want to look at. They’re always there. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/06/22 04:35 AM |
| 7 | Are women lying about body count (Post to end all Count topics)From A big city here. 25 was nothing for the girls you’d meet on Tinder or other dating apps. Especially if those women were nearing 30 years old and were still single. I met some with an n count of 40-50. Of course context matters. The random girls you meet that don’t do dating apps are no where near those high numbers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/22 04:47 AM |
| 1 | One of the main reasons dating and marriage are so bad in the western world is you will never be the best at everything for your partner. There will always be, in their past someone better than you at something be it sex, money, looks etcBut to the person dating them, they can be perfect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/22 10:43 AM |
| 1 | One of the main reasons dating and marriage are so bad in the western world is you will never be the best at everything for your partner. There will always be, in their past someone better than you at something be it sex, money, looks etcOf course, I never said they were perfect. Your original comment suggests no one’s partner is perfect for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/22 10:33 AM |
| 7 | Sugar Dating RealityThis explains why you feel that women love differently. The thing you’re not realizing is attraction is non negotiable. If you yourself feel this way, then I can only imagine the vibe you give is similar. No one loves just because. Get your head on straight, lose the weight, cut the negative habits out and live healthier. Once you feel better get back in the market and enjoy your life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/22 04:24 AM |
| 2 | One of the main reasons dating and marriage are so bad in the western world is you will never be the best at everything for your partner. There will always be, in their past someone better than you at something be it sex, money, looks etcUntrue - I got / stayed with the best. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/22 04:12 AM |
| – | The rapid societal decline in sex and relationships is solely due to women's lack of interestYou will, but statistically speaking it is in a decline. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/22 05:57 PM |
| 1 | Be honest, in your personal life, do you see more women punching up, or men punching up?100% women generally punch up more unless the man attains more money and therefore gets more options. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/22 08:51 PM |
| 6 | Why do red pillers want to date women when you guys hold such negative views on us?You’re ignorant. Read the top comment over and over. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/22 11:48 PM |
| 1 | Looks are by FAR the biggest factor in attracting a girl.Oh my | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 05:17 AM |
| 1 | Getting into a relationship with a woman who is slim and college educated is hard, period.It’s all bullshit OP. Don’t let these people tell you that you need to just bring more value to her life by being a better person that stands out from the rest. You’re literally invisible unless you physically or financially standout. It sucks and it’s a tough pill to swallow, but it’s the truth. Get yourself to place where you can realistically maintain your self, physically. Reach for better a job that sets you aside a bit more. Then analyze who is paying attention. Adjust from there either on… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/22 01:25 AM |
| 1 | Where have all the good men gone?This is just the typical minority loud folk being loud and using social media as a platform to do so. Much like every other cliche movement and such. Times aren’t as traditional. But people are still people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/22 06:22 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]I used to live in a very sex filled city. I always felt like there was a lot of competition due to it, but never a feeling of they were more attractive. After moving for work reasons, there’s like zero competition. Of course I’m in a LTR, so it doesn’t matter as much. But from my POV, the answer is no. Most men seem unattractive, and very much uncaring about their appearance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/22 10:48 PM |
| 1 | If women tend to go for very attractive men how come every where i go I always see a couple of a unattractive man and beautiful woman?Fuck you money, and the confidence due to it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/22 10:45 PM |
| 1 | Q4W would you date a man who earns less than you?Yeah I think anyone would. Passion and drive is attractive. But you’re also right about where you are in life. If you had a family you’d value stability more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/22 02:34 AM |
| 1 | Q4W would you date a man who earns less than you?Yeah then you want ambition. Cause he could be working full time. Paying his stuff, hitting the gym, keeping up with chores, being a good dad, etc. But not wanting more - career wise. Totally normal by you though. Women tend to find that very attractive, they just don’t normally admit it or are aware of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/22 02:30 AM |
| 3 | Q4W would you date a man who earns less than you?Wouldn’t someone that’s lazy be someone who doesn’t work at all? What if the person works hard at their job but is not ambitious to do more than said job. Assuming their job provides them a decent living. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/22 02:17 AM |
| 1 | Leading women on for sex is exactly as moral/immoral as TwitchThots or Only Fans girls taking money from simpsThis | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/21 02:33 PM |
| 1 | Leading women on for sex is exactly as moral/immoral as TwitchThots or Only Fans girls taking money from simpsI agree | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/21 02:33 PM |
| 1 | Leading women on for sex is exactly as moral/immoral as TwitchThots or Only Fans girls taking money from simpsGuys lying is wrong. Don’t disagree there. But I think OP is saying that guys will say they don’t want a relationship only to trigger a woman to have sex with him. Meh. As I told OP, it’s one female to continue or not if the guy says I don’t want a relationship. Same as the doofus giving money to a twitch streamer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/21 02:31 PM |
| 1 | Leading women on for sex is exactly as moral/immoral as TwitchThots or Only Fans girls taking money from simpsI disagree with you not on the point that they’re both idiots. But on the point that it’s immoral to tell a woman you don’t want a relationship and still sleep with her if she wants to. I’ve done this many times and it wasn’t because I thought by telling her that she’d want to sleep with me. It’s because I truly just wanted to be single and enjoy sleeping with different women. Hell, 90% of the time the women knew I was sleeping with other women and they didn’t care. If their feelings get hurt it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/21 02:27 PM |
| 2 | Why do women still put in so much more effort in relationships instead of staying single?Literally every man I know isn’t in this category you just described and I know like 10 close friends. I leave most of the house chores to my fiancé, but I am by no means a slob. I also help a lot with outdoor work. You live in a make believe world where the vast majority of men do not own their own shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/21 05:57 AM |
| 1 | Dating is like getting a job. You need a job to gain experience, but you need experience to get a job. You need a relationship to gain experience, but you need experience to get a relationship.It’s not supposed to get easier. Life always gets harder, you’re just supposed to get stronger, or better. I’ve had 60+ partners. Dumped a whole lot, been dumped very few times and mostly in the beginning. But you certainly do run into those delusional chicks that after you bang them. You realize they’re literally on another planet regarding what they want and expect. I just have a knack for quickly turning those into casual friends that come to fuck when they want. Anyway, I did meet a solid gi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/21 01:45 PM |
| 3 | The Girlfriend Experience is for sale - The Boyfriend Experience is not.He is providing a solution and mindset shift. Which is really all it takes. He’s saying, realize why you are the prize, and how society is shifting toward women not being able to attain their needs as easily as men. That simple truth if digested should get you to vet out the women that actually want to give you what it is you need. It also gives you the mindset to walk away when needed. So yes, if digested properly this mindset will take you anywhere you want to go. So long as you make yourself … | /r/TheRedPill | 23/11/21 12:39 PM |
| 2 | Make Your Girl Someone You RESPECTYeah I would say more than likely a mix of A and B. Most of the ones I had those relationships with were B. I will say that after sometime, B’s became C(want a commitment) and we mutually ended our relationship/friendship. My entire point though is I still respected them as people. They respected me and generally speaking it was a wholesome dynamic. No lying, toxicity etc. I now have a family myself. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/11/21 05:47 PM |
| 4 | Make Your Girl Someone You RESPECTI’ll disagree with this generally. I’ve had dynamics when I had “plates” where we had great conversations. There was no lying involved or trickery. She knew I had other friends I likely had sex with. Those easy going no pressure conversation nights were some of the best experiences I ever had. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/11/21 02:00 PM |
| 3 | What exactly is the end game for red-pillers,mgtow, mra, etc?No they don’t actually. You might, because you feel that it’s misogynistic. Or the mindset is misogyny. Which is ok. You’re entitled to feel and not like what you want. But I wasn’t successful with women prior to TRP. After TRP, I had over 50-60 partners. Tbh that’s a rough number I completely stopped caring about the number. Because it wasn’t about that for me. Have had various long term relationships. I now have a family, and live with my fiancé. I’m the sole provider in the relationship. My f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/21 01:02 PM |
| 6 | What exactly is the end game for red-pillers,mgtow, mra, etc?No he’s not the exception. You’re just seeing the loud ones. I would say the majority is actually the opposite. Most men on the TRP are actually just trying to figure out how to be successful with women. What the end game for TRP is, for you to be successful and happy enough to choose the path you want, with the woman that you want because you have abundance. You want to fuck endlessly? Have at it. You want kids but no marriage? Have at it. You want to have LTRs? Have at it. You want marriage? B… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/21 12:17 PM |
| 5 | A Rotation Of Women Is Like An Insurance Policy For SexI’ve experienced about 5 on a true rotation (not a masturbation hopeful rotation). Had 3 of the five in one day / night. It was absolutely exhausting. The true value is once you’ve established enough female relationships that you don’t need to maintain this rotation. It’s more casual and more of a hangout for fun that you have peace and truly elusive. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/10/21 09:56 PM |
| 1 | Most marriages ending in divorce are happy until a sudden, abrupt event triggers the breakdown of the marriageNo there’s no trend lol. People can just be shit or not shit. One gender isn’t more shit than the other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/21 08:45 PM |
| 1 | Does sleeping with someone really attractive for a period in your life ruin sex with other more average people?Can confirm this is correct | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/21 06:37 PM |
| 1 | Relationships are the greatest predictor of happiness and women are much more likely to be in relationshipsAt a high level this is the truth | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/21 04:04 PM |
| 2 | I'm a 7, how come I do better in online dating than in real life?Because in RL people aren’t walking around wanting to match up with anyone. They’re busy and going about their daily lives. On the app they are. It’s simple probability. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/09/21 02:37 PM |
| 3 | Y'all were right. The red pill was rightNo one likes feeling like they weren’t good enough or not wanted to someone else. But you have the right mindset to sort through those feelings. Let her go and improve yourself. One day she’ll likely hit you up again. You can then deny her or plate her next to your other girls. But you have to work on yourself. Nothing is free. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/21 09:47 PM |
| 5 | Is there a "secret underworld" of sex going on all the time?I think Chad is relative to who’s viewing Chad. To me Chad is probably much different than another man with SMV much lower than mine. Same applies to women. Women know who they can realistically attain. When they get interest from a man they believed to be unattainable, that is Chad. So as a man what do you do? Be as close to what you feel Chad is as possible. Then decide if you want the best possible girl you can get. If you want the most sex with different women as you can get. Or if you want … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/21 12:33 AM |
| 12 | Is there a "secret underworld" of sex going on all the time?Zero parties and clubs attended for a while and I got lots of sex. That’s not to say that attending clubs and parties doesn’t get you sex. It does. And it did for me as well. But I got bored of the scene and just wanted casual sex, studying and working out at that stage of my life. You can get a lot of it, you just need to look good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/21 09:55 PM |
| 7 | Do men enjoy being desired more?“When someone tells you who they are, believe them.” Start working out and being more attractive if you’re a fat slob. If you’re not, then stop validating her and find yourself some happiness elsewhere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/21 06:10 PM |
| 1 | Do men enjoy being desired more?100 thousand percent. It’s powerful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/21 06:08 PM |
| 1 | (Most of) TRP and men who want a traditional submissive partner don't really know what they are asking for.Yeah exactly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/21 10:39 PM |
| 1 | (Most of) TRP and men who want a traditional submissive partner don't really know what they are asking for.I would replace self respecting with high value people. Not that you’re wrong. You’re right. But from the perspective of the other person. When the other is higher value it creates dread. So there is a fear of losing them. Due to their perceived higher value. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/21 06:10 PM |
| 2 | (Most of) TRP and men who want a traditional submissive partner don't really know what they are asking for.Making her fear losing him? No. Dread when done right isn’t actually something you try to do. The RP advocates that you give dread by being great. Naturally a woman feels that if you are a great catch, you will leave if she’s shitty. There’s no effort needed there by the man. It should be natural. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/21 12:51 PM |
| 0 | The Best Advice From Red Pill Isn't Red Pill SpecificI would say at first yes. Reading all the stories from people definitely makes you lose hope. But once you realize that 90% of it is in your control you begin to grow a sense of outcome independence. A sense of control and confidence where nothing can surprise you, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/21 11:29 PM |
| 1 | The Best Advice From Red Pill Isn't Red Pill SpecificUnfortunately some people do need the red pill and a locker room type environment to figure this stuff out. Clearly. So I get ya, but it is what it is. I’ve seen first hand it help many people including myself. I definitely could have learned my way in other areas but that’s just where it happened to be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/21 08:15 PM |
| 2 | The Best Advice From Red Pill Isn't Red Pill SpecificThere are other things in TRP that you aren’t listing. For example, why do you need to invest in yourself? It’s the mindset that TRP teaches. You come first. I’m addition the basic stuff you just mentioned there’s: abundance mentality The nature of women (AWALT.) It’s not that you should take these things as gospel. With everything YMMV. But having an abundance mentality even without the abundance is powerful. Simply because you’ve had abundance and know you can get it. Oneitis is a terrible thi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/21 07:39 PM |
| 1 | Why the idea that women that have casual sex get "pumped and dumped" is mostly just a revenge fantasy.Lol nah. It doesn’t work that way at least not in my experience. When you look at it like work and asking I would have hated it. This is more of a natural thing. I go out and meet girls. Have fun, drink, dance. Once you’re comfortable and confident you kinda know when they’re into you and if they’ll sleep with you. So it’s not an ask. It’s just a natural progression. Some are first night some are a few dates later. But it’s never do you want to have sex. It’s never work toward having sex. It was… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/21 06:18 PM |
| 2 | Why the idea that women that have casual sex get "pumped and dumped" is mostly just a revenge fantasy.Around year 3 I honestly got really tired. I know around here that might sound dumb. But yeah it gets kinda old. Record for me was 3 diff girls in one day totally independent of one another (not a threesome). To your point of STD’s I’ve gotten tested twice since. Not even herpes-a. Definitely on that front I can say I got lucky. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/21 03:29 PM |
| 5 | Why the idea that women that have casual sex get "pumped and dumped" is mostly just a revenge fantasy.Lol. What? I have a family and a fiancé. All the girls I slept with wanted to be with me but knew I didn’t want a commitment. I think you misinterpreted my comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/21 03:12 PM |
| 11 | Why the idea that women that have casual sex get "pumped and dumped" is mostly just a revenge fantasy.I don’t see it that way. Your assumption of how it happens wasn’t my reality. From a standpoint of numbers and volume of meeting women. The getting them at parties and through friendship did not work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/21 01:50 PM |
| 23 | Why the idea that women that have casual sex get "pumped and dumped" is mostly just a revenge fantasy.Man. Lol so many assumptions. N count here of probably about 60-70. These came mostly in a span of 3-4 years. I have no female friends. I never went to parties. All my partners were women I met bars, clubs, or dating apps. Almost none were friends of friends. Regarding pumping and dumping. I never looked at it that way. I treated them as humans. My intentions of casual sex were always known and I made sure they were ok with knowing I didn’t want a relationship. Eventually either they’d get tired… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/21 01:33 PM |
| 0 | Are we less accepting today (of people) then we were 50 years ago?That’s because it’s all a facade. They’re protesting, marching and fighting for what they’ve been told is correct. What they’ve been told is right. But they don’t apply it to their own lives because they don’t actually truly believe in it. This reminds me of feminist women that play hard ball. I’m independent hear me roar. Then they meet a man that gets their juices flowing and all that goes out the window. Meek as a mouse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/21 02:45 PM |
| 1 | I'm lgbt but I have done deep dives in both pills: debate is nice but what is your solution?Why do we need to agree on anything or come up with a solution on anything? Let the red pill men find women the way they see fit. If the women like it they date them. If they don’t they go their own way. Same goes for blue pill men & women. We don’t need to agree, we only need to respect everyone’s choices in life. That’s what we’ve forgotten to do in this world and it’s the reason we have so much crap going on around us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/21 08:23 PM |
| 4 | Red pill men, why the hate on only fans girls?Yep. It’s so easy to pick them out too. Great comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/21 08:59 PM |
| 4 | Red pill men, why the hate on only fans girls?Whoever from the RP attacks someone simply making money in a legal way is an idiot. What you should expect is that a RP man would not date them. More than likely just a plate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/21 08:58 PM |
| 9 | Do women here have a problem with men spinning plates?TLDR; “Yes I dislike that men spin plates.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/21 05:20 PM |
| 2 | Which is more of a penalty when it comes to a man having dating options: being "boring", or being "criminal"/"sociopathic"?Not necessarily. She needs to be agreeable and easy going. If she simply refuses to enjoy things you enjoy then yeah she’s canned. But men are held to a higher non boring standard than women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/21 06:52 PM |
| 1 | [Q4W] Has casual sex experiences changed you?This is why I never led anyone on and was blatantly honest about my intentions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/21 04:49 PM |
| 1 | [Q4W] Has casual sex experiences changed you?This is a load of shit lmao. Coming from someone who personally has had quite a few -n counts and knows others who have as well. It’s simply about how well the person does it for you and how you feel with them. It’s hard to want to stay casual when you REALLY want to be with them. Man or woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/21 04:47 PM |
| 1 | Are there men who actually PREFER an average woman over a stunning one?So the answer to this is it depends: I’ve been with a pretty girl and chose a prettier girl because I was more attracted but STILL liked her personality. However prior to doing that I had opportunities with more attractive women that I just couldn’t see myself with. So the answer is, looks is the first step. But their needs to be chemistry as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/21 03:04 AM |
| 7 | She will try to stop you or she will join you...Here’s the one that gets cucked | /r/TheRedPill | 17/06/21 11:09 AM |
| 7 | Most single mothers would rather marry a single childless man than a single father. The opposite is untrue. I think these are the reasons that justifies why single childless men should not marry single mothers...Good for you man. Happy to read this but at the same time feel for you being widowed. I have a son and can’t imagine losing his mother. Feel free to reach out if you ever need anything | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/21 07:47 PM |
| 2 | Discussion about sexually successful deadbeatsAs I said. You’re dense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/21 05:38 PM |
| 3 | Discussion about sexually successful deadbeatsI’ve read through every one of your comments. You’re a little dense. The RP claim is simple. Try to read. 80% of women are having casual sex with the top 20% of men. (This doesn’t account for people who’ve settled down post wall. Once you settle down social status comes into play a lot more) ^ Means that 20% of women (the gross ones) are having sex and fighting over 80% of the ugly guys wishing they could fuck the top 20%. The person of interest in your post here is one of the 80% of men that mo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/21 11:19 AM |
| 4 | Change my CMV: I think RedPill is correct about women's sexualityThere’s no way a muscular built man like Chris Hemsworth would be seen as low class and less attractive than a chubby guy. (Remove the fact that you know who he is). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/21 12:15 AM |
| 8 | Change my CMV: I think RedPill is correct about women's sexualityI would venture to say that the majority of your friends would sleep or have slept with muscular men that get them going, and not tell because of this idea of Toxic Masculinity. I met a lot of women and some were more indifferent to my physique than others. But none were not attracted. They just weren’t AS attracted. I think the point OP is making is that muscular men are attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/21 12:13 AM |
| 3 | Do you feel bad for only having sex with a girl who clearly wants commitment from you?You’re looking at this all wrong OP. Don’t let these people try to steer you in the wrong way. You do not want a woman that has a high n count, forget the fact that it’s higher than you. You’re young. One day you might have 70. But your number is in reality irrelevant to the woman. Women that have high n counts don’t value themselves. They weren’t raised or taught to value sex, and commitment. These aren’t the ones you want to end up with. If they’re so loose today, they’ll be loose in 15 years … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 11:32 PM |
| 5 | Do you feel bad for only having sex with a girl who clearly wants commitment from you?You’re the only one that needs to be ok with who’s looking back at you in the mirror. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 02:03 PM |
| 3 | Do you feel bad for only having sex with a girl who clearly wants commitment from you?You don’t need to tell them this as soon as you meet them. Be normal. Get to know them, and if and when the conversation comes up you bring that up. In my experience if a chick was into me she’d be very obvious about it and she would actively (and nervously) ask me what I wanted or what I was looking for. That’s your queue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 02:00 PM |
| 3 | Do you feel bad for only having sex with a girl who clearly wants commitment from you?I wasn’t referring to OP. I did ask OP if he was lying and he mentioned he felt like he led them on. He’s obviously not comfortable with it. He’s not outright lying but not being upfront either. He’s the one that needs to feel comfortable with what he’s doing. I’m just putting my .02 on what made ME feel good about casually having sex with women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 01:54 PM |
| 3 | Do you feel bad for only having sex with a girl who clearly wants commitment from you?Maybe - but wrong is still wrong whether you’re a Chad or a Cuck. The focus should be striving to better yourself / SMV so you don’t have a need to lie. I can’t imagine lying to a woman to get sex as being fulfilling. Maybe up until the moment you cum but after that you still need to live the lie. Just seems dumb. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 01:36 PM |
| 4 | Do you feel bad for only having sex with a girl who clearly wants commitment from you?Sorry to burst your bubble but there are two different types of fun and love. I have had sex with over 60 women. I’m mid thirties, have a family now and live a very successful fulfilling life. I wouldn’t trade my family for anything. But my family has nothing to do with when I was younger, in college and having endless casual sex with women. My statement stands true. The women that enjoy casual sex with you are the ones you have the most carefree fun with. Especially at that point in your life. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 01:13 PM |
| 36 | Do you feel bad for only having sex with a girl who clearly wants commitment from you?Are you lying to them? Be brutally honest with them when you don’t want a commitment. “I don’t want a relationship.” “I only want casual.” If you see that even though you’ve been honest with them, they are still hurt and aren’t having fun hooking up with you move on to the next one. If you don’t, this is when it’s wrong, or when you lie to get sex. Trust me, the women that enjoy casual with you are the ones you’ll have the most fun with overall. Because everything is just easy and carefree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 12:15 PM |
| 1 | Why don't younger men ever blame their singlehood on older men who are dating younger women?We do. They do. I distinctly remember seeing women I was interested in be very interested in older men. There were girls I dated, but the really hot ones never dated in their own age group. They always dated up. But logically I always just knew I’d get there one day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/21 12:34 PM |
| 1 | Do you think prior sexlessness is a common reason as to why some men might prefer younger women?Nah it doesn’t go that deep. It’s because women that age tend to idolize older men more, especially if they provide on some level. They act very different in the relationship and especially during the first few dates. That in turn leads them to feeling good. Who doesn’t want to feel good? Really is that simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/21 12:31 PM |
| -4 | People who have been married and are no longer.... What was the reason for your divorce? Do you take any responsibility in it or was the cause on them?It’s not hard guys. Don’t marry. If you do marry, make sure you get a rock solid prenup. Here’s why: Protect yourself from divorce rape. You later on down the line remove incentive for your partner leaving you from a financial standpoint. Take care of yourself and stay attractive. Make sure you keep having sex actively. Take care of yourself and stay attractive. If you’re a dick, apologize but make sure you state the reason that led you to being a dick. But as an adult this time. Never apologize… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/21 10:36 PM |
| 4 | If You’re Worried About Other People Seeing you Hit on Girls…I disagree. Obviously nothing is for sure. But I think generally speaking you get a good idea of where you would be most successful. By all means, if you see a chick that really catches your eye, talk to her. My point of view is more from a general numbers game of having a variety of women that you can reach out to, date, hang out with etc. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/05/21 05:52 PM |
| 13 | If You’re Worried About Other People Seeing you Hit on Girls…That might just be OP going a little out of his league. There’s nothing wrong with it and it’s part of his growing pains. Over time you begin to realize the range and type of girl you can hit on. Honestly in my progression I would 100% prefer a pat on the shoulder than a rude bitch. Neither is great, but one of the two isn’t being a terrible human. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/05/21 12:11 PM |
| 24 | If You’re Worried About Other People Seeing you Hit on Girls…If you’re attractive, and come off as a genuine guy. There’s no reason a girl should be shit testing you by telling you she has a boyfriend. So, more than likely she actually does. And if she doesn’t, and is still telling you she does. Then you need to move on to a girl that actually wants you. No one has time to be trying to earn the interests of others. They either want you or they don’t. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/05/21 12:08 PM |
| 1 | Dads dont want their daughters to be housewives/submissive womenI definitely want my daughter to be submissive. A housewife? That’s up to her and her family | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/21 03:10 AM |
| 2 | What cities have the best dating market in your opinion?Just good for sex in major cities but nothing compares to Medellin | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/21 03:09 AM |
| 10 | Why are men in denial that feminine men do well with women?Yikes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/21 01:08 PM |
| 26 | Why are men in denial that feminine men do well with women?I think you’re in total denial | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/21 11:54 AM |
| 3 | What cities have the best dating market in your opinion?Numbers. There’s just a lot of women. They like to have fun, but you need to be able to have fun. Meaning you need to be fairly good looking and have a stable income. Otherwise you’re practically a nobody. But yeah, you can have tons of fun in Miami with women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/21 09:59 PM |
| 3 | What cities have the best dating market in your opinion?^ In NA if you have money, Miami, Fl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/21 08:28 PM |
| 4 | Be Careful With Girls Who Look Sweet And InnocentI wouldn’t even mess with a plate like that, tbh. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/05/21 02:07 PM |
| 9 | Be Careful With Girls Who Look Sweet And InnocentBruh - I hope you ran far far away from this one. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/05/21 06:11 AM |
| 16 | The redpill is not accurately portrayed in this subTRP legitimately changed my life 4-5 years ago. Today I have a family (not married) and I could not be happier. Completely changed the way I saw relationship dynamics. To anyone who really doubts it, just go read through the sidebar and put in the work. I think you’ll be pleasantly surprised. Honestly I could careless what they call it or what some of the members of the sub post. Every group has crazy ppl. It changed my life for the better. For anyone wanting more info on how or why, and genuine… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/21 05:17 AM |
| 1 | The sex ratio between young (18-40) men and women are increasing, per census 2020I think OP meant from an actual numbers standpoint if the trend continues, regardless of age there will be more men than women available. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/21 06:14 PM |
| 4 | The sex ratio between young (18-40) men and women are increasing, per census 2020I think at the price point they absolutely would | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/21 06:06 PM |
| 1 | The sex ratio between young (18-40) men and women are increasing, per census 2020Not the top 20% Other than that, yes. And it’s absolutely fine so long as she meets your needs and you’re happy. What’s so complicated about that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/21 06:05 PM |
| 3 | The sex ratio between young (18-40) men and women are increasing, per census 2020This | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/21 06:04 PM |
| 1 | What do people mean when they say women don’t want to settle down until they are 30 or ‘old’?Honestly don’t give a shit about studies. Dating apps lead to a lot of sex if you’re doing it right. Like a lot. FYI it never ever involved alcohol. It was come over let’s have some pizza, watch a movie and fuck. Sometimes just fuck and go home. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/21 11:56 AM |
| 1 | What do people mean when they say women don’t want to settle down until they are 30 or ‘old’?Hey... I meant focus on yourself because fucking women doesn’t matter. So long as you’re taking care of X, X, X. And you’re positioning yourself for financial success later on in life then you’ll be fine. If you’re doing those things responsibly then feel free to have all the sex in the world(I did). Don’t be the idiot that chases pussy just to chase it. Are you done being mad now? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/21 11:55 AM |
| -2 | What do people mean when they say women don’t want to settle down until they are 30 or ‘old’?I used to actually tell my F buddies, to stop messing around. Actually had deep talks about how doing shit like this with different guys is hurting their value and future whether they see it or not. A few of them listened and it worked out for them. But yeah, as a guy as long as you’re taking care of your shit. Career, lifting, friends and fam. You can totally just enjoy all the casual sex and fun you can get until one day you kinda yearn for more. The women I’ve seen try to do this usually regr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/21 06:26 AM |
| 5 | What do people mean when they say women don’t want to settle down until they are 30 or ‘old’?What’s wrong with that? Doesn’t seem to hurt the men that have positioned themselves as valuable. The women are the ones that don’t realize the shit storm they’re getting themselves into. Unless they are real high SMV they basically screw themselves over from securing a good man at a younger age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/21 06:15 AM |
| 80 | The Secret of the JerkSpit out my water after reading this. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/05/21 10:01 PM |
| 6 | 28 yo kissless virgin guy tries online dating and has instant success! (how common is it for men to be unaware of their SMV ?)In extreme unwarranted cases you’re probably right. I just think it has a lot more to do with upbringing / life experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/21 12:07 AM |
| 14 | 28 yo kissless virgin guy tries online dating and has instant success! (how common is it for men to be unaware of their SMV ?)For whatever reason is usually because life experience has taught them they should freak out. Doesn’t come out of thin air | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/21 11:45 PM |
| 3 | Births fall to 42-year low in U.S., new CDC data shows!*** despite two shitty incomes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/21 02:25 PM |
| 2 | Births fall to 42-year low in U.S., new CDC data shows!And this is why you’re successful. People just choose not to put in the hard work and or make the mistake of chasing a job that will not reward them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/21 02:24 PM |
| 3 | How to get laid on Hinge (Guide)Funny your profile really attracts what you want. I probably was in the 50s-60s n count on tinder in about a year and a half. But my profile was super simple and my main pic was me shirtless hugging my dog. Once I got good at the game I realized that the girls I was pulling fit the same narrative. Cute 6/7s a few 8/9s but like in your experience they really didn’t hang around much. Way too much competition and dudes with money wanting them. Back then I was broke and in college. These girls all w… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/05/21 02:15 PM |
| 0 | As a man with low libido, my dating experience is way better than a normal man's.“Regulated” You’re an idiot lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/21 01:42 PM |
| 3 | The #1 Reason For Declining Marriage is "Lack" of Economically Attractive Men. Why?Ideal until a certain point in your life. At some point you need to weigh out what matters. Not everyone has the energy to spin plates forever. At some point it’s more beneficial(depending on the man) to have some stability. Especially if there’s a healthy connection. This isn’t all always so black and white. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/04/21 05:51 PM |
| 6 | The #1 Reason For Declining Marriage is "Lack" of Economically Attractive Men. Why?This is all a quid pro quo scenario. I too see no reason for marriage, but LTRs are beneficial if done correctly. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/04/21 12:07 PM |
| 1 | Study: Having an attractive partner makes no difference in a woman’s reported relationship satisfactionI think they’ll put up with more bullshit at first until they’ve gotten over the idea of a super hot guy(assuming he’s a full blown idiot and has nothing together). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/21 01:23 PM |
| 2 | Study: Having an attractive partner makes no difference in a woman’s reported relationship satisfactionWho’s claiming that? RP claims that Chads get laid effortlessly which is true. That’s really all they care about. If you want to take about a romantic relationship there’s another subreddit for that called married red pill. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/21 06:24 AM |
| 22 | Seriously, I’m done holding doors and making space in the walk aisle.I actually always get positive feedback. “Thanks man” “Thanks bro” “Oh, thank you!” Sometimes women say thanks sometimes not. But men always say thanks. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/03/21 05:45 PM |
| 67 | The Red Pill Might Not Be For You – And That’s OKThese are the ones that actually win, imo. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/03/21 03:07 AM |
| 81 | The Red Pill Might Not Be For You – And That’s OKThat’s really the take I got from TRP in the end. After sorting through all the theory I realized I needed to just value and take care of myself. Put myself first in life in general. So that I could be happy and live a fulfilling life. The women all came after that and I’ve never looked back. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/03/21 03:03 AM |
| 11 | If most men would rather be fuckboys than have LTR, does that mean most men in LTRs are "settling", are not genuinely attracted to their partner, and would leave her instantly if he got ample casual sex opportunities?Not trying to argue - just think your percentages are off. I know men that have settled and women as well. But just like politics, you only hear and see the loud ones. The ones that are good are good and to themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/21 12:43 AM |
| 8 | If most men would rather be fuckboys than have LTR, does that mean most men in LTRs are "settling", are not genuinely attracted to their partner, and would leave her instantly if he got ample casual sex opportunities?Not at all. I say that confidently cause I have options every day in my encounters in the gym, at work, etc. My girlfriend knows it. Just because you’re good where you are does not mean you cannot be somewhere else or want to be somewhere else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/21 12:39 AM |
| 8 | CMV: Unattractive men should not befriend women if they want sex, they should befriend ChadTime efficiency lmao. To get pussy? Wtf kind of desperate shit is that. Make yourself better scrub. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/21 03:57 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: If male birth control existed as a pill like it did for women, would you take it?While you’re absolutely right in the context that you are describing getting sex. It’s absolutely wrong and not worth it. I’m not preaching RP stuff here so please don’t take it that way. But there is a lot of truth behind it. I am currently in a LTR with a family. Going on 3-4 years. But prior to this - I didn’t spend any money on women for sex. None. I’d meet girls through mutual friends, tinder, fb or Instagram. We’d chat and become friends I flat out would tell them I’m in school, studying f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/21 04:39 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: If male birth control existed as a pill like it did for women, would you take it?Until you want sex again?! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/21 03:46 PM |
| 1 | Recently Redpilled but the more I get to know about reality the more it troubles me.Yes absolutely. You’ll look good if you can do those consistently and eat well. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/03/21 12:58 PM |
| 3 | Millennials & Younger Generations Are Quickly Dividing Into Two Separate Species!But then keep it moving and don’t be upset. Isn’t the whole thing about RP to be happy and forge your own path? If you don’t want to be an “elite” then don’t. Stay making slightly above average that’s cool. I think the point of his post is that having the mindset of chasing being an elite will always get you more than the average. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/03/21 05:51 AM |
| 7 | Recently Redpilled but the more I get to know about reality the more it troubles me.OP you’re probably never going to get big. But can you get in shape? Can you swim, do crunches and get ripped? Eat a lot to maintain weight while getting cut. No matter what, working out consistently will help you mentally from overthinking and generally being down on yourself. Next tip, become mentally strong. Do you have any emotional or mental deficiencies? If you do, address them to the best of your abilities. If you don’t then great! Fear is the only thing stopping you from believing that y… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/03/21 05:31 AM |
| 1 | How to choose a wife according to the Red Pill?Have a child without getting married. Follow the other rules regarding vetting women. If you absolutely must marry (which you don’t). Get a prenuptial agreement. Never let a woman convince you that getting a prenup means you don’t trust her. Fuck that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/21 05:07 AM |
| 6 | How can men form intimate relationships with women while still appearing as the alpha male?Stop being desperate. Be financially successful and physically fit. Travel, learn to dance, do outdoor shit. Be happy. Begin having casual sex and casual relationships. Once you’ve achieved that, the first point will be gone. That will allow you to choose a female that makes you feel good in the ways you want her to. And if you are still all of the above she will see you as her alpha. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/21 03:11 PM |
| 2 | If you're pro-choice due to bodily autonomy, you can't demand paternal child-support, or object to child neglectThis is probably one of the most impressive break downs of logic faults in pro-choice I have ever read. Anyone who doesn’t understand the double standard after reading this will never understand it. Great post OP | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/21 01:18 PM |
| 2 | If you're pro-choice due to bodily autonomy, you can't demand paternal child-support, or object to child neglectExcept depending on when you get an abortion it has a heartbeat, gender, and brain waves. Based on the last few posts I’ve read on this thread, I think you’re a bit out of touch and need to self reflect. It’s really sad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/21 01:05 PM |
| 1 | Study: Women are more likely to forgive their partners bad behavior after being approached by an attractive manThat’s because the logic you’re using and of the post above you is assuming gender. It’s actually not. If you don’t want to be invisible that’s because you probably have been invisible. If you’ve usually not been, then you would most likely see a woman giving you attention as a potential partner. What molds us is typically life experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/21 02:14 PM |
| 3 | Study: Women are more likely to forgive their partners bad behavior after being approached by an attractive manI don’t disagree with this. The only thing people aren’t aware of is how easily you drop in value in the eyes of your woman. Of course I think it depends on the woman, but it doesn’t take much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/21 02:11 PM |
| – | Is it just me or is relationship problems always seen as the man's fault?Lmao. What? Have you ever been over to the sub and read how men acting like bitches and whining are shit on? It’s never about the woman. It’s always about the man owning his shit and forging his own path. The women is actually irrelevant in the minds of RP. They’re literally just an accessory to your life. Whether or not they are categorized as whores or not in the eyes of certain men is irrelevant to the “mission” of the man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/21 02:59 AM |
| 1 | Is the juice worth the squeeze?If this is your experience, I’ve got news for you. You’re not in the top 20% But either way you’re doing this all wrong. Everything about what you’re saying, living and breathing is about finding a partner that actually values you. If you stop trying to find a partner, have fun, live a fulfilling life and take women along with you without ANY expectation of them committing to you. Ironically you will have to shed them. Take a hard look in the mirror. Women can sniff when you are really needy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/21 02:10 AM |
| 1 | Does this describe you? "I have a job, a house, and a loving group of friends, family and a dog. But I'm willing to throw all of that away if it meant I could be a guy who can get constant endless casual sex on demand."This is the answer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 02:01 PM |
| 1 | Does this describe you? "I have a job, a house, and a loving group of friends, family and a dog. But I'm willing to throw all of that away if it meant I could be a guy who can get constant endless casual sex on demand."I have all of that, and get endless sex at home. Prior to this, I did get endless casual sex on demand and still chose this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 01:59 PM |
| 2 | Are there any extremely attractive men here who have no money/status or an unattractive personality?I’m basing off my experiences and what I’ve told not what I think of myself necessarily. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/21 05:14 PM |
| 1 | Are there any extremely attractive men here who have no money/status or an unattractive personality?That’s a dumb question. idk you’d have to ask people that have been with me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/21 04:52 PM |
| 2 | Are there any extremely attractive men here who have no money/status or an unattractive personality?Fit/muscular and handsome. Clean looking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/21 12:07 PM |
| – | Tennessee Bill Would Allow Fathers to Veto AbortionsI can see it now. Taking a girl home from the bar and signing a legal document. Either way I think for an established couple it’s not a terrible idea. It would certainly bring things to light and show whether or not you’re compatible. Signing something changes the message versus simply saying “I’m not ready for kids.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/21 09:22 PM |
| – | Tennessee Bill Would Allow Fathers to Veto AbortionsOk so, you want some legal document before having sex with a woman that states you don’t want a child? Am I right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/21 09:02 PM |
| – | Tennessee Bill Would Allow Fathers to Veto AbortionsWhat? You think that’s more the norm than women needing to get pregnant due to age and missing BC or lying about it? Let’s assume both our scenarios are equal in frequency. Giving men an option is still correct IMO. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/21 08:59 PM |
| – | Tennessee Bill Would Allow Fathers to Veto AbortionsPersonally I know many more men getting trapped into a child by a woman than a man needing to trick a woman into sex claiming he wants a child. There’s a lot of pussy to go around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/21 08:43 PM |
| 8 | If you take women seriously, they will begin to despise you. Here are some tricks for your plates, O-LTR’s, and LTR’s. Enjoy.If you make the general message natural to something you would do it’s 100% accurate | /r/TheRedPill | 11/02/21 08:37 AM |
| 5 | Are there any extremely attractive men here who have no money/status or an unattractive personality?I fell into this category before taking a hard look at my personality and becoming financially successful. Women were always interested instantly. Could have sex with most girls I came across if I tried and put a decent amount of effort. Things came easy to me. Promotions, job offers, most importantly respect (initially). But yes like anything else, if you didn’t maintain whatever illusion they have/had of you it goes away. And then it’s actually worse. You get treated worse by those same people… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/21 04:02 AM |
| 10 | "Women will forgive you for being an asshole, but they won't ever forgive you for being a pussy"Congratulations. I think that’s great. You don’t need to flaunt your money and driver a luxury car. You can simply have a nice home, drive a decent car/truck, have a boat/RV. Travel one to two times a year and women will be glad to join you doing all this. Wear condoms when you fuck, and don’t get married. If you meet one you really want, vet her out for a while. FYI: I’m not a millionaire and I have all the above. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/02/21 07:56 PM |
| 18 | "Women will forgive you for being an asshole, but they won't ever forgive you for being a pussy"Either way with any one of those you’re not desperate. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/02/21 06:03 AM |
| 65 | "Women will forgive you for being an asshole, but they won't ever forgive you for being a pussy"You really just gotta have 1 of three things. It’s not hard. Money Attractiveness Frame Any one of those and you get to enjoy or keep the kind of girl you want. People make it much more complicated than it needs to be. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/02/21 05:42 AM |
| 10 | If you’re a woman who is threatened by TRP, you’re exactly why it exists in the first place.Sure - I fall into the I got laid anyway category. But that doesn’t mean I didn’t get laid more after RP theory. It also doesn’t mean that my relationships I chose to commit to after RP, didn’t work out better for me. They did and still are. The only thing RP fails at IMO is the idea that every single woman responds to those views. That’s simply not true, and believing that means that you believe human beings don’t have a type of are attracted to different things (for monogamy). But I wouldn’t h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/21 01:24 PM |
| 2 | One reason why Women are considered ‘complicated’ is because what attracts them changes constantly.Same goes for men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/21 05:44 PM |
| 2 | Do you believe that women are sexually attracted to status?That’s interesting. Different strokes for different folks I guess. None of the men I know like that. Usually it’s the casually dating ones that like it. But whatever works for you guys works. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/21 06:23 PM |
| 1 | Do you believe that women are sexually attracted to status?I think we see eye to eye. I don’t agree with hardcore anything. Dread - in the sense that him improving himself, being a good partner, father etc will naturally be noticed by other women & you. Mate Guarding in the natural sense that after an outing of you noticing that other women notice him. Getting home and making sure he gets a good BJ. Just an example obviously there’s many forms of this. And while it’s not the primary reason you’re attracted to him, seeing that other women notice him defi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/21 12:52 AM |
| 2 | Do you believe that women are sexually attracted to status?Usually if he’s desirable to one woman he’s desirable to many. Which kinda goes hand in hand with dread and mate guarding. That very much reinforces and reminds partners of the fact that he is desirable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/21 12:27 AM |
| 5 | Women rapidly lose interest in sex once in a stable relationship or living with a male sexual partnerSo much common sense in this comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/21 12:44 PM |
| 14 | Do you think a lot of men get very clingy and needy after dates/sex with you?I was guilty of this for some time. Eventually it led me to not being happy with what I was doing and I did change in the sense that I looked for slutty girls or just hanging out girls for going out to bars etc. I will tell you that (for me at least) it was more rewarding to fuck relationship girls and have them want something with you than to have the slutty girl get up and not give a shit. Until a week later when she wanted to fuck again. That was only for a bit though. Eventually you just fee… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/21 08:03 PM |
| 3 | How can we make sure women and men are giving real consent?You’re dense. I’ve dated a lot and met a lot of people. I can tell you this logic isn’t the norm. But I have a sneaky suspicion that you already know that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/21 06:08 PM |
| 4 | How can we make sure women and men are giving real consent?Because they were dripping wet. Because they moaning the whole time. Because they would tense up and shake right before orgasm. Because they were sweating. Idk. Pick one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/21 06:00 PM |
| 4 | How can we make sure women and men are giving real consent?What? Lol. Most men I know don’t actually bother with women that aren’t sure that they want them. I’m not talking about the cat and mouse hard to get game at the beginning. I’m talking real uncertainty. There’s no fucking time for that. I’ve had sex with over 50 women and never have I once felt like any of them didn’t want to fuck. No way. It’s beyond my understanding as to how that could even be possible. There of course have been women that didn’t show me signs of true interest - but as he sai… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/21 05:55 PM |
| 2 | Despite men and women being roughly equal in population, attractive men are seen as scarce, why is that?Nice post except for why are men stronger. Nothing to do with food over the years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/21 01:32 PM |
| 1 | Q4 RP Men: How many of you actually paternity tested your kids?Well then a prenuptial agreement means you’re accusing your partner of potentially leaving you. But who gives a shit. It’s better for both people to have no doubts, period. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/21 12:07 AM |
| 0 | Q4 RP Men: How many of you actually paternity tested your kids?It’s not if it’s communicated from the onset of the relationship. It can’t be about cheating if that’s just a value you have and want from the beginning. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/21 09:44 PM |
| 2 | Q4 RP Men: How many of you actually paternity tested your kids?Yeah - when I got the results I showed her and said “it’s mine!” We laughed and she called me crazy. That was it. Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/21 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Q4 RP Men: How many of you actually paternity tested your kids?That’s fair. I’m a big believer in vetting out the person you’re with. If you have options when you’re dating and aren’t someone that generally needs to settle, then you really should take your time and make sure who you’re with aligns with you are. This goes for every part of your life. Not just the one we’re discussing now. But if you’re someone that got caught up, don’t have many options, or simply just prefer to be with that person even if they demand things you don’t want. Then yes, do it i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/21 07:45 PM |
| 1 | Q4 RP Men: How many of you actually paternity tested your kids?Of course. It shouldn’t be a difficult conversation. In fact it was something her and I discussed in casual conversation in the beginning. The topic came up from something we saw on TV in a movie and I mentioned that if I had a child one day I would definitely do a test. She didn’t have an issue. 3 years later she still didn’t have an issue when we had the baby. Really was not a big deal at all. It is your child, you should be able to know with certainty that it’s yours. If you want that, and yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/21 07:32 PM |
| 5 | Q4 RP Men: How many of you actually paternity tested your kids?If you have to do that then you’re not with the right person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/21 06:42 PM |
| 1 | Q4 RP Men: How many of you actually paternity tested your kids?Agreed. When you stop and really think about it. It’s simply the man wanting validation from a scientific point of view that this is his child. It’s powerful. When I got the official notice back via email, it almost felt official at that point. If that makes any sense? Of course I understand there are men who don’t care for this in the slightest way. But the fact that people in general are bothered by the ones that do is telling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/21 03:56 PM |
| 2 | Q4 RP Men: How many of you actually paternity tested your kids?Yes absolutely. She nor I have ever cheated or anything close to it. More importantly we don’t feel like each other have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/21 03:55 PM |
| 1 | Q4 RP Men: How many of you actually paternity tested your kids?Not in the slightest way. She completely understood. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/21 03:42 PM |
| 21 | Q4 RP Men: How many of you actually paternity tested your kids?I did about a week or so after birth. Didn’t necessarily have doubts. But there’s something really special about seeing on a paper with a DNA match that it’s your child. Women have that because it comes out of their vagina. Men do not. I encourage all men to do it, and fuck off to any woman that’s offended by that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/21 03:35 PM |
| 3 | So FDS women (see over 30) are essentially expired goods used up by Chad. Get them while they’re young and fresh boys!Definitely not, but you can vet them out pretty well by paying attention. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/21 03:22 PM |
| 1 | When women find out he did time in prison for a violent crimeBruh what’s it like in your head. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/21 06:37 AM |
| 1 | Never simp for women. Less is more. Women simp for men they’re truly interested inThis. He just chooses the girl that he will spend the most time with as the one who treats him best. In most cases that’s the uglier one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/21 03:10 PM |
| 2 | Kept my word about being less fat this time around 😤Good shit. Set a new goal and hit that one now! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 07:57 PM |
| 2 | Are men able to describe the behaviors they're exhibiting when they say "being an asshole" worked for them when attracting women?Right, and when that man seems like an “alpha” or generally an attractive / good catch. They have sex. Or are you referring to literally casually without having a conversation Tinder style? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 07:45 PM |
| 1 | Are men able to describe the behaviors they're exhibiting when they say "being an asshole" worked for them when attracting women?You are literally a mental replica of me like 7 years ago. I absolutely couldn’t stand that I needed to be someone I wasn’t, to be successful at clubs or bars. I hated the banter and hated the fact that women responded to me. It was so clear that being polite, humble and kind did not ever net me the hot girl I naturally wanted to conquer. Not sure on your age or when you discovered this. But it gets better. The feeling never really goes away. Tbh you kinda just accept it. “The laws” of nature. I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 02:46 PM |
| 2 | Are men able to describe the behaviors they're exhibiting when they say "being an asshole" worked for them when attracting women?I mean you just said it. Majority of women want to end up married and there strongest bargaining chip is sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 02:34 PM |
| 2 | I never understood the double standard about promiscuity.I literally said of course we’re not disgusted lol “Not get laid” If only you knew. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/20 04:17 PM |
| 1 | I never understood the double standard about promiscuity.Why do you guys keep using the word disgust. Is it hard to see that we would fuck them but not want them long term? Why is that so difficult for you to accept. I can speak on behalf of other men because I am a man. Perhaps not all men. Hell, there are some men that believe they are women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/20 03:06 PM |
| 2 | I never understood the double standard about promiscuity.No... it really doesn’t. No woman I was ever with had a similar or higher n count. I always felt the same, and every man I knew felt more or less the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/20 12:58 PM |
| 5 | I never understood the double standard about promiscuity.Of course we’re not disgusted. We just don’t want them - for a long time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/20 12:44 PM |
| 4 | I never understood the double standard about promiscuity.I’ve seen like 5 posts in a row about women upset that men aren’t ok with them whoring around. Holy shit. Men prefer lower N count ok. That’s not a RP thing. They just do. Some might date you despite knowing you’ve had a lot of partners. But I guarantee you they prefer if you were still you without the bus load of dicks you’ve sat on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/20 12:43 PM |
| 1 | Be honest about your lifting goals and stop fucking around with powerlifting routinesMeh I would like to think majority of men who workout do it for themselves and women are a consolation prize. But I might be hopeful. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/12/20 01:06 PM |
| 5 | Women overestimate men’s attraction to thin female fashion models, study findsDo you feel validated? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/20 05:59 PM |
| 2 | Are men at their ‘peak’ (30-35), most attractive to women at their ‘peak’ (18-22)?Ah I see. So you’re not referring to weight increase or decrease. You’re specifically talking facial volume as you you begin to lose it. Never noticed that. I guess that’s cause most people I know that have aged have gained weight, which ends up changing their face for the worse anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/20 05:54 PM |
| 1 | Are men at their ‘peak’ (30-35), most attractive to women at their ‘peak’ (18-22)?Little confused by the angular faces example. You’re saying pudgy faces as they age get better and thinner faces do not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/20 02:32 PM |
| 1 | Are men at their ‘peak’ (30-35), most attractive to women at their ‘peak’ (18-22)?Forget dating - even if all you want to do is go out and have fun a rich 30 yo is a better target than a 25 yo Alpha. Being wealthy beats everything except when you’re simply really old. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/20 01:44 PM |
| 2 | Are men at their ‘peak’ (30-35), most attractive to women at their ‘peak’ (18-22)?I agree. I find attractiveness to really decline at 28 for women. The crazy part is many times I didn’t even know their age and formed an opinion. So it’s not a mental block by thinking she’s too old. You can just tell. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/20 01:38 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: What’s your side of the story with the “women love assholes” thing?I’m impressed by this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/20 01:32 PM |
| 1 | Counter-post: the average young man can't have a relationship.Is there a question here? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/20 01:18 PM |
| 17 | I Had Lunch with the Chad I Hated TodayGreat post, great story telling. Chang is right. Once you achieve your goal of being able to somewhat effortlessly fuck women it becomes more than that. If you should choose the path of “settling down” with someone who does nothing but support you. Make sure you pass on the knowledge to your son (if you have one). That is how you make a difference in the world for generations to come. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/12/20 10:57 PM |
| 2 | Maybe this sub can actually do some good. How can we reduce violence in the next generation?Be a good parent and disciple your kids. Make them earn things in life. Let them lose and learn to lose. Give them chores. Stop bringing children up in broken homes. Make sure they have a father figure. Let them go outside and play with friends. Talk to your kids and ride that fine line between friend and parent. Look in the mirror. Are you a role model? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/20 11:56 AM |
| 3 | Does anyone actually love anyone for who they are?There’s a saying in RP. She doesn’t love you. She does not love you. She loves the way you make her feeeeeel. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/20 02:49 PM |
| 5 | Is it harder to get a LTR after 30 nowadays? Why? How do you turn the table?He’s a pussy, doesn’t even deserve to be spoon fed any information. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/20 08:30 PM |
| 43 | "Everyone is too accessible" - The harsh reality of the dating market for womenShe did say, “everyone is too accessible.” I think she gets it totally. Probably even realized long before you did that this doesn’t benefit her. Have fun with women and enjoy them. But be honest about your intentions. No need to date exclusively if you don’t intend on it. There’s nothing good about that and nothing for you to brag about. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/11/20 12:35 PM |
| -1 | Women misunderstand male psychology when they shit testIt’s common knowledge in RP theory that she’s not yours, it’s just your turn. Apply that into your life or any mans life - and you’ll realize that the logic actually helps you encounter any one of the possible outcomes. Which leads to outcome independence. If she leaves you, cheats whatever. You’re good because you’ve prepared mentally and never became dependent. If she doesn’t and stays because she’s head over heels, you continue to turn her on by the simple fact that you’re aloof. You don’t re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/20 07:46 PM |
| 0 | Women misunderstand male psychology when they shit testIf she’s calling you an asshole then you might need to evaluate that relationship. She shouldn’t be calling you anything other than something endearing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/20 07:42 PM |
| 1 | FR - Mental Discipline programBack story on TFA being cucked? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/11/20 10:09 PM |
| 2 | If your in jail, she’s most likely going to cheat. The sad truth of being a jail cuck.You’re so enlightened. You got to fuck a chick who’s boyfriend is in jail, and who she can no longer fuck. Congratulations. Now get off Reddit, go outside and have real conversations with people. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/11/20 03:22 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - October 20, 2020Haven’t lurked here in a while. Seeing this post makes me want to start again. Good shit | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/11/20 01:06 AM |
| 1 | The Average Zoomer Ladies and Gentlemen!Not difficult I got about 50 chicks in the span of a year or so. This chick could be at 300 if she wanted to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/20 07:00 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone actually believe the redpill is more legitimate than the blackpill? If so, why?Red pill doesn’t deny Chad has it easy. I’m confused on what the difference is here? Redpill teaches that you should be as Chad as possible... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/20 06:57 PM |
| 3 | Size does matter100% true. If you don’t hear comments or “oh wow” etc. She’s not impressed. You ever been with a chick that’s super into you and she talks shit about the guy that wasn’t so great before you? Yeah same happens with dicks. They finally feel they can tell the guy they’re with how “great that was” by telling them how not so great the last one was. Somewhere in that story dick sizes are mentioned. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/20 06:13 PM |
| 3 | [Q4A] What's so great about low-N women?That is absolutely not true. At one point in my life I would agree with you. But if you take care of yourself and have a high SMV, women line up the same way men do when a girl is offering sex. In regards to your post, it’s due to personality. High -n women tend to be more damaged, come with more baggage and are less impressed by a man generally speaking. Let’s assume for the sake of the argument that that two women one low one high -n want to date you. Neither have baggage or personality issues… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/20 04:47 PM |
| 2 | If you want somebody to die for you, I don't think you really care about that person all that much.Women inherently want this from their man. It’s an unsaid thing, but most women expect that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/20 12:51 PM |
| 2 | Do you agree with this? "Women look for men with a good future. Men look for women with a good past."I don’t even know one man who’s left his woman due to health issues. In fact, I know SEVERAL men who stuck around with their wives that died of breast cancer till the end. Didn’t begin dating again till about 4-5 years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/20 12:25 PM |
| 2 | Never Put Kids FirstGreat post, 100% true but like everything around here - hard to swallow. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/10/20 05:20 PM |
| 2 | No matter how happy you may be with a woman, forgetting TRP will leave you burned.OP The only fault you had on any of this was that you weren’t ready to walk away when you needed to. If you believe you’re a better catch than them, you’re never going to feel like you lost out. That frame of mind exudes out, and it’s a known thing she will feel without being said. You do this not by not caring or not being invested in her. It’s just by maintaining yourself physically, being happy, growing professionally and keeping healthy relationships with friends that bring value to your lif… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/10/20 09:20 PM |
| 10 | What makes a man who is looking for marriage have a long term relationship with a woman he doesn't plan on marrying?If you date too long before getting married it’s because you don’t want to get married. - Yeah of course. “But you’re too comfortable to leave” I know couples that never got married and lived together their whole lives. Seemingly happy. Does that mean they weren’t in love and too comfortable to go find who they wanted to marry? Or is it possible some people can be just as happy outside of marriage? In regards to OP, those guys just didn’t want to be with the original women they were with, but th… | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/09/20 10:57 PM |
| 0 | In the West, Men Should Avoid Any Woman over 26 Who Wants Any type of LTR.If you’re looking just to fuck, sure. Also depends on where you live. Major cities, 20-25 see absolutely whores and nothing but fun. Perhaps that’s different on smaller communities | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/20 10:59 PM |
| 2 | In the West, Men Should Avoid Any Woman over 26 Who Wants Any type of LTR.Maybe, you just can off as very defensive. Glad to see you have a good grasp on things. I can tell you from experience though, that 26-28 range sometimes is the best so long as they weren’t whores. Vet them out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/20 06:45 PM |
| 8 | In the West, Men Should Avoid Any Woman over 26 Who Wants Any type of LTR.You don’t need to marry or commit your assets to a woman over 26 if you don’t want to. There’s plenty that are ok with simply being with you. Take a step back and get off the anger phase sir, this stuff isn’t so black and white. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/20 06:06 PM |
| 7 | I am starting to realize that many "equal" relationships are actually female-ledDo you show him during sex, or show it by seeking him out. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/09/20 12:15 PM |
| 45 | I am starting to realize that many "equal" relationships are actually female-ledThat, and life experience has taught him he should be worried. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/09/20 08:08 AM |
| 5 | Day 1 on “red pill”Basically you got it right. The hard part is doing it, while still wanting sex, affection, blah blah. Don’t get too worked up on the “not give a fuck part.” Just do you. Don’t worry about how she sees you. Once you actually start changing and being more attractive, she will change. Control will shift to you. Just stay the course. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/09/20 03:56 AM |
| 1 | Out of these three women, who would you spend the rest of your life with?You’re not wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/20 04:18 PM |
| 2 | Out of these three women, who would you spend the rest of your life with?They’re all terrible for LIFE partners. Suzie is the only choice here to have some semblance of happiness. So long as you can provide for yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/20 04:17 PM |
| 18 | Don't you dare skip a workout!!! A story about a 23y/o late bloomer who had his first date in 6 years. [FR]You’re still desperate and it’s understandable. Go get burned. What you do next is not care whether she wants to be your GF. Be chill, go with the flow. Be yourself man. What you should not do is worry about how to act. Even if you means you’re a fucken dork. Being a dork, yourself and happy is better than being a weirdo cause you don’t know how to act. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/09/20 01:29 AM |
| 30 | Don't you dare skip a workout!!! A story about a 23y/o late bloomer who had his first date in 6 years. [FR]When you’re ready you won’t care whether or not you texted her back too often, because you have abundance. If she feels you’re clingy, next. You won’t think about the right answer if she says she’s sleepy. The right answer is what you WANT. If she didn’t like it, next. You won’t need to shuffle words or think about whether telling her she had a nice ass was good, or even care that she liked it. Your frame and confidence will naturally draw in who is right for you, in whatever facet you want them… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/09/20 01:07 AM |
| 10 | Virgin at 25Being a virgin is never a bad thing if you want a conservative man. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/09/20 12:50 PM |
| 7 | [FIELD REPORT] Girl tells me she’s gay, then proceeds to make love to meWas about to post this and then saw you’re top comment. 100% true and honestly super sad | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/20 12:50 PM |
| 7 | It's OK for a man to have preferences on N-count, dating history and promiscuityThis. If everyone thought this way, then everyone would simply be accountable for their actions and respect others opinions. That mindset right there is what would fix the world overall, not just who it’s ok to date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/20 03:36 AM |
| 1 | Cobra Kai, as an Allegory for TRPI was a natural BP man. Trying to be the right man for women, making sure I keep them happy. All so that I could have a happy life. Happy wife happy life. I got into the RP, and 5 years later I’m healthy, I have a son and I’m not married yet. But might as well be. We are both happy and have a healthy dynamic. I would have never gotten to this point by reading BP. The journey was long and rough, and I must’ve had sex with about 40 women along the way, and dated casually double that. TRP has a lot… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/20 01:51 PM |
| 9 | My boyfriend called me "Mom" while we were having sex.Agreed, To me the worst thing is the denial. It shows more. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/07/20 01:42 PM |
| 4 | My boyfriend called me "Mom" while we were having sex.Out of curiosity, where was Dad in your ex’s upbringing? | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/07/20 01:41 PM |
| 0 | As a VERY traditional and awkward woman, how should I date on Tinder?You don’t. For serious dating, Tinder is poison. I used it for a year and got tired of hooking up with women. I’d always ask them about their experience and it was always negative. Men were nasty, inappropriate, they’d have fake photos, etc. Don’t go to Tinder to date. Go there if you want a few buddies to keep you busy here and there at night. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/07/20 12:49 PM |
| 1 | Insecurity in a relationship is asking to be broken up with.This also has a lot to do with SMV. Hers vs Yours. If yours is much higher then you can show weakness. You’re still a prize in her eyes. The kicker is, usually when you’re much higher you won’t actually care if she leaves. Which of course she feels. Which leads us to abundance. . . You know the rest. Stop trying to be a certain way to keep your girl, and instead simply stop worrying about keeping your girl. Be attractive enough to not care if she goes. When you do that it simply won’t matter any… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/06/20 02:31 AM |
| 3 | Attention women who are against their partners watching porn. Why do you not approve?I’m perfectly satisfied without watching porn. It’s been years. If I want sex, I get sex from my girl. Simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/20 11:37 AM |
| 1 | Do not let them shame you for being a manLuckily for you, you’re able to allow who you want and do not want on your life. Just choose accordingly. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/04/20 05:49 PM |
| 1 | Do not let them shame you for being a manWhat does that have to do with someone being who they want to be unapologetically? In the case of OP he is doing, or attempting to be who he wants to be. Whether or not every female is receptive to him is irrelevant - because it’s not for them it’s for him. This is about him. This is what makes him feel natural to who he is. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/04/20 05:38 PM |
| 12 | Do not let them shame you for being a manBecause you’re focused on succeeding with women, instead of being the man you want to be. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/04/20 11:12 PM |
| 1 | Do not let them shame you for being a manGood stuff man. Save this post and if you ever lose your way again, come back and read it. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/04/20 10:51 PM |
| 4 | Why does it matter if a woman “sleeps around in her 20s” and marries in her 30s?The answer is: It’s not a big deal for men that have options. We get our way with women regardless of age. If we should ever find one that totally meets our needs and fits every checklist we require from them then we’ll give them more of our time, or all of our time if they make us happy enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/20 05:47 PM |
| 1 | “Sluts are the equivalent of beta males.” Do you agree with this?Yeah, that logic is so wrong it’s not even funny. It’s the equivalent of a man working out to appear more dominant, instead of actually working on himself, mentally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/20 02:25 AM |
| 1 | “Sluts are the equivalent of beta males.” Do you agree with this?Yes they can. The man can leave or he can stay. It’s irrelevant whether they are alpha or beta behaviors, or the reasons he/she stays or leaves. Point is it’s a choice. But none of that has anything to do with commitment. You said “the cool gf that persuaded the guy to be committed to her.” The entire point I’m arguing here is that marriage has nothing to do with commitment. Literally nothing at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/20 01:42 AM |
| 0 | “Sluts are the equivalent of beta males.” Do you agree with this?I’m literally referencing your first sentence on this post. It’s not about SO saying so, either way. Whether male marriages out of fear or woman doesn’t marry out of fear. It’s about free choice, and nobody having to do anything to keep the other. If man says he doesn’t believe in marriage, he’s not forcing anything. It’s the woman’s choice whether she wants to stay or not. But the point I’m making here in response to your post is that it has nothing to do with commitment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/20 01:11 AM |
| 2 | “Sluts are the equivalent of beta males.” Do you agree with this?There isn’t a scenario in which marriage proves love more than another. You could have love in marriage and love without marriage. Both couples could agree or not in either scenario and there could still be love. Some people simply don’t believe in involving the state, or giving any kind of power to the other person. I personally think both men and women should earn their place in each other’s lives everyday. There isn’t a single thing that makes effort and sacrifice more real, than your actions… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/20 12:38 AM |
| 1 | “Sluts are the equivalent of beta males.” Do you agree with this?Lol. You’re clueless if you think there should be laws in place to prevent someone from being committed or not. That is free choice and honestly if you don’t agree with that we have nothing to talk about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/20 12:35 AM |
| 2 | “Sluts are the equivalent of beta males.” Do you agree with this?So you don’t think marriage to the state is a piece of paper? You don’t think it’s possible for two people to make vows to one another without involving the state? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/20 11:52 PM |
| 18 | CMV: Being a woman's beta bux is worse than being with a young golddigger?When you’re with a gold digger you’re making a choice. When you’re the betabux you’re usually blinded and hopeful. These are much different mentalities, and the difference is really in how you feel when both of these scenarios ultimately come to an end. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/20 03:56 PM |
| 5 | How would you feel if your girlfriend/wife confessed that she wants to watch you with other women?Yup | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/20 01:10 PM |
| 2 | Why are the men in here so afraid of women with more sexual experience than they have?I met only one very high n count, hovering around 50. And the girl was in love with me. There’s exceptions for everything I suppose. But generally speaking I think high n count women don’t have as much of a problem with high n count men. The same isn’t true for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/20 03:12 PM |
| 5 | Why are the men in here so afraid of women with more sexual experience than they have?Very high n count here. Whenever I’d meet a woman who had over 10, I was grossed out and she was instantly a pump n dump (if she was lucky). It’s just fucking nasty and shows zero self worth to the one thing women need to be frugal of. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/20 01:01 PM |
| 5 | She hates you for committing to herI’m not married. I have a child. But if I want to get married I will. That’s the kind of guy I am. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/03/20 03:41 PM |
| 4 | She hates you for committing to herI agree. And let’s just say he fucked up, got a little irresponsible and trusted she wouldn’t stop taking her birth control and trap him. You know what? Fucking own it. Now be a bad ass father. Go to the gym, get your career in line. Be active with your child. Keep fucking the mother and if one day she no longer makes you happy then find someone else. But keep being a great father and owning the new responsibility that’s upon you. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/03/20 03:12 PM |
| 6 | She hates you for committing to herSomeone gets it. Funny cause the very thing they complain about is caused by themselves. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/03/20 01:27 PM |
| 6 | She hates you for committing to herI think you need to read up on legalities before you post statements like this. Why are things so black and white? Something works or it doesn’t. Instead why don’t we(RP) talk about information. E.g prenuptial agreement covers this, that. Does not cover this, that. When children are involved normally “this is excluded.” This mindset of victimization is the cancer here. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/03/20 01:13 PM |
| 13 | She hates you for committing to herNo, I don’t think you do. I know full well what’s covered, not covered and what exclusions apply. But it’s definitely not this blanketed idea that you’re fucked. If you’re fucked it’s your fault for not having investments she’s never touched. Your fault for getting with someone that can’t put anything forward financially. Your fault for not having a career that can make a case for 50/50 custody. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/03/20 01:10 PM |
| 5 | She hates you for committing to herCouldn’t agree with you more. I honestly wish more men lived this way. Makes me sick to see everything I see and read in here. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/03/20 12:59 PM |
| 28 | She hates you for committing to herWhen women get married they are set for life. - if you don’t sign a prenup. They can shag behind the husband. - so what? You can too Men have no other option - what? What the fuck did I just read | /r/TheRedPill | 19/03/20 12:55 PM |
| 1 | If according to RP, all women become unattractive after 30-35, why do some RP circles also encourage women to settle down young? Why does it matter if the man will become unattracted to her anyway?Yes, But it’s definitely not about scaring women. TRP does this to teach men to not choose the women who have a high n count. Because it’s not worth it and a massive red flag. You want someone who innately does not want to fuck any man, even you. Then by showing your value get what you want and more. This is how it should work. Not the 30 year old tinder girls that are retired and finally ready for a financial supporter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/20 01:47 PM |
| 2 | If according to RP, all women become unattractive after 30-35, why do some RP circles also encourage women to settle down young? Why does it matter if the man will become unattracted to her anyway?Because you tend to value her more due to her sacrifice and trust in you. It’s embedded in us to save people, mostly women. If a woman entrusts everything in us at an age where she could’ve been doing less wholesome things. We pay it back and do right by her. If you meet a woman that had her fun and has had X many partners in her 30s you simply have less respect for her. Not that it can’t work, cause it can. It’s just not the same feeling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/20 12:58 PM |
| 4 | I don't believe that women are attracted to 'hard work' and 'effort' as much as we are made to believe. Instant gratification from those who have already attained success is a lot more attractive, even if they achieved it without any effort at all.Spot on | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/20 03:51 AM |
| 13 | Boyfriend watches virtual reality porn?I’m a man, very red, and believe it’s not great for the man. You become a bit desensitized. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/02/20 09:33 PM |
| 1 | 1 out of 4 Dads are cucksLong story short: She’s been hurt, hates men, and disguises her hate with logic. Do you think the hate derives from jealousy? Jealousy from the societal leniency men get from casual sex? Jealousy from the physicality of men to that of women? It almost feels like when she said that men will only have to do their laundry if discovered (justifying why women lie). That she wishes she could not have the burden of being a woman and understands why women lie. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/20 01:54 PM |
| 1 | I almost lost my marriage of 32 years and turned it around in 3 months.This is the thing people struggle with the most. Including me, and everyone other guy here that acts like they have it all figured out. Why? Because that’s what feels good. It feels good to see your girl admire you and crave you. Most guys struggle to find a balance. They either are too mushy/beta, or they try to compensate and act too alpha. The key is to get to a place where you feel strong mentally and physically, and you can share love and beta traits/comfort from a place of strength. Keep d… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/10/19 01:14 PM |
| 3 | I almost lost my marriage of 32 years and turned it around in 3 months.As real as it gets OP. Seems like you’re happy and that’s really all that matters. The only advice I can give you, is that you should be doing this for you and not her attention and admiration. Your motivation comes from her. I think you can see where I’m going with this. Enjoy her and spend time with her, but separate yourself from the desire to do it for her feedback. It’s hard, but will give you overall more control of your own feelings and outcome independence. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/10/19 07:36 AM |
| -4 | Girl I've been with ~2 years. I want to share my thoughts with you.You’re not the brightest star in the sky. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/09/19 01:53 PM |
| 3 | 10 ways to fail in turning your LTR red“A word for traits that women find sexually attractive.” I believe that’s just SMV. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/09/19 09:22 PM |
| 2 | White Knights - the hyena of the sceneWhat loyal women are you referring to? You’re also still correlating the white knight to a guy they detest. A guy that saves a girl can be a guy that is valuable in the eyes of other women as well. Assuming he has all the qualities of an alpha. I think the fault in the logic we use here is that every man who saves or helps a girl is a white knight that women detest. If the definition of white knight is a loser guy that women don’t want then fine. I definitely agree. But there are men who are far… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/09/19 06:17 PM |
| 5 | White Knights - the hyena of the sceneYes and no. Wife just like any girl is always a cunt hair from bouncing to another man she feels more proud to be with. Trauma can be a pretty powerful thing. You’re also assuming that every girl that’s being spun, guy to guy wants to be in that loop. Some of these girls legitimately are in a bad place, and every new dick that rolls through makes their emotional state even worse. Definitely not something that is our responsibility to fix. But my point is that one of these higher end status guys … | /r/TheRedPill | 08/09/19 05:34 PM |
| 4 | White Knights - the hyena of the sceneYup. Right on all accounts for the most part. But I can tell you the “white knight” TRP likes to portray as this boring little faggot guy isn’t always the case, at all. In fact, I’ve met some super solid alpha guy, former military, swat, fire etc. That like to get with those girls that are semi-broken and act soft and sweet. Probably to feed their ego. Who knows. But they end up with those and have families. Probably still cheat of course. But it started with them recognizing this very same girl… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/09/19 04:58 PM |
| 10 | White Knights - the hyena of the sceneNaw you’re assuming and correlating the term white knight with a boring guy. I guess you could then say a guy who’s acting like a white knight but in reality is spinning plates himself. I’ve seen it done a whole lot and the same guy “saving” the girl ends up leaving that very same girl once he’s had her for a while. Some men genuinely enjoy getting broken women for X amount of time. Let’s be honest. Most women that we spin are semi-broken. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/09/19 02:23 PM |
| 1 | White Knights - the hyena of the sceneThe really good white knights go around saving and fucking the girls other dudes are “hurting.” | /r/TheRedPill | 08/09/19 02:15 PM |
| 3 | 1 Year LTR Reminds that AWALT.He was simply more exciting, and her friend backed up the thought. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/08/19 04:40 PM |
| 3 | 1 Year LTR Reminds that AWALT.All that does is make her say the right things. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/08/19 04:35 PM |
| 1 | Update as promised: Lost virginitySlow build up is always better than the lay. Just don’t get too caught up in feeling powerful. Realize you CAN have an honest relaxed casual relationship with some of these girls. As long as they aren’t bringing you down or slowing you down, you’re good. I found that often times I much preferred the casual chill girls that could have real conversations with me than the ones I had to constantly spin and lie to in order to get laid. Gets very very tiresome. Either way, nice post. Enjoy the ride, y… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/19 06:56 PM |
| 16 | Women don't want commitment from you. They only want everything that comes with it. The only thing women are committed and loyal to is the game.Just another angry guy that hasn’t yet realized how to get what HE wants out of life and women without feeling like life is unfair. He can’t possibly fathom that a dude can have a happy life with a woman and a child. Hell, even co-parenting. Really isn’t that complicated. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/19 05:20 PM |
| 41 | Red Pill 101 – Ep. #27: The 9 Iron Rules of TomassiI had a ton of ups and downs in this sub for about 2 years. What did I learn in the end? That women were the way they were with me because of me. If you care about yourself, and take care of yourself in every way like you cared. Then women will also “love” you. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/05/19 12:24 PM |
| -2 | Men are afraid of women: An experiment.I’ve gotten several numbers at the grocery store. It’s not weird at all. You just need to be genuine with your approach and smile. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/19 02:00 PM |
| 10 | So what do men think of a woman’s past and hook up?That’s because they don’t actually plan on being loyal, nor do they feel the possessiveness that a more traditional man would feel. The men you’re referring to are more progressive. Not the, “ I take care of my girl, and she’s mine kinda guy.” A high value traditional would care. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/02/19 05:38 AM |
| 1 | Men who strike out with women are fat or weird. But refuse to date chicks who are also fat or weirdWhat do you actually like about them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/19 06:19 AM |
| 1 | Girl I orbited drove 300 miles one way to sleep with me. TRP lessons work, let everyone on the outside call them whatever they like. This advice works.Stay humble OP. Your story is the most basic thing that a normal male should aspire to do/be. You’re now being orbited by a female that’s post wall. Her clock is ticking. My advice to you is to chill, and have fun. Focus on saving money. Find a younger conservative girl with the values you want and vet her very well. No matter how confident you’ve become, a bad relationship can turn it all around again. Keep grinding. Stories like these are the good ones. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/02/19 06:35 AM |
| 2 | Why do men only look at me as hookup material? I want a ltr but I never seem to attract those types of menThis is spot on | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/01/19 04:25 PM |
| 1 | Why do redpillers call themselves alphas when the majority of the sub can't even outfuck the average guy?Not sure how legit RP guys are as a whole... percentage wise. But I’m well above 50, and only stopping cause I want to. I could easily hit 500 if I tried to. It’s just not really the goal anymore. Not sure if you get me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/19 03:08 PM |
| 2 | Wife Going Out To Socialize With MenThe fact you got downvoted for this says everything. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/12/18 08:38 PM |
| 2 | Wife Going Out To Socialize With MenYou basically just summed up everything that I feel as a requirement to have a woman in my life statically. See, the issue was that I was far too young and not ready to implement this mindset. I see that now, and without even realizing it, that same mindset works perfectly. Because of what you said, it’s not a mindset. It is in fact my requirement. They see it clear as day. All the stress, mateguarding, and hamstering I used to do is gone. It’s so interesting how simple it really is. I’ve tried … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/12/18 08:36 PM |
| 15 | Social/Approach Anxiety? Confused about women's nature? Try working in a grocery storeOP Most people in TRP will downvote you if you’re not talking about sex, how to get it, your lack of caring for women, etc. You’re young and seem to be very introspective, which is good. All these behaviors you’re learning about women will only grow and help you later on. It will be second nature for you to understand how to act. Once you’re old enough and have enough experience, you’ll eventually be completely independent of the way that they feel ( which you’re already seeing they react positi… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/11/18 05:21 PM |
| 4 | Giving credit where credit is dueSolid post OP: Your ownership, the realization of TRP. What it means for men. So many people bash it, it's so easy to misunderstand what it is (just like you did). Unfortunately, not many get to your realizations and they sit there in this helpless victim puke of life. I commend you OP. Your life will be infinitely better moving forward, and so will your woman's. Whoever you choose her to be. Keep it up, and pay it forward just like your friend did for you. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/11/18 06:29 PM |
| 1 | I have an extreme jealousy of red pill men. It’s honestly getting me down.“Only if you don’t vet your woman.” If only it was that simple to anticipate a change in human emotions and behavior 10 years down the line. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/10/18 04:18 AM |
| 1 | CMV: TRP should re-brand itself to focus on finding women who Aren't Like That.You expect people to have digested and swallowed the pill immediately. Many people that post are in the process or anger phase. And of course some take away different things. It’s the same as everything in life, you take away what you identify the most with. But that’s the beauty of it. You can have an angry post, and all types of different comments. No one judges, it’s just a locker room of venting and unfiltered advice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/18 02:06 AM |
| 3 | CMV: TRP should re-brand itself to focus on finding women who Aren't Like That.Promiscuous women? Certain women? That’s interesting, cause it implies that women won’t go for a well put together man unless they’re promiscuous. I guess only certain women like those specific traits TRP teaches. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/18 01:06 PM |
| 1 | CMV: TRP should re-brand itself to focus on finding women who Aren't Like That.What? Improving yourself for you. If you don’t want women then you don’t want women. I don’t need to go anywhere. I do want women. At the rate that I want them and when I see fit. But believe me when I tell you that it’s not a huge priority for me. Everyone has weak moments, and struggle at times with their partners. But generally speaking, I do what makes me happy. That’s real RP. Carving your own path. You can choose to disagree because you’ve read posts saying otherwise. I respect your opinio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/18 05:35 AM |
| 2 | CMV: TRP should re-brand itself to focus on finding women who Aren't Like That.They’re not, actually. Not the sidebar anyway. I will agree that posts are, but that’s mostly because it’s a place to vent about women, their failures with women in full anonymity. But once you’ve digested it all, and read the sidebars and reading material(books) as I have, its about understanding how to improve yourself as a man. Then choose the path that best suits you. I can’t tell you that there aren’t bad eggs on there, of course there are. But I owe TRP a lot. It allowed me to understand a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/18 02:11 AM |
| 5 | CMV: TRP should re-brand itself to focus on finding women who Aren't Like That.No. TRP isn’t about women at all. Women are a part of a mans sexual needs (usually). So a part of being a man is having sex whenever you want, and being successful at it. However it isn’t about improving yourself for women. It’s about improving yourself for you, and then deciding if you want a LTR, a fuck buddies, or nothing at all. But you’re happy. Happiness is what matters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/18 01:59 AM |
| 3 | How to STOP being THE PUSSY NICE GUY???You need therapy sir. But in the meantime, go workout and spend some time reading No More Mr Nice Guy. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/10/18 08:37 PM |
| 2 | CMV: As a male, it doesn't take major character flaws to struggle in the dating worldI had a solid year on Tinder. I’m the kinda guy that usually has those deep talks with women after a couple sessions when you get comfortable. I can tell you that most of the women I fucked always felt like they can fuck whoever. Therefore, they only tried to match with the “best” looking guys. They had zero interest or concerns in if that guy was fucking 10 other girls. The only thing that mattered was hopefully being the one girl that he chose. Another example. I worked for Justin Bieber for a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/18 08:55 AM |
| 2 | CMV: As a male, it doesn't take major character flaws to struggle in the dating world“Winning does mean you’re happy about the game.” This. For me this is the hardest part about RP. Accepting that they don’t actually love you. Seeing what they love. Which is how you make them feel (for X reasons). 50ish partners later and I hate the reason women want men. TRULY want men. If you ever want to know what a women really thinks about men, or her man, be her lover. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/18 08:47 AM |
| 29 | Tinder Game with Amateur PhotographyWtf is this? Learning photography and getting good at taking pictures to impress women on Tinder? FFS You don’t need professional photography to get laid on tinder. I had a pic of me and my fucking dog, with a cell phone in the dark and was turning down women I didn’t want. Just post shit that’s cool about yourself. Your dog, going to the beach, going hiking, family. Shit that makes you seem like a normal fucking person. While you’re at it, make sure you actually are normal, and it’s not just a … | /r/TheRedPill | 09/10/18 03:54 PM |
| 1 | Why is it a woman’s fault if she’s alpha widowed?Of course. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/10/18 03:15 AM |
| 2 | Protest to Stop Reddit CensorshipDone. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/10/18 07:35 PM |
| 1 | Protest to Stop Reddit CensorshipI got started as well through IM. His posts are the best, in my opinion. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/10/18 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Brett Kavanaugh's Tears: Women Can't Understand Male EmotionNot to mention her GoFund me account | /r/TheRedPill | 01/10/18 03:42 PM |
| 0 | The allegory of the Scorpion and the frog.While I do agree with your statements generally, I think we have a lot of white knights here that feel fulfilled by saving his partner. It brings more satisfaction than dominance over a single(or multiple) girl. Perhaps better stated would be that a man won’t show up to the bedside of a depressed woman, and stay. He will leave, get his fill but come back. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/10/18 12:32 PM |
| 8 | Why is it a woman’s fault if she’s alpha widowed?TRP teaches that in order to be successful in a relationship, you need to have Alpha/Beta traits. Too much alpha and you get comfort tests. Too much beta and you get shit tests. It sounds silly but it is true, I’ve seen it happen to myself based on where I was at in life, and it’s actually a pretty simple concept. If you’re an asshole the girl will be more submissive but eventually can’t take it. And so she looks for a beta male to comfort her. If you’re too soft you lack the trait that gets her… | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/10/18 12:26 PM |
| 3 | AWALT confirmed. A MRP FRI agree with him. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/10/18 06:35 AM |
| 1 | Tinder, What I Have LearnedTinder is the easiest thing in the world. Must’ve had around 25 in a years time on Tinder. And that’s cause I would recycle. Honestly if feels kinda fucking dirty. STD’s are a real thing | /r/TheRedPill | 23/09/18 06:08 AM |
| 1 | It’s crazy how much SMV really does matter.I didn’t write that reply. You should probably check users before you assume. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/09/18 10:54 PM |
| 1 | It’s crazy how much SMV really does matter.I wasn’t giving advice, I was answering a question. Don’t be such a victim. If you read my statement, I’m actually saying a wise man will see if she’s genuine. Not saying she’s limited to a wise man. She has her choices. Not all men think in a RP way. Much like men, women struggle that don’t grow up with strong fathers and a Nuclear home/family. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/09/18 03:52 PM |
| 0 | It’s crazy how much SMV really does matter.Yes for the most part we would. But I think an experienced man can smell the genuineness in a girl, or the desperation in her. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/09/18 02:30 PM |
| 1 | Here's the Top 20%8 1/2” 31yo 50+ partners. Interesting thing is girls don’t know anything about your size or performance prior to being in bed with you. But somehow they know. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/09/18 06:43 AM |
| 1 | What nobody tells you about marriage, from a married manSo you choose when to help, or have casual dialogue based on beliefs and theory. Cause that's all this is, beliefs and theory. You're wrong, I've actually been here very long and read the entire sidebar and books. That is another assumption of yours. My issue with some RP guys is simple. If the question, opinion or belief is shared. It's instantly downplayed as lunacy. For example, the talks of marriage. Personally, I don't think I'm going to get married because the fundamental truths about it i… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/09/18 09:37 PM |
| 1 | What nobody tells you about marriage, from a married manYou should be giving advice based on what people want and ask. Not based on what you think they should do. Isn’t that what RP is about ? Letting the man make his own choices? | /r/TheRedPill | 06/09/18 01:50 PM |
| 1 | What nobody tells you about marriage, from a married manYeah. Happens when women have security, options and control. This is the one thing I still haven't been able to figure out. How do you avoid giving too much security and control when you marry? Is it literally impossible? Even if you're well above her in SMV, you still lose if she understands marriage laws. The only thing I can think of, is that she values you as a father more than the monetary gains from losing you. Or if she's just completely unaware of the power she gains from marriage. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/09/18 06:46 PM |
| 1 | More Blue Pill Advice?I understand what you’re saying. But my entire point is that we feel in the RP that everything is the mans fault or responsibility. If she doesn’t respect you it’s because of you. If she leaves, it’s you. If she doesn’t want to fuck you, it’s you. By elevating yourself, you then now have the choice to be whatever you want to be. A good man to her, a shitty one, or not there at all. Based on the fact that most men go there because of relationship issues, I would argue that most men in the RP are … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/18 03:56 PM |
| 3 | More Blue Pill Advice?We are completely normal. There are just some fundamental differences in our thinking. Neither one is right, because different people align with different views. Hence, why some BPers are successful, some RPers are successful, and vice versa. I would say the fundamental difference between BP and RP, is RP advocates for the man to better himself first. He should be the prize, because hypergamy is powerful. If you better yourself first as a man then you can better choose your partner or if you eve… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/18 05:43 AM |
| -1 | Q4RP: If you are in a committed relationship, are you cool with your gf/wife going to a club or bar without you?... why would he care? He’s allowed to go meet women freely and his girl is good with it. Let a bad time come around where things aren’t too hot in the bedroom, and see what a bomb chick at the bar will do (assuming his SMV is high). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/18 09:56 PM |
| 4 | My Pre TRP relationship vs my Post TRP RelationshipYou can’t make up for time lost. Your story is a common one and you’re not alone. If you’re feeling like you’re empty as fuck, I believe you just haven’t found something that matters to you. A purpose, a reason for getting up and looking forward to the day. Women can never be that reason, because the moment they know they are your sole reason for living, they won’t want you. They want to follow, not be the reason you breathe. In hindsight I can say, “I wish I would’ve just relaxed and enjoyed th… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/18 04:10 PM |
| 13 | My Pre TRP relationship vs my Post TRP RelationshipI used to be just like you. Analyzing and introspection of myself left and right. Did I do this or that right. Am I being a shitty leader. People like us that worry tend to struggle the most with the alpha characteristics. You might not think so, but it’s true. Just the simple notion of caring makes you more blue. Which is fine. There’s this big stigma around here regarding beta traits. Don’t let that question everything you do. It’s healthy to analyze yourself. See your faults, and think about … | /r/TheRedPill | 14/08/18 05:53 AM |
| 15 | My Pre TRP relationship vs my Post TRP RelationshipSo, your comment resonated in me and I’m willing to bet, in the majority of subs here. After a long time of being on here and MRP, I’ve realized that the only way to get the aloof permanent feeling, is to be with someone that is beneath your value. Essentially beneath your SMV. She worships you, and as long as you keep increasing your value, doing guy things and maintaining yourself. You won’t lose that leadership role. The problem is that in the same way that women find unattainable men appeali… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/08/18 05:15 AM |
| 1 | How could anyone believe the Blue Pill?Lol, Ok. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/18 10:59 PM |
| 1 | How could anyone believe the Blue Pill?Sure, then I’m average and all 50 something of the women I’ve slept with have been with below average men. Either way it doesn’t matter. My point was I like plain Janes. Thanks for the convo tho. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/18 10:53 PM |
| 1 | How could anyone believe the Blue Pill?Yeah, I disagree with you completely. How about when they say “you’re the hottest guy I’ve been with?” And actually, many guys have told me their chicks aren’t in anyway infatuated with them. So not sure where you’re getting your information from. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/18 10:22 PM |
| 1 | How could anyone believe the Blue Pill?You don’t need to determine what average is, if everyone you talk to tells you how you’re so hot, amongst other things. I think you’re reaching here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/18 09:28 PM |
| 1 | How could anyone believe the Blue Pill?Not that it even matters or I care, but if we’re strictly talking SMV, how can other people’s comments not be relevant? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/18 09:14 PM |
| 1 | How could anyone believe the Blue Pill?Pretty straight forward comment. Just stating that I’m not, and it’s obvious because of feedback and life experience. SMV of girls I get etc. There’s a vast difference between girls you fuck, and girls you LTR. I like plain Janes, they bring less problems overall. They tend to worship you, so long as you aren’t average and above their SMV. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/18 08:19 PM |
| 2 | How could anyone believe the Blue Pill?I like Plain Jane, and I’m not average. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/18 07:44 PM |
| 1 | Extreme Case of OneitisI agree you didn’t do things right. Just make sure moving forward your motivations aren’t getting laid. Take it from me. I started changing my life at one point in order to be viewed at by woman as a god. To get laid as much as I wanted, etc. It’s just a short high, and the truth is if you do shit for you and make your life better for you, regardless of a woman’s validation through sex or not. You’ll be more successful that way in general. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/07/18 05:37 PM |
| 1 | Extreme Case of OneitisOP, my issue here is that you’re still making your goals and purpose around getting women. Wasted your time because she didn’t want to fuck you? Ok. So you’re telling me it was pure torture because you didn’t get to fuck?? You can be with women and enjoy them for who they are without sex. Same as a hanging out with a male friend. I’m not saying you should be happy you were unable to get laid. I’m saying don’t be angry about that. That’s not all there is to life. Definitely something you can impr… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/07/18 09:45 AM |
| 2 | Feminism is not a shit test. Feminism is a macro level compliance test, and we're all failing it.How'd you do it? What was the "thing" that made you change. Are we just talking gym, books, healthy social habits? Or was it something more. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/18 06:24 PM |
| 3 | I kicked a cheating whore out of my house, and I felt badOP I think you did well. Don’t let anyone tell you that you should make her think this or that, or not let her know you’re upset. You stood your ground and that’s all that matters. It’s not about her it’s about you. I too have been in situations where I just feel bad for being asshole, even though it is well deserved. As many have said it’s instinct and conditioning, and it’s ok. It’s what makes us men, and good human beings. Just think of this, whether you told her, took her home, or did your s… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/07/18 07:46 PM |
| 1 | Tell me what to doOP I don’t think you realize what you’ve put your husband through.You cheat on your husband for that amount of time, and now you’re upset that he treats you unfairly? You think he actually enjoys sex with you, or he actively thinks of how his friend did it with you. Imagine how embarrassed he must be as a man to know he stayed with the woman who was giving herself freely to his buddy. That he wasn’t enough to keep you loyal to him. Obviously keep doing the natural RP things. That is all you can … | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/07/18 07:24 PM |
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