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I recommend you read "rich dad poor dad", in the book the author mentions the need to learn skills from different teachers, to build up your skillset if you want to attain wealth and start a business, he specifically talks about a careeer change in sales. Also 48 laws of power could be good to read from what I have heart, you can check out the redpill thread on it. Find mentors, plural, learn what you can to improve yourself and your career. Sounds like you have learnt most of what you can from …
/r/askTRP21/10/19 07:23 PM
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It seems like you need to focus on your internal game. Great that you are working on your physique, that can help, but inner game, ie; confidence, humour, charm, social skills are more important. Plenty of books on thoose topics. ​ Do you do kino on the first few dates? is there chemistry and a flirty vibe? do you tease them and maintain frame when they shit test you? Overall it sounds to me like the problem is a lack of abundance mentality, that can easily bleed through your interactions. Go pl…
/r/askTRP21/10/19 07:19 PM
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Damn, this is good stuff. Seriously, the thing this comment must have done to her subconscious and how she sees you. A) abundance and dread: I can and will leave if I feel like it. B) assuming attraction, you will want kids with me C) you mentioning impregnating her gets you in the lover category real friggin fast. Well done. How long have you been married? Will you make some posts about married life? I for one would be eager to hear what you´d have to say on subject.
/r/askTRP10/09/19 11:42 AM
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How do you think that approach is going to play out during a blackout, with looters and mobs roaming the streets?
/r/askTRP28/08/19 12:03 PM
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What does "strat" mean? On behalf of us non-native speakers, thank you in advance (did try to look it up in dictionary, no result). I think your post shows that you have not understod a couple of key things about the redpill. First of all, TRP is not a "byproduct of the toxic hookup culture, in the current west". It is not a byproduct/result of the culture, redpill is defined as knowledge about the nature of women, ie hypergamy. It exists, independently of culture. Which is why "current west" is…
/r/askTRP28/08/19 11:58 AM
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Dude, a woman shows you her tits and you think you should ignore her ? Ehm, no. Go for it. Seriously, how more obvious could she possibly be to convey her desire for some d? Maybe skip the teacher/student role playing though, might bring up recent memories.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 05:55 PM
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Agreed. This has been going on for 10 days ... It would be different if we were talking about the same thing for several weeks, where she prioritzed a friend over OP but come on ...
/r/askTRP24/08/19 08:00 PM
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Game is internal, you change your mindset, which leads to changes in your behaviour, which girls are attracted to= you get laid. Nothing fake about it. It is fine for you to not yet feel fine about it, it can take a long to internalize the redpill and accept the world for what it is, not the blue pill version you were indoctrinated with.
/r/askTRP24/08/19 07:53 PM
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The fact that she says she loves you after having sex for the first time is a beautiful problem (and perhaps one of the biggest red flags ever). Just talk womanese and say you feel you can´t spend time with her after she says she loves you so soon, it doesn´t feel right. You hook up with another woman from toastmasters a week after? It just happened. Can´t helpt it, just feeelings.
/r/askTRP24/08/19 07:49 PM
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I have experimented with this type of messaging on tinder, with a surprising amount of success. Mostly with girls where I feel the interaction is not going well enough, the battle is lost so one last decent push to win the war. The last one was where the conversation was going cold because I didn´t have to time write much or meet in person, because of exams (I am in college, in Denmark ... in the humanities ... whatever hell you think it is, it is worse. Dante would go: holy crap there is a tent…
/r/askTRP24/08/19 07:43 PM
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Thank you for answering, informative and interesting. Will you give us an update if you go for showing ikea-girl what redpill meat balls look and taste like? And whether or not it works?
/r/askTRP24/08/19 07:18 PM
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We do not decide who we get feelings for, we do, however, decide on whether or not we act on them. ABANDON SHIP ! Run! There is a reason dating single moms is discouraged here. Do yourself the favour of checking out "reasons not to date single mom" on youtube, at least one or two by Stefan Molyneux (good stuff).
/r/askTRP24/08/19 07:11 PM
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The first 1-2 are unique, it does not, it cannot remain like that. The chemicals in the brain change. That is why serial monogamy is so common, the magic is gone? Nope, just the honeymoon phase is over. Have you yourself been in a long term relationship before? I recommend you take charge of the situation, by familiarizing yourself with John Gray, the guy who wrote "men are form mars, women from venus" (psychologist who talks about relationships, a famous one at that). The content is moderately …
/r/askTRP24/08/19 06:48 PM
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Fuck no. Is that what a captain does, blame the first mate? Or does he take charge of the situation, recognize that they are off course, and lead the ship in the direction it is supposed to go?
/r/askTRP24/08/19 06:40 PM
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From personal experience, I can recommend telemarketing, you HAVE to develop balls of stells to do cold-calling, you learn to not take rejection personally, how to handle people yelling at you (happens rarely, but does happen). Truly eye-opening. Good way to earn a bit of extra cash, if you use it as a side gig, and to learn a valuable job skill (sales) and meet new people. Most people quit in less than a week, many the first day, they simply can´t handle it. In terms of witty comebacks, watch s…
/r/askTRP24/08/19 06:35 PM
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Sorry for not answering the actual question you raise in your post, but what you write is rather thought provoking, in that, it is so different from what is often recommended here, in terms of how to spend time with plates. Can I ask you: in what context did the plate take you out with her friends, and do you normally go out with other plates and their friends? Or is it because this is a special plate that gives you the GFE, and if so, how do you reconcile doing LTR type things like going out wi…
/r/askTRP24/08/19 06:29 PM
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24 years old and late to the game is a pessimistic, and I would argue, incorrect perspective. Late compared to what? Bro, you found the redpill, the friggin cheat code to contemporary life! the money, the lifestyle, the women ...you have found a sub dedicated to helping you help yourself to excell in all those areas, if you so desire. Most people never find this, but remain unplugged, blue pill, beta providers. You, my son, are not blue pill, you are Chad-in-training, redpill legionnnaire gettin…
/r/askTRP24/08/19 06:07 PM
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How do you know that you don´t spark excitment while talking to women? how is your smv in general? has it changed recently? what kind of sample size are talking about? Are you approaching like a motherfucker (cold approaching, both daytime and nights out) and going on a lot of dates ? ​ Not saying that there is not a problem with your delivery or flirting skills, could be, but what is the context?
/r/askTRP24/08/19 05:51 PM
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Sounds like she was just trying to save face after you dumped her, by trying to make it look she is the one doing the breaking up. Your question is reveals the problem, you have the wrong mindset. The relationship didn´t work out, no problem, you are a redpill guy, shit going on and moving through life with your eyes open. It should not matter to you in the slightest whether or not she wants to hang out again, if she wants to be a fwb, a plate, then fine, a potentially welcome addition (if you h…
/r/askTRP24/08/19 05:46 PM
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We can´t possibly determine if you lost frame somewhere, we have no basis for evaluating it. Your LTR´s recent moodiness might be the result of one (or multiple) loss(es) of frame, or a million other things, but consider this: the first year or two in a relationship is characterized by intense levels of attraction, the honeymoon phase, where the average un-plugged guy will throw away all his free-time and hobbies to enjoy the newfound bliss of a relationship (which can feel tempting, thankfully …
/r/askTRP24/08/19 05:36 PM
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Great comment. Can I get you to answer a follow-up question to this? ​ How would you respond, if a girlfriend (ltr, not plate) goes all crazy over high smv dudes on tv or in movies? I had this happen in a previous ltr (pre being redpilled) , and made the mistake of trying to logically explain that being attracted to other people is perfectly fine, but how it was disrespectful when in an ltr to express desire for other dudes in front of one´s partner. Few months later, I am at the movies with a g…
/r/askTRP01/02/19 03:19 PM
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I hope, for your sake, you consider WHY getting back together with her might be a bad idea, according to the redpill, so that you can at least make an informed decision. At the end of the day, you are responsible for your own life and happiness, just like your ex is for hers. She made a devasting choice, that in itself tells you something about her. Anyway, best of luck to you.
/r/askTRP01/02/19 02:32 PM
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You may have read about many concepts, but it is one thing to understand something and quite another to accept and internalize these concepts, So, you were attracted to a woman who has no love for herself, no self esteem, since she chooses a guy who fits the description above, she is obviously a troubled young woman. So, you have not understood (or maybe just not accepted/internalized), that by increasing your smv, you get access to high quality women, not just in terms of looks, but also when i…
/r/askTRP01/02/19 02:29 PM
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Great that you are doing something, gotta respect that. Design-wise, the website seems kind of bland, to the point where it makes it seem unproffesional. I am not saying you need to spend a fortune on webdesign, but even with wordpress templates you can make the site look much more appealing. You are not making a blog though? You are simply putting in 2-3 lines, that express your opinion / or conclusion about the world. The Redpill is all about critical thinking, seeing the world for what is, no…
/r/askTRP01/02/19 02:23 PM
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The fact that you emotionally desire to get her back, does not mean that should, even if she comes back begging you to forgive her. In order to understand logically why you should not get back with her, you need to read the sidebar, and raise your smv, all that standard rp-stuff. My friend, I must, in the strongest possible terms, recommend that you absolutely never get back together with this woman. She had her chance, plenty of fish in the sea. Learn to love yourself enough, so that you unders…
/r/askTRP01/02/19 02:15 PM
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Plate fat chicks or ugly girls. When you are regularly getting laid, you won´t stress over things the same way. It is one thing to mentally get oneself into a state of abundance, but it is way easier if you are actually getting laid regularly. Gradually increase quality and replace the elephant hunting with fox hunting, as your aim becomes steady from not shivering with gottta-get-laid-fever, your available targets improve. ​ Regarding the issue of living in small town, I would consider meeting …
/r/askTRP01/02/19 02:06 PM
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I find the lack of quality in the ´´answers´´ disturbing. Firstly, no one seems to answer the main question raised by OP: ´´how can I stop this toxic way of thinking´´?. The man knows he has a problem, and asks for help on what he can do to overcome his internal struggle, and the most common answer seems to be either ´´just degrade her to plate´´ and/or ´´start fucking other women´´, thus implying that he shouldn´t change anything. Forgive me, gentlemen, but that is simply not good enough. He wi…
/r/askTRP01/02/19 01:40 PM
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Check out youtube podcasts, just to mention one specific example I can highly recommend ´´Jocko Willink´´, he is a former navy seal and he adresses the concept of mental toughness in a variety of ways, such as discipline, cultivating courage and so on. Good stuff.
/r/askTRP15/08/18 04:54 PM
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Make sure that you cook something you have tried making at least a few times before. This is not the time to experiment with new dishes. When you say homemade, do you mean making the dough, tomato sauce from scratch? If so, make sure you check videos on youtube. The dough likely needs to rest for a few hours. You could consider timing it, making the dough the day before or a couple of hours before she arrives, so all you need to do is roll it out and add the ingredients. No need to go fancy if Y…
/r/askTRP15/08/18 04:48 PM
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Define approached a girl? Did he declare his undying love to her? Just be relaxed, you should consider becoming social and talk to everyone. Then deicide who you want to go after and put the moves on her. But putting the moves on her doesn´t mean asking her out in front of everyone. Isolate. You can even consider arranging a group outing with a smaller group of people (demonstrates high value) and then at that point you can try to escalate with your desired target (possible outings could be: goi…
/r/askTRP26/07/18 09:06 AM
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What a great comment. It is quite surprising to see so many answers in r/asktrp consisting of unperceptive answers, usually just one or two lines. It is therefore nice and refreshing to see someone actually take the time to write out an answer, that takes it point of departure in the question that was actually asked. I salute you, sir.
/r/askTRP26/07/18 08:55 AM
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Exactly, read that sidebar. Furthermore, there are plenty of posts on the redpill section of reddit that recommends books, check those out.
/r/askTRP26/07/18 08:38 AM
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uh, and work on your vocabulary, you can accomplish this by reading books and sitting down with a dictionary. I also remmend looking at lectures on youtube on whatever topic you are interested in, and pay attention to what makes some lectures stand out in a good way and emulate that, and what things you dislike, and refrain from doing those things.
/r/askTRP26/07/18 08:36 AM
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There is an entire discipline devoted to this very issue, it is called rhetoric. I highly recommend you look it up. You didn´t give much in the way of background, but from what little you wrote it sounds like you talk too much and people tune you out. I had this problem before as well, and made a decision to talk less often, the result is that when I do talk, people listen. Betas fight for attention and the spotlight by talking endlessly, alphas assume attention and authority, they talk not beca…
/r/askTRP26/07/18 08:33 AM
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I am affraid I have to agree with this one, the common bird ´´orbitus maximum non resultae sexus´´ has been sighted. You write that you are only 1/6 through sidebar, keep going. Internalize abundance, she has a boyfriend and you have not been able to effortlessly bed her yet, next her. Move on to better and easier things, with bigger tits maybe.
/r/askTRP26/07/18 08:28 AM
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I realize that you don´t mention it at all, but it sounds like a textbook example of a person with an addiction to online porn. If you use porn at all, cut that shit out, you will fell like shit at first but eventually it will get nothing short of amazing. Look for more information if you spend so much as a minute on porn in your daily life. Really you should look for information in general, with your redpill lense activated to filter out bluepill based ideoloigcal shit, on whatever gives you pa…
/r/askTRP26/07/18 08:23 AM
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From what you just wrote, I would argue that she is testing you for congruence. ´´He dominates mw like and alpha in the bedroom and that gives the tingles, better shit test outside the bedroom to make sure he is indeed dominant´´. (testing your frame) In addition, some girls experience coginitive dissonance when it comes to rough sex. They don´t like to think (or rather feel) like they are a bad girl or slutty woman who would enjoy that sort of thing, you can give her plausible deniability and a…
/r/askTRP26/07/18 08:05 AM
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Seems to be two different things. 1.´´Just a sex toy´´ is a very common shit test (several posts adress the issue and general and this comment specificall, just search for shit tests) a classic response would be ´´and you love it´´. On sex being too rough. Does she tell you during sex or after? And remember to look to her behaviour, not just listening to what she says. Does she seem to enjoy it during the act, moaning and shit? If she complains during, oviously there might be something to it, bu…
/r/askTRP25/07/18 06:42 PM
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If you had made arrangements to meet up with a friend, would you have cancelled?
/r/askTRP25/07/18 06:32 PM
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The redpill and being in a relationship are not mutually exclusive concepts, necessarily. In my opinion the answer depends on where you are in your redpill journey. Did you come across it very recently? Don´t even think about going for a long term relationship yet, sidebar sidebar sidebar, then actual bars and spinning plates. Then again, maybe you want to be in a relationship with this broad? Just make sure to not be desperate about it, it is okay to care for someone, redpill is a toolbox that …
/r/askTRP23/07/18 09:26 PM
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Couple of months in prison should do the trick (the answer is either a) leave your dick alone, or b) live in a tiny room and be around men in uniform who couldn´t become policemen. )
/r/askTRP23/07/18 08:51 PM
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´´humungo´´ , fuck that was a good one. It sucks when the hippoesque cockblock like this. I actually came up with a pretty effective solution to this when I was still blue pill. I would tell her that I thought she was awesome, and mention something specifc (mannerism, laugh or her smile) and say that she looked EXACTLY like my sister, or cousin or whatever the fuck, and how it was uncanny and so on. Communicating diplomatically, that I could of course never be interested, since I am not Jaime La…
/r/askTRP23/07/18 08:46 PM
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It is isn´t necesarily a fuck up, depending on how you handled it. Don´t get me wrong, it is never a good thing, but if you don´t go captain betaboy on her and maintain a composed frame and just stay relaxed you can easily get through it.´´ We had sex 3 times and she told me it was great. ´´, you need to get out of your head, my friend. You should only be concerned with your own pleasure, don´t worry if she will cum or even enjoy it that much, do what you want (if you want to make her happy, red…
/r/askTRP23/07/18 08:12 PM
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Long term, don´t bother trying to be seen as the leader in someone else´s company, if you want to make the truly big bucks and become the boss, start a business of your own. Relying on others to give something to you is the bluepill approach, thinking that it will just come to you. Truth is, you can´t trust your supervisor´s ability to be able to judge your worth or true potential, it is much more efficient to go about starting your own shit. To paraphrase Robert Kiyosaki: better to own the ladd…
/r/askTRP23/07/18 07:57 PM
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ChachaChad reaches the same conclusion as I did, go ahead and tell someone if they step out of line. I respectfully disagree with his Chadliness on one thing though, which is: don´t tell her what is on your mind. (I get what he is saying and agree, but I think the wording is problematic) Don´t use the words you did here, as in don´t say that ´´ What bothered me is it seemed like one of Those instances where she treated a stranger better than she treats me ´´. I would suggest letting her know tha…
/r/askTRP23/07/18 07:45 PM
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My first reaction was bursting out: no, what do YOU think of your girlfriend going topless on the beach? Do you think it is fine ? Then it is fine. You don´t like it? Then decide if you want to accept that behaviour or not. If not, set boundries, while maintaining a mentality of abundance. On second thought, I actually think it is an interesting question, never really thought about it before, I usually date introverted girls so it has never been a problem. I do think, as Chad1738 points out, tha…
/r/askTRP23/07/18 07:26 PM
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Hi there. It is impossible to say whether you did fine with that reply or not, the reply itself CAN work, depending on how you deliver it. But from the way you described it, things certainly seem promising, in that you delivered your reply and walked away, as in not lingering to see if the remark pleased. That spells outcome independence, good stuff. However, I would suggest not using this reply in the future, at least not till it feels like the right thing to say. The danger with this type of r…
/r/askTRP23/07/18 06:53 PM
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