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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 4 | Living with regret, but also moving forward | TeleTummies | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/04/26 08:37 PM |
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| 1 | I choose life!My dude. You’re going through a lot and that’s obvious. Take this one day at a time. Do know and accept that if she knows about what you did you will be flagged as toxic and a cheater. It’s been 12 months since my wife found out and she still brings it up with zero sense of forgiveness. Mine wasn’t even emotional, I texted escorts online 3 times. The shame cycles have stopped now which is good. It’s quite shocking, really but there’s nothing you can do about her reaction. For me I know I’ve done… | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/07/26 05:13 PM |
| 2 | I choose life!Very similar to your situation over here brother. I didn't cheat in a way but was messaging people online for nudes etc. She caught me, I lied because I was ashamed. It's important to focus on yourself here that you're analyzing the relationship that you were in. My ex wife and I were together for 15 years. Extremely high highs, low lows. She had very little capability of talking in times of conflict which only exacerbated my anger. I had no idea how to resolve conflict or speak about my feeling… | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/07/26 03:59 PM |
| 1 | What are the first few weeks of separation like? It might be in my near future.My wife and I have been separated for about 3.5 months. Looking more and more like divorce every day. I love my wife dearly but there was codependency, loud arguments, and mistrust between both of us. I still believe we could have worked on it. I'm a stubborn motherfucker though and I've seen that I'm willing to stay in relationships that cause me pain in spite of myself. First step, truly, is remove all hope from the equation. I held onto hope for the first 2 months (my wife was still coming ar… | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/07/26 02:50 PM |
| 2 | Just started separation, unknown futureI’m in a very similar situation as you. My advice. Don’t reach out to her. You will only push her away and stress yourself out. You need to truly work on yourself and figure out why you’re yelling at your spouse. I had the exact same problem. I was in counseling for 9 months (still am), and my wife still chose to separate from me. I’d give her mountains of space. I’d give her one last listen to hear everything she’s upset with you about, acknowledge it, and then apologize and indicate your inten… | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/04/26 01:53 AM |
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