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Spot on
/r/ExRedPill19/12/25 02:59 PM
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Well maybe it doesn’t matter. Red pill behavior sticks out like a sore thumb in some areas of the United States. It’s considered black man behavior. It’s racism and classism. It’s bad behavior essentially.
/r/ExRedPill23/02/25 08:02 PM
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Are you a white guy? I know white guys in my area that really got perp walked and called the n word for red pill behaviors. Dads got involved. Fights, charges pressed. I don’t know your culture or where you’re at. But it hit my church with some of the youth and it got nasty. Also the neighbor guy kids got suspended from school for being alpha with the teacher.
/r/ExRedPill22/02/25 07:50 PM
2

Good luck. Red pill men will exhaust you with their constant incel speak. It’s best to just cut them off
/r/ExRedPill16/09/24 04:29 AM
4

Now you know how women feel. We think men only like us because we are pretty, not for our personalities
/r/ExRedPill15/09/24 09:41 PM
1

Nah I’ll pass. I have too much pride to be negged. I have everything I need now as it is. If a man doesn’t make me feel good about myself, I’m not signing up for emotional abuse. Boy bye
/r/ExRedPill05/07/24 05:19 AM
1

What benefits do you bring that she can’t get herself?
/r/ExRedPill05/07/24 01:42 AM
1

I think that quote is so true. Men basically say this all the time in various ways, it permeates our culture. You’ll hear “bros before hoes”. “She’s not yours, it’s just your turn.” (Meaning she’s less than, a prostitute, an object for male consumption). The “friend zone”. Over 30 percent of rapes now are gang rapes where men high five their bros and film the rape and torture of the poor girl or woman. Men bond with other men in the rape torture (and even murder) of women and girls. And they go …
/r/ExRedPill02/06/24 11:38 PM
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He’s abusing you, plain and simple and then gaslighting you so you think you’re the problem. When he wants to argue and stress you out, and you establish a boundary of no arguments, he turns it around and flips it on you and tells you that you are giving him the “F you.” That’s Darvo and that’s a classic abuse tactic. He read or watched red pill content, and became an expert abuser and now he’s putting you through the wringer. I’m sorry, but you just need to be done with this loser. Read Lundy B…
/r/ExRedPill16/04/24 05:05 AM
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What did you learn from Rollo and fresh and fit that was so valuable? I’m genuinely curious
/r/ExRedPill03/04/24 11:59 AM
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Do you ask women out in real life? Not just waiting passively for a match based on your looks in dating apps. You might be surprised that these guys you’re talking about actually have bad personality traits that they can somewhat disguise, but the majority of women are not approached or asked out in real life and these so called jerks ask 100s of women out a month and women do like what appears to be confidence. The world favors the bold. And often the guy is on his best behavior before he switc…
/r/ExRedPill31/03/24 07:42 PM
5

Yes, having a girlfriend is time consuming
/r/ExRedPill29/03/24 05:10 AM
4

Are you basing this solely on your looks?
/r/ExRedPill29/03/24 05:06 AM
8

Is he paying you for your services? Live in nannies don’t pay rent
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/24 01:17 PM
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Oh girl he’s playing you and getting you to do everything while he enjoys free time.
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/24 09:21 PM
2

I honestly think you need to journal and then after a few months take your journal to a male psychiatrist. You need to start a big unpacking process.
/r/ExRedPill02/03/24 04:19 PM
3

I recommend only meeting men in your community in real life. Anything that is online or online dating is full of red pillers. Men that don’t hardly use the internet and have plenty of outdoor hobbies tend to not know or consume red pill content
/r/ExRedPill29/02/24 03:41 PM
2

Welp, the red pill is indeed a toxic stew. I’m not surprised of OP’s response to this. Red pill men will make you permanently celibate that’s for sure!
/r/ExRedPill29/02/24 03:37 PM
2

Yes, he’s red pill
/r/ExRedPill23/02/24 03:41 AM
7

Exactly, they are obsessed with women. They need to get a life
/r/ExRedPill22/02/24 04:46 PM
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Everyone gets old
/r/ExRedPill10/02/24 05:09 AM
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I think he likely chose the one thing you can’t give him to hurt your self esteem or to see if you would get a boob job. That is a manipulation and you need to just be done with him
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/24 02:50 AM
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Reading this post took years off my life. Op needs to unplug from the matrix and touch grass
/r/ExRedPill27/01/24 08:42 AM
2

Men want sex more than women want men. Periodt
/r/ExRedPill17/01/24 02:09 PM
1

It seems like this post was written by an incel
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/24 02:07 PM
3

Whatever it takes. He’s an absolute parasite
/r/ExRedPill16/01/24 09:57 PM
4

Nope. Try again
/r/ExRedPill16/01/24 09:56 PM
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Look, whatever incels like OP are selling, women are clearly not buying. Incels need to work on themselves so they can be of interest to a woman. OP didn’t say what he had to offer a woman other than mediocre sex. D is of extremely low value and it’s a saturated market, what else does he bring to the table? Seems like nothing to me. Women can get sex anywhere
/r/ExRedPill16/01/24 09:55 PM
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Then I’m not the only one interpreting it this way and why use 2 accounts, OP?
/r/ExRedPill16/01/24 08:32 PM
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Put his stuff out while he is at work and change the locks
/r/ExRedPill16/01/24 08:30 PM
5

I read just fine and I interpreted it the way a lot of women would interpret it as evidence in the comments
/r/ExRedPill16/01/24 08:19 PM
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OP is wanting consensual “pity” sex
/r/ExRedPill16/01/24 08:12 PM
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Then be likeable (not entitled). What’s in it for the girl? Sounds like nothing. She gives her most precious possession, her body, to you and gets what in return? Nada, nothing. Your post doesn’t say you’re reciprocating anything in return. Not even the minimum of “I would be a good boyfriend by doing or reciprocating x,y,z”. The cost of sex is too great for women to just give their body over to anyone. She only gets one body for the rest of her life and it’s not like she can buy a new body. Wom…
/r/ExRedPill16/01/24 07:24 PM
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OP is wanting free “consensual” pity sex from a woman? What’s in it for her? Why not just fork over the cash money and pay a prostitute? Women don’t owe you their most precious possession, their body. The cost of sex is too great for women to just have hookup sex (the risk STDs, murder, and pregnancy and dying during pregnancy and delivery and postpartum). Then about 20-25 percent of women ever collect child support from the dead beat dad. Let’s normalize having long term relationships and not h…
/r/ExRedPill16/01/24 07:00 PM
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Well I think every woman needs to read this
/r/ExRedPill08/01/24 11:18 PM
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This has nothing to do with red pill at all. She’s an addict. An addict is an addict is an addict which is gender neutral
/r/ExRedPill29/12/23 10:21 PM
2

Be useful.
/r/ExRedPill24/12/23 01:24 AM
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It’s a free country. I’m not here to police others, they are entitled to do or try to do whatever they want
/r/ExRedPill24/12/23 12:15 AM
0

The market place is the market place
/r/ExRedPill24/12/23 12:13 AM
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7.2 million men of prime working age are unemployed. OP, you are playing us women for real, you must be joking. Also most men spend about 2000 hours a year on screen time either video games or porn or binge watching Netflix or sports. Obese, disabled, alcoholic, drug addicts, opioid epidemic. OP, surely you are gaslighting women. Lol Edit: men have to be likeable and useful, hard skills and employed Why would women choose lazy unlikeable men who provide zero value and mooch off of us and our fre…
/r/ExRedPill24/12/23 12:03 AM
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Fascinating. Did anything significant happen after you moved in together? Did she ever talk about wanting children? Did you try any red pill tactics? My husband was a drug and porn addict and would do all kinds of red pill stuff on repeat like flirting with other women in front of me ai got embarrassed and the pick because he embarrassed me constantly in front of friends and family with his red pill antics. He’d also smelled and would go to the bathroom with the door open. Just lots of crazy ant…
/r/ExRedPill22/12/23 12:02 AM
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I think a lot of men use the dating apps for hookups or free sex
/r/ExRedPill04/12/23 08:37 PM
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Oh yeah. But men get old and ugly too
/r/ExRedPill02/12/23 08:57 PM
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6 pack. Lol. Kidding. What do men look for in women? Looks. I guess both genders are somewhat shallow, no?
/r/ExRedPill02/12/23 08:46 PM
2

Low class, trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 04:39 PM
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Well incels have nothing more to neg women about other than our age, weight, looks, failed relationships (single motherhood), etc. they are just grasping at straws. Instead of accepting accountability and responsibility for their own lives, it’s easier to blame women. It’s cope
/r/ExRedPill11/11/23 10:47 PM
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Look up David Buss on the internet. Women want kindness. When a woman meets you and your nice and kind and caring, that’s great. But as you admitted above, you were mean (rude, disrespectful, mad, etc) Many times when say men “switch up” like this. “My boyfriend became a monster”. It’s the walking on eggshells, never knowing what’s going to set him off, Dr. Jeckyl Mr. Hyde stuff. Women crave safety and security much much more than men
/r/ExRedPill11/11/23 03:20 PM
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Well. You’re one ex red pill man actually admitting what you did. That’s a good start
/r/ExRedPill10/11/23 06:02 PM
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And it’s rude for a man or a woman to tell their significant other they have other options. Rude as hell
/r/ExRedPill09/11/23 03:37 PM
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Maybe some do “monkey branch,”. But I’m a gen x woman and didn’t monkey branch. I held out hope that my man could improve and make a comeback. It didn’t happen, but I believe all my girlfriends are the same because they had similar situations A lot of times or what seems like most times. If a woman really really loves you, and you keep messing up repeatedly. Then women generally feel that you’re not getting the message that you’re behavior is becoming increasingly intolerable (whether it’s const…
/r/ExRedPill09/11/23 03:35 PM
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I only read your post and not all your comments to others. Okay
/r/ExRedPill08/11/23 08:19 PM
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Start having female friends. Take some college classes like cooking, french language or other classes that force you to interact with women. Take a yoga class, etc. you need to put yourself in real life situations where you have to interact with women
/r/ExRedPill08/11/23 06:21 PM
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Awe yes, the incel Taliban and their lovely comments
/r/ExRedPill05/11/23 12:54 AM
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Mens lives matter
/r/ExRedPill31/10/23 03:07 AM
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Okay snowflake, move along
/r/ExRedPill28/10/23 06:13 PM
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I may be a little harsh. But I match energy. He didn’t say he disliked women. He said “extreme hatred”. That shit needs to be checked hard. Not mamby pamby like
/r/ExRedPill28/10/23 06:12 PM
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And he didn’t say he disliked women, he said he had an “extreme hatred”. That shit needs to be addressed and not tiptoed around like he’s a 5 year old. He’s a grown man and needs to be addressed like one
/r/ExRedPill28/10/23 12:30 PM
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I’m gen x and we have got to stop coddling these young men. We are pussy-fying young men (and women) and that shit needs to stop. It’s high time at 22 years old, that he nuts up. The world doesn’t owe him shit and no woman owes him the pleasure of her company and access to her body and he needs to be hit right square between the eyes with the truth. Women are entitled too, in their own way of course.
/r/ExRedPill28/10/23 12:28 PM
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I think so. Gen x female. I’d actually prefer a coffee date as the first date
/r/ExRedPill28/10/23 12:22 PM
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It is crazy. It’s an internet ultimate reality. My nephews are cops, my mom’s a former nurse married to a farmer. My neighbor a fire fighter married to a nurse. These men and women are “high value.” Nurses, farmers, cops. Our society needs them.
/r/ExRedPill28/10/23 12:07 PM
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“An extreme hatred towards girls”. —yep, the answer is yes. You are broken beyond repair.
/r/ExRedPill27/10/23 09:13 PM
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Yep. It’s gaslighting. Obviously men are afraid of other men. So tiny women are of course going to be afraid of men.
/r/ExRedPill27/10/23 07:49 PM
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Are some of them even really interested in girls or on the down low? Myron of fresh and fit posted a video of himself saying “Vs are disgusting.” So I’d say he needs to get himself a boyfriend then. Hes taking himself out of the closet and you got the incel Taliban in the comments agreeing with him. …so the jury is in. If V is disgusting, go get some D. Lol
/r/ExRedPill27/10/23 07:47 PM
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And don’t get me started on whigga rollo hood rat tomassi wearing a dew rag. Gtfo
/r/ExRedPill25/10/23 04:18 PM
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Stuff like dread game and disrespect your woman and flirt with other women in front of her. I mean if I started thinking about the red pill bullshit. I could write an effing novel about all the ways to punk her out and neg her and disrespect her constantly to crush her ego. They say those words verbatim. If you have a good woman, why treat her like dirt? These men wouldn’t like her to neg them and flirt with other men in front of their faces. They wouldn’t disrespect their guy friends the way th…
/r/ExRedPill25/10/23 04:17 PM
1

Well I’m not going to give out a list of examples per se. Perhaps the initial red pill ideology was just self improvement only. But what it has evolved to with the red pill podcasters like Rollo saying reciprocate by 2/3. Meaning wait until she does 3 nice things for you and you only do 2 nice things for her and Myron on fresh and fit having a book “she deserves less” and saying women don’t deserve orgasms and then doubling down on that a second time saying that if the man provides, that should …
/r/ExRedPill25/10/23 03:53 PM
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Yeah. If they can do it and not leech off society and others …good for them. I work and would work several jobs not to mooch off others like my parents, significant other or welfare.
/r/AllPillDebate21/10/23 11:56 PM
1

I get it. Try to keep a good savings up if you can. To prepare to buy someday
/r/AllPillDebate21/10/23 11:54 PM
1

Rent is a trap. If you can own or keep rent low enough to save money to buy a house or condo. But rent is just throwing your money away
/r/AllPillDebate21/10/23 07:57 PM
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Oh sorry. Not sure where you live. But I’ve been seeing van life where they have a planet fitness gym pass to shower etc. or RVs or tiny houses. I’d rather start small and save and have it all on your own. A break up or divorce is costly
/r/AllPillDebate21/10/23 04:44 PM
4

So you don’t have a male buddy you can trust?
/r/AllPillDebate21/10/23 02:41 PM
1

7.2 million neets of prime working age in the United States between 25-50 years old not working. Of the video gamers, they spend over 2000 hours a year playing. Their “hobby” is a full time job
/r/AllPillDebate21/10/23 02:40 PM
1

If you were happy single, you wouldn’t have posted this. Facts
/r/AllPillDebate21/10/23 05:34 AM
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Men are addicted to porn and video games.
/r/AllPillDebate21/10/23 05:27 AM
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Men just want to stay home and play video games and yank off to porn. Women are social. And men are so moody, they ruin travel for everyone with whining and complaining. Hence girl trips or women traveling alone. I stopped taking my husband anywhere. At first he got mad, but then he accepted it. He ruined outings and he knew it. He wasn’t a good sport
/r/AllPillDebate21/10/23 05:25 AM
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Move in with a male roommate
/r/AllPillDebate21/10/23 05:22 AM
1

Yep. Young men now have erectile dysfunction.
/r/AllPillDebate20/10/23 03:31 PM
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It’s all men until it’s no men. I don’t play Russian roulette. I don’t put one bullet in the chamber, spin the revolver and place the end of the barrel to my temple and pull the trigger. I’m tiny and just can’t risk it. It’s all men until it’s no men and the media is unkind of their coverage of crime committed by men towards women. It’s all the time. Some man is doing something vile to a woman on the news. All day everyday, we are bombarded with horrific news and atrocities committed by mostly m…
/r/AllPillDebate18/10/23 04:00 PM
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Addiction to: drugs, alcohol, porn, video games etc. aggrieved entitlement: thinking the world owes you something Low to no accountability Laziness, poor diet, no fitness routine. No productive morning routine Dropping out of secondary education. Living a life of crime To be fair, women suffer from all of the above to some extent. But men will kill their motivation (and dopamine) on porn and video games and then wonder why they are lethargic and not motivated to do anything.
/r/AllPillDebate18/10/23 03:55 PM
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I’m a gen x female and I think so.
/r/ExRedPill14/10/23 04:24 PM
1

Yikes. I am a feminist. But I’m logical as well. Some red pill has truth to it of course. Until birth control, married women could not control fertility and honestly couldn’t do much other than raise kids and of course they were stuck at home doing that while men did build and still work more physically demanding jobs such as building infrastructure etc. biologically, men are stronger than women. Now I’m not going to pick over line by line all the stuff you listed. But the majority of the red pi…
/r/ExRedPill09/10/23 02:53 PM
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All women can do is focus our time and effort on the right men. Ignore these incels. Speak with our wallets and our collective voting and political power and not waste our time and energy on these red pill incel Taliban cult members. We can’t get through and life just needs to smack them in the face hard and unless they are rich or attractive. Then they will in fact get taught a lesson in how to treat people and hopefully figure out that women are human beings too
/r/ExRedPill08/10/23 06:20 PM
8

He’s always wearing a hooded Snuggie. Total alpha male, not. Just a member of the incel Taliban
/r/ExRedPill08/10/23 02:55 PM
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I don’t think women can get through to these men because women have been demonized and not to be trusted. The only people who might get through is rational and logical men in his life
/r/ExRedPill06/10/23 11:48 PM
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From a female point of view. Number 3 seems true. Men seem to be addicted to porn, video games, opioids, alcohol in statistically more significant ways than women. And anecdotally, they seem much more lazy than women and let their basic hygiene deteriorate. Also I think men think average women are on dating apps. We are not. Women don’t have to go on dating apps at all. Men message us through instagram, etc. I’m a plain Jane. Arguably much prettier women all around me and I still get asked out i…
/r/ExRedPill27/09/23 04:06 PM
0

Dude trashed himself out and became a trash dumpster and celebrate it. SMDH
/r/AllPillDebate27/09/23 03:51 PM
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Lol. True. Nothing you do on the internet is private. And of course and especially after the patriot act, the feds can and do watch
/r/AllPillDebate27/09/23 03:17 PM
1

You clearly do not speak the queen’s English. Not sure what country you reside in. But you can look at the Oxford or Cambridge dictionary and it is not denoted as a slur.
/r/ExRedPill22/09/23 09:35 PM
1

Go away. You’re clearly a friggin moron. The word “prostitute” is not the same as the derogatory slur “whore” You’re clearly low class and uneducated.
/r/ExRedPill22/09/23 08:03 PM
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I was responding to OPs red pill saying. Illustrating how it’s perceived by women. “She’s not yours, it’s just your turn”. Is red pill men looking at all women like prostitutes. Re-read my comment. I was just adding an emphasis as to how cringe the saying is to women. My comment was not a critique on prostitution at all. My post was to OP about his saying and how it’s perceived by women. My point was to illustrate (with emphasis) how cringe the saying is. Not shaming sex workers. I don’t care wh…
/r/ExRedPill22/09/23 02:22 PM
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No. I don’t care either way. I was responding to OPs red pill saying. Illustrating how it’s perceived by women. “She’s not yours, it’s just your turn”. Is red pill men looking at all women like prostitutes. Re-read my comment. I was just adding an emphasis as to how cringe the saying is to women. My comment was not a critique on prostitution at all. My post was to OP about his saying and how it’s perceived by women
/r/ExRedPill22/09/23 02:21 PM
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Go somewhere else with your fake social justice warrior crap.
/r/ExRedPill22/09/23 02:18 PM
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Also. What Kind of low class women are you all dating? I only here about this from men on the internet that women are scamming them for free food. I know no men in real life saying this. I guess being middle to upper class (financially), I don’t know any woman that would ever go out with a guy they were not interested in for a free meal. Think about it. A date can be 3-5 hours. Plus, you do your hair and makeup, etc. it all of that worth it for a 20 -30 dollar plate of food. To suffer through an…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 02:17 PM
1

Yeah. I always felt that I should contribute more since I made more than my husband. But it’s not all about what you make either. Unnecessary expenses add up. Like bar bills. Then the person who makes more and contributes more starts to feel a bit resentful when the person that’s making less is frivolous with their spending or lazy with their share of the chores. I really never expected 50/50 because I made more financially. But also I’m 5 years younger and I have more energy and I’m quick and e…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 02:11 PM
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Yeah. If that’s what you meant by 50/50. I just know that 50/50 really scams women. I paid the majority of everything and did all the chores. So I’d never get remarried or ever live with a man again. 50/50 worked out to be a financial rip off to me. My husband was expensive. Just on food and alcohol alone So I’d say splitting the bills in half really isn’t all that fair in the end. 20+ years and like I said on groceries and liquor and eating out alone, he raked in quite a chunk of my paycheck. S…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 02:11 AM
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Go away
/r/ExRedPill22/09/23 01:50 AM
1

Yes. Why not.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 01:50 AM
1

Yeah. Men need to stop saying split the bill 50/50. Men order steak and drink more liquor than women. It’s a scam for a woman weighing 130 to be splitting the bill 50/50 with a man weighing 200 pounds unless he wasn’t hungry and didn’t eat much. But typically a man is going to eat more and drink more and order a steak (which is typically the most expensive item on the menu). Unless the lady orders something like seafood.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 01:49 AM
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Men are expected to be men and they are failing. But to be fair, testosterone has been steadily declining since the 80s. So that’s why men are not like our fathers. To also be balanced, women are not like our mothers. My mom was stay at home and I work and earn more than my husband and I guess I’m rather masculine. I mow the lawn. I do both the women’s work and the man’s work. But I blame it on low T making men whiny and lazy. What can you do. Women just have to do it all, while husbands lay on …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 01:45 AM
1

Pay your own way! Her paystub isn’t your concern on your first date. Are you a male gold digger?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 01:34 AM
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I’m female and I have plenty of respect. My comment was to illustrate how cringe the red pill saying was. I don’t need to check anything, but you do. Know your audience and understand that I was illustrating a point as to how cringe the red pill saying is OP posted.
/r/ExRedPill22/09/23 01:32 AM
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On a first date, just pay for what you order. Don’t split the bill when you ordered 40 dollar steak and she orders a 10 dollar salad
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 01:30 AM
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Every body just pay their own way. Pay for your own food, what you ordered. 50/50 is a scam to most women unless she’s ordering expensive food. Yes, I carried my husband
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 01:28 AM
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I make more than my husband. I’m not dating you, so why does it matter what I make in comparison to you. I just think on a date, each person pays their own check. If I order a salad and a water, why would I split the bill with a man who ordered a 20 ounce steak and 3 crown and cokes. My husband is 200 pounds and I’m 130. I’ve made more than him my whole marriage. A 50/50 relationship is a scam. In groceries and eating out alone, he eats 3-4 times what I eat
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 12:29 AM
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Separate checks. 50/50 is a scam. Most men eat and drink way more than me. I’m tiny
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 12:22 AM
1

True. Be attractive. But then don’t be unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 12:18 AM
1

I’d say that unfortunately nowadays men’s hygiene is the worst. I don’t get it at all. My dad had impeccable hygiene. Clean shaven, aftershave, barber shop appointment monthly etc. never wore dirty clothes, ironed his clothes everyday. Cleaned up after himself. I don’t know why every guy looks homeless and smells. like wtf. Women actually do more maintenance than our moms. Brazilian wax, laser hair removal etc. our hygiene routine is so much more than our moms…but men went the other way. They do…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 12:18 AM
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Disgusting. It’s essentially calling her a prostitute. It’s like guys who say that have watched too much gang bang traiin porn and they have a cuck fetish. Something mentally wrong with men who think like that. They see all women as objects or merry go round prostitutes and they are waiting in line for their turn. How men think nowadays. Disgusting. The pornification of men
/r/ExRedPill22/09/23 12:00 AM
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I think that red pill guys are just grown up incels that maybe learn PUA and were able to looks or value max and game to get laid. To me, the i ideology and the lingo are just incel 2.0. Like Myron on fresh and fit saying women orgasming is not important or rollo whigga tomassi telling young men to get vasectomies and spin plates. Incels and red pill guys demonize women and use the same language and ideology to do it. “She’s not yours, it’s just your turn”. Body count, slut shaming, you name it.…
/r/ExRedPill21/09/23 08:03 PM
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Sure. Why not
/r/AllPillDebate20/09/23 02:09 AM
1

Is a white knight a male feminist to you? What’s wrong with male feminists? I like having a job and the right to vote and owning property and not getting beaten and raped by my husband. Feminists got those nice things for me that I enjoy every day. I get to drive a car. The Saudi women don’t. I don’t have to wear a burqa in 100 degree weather. Taliban women do.
/r/AllPillDebate19/09/23 11:27 PM
1

Lol. I’m not sure what’s up with the gender war nonsense nowadays. It’s unhinged.
/r/AllPillDebate19/09/23 08:51 PM
1

The very type of guy I want to be bad for is a white night. Lol. Chivalry is catnip to me. Daddy, spank me.
/r/AllPillDebate19/09/23 05:34 PM
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Desperate pick mes or grifters making money off men. Men love hearing their thoughts come out of a woman’s mouth. Look at pearly things. She’s got a face like a foot. Making an absolute killing pandering to men. Men eat that up like gravy. She’s taking that to the bank
/r/ExRedPill19/09/23 02:54 PM
2

I think try something like 75 hard. Which is exercise but also reading 10 pages a day. I recommend the book atomic habits and David buss’s book “evolution of desire” and any of the gottman books about relationships. But be sure your getting out once or twice a week as a goal where your doing something
/r/ExRedPill18/09/23 02:01 PM
1

I didn’t create the world, I just live in it. There’s no reward for being a pick me girl. Being the one girl out of a thousand that pursues men gets you labeled a hoe. Is it fair? Probably not. Is there anything I can do about it? Likely no. I don’t date men anymore. Not worth it. If I went on the dating apps, it would be to date a woman. Where I live is more conservative (Kansas), so a lot of women are not as openly lesbian. I’ve just seen men acting crazy and dangerous and I just try to avoid …
/r/ExRedPill17/09/23 11:30 PM
1

No one is bad economy. I’m talking about all the rejections I got trying to get a job. I got tons of rejections before I finally got a job
/r/ExRedPill17/09/23 09:05 PM
1

No one (men and women) don’t appreciate what they don’t have to work for. Women can’t ask men out or we come across as slutty. It’s not worth it
/r/ExRedPill17/09/23 09:03 PM
2

Well maybe do volunteering or yoga or cooking classes or language classes at community college or something. Somewhere you can just get comfortable talking to women in public and not asking them out. Build up your rapport talking to the opposite sex
/r/ExRedPill17/09/23 08:18 PM
1

Cringe as F. Incel talking points. The gender war nonsense is old and honestly tiring. I just have to block people like you from my life. Men constantly going out of their way to tell women they ain’t shit. Dude WTF is wrong with you?! Like all women will label you an incel for telling women that they are useless or not as useful as men. I hope no woman dates you. You’re awful with that comment. “Men good, women bad”. WTF is wrong with you? Good lord. So cringe
/r/ExRedPill17/09/23 07:55 PM
1

It is what it is. But also so many women have low self esteem. I’m happy to see the few confident ladies that have good self esteem.
/r/ExRedPill17/09/23 07:40 PM
1

I reciprocate plenty once I’m dating or what used to be called going steady. I cook, so I’m always looking to try out new recipes. But no, I don’t chase men. Never
/r/ExRedPill17/09/23 07:39 PM
2

Men are the ones that make us feel like we are the prize. True story. Only fans is popular because of paying customers. Hmm. Men.
/r/ExRedPill17/09/23 07:38 PM
1

I think it’s best to be honest. I don’t know how it’s helpful to lie to men and tell them to do nothing and women will fall in their lap Maybe some women are cowards, that might very well be true. But I was taught never to chase men. Men don’t appreciate something they don’t have to work for. I don’t really have to make any effort to get a date, so I don’t. I’ll just stay single until a guy I like asks me out.
/r/ExRedPill17/09/23 07:36 PM
1

I think it’s best to be honest. I don’t know how it’s helpful to lie to men and tell them to do nothing and women will fall in their lap Maybe some women are cowards, that might very well be true. But I was taught never to chase men. Men don’t appreciate something they don’t have to work for. I don’t really have to make any effort to get a date, so I don’t. I’ll just stay single until a guy I like asks me out.
/r/ExRedPill17/09/23 07:35 PM
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Maybe some women are cowards, that might very well be true. But I was taught never to chase men. Men don’t appreciate something they don’t have to work for. I don’t really have to make any effort to get a date, so I don’t. I’ll just stay single until a guy I like asks me out.
/r/ExRedPill17/09/23 07:33 PM
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It’s simple, we don’t have to approach men. That’s why we don’t
/r/ExRedPill17/09/23 07:22 PM
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Yeah, my brother was dorky and pop bottle glasses and he never wanted to ask girls out and he faced constant rejection. And well when he finally got over the fact that many women would reject him and he just had to persevere. It’s like trying to get a job in a bad economy with high unemployment. In 2008, I was unemployed like a lot of Americans. I applied for 100s of jobs every day and went on interviews all week every week for weeks and weeks on end and honestly it was worth it. Constant reject…
/r/ExRedPill17/09/23 06:58 PM
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Don’t be a coward. Most women I know are just like me and will never ever go on a dating app. Not safe.
/r/ExRedPill17/09/23 06:30 PM
0

Well how is the man going to get to know women if he doesn’t approach and talk to them? You’re being silly. I didn’t literally mean 100 women, hopefully it’s less for OP. But yeah, it’s impossible to get to know women as human beings if you don’t talk to them at all Btw, I am a woman…so don’t come at me being silly. Also I’m pushing 50 years old. Most women I know don’t go on the dating apps at all, ever
/r/ExRedPill17/09/23 06:29 PM
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Hmm. I’m a gen x woman. Never done online dating. Don’t really have any single girlfriends who have done online dating either. I also have to say I don’t know any women that approach men either. I’d say it’s probably best to stay off online dating and approach women politely in real life. Sure some will find you creepy, but as long as you keep your hands to yourself and accept their no, you’ll be just fine. You’ll likely have to ask 100 women out to get one date. It’s best to just get through th…
/r/ExRedPill17/09/23 04:38 PM
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Do you think that is why she ghosted you?
/r/ExRedPill16/09/23 05:42 PM
7

Gynophpbia?
/r/ExRedPill16/09/23 05:39 PM
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I do think women are likely “groomed” or abused as children or even women from loving middle class families become addicted to drugs and sell themselves to support their addiction. I don’t know what the answer is. I felt sorry for the strippers that I caught prostituting on premises. But I had a zero tolerance policy and I was running a strip club and not a brothel and I couldn’t allow that illegal behavior to continue or I could be complicit in their crime and held liable legally as well. I do …
/r/ExRedPill13/09/23 09:46 PM
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Good day. I did manage a strip club many years ago and I had a strick policy that strippers could not solicit clients or would be fired. Not only did they solicit clients (some, not all), I caught them prostituting in the lap dance rooms, bathrooms and parking lot. Some women do in fact solicit men. They approach men asking for money in exchange for services. They knew I would fire them on the spot, but they still did it. I suspect many had a drug addiction to support. Again, I’m not disagreeing…
/r/ExRedPill13/09/23 09:22 PM
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I’m not promoting exploitation of sex workers. There are in fact women willingly selling sexual services on their own on their internet. Have you seen onlyfans? Hello. Women are willingly selling it on their own.
/r/ExRedPill13/09/23 08:18 PM
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Yeah. It’s silly. Obviously we are not going to solve the issue of prostitution on a subreddit. Lol In an ideal world, forced or coerced prostitution wouldn’t exist. But arguing with me about something I’ve agreed with you repeatedly on, is silly.
/r/ExRedPill13/09/23 06:22 PM
1

Many sex workers I know do say no if they don’t like the guy. I get the their is sexual slavery out there and underground brothels, etc. but if he contacts an escort on Craigslist or something. A lot of those women do turn down men all the time
/r/ExRedPill13/09/23 05:09 PM
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No one is owed anything. With a prostitute, he has to purchase it. It’s better than him abusing and coercing a date
/r/ExRedPill13/09/23 04:52 PM
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I’m a gen x female. I’m not here to get on my high horse and argue with you. I don’t fundamentally disagree with you. However the lesser of 2 evils would be the latter. The red pill guys with anger issues are getting in relationships and abusing women. Going to a prostitute for a few minutes isn’t the same level of abuse that a woman would have to suffer in a long term relationship with OP. I get it, abuse is abuse. But a prostitute is willingly selling it because she has to eat. Everyone has to…
/r/ExRedPill13/09/23 04:37 PM
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I agree with you, but unfortunately prostitutes do need to eat too. I’m not here to solve prostitution. Because it is the worlds oldest profession. Nothing I can do about that. But these red pill men go around actually abusing regular women and at least most prostitutes (and pimps) know how to deal with angry men. OP needs to stay away from dating until he can sort himself out mentally and get over his rage.
/r/ExRedPill13/09/23 03:59 PM
2

Fair points. But I guess I’m afraid for the normal women that he will abuse if he goes online dating.
/r/ExRedPill13/09/23 03:28 PM
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If it’s just sexual only. I don’t think you should enter into a relationship when you’re frustrated and full of rage. You’ll be starting a new relationship off in a bad way. I think a female therapist may not be what red pill men need. I think you would benefit more from a male therapist. At least initially. After working with a male therapist for a while, then it may not hurt going to a female therapist. But if we are looking largely at rage and getting a healthy male perspective of how to inte…
/r/ExRedPill13/09/23 02:44 PM
4

That 33secrets guy is creepy and sleazy AF. He looks like hepatitis
/r/ExRedPill13/09/23 02:32 PM
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What are you frustrated about? Is it just sexual frustration? If so, go to a prostitute. If it’s mental, go to a male therapist.
/r/ExRedPill13/09/23 02:12 PM
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He’s a RPer, he openly hates women
/r/ExRedPill12/09/23 12:54 AM
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Yep. These men who make less than me are out here “I’m a unicorn!” “I’m the prize!” Um, the hell they are. They are disposable
/r/ExRedPill06/09/23 04:36 PM
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You too. Take care
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 04:22 PM
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You never present a logical argument backed by facts. So you just get on here continuously and talk out yourself *ss. It would be one thing if you presented an opinion and then linked a reputable study backing your opinion. You commit every logical fallacy known to man. Ad hominem, incel MRA bandwagon, appeal to tradition, circular reasoning, false cause, straw man (you over use this one), non sequitur (your last comment), either or fallacy (black and white thinking with no nuance)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 04:12 PM
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Nope. Women already do enough for men. Men have to start doing more than the bare minimum. I’m not ever chasing a man
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 03:53 PM
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Choose better. Lol. “I can only hope (women) get punished”. Your words. Why does punishing women matter to you? Birth rate is declining for a reason
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 03:50 PM
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Well I can’t talk about art. I only took 1 art history class in college and that’s not enough for me to talk intelligently on the subject. I am a book worm and I’ve read almost all the classics as well. But I can not say I’m a fan of Keats and Kerouac. My dad was first generation Irish (came over as a child, born in 1914), so I have a deep love for Samuel Beckett. I also love Steinbeck and in more recent years all the different detective series with Michael Connolly’s Harry Bosch detective serie…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 03:28 PM
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This is what the average marriage looks like. 50:50 is a scam for women because of all the unpaid labor. Also my 200 pound husband easily ate 3-4 times the groceries I did. 50/50 cost me time and money. It’s a scam
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 02:39 PM
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Amen Weed their genes out from the gene pool
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 02:25 PM
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Another man who thinks women should be punished for just existing and stating their opinion. How dare women have an opinion!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 02:22 PM
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This! 100 percent
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 02:15 PM
1

Yeah. More time for the gym and leisure Activities. I’ll never live with another man. I wouldn’t mind a long term boyfriend. But he can never live with me. After 20 years of marriage. I’m not doing that amount of unpaid labor. Sure I’ll still cook for him but not every night etc. i like to cook
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 02:03 PM
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True. But women stay because they are hoping he will switch back into the guy they initially dated and that’s where women are wrong. Or they feel it might be harder being a single mom. Because at least sometimes he “babysits” his own kids so she can go grocery shopping etc. but by no means is he pulling his weight. And women stay for financial reasons. Rent and mortgage is expensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 01:54 PM
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Yep. These dudes and their language and behavior makes them undateable. Their cockblocking themselves. The average dude can’t get by with what rich men do. Rich men act abhorrent and gold diggers don’t care. But the average dude doesn’t have the wallet to get away with being a D. Women will next him
/r/ExRedPill06/09/23 01:22 PM
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20 years of paying for groceries for a 200 pound man who eats 3-4 times what you do. Plus the time and gas to go get those extra groceries (only so much you can fit in the fridge and freezer (so more trips). Plus the time to cook almost every night of the week. I’m single and I meal prep twice a week. Literally spend no time in the kitchen outside of Sunday and Wednesday night meal prep. No dinner to cook every night. No dishes to do every night.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 01:20 PM
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I appreciate a working man. Not a lazy slob that lays around while I do all the work. There are good men like my father who never sat down. My dad said “I’m not going to sit while your mom works.” Because he loved her and was a true partner and lead by example. We can only look up to men like this. Respect is earned.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 01:17 PM
2

Amen. Women carry the full load
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 01:15 PM
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I agree. Marriage is a scam for women. Women do the majority of the chores and caregiving responsibilities. It literally robs us of our time and money. 50/50 is a scam. You pay for 50 percent of everything and do 100 percent of the chores and the cooking and childcare. Even if childless and he does his fair share of the chores, he still eats way more than you. When I moved in with my husband, my grocery bill more than doubled.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 11:40 AM
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You totally missed the plot. He literally says he’s a sociopath incapable of loving his children and wife and literally says she’s with him for what he provides. Further he’s not disputing he bought a wife. You’re HE-motional. Not her. She’s simply agreeing with the self described sociopath who literally tells her he doesn’t love her and he bought her. Further comments from him illustrate it even more
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 03:11 AM
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100 percent. They are not even closeted about it anymore. They openly rant how much they hate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 02:11 AM
1

Yep.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 01:26 AM
1

What’s the proposed punishment for childless single women ? Is there going to be the same punishment to childless single men?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 01:26 AM
1

Being childless and single is better than being a married mother to most women. You have to know our mothers and grandmothers suffered and they told us that
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 12:52 AM
1

Meh will always abandon. This has happened to my mothers and grandmothers generations. I could ask my 81 year old mom and over the course of her life, she can name countless women with children that the husband got up and abandoned. Marriage means nothing. It won’t protect you from becoming a single mom. Women are wise to it now. I agree on the serial killer groupies, there definitely are a few. A small percentage of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 12:51 AM
1

Well I’m not a Ted bundy expert. I watched an episode about him on A & E years ago when they had serial killer week and the people on that show described him as charming. But I did know about his crippled con job too
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 12:48 AM
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Yep. These men don’t get it. Women are paying attention to the dead beat father epidemic and the fact that there are billions of dollars in unpaid child support. Men don’t get it. The blame women for the birth decline and if most men just took a look around, they have men in their friend groups, or their family that are deadbeats. And then they are openly saying the quiet parts out loud. On this subreddit, they basically say all day long they hate women. Why on earth would we give birth to their…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 12:44 AM
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Charm is an aspect of personality. So the women initially like the serial killers personality enough to fall in his trap. Clearly personality matters. I think we agree on all other points. It’s unfortunate. But women will continue to be largely single and childless. That will happen for the foreseeable future until their is actual structural community support and a collective initiative amongst people bestowing the virtue of motherhood. Until our culture changes and stops treating motherhood lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 12:40 AM
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Well Ted bundy was in fact charming. He knew how to lure his prey in. He had “game”. Something the incels will never have “charm” or “game.” Because their hatred of women is always apparent. Men are literally making it more attractive to women to be single and childless and just get an education and career. Until men decide to be caring and kind to us, it’s best women stay the course. It’s sad the birth rate is declining the world over, but there is no incentive for women to have kids. I never h…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 12:19 AM
1

You again?!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 09:25 PM
1

Men can’t handle rejection. Take the L and peace out
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 06:21 PM
1

You’re not having an intelligent discussion. You engaged me and I’m asking you to disengage. Go bother someone else with your nonsense. No means no
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 06:11 PM
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Dude, go away
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 05:21 PM
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Well correct or expand your statement…because it seemed like a potential veiled threat to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 04:31 PM
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I can only infer that you’re talking about rape and yeah women should be careful
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 02:23 PM
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Women have sec with horses…for money. Corrected that statement for you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 02:20 PM
1

Well I think this is somewhat true. As you get older, men die off or if they can date younger women, they will. So I do think that when women get older, the options become less and less.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 01:16 PM
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What point? That men “owe” us something for free? Men ain’t doing anything for women for free. Men are expecting something in exchange. Hence the nice guy tropes. The “nice guy” is hoping if he gambles and puts enough coins in the slot machine, it will pay out with sex. Men aren’t doing anything for women for free. They want access to our bodies
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 01:06 PM
1

Dude, you’re the one who won’t go away.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 01:04 PM
1

Well men should create their own VAWA, why are men waiting for women to do it for them? Men should create international men’s day. That’s on men for being lazy. Y’all need to take the initiative. All you do is come with your opinion and zero facts
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 01:03 PM
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Are we talking about racism and slavery now and not feminism? You seem to change the subject when you can’t argue the original point. What has feminism done to you personally? How have you been wronged by feminism ?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 01:00 PM
1

“On July 5, 1993, marital rape became a crime in all 50 states, under at least one section of the sexual offense codes. In 20 states, the District of Columbia, and on federal lands there are no exemptions from rape prosecution granted to husbands.” https://vawnet.org/material/marital-rape-new-research-and-directions#:~:text=On%20July%205%2C%201993%2C%20marital,rape%20prosecution%20granted%20to%20husbands.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 12:58 PM
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Feminism isn’t perfect. Like I have said many times. But I’m gen x and well my husband became a drug addict and without no fault divorce and my own job and own paycheck, I’d be homeless right now. What is so hard to get about this? I clearly benefited and still benefit from feminism. Otherwise I’d be forced into homelessness and unable to support myself and feed myself and my children. I don’t know what’s so hard to see here. Feminism has largely been good for women. No movement is perfect
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 12:56 PM
1

Dude, I look in my inbox and there are literally 6 replies from you. Seriously?! You don’t think you have a mental issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 12:53 PM
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Oh women want sex. But I can wait until it comes to me. And I’m only horny for the right man. Men will eff anything. 4 men raped a monitor lizard in India and filmed it with their phone. 15 teenage boys gang raped a donkey in Morocco and contracted rabies. Hence porn and the sex trade. Women aren’t paying for sex, look around. Men are
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 12:51 PM
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A man in Atlanta just bricked a woman because she refused to give him her phone number. Instead of taking the L, he got violent because he feels like he’s owe her time and attention. He clearly had a goal of trying to get with her and then tried to kill her with a brick
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 12:48 PM
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Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 12:46 PM
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Men seem to want sex more, so that’s why they are the aggressor. Look at the animal kingdom, go to the zoo. Notice something? I’m so many species, the male initiates. Men and hornier, thirsty. Women can passively wait (some can wait forever).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 03:37 AM
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True. If women had to ask men out, the human population would go extinct. Could it just be that perhaps due to biology and testosterone, men are hornier? Thirsty? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 10:20 PM
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It just comes down to who wants it more. Men want it more. Biology is a B.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 10:18 PM
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Got it, so it really doesn’t affect you at all, you just want to control women. Notice your not on here talking about male accountability and double standards
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 07:50 PM
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How do these women and whether they are personally accountable truly affect you?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 04:09 PM
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Seems like OP is weaponizing victimhood as well. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 02:36 PM
1

You’re delusional and now you seem obsessed with men. Go away. Shut fly
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 02:26 PM
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I honestly don’t know what you’re getting at. I had a male plumber at the house and I paid what he charged. However the plumbing company is actually owned by a woman and she is a plumber by trade (rare I know). But it’s capitalism. He didn’t do my plumbing for free. I paid him. I don’t think men owe me anything and I work and never collected any state assistance or welfare. I’ve never had a man pay my way. So I’m not sure what you’re getting at
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 02:25 PM
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I didn’t pay attention to the amber heard thing, but didn’t them going to court, wasn’t that an attempt to hold her accountable via out legal system (established by men). Men scream they built the world. Well true. But now y’all ain’t happy with the world men built. Men wrote the laws, majority of judges are men. Women were allowed on the jury, I think the last state to allow women on juries was Mississippi in 1968. You scream women aren’t taking accountability. How bout men take responsibility …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 02:22 PM
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Do you know women that say they want to be the actual property of a man? Most women have at least some feminist ideals. Like voting, equal rights, driving a car, owing property, the ability to work a Job. Not get beaten and raped by their husband. Marital rape was only outlawed federally after I became an adult in the mid 1990s
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 02:15 PM
1

You again? Lol. What has feminism done to you specifically?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 02:12 PM
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Hmmm. True on the sex part. Women can get hookups with ease but most women don’t want that, they want a long term stable relationship. Women have the same pressure to constantly improve, climb the corporate ladder, stay in shape, lose the pregnancy weight, get a mommy makeover (tummy tuck & boob job), Botox, etc.
/r/ExRedPill04/09/23 01:08 AM
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End things. Trust me, it’s just going to get worse. Not worth it
/r/ExRedPill04/09/23 01:03 AM
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I think I mostly agree with OP. You mention when it comes to relationships apart from childcare, men face a higher burden…such as?
/r/ExRedPill03/09/23 09:49 PM
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Triggered much? Lol. Playing the victim to a T.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 09:41 PM
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I honestly wonder if it’s the low testosterone in men that has steadily been declining since the 80s is the reason for the mass whining in men. Can I get you a tampon?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 09:27 PM
1

But no need to get he-motional. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 09:25 PM
1

Well black men at one time were slaves so obviously I meant for most of human history, we would be talking about white men generally
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 09:24 PM
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You really should know your audience. Lol. You have zero idea who you’re talking too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 08:24 PM
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What has feminism done to you sir? It’s not male bashing to tell the truth, and almost all women are feminists to some extent whether they say they are or not. Unless they truly want to be ruled by a Taliban like regime of men. If you present the facts and link reputable studies and data, then I can concede on obvious facts if they are truly presented and substantiated
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 08:23 PM
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Well if women are truly not being held accountable, then why is that? Because men are not holding them accountable! Duh? There is something called “pretty privilege.” If you get a pretty girlfriend, you’ll be led around by your dumb stick and you won’t hold her accountable. That’s on you and other men. You’re biology and wanting to get P is why you don’t hold women accountable. Men, you only have yourselves to blame. This should be obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 08:18 PM
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What do I think I’m owed from men?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 08:17 PM
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I meant men collectively. Obviously there are poor working class men. But men like Elon musk don’t feel enslaved
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 08:17 PM
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How am I bashing men? It’s not male bashing to just state facts
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 08:15 PM
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What debate? Lol. There actually has to be a debate to lose. You just bring your opinion and zero facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 08:14 PM
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Almost all women are feminists nowadays and we can get laid easily. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 08:13 PM
1

There are some women cops in my family as my sister is also a federal agent. She started out in INS. But law enforcement are public servants that serve the public (men and women)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 08:11 PM
1

Well OP has a point, women with low self esteem put up with this disrespectful behavior. I dated a guy last year. An old boyfriend from over 20 years ago and he started doing some of the asshole disrespectful behavior that OP listed. We dated from end of April until mid October and his continued bad behavior literally forced me to break up with him. He left me no choice. And this was someone I dated over 20 years ago and I once loved, but he was clearly playing asshole games and being disrespect…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 07:50 PM
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Yep. Definitely truth to what you’re saying. I don’t date because of the incel ideology is mainstream and every man starts spewing that crap. So I just avoid men and almost all my single girlfriends do too. Their are articles about women that dated red pill (incel 2.0) men and they felt abused and are no longer dating either. I think it’s probably going to be 5-10 years minimum before men are decent to be around
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 10:16 AM
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I read all the red pill books. It’s incel 2.0
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 09:10 AM
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What point on what merit? Im not arguing a point. Im agreeing with OP. You’re nutso
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 09:09 AM
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Whatever. Engaging in the incel meni-nazi stuff isn’t going to get you laid or make you likeable
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 09:08 AM
1

Okay. Good for you. Go forth and have your movement
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 09:06 AM
1

And get off the men’s lib reddit. It’s rotting your brain and if you keep reading that incel stuff, you’ll never get a girlfriend because all you’ll want to do is pick a fight about gender war nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 08:41 AM
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I saw your other posts and comments about male loneliness. I do actually feel sorry for you but how about being more likeable, less angry and rageful and less controversial. Why pick fights with women on the internet to engage in gender wars? If you’re lonely and want a girlfriend, why not avoid the gender war conversation all together?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 08:36 AM
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Yep. Incel culture has gone mainstream and quote “normal” men don’t know they are regurgitating incel tropes
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 08:26 AM
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They are cops, they serve me. Sure. They are public servants. But you know the cops in your area serve and protect you too. Can you imagine cops protect and serve the public. Not just women. Gasp
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 08:23 AM
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Simply disagreeing with you is not unreasonable. It’s a free country, last I checked. But men like you can’t stand when a woman has a difference of opinion and you just can’t help but want to “put the little woman in her place” and keep punching down. Keep kicking the dog because you’re angry at the world and honestly you don’t even know what you’re really angry at. But I can assure you it’s not those pesky feminists. Not really because what have feminists done to you personally? Nada. Nothing. …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 08:21 AM
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Women don’t have more power than the average man. And feminists don’t have more power and money than Jeff bezos, Warren buffet, Elon musk, prince of Saudi etc
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 07:48 AM
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Well until feminism and women’s ability to live absent of a man to financially support her. Men had more autonomy and freedom relative to a woman. I’m not dismissing your point. Of course freedom is relative. But women were actual property
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 07:46 AM
1

Me existing pisses off men like you. Sir, what is it about me and women that makes you angry? You seem to think women “owe” men our time money and energy. Why is that? You feel entitled to us? Why is that? How have I and other women like me pissed on you? I have done nothing to you. What are you talking about? You’re delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 07:44 AM
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Well my brothers and nephews and my cousins all are cops, and they get plenty of help from me and the women and my family. The men in my family don’t whine. They step up, they are army and marine corps veterans and they make up the local police force. They are useful men that serve our communities and don’t whine incessantly
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 07:38 AM
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I’m always amazed at the audacity of men to scream at women to take accountability with the amount of deadbeat dads who don’t see their children or pay child support and random men on the internet that say that to me when they have zero idea of who I am. I have custody and guardianship of my adult autistic sister and I have 2 older brothers. Women end up taking the majority of accountability for raising kids, taking care of family, taking care of elderly parents, etc. men get a ticket to slide. …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 06:47 AM
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Well we need men to step up and be school teachers and mentor this young boys, don’t wait for women to fix it for you. Men need to fix it for themselves. Men will scream that men built the world and now y’all ain’t happy about the world you built. Women have some riches and power is some places but not the world over. Not Saudi. Not Afghanistan where the Taliban rule and the average women is just like the average man. We get up and go to work. Jeff bezos and Elon musk, the power and the money re…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 06:23 AM
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I don’t think feminism has done anything to men. I think patriarchy has done damage to both men and women alike. Is feminism 100 percent correct and perfect movement? Obviously no. I don’t subscribe to the male bashing and negative aspects of it. But there are a lot of positives to celebrate, the right to vote, equal pay for equal work, marital rape outlawed federally in the 90s. Every movement has good and bad things. Like radical Islam. But why are men blaming feminism instead of just taking t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 05:17 AM
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I’m not sure how this equates to feminism. Men are free and can make choices. Women have only recently been free because of feminism. Women still can’t be as free as men because of safety concerns. But women really belonged to their family or then they belonged to their husband and had no rights. They were held hostage, enslaved, beaten, raped by their husbands and couldn’t escape it. Men are only enslaved by their minds.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 04:50 AM
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This!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 04:44 AM
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I don’t know any women that want to eat Cheetos and play video games all day. But I’m sure they exist. I like a little Cheetos from time to time though or dots pretzels (that’s my crack). What are women doing or are women doing what they want to do and what is that? I can’t see a problem until I understand what women are actually doing that is the equivalent of eating Cheetos and playing video games all day. All of my girlfriends have a minimum of a bachelors or masters degrees, work career jobs…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 04:42 AM
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OP, what standards? Other than body count, which is against purple pill debate rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 01:29 AM
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I get it. But most marriage ends in divorce. I’d wait until you can afford kids on your own. No guarantee he’s going to stick around to offer support
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 07:08 PM
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Oh I’m so so sorry. But you seem like a good man with a healthy view on life. You’ll have no trouble finding a nice woman when you’re ready. Good luck to you
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 06:58 PM
8

I think women should just go to a sperm bank if they want children
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 06:56 PM
1

I’m going to assume you are having a bad day and didn’t just decide to call some random woman on the internet lazy. But when a lot of women say they like toxic masculinity in the bedroom and that’s their kink, they may mean things like spanking, pulling my hair at the nape of my neck, dominating me, flipping me over, bending me over on the kitchen table, “let me sit in your lap daddy,” “I want to play pony” “do you like my new babydoll” (see through lingerie). “I’m sorry daddy, I’ll be a good gi…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 06:53 PM
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Of course women care about their reputation, absolutely. I don’t have a high body count because I was married for over 20 years and together for 4 years before we got married. But if I was single all these years, as a gen x woman, I would obviously have a higher body count because I like sex. And you are spot on about their personalities. They are not likeable and then how they attack and disparage women makes them absolutely repulsive. But generally I don’t believe in hookups and casual sex. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 06:44 PM
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It’s not about punishment/reward (Behave and get P). It’s about not insulting women. If a woman called you a name and was beyond disrespectful, would you want to have sex or a relationship with her? . Why would a woman want to sleep with a guy that calls her a slut or hates women? It’s disrespectful and unattractive. It should be obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 05:52 PM
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Awe, that’s the right attitude. I’m in the states and whatever is happening with our male population. They are Andrew Tate wannabes. American men don’t even try to be likable any more. Not all American men, of course. But enough Andrew tate men that I know lots of women just have given up dealing with these men. It’s exhausting. All they want to do is argue with you about feminism (even if you’re talking about something else). They just want to stick to gender war conversation 24/7 and well it’s…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 05:49 PM
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I’m not sure I follow exactly what you’re saying. But yeah, if I found a lesbian I was attracted to, I’d give it a go. And I’ve largely been a heterosexual mostly my whole life. The gender war stuff that’s going on right now with the manosphere has almost all of my girlfriends off of online dating and celibate. We have a standing happy hour at a local bar of over 20+ women now. And we decided to date ourselves. Maybe things will start changing now that Andrew tate is facing legal troubles and fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 04:32 PM
2

Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 04:25 PM
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Yeah these men who slut shame sound like losers. like mind your own business dude. First, no one asked you you’re opinion. Second, be careful who you slut shame especially if you’re a virgin incel, because she’s definitely not giving you any sex after you slut shamed her. Move it along men. Women don’t care what you think. They have their own financial means and their whole lives. Being an old cat lady doesn’t hit anymore. Hence the birth rates declining. We don’t want you. You just sound like b…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 04:25 PM
3

So lesbian women have more quality sex and heterosexual women have more quantity. I’d rather be a lesbian
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 04:17 PM
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I’d rather be lesbian. They go to the machine less often and get more
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 04:16 PM
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Well okay. However you wish to interpret it. You’re apparently the woman whisperer. A real charmer, good luck Casanova. Peace out
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 03:46 PM
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OP, have you actually had sex? With a woman? And more than once? Have you ever actually made a woman orgasm?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 02:46 PM
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Op is obsessed with height because he has little man syndrome. OP just wants a girl for sex and to control and abuse and give her minimal effort. He wants a woman as a toy for his pleasure and he wants to do the bare minimum to keep her around
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 02:44 PM
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Sounds to me like OP has never had sex with a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 02:31 PM
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Lol. This post makes me smile. The guy having premature ejaculation and the later erectile dysfunction…ladies, that’s the man’s personal problem. Don’t work with the man, just dump him. As OP seems to indicate that he doesn’t want a woman that takes longer to please. Seems to me OP might suffer from a certain amount of laziness and selfishness and doesn’t want to do the work. To each their own!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 02:28 PM
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And the ugly men aren’t any nicer.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 10:27 PM
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I agree with OP 100 percent. Some men outright blame feminism and say women need to lower their standards. Sir, the bar is on the floor. You’re not a protector or provider so stop the cap. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 10:15 PM
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I agree with all the points. Be attractive and also very important and crucial “don’t be unattractive!” Don’t smell, clean up after yourself, pull your weight. Don’t act dumb, helpless, like you don’t know how to do anything for yourself. Don’t be lazy. Pull your weight and don’t be a burden on your partner. Did I mention hygiene. Don’t be smelly. Don’t leave skid marks in the toilet. Don’t leave skid marks in your underwear. Don’t take a shit with the bathroom door open. Many women wish they di…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 10:11 PM
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I like toxic masculinity in the bedroom only. That’s my kink. Lol. Other than that. I pay my own way and don’t want a man moving into my house and barking orders and telling me what to do, etc. but yeah, bring that to the bedroom. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 10:01 PM
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The study is dishonest? Or I’m dishonest for quoting the study?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 09:47 PM
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Yep. I actually feel sorry for him. He probably spends so much time on here because he’s lonely. You should see his comment thread. Or I did feel sorry for him, but I can’t now because he’s obviously very dishonest
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 08:19 PM
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It’s a lesson learned on my part. I honestly thought he didn’t know or didn’t believe so i provided all those examples. But it became obvious he didn’t care about the actual facts of the argument when he fixated on this thread only. Dude, come on. That wasn’t the initial argument and he knows it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 08:12 PM
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It’s always dudes like him that can’t figure out why they’re alone and why they can’t get past the first date. This guy is beyond off putting. You say the sky is blue and you’re looking right at it and he will tell you it’s red. Lord baby Jesus. Some dudes literally deserve to to alone and have their genes weeded out of the gene pool. I learned my lesson. I just won’t respond to him anymore. What do you bet he engages with me on another thread with a throwaway handle. I’ve seen crazy for sure. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 08:08 PM
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Yeah. He’s right fighting to the extreme and just showing the extent he’s willing to go to to say “all men care to please a woman in bed”. Um yeah buddy, sure. You can waste time on this dude by giving examples and drawing a friggin diagram and he’s still not acknowledging the obvious facts for which you give examples. I just have to block a time suck like that. Some dudes just want to be “right” so very badly about literally everything. Unreal
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 07:52 PM
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I made my argument with plenty of examples. You couldn’t accept the examples and did a red herring of “that’s not from this thread”. Fresh and fit (the leaders of red pill) said women’s orgasms are not important (essentially saying they don’t care) and plenty of men in the comments on that video on YouTube on fresh an fir channel agreeing with Myron. They have a huge following and the subsequent video where Myron doubles down, plenty of men still agreeing with Myron. Alpha male strategies (AMS) …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 06:43 PM
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I see this constantly everywhere. The only women using men for a free meal are low class and instead of picking better women, men complain constantly. Here’s a concept, ask for separate checks when you order. And more importantly, ask her to go Dutch ahead of time and let her pick the restaurant that she can afford or send her the menu with the prices days ahead of time. And no 50/50, separate checks!. Why is she paying half the bill when you order a 20 ounce steak dinner and she only had a sala…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 05:07 PM
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This! Audacity is right! I see this constantly every where. The only women using men for a free meal are low class and instead of picking better women, they complain constantly. Here’s a concept, ask for separate checks when you order. And more importantly, ask her to go Dutch ahead of time and let her pick the restaurant that she can afford or send her the menu with the prices days ahead of time. And no 50/50, separate checks. Why is she paying half the bill when you order a 20 ounce steak dinn…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 05:06 PM
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Well being used for sex is arguably more tragic than being used for a meal. Women only get one body (stds, pregnancy, being potentially with an unsafe man who can physically hurt/kill you). She can’t earn or purchase a new body. He can earn more money, money is replaceable. Her body, it’s not replaceable. It’s hardly the same thing, by a long shot. Women should feel more hurt for being used for sex
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 04:55 PM
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I’m gen x and agree with number 1). For a long term relationship, men need to be useful. You may attract her with looks, status, money. But being useless is sooo unattractive. Don’t play dumb (weaponize incompetence) or be lazy
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 04:42 PM
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Okay. So some self awareness and accountability. That’s good. You now can objectively look back and see what you did wrong. Good
/r/ExRedPill31/08/23 03:59 PM
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I disagree. I have heard an average man say things to their wives or girlfriends face or about them that say that “oh well, she’ll come back etc”. And then when she files for divorce and never comes back, they are shocked.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:36 PM
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This is very true. Men don’t appreciate these women because they take them for granted because he didn’t have to work or put any effort to get her. People don’t appreciate things and people who just give them things and they don’t have to work or put effort in. There are tons of “pick mes” and they stay single because they are seen as easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:14 PM
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Awe. So she was obviously conning you then. It wasn’t just a couple little things. All those things add up into conning you. It’s her thought process. And I was married 20 years and 50/50 doesn’t work out as 50/50 to most women. My husband was over 200 pounds and I’m 130 pounds so he obviously ate more food and I did the vast majority of the chores and caregiving and unpaid labor and he wouldn’t even pick up let alone clean up after himself. So 50/50 was a scam in our relationship. Think about h…
/r/ExRedPill31/08/23 02:55 PM
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So then it just seems she was using you to a certain degree for money. If I was going to use a man for money though and go through all that effort (and get pregnant-huge commitment), I’d actually choose a man with money, not a 21 kid my own age (no offense). So seems like she might have been using you
/r/ExRedPill31/08/23 02:45 PM
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Oh well I guess that’s certainly relevant to the story. There’s your sign kiddo that she might expect you to pay for things. Lol
/r/ExRedPill31/08/23 01:16 PM
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Lol. So true! They say we don’t communicate, but they don’t listen and if they do listen, they don’t believe us and want to argue against what we are telling them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:15 PM
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Yep. Perhaps she thought you were in a transactional or traditional relationship. I don’t know her. Was her mom a stay at home mom or did she indicate before she got pregnant that she wanted to be a stay at home mom. Your comments seem to indicate that she thought she was going to be a stay at home mom after she got pregnant. I mean I wouldn’t be surprised if she doesn’t find a man that fits what she wants honestly. There is a big return to being conservative right now with men in the red pill s…
/r/ExRedPill31/08/23 01:13 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1654g7t/cmv_males_are_more_willing_to_sexually_please/jyfq5o9/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=1&utm_term=1&context=3
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 04:36 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1654g7t/cmv_males_are_more_willing_to_sexually_please/jyd5gte/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=1&utm_term=1&context=3
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 04:33 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1654g7t/cmv_males_are_more_willing_to_sexually_please/jydemzz/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=1&utm_term=1&context=3
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 04:30 AM
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Wait. Did we just over look that a whooping 20 percent of men. One fifth ….one in five men don’t consider doing oral sex on women is important.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 04:17 AM
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Yeah, both comments are were men take no accountability and shift the blame to women and don’t acknowledge that they are 2 pump chumps
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 04:09 AM
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Again. My point was that men don’t care and you’re focused on this thread like an autistic
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 04:07 AM
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Again with this thread. My argument was that men don’t care and you’ve decided to fixate on this thread. Are you autistic?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 04:06 AM
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What is your fixation with this thread. Why is that the focus when the point is there are plenty of people on reddit, purple pill subreddit and red pill gurus all saying the quiet part out loud and I supplied plenty of examples and you want me to look through this one thread and find comments on here of men that don’t care about women’s orgasms when they’re are millions of comments the world over. What is your crazy fixation with this thread. If I said thread earlier, I obviously meant subreddit…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 04:05 AM
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What is your fixation with this thread. I said plenty of men on reddit and plenty of red pill men and even the most popular gurus like fresh and fit and AMS on YouTube openly state that women don’t deserve orgasms and double down. And AMS says don’t give women oral sex on his YouTube channel and it’s well known to everyone on red pill and easy to find on YouTube and plenty of comments calling men simps who give oral or try to sexually please women. You just want to deny the truth and ask for pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 04:00 AM
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This person has a porn addiction which you claim is rare and he sent her out of the room
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:56 AM
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Women don’t like receiving bad oral, see there I fixed it for you
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:53 AM
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Talking to these men. They say women don’t communicate and he’s so obtuse that he talks by you without reading the words you’re telling him.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:50 AM
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She is communicating to you and you’re stubbornly demising it blol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:49 AM
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It’s precisely the point! But you stubbornly call it irrelevant. SMDH
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:48 AM
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Damn, she’s trying to school you and you’re being obtuse and stubborn. Lol. Time to listen up buddy!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:47 AM
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What is good about Myron of fresh and fit saying there’s no reason for women to orgasm and then doubling down and AMS telling men not to give women oral and the tater tots and Myron saying women deserve less. There are now whole articles of young women that have dated these red pill men and swearing off dating. Myself included. My niece, my girlfriends. Single and not ready to mingle. These red pill dudes did us a favor by saying the quiet part outloud
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 02:28 AM
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This one is lovely. “There isn’t an orgasm gap, women are making it up”. Lol. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/16554du/is_there_really_an_orgasm_gap_given_some_women/jycwaf6/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=1&utm_term=1&context=3
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 02:12 AM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:59 AM
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Body count is everywhere and that is slut shaming. Being a single mother is demonized. That’s slut shaming. Abortion- she should have kept her legs closed. That’s slut shaming. Etc
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:57 AM
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This guy apparently thinks the other guy who is talking about pleasing a woman is a “simp”. Lovely. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1654g7t/cmv_males_are_more_willing_to_sexually_please/jycpt0p/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=1&utm_term=1&context=3
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:48 AM
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2 x. Asking why they end up dating men who don’t care about their orgasm. https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/ukmzdf/how_do_people_end_up_dating_men_that_dont_care/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=1&utm_term=1
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:27 AM
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On 2 x. Women complaining. Why is women’s orgasm optional? https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/ufz1tz/why_are_womens_orgasms_seen_as_optional/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=1&utm_term=1
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:21 AM
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I picked out a random few. It’s hard to scroll millions of comments in a few minutes time and find just the perfect ones. But I have a good sampling so far
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:19 AM
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“The idea that men contribute to the gendered orgasm gap should be obvious, yet every time I write about it, I get comments from angry men. They complain that I’m abusing men, demanding orgasms, and blaming men for a woman’s problem. It doesn’t matter how many women are reading, nodding along, and saying, "Yes, this jives with my own experience." These guys? The angry men who insist the orgasm gap is just a myth? They don’t care about a woman’s experience. Which, of course, is part of the whole …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:18 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/sex/comments/s550dk/do_most_guys_not_care_if_a_woman_has_an_orgasm/hsvyg7p/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=1&utm_term=1&context=3
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:16 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1279ey0/you_are_responsible_for_your_orgasm_cmv/jed9jg9/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=1&utm_term=1&context=3
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:13 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1279ey0/you_are_responsible_for_your_orgasm_cmv/jefb33u/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=1&utm_term=1&context=3
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:54 AM
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ED. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1279ey0/you_are_responsible_for_your_orgasm_cmv/jee4ol1/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=1&utm_term=1&context=3
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:52 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1279ey0/you_are_responsible_for_your_orgasm_cmv/jedid8q/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=1&utm_term=1&context=3
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:49 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1279ey0/you_are_responsible_for_your_orgasm_cmv/jelzrwv/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=1&utm_term=1&context=3
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:48 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1279ey0/you_are_responsible_for_your_orgasm_cmv/jedi088/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=1&utm_term=1&context=3
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:46 AM
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So that was 20 percent or 1/5 of the male population who didn’t think giving their wife oral sex was important. And another red pill guru on YouTube and he wrote a book. AMS alpha male strategies says “she’s going to have to suck a whole lot of D” but advises men in many videos on his YouTube channel not to give a woman oral because “it’s too validating”. Then read the comments on his YouTube video of them agreeing not to “lick P”
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:40 AM
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Oh there was enough support for him and sure maybe they came back and deleted some comments on the original video on fresh and fit’s channel (not the drag video I sent you). There was enough support or Myron would have backpedaled and not doubled down. He’s just saying the quiet part outloud as to how a lot of men think
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:34 AM
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Here’s the original one and then he doubled down: https://youtu.be/E1lysjWTPc4?si=m3TVAVB400CIL0da. Obviously a lot of men in the red pill agree with Myron. Read the comments on the original fresh and fit video. Lots of men agreeing. https://youtu.be/E1lysjWTPc4?si=m3TVAVB400CIL0da
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:09 AM
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When I come across the next one, I’ll send you a screenshot. They are all over. Here is Myron doubling down https://www.reddit.com/r/Destiny/comments/zq0r9v/myron_doubles_down_on_not_having_to_please_women/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=1&utm_term=1
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:07 AM
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I obviously struck a nerve with you. But there are many men online who openly admit to being selfish. Myron of fresh and fit doubled down saying women don’t need orgasms and if you provide (a paycheck) that should be enough. I don’t think you’ve been following the red pill gurus. And purple pill is supposed to be half red pill and half blue pill. My husband thought he was supposed to do it like porn and he had a porn addiction and simply would not listen to me. I spent the majority of my marriag…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:05 AM
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Plus men are on this subreddit admitting they don’t even try to give a woman an orgasm if it’s just a hookup or she’s not a girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 11:49 PM
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Well men can actually learn on their own. Why wait for a woman to educate you. Read the book “she comes first”. Porn is bad sex education for men. Porn is about what a man likes not what a woman likes. Check out Jessica garner on YouTube about the poking pandemic perpetuated by porn. I know many men that do not know where the clit is located and ask them if there lady’s clit is hooded or not…blank stares! Dead giveaway! Dead giveaway. When is the last time you have a woman an orgasm? Is it every…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 11:47 PM
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I have no problem with either. But I’m sure there are likely some women who fit your description. But porn addiction, premature ejaculation, and erectile dysfunction are very real. Interesting the orgasm gap isn’t that wide with lesbian couples and the sex sessions are longer and more foreplay
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 11:07 PM
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Then I was married for 20+ years and well 50/50 doesn’t really work out so well for women like me. If you can imagine my husband drank and I don’t and he ate quite a bit more food and I did the majority of the chores and unpaid labor etc. so 50/50 was really a big scam for me long term. I would have been better off just to have had separate fridges and made my own food, etc. I would have come out ahead financially and time wise. So 50/50 sounds equitable and maybe it is in some relationships. Mo…
/r/ExRedPill30/08/23 07:32 PM
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My dad was born in 1914. Irish American. I’m female and from a farm community of 300. I was first year college and worked the family farm. Grew up near a large Amish community, went to a Baptist church. Town of 300. I didn’t have my own money. Just scholarships and farm money (money my dad gave me). That’s it. My dad ruled with an iron fist, but he was also kind. Needless to say, I didn’t go on many dates and I only had my first boyfriend after I had graduated college, moved to the city and had …
/r/ExRedPill30/08/23 07:14 PM
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I agree. But I don’t understand why he couldn’t just be a man and tell her no. No is a complete sentence. Come on, he paid for every date over and over again and not one holiday, but two. At some point, he needs to blame himself for not putting his foot down. And blame himself for not wearing a condom. He allowed her to take advantage of him. But what is he mom and dad’s relationship like, maybe her mom was a stay at home mom. OP should have set the expectation up front. Let her know she needed …
/r/ExRedPill30/08/23 07:07 PM
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I’m gen x. So this is a long time ago. You didn’t cross my dad. I wasn’t allowed to date until I was 18. I’m tiny, so I don’t eat much. The guy who asked me out was older by 5 or so years. Had a job, knew me for church, knew I didn’t have a job. College and farm kid. He was 6’3”. Easily 200 pounds. Ordered a 20 ounce steak dinner and a couple of beers. I was 19, so I couldn’t order alcohol. I had a small soda and a salad. I’m 135 pounds now. Likely 120 pounds then. My dad was hot!
/r/ExRedPill30/08/23 06:59 PM
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I missed the part about calling him names. But okay. Op could have said no to her at any point. In fact, OP went back to her after a break up
/r/ExRedPill30/08/23 06:52 PM
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I mean, how did OP expect her to pay on dates knowing she was unemployed and why did he wait for her to offer to pay instead of asking her upfront? I had an older guy ask me out on a date when I was 19. I was a late bloomer. I had emergency money on me (in my shoe) as always. But my dad and mom were very surprised that this older guy from our church asked me on a date (knowing I was an unemployed college student living at home) and he didn’t say anything about Dutch or anything up front and I wa…
/r/ExRedPill30/08/23 06:48 PM
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Oh I agree. I can’t say for sure she is toxic or conning him. It could be that they are both kids and she is immature and has unrealistic expectations. She doesn’t fit the mold of a gold digger. A gold digger doesn’t put out that soon, targets a sugar daddy and would not get pregnant before marriage
/r/ExRedPill30/08/23 06:40 PM
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They are both kids, she had unrealistic expectations. Maybe she is toxic and wrong. I don’t really know that I have exact proof of that. If she was a gold digger, then she would have gone for a sugar daddy and not gotten pregnant.
/r/ExRedPill30/08/23 06:29 PM
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Deserve implies earned
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 05:59 PM
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Look up the dictionary definition of deserve. Deserve is to earn something. Takers don’t earn or deserve anything. But they take nonetheless
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 05:50 PM
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Deserves. A serial killer doesn’t deserve. He just takes. Look up the dictionary definition of deserve
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 05:48 PM
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I don’t know if she’s toxic. My mom was a stay at home mom, there’s nothing wrong with that. But you want a woman that works and pays her own way. Just be upfront about that next time and don’t date a traditional woman who expects you to pay. She obviously wanted to start a family, hence the pregnancy. Your ex needs to be with a traditional man, not you. You need to be with a working woman. You’re not a match. I think if your ex lied to you and said she would pay you back and didn’t, that’s obvi…
/r/ExRedPill30/08/23 05:45 PM
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But you did get sex, so it’s not like you got nothing in return. But cut her off and learn from this. A lot of men and women are content with traditional relationships. That’s not you, you want a woman that works and pays her own way. Be sure to set the expectation up front next time. There’s nothing wrong with a woman wanting to be a stay at home mom either. My mom was.
/r/ExRedPill30/08/23 05:37 PM
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Cut her off. Learn from this.
/r/ExRedPill30/08/23 05:35 PM
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OP only has himself to blame. No one made him date an unemployed girl and no one made him pay for everything and no one raped him and forced him to get her pregnant. OP is an adult at 21. Some women are traditional and expect men to pay. He should have asked her if she was like that before they dated. Now if she had lied to him, that would be different. Obviously an unemployed person probably can’t pay for much, that should have been obvious to OP
/r/ExRedPill30/08/23 05:28 PM
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I think what OP means and how I interpret the word “deserve”. Is you deserve things you earn. A con artist doesn’t deserve what he stole, by moral standards
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 05:19 PM
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Well the serial killer puts on a mask of normalcy and charm and cons his prey by being likeable in those moments. Sure. True. No one likes boring. Men don’t like boring girls either
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 05:17 PM
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Is this about earning or about taking? Serial killers kill, rapists rape, con artists con, robbers rob
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 04:57 PM
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Well a serial killer gets the results the serial killer wants…to kill (men - Jeffrey dahmer and women - btk, bundy). But we aren’t talking about killing
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 04:55 PM
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Yep. Stay celibate. Why bother dating if you already view it as exhausting and not worth it. It’s not fair to the women you would date. You can’t change other people. You can only change yourself. If you feel like dating women is banging your head on a brick wall. Do yourself and the woman a favor and leave her alone
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 03:07 PM
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It’s fine to disagree. I can bring myself to orgasm and so can my girlfriends. It’s actually pretty rare for a woman not to be able to make herself orgasm. Sure, if she had female mutilation (clit removed). Many women I know have admitted to masturbating in the shower or in the guest room after sex and he went to sleep. As to not hurt their husbands feelings. I don’t know how old you are, but I’m gen x. I’m definitely old enough to know and I have a psychology background so women do talk to me a…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 03:00 PM
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I think constant crying would annoy anyone. Mother’s get exhausted from a colicky baby. But at least he’s useful and a problem solver, a doer that is intelligent and not lazy
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 01:56 PM
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I was married for 20 years. I can assure you there is a very real orgasm gap and so can all of my girlfriends attest to this and most men on this subreddit, if they are being honest, know they are not hitting a home run every time they are up to bat. Stop the cap OP
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 12:50 PM
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Kiddo, it’s honestly going to be better for you to stay single. You’ve conveyed you don’t want the hassle of dealing with female emotions. You’re not going to change women or their hormones. Become gay or stay celibate and just avoid women
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 12:37 PM
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The orgasm gap disproves this post. Men are not hitting home runs in the bedroom
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 12:23 PM
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Serial killers are less than one percent of the population. But sure try to make your argument for the masses based on the tiniest of rare exceptions. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 12:21 PM
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THIS!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 12:20 PM
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OP is spot on. Women don’t owe these lazy bums sex
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 12:18 PM
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In your post, you describe in detail your sexual experience and lack their of and detail your one situationship and a couple of hookups, that’s it and then state you have never had a girlfriend. Asking for advice and just describing your overall lack of experience. I surmise you’d have a girlfriend by now if you new what you were doing relationship and sex wise. But somehow you feel the need to give others advice for which you’re clearly not qualified to give. All I did was state the obvious. Yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 11:57 AM
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You again? Lol. Just agreeing with what you said kiddo. Would you feel shame if I sent this to your mom? Nothing you do on the internet is private kiddo, I hope you know that
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 11:53 AM
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You whole post is about how to get a girlfriend because you haven’t had one and you detailed the limited experience you’ve had
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 04:11 AM
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You said it, incel
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 04:09 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/14r0t83/women_what_do_you_think_of_men_who_have_never_had/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=1&utm_term=1
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 11:01 PM
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First of all, you’re 24. Second of all, you posted you never had a girlfriend and you never said it’s because you’re too picky and have standards. You asked for advice because you can’t get a girlfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 11:00 PM
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You’re writing me a novel like you know something when you’ve never been in a relationship (again, by your own admission). You’re not an authority on anything. You’re 24 years old and can’t get a girlfriend (again that’s your post)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 10:58 PM
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Yes you said you were sexually experienced
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 10:28 PM
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You told on yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 10:26 PM
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You whole post was that you couldn’t get any and that you’re sexually inexperienced and were asking for advice. Now you’re trying to spin it the other way around
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 10:25 PM
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True of course
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 10:24 PM
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You’re silly kiddo. You’ve admitted to never having a girlfriend. Yet tried to take me to school. Um I can get sex, why would I take advice from a kid who admits he can’t get sex or a relationship? You can’t be serious?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 10:23 PM
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Kiddo. You ain’t hitting nothing but your hand. Again from your own admission
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 10:19 PM
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I was married for 20 years and by your own admission, “you’ve never had a girlfriend”. But you know everything and you’re going to take me to school when you obviously have very limited sexual experience…again by your own admission.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 10:18 PM
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You can delete your post, but I’ve copied it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 10:16 PM
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You’ve posted that you’ve never had a girlfriend. I’m old enough to be your mom. Honestly what do you have to teach me kiddo when you have admitted on Reddit that you’ve never been in a relationship. You have a lot of growing up don’t you think? Kiddo
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 10:11 PM
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No used talking to a brainwashed card carrying meni-nazi. Paul Elam wannabe. It’s pointless talking to someone that’s so brainwashed
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 10:05 PM
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A stranger’s comments aren’t getting to me, weird comment And here we go “men have it worse!”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 10:00 PM
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Well if you followed my whole thread, you’d know that wasn’t the only thing I said. Probably porn use in men is number one
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 09:59 PM
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Boyfriends and husbands slut shame their partners all the time about the way they dress etc. they also slut shame other women to their partners all the time about body count, single moms, abortion “keep your legs closed”. Body shame them about weight and what they are eating, suggest boob jobs, tummy tucks. Men are good at picking women apart. I’m not saying all men. I’m not saying women don’t nitpick their men too about things. Society goes after women hard, constant slut shaming. Blaming the v…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 09:11 PM
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I don’t recommend having kids out of wedlock. But I also think marriage is a raw deal and particularly so to women. I just think women really need to be extra careful before they have kids with a man. I just don’t think marriage and kids is worth the risk at all
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 06:38 PM
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Marriage is not a good deal for women either. I recommend no one ever get married. Just don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 06:36 PM
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Well you can seek out and get educated on your own. Read the book “she comes first”. Do you know where her clit is located and what it looks like? Most men have blank stares when I ask them the last time they made a woman orgasm. And what her clit looks like, where the clit is located (they can’t answer basic anatomy questions), you ask them whether their lady’s clit is hooded or not…blank stares, dead giveaway! Also check out Jessica garner on TikTok and YouTube. She talks about the “poking pan…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 06:32 PM
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Exactly. Resentment from doing everything while he’s lazy and does nothing. Just boiled my blood
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 06:21 PM
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I don’t think women are happier single until they have been scarred by a significantly bad or abusive relationship and then they just feel happier alone afterwards. I don’t think men and women are happy being single, but a lot of people have just decided that it’s not worth it to try for a relationship anymore so they’ve decided to be happy being single. That’s me. I’ll never remarry or ever allow a man to move in with me. I’ve only been married once. For 20 years. Never lived with anyone else o…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 03:45 PM
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I am following the rules. It’s an obvious gaslight. Every one here knows it. Talking out both sides his face. Men think they should be rewarded with sex for everything. Pay 20 dollars for the girls dinner, men think she owes him sex on the first date. That line was a gaslight. Saying it wasn’t what it is
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 01:58 PM
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Nope. “Are you rewarded with hot sex?” That’s the main point. Not the “I’m not a bad guy, let me prove it with a disclaimer throw away line.” Let’s call a spade a spade, shall we?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 01:35 PM
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Well everyone else knows it’s a disingenuous throw away line…. The title says “rewarded with sex”. The disclaimer of we know you don’t do it for sex is meaningless backpedal and we all know it. Don’t insult my intelligence with your psycho babble
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 01:32 PM
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The title says “rewarded with sex”. The disclaimer of we know you don’t do it for sex is meaningless backpedal and we all know it. Don’t insult my intelligence with your psycho babble
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 01:28 PM
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What did I “ignore”?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 01:27 PM
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I think men don’t listen and especially don’t listen during sexy time and also premature ejaculation and not doing foreplay beforehand. They act like hungry starving men and instead of putting their fork down between bites and savoring the experience, they rush and then it’s over with in 5 minutes and the girl got nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 01:21 PM
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Women are attracted to men they can respect, that have the same values, etc. doing what’s right and standing up for equality and women’s rights would stand to make any man more attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 01:12 PM
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Not trolling, disagreeing. There’s a difference
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 01:10 PM
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Sex isn’t a prize to be given out for good behavior. Cringe as F
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 12:37 PM
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Shouldn’t standing up for what’s right (equality) be it’s own reward?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 12:30 PM
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? I don’t understand the rudeness myself honestly. These people pay my paycheck.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 12:16 PM
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That sounds cool. It’s not a money thing. I’ve always made more money than any guy I dated and I pay my own way or take turns picking up the bill. It’s just my position in life, poor manners sticks out amongst upper class. Even my husband of 20 years, his manners got worse, not better and then he didn’t like that I didn’t invite him to events. And well I’m around upper class for work, but I’m not upper class myself. Just middle upper class (still a worker bee) and it’s difficult to find someone …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 02:19 AM
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Whichever. Men nowadays are meni-nazis and hate feminists so they have lost all sense of decorum and well they think they are making a statement against feminism. But the upper class don’t see it that way, they look at the working class as lesser already. I just go stag as a single lady now. At my status and position in life, I can’t depend on a date to act right
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 02:07 AM
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Well since this is purple pill. A mix between red pill and blue pill. Red pill advocates for low body count for women, but for men to spin plates and have a rotation. Rollo, fresh and fit, Andrew Tate, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 01:20 AM
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Um nope. Slut shaming a woman and slut shaming a man is two very different things. Men openly Brag about how many women they have slept with and will often inflate that number. OP is trying to equivocate and yeah, no. Fail. Try again
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 12:52 AM
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You should get your own lawyer for help in negotiating a fair deal on your behalf with a prenup
/r/ExRedPill28/08/23 11:07 PM
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So he thinks you should be homeless if you get divorced and he takes all the money? I’m not against a prenup, but it has to be fair and reasonable or don’t get married at all. You may love him, but it doesn’t seem like he loves you at all
/r/ExRedPill28/08/23 11:05 PM
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I’m not. No one I know has a hot guy. I’m socially embarrassed if my man doesn’t have basic manners in public. Chivalry. Not opening my door and stuff like that. Especially bad if I’m with my boss and her husband has impeccable manners and does all that. Lacking basic manners in public. Ugh. Blowing nose at table etc. not pulling out my chair at a formal dinner, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 09:28 PM
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Sex is worth more than attention. The risk to women is still too high.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/23 08:11 PM
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Lol. I knew I stepped off in it with “superior master race”.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 06:39 PM
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“Superior master race”. Yikes, I’ve engaged with a full fledged cult member. Abort abort
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 06:11 PM
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Yep. Op is watching too much porn
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 05:38 PM
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You’re half woman. You started out in the womb female, hence your nipples and your C chromosome. Women are the mold
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 05:32 PM
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And this is why women aren’t giving men sex. OP wants sex, but doesn’t think men should pay for “bastard” children they sire. SMH. Single moms didn’t become single moms from emaculate conception. 7.2 million men of prime working age have essentially dropped out of the workforce. The unemployment rate is actually lower by 0.2 percent as of July 2023. And with women being the primary caregivers to children and their elderly parents, etc. unemployment rate for women 3.4, men 3.6. Id rather pay a me…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 05:30 PM
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Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 02:26 AM
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I think if they make them pay, a lot of women will not go on their apps
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 11:59 PM
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Agafia is a woman that has lived alone for many many years in the Siberian wilderness. If something happens to your husband and he dies, you have to be able to take care of yourself and any kids you would have. It’s not about being “allowed,”. If a man truly truly loves his wife and kids, he will teach her and the kids everything he knows so she doesn’t die or starve to death after he’s gone. Any man that wants to limit and control their wives to the point that they limit their self sufficiency …
/r/ExRedPill27/08/23 02:32 PM
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I’m the opposite. I think there needs to be a true girls night, not there to flirt with the boys. Guys don’t dance anyways and we all came to get on the dance floor and stay there all night. So I’m lucky, my group of gals, we are there to dance and have fun, not look for men at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 11:55 AM
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It’s a red pill saying, but when he said it, I didn’t know he got it from the red pill. Doesn’t matter, doesn’t excuse it, he’s a grown man, he’s finding out now that I’m not texting him back. Every time he texts me, I just reply like a broken record “you’re scum”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 11:50 AM
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Not always, true
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 11:48 AM
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True
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 10:22 PM
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I’m not disagreeing with you. There are obviously a lot of situations that fit what you described
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 10:22 PM
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Well I essentially agreed. Look at melania and trump. He got a trophy wife and she got a wallet
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 09:34 PM
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I know HR people and other managers and a lot of the inappropriate red pill slang has been typed in company emails disparaging female coworkers. I know men who have misused company computers to be on red pill on Reddit. Mis used company internet and misused company email and I know some red pill guys have been fired for it. So the red pill incel fringe cringe stuff has made it into real life and these men are getting in trouble at work because they are watching Andrew Tate or fresh and fit on co…
/r/ExRedPill26/08/23 09:33 PM
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Well there are some ratchet women as well, true. Was that your only point “but women are worse!”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 09:29 PM
0

But these men don’t see the hypocrisy of going to a prostitute and then wanting their wife to be pure
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 09:27 PM
2

I can understand that
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 09:26 PM
1

Lol. Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 09:23 PM
4

Most women are attracted to their partners . And then over the years men (and women) do unattractive things that turn their partners off. Men, poor hygiene. Women gain weight. Men, get lazy, act dumb. Etc
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:32 PM
2

If they say the phrase “body count”. We’re done. And honestly I was a late bloomer and married for 20+years and together 4 years before that. So my body count is in fact very low. But even if it was higher, why is that anyone’s business? It’s cringe. Even if you say 3 people and your pushing 50 years old, there is some douche that thinks you should be a virgin at my age. It makes no sense and really is a form of slut shaming. We just have to call things what they are. And they “deserve to know t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:29 PM
2

Take a cooking class, volunteer, a french language class, a yoga class, Eventbrite likely has things in your area
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 05:59 PM
0

Honestly what all women should say just to eff with their minds is like 300 or a 1000. Say it with a straight face and look them in the eye when you do it. Blow these trolls out of the effing water. Shock them to death! Because I’m either saying “none of your business” or I’m taking my number times 10 at a minimum or times a hundred to really eff their minds up Because sometimes you have to troll a troll
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 05:48 PM
2

I just tell them none of their business.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 05:46 PM
3

Yep. I’m so tired of hearing the new male slutshaming tactic of body count. So cringe. But these same men would totally go to a prostitute. So clearly they don’t care if some women have a high body count. It’s just about controlling women, that’s all. It’s a shaming tactic and honestly it’s none of their business
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 05:26 PM
1

Just telling you the truth and what every other woman would think of your disrespectful commentary about women. You should absolutely be ashamed. I know you would if I sent that comment to your boss or your mom. You’d be friggin embarrassed. Nothing you do on the internet is private. People can and will dox you. You should absolutely be ashamed
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 03:50 PM
1

Well a male taking instead of being given where a gold digger isn’t outright taking or stealing. A gold-digger manipulates you into giving. Sexual assault, rape, inappropriate touching all implies taking, stealing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 03:41 PM
3

Oh sure. Women can be entitled and narcissistic just as men can.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 03:36 PM
5

Cringe. I can always spot a cringe red pill inceler cult member by the cringe lingo. 304flation. The view you have of women. I hope women steer clear of you. Awful excuse for a human being
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 03:35 PM
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You’re correct about that scenario. But I do think that guys are not “in love” with every woman they find sexually attractive and I feel that it’s probably important for me to have at least one or two female friends in their life. Now if it causes issues with your new girlfriend then you will likely need to cut it off etc. but don’t you have co workers that are female that are kinda friends. Isn’t it healthy to get a female perspective on some things from time to time?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 03:32 PM
1

I’m a woman and I think marriage is a scam for women too. It doesn’t mean he’s committed to you and the children and he can up and abandon you all in a matter of hours. Women would be better off getting advanced degrees. Having no more than 2 or 3 children spaced enough apart that it’s not such a burden in terms of time and energy and being ultimately prepared when it doesn’t work out. I’m for forgoing the institution of marriage altogether.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 03:19 PM
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I’ve never heard of having sex so bad that you couldn’t remain friends or friendly acquaintances. Lol. But I believe you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 03:16 PM
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Well women get upset because we are hoping a man might like us for more than sex. You know just like another human being. But you’re correct, no one owes another person friendship or attention in the same way she didn’t owe you sex. Women feel a connection to a man and well they get upset when they find out that he’s only after P and cares nothing about her otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 01:27 PM
0

Sounds like you don’t hit any home runs in the bedroom and are bitter about it. Lol. I guess I hit a nerve?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 01:21 PM
1

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 01:20 PM
3

Oh definitely. But I saw something interesting when I was younger. A ton of girlfriends, once they had a boyfriend would ditch girls nights etc. you’d never see them. I’m happy to see the young women out in groups doing things without men. I don’t think there is anything wrong with wanting a romantic partnership, but I always feel it’s vital to prioritize friends and family. They are who you’ll have left. Because so many relationships don’t work out long term
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 01:20 PM
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OP. I think for some men, it’s not just sex. I heard about men who have the new AI girlfriend and well what happened? Many men, too many IMO, started viciously abusing their AI girlfriend. Now men can’t do that with their male friends or it could lead to physical fights. I’m not saying all men, but to some men…they want sex, but also power and control over a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 01:17 PM
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Lol OP. The orgasm gap is real. Many many men don’t realize that they are providing orgasms in the bedroom and that many of us masturbate after sex, after he goes to sleep or leaves. And to men, sex with a woman is arguably better than Masturbating but to so many women, masturbating becomes our only option to orgasm. Hence I do believe this plays a large role in dead bedroom. But society and men have slut shamed us so badly with “body count” and other slut shaming tactics that we don’t feel comf…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 12:56 PM
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Yep!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 11:48 AM
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Agree with OP. I was married 20 years and thought he would want to go do things. Nope. I went on girl’s trips while I was married because he didn’t want to do anything but stay home and watch tv.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 11:39 AM
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Exactly, but they have no qualms about going to a prostitute. It is mental gymnastics.
/r/ExRedPill26/08/23 11:34 AM
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Yes to both number 1 and number 2. Read the book “she comes first”. It’s about oral sex. However, I have to be attracted to the man and comfortable and in a relationship before sex happens. I don’t do hookups, don’t do online dating (too scary), etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 11:41 PM
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Men being lazy around the house. Men acting dumb like they don’t know how to do basic things. Women are attracted to intelligent hardworking men who pull their weight and don’t need a mommy. Women don’t want to eff their sons. Men should never become a helpless idiot. This is also important. The orgasm gap. Um gentlemen. What’s her clit look like? Is it hooded or not? (Blank stares, dead giveaway!). When is the last time she had an orgasm? Is sex over when you orgasm and leave her hanging like t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 11:31 PM
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Well you’re kind of getting there. Not really though. Rich men have the money and the power, the world over. Hardly any women have the level of money and power rich men have. The Saudis are the richest men. How bout the Saudi women? Saudis own majority shares in a lot of United States companies. At least 10 percent of Citibank and that was years ago. So rich men pretty much control everything. A small subset of modern women in certain places like the United States have “equal” rights and this bo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 11:16 PM
1

Sounds like they are playing hard to get. Enjoying you chase them, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 04:59 PM
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I’m jealous, never been to France. My soon to be ex husband is French Canadian. I’m old though. Old enough to be your mom. But I’m glad you’re taking care of yourself and swing dancing is fun. It’s been years, but my husband and I took lessons.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 02:58 PM
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Sorry kiddo. Have you thought about getting out and meeting women. French night class at the community college. Cooking class. Eventbrite has meet ups. Runners club etc. speed dating events etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 02:52 PM
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Good for you. That’s healthy. Be good to each other
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 02:50 PM
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Well I’m still heartbroken, but I had to break up with him. One of the last arguments. Right before sex, right when he was starting to climb over me, he said “she’s not yours, it’s just your turn”. Needless to say I pushed him off, got my clothes on and kicked him out if my house. I told him to Gtfo now. This is my second boyfriend from my early twenties. The guy I dated before my husband. I separated from my husband and got divorced after 20 years (red pill games there too) and I reconnect with…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 02:03 PM
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My ex went red pill. And I have a hard on for him atill but can’t be with him because he’s abusive. So nope. The minute I get a whiff of that red pill stank, I’m out. And I’m all for submitting in the bedroom, that’s my kink
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 01:44 PM
2

Well obviously there are female villains. Silly question
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 01:34 PM
2

Exactly!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 01:33 PM
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Yeah and I report any YouTuber that says anything misogynistic or says women should “submit”. I figure since fresh and fit were demonetized. I’m going to try to get as many other videos demonetized. I think women have been too tolerant. But we need to take what ever action available to get them de platformed. Strike while the iron is hot. Rollo. All these men and women like pearly things spreading hate, indoctrinating the next generation of young men. We have to do whatever we can to lessen thei…
/r/ExRedPill25/08/23 01:03 PM
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Because since we don’t need men, men have to be likable. And well men are finding out our moms and grandmas had to tolerate them. We have the choice to be happy and aren’t forced to have to tolerate these men. But instead of these men deciding to be likeable. They are double tripling down on right wing misogynistic narrative of the 1950s. Modern women are looking at you crazy and taking a hard pass. We ain’t submitting to no one. These men saying women should submit. It’s so cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 12:59 PM
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We can’t change these men. Don’t waste your time and energy. It’s just best to avoid them. Let them die on the vine. You’ll only be frustrated. Women would do better having hobbies and girlfriends. Marriage or a relationship with men like that is where these women will just be actively abused. These men hate women. There ain’t nothing you can do to change their minds. Just leave them alone. Sometimes people really do deserve complete silence. Maybe after years of no women talking to them or touc…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 12:55 PM
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I don’t do online dating and never have. If a guy doesn’t talk to me in real life. Nothing will happen. I’m not “pretty”. Not ugly. Just plain Jane. 135 pounds. I’m gen x. I don’t see the point of online dating at all. I’ve never been so lonely or desperate that as a woman, I would consider that. Too dangerous. I’d rather be alone than ever take that risk. All you hear on the news is kidnapping, rape, human trafficking. Also all my single girlfriends, even millennials, stopped online dating year…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 12:47 PM
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These red pillers are creating a new normal. The American Taliban. If women go along with this virgin at 30 years old and don’t pose in a bikini when you’re a surf instructor nonsense, we might as well give up and wear burqas. These men are actively slut shaming women and we are not doing enough to push back. Pretty soon we will look like Afghanistan. No offense, I respect other religions, but I’m not a Muslim. I don’t like what is happening with the crazy alt right and red pillers. Fresh and fi…
/r/ExRedPill25/08/23 12:34 PM
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Hug. I’m not ready to kiss on the first date
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 02:41 AM
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Sorry I don’t feel like going on that particular tangent. I’m out. I’m tired.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 02:38 AM
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I’m lost. Women are different than men. What is there, like one serial killer or something. Generally we are more caring and nurturing. It’s our biology. We are care givers. Not all women of course. But there is biological differences between men and women. Jordan Peterson quotes scientific studies about women being agreeable and men being disagreeable
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 02:36 AM
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Asking a woman what she brings to the table is a gaslight. The majority of the men on this subreddit are obsessed with women and us women find it entertaining how obsessed you are with us. Asking us what we bring to the table. We ain’t out here paying for D*ck. D is free. All day, every day. D is of low value. You men are literally killing yourselves. For some P. Read the incel manifestos. A guy asking women what they bring to the table is a guy obsessed with women. Ask men why they are obsessed…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 02:15 AM
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Look ask any bisexual woman. We can get D*ck thrown at us all day long. D is of low value. Women are of high value. Why is P high value, because it’s hard to get. Ask all the incels. Ask the men that have to pay a prostitute to get it. Women don’t have to pay for D. It’s free, all day everyday
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 02:10 AM
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It’s like gambling. You put attention coins in and are hoping it pays out. You’re cursed by you biology. Women don’t get off Scott free. We get many years of periods and all kinds of issues to deal with in terms of our biology. You have to play the hand you’re dealt
/r/TheRedPill25/08/23 02:04 AM
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Men are only “giving” free attention because they are hoping to get “p*ssy”. Ain’t nothing free and women and men know it
/r/TheRedPill25/08/23 01:58 AM
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Dude this question is asked all the time by people that have no qualifications to be asking. Obviously we are of some value to some men. Men literally kill over women. Women are the 3rd most trafficked I’m the world behind drugs and guns. Men put a high price on women, otherwise their wouldn’t be a black market on us. Kidnapping and trafficking and rape are at an all time high. Read these incel manifestos. Some men are crazy for women. Literally nutso for women. And I have no idea why men go so …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 01:54 AM
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The prisoners dilemma is who will rat each other out first for early parole. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 01:12 AM
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You’re my hero!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 12:36 AM
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And honestly women must have some value to men. Women are the third most trafficked behind drugs and guns. Y’all men are literally killing yourselves over us!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 12:24 AM
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This!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 12:23 AM
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Nada. To some men, they see zero value in women and to those men I say “go your own way! Peace out!” Mgtow. If woman are of no value to you, then leave women alone and please stop asking us what we bring to the table. First of all, who are you to even ask that? The sense of entitlement men must have to be this pompous. The audacity. Go your own way! Peace out!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 12:23 AM
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I get what you’re saying to a point. But I would challenge you to have your own standards for yourself. Women don’t like desperate men anymore than men like desperate women. If a woman will sleep with you on the first date, what does that say about her? Stop eating McDonald’s and hold out for a steak dinner. In my experience, it’s worth the wait. And to me, I’d rather starve than eat McDonald’s. Meaning I’m content to be alone because I simply cannot force myself to just sleep with any guy and n…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 12:18 AM
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Well right before that, I did say “not being home on time for dinner
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 12:13 AM
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“Safest”. - stds. You can still get stds with a condom. Herpes, crabs, etc. condom can bust or come off and pregnancy and everything imaginable. Be careful out there. Just because a woman will sleep with you on the first date, doesn’t mean you should. If you’re hungry right now, are you so hungry you’ll eat a McDonald’s hamburger or can you wait for a properly cooked steak. I guess I’d rather starve then eat McDonald’s. That’s all I’m saying kiddo. Challenge yourself to have standards, your own …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 12:12 AM
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You are spot on!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 10:31 PM
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Yuck. I wish men looked at sex differently. You’re body isn’t a garbage pail. It’s a temple. Be discerning and choosy about who you sleep with. A girl that will sleep with you on that first date should be a turn off to men. Stop dogging your own selves out. You only have one body, you have to take care of it. It literally should be disgusting for men too to have sex on the first date. I’m not trying to be judgmental. But if you don’t take care of your own body, no one else will and again you rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 10:26 PM
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They are in the F around and find out part of the program. They are finally finding out. Lol
/r/ExRedPill24/08/23 09:29 PM
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Well it’s not the going to the bar thing necessarily. But getting shit faced and driving drunk and going there after work abruptly when your wife actually puts in effort to cook a proper meal after a working a full day as well, picking kids up, and going to grocery store. It’s not that men can’t have their man time. It’s just being considerate of your spouse
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 09:19 PM
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I agree with you mostly but I’m against hookups and casual sex. I think both men and women should slow down
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 09:16 PM
1

Oh true. But the gender war nonsense has to stop. Men need to figure out that it’s rich men in power, not those pesky feminists. Women only recently gained any power and riches to amount to much. Don’t kid yourself, American men could rise up and Taliban us women at anytime. But they are so focused on us pesky women. And we have no real power. Not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 08:35 PM
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I don’t really know. I’ve been married for 20 years and was a late bloomer. I only had 2 boyfriends before I met my husband and when I split from my husband, I started talking (flirting) with the boyfriend I had before I got married. But after a few months of chatting/flirting. He was brainwashed totally by the red pill, and he was raging and angry. He seemed like he really wanted me, said he wanted to be my boyfriend again and then would yell at me and feminists and just kinda crazy stuff. I th…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 08:31 PM
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Feminism is fighting for women’s equality. Like cancer research is researching cancer and not HIV. Why do women have to do everything. We work full time. Most of us our single mothers and also raise grandchildren and take care of elderly parents and men are usually in bad health and we take care of our husbands when they are old and crippled. I don’t think you get it. Most women I know do a ton for men and children and elderly parents and work full time. What else can we women do for you sir in …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 07:19 PM
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You said hardcore feminists have promoted, justified as an acceptable code for society at the expense of men’s mental health. I’m not saying there isn’t some toxic feminism. Every movement has good and bad. But I seriously don’t think feminism is what is oppressing men. I think it’s rich men oppressing poor men. Not saying feminism is 100 percent perfect by any means. No movement is 100 percent perfect. But yeah. I’m happy to have a job, a bank account, somewhat equal rights, somewhat equal pay …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 07:15 PM
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Well why do men want feminists to fight for them. We’re feminists. Cancer researchers don’t research HIV aids. You have a movement, the men’s rights movement, Meninists. Meni-nazis. Why is it women’s jobs to take care of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 07:08 PM
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Well I don’t know how to quantify that, do you have specific things you want to know? I’d say if I’m really into a guy, well I’m hoping he will be really into me and well if he is like meh to me, well meh feels like rejection to me and I’ll self abort. Like if I send him a few texts and then 3 days later, he responds with one word and does stuff like that says he’s not interested. I’m just going to tell him. Look I don’t feel you’re really interested and I don’t think this will work
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 07:06 PM
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Well why not be useful then? Form or join labor unions, organize, run for office, etc. why not be useful. You dog doesn’t deserve to be kicked. Feminists didn’t do anything to you. Women are just out here working hard just like you and trying to survive. You think I could tell anyone I’m a feminist. I worked as a plant manager for a garage door manufacturer for 5 years of mostly men and I had to suck it up. I’m not “pretty”. I’m just a plain Jane. Came up poor. Wore steel toes and full ppe and w…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 07:00 PM
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If the shoe fits. It’s not feminism that is oppressing men. It is rich men who have rigged the system and they are oppressing the poor working man. But instead of seeing the real matrix for what it is, you blame women and feminism. Women have done nothing to you. Women just want equal pay for equal work. To have a bank account in our name. Marital rape was only outlawed federally in the mid to late nineties. There was no laws against sexual harassment when I started working. My boss could grope …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 06:50 PM
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No. I don’t expect him to want me right away. Just show some interest and Vice versa and attraction grows. But I don’t want to be dating a guy and after several months, he’s like meh about me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 06:46 PM
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You’re whole post proves my point, men hate women
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 06:41 PM
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I don’t understand why men are so Focused on punching down at women. Just because your boss is an asshole at work, does that make it okay to come home and kick your dog who has done nothing to you? Men should work on forming labor unions, etc. the issue is the poor men are being exploited by the rich men (not women). Women are just trying to survive just like men. But no, you men, instead of organizing labor unions and actually doing something are punching down. Kicking the dog. Women have done …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 06:40 PM
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I’m not going to explain the baby steps of the courting process. You’re being silly and asking ridiculous questions where the answers are obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 06:32 PM
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Huh. What a strange line of questioning
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 06:31 PM
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Well after we get to know each other. But if he shows zero interest in me to begin with, then I’m going to discontinue seeing him obviously. Everyone knows attraction grows
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 05:59 PM
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Yes. I want a guy who really wants me. Not one who is meh about me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 05:17 PM
1

Well I think it’s a tradition that needs to be explored and certainly if parents don’t wish to have their sons circumcised, then they shouldn’t. I’m not for banning though because people have their beliefs and should decide what’s best for their child. But I do think sex would be better for women (even though I have no real proof, just my thought) because women have hooded and non hooded clits and women with hooded clits have reported it takes longer to orgasm. Jessica garner says on TikTok and …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 04:21 PM
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No dispute there. Lol. But I do think there’s a rise in misogyny and red pill or abusive men. It’s like a not so hidden anger and resentment towards women. But yet, they won’t leave women alone. I hear a lot of men joke and say “women, can’t live with us, can’t live without us”. But I think to some men, they really wish they didn’t need sex and could just play video games and not be bothered by a wife and children at all. They want the sex, but not the relationship and responsibility. I honestly…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 03:05 PM
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I was married for twenty years. I have only two personal experiences. I was a late bloomer and got married young. But I’ve seen this with almost all of my girlfriends and the men they dated or married
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 02:43 PM
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Women know that men want sex. What’s strange to us is the moment we are in a relationship, and having regular sex with a man, here comes the being an asshole for no apparent reason. Ruining holidays, not being on time for dinner, going to the bar etc. it’s like once men secure regular sex from you, this strange weird anger comes out. It’s like they resent you because they “need” you. It’s like a deep hate some men have for women. I guess they don’t want to have to need you (for sex) that maybe t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 02:30 PM
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Well yes and no. Who doesn’t want to be taken care of? Women take care of children and aging parents and everyone. So it’s nice to be taken care of. But parents do talk down to children and I don’t want a man who talks down to me. And I do like “daddy” bedroom time, lol. But yeah it’s spicy and it’s nice when you’re man does take care of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 01:58 PM
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Yeah, the narrative within the red pill is to have zero female friends. So they either must be effing the girl or the dreaded “friend zone” which according to the red pill they must avoid at all costs. I do agree that if they are in love or have unrequited feelings for a girl and it’s painful to see her with other men, then of course the man can’t be friends with that girl. But, let’s be real, most men are not “in love” with every girl they want to eff. I think if they had female friends, at lea…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 01:45 PM
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I can see and agree with what you’re saying here on second thought. The fact that there is so many incels now. Valid point. However, I do genuinely feel that women give men a million chances and we really have to be more strict and tough love on them. Like women, men only respect consequences. We are too willing to forgive and make excuses and love them so much, we let them get by with murder. I did it too and I know it’s hard, but we have to if we want to see any changes in the men that could a…
/r/ExRedPill24/08/23 01:35 PM
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Well my mom was actually a nurse for 30 years and all the doctors in her hospital were mostly men. All the doctors who delivered my mom’s 5 kids were men, ditto for who circumcised my brothers. It’s true that there are more female doctors nowadays. But male doctors still outnumber female doctors in the United States. The traditional, even in the United States started with men, women have only continued that tradition (they never introduced or implemented the tradition). I know it’s super conveni…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 01:23 PM
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The old advice for women was to pray about it and he will magically change. Nope, I’m glad we stopped giving so many chances. Just cut the cord and move on. He’d change if he wanted to, he doesn’t need multiple chances
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 07:59 AM
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I do think a certain portion of men should just commit and go full mgtow. They can’t get along with women and they keep having all the negative interactions. Just cut the cord permanently. It’s best for the man and it’s best for all the women in his life
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 07:57 AM
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True. Nowadays there are more female doctors but for many years there was only male doctors. Still male doctors outnumber female doctors. But male circumcision originated from men and is still largely performed by male doctors the world over. Men circumcising baby boys. You really should know the history
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 07:52 AM
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Who’s circumcising baby boys? Men
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 04:54 AM
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Just sounds like she’s bored with him in the bedroom.
/r/ExRedPill24/08/23 04:42 AM
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True. The young men are learning this from older men.
/r/ExRedPill23/08/23 08:02 PM
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Nada, can’t. I don’t approach men. If they can’t take the hint, they are too dumb for me. I’d rather stay single
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 07:55 PM
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Well I can’t say it “harmed” me as in it’s really a first world problem. But my husband of 20 years started flirting with other women in front of me and embarrassing me in front of my boss and sabotaging my career and just doing passive aggressive stuff. But he decided to do that as a grown man on his own, the red pill blogs just gave him more and more toxic ideas to do. If there wasn’t the red pill, there would still be awful ideas by narcissists and psychopaths floating around for him to get i…
/r/ExRedPill23/08/23 07:05 PM
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Women “for recreational use only”. Cringe as F and extremely degrading. Sounds like OP watches a ton of porn. Objectify women much. So horrible. Vile
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 05:50 PM
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So you meant him not going in any dates because he was too mediocre. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 04:53 PM
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I think you just only need to date women who want to go Dutch. Those other women, they are out of your price range OP. Lol. Me personally, I don’t walk into a Louis Vuitton store because I already know I can’t afford a Louis Vuitton purse. I have a coach purse, that’s my budget. Men need to shop at their price range. Op, your price range is Dutch. Accept it and stop asking women you can’t afford out
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 04:10 PM
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Well he negged me about my weight (im 130 pounds) and now he’s old and crippled and dating a gal that weighs 250 pounds. She seems nice, his new gal. Maybe he will be nice to her and not start picking her apart. I still have hang ups with what I eat, count calories and go to the gym everyday. But now I try not to be so strict with myself and have a piece of birthday cake and not be the odd one not having any cake. So im learning to enjoy life more now
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 03:50 PM
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Welp….”im talking about attracting women, you went on a date with him so he attracted you, better that, than not going on any dates cause you are too mediocre”. You didn’t intend to say “you are too mediocre”?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 03:45 PM
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Personal attacks. So the real reason you engaged and approached me on this subreddit was to troll me and personally attack me. Big man, put the little woman in her place.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 03:39 PM
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Tinder?! Lol. That’s for hook ups, not relationships. I’ve never been on a dating app, but I’ve had plenty of girlfriends who have. Ain’t no woman out on tinder thinking she will land a rich man to marry. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 03:20 PM
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Well true. Everyone wants what they don’t have and who wouldn’t want to marry a rich man? Lol. But also 50/50 can be a scam sometimes if you’re partner has expensive habits. For example, if my date orders a 20 ounce steak and 2 crown and cokes and I have a salad and water and the bill comes and I pay half. Well 50/50 feels fair but my husband was 200 pounds and would eat all the groceries and I’m 130 pounds. And I don’t drink, but I probably have 2000 dollars worth of liquor in the house right n…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 03:18 PM
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I don’t know. I went on a date one time years ago and he hadn’t had a haircut in quite a while and he was kinda attractive but unkempt and I just got the perception he was too lazy to even comb his hair and where I thought his face was attractive and he was probably 5’10 and not overweight. But I just thought this guy is obviously lazy so that made him unattractive. Also seemed like he didn’t care to put in effort. I don’t wear makeup normally (not good for my skin, but at least I wore mascara, …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 02:56 PM
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Racism is a whole different subject for another subreddit. Not purple pill debate. You we’re losing your argument that “men are oppressed by women” so you went on a tangent about racism to distract from the fact that women are not oppressing men. Men are oppressing other men. Rich men are oppressing poor men. Women are doing nothing to you
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 11:58 AM
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I agreed with you that marriage is a bad deal and for women especially. I have no insecurities, but obviously you do. You take issue when someone agrees with your point? Crazy. And I was married for 20+ years. That’s how I know it’s a bad deal for women
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 11:54 AM
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Huh? I don’t follow.. you feel men should have bad hygiene or that hygiene and going to a barber and looking groomed and smelling good doesn’t make men more attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 11:49 AM
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Well that’s probably true
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 12:48 AM
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I probably shouldn’t either. Because it doesn’t come across with the mocking tone I intended. Lol
/r/ExRedPill22/08/23 10:42 PM
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High value women is cringe but it’s the cringe of red pill lingo. And you’re right. Some people never learn
/r/ExRedPill22/08/23 10:36 PM
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Well my mom worked many years in healthcare and men don’t wipe their ass. And I used to manage a manufacturing plant of over 700 men (mostly). So yep. I unfortunately know
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 10:32 PM
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I didn’t tell you not to try to reform an unjust system. Run for office. Stop whining to random when women on the Internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 10:26 PM
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Purple pill isn’t a subreddit to debate racism. So I’ll pass
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 10:23 PM
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Who runs the family court system? Who wrote all the laws. Old white men. The patriarchy. Supreme Court has finally one black woman. But the majority of the judges and judicial system is old white men. If you’re effed, then men effed themselves. You men scream “men built the world!” Welp, true. You’re not happy with the world that was built by men. Hmm
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 10:21 PM
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Oh boy. Quickly with a red herring “look squirrel!” Let’s talk about racism because you lost the argument on reverse sexism. You’re a mess
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 10:17 PM
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It hard to get the sex we want with a man we find viable and attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 09:52 PM
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Well men generally don’t “want” to dig ditches either but a lot of men aren’t interested in college or going in the military.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 09:52 PM
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Yes, but ask ahead of time if she doesn’t mind going Dutch. Just be upfront and honest. Most women will pay their way.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 09:50 PM
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Any man that really truly has to worry about a false rape accusation is either paranoid or having too many one night stands or hook ups. Hey men, how about dating a woman for a while and you know getting to know her and meeting her family and friends and sexting and rounding the bases and then after a few months having sex. Less likely to have any woman feeling coerced or “regret sex”. How bout making sure she really wants you. Also women may be less likely to seek “revenge” if you didn’t ghost …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 09:48 PM
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Oh. They will actually only get the bottom of the barrel women with low self esteem. High value women with standards won’t put up with their bull. Let the red pillers learn life the hard way. I’m here for it, I like to sit back and watch the show and eat my popcorn as they melt down. Men don’t listen, they can only learn the hard way. I don’t understand why us women care to save them. Let them crash and burn. They can only learn from doing it the wrong way multiple times before they see the ligh…
/r/ExRedPill22/08/23 09:44 PM
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Nobody likes a complainer. Nobody. Men have all this power, but it’s still not enough for them. They are constantly punching down at women for any tiny perceived privilege we get. Men literally have all the power and the money, but whine constantly that women get flowers for Valentine’s Day and the door opened for them on a date. Yet you don’t see these same men transitioning to become women. Because the few tiny privileges women do get are not worth it to this whiny men. Men want their cake and…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 09:36 PM
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I agree with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 07:41 PM
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Men don’t merely “mention” their grievances. Oh no, they climb to the top of the mountain and with a friggin blow horn cry about their grievances 24/7. Not that there are not whiny women too. But the male whining is at record highs. Well if you think having a baby is easy, let’s strap the birth or even period pain simulators on men and watch! I need the entertainment. Or can we just cut you open for the fun of it and give you a c section. How bout we cut your taint and stitch it back up. I mean …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 07:41 PM
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Well women start to view it as one sided when our sexual needs are never met. Sadly the orgasm gap is real. Many men have no idea when they last made their woman orgasm and so many men don’t care. Foreplay and romance, what’s that. Treat her like shit all day and all week and get lovey dovey for 5 minutes before sex like a bipolar dr jeckyl mr Hyde and yep, that’s so obvious and one sided. He’s being nice to me right now and then once he gets sex (and I get zero orgasm) he will go right back to …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 04:32 PM
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Yeah men don’t want to hear the truth: go to a barber. Brush your teeth twice a day, floss twice a day. When in the shower, wash your crack, also actually wash your arms legs back. Wear clean clothes every day. Use stain remover. If it has a hole in it, don’t wear it. We notice. Go to a barber once a month. Ear hair, nose hair. Back hair. Men are out here stinking and looking homeless. Detail your car inside once a month. Take it to the car was h weekly. Clean your house or apartment. Wash your …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 04:16 PM
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I’m not out here asking any men what they bring to the table. Lol. I might have a boyfriend, but he ain’t moving in. He can have his own house and his own table. Lol. I may cook him dinner and he can stay the night or the weekend. But he has to go home to his own table. Women, don’t let these move in. Whatever they bring to the table is not worth the time and effort and work you have to do cleaning up after a grown ass man. Just as long as he’s not a burden on me and has his own place to go home…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 04:09 PM
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Yep!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 04:06 PM
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Well women do make more of the chemical hormones that result in crying. So we do cry more. I guess it’s whatever the definition of emotional is to you. Emotions that cause mass destruction like war and terrorism and mass shootings and family annihilators are arguably the emotion called Anger and men corner the market on that emotion. Our prisons are full of emotionally angry men that have no control over their emotions. Do women cry more? Yes. Are women more neurotic? Yes. No one is disputing an…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 04:03 PM
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This question is always asked by an incel living in moms basement playing video games and doesn’t have a drivers license. Meanwhile the rest of us actually have jobs, houses, net worth, gym routine, etc. but sure reddit, incels asking everyone what they bring to the table. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 05:49 AM
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Get a vasectomy and don’t get married. Problem solved. But oh men want their cake and eat it too. Women learned long ago that life isn’t fair and we have to lump it. You want sex with no consequences for men when women really shoulder the brunt of sex and reproduction. Get a vasectomy, wear a condom. No one is making men have kids. No one is making men get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 05:40 AM
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Oh probably. Who knows. Chris watts just snapped when she was pregnant with the 3rd baby and killed his 3 and 4 year old little girls too. Why get her pregnant 3 times? Obviously he’s like a sociopath or something. But was there any history of like actual physical abuse? I don’t recall that there was. But it wasn’t her first pregnancy by him. And family annihilators are on the rise. They literally have a bunch of kids and then kill then kill them all like Chad doerman. Why have so many kids, get…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 03:24 AM
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I would. But I’m way too old for you. Lol. But my sister is an autistic mute
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 01:13 AM
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Haha. I’m the hermit woman who’s never done online dating and I don’t go anywhere. Other than the gym at 5 am and work and Costco. But I’m just a plain Jane (face wise) but 130 pounds and a gym rat (muscular for a female at 5’5”). But I’m a book worm and I don’t like to leave my house or yard. I walk my neighborhood, and other than people saying hi to me at the gym, I only have like 7 regular girlfriends that I go to happy hour with like maybe once every other month. I text them often, several t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 01:08 AM
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Men are more emotional (anger is an emotion). Resulting in more crime such as murder
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 01:03 AM
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I have to disagree. Murder by the babys father should not be the leading cause of death to pregnant women over everything else such as car accidents etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 01:01 AM
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Yep, I need it. For sure
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 01:00 AM
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That’s actually an improvement for men, so give credit where credit is due. They are catching back up to women. Seasonally adjusted women 3.4 unemployment rate and seasonally adjusted men 3.6 unemployment rate. All genders 3.5 unemployment rate July 2023. Well good deal, men are going back to work
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 11:17 PM
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It’s never to say. Hey perhaps yeah, men are murdering bastards. “But women!” No accountability
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:18 PM
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My post is on the subject. Your post is only to troll me and use projection to call me sexist after clearly being sexist. “But women!”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:16 PM
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Stuck on stupid. My original post which still stands is the number one cause of death to pregnant women is men killing them. But deflect deflect deflect!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:12 PM
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Stuck on stupid. My original post which still stands is the number one cause of death to pregnant women is men killing them. But deflect deflect deflect!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:11 PM
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What the hell is there to understand. How damn dumb can you possibly be. My original post was that the leading cause of death to pregnant women is men killing them. It’s really very simple
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:09 PM
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Willfully ignorant. Men are killing each other and men are killing women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 09:24 PM
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Doubling down. “Women are worse!” Damn, men can’t own their shit and take accountability and say “yeah, we need to do better.” Deflect deflect deflect
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 09:22 PM
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I can’t reply to you anymore after this. I just can’t with the willfully ignorance. It’s too much. I’m going to have to block you. I can’t stand men who act dumb. I just can’t. https://www.yalemedicine.org/news/maternal-mortality-on-the-rise
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 09:20 PM
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Um, OP. 7 million men in the United States of prime working age are not working. They ain’t no ones sugar daddies. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 09:15 PM
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Sir, where do you live? Saudi? I don’t know any woman where I am that doesn’t work full time. This sounds like a 1950s reddit post. Wow
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 09:11 PM
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Lol. “Not all men”. - disabled men don’t. So some men don’t. “Not all men” Followed by the next classic “but women do it too”. Female nurses. “But women!”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 07:01 PM
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It’s the leading cause of death to pregnant women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 06:59 PM
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Something is wrong with them for them to be gullible enough to join an online cult and be brainwashed into hating women
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 09:49 AM
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Yep, but women ain’t killing men. Men are killing women and each other
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 09:48 AM
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Pregnancy-associated homicides on the rise in the United States, suggests NICHD-funded study “Dr. Wallace found that the 2020 homicide rate for pregnant or postpartum women was 5.23 deaths per 100,00 live births, while the rate for non-pregnant and non-postpartum women was 3.87 deaths per 100,000 live births.” https://www.nichd.nih.gov/newsroom/news/091622-pregnancy-associated-homicide#:~:text=Dr.,deaths%20per%20100%2C000%20live%20births.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 09:47 AM
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“Pregnant women in the Unites States are more than twice as likely to be murdered during pregnancy or shortly after childbirth than they are to die from the three main medical causes of maternal death associated with childbirth, research shows.” https://www.goodmorningamerica.com/amp/wellness/story/homicide-leading-death-pregnant-women-us-study-finds-92294415
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 03:59 AM
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Yep, just to reiterate….number one cause of death to pregnant women is homicide…the baby’s daddy murders you. That’s right. Number 1 cause of death. That’s if he doesn’t cheat on you and/or abandon you. And honestly he’s likely not going to lift a finger while you do it all and work full time too. Think twice ladies
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 03:39 AM
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Exactly. Even if you win the lottery and get a good man. You’ll likely outlive him so you’ll need more money for retirement
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 09:48 PM
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Amen. Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 09:47 PM
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Laziness, bar none. Now I know not all men are lazy and oh my god have I seen lazy women too. But the question was about what do I perceive to be weakness in a man: so trolls, don’t come at me with not all men and women do it too. Um, obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 06:25 PM
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Thank you, I do see your point
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 06:20 PM
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Thank you. I would be okay with a steady long term boyfriend, but that’s way off for me. I don’t want to live with a man though and definitely don’t want to remarry. That’s a one and done.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 04:00 PM
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Sorry to hear about your addiction, I hope you’re on the road to recovery. Thank you for the kind words
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 03:58 PM
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Yeah the opioid epidemic is rampant now. It hasn’t been this bad since the crack epidemic of the 80s. I have friends from college that smoked pot. I never thought anything about pot and I was completely fine with it being legal. But it was a gateway drug for my husband. And I think these engineered strands of pot are way more potent and addictive than what my friends smoked in college. The Huberman podcast on pot was super enlightening. I just couldn’t understand what the hell happened. But noth…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 03:37 PM
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Same. My grandma said the same. My mom said the same. I had a job and some money. But he broke and sold and pawned a number of things I had to replace like a lawn mower and of course him not paying his half of the bills and clearing out our joint account. I under estimated how big my stash of money needed to be. Because the house and the cars and student loans and all debt is paid off. I focused on paying the mortgage off and getting completely out of debt and I should have had a bigger emergenc…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 03:33 PM
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Yep, it’s really for women to be careful
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 03:27 PM
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It is a personal attack and trolling and saying it’s not is gaslighting. But yeah, I have to take accountability. I come from a very religious community, southern Baptist. So I don’t was brainwashed to be a certain way and I’m unlearning that even still. I don’t know if you’ve looked around lately. But the opioid and drug addiction levels are at an all time high. My husband and our situation isn’t unique. But you missed the main point of my post, which was telling women to be financially indepen…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 03:23 PM
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Yep. Ladies don’t give up your power. Having your own money and assets is power. Men will totally flex on you and make your life miserable as soon as they know you have to depend on them
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 02:54 PM
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Yep, telling women to have their own and not depend on a man and the sour incel red pill guys come out. Why? They want to control women. As soon as your not working and trust me, I’ve been unemployed, here’s the husband flexing his financial muscle the first week (even though I was getting unemployment checks that more than covered my expenses and I had savings). Don’t let these men flex on you financially because a lot of them certainly will. Power hungry
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 02:51 PM
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Well I was married for 20 years and together for 4 years before and he got into pot during covid. It’s becoming legalized and for him, it was in fact a gateway drug. I had to work double shifts during COVID. People were actually dying on my watch. So I just thought it was only pot. And well in 2021, I found out it was much more than that. I actually was neutral. I didn’t care that they legalized pot. But it was the worst thing for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 02:48 PM
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Dude, stop trolling
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 02:45 PM
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Sex is important, women do like sex, but men aren’t hitting the home runs they think they are hitting. Too many have premature ejaculation issues and don’t do enough foreplay to get us in the mood. And then sex is over when the man orgasms and he doesn’t offer anything to the woman such as oral afterwards to get her there. I know many many women over the years that Masturbate after sex, in the shower or in the guest room after he falls asleep. Men, you ain’t hitting it. It’s not just me saying t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 02:39 PM
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Women, always have a job, an education, your own savings and property. These men can clear out your joint accounts and abandon you and your kids in less than an hour. You’ll be effed. I’ve seen this in real time over and over. My husband was a drug addict. He absolutely cleared me out and I had to work 2 jobs to rebuild. The court can’t get blood out of a turnip. These men won’t take care of you, no matter what they promise.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 01:10 PM
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Well, the birth rate is declining all over the world
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 01:07 PM
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Well the birth rate is declining overall in most every country. So yea, even for violent men
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 01:06 PM
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I haven’t looked this up from a statistical standpoint so not sure if this has been studied. But seems to me, from my personal experience, that heavily religious communities are poorer.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 03:14 AM
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“Americans becoming more secular more than offsets the fertility advantage enjoyed by religious people.” https://ifstudies.org/blog/americas-growing-religious-secular-fertility-divide
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 12:39 AM
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Don’t get married or get a prenuptial.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 10:58 PM
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I want men to be a healthy level of scared around me. I’m tiny, I’m not here to make a 200 pound man feel safe when I weigh 130. He needs to make me feel safe. WTF. Is this OP serious. The Great Dane wants to act like the chihuahua is scary?! Gtfo
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 08:42 PM
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The birth rate is rapidly declining in a lot of countries. And extremists are killing themselves. The 4 horseman. War, COVID….just waiting for the pale horse
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 08:31 PM
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Some men are so degenerate, we really should have natural selection weed them out of the gene pool. Men are seeing this in real time. Why do you think we have so many angry incsls and red pill men. Women are rejecting them and for good reason. Their genes are inferior
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 06:32 PM
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100 percent. Number one cause of death to a pregnant woman is murder at the hands of the baby’s father. I’m so glad women are wising up and the birth rate will continue to decline and hopefully we weed out these degenerate men and their genes
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 06:30 PM
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Because the women have no rights and no birth control. The women are literally slaves
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 06:27 PM
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Well kinda, my husband became lazy and a user. I did everything and him laying on the couch while I vacuumed and did all the chores for years and years. His laziness did eventually affect the way he physically looked. However I’m still attracted to men physically more or less the same build as my husband. His laziness was a behavior that made me not attracted to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 03:38 PM
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Women always have options unless they are infertile. Men will sleep with anything. Lol. 4 men in India raped a monitor lizard and filmed it with their phone. 15 or so teenage boys contracted rabies in Morocco because they ganged raped the same poor donkey. These average women aren’t getting pregnant on their own. You men will F anything, quite literally
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 03:34 PM
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Yes, please stop lying. The truth always comes out and then their is no trust. Don’t lie
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 02:55 PM
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Yep. We have to weed the incel and misogynistic red pill genes out of the gene pool and that’s by not birthing their offspring
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 02:54 PM
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100 percent and they line up for it and seek it out and they don’t even consider how friggin strange and emasculating their own behavior is.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 12:33 PM
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Read books, fiction and nonfiction. Have a multitude of interests, hobbies, skills. Listen to comedy skits etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:16 PM
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Well a woman wants a lot of things, not just sex. But we think the sex Will improve. There does seem to be a short window sometimes when the premature ejaculation stops and like the sex actually gets better and he can go for longer and like you feel like you’re getting through his thick effing skull and he’s listening to you in bed. And then well the next night, he drank too effing much and now he has friggin ED. Ugh! I don’t know. It’s just like disappointment after disappointment. And then wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 02:39 PM
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Yes, and hygiene!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 10:57 PM
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I do think a lot of the red pillers are just finally saying the quiet part out loud. In the second interview, Myron doubled down and said he provides. A lot of men think that’s enough which is so crazy to me, especially when the women are working and can financially support themselves. Providing is bare minimum. How are you going to have kids with this woman if you don’t provide. But being a husband and a father is more than a paycheck. I also think that’s why these kind of men should just go to…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 10:55 PM
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I think there is some level of caring in most men who are not psychopaths. I just genuinely feel they think women will just give infinite chances. My husband was stunned that after 20 years. I just looked at him and said you have to go. I can’t stand the sight of you. He admitted to being lazy. He asked for another chance (like so many many times before). I think men just think, there’s tomorrow. I’ll give her an orgasm or do something else nice for her tomorrow and well, they forget or procrast…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 10:49 PM
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Doubles down https://www.reddit.com/r/Destiny/comments/zq0r9v/myron_doubles_down_on_not_having_to_please_women/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=1&utm_term=1
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:48 PM
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https://youtu.be/E1lysjWTPc4
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:47 PM
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Oh you mean the episode of Myron on fresh and fit. Let me see if I can google the clip
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:46 PM
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I think it’s different levels of caring. Maybe they think she puts up with blah blah blah, she’ll give me more chances. Or she stopped telling me to do xyz. Men don’t understand when women go silent. They think she’s not complaining anymore, she must be okay with how it is. But that’s the wrong read. That silence is the end. She doesn’t care to even voice what she wants anymore because the man isn’t listening and women do fake it. For it just to be over with and honestly women need not to ever f…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:44 PM
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Well the sex that women are having with men in not satisfactory, hence the well known orgasm gap. I speculate that is because men watch porn that focuses on male pleasure and they learn the wrong things and well a lot on men don’t know when the last time they made a woman orgasm and a lot of men don’t care and openly say it like Myron on fresh and fit. Saying the quiet part out loud. Ask a guy what his woman’s clit looks like, where it’s located, whether it’s hooded or not ….blank stares….dead g…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 06:27 PM
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Yeah. I accept mutual blame. I kept thinking he’s going through a phase. He will turn it around. Nope. My mistake. Lesson learned. Cut your losses and move on. Honestly I would tell any young lady to not get married or even live with a man. If you can afford to, live separately. The amount of extra work women take on after letting a man move in is not worth it. He better be rich enough to have a maid and personal assistant etc. I’m never having another man live with me and certainly never gettin…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 06:14 PM
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Read “why does he do that?” By Lundy Bancroft. I do think there is a short term quick reward for being abusive but the long term effects are pretty horrible, often ending with unnecessary escalation and eventually jail time for the man at least and hospital time for the female. Lundy worked with abusive men who were court ordered to go to his counseling. Also I think it’s valuable to get a man’s take on other men. I think abusive men do it and continue to do it for the short term benefits, they …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 05:50 PM
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I can tell you, I thought I had something hormonal or physically wrong with me, was it my birth control, was it my endometriosis. Nope. I was turned off and only found out why after we split up and he moved out. I was turned off because he became a fat lazy slob who wouldn’t lift a finger to help me or clean up after himself. I don’t know why I didn’t see it. I guess it’s like go gray. I became his mommy and he became a useless weak pathetic lazy smelly fat slob and it should have been so obviou…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:49 PM
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They should of split up and divorced long before it got to that point. They are both at fault for not pulling the plug.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:38 PM
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She has a face like a foot. An obvious grifter. Men love her, they love to hear what they think come out of their mouth and she’s grifting along and taking that to the bank. Fools follow her
/r/ExRedPill17/08/23 03:12 PM
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Church, community center, book club, meet up, running club, CrossFit, cooking class, night class at community college, volunteering (habitat for humanity, soup kitchen, harvesters, etc.). Volunteer, Eventbrite, yoga, hot yoga, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 03:06 PM
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I don’t know why some men don’t see this. If 2 heterosexual men lived together as roommates and one man was fairly clean and the other man was a slob and destroyed common living areas and didn’t clean up after himself and do his fair share of the chores. The man that was doing all the chores would start to resent the slob. So I don’t get why some man can’t get this. Just because she’s your woman, doesn’t mean she is your maid and your mommy. It’s not sexy. Men need to put themselves in their wiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 02:17 AM
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Well I can’t speak for everyone. But I can’t stand a lazy man. One who lays on the couch or plays video games while I work. Hell no, he’s got to go. Or one who plays dumb, like he doesn’t know how to do something. Learned helplessness, has to be spoon fed like a baby. I think they call it weaponized incompetence. Women find hard working and intelligent men attractive. So when you lay around and are lazy and act dumb, our Vs dry up. My dad always helped my mom and us kids had plenty of chores. My…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 02:00 AM
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Okay so I do think there is something about “testosterone faces” because I never really understood why I liked “ugly” guys. I never liked feminine pretty boys my other girlfriends swooned over.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 01:37 AM
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How do you know I’m one of the “most salty”?! Lol. I’m sweet and innocent. Pure as the driven snow (twisting hair with my fingers and batting my eyelashes).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 08:40 PM
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Could be, who knows. And who really cares. Lighten up dude. Don’t be so serious, take the stick out.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 06:34 PM
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I’d pick the safe guy and honestly I never liked pretty boys anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:03 PM
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I know. Rampant mansplaining and telling women what we want. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 03:43 PM
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Yep sheeple. How is a RP man a leader? Impossible because he’s a clear brainwashed follower. There’s nothing alpha about being brainwashed and part of a cult
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 12:42 PM
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Don’t get married or get a prenuptial agreement. The later seems sinister to me. Just either don’t get married at all or get a prenup. If you don’t get a prenup, then the assumption is you’re building a life together and she gets half. It’s really shitty and speaks to the lack of integrity to withdrawal all the money and take off not leaving your spouse a dime
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 12:24 PM
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Well if the shoe fits. No one likes constant whining. No one.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/23 09:58 PM
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Interesting. But you had me at a key point “someone to rely on”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 08:14 PM
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Like I said, I like masculine men. That’s obviously not you.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/23 07:57 PM
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No thanks. I’ll listen to David buss over you two nobodies any day
/r/TheRedPill15/08/23 07:54 PM
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Look, go on the feminist thread and they’ll say be beta. Myself and the other gal are just shooting you straight. I like a super masculine man. Most women do. I like my man to apply pressure. It’s absolute catnip to me. If I feel he doesn’t really want me, then I just feel you cannot manufacture attraction. He’s not interested or he’s more interested in another gal. I ghost. Like I said, I’m super attracted to a dominant bossy male. The ignore me game doesn’t work on me or any of my girlfriends.…
/r/TheRedPill15/08/23 07:43 PM
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Myself and the other gal are just trying to tell you the truth. Our opinions. Sure you could go on a feminist thread and be told to act like betas. But the truth is most women are super attracted to masculine men. Men really do need to be on their purpose and not faking high value. Eventually the truth will out. She will find out you are ignoring her on purpose and that’s little boy game. I’m with the other gal here, I like my man to apply pressure. It’s absolute catnip to me and most women
/r/TheRedPill15/08/23 07:37 PM
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I read your post and you contradict yourself constantly. You should clean it up so you are consistent, at least
/r/TheRedPill15/08/23 07:01 PM
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Pretty privilege is real, whether you like it or not
/r/TheRedPill15/08/23 07:00 PM
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And the rules are different for low value men. And so is the rules for fat and ugly girls
/r/TheRedPill15/08/23 06:15 PM
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Most men can’t pull this off, most men are not good at acting. Look, I’m just giving it to you straight. And also quoting the research by David buss. Most feminists won’t say this stuff out loud, but myself and a lot of women love a super masculine man (carry me to the bedroom, let me sit in your lap daddy, slap my bottom, pull my hair, be bossy and dominating and controlling (in the bedroom)….that’s absolute catnip to me and my girlfriends…for real. I like that possessiveness, persistence, appl…
/r/TheRedPill15/08/23 06:14 PM
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I hear plenty of men even at work say this and laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 06:07 PM
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She just gave you the cheat codes, for real. Don’t look a gift horse in the mouth. She told you what feminist won’t ever tell you. She’s giving it to you straight up.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/23 05:58 PM
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Damn dude, she just gave it to you straight. Women do like masculinity. Bring that toxic masculinity to the bedroom daddy. She’s honestly shooting you straight if you’ll listen to her. Seriously
/r/TheRedPill15/08/23 05:44 PM
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I’m female and feel like I have lots of friends and family (other females). I think we will be golden girls
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 04:37 PM
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No one said for you to act Beta. But the science actually disproves what you’re saying. Look up David buss, an actual evolutionary psychologist that knows what the F he’s talking about. You are correct, women don’t like weak men. It’s okay to be a strong man, but if a gal gets a whiff that you are ignoring her on purpose, a high value lady is going to ghost you.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/23 04:33 PM
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What point? All you do is simp on Op and simp hard. I can’t hear you with his c*ck in your mouth
/r/TheRedPill15/08/23 04:23 PM
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Dude, more simping? Really?! Do you seriously have zero pride and self respect?
/r/TheRedPill15/08/23 04:21 PM
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Yep, that’s why I have to stay single. I was married for over 20 years and the last few years with his drug addiction was super hard. He moved out early February 2022. I went to therapy, a personal trainer etc. I did have a brief 5 to 6 month relationship with an old boyfriend from my early 30s that went from may until October. But my 2nd boyfriend (who became my forth boyfriend while I was separated from my drug addicted husband. Well he’s extremely brainwashed and angry and abusive red piller …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 04:19 PM
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Gotcha. It’s just one of those things. It just is what it is. I still don’t fully understand drug addiction and perhaps never will
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 02:31 PM
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OP links his website and notice he has no photo of himself or his lady and no qualifications or credentials listed. He’s just some rando on the internet that you men follow blindly like sheep and you don’t even investigate whether he’s a person worth following. Think about that. When you go to the hospital, you want to see a credentialed doctor. Why would you take advice from some rando when arguably the person you mate with, marry and have kids with is going to be one of the most important rela…
/r/TheRedPill15/08/23 01:43 PM
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Well I don’t think using is good. But I’m not the using police
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 01:39 PM
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This is such an obvious lie, it’s truly pathetic. You probably have a face like a foot. Notice how OP doesn’t have a picture of himself on his website. OP ain’t getting any action either
/r/TheRedPill15/08/23 01:38 PM
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Everyone calls it a man cold, even my husband would say he had a man cold. Obviously when he said it, it was self deprecating humor. I hear men say this all the time. You are taking this way way too seriously. Chill out
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 01:35 PM
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Yeah. He wants to come back but I won’t take him back. But it’s really a different story. He’s a drug addict.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 01:30 PM
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Yeah. He wants to come back but I won’t take him back. But it’s really a different story. He’s a drug addict.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 01:30 PM
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Women can get men, lol. We just don’t want you
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 01:28 PM
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Well if the women don’t feel used and coerced. It’s not against the law. But only you know if you are actively lying and morally bankrupt. Be careful out there
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:46 AM
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Oh so the manipulation tactics then
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:41 AM
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I just think the thing is women are natural caregivers and they just sometimes don’t want to be the wive and the mom. They want to be mommed and wifed and cared for. It’s that simple. We like to have someone care for us, we cook and clean and do everything for others. I guess the man period is random outbursts of anger. We deal with you men terrorizing us, scaring the shit out of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:37 AM
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I don’t have anyone to whine about. Lol. Joke I’d on you. I’m single
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:33 AM
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What do you use?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:31 AM
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So often men are out here keeping score and want 100 points for going to the store for a box of tampons for us, but if we cook dinner every night for years, that’s expected. No points
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:30 AM
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Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:28 AM
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It’s a joke. Hardly ridicule. And don’t men say the same thing about our periods. “We are on the rag”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:27 AM
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Lol. Men don’t want to be caring loving partners I guess and will literally go to the internet to whine if their woman wants to feel cared for by them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:26 AM
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I got you. Why have a romantic partnership if you don’t spoil each other. Women are natural caregivers, but sometimes we want to be on the flip side too. Someone to show us love and caring. We get that we’re moms and wives. But sometimes we want to be mommed and have a wife too
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:24 AM
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I don’t follow. If a man doesn’t feel good and his wife makes him soup and cares for him while he whines and complains about his man cold, isn’t it the same thing when a woman doesn’t feel good during her period. I know the woman’s issue is more hormonal, and the man has the cold virus. But doesn’t each one want to be cared for by their significant other? Their person?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:00 AM
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Can’t the same thing be said when the man has a cold, I know my husband wanted to be spoiled when he didn’t feel good. I don’t get the point of this post
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 04:20 AM
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OP just tells on himself. He’s not getting any ass, if he was, he wouldn’t be crying and whining all day online. What a b*tch. Men go around and just act like whiny punks and wonder why we won’t sleep with them. Dude is a baby
/r/TheRedPill15/08/23 03:55 AM
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I know, right?! Good lord. You know he has a face like a foot. Hiding behind a keyboard. Lol
/r/TheRedPill15/08/23 03:49 AM
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If you like her and she likes you, you should ignore her? And imply you don’t like her? Why would she work for your attention before she even knows you? Who the hell are you that you’re so entitled to random woman working for your attention for free? Lord, the audacity.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/23 03:46 AM
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I’m a woman silly. Know your audience. Lol
/r/TheRedPill15/08/23 03:43 AM
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I think the issue is the word ignored and purposefully and as in a game, ignoring. Other commenters made it more clear that it’s not a game if you are naturally giving her less attention because you are busy. That’s different because women find men and men’s ability to acquire resources sexy. But the ignoring thing is off putting. Women want ambitious men in their grind. Not ignoring you and you see them online and the worst is they are playing a video game. I know so many women that will not da…
/r/TheRedPill15/08/23 03:40 AM
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Read the comment from TRPmob. Other people obviously get what I’m saying because they literally understand how they feel when they find out they are purposely being ignored. TRPmob gets women, how women think.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/23 03:36 AM
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When you found out someone was purposely ignoring you, you were filled with rage. Got it! These immature games are galling. Winner winner chicken dinner. You understand women better than OP, for sure
/r/TheRedPill15/08/23 03:11 AM
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Nailed it. OP is giving advice for the masses and has completely skipped over what you’re saying. Lots of women now are finding out they are dating the same dude. Most men get zero matches on dating apps. So the advice for the bottom dude who is an old autistic virgin is to ignore the one date he got this year?
/r/TheRedPill15/08/23 02:49 AM
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Exactly my point, you have to be a gigachad. Not an average Joe. First off an average Joe is invisible to begin with. She doesn’t even notice that he’s ignoring her. Joe? Joe who?
/r/TheRedPill15/08/23 02:12 AM
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I guess if some of these men were consistently hitting home runs in the bedroom, but I highly doubt it. Ask these dudes what their ladies clit looks like and whether it’s hooded or not and….dead giveaway. They don’t understand to be “high value” you have to have something of value or do something she values. Why would a hottie with high self esteem be content to be ignored by an average loser? They can’t make it make sense because they know it doesn’t make sense. What do they have that she will …
/r/TheRedPill15/08/23 02:10 AM
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Like dude, you just told a woman that Op, a male knows women better than her. Lol. Women only want attention from certain men and the rest of the men, they are invisible and women want them to go away. The women that are hotties have men everyday all day in their DMs telling them how hot they are. They don’t notice the one loser is ignoring them. I agree with her, you have to be a rich giga Chad for OPs strategy to ever work
/r/TheRedPill15/08/23 01:55 AM
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I agree with her completely. Women only want attention from certain men and the rest of the men, they are invisible and women want them to go away. The women that are hotties have men everyday all day in their DMs telling them how hot they are. They don’t notice the one loser is ignoring them. I agree with her, you have to be a rich giga Chad for this strategy to ever work. And you really have to be smooth for it not to appear as thr game that it is. If she finds out, and chances are she will. G…
/r/TheRedPill15/08/23 01:53 AM
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The women that are hotties have men everyday all day in their DMs telling them how hot they are. They don’t notice the one loser is ignoring them. I agree with her, you have to be a rich giga Chad for OPs strategy to ever work
/r/TheRedPill15/08/23 01:51 AM
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I agree with her completely. Women only want attention from certain men and the rest of the men, they are invisible and women want them to go away. The women that are hotties have men everyday all day in their DMs telling them how hot they are. They don’t notice the one loser is ignoring them. I agree with her, you have to be a rich giga Chad for OPs strategy to ever work
/r/TheRedPill15/08/23 01:51 AM
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Women only want attention from certain men and the rest of the men, they are invisible and women want them to go away
/r/TheRedPill15/08/23 01:48 AM
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Women only want attention from certain men. The rest of the men are invisible and they want them to go away
/r/TheRedPill15/08/23 01:48 AM
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Yep, they have convinced middle and lower class men that it’s all women’s fault. Women are the New Mexicans. Since we started working, that’s why wages are low, etc. the taxes men pay go to women. Um no, the taxes you pay go to rich men, corporate welfare
/r/ExRedPill15/08/23 01:46 AM
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Oh, I shouldn’t really. But I find this super romantic! Awe. I want a man that writes something like this about me. Damn
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 12:38 AM
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Lol, it’s good to have dreams
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 12:36 AM
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Can the red pillers be drafted and killed too, they are really black pillers too
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 12:35 AM
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I think if you care, then anything is possible. A lot of people only care about themselves so…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 12:30 AM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 12:29 AM
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Nailed it. They have the working man punching down at women and not punching up at the elite. Organizing unions etc
/r/ExRedPill15/08/23 12:27 AM
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Exactly. David buss is a evolutionary psych professor who has published studies saying women look for kindness in men first and foremost, across all cultures
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 07:46 PM
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Kindness. See David Buss research
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 07:40 PM
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Lol. It’s hilarious because my ex accused me several times of shit testing him. I had no idea what the hell he was talking about. I was just being myself or being serious or at times silly, playful or sarcastic. You know flirting and he got angry and said I was shit testing him and well it kill the mood and he will never know, but he sabotaged himself and me doing some sexual things to him because he was so brainwashed and took my flirting (while I was sitting on his lap) as a shit test. Again t…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 07:18 PM
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Oh my goodness, you can’t be shit tested at all without losing frame. I was messing with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 07:10 PM
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Why do you always follow me? You’re like a booger. Lol. I knew my guy was red pill because I googled the stuff he said. He outted himself and this was a guy I dated over 20+ years ago. We broke up, I married someone else. Divorced and started seeing him again last year. My second boyfriend becoming my forth boyfriend and I couldn’t figure out what was wrong with him. And then I started googling the random crap he said. He’s 51 years old. Again I dated him in my 20s. My first pregnancy (I had a m…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 06:57 PM
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Women will exit the dating market and have a dog or cat. No need to even date if there are only toxic red pill men. Hard pass
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 06:46 PM
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Google Andrew Huberman fitness protocol. It’s a free one page pdf you can download or print
/r/ExRedPill14/08/23 06:45 PM
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Oh but they do, that’s how I found out. Letting things slip like “shit test” “pussy pass” “fight club” and “she’s not yours, it’s just your turn” …calling you a prostitute to your face essentially and forcing you to break up with them on the spot. And when you google the crazy stuff coming out of their mouths, you quickly realize they are a brainwashed idiot
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 06:43 PM
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Well I’m not a doctor, only a personal trainer and I always tell my clients to consult a doctor first. I’m not here to take the place of a doctor. I don’t have a medical degree. I’m only credentialed as a personal trainer in sports medicine. Any underlying medical condition needs to be seen by a qualified doctor. Now if you come to me ready to go, understanding your own needs and limitations, I can work with you. But I always refer people out to the experts in whatever situation they have. I’ve …
/r/ExRedPill14/08/23 02:58 PM
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And I agree with you in red pill, they obviously do not link any scientific studies to support the bull they put out. But Huberman is an actual doctor and links the scientific studies and has highly qualified doctors on to talk about the studies. So it’s way more objective and scientifically sound
/r/ExRedPill14/08/23 01:59 PM
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Weight lifting is generally given advice currently from doctor Andy galpin, dr David Sinclair, dr Peter attia, dr Andrew Huberman, dr Rhonda Patrick and also my personal doctor. I can only speak in generalities and never prefaced my claim on a post that is opinion based. (No one here is professing expertise, just stating opinions). I have no way of knowing about individual’s special conditions. The literature on pubmed and other scientific studies are linked by Huberman in the show notes on YouT…
/r/ExRedPill14/08/23 01:55 PM
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I said and I quote “I have chosen non violence”. Read much?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 01:27 PM
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Nope. The bait and switch is very real. The guy can be nice and sweet but after months the nice mask falls off and the raging red pill lunatic with anger issues emerges. And then the on and off again roller coaster begins because you feel invested in the relationship. And you want to make excuses or take part of the blame and at the end, you’ve tried everything and he just needs to go
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 01:26 PM
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I don’t think of the red pillers as “charismatic”. Rollo is an old school white whigga like Jamie Kennedy of the movie “Malibu’s most wanted”. Pearl and Fresh and Fit are cringe as F. What charisma?
/r/ExRedPill14/08/23 01:23 PM
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Well I’m not a doctor so if you have a special medical condition, do what your doctor recommends. Weight lifting is good for everyone normally who do not have a special condition. Many women end up with osteoporosis and weak bones and lose upper body strength and when elderly have to go to a nursing home. Weight bearing exercises not only help muscle retention, help build stronger bones. Again, I know nothing about PCOS and the treatment of that. I’m sure a qualified doctor could guide you there
/r/ExRedPill14/08/23 01:20 PM
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Female gen x. No longer interested in men at all. Red pill man I broke up with almost a year ago cured me completely. I’ll date a woman before I date a man. I’m maybe bitter, who knows, and who cares. But the red piller hated women and was abusive. I’ve had guys ask me out, but I just can’t. I really am beyond turned off. The anger and abuse. I just can’t. It’s scarred me mentally. I thought I’d be over it by now. I’m guess I don’t date because if another guy said “she’s not yours, it’s just you…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 06:16 AM
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Weightlifting. I was plus size and do the Huberman fitness protocol. Weightlifting legs on Monday. Toros, chest and back on Wednesday, small muscles on Friday (biceps, shoulders, triceps). Weightlifting to failure is key. And Huberman morning protocol. Get outside before 9 am and get 10 minutes minimum of sunlight in your eyes without sunglasses every morning.
/r/ExRedPill14/08/23 06:08 AM
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Nailed it!
/r/ExRedPill14/08/23 05:51 AM
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I have guy friends and if they help me move a couch, I buy them a case of beer or make them dinner or baked goods or help them paint or whatever. I also am lifting the other end of the couch and would be willing to help them move or pack or unpack stuff and clean during or after a move. I don’t expect my male friends to pay my way at all. In fact, I wouldn’t allow a male friend to pay for me without paying them back or giving them a gift of equal or greater value. I don’t understand the dilemma.…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 09:17 PM
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Yeah it’s a game. The red pill calls it dread game to keep you in line, to get you to chase him. Then if you leave them and get another bf, they will call it “monkey branching” even though they caused it by emotionally abusing you. Makes zero sense, the games are psychotic. The call it bitch management. But it’s hurtful and eventually you’ll have enough and that will be the end and when he realizes he lost you, he will either chase or believe the red pill nonsense about nothing he could have don…
/r/ExRedPill13/08/23 01:16 AM
3

Hysterical. “Women abuse these men”. ?! How?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 04:05 PM
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If a man truly has unrequited love for a woman and it’s truly painful for him to be around her as a friend, then I do think it’s mentally healthy for him not to remain her platonic friend. However, do men “love” every woman they want to sleep with? The answer is no. I do think men should have a few female friends or acquaintances and stop viewing all women as conquests. But if you only see women as subhuman, perhaps it’s best for women if you do stay away from them. Women know when you look at u…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 03:54 PM
1

Yep!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 09:52 PM
1

Oh women tolerate all kinds of nonsense off of men, cheating, lying, abuse. It should be obvious that we need to raise our standards and stop dating scum
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 09:52 PM
1

Not the approval of your “partner”. Approval of your spouse. Why would a boyfriend or girlfriend that is not married to you have any legal say if you’re not legally married?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 06:12 PM
1

I can’t say anything about women per se as a whole. But my girlfriends are definitely more fun than their husbands. But if you listen to Jordan Peterson there is actual studies showing men rate higher in disagreeableness. Ya’ll like to fight, the evidence supports this. I don’t do the studies. In fact most of the studies were run by men
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 06:11 PM
1

Yep, they are conning women. They call it game, I call it a grift, a con job
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 06:02 PM
1

Yeah if the guy is fun and not a fun-sucker. These red pill men are angry and annoying
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 06:01 PM
1

I actually think it would be good for men too. Men getting more education and more fit and healthy. It would benefit men too if women raised the bar. What happens when I boy goes in the military…he becomes a man. A woman being picky will make him rise further
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 06:00 PM
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I don’t know why women want to be friends with men. Men are horrible friends. Especially the ones who are lazy and play video games all day. The modern male hasn’t gone to college or learned a trade, you can’t have an intellectual conversation or learn anything from him as a friend and often they have anger issues and ruin any outing. They are more disagreeable and want to assert “dominance” instead of being easy going
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 04:58 PM
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She’s my hero!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 04:55 PM
1

Women need to raise their standards
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 04:52 PM
1

I do think too many men overuse porn and then they use that as their sex education and well then normal women don’t find sex with these types of men satisfying. Hence the severe orgasm gap. Look men, it’s simple. Women are not going to want to come back to an empty well. You have to make it pleasurable for her. Stop being lazy about everything (sex too). It becomes a chore for her when her sexual needs aren’t your priority. And eventually she’s done trying to get you to perform. It’s all risk an…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 11:13 PM
1

I do think too many men overuse porn and then they use that as their sex education and well then normal women don’t find sex with these types of men satisfying. Hence the severe orgasm gap. Look men, it’s simple. Women are not going to want to come back to an empty well. You have to make it pleasurable for her. Stop being lazy about everything (sex too). It becomes a chore for her when her sexual needs aren’t your priority. And eventually she’s done trying to get you to perform. It’s all risk an…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 11:12 PM
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Interesting, because depending how impaired they are by autism, can they truly consent. I would definitely say no if their autism is so severe they are actually a ward of the state and/or under the care of a legal guardian etc
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 10:57 PM
1

OP, you have brought the incels out in force! Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 09:00 PM
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Men aren’t leading by example
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 08:57 PM
1

The incel mindset has gone mainstream. It’s shocking how many men in real life sound just like Paul elam. King incel
/r/ExRedPill10/08/23 08:48 PM
1

I don’t follow that stuff. But I do think 20 is too young to know whether you’ll want Kids or not in the future
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 08:44 PM
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Well if a man truly never wants children, then yes, get a vasectomy for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 03:30 AM
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Lol. There is male birth control- condoms and vasectomies
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 03:16 AM
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Yeah, there’s so many scientific studies that prove the red pill stuff is nonsense. Such as the “still face experience”….proves that ghosting and repeating ghosting and silent treatment won’t work long term. In the “still face experiment” (which has been replicated to adult romantic relationships). Essentially the baby finally withdraws after repeated bids for connection. The gottman’s call the silent treatment (ghosting) one of the four horsemen of the apocalypse (destroys relationships). Women…
/r/ExRedPill10/08/23 12:48 AM
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She’s not yours, it’s just your turn”. I asked him if he was calling me a prostitute. I was very upset by this comment. Just other stuff like saying I was shit testing him. I could probably come up with a list. It was nuts
/r/ExRedPill09/08/23 10:17 PM
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Yep totally, they think very highly of themselves. And they just need to be dumped and have their large egos crushed. I feel sorry for the women with low self esteem that endure their abuse
/r/ExRedPill09/08/23 07:36 PM
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Been here and couldn’t figure out what was going on and then he kept apologizing and finally he said certain phrases I googled and I caught onto what he was doing. Crazy train. It’s basically abuse
/r/ExRedPill09/08/23 07:34 PM
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I sometimes wonder if the goal of this subreddit is for men to one-up each other on who can make men look the worse. Thread after thread, it’s a race to the bottom. Who can blatantly disregard honor, and integrity and any code of conduct or ethics. I take it he’s never heard a man’s word is his bond. Or your only as good as your word.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 11:46 PM
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Ops point is that promises are meant to be broken and men have a right to break a promise at anytime because some women may not have selected some men to begin with. Hmm. Justifying a lack of values
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 11:13 PM
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Guess it all comes down to goals. If you’re life goal is to become a fuckboy, then to each your own. If you’re morals are such that you’re okay with lying and manipulating, then you do you. May karma and stds find you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 12:27 PM
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Well I do cook, I am one by trade and also because it’s my first love. Lol. I’m gen x. I didn’t know there was multiple types of feminists. I live in rural America, fly over country and well we value a lot of traditions such as honesty and manners. But you city slickers sure have life figured out. Good for you, don’t let a woman use you. Still no excuse for being deceitful. But you do you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 12:15 AM
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I don’t like dishonest men who play tricks on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 11:29 PM
1

I believe in equal pay for equal work and I have some feminist ideals. I don’t want to be owned like property. But men and women are actually biologically different, that’s scientific fact and there are cultural and religious norms as well. We all do many things everyday that are tradition
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 11:28 PM
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. If you want to ask a woman out and not follow up with one more sentence about going Dutch. You men act like speaking one more sentence is going to kill you. What you want is to justify lying
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 11:11 PM
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. If you want to ask a woman out and not follow up with one more sentence about going Dutch. You men act like speaking one more sentence is going to kill you. What you want is to justify lying
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 11:10 PM
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You men hate feminists, but those are exactly the women you should date because she will gladly pay her way. So go date a raging feminist and leave normal gals alone. If you want to ask a woman out and not follow up with one more sentence about going Dutch. You men act like speaking one more sentence is going to kill you
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 11:09 PM
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Well in my culture, when a heterosexual male ask a heterosexual woman out to dinner, it is assumed he is paying unless he asks to go Dutch. You men hate feminists, but those are exactly the women you should date because she will gladly pay her way. So go date a raging feminist and leave normal gals alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 11:07 PM
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If you ask a girl out for dinner and you let her assume you’re treating her to dinner and then you surprise her with the check. That’s dishonest. Plain and simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 11:01 PM
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God forbid you be honest and upfront
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 10:56 PM
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Lying by omission is still lying. Just be honest and upfront
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 10:53 PM
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You are literally twisting yourself into a pretzel to justify deceitful behavior. Lying by omission. Because you’re afraid if you ask a woman to go Dutch upfront, she won’t go out with you. Imagine you have to pay a woman to go out with you. That’s why you have want to justify lying. What’s your plan. Ask her out, let her assume you’re paying. Pick somewhere the girl can’t afford and leave her with the check? DB
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 09:33 PM
1

But you are obsessed, because you can’t let it go
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 09:28 PM
1

Yep, these guys are always telling on themselves. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 08:08 PM
1

Dude, I viewed your comment history. You are not “going your own way” at all. You’re on here obsessed with engaging women. Literally totally obsessed with women
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 08:04 PM
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Oh yeah. They double triple quadruple down, it’s the red pill cult and they take no accountability for the cruelty they inflicted on her and have “no idea” why she left him. Dude, no one likes an asshole. If these red pill men had a lick of common sense, they’d cut that shit out. It’s toxic asf and I don’t care if she has the lowest self esteem in the world, eventually she’ll leave him.
/r/ExRedPill07/08/23 07:16 PM
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Well interesting. I can see a gal wanting to hold on to a man if she truly feels he’s a good man to hold on to. But I’ve seen the other side where she gets tired of having the rugged pulled out from under her and the next time “he leaves.” She doesn’t chase. She puts his stuff out and has the locks changed. Because I don’t think some men get the fear of abandonment some women feel and if the threat to her safety and security and the safety and security of her kids are repeatedly threatened for n…
/r/ExRedPill07/08/23 05:04 PM
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Hmm. I can see OPs point and can see and agree with some of what he’s saying. If you have a loving and caring and reciprocal relationship with a man and you both do loving and caring things for each other, then I don’t consider those women “pick Mes.” However, I am Gen X, so I have seen “pick mes” in high school and college “be one of the guys,” desperate for love (equating sex for love), so codependent on having a man, hopping from guy to guy, whoring themselves out, bending over backwards, bei…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 02:23 PM
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Resentment, anger, plotting his murder
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 01:35 PM
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Sounds toxic AF. Maybe that’s their kink?
/r/ExRedPill06/08/23 07:08 PM
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You may have some good points. Not sure. Perhaps this happens in some circles. Maybe it’s cultural differences or class differences. I don’t really see it where I’m at, but I’m sure you could have experienced this in your culture or class circles
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 05:44 PM
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I don’t know. I don’t blame women for holding out and waiting. Like sometimes you’d rather starve than eat McDonald’s. I’ll wait for a steak dinner or just starve to death. I’m not eating McDonald’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 03:43 AM
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No benefits to marriage anymore. Just the Disney princess romance angle. Cultural conditioning. It’s just decades of taking care of a man baby
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 01:23 AM
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Some men want a mommy and then resent her for it. They purposely act dumb and useless and then we believe them and micromanage them. Don’t passive aggressively act like you don’t know how to do anything. Don’t put her in a position to be your mommy. All the first statements like “go brush your teeth”. Screams you turned her into your mommy by acting useless and incompetent and then you resent her for being your mommy. Don’t act incompetent and this would have never happened
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 01:20 AM
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Men don’t understand that women like sex too. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 01:16 AM
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The return of manners and etiquette. I can’t speak for all women, of course, but opening doors, etc. I’m female and always open doors everywhere for everyone. It feels odd to be on a date and the man doesn’t open the door for me and for others walking in the door behind me. And then I feel bad because I have to as the woman. I don’t want to emasculate my date, but I kinda feel he did it to himself, because I have to get the door because my parents raised me to have manners. I can’t not do it. Bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 12:37 AM
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Oh I eventually let everyone know what he was doing. Public shaming.
/r/ExRedPill31/07/23 05:57 PM
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Yep, normal women are not going out with men they don’t like for the price of a plate of food. It’s not a thing. I get that some red pill guys on the internet are trying to make that a thing. But it’s not. Now broke and homeless women, sure whatever. But normal women cannot suffer through a meal with a guy they don’t like for a free meal. It’s not a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 10:34 PM
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It likely happens way more than we realize. These poor animals can’t talk and file charges
/r/ExRedPill30/07/23 09:01 PM
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I feel like I can relate to OP. My husband of 20 years turned red pill and did some horribly abusive things. I separated and divorced him because of the red pill games. Then I started dating an old boyfriend from before I married my husband and it quickly became apparent he was very red pilled and very abusive. So now I don’t date at all, because clearly I’m a magnet for this type of person. So just better for me to stay single. Also, I think the boyfriend wanted to move in my house (he kept say…
/r/ExRedPill30/07/23 02:58 PM
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Dude, stop talking like an incel or you’ll never get any p*ssy. You need to get outside. Do Andrew Hubermans morning routine. Take some community college classes. Don’t use the word misandrist. You sound like Paul Elam and the only P he can get is what he pays for. Get a hobby, learn a skill
/r/ExRedPill29/07/23 02:02 AM
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Thanks for sharing. I know women can do awful things too.
/r/ExRedPill29/07/23 01:50 AM
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Oh and I won’t date another abusive red pill man. One whiff of that nonsense and I’m showing that MFer the door. I’m definitely in the anger FU stage of dealing with a toxic red pill dude. That effer can pound sand. He complained one time that he was lonely and didn’t have any friends. Wonder why? Hmm. He better never need money or a favor from me. If he ends up homeless, I will not be bringing him sandwiches and blankets under the bridge. He can rot in hell.
/r/ExRedPill28/07/23 09:58 PM
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I think as a gen x woman, I want a long term relationship (living separately). I was married for 20+ years and I just don’t want to clean up after a grown man. He can go back to his place and if he wants to live in a pig pen, so be in. I wouldn’t mind seeing him a few nights a week or over the weekend, but my home needs to be clean and always company ready. If he’s kind and caring and affectionate, good in bed, can afford himself. I can pay my own way. I wouldn’t mind helping him with his home p…
/r/ExRedPill28/07/23 09:54 PM
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https://news.yahoo.com/four-men-arrested-raping-bengal-012732129.html
/r/ExRedPill28/07/23 06:59 PM
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https://www.vice.com/en/article/4aw9pg/monitor-lizard-gang-rape-bestiality-expert-india
/r/ExRedPill28/07/23 06:58 PM
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Look, dr Phil says “you can be right OR you can be happy”. What is the fixation on winning or right-fighting. Are you wanting a girlfriend or are you just wanting a woman to get into arguments about gender war nonsense? Are you wanting someone to cuddle with, be intimate with, build a bond and a life and a family with or are you wanting to argue all day everyday with a woman and make her miserable and letting her know that women have it easy and men have it hard. (No woman is ever going to agree…
/r/ExRedPill28/07/23 05:12 PM
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Not about winning. It seems like you wanted actual advice and help. Sure, women get “privileges” that men don’t get in certain cultures. Ladies night, free drinks and no cover. That’s because bars are smart and know if they draw women in, they will draw men in. So I’m not saying that women don’t have “privileges” in certain cultures. But do you think the women the Taliban rule are held “accountable”? I’m not saying you don’t have a point but you really didn’t make a point other than saying women…
/r/ExRedPill28/07/23 04:22 PM
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What accountability are women not taking? Women bear the brunt of sex? Pregnancy and childbirth puts our lives on the line. The number one cause of death for pregnant women is murder (by the baby’s father). Women are trafficked just as much as guns and drugs. We are more likely to be murdered and raped. But men and also raping monitor lizards in India and filming it with their cell phones and raping donkeys in morroco. 15 teenage boys got rabies from raping a donkey. Women receive harsh and some…
/r/ExRedPill28/07/23 03:29 PM
1

Well if a woman tells you in real life that all men are trash, it’s perfectly okay to say you don’t appreciate the man bashing. Some men are trash but to say that you’re not trash. It’s okay to stand your ground and not bash women. 2 wrongs won’t make it right. Be the change you want to see in the world. Politely disagree. Hold your ground firmly
/r/ExRedPill28/07/23 03:24 PM
1

Set yourself apart and don’t act like the men these women are talking about and you’ll stay out of the blender
/r/ExRedPill28/07/23 03:20 PM
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Huh? I don’t follow. Why have controversial conversations all the time with girls? Why not focus on fun
/r/ExRedPill28/07/23 03:17 PM
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Well if you never initiate, she will notice that soon enough and then potentially lose interest and ghost you. But why not call her once a week on the phone and have a voice conversation.
/r/ExRedPill28/07/23 03:16 PM
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I’m nosy. What was your aha moment that made you decide red pill was toxic? What was the behaviors you’re guilty of? What did you say or do to women to disrespect them? What was the ultimate moment when you said you needed to change. I’m just curious because I’m at the F U level with my red pill ex. And I love him dearly but I haven’t seen him since February and I haven’t talked to him on the phone in months. Just texting and well he’s so nasty I don’t even want to try to mend to a friendship. I…
/r/ExRedPill28/07/23 03:12 PM
2

You have to watch his actions (not listen to his words). Anyone can give lip service and then not follow through. Watching and paying attention to his actions are so important
/r/ExRedPill28/07/23 02:59 PM
2

I believe in forgiveness. But not for you to sign up for more abuse
/r/ExRedPill28/07/23 02:56 PM
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My advice would be to stay away from the gender war nonsense, it’s a turn off, ditto for politics and religion. If someone says something you don’t agree with, you don’t always have to let them know. Women sometimes have the feeling that men go out of their way to “correct us” and “put us in our place”. Want us to “submit.” It’s best to just avoid that subject altogether if you’re wanting a girlfriend. And after 6 months to a year, it’s okay to politely disagree. But if you give any harsh disagr…
/r/ExRedPill28/07/23 02:48 PM
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Well just focus on yourself and being a man of high moral character and you’ll stand out far and away from the type of scumbag men these women are talking about. If you don’t do any scumbag behaviors, then clearly you’re not the men these women are describing. Depersonalize yourself from generalizations if they aren’t talking about you. If you find yourself saying “I don’t do that” or “I’d never do that”. Then give yourself a pat on the back because you’re not a low life
/r/ExRedPill27/07/23 09:37 PM
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Yeah. When you start responding to their crazy and you’re on edge, and you don’t recognize yourself and you’re starting to mirror and match their bad behavior. Well it’s a race to the bottom and time to get the hell out
/r/ExRedPill27/07/23 09:33 PM
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Do you strike up a conversation with girls ever? Can you go do something like yoga class or cooking class or community college classes where you can meet girls in real life. Eventbrite has in person and online events in your area likely. Can you figure out a bus route to go do these things on your own or bicycle or motorcycle if you can afford one. When’s the last time you struck up a conversation with a girl?
/r/ExRedPill27/07/23 02:50 AM
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Amen sister! I want a man like my father and then will talk about “submission”. These man babies need to stop taking credit for what our fathers (with the help and support or our mothers) built. They built the world these man babies cry about and want credit for
/r/ExRedPill25/07/23 06:23 PM
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Nailed it, it’s a cult
/r/ExRedPill25/07/23 04:06 PM
4

Yeah. I wish this nonsense wasn’t real. But I know so many women getting divorced because of this very same thing
/r/ExRedPill25/07/23 04:05 PM
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Same, my husband of 20 years and then I started dating an old boyfriend from my 20s, and I instantly caught on that he was red pill too. Now I don’t date at all. Too much abuse! I decided after a failed 20+ marriage where the last 3 years were very red pilled and to only date one of my first loves in my 20s again last year and for him to say and do all the same nonsense. I could go on and on, just a million shitty things (actions and gender war exhausting conversations).
/r/ExRedPill25/07/23 04:03 PM
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“Men responds to actions, not words”. You have to show him how it’s going to be
/r/ExRedPill25/07/23 03:57 PM
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“Men built this world”. Key word “men”. But did you (your man) build this world? Or are they taking credit from other men? Men like my father who were actually real men. Not crying whining man baby red pill men. Married women could not control fertility and we had very little rights so when your always pregnant during marriage, you can’t do much else, but raise kids. We only recently got birth control in the 60s. But men did not build the world without moms and wives supporting them. They didn’t…
/r/ExRedPill25/07/23 03:55 PM
3

Talking to his parents saying he wants to get out of doing chores? How is this not man baby territory?
/r/ExRedPill25/07/23 03:51 PM
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This! “No one should have to fight the battle of the sexes every day at home”. Amen. It’s so exhausting and it’s too much. Working women don’t have the bandwidth mentally to deal with man baby red pill nonsense. It just sounded like whiny pssy shit to me. I know it’s wrong and made it worse. But I eventually lost it and called my red pill husband and effing Pssy in front of his best guy friend. Again, I know I was wrong. But I just snapped because of the aggrieved entitlement man baby stuff. He …
/r/ExRedPill25/07/23 03:49 PM
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Yep, the moment he moved out, that day my workload got so much lighter! He was just useless. Red pill men, leading what? Doing what? Providing what? Nope? Just an excuse to be lazy and I can’t stand lazy people. I didn’t realize how much time and labor he was taking from me, but the very day he was gone, a huge weight was lifted. I got my life back, peace and quiet. My kitchen is always clean, my house is always ready for visitors. He just apparently thought I “owed” it to him to become his momm…
/r/ExRedPill25/07/23 03:43 PM
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I feel like this is a con job. Red pill men feel entitled to switch things up and con their parents and honestly it’s entitlement. Simply for being born male, they literally feel entitled to the services their wives or girlfriends “should” provide for them. But when he stops carrying his weight, this is literally stealing. He is stealing her time and stealing her labor. Because the chores still have to get done. How is this not turning your wife into your mommy? Men know time and labor are impor…
/r/ExRedPill25/07/23 03:32 PM
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Same, my ex is red pill and I broke up with him last October and it was so heartbreaking, but you wouldn’t believe how he acted. Insane
/r/ExRedPill25/07/23 01:15 PM
1

I’ve never done online dating and don’t plan too. I’m above average looks. Gen x 135 pounds at 5’6”. Granted I was married for 20+ years. But over the years, my single girlfriends have shared pure horror stories about online dating. Um, lots of married men, liars, etc. most women I know would never do online dating again. I guess the younger generations are more into it, but even my niece won’t do online dating again. It’s just bad news for women. It’s not safe
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 06:57 PM
2

Totally. And so many women (and men) feel like it is a bait and switch. I know so many people feel like the person conned them. Better to be the best version of yourself and don’t waste peoples time. The truth about who you are always comes out.
/r/ExRedPill14/07/23 02:19 PM
1

That’s the million dollar question. I honestly think no one knows the answer to that. There is a ton of money being made on the red pill space, dating coaches, marriage therapists, etc. some of the advice is toxic and makes matters so much worse. Some of its good advice but never implemented. I think it’s impossible. But honestly these grifters and con artists wouldn’t make money if women and men got along. It’s more lucrative for them to tell men (and vice versa), it’s all women’s fault. As lon…
/r/ExRedPill13/07/23 11:29 PM
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Sadly no, never. Really seems impossible
/r/ExRedPill13/07/23 08:07 PM
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They think women have it “too easy.” Not really realizing the history of things. Marital rape was only officially outlawed federally in 1994. Sure American women of the younger generations certainly have it a lot easier than my 81 year old mom and my grandma before her. But women still have our on problems that are totally irrelevant to the incels and red pill (incel 2.0). They only see their side of things and if they can’t get what they want from women (sex, submission, etc.), they feel cheate…
/r/ExRedPill11/07/23 06:27 PM
1

If you can afford it live apart. That way he has to go back to his own place and either he lives in filth or shocker, he has to do his own laundry, dishes, etc. I would rather have female roommates if I needed them for financial reasons and have a boyfriend that goes back to his place
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 03:03 AM
0

I think people should wait. You can’t regret the sex you don’t have
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 12:10 AM
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I’m a woman and well I don’t do drugs, but sex just doesn’t happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 12:08 AM
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Most divorced women I know are only looking for a boyfriend but not a live in boyfriend. Together living apart. We just feel cheated. Our time stolen
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 10:59 PM
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Roombas? I have no idea. I got it. You’re tired
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 10:53 PM
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I’m not a victim because of the feminist that came before me so I enjoy the rights they won for me. I can own property, have a bank account in my name. Work a job and make my own money. I’m not a victim because of my great grandma, my grandma and mom and all the men and women who felt we should have the right to vote and marry who we want and live a life with or without a husband
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 10:51 PM
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Spouse rape only became outlawed federally in 1994
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 10:47 PM
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Well we don’t need a man, that’s true. There’s a difference between wanting a man and me a man. We don’t personally need a man. Sure, women who want to have children do need something from a man to have children. Obviously. But we can rent a handy man and hire out what we need. Just like men who go to prostitutes. Same diff. And well some men are trashy so if the shoe fits. Aren’t you kind of proving that point right now?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 09:56 PM
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Before feminism, women could not own property, work outside the home. Their father literally gave them away at the altar. Men could legally beat their wives. Funny how you don’t know history but seem to know everything else
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 09:52 PM
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Proving my point. This subreddit is crawling with trolling incels
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 09:42 PM
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My mom is going to be 81 next month and think god she came up with chivalrous men. My sister is closer to my age and disabled. But I feel extremely lucky to live around men of high moral character that care to help their fellow man (and fellow woman). I just feel sorry for the men on this subreddit. Broken
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 08:02 PM
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Exactly. Men and women just let it all hang out and don’t know how to behave. But women can get dates so it’s the men that complain they don’t get dates more so. I tell the guys I know to stop arguing. They are with women in the first date and then they wonder why the woman ghosts them. I’m not saying women can’t be combative. But too many men are wanting to prove some kind of point or flex and be the big man and well men are more physically intimidating so they literally scare a woman off.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:58 PM
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But if I was pregnant in my last month or needing to breast feed a crying baby under a cover up blanket, it sure would be nice if a person offered me the seat. Better to feed a crying baby so the whole group doesn’t have to hear it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:44 PM
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I’m not overworked and I’m able bodied at 135 pounds and 5’6”. I’d give up my seat to anyone as I prefer to stand and want to burn the calories
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:41 PM
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A lot of the men on this subreddit appear to not like women or see as human beings. And also I think many would be embarrassed if people in their real lives knew what they say about women online. Lastly, men nowadays seem to always want to argue online and in real life with women about gender war B.S. like it’s their duty to pick a fight and put us in our place for simply expressing ourselves or having a difference of opinion. They can’t seem to respectfully agree to disagree without getting but…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:39 PM
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So you wouldn’t give up your seat for a pregnant woman? Would you give up your seat for a disabled veteran?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:22 PM
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?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:11 PM
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You can stop responding to me at any time and “go your own way”. No need to get triggered and butthurt baby. Just be an adult and peace out, no need to report me to the principal because you’re feely wheelies are hurt
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 06:37 PM
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You engaged me! And I never trolled or harassed or threatened you. I simply asked if you would be embarrassed if people in your real life knew you were so cringe as to not give up your seat for a pregnant woman. I asked how you felt if they knew who you really are. Again, you engaged me and you can stop responding to me at anytime. Funny how the person who picks a fight always ends up crying to mommy
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 06:30 PM
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So you are embarrassed about how your acting? Interesting. I didn’t threaten you, I just asked if you’d be embarrassed if people in your real life found out and obviously you would or you wouldn’t feel threatened to the point of reporting me over a non threat. So you do know you’re point of view is cringe to the rest of civilized society
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 06:25 PM
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No a threat at all. But I’d want to know if I was them if any extremist were working for me. The fbi is even looking into red pill incels as well
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 06:02 PM
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Not “legally” discriminate against you, but maybe they need to become aware of who you are
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 06:00 PM
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They say they are going there own way, yet they won’t leave us alone. They are absolutely obsessed with women
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 05:58 PM
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Exactly. They won’t listen to what a woman has to say so save yourself the headache. Only men can wake these toxic men up and pull them out of their cult
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 05:57 PM
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Wouldn’t you feel embarrassed if this was screenshot and sent to your mom and dad and employer. Wouldn’t you be embarrassed if they knew you wouldn’t give up your seat to a pregnant woman? I don’t get it. Aren’t you embarrassed by how you’re acting?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 05:53 PM
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I thought you gave out the definition. Didn’t you say you don’t like women and they deserve zero kindness and zero manners. Isn’t that the very definition of who you are? I’m confused. Are you saying now that you aren’t one?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 05:39 PM
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Isn’t that what you’ve labeled yourself? Isn’t this what you profess to be? Your identity?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 05:37 PM
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A nonanswer is a answer. Otherwise you’d have said a blanket no. Which is a shorter answer than your nonanswer. Dude, you told on yourself completely
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 05:35 PM
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You answered just fine. Essentially you’d give up your seat for a disabled or elderly man. But never a pregnant woman. You outed yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 05:33 PM
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Would you give up your seat for a disabled veteran?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 05:11 PM
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You’re not really debating, but fair point. I don’t actually know you’re an incel, just getting a whiff of extreme incel ideology
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 05:07 PM
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Good day incel
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 04:58 PM
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I earn a paycheck and pay for things and men are happy to sell me what they built. So blame men for making me entitled to buy their houses etc
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 04:57 PM
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Too many incels on this subreddit. And they don’t like you, but still can’t stop from engaging with you. Incels are obsessed with women but can’t leave us alone anywhere. Just attack attack attack. It’s circular logic and who be it for me to tell an incel to show kindness to a woman ever. How dare I tell an incel to please be kind to pregnant women. The audacity of me to say please be kind. Can you imagine
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 04:56 PM
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Can you provide evidence of a pregnant person saying “please don’t offer me your seat”. I don’t get where you find women ever telling men not to be kind human beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 04:52 PM
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But….drumroll please….you seek us out. You engaged with me online. Because why? You’re obsessed with women. Yet you hate us, but don’t want to just avoid us and peace out. You aren’t running into me by accident. Oh no, you’re crashing into me on purpose. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 04:50 PM
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I love to hear other women say this and have standards and maintain boundaries and not accept less than they deserve
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 04:48 PM
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You’re trying to normalize a complete lack of manners and kindness.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 04:47 PM
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Well you do you. I will always give up my seat for pregnant women, mothers, disabled, disabled veterans (good men), elderly, etc. or just offer my seat to anyone honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 04:46 PM
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Love this! If he was able to be taken. I love that you got it. Nailed it girl. You’re my hero
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 04:44 PM
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Why engage with me. You clearly don’t like us, but yet can’t stop but engaging with us. Make it make sense. Shouldn’t you be “going your own way?” How is it going your own way when you’re clearly obsessed with us?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 04:43 PM
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Yes, I and the rest of women would love if you stay far far away from us and even on this thread, why engage with me. Stay far away. Go your own way, in peace. Godspeed. Good day and good bye
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 04:41 PM
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I agree women do some bad things. Not following the rest of what you said. But just acknowledging the truth that not all women are angels. True
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 04:37 PM
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Don’t let another woman swoop in. I once had a girlfriend from college that expressed open interest in my husband. I could not understand it, because there are a ton of men like my husband out there. But I’d be careful with single girlfriends around him. I’d never knowingly date a married man. But boy howdy, there are other women who apparently have no morals about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 04:36 PM
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And women too on which part?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 04:34 PM
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But my dad told me to never let a man pay for me unless i like him. But I also wasn’t allowed to date until I was 18
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 04:33 PM
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I can only speak for my generation. Gen x. And now mind you I was married for over 20 years and started dating my 2nd boyfriend again last year. The guy I was with before I met my husband. But generally women are often taught in more conservative communities not to be too forward with men and honestly any time I’ve seen a girlfriend take the drivers seat and pursue men and make the first moves, it hasn’t gone well. Even if she landed him, he would take her for granted or do the bare minimum to r…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 04:30 PM
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They offered to help you because you’re not taken and nothing to gain (for them) to help a pregnant woman. You might be single and they may have a chance to hookup with you. Some men are kind to everyone. But some are only kind to certain people they are trying to get something from
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 04:09 PM
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There’s a huge movement from the Meninists, men’s right activists and a lot of red pill mgtow that honestly hate women and don’t want to open doors or give up seats for pregnant women or do anything they consider chivalrous. I’m a woman and open doors for everyone. Give anyone my seat, etc. because when I’m old and crippled, I’m just paying it forward now to help create a world where it’s normalized again to be a decent human being. Paul Elam used to be fringe and now his ideology is man stream.…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 04:05 PM
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My husband did something on repeat our whole marriage. He’d creepily flirt overtly with waitresses and cashiers etc. towards the end, I just felt like let these women take this bum off my hands and he can go lay on their couch. I called him pig pen towards the end. I know it’s not nice, but I was just done
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 03:53 PM
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I think if you get a good one that’s not lazy, keep that man! Women are probably jealous and envious of you!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 03:51 PM
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Did your parents put a roof over your head and heat in the house and clothing on your back and food in yours belly. I don’t think these things should be minimized. Many kids go hungry everyday and there only meal is school lunch.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 03:50 PM
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That’s wonderful. I’ve never done online dating and my girlfriends who have say they will never do it again. I’m glad it worked out for you though. I have no interest in online dating. Not worth the risk in my area.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 03:46 PM
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Where do we find these men that want to cook and clean and raise children and help them with their homework and do bathtime, bedtime, pack lunches, doctors appointments, school events, take them to soccer, make sure projects are completed, uniforms are pack, doctors appointments. Feeding, diapers, vacuums dusts, actually scrubs out sinks, wipes counters, mops floors, grocery shops, actually throws out old leftovers and wipes out fridge. I’d be happy with one that just carried his own weight. But…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 01:03 PM
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Awe, so you’re mom wasn’t completely useless?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 12:49 PM
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Yep, we lived next to a Amish community and culturally we had a lot of the same notions
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 12:48 PM
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Well to each their own. It’s more risky for women dating. And typically women don’t ask men out. So the courting phase is typically the man making the first move until the relationship progresses. Not saying this is right or wrong. But also with societal and cultural norms, women are somewhat expected not to chase the man
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 12:46 PM
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Interesting. Maybe it’s subconscious to women. But I kinda think OP is perhaps on to something, but maybe not quite there. I think women want to be wooed. Disney princess stuff. Etc. I have to admit, chivalry is like catnip. I like a man who gives me his coat when I’m cold. I tell male friends to keep an extra coat in their trunk if going out on dates. I like the door opening, chair being pulled out. I think OP almost, but not quite has it. Women want to be “invested” in before she invests anyth…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 02:34 AM
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Sure, if I could afford it and he’d actually raise the kids and do stuff instead of playing video games and ignoring the children
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 02:25 AM
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Yep. A lot of guys flirt with me and tell me I’m pretty and then don’t ask me out. Um, waiting. Lol. I don’t do online dating, never have and never will. So if a guy can’t muster the courage in real life, then oh well. I’ll just do something else. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 02:24 AM
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Actually I guess most Americans live in the suburbs now. https://www.huduser.gov/portal/pdredge/pdr-edge-frm-asst-sec-080320.html#:~:text=Although%20most%20existing%20federal%20definitions,Americans%20live%20in%20the%20suburbs.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 05:35 PM
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An average joe
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 05:25 PM
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I’m curious. How do men want to be wooed? I’m a cook, but I cook for everyone. My last boyfriend was gluten free so I bought gluten free cookbooks and made him recipes (some good, some not so good). But I’m curious about how men want to be wooed. I was married for over 20 years so I don’t have a lot of dating experience. Never done online dating. I’m on these subreddits to learn how men are and it’s unfortunately encouraged me to be celibate and forgo dating altogether. But I’m still curious abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 05:20 PM
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What’s so humiliating? I honestly don’t get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 05:12 PM
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In my small community, if you went on a dating site might be embarrassing if George from church matched with you. Lol. Everyone knows everyone else here
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 05:10 PM
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Also we don’t have time for gender wars out here. We have to work together.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 05:08 PM
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I don’t know what you city slickers are up to on your dating apps and what not. But I’m in rural America. Farm country. The bread basket of the United States. You know where people still grow their own food for the most part. Never been on a dating app never met a metro-sexual fuckboy with a man bun and skinny jeans and all. I’ve heard about them, seen them on tv. You city folk are really out of touch with most of Americans. Severely by your comments. You have no idea what regular folks get up t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 05:07 PM
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I was married for 20 years. I dated this same guy in my twenties and started talking to him again after my divorce. He was my second boyfriend and my husband was my third Boyfriend and my second boyfriend became my fourth boyfriend. …way too many incels on this subreddit
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 05:03 PM
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Is it a win now that he’s not fucking anyone? Is that a win? Regular sex or no sex? Hmmm. He admitted he struggled with girls and gets no matches on dating sites. I’ve never been on a dating site, but he said I’d get thousands if I went on one just because I’m thin. 5’ 6” 135. Slightly above average looks for my area. People do tell me I’m pretty on occasion. Or compliment me on my skin. But I’m no model. So I don’t get the “win” because I don’t want to get remarried or live with a man
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 04:40 PM
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Okay? I guess. If that’s your definition of “winning”. Bizarre, but to each their own
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 04:36 PM
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Everyday gets better. Not dating. Haven’t seen him since February. It’s for the best. My picker is clearly off, so I just avoid men now. It’s lonely sometimes, of course. But I need the peace and quiet. I have plenty of stuff to do, work, gym, meal prep, friends, family etc
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 04:33 PM
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Yep. I was super attracted to him, still am sexually attracted to him. Confident and dominant, does peloton daily. Doesn’t lift weights but has decent muscles for skinnier arms. Smelled good. But angry men can be charming and control the anger on short first dates but as you spend time with them, you realize that every little thing or tiny inconvenience sets the off. Like I said, I want to live more than I want sex and I was just a wreck. He seemed to enjoy making me cry. Caught him smiling. Tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 03:28 PM
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Lol, well yes. I’d like the man to have more muscle than me. Might be helpful in life, in general. I’m 5’6” 138 pounds and I can do chin ups for reference and weight lift 3-4 times a week. So yep, women are attracted to muscles. But the dude in the photo has my arms and I’m a chic. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 03:22 PM
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I think women generally want sex, but guys don’t seem to get that women like sex too. Red pill does teach pick up artist tactics and NLP to influence a woman into liking them by trickery and sometimes outright deceit. It’s not that it’s not consensual. But more like a con job. Teaching men to pretend to be a certain way and use psychological tactics to manipulate. Well it all ends when the truth is revealed about the man. So he either ghosts after sex or the mask eventually comes off. Either way…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 02:07 PM
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Farm boys. My brothers can outlift my husband. My husband has swoll look from creatine and gym weights. My brothers have ropey look compact, but can lift more for longer. Bails of hay etc. they go to the gym with my husband. Husband is tired and needs a nap after the gym. My brothers have energy to burn and are right back to chores. I’m the same as my brothers. Farm life for many years will train your body to work
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 02:01 PM
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My dad never wanted me to be dependent on a man. He didn’t want any of us kids to depend on others
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 01:54 PM
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You’re mom was useless but you actually did well enough as a child in school to go to college? Were you raised by a single dad?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 01:53 PM
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Yuck
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 12:43 AM
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My dad always said my husband’s muscles were for show. My husband would joke back and say it’s not his fault his daughter has retard strength. Two older brothers to keep up with and fight and tons of chores. I earned my retard strength. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 12:31 AM
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But I also grew up next to the Amish and they helped us build a new barn after our burned down. Just as tough as they come. That barn is still standing
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 12:28 AM
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I do owe it to my dad who was born in 1914 and ironically before I even knew what feminism was. My dad was a feminist even though he barely knew that word either. Taught me how to hunt, fish, drive combine, tractor etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 12:27 AM
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Or let women assert control by shaming you and name calling you misogynists. Those women are vicious and brutal bullies. Kill them all and men will have the utopia they always dreamed of. Kill all those horrible women so you have no one else to hate
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 12:24 AM
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Where do you meet women that aren’t effing useless? Was your mom useless? You’re female relatives? Every woman in your life was useless?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 12:21 AM
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Huh? Men can hire out and even pay prostitute for sex. Self sufficient. Women can hire out and pay a handy man to do stuff. We technically don’t individually need a mate. We can be self sufficient and single. Done. Easy peasy. If you don’t like women, don’t date one. Easy. You don’t need them. They are useless to you. Got it. No one is making you get a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 12:20 AM
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I’d say it’s super important and I lost attraction for someone I was crazy about because he had anger issues and would rage and me out of the blue. Just snap. Damn I miss the sex, but I also want to live
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 11:31 PM
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I don’t know if shaming is the answer. But I do think we could put pressure on men and women. Women are succeeding. Sure they had a major set back during the pandemic when daycare and schools shut down. They couldn’t leave their young kids alone at home. But overall women are out pacing men. Getting more degrees, top jobs etc. there is a huge rise in “lonely single men”. Incels, porn addiction video game addiction etc. I don’t know if shaming is the right term. Maybe these young men need mentors…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 11:29 PM
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Time. That’s why I don’t want to be with a gamer. What’s the point? He’s married to the game and has no time for you. Let him go
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 11:22 PM
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This is why you don’t become a trad wife, stay at home mom. Have a career and education and put off marriage and kids until you can afford them, on your own, without a man. Women must stop depending on men and control family planning with birth control. Men don’t want to support you. It’s not worth it to be a stay at home mom anymore. You put your life and the lives of your children at the mercy of one man. Don’t do it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 09:50 AM
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“Why has the NEET gender gap disappeared?” https://commonslibrary.parliament.uk/why-has-the-neet-gender-gap-disappeared/ The number of women who are inactive as they have been either looking after their family or their home has decreased But the reverse hasn’t led to the increase in activity among men Self-reported time-use surveys may offer some preliminary hints. Men without work showed the grim self-portrait they reveal for uncorking prime-age men: checked out from civil society; largely dise…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 09:42 AM
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Hmmm. 7 million men in the United States between the ages of 25-54 are not working or in school. I’m going to hazard to guess they are not all trust fund babies and that many of them are a burden to society. Just google “7 million men” and also google “Richard reeves” and crisis of boys and men. Sure women could always do better. But the real crisis is not women right now. Any woman with half a brain wouldn’t choose one of these lazy men to start a family with.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 09:46 PM
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And if she was daddy’s little girl and I’m guilty of that. I have zero tolerance for verbal abuse
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 09:25 PM
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Also I have definitely seen over the years men verbally abuse women. Criticize them constantly and then when a guy comes along and pays her tiny compliment, she’s gone. So I don’t really recommend the constant beat down criticism, it usually backfires and many men wonder why she left them and can’t understand why she filed for divorce. Just because some men will take it off other men, like college hazing. Doesn’t mean you’re women will take it forever
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 09:23 PM
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Well I like to think I’m in the middle and can admit the truth. I’m also a gen x-er. But here’s the thing, I highly recommend not criticizing anyone unless you feel you absolutely have to because criticism comes across as negative and bashing. I believe you can be a feminist and not bash men. Just that you want equity because honestly due to obvious biology, we aren’t equal. But I like having a job and a bank account and property in my name etc. i recommend Dale Carnegies “how to win friends and…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 09:17 PM
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I get it. It’s how some men “feel” love. Sex is natural and natural for you to want it. I’d say as a gen x women, I do think millennials are soft and get butthurt easily. You may be right. Men can be brutal to each other, like in the military and fraternities. Maybe men toughen other men up and that may be why you see a discrepancy. Men get bullied more brutally by other men in school etc. so women are softer and don’t take criticism as well as men because we are bullied in the same way and dads…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 06:45 PM
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Well the statistics say that millennials are actually having less sex than my generation. I’m gen x. So I don’t think hook up culture is real. Many many late bloomers male and females are having much less sex than their gen x parents
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 06:27 PM
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I know this may be controversial. But men should stay off online dating and approach women in real life and strike up a friendly conversation, build report, and drumroll please, ask a women out, shoot your shot (respectfully of course). Have b*lls. Stay off online dating and I understand not remaining friends with an ex girlfriend or someone whom you have unrequited feelings for…that’s torture to men. However, it would be worthwhile for any man who struggles to actually have a least one or two f…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 06:26 PM
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I mean I guess if there was a tattoo artist with a 100 miles when I was in my 20s, who’s to say I wouldn’t have gotten a tattoo. But it wasn’t convenient and none of my girlfriends were doing it, so now I’m too old to want one. And well southern Baptists don’t drink
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 06:17 PM
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Contrary to popular belief. I know politicians call this fly over country. But the vast majority of Americans are still rural just like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 06:14 PM
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But my dad who was born in 1914 and 25 years older than my mom. I’m the youngest of 5, but oddly enough my dad was the biggest feminist in my life and not really knowing what feminism was at the time. He taught me how to hunt fish, drive combine, drive the tractor, do everything my brothers could do and he also wanted me to get an education and thought I’d be a good school teacher like his older sister Martha and when he saw I excelled in math, he pushed me to explore finance and architecture et…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 06:13 PM
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Lol. I haven’t had a hook up phase. I don’t drink or have any tattoos. And my friends call me Martha Stewart. And I have similar girlfriends. But I’m a farm girl out in a rural remote area. I have no idea what you city slickers are up to. I have too many chores to get into the mess y’all get up to. I just find it entertaining
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 06:02 PM
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I highly recommend chickens. But you have to protect them from coyotes, etc. but I could eat eggs for every meal. Who’s your little b boy whining? Are you talking about your son?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 05:58 PM
1

True. I settled on being alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 03:24 PM
2

I’m having a hard time following…but wokeness aside, isn’t the whole red pill, passport bros movement. Isn’t that men asserting their preference? Isn’t their a hit song that the lyrics say “when he gets on, he’ll leave you for a white girl”. I know from 30 years ago, there was catalogs in a male relatives home (we were helping him move), their were male order Russian brides, with profiles and pictures. I think men do alright asserting their preferences. And sure some men are extremely humble, ve…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 03:20 PM
1

Welp, men should be criticized for sending unsolicited dick pics. Like how the eff did that ever become normal. Imagine telling your grandkids “well grandpa sent me a dick pic randomly before I ever talked to him on the phone or saw him in person. Well and I just thought it was so pretty and I just fell head over heels in love. I knew I had to have him.” Lol The man you describe was my father. Sadly those men, real men, don’t exist anymore. Probably why some women legitimately like older men, th…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 10:27 AM
1

Yep, I’m a gen x er and this is true. Women aren’t settling. Think about gen x, latch key kids, independent. We were the lasting change to how women view relationships. The stubborn independence. Yep, I don’t know any woman settling. Women now are 29 percent of the breadwinners in households and 7 million men in the United States of prime working age 25-54 are not working. So there are very little beta bucks to get. Easier to work and earn our own way than to think depending on a man for anythin…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 10:16 AM
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Nothing to look at. Average at best
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 01:27 AM
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I guess it’s probably location specific too. I know so many men over the years that have been unemployed for significant portions of time. So many girlfriends that tell me “I can’t depend on him for nothing”. For various verifiable reasons. Fails to pick the kids up from school while she’s at work working overtime and he’s unemployed etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 01:33 PM
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Now that you say that. Makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 01:29 PM
1

I don’t know. I’d say looks always matter, but my husband of 20 years and my boyfriend after my divorce were “ugly” but something about them. My husband was a funny man (so that’s what hooked me). A lot of these men are political and angry. He wasn’t but unfortunately became a bad drug addict and I just had ti be done. Last guy, said he wasn’t political, libertarian allegedly. But really covered for being very far right politically and very anti women’s rights etc. it slowly came out. But I gues…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 01:26 PM
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Well yep, there’s that too. Of course a lot of people eat at McDonald’s because it’s cheap and convenient. So same with the women dating these men. I’ll hold out for a steak myself. I can fast longer
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 03:42 AM
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Okay? I broke up with him. But I thought we were saying one thing we liked about the opposite sex and not the opposite. But gotcha. I’m horrible, but I loved one thing about my angry ex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 02:18 AM
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My ex, I liked his toxic masculinity and controlling nature (in the bedroom). Sigh, he tried to boss me around and control me outside the bedroom too much. Even when I’d try to diffuse him, and gently guide him. He just wanted to control me more than he wanted sex apparently. He just became more and more overtly abusive and angry. I just think he needed medication to take the edge off. Someone once told me male anger could be depression. But even if I allowed him to control me, he wouldn’t have …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 01:57 AM
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Criticism. I worked at a mostly male manufacturing plant for 5 years and when some men don’t take criticism, a fight may break out and the cops are called. I worked with mostly women now and when women don’t take criticism, they cry and they may need to go home. I worked at that plant 5 years and cannot tell you how many times the cops were called. I work at my mostly women company for 3 years and no cops, not once. Tell me who’s worse with criticism. The last time the cops were called, a superv…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 01:46 AM
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So the only reason men have for living is for sex? Otherwise life isn’t worth living for men? Also, almost everyone, men and women can’t take criticism. It’s not just women. Many many years managing people and doing every method to deliver constructive criticism and I know most people in general can’t take criticism. I have seen my share of fragile male egos. Albeit men are more prone to anger and women cry. But either way, both sexes can’t take criticism
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 01:28 AM
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Mistyped. Million.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 11:07 PM
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“Leisure time How are non-working men between 25 and 54 spending their time? On average, nearly seven hours each weekday are dedicated to leisure time — relaxing, playing games and watching TV, according to data from the Bureau of Labor Statistics from 2021.” “Data also shows that men who are not working or looking for work are spending less time caring for other household members, like children, than men who are at work.” https://www.cbsnews.com/amp/news/men-workforce-work-companies-struggle-fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 11:07 PM
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And the unemployment rate is the lowest it has been in 50 years at 3.5%. It’s a mystery why 7.2 million between the ages of 25-54 are not working and also not in school
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 10:56 PM
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That’s a lot in my book
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 10:53 PM
1

Well, to each their own. I don’t think online dating is good, just in general
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 08:34 PM
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Newer article: https://www.ktsa.com/we-are-missing-seven-million-men/. If you just google “7 million men”. A ton of articles come up. And also google “Richard reeves” crisis for boys and men. I think we need more male mentorship of younger men
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 04:27 PM
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https://nypost.com/2022/11/02/disturbing-rise-of-the-nilfs-men-not-in-the-labor-force/.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 04:25 PM
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I don’t know for sure. But if you google the article it sites the bureau of labor statistics. Here is a link to the census https://www.census.gov/quickfacts/fact/table/US/LFE046221. https://www.cbsnews.com/amp/news/men-workforce-work-companies-struggle-fill-jobs-manufacturing/. https://www.fool.com/the-ascent/personal-finance/articles/this-is-why-7-million-men-refuse-to-work-according-to-dave-ramsey/. https://www.yahoo.com/lifestyle/most-chilling-metric-mike-rowe-150000193.html
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 04:24 PM
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7 million men of prime age 25-54 are not employed and are not in school. 7 million men in the United States are not working at all. Of course women don’t want to date them
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 03:22 PM
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Well of course women have egos. They want to be seen as something more than life support for a v*gina. But ditto for men, they want to be seen as something other than a wallet
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 03:19 PM
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I’d stop talking to women about feminism at all. Just stop. I never ever went on to my husband that I’m a feminist. It’s unattractive for the woman to flex feminism and also unattractive for a man to bash feminism. The gender war stuff just has to stop. Politics religion etc doesn’t need to be discussed on a romantic date. You Meninist and feminists are absolutely killing any chance at romance there would otherwise be. Yuck!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 03:15 PM
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Well, some women never go on the apps at all. I have never been on a dating app and many of my girlfriends have never been on a dating app. Now mind you I was married for 20 years, so obviously wouldn’t be. But even now, I still will not ever get on a dating app. If a guy doesn’t ask me out IRL, then that’s just how it’s going to be. Plenty of men chat me up at planet fitness or orange theory. And some at church. But very rarely do I get asked out. I’m in my 40s and for my area and the people ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 03:11 PM
1

Well you initial post had me worried, but this post is completely rational and thought out. Very good points. I thought you were going to be a Wingnut based on the extreme child prisoner thing. But very rational response and reasonable and rational. I was so thinking you were about to say “slavery wasn’t that bad” which is how men typically sound to be when they want to remove rights from women (such as the right to divorce, etc.). Look at Steve crowders wife. Allegedly, they were both virgins a…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 09:26 PM
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True, women can get sex, hookups. But it’s hard for women to get a relationship. If you look at the ghosted thread. Men get sex (Or don’t get sex) and then ghost. Most women I know want to build a relationship first before having sex and are often ghosted because I guess the man doesn’t ant to wait 3 months for sex
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 05:59 PM
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I think men need to get off online dating altogether and learn to approach women, build a report, and then shoot your shot. Ask them out. Most women I know are never asked out in real life. A lot of these nerd want to hint at…and not actually ask her out. I can’t tell you how many men have flirted or danced around me with small talk and never asked me out. Maybe they didn’t want to, but I think at least some of them just didn’t have the courage to ask me out. Went through a ton of unnecessary co…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 05:53 PM
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Did you just compare your wife to a child, meaning you want the same control over the wife just like she is a child? Or a prisoner? Don’t you want your woman to want you? Instead of being held prisoner? Many women get married and husbands turn into alcoholics or drug addicts or physical abusers or spend all the money on drugs, gambling, prostitutes and the wife isn’t allowed to divorce her husband? Hmm. Women often lose money property and access to sex and sometimes custody of their kids. Women …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 05:45 PM
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Welp, I think we have to do something about our sons so our daughters have a decent man to marry. I don’t know what the answer is. Maybe ROTC in high school and 4 years in the military after high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 06:50 PM
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Welp, the department of labor shows 7 million men of working age 25-54, not working. I don’t know any women living off government assistance. Gen z (male and female are living at home well into late twenties). 2/3 of college grads are women now and men are not in the labor force or getting their education. Google Richard Reeves. He talks about what we can do for our sons, because they are falling behind (very badly). Women are doing quite alright. 29% of households, women are the breadwinners
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 06:41 PM
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Besides you’re the one with a granny fetish
/r/TheRedPill27/06/23 06:37 AM
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Then encourage men to level up, not chastise women for working hard. Tell the 7 million men who are between 25-54 in this country to get a job, stop the porn and video games and I don’t know, actually be kind to women, have good hygiene, go to a barber once a month religiously, wash their bed sheets once a week, get new underwear and t-shirts every year (and throw the old ones out), so many many men don’t do the basics. Just porn and video games and eat junk, don’t shower daily or floss. Just ba…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 06:36 AM
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Are you saying you’re illiterate? Figures, the dumbing down of America, that and multiple choice tests. You probably still live in your mom’s basement and only got a high school diploma due to the push them through participation trophy no child left behind, get your drivers license in your twenties generation. You must have said that same phrase to a lady and thought it sounded cool. You’re literally following a cult that came about because of the movie the matrix, tater-tot. I bet you thing And…
/r/TheRedPill27/06/23 06:09 AM
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I admitted already I’m not an expert on red pill, just learning it. Look, it’s not obvious by looking at dudes whether they are normal or not. You probably look normal too, yet are triggered because granny knows nothing about your Scientology, jehovah witness like red pill cult. I work a job, so no I don’t speak the language. Women fall for creeps every day. I’m sure a woman may fall for you one day. Chad doerman looks normal, yet killed his 3 sons before Father’s Day in front of his wife. Y’all…
/r/TheRedPill27/06/23 02:44 AM
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True. Im an old lady. Not sure how I can be “in your way”. Clearly you got triggered and decided to engage me (not the other way around). So I assume you identify as having the same traits as the guy I described in my post and that’s what triggered you to go after granny
/r/TheRedPill26/06/23 09:03 PM
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My brother would say men like you have never been punched in the face and it shows. Go after women because you’re afraid to compete with or take on other men. You don’t have to “hold frame” if you just are a natural alpha in your relaxed state. Clearly you don’t have a relaxed state.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/23 05:05 PM
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You typed the F word twice
/r/TheRedPill26/06/23 04:58 PM
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Then why you even talking to grannies or cussing at grannies. Shouldn’t you have respect for your elders little boy?
/r/TheRedPill26/06/23 02:41 PM
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Well you escalated to cussing, so looks like you lost frame. Lol. But maybe you’re always like that. A keyboard tough guy?
/r/TheRedPill26/06/23 02:39 PM
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And aren’t you supposed to be maintaining frame? Lol
/r/TheRedPill26/06/23 01:58 PM
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But the way you come across. You’re a real charmer with the ladies too I’m sure. Yikes
/r/TheRedPill26/06/23 01:52 PM
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Okay. I only recently learned about red pill but obviously you’re an expert. I only know about the red pill bible. What I read and what my friends alerted me too. Anyone can say anything on the internet and of course the movie where they interview Paul Elam. I actually can’t say I know much about it. Just recently learned
/r/TheRedPill26/06/23 01:51 PM
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Well I worked with the guy 21 years ago and he was just fine. Obviously he’s been reading some PUA or red pill stuff and when I started talking to friends, and mutual friends, they pointed out all the various red pill quotes. So so many and that’s when I first found out about this ideology. But clearly completely brainwashed. Knows how to really sweet talk a lady. I still talk to him on occasion, but man that was beyond ugly and so cringe. Just all the various things about anti feminism, dude so…
/r/TheRedPill26/06/23 12:42 PM
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I don’t recommend a guy saying that to a girl on a date. I told all my girlfriends and family and brothers and they all thought the same thing. He’s calling you a prostitute. No one took it any different than that. It’s disgusting and insulting. I can’t find one person I know who thinks that’s acceptable to tell a woman on a date
/r/TheRedPill26/06/23 12:23 PM
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Well the dude was obviously okay saying it to be in a very smug “I’m the prize” tone. Actually he said he was a unicorn. Really the dude was just a coward. When I pointed at my brother, he apologized. He knew he was being insulting. He said other negging insults to me before then. He was just being a d*uche and seeing how much I would take. He got wide eyed when I pointed out my brother was and he looked and saw the biggest dude in the bar. Hello coward, want to insult or neg me know?! Um, didn’…
/r/TheRedPill26/06/23 12:19 PM
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Yuck. Disgusting
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 05:41 AM
1

Let’s stop serving up our young women up to these old men, shall we?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 07:25 PM
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You want your 18 year old daughter in high school dating an old man? Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 07:24 PM
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Well when someone clearly hates women and comes across as a misogynist, perhaps he should leave women alone IMO. It’s good advice for men who dislike women to leave them alone, don’t you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 07:22 PM
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Just messing with you. I always find it amusing how easy it is for a 130 pound woman to mess with dudes. Just having fun, chillax
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 02:18 AM
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I thought you red pill dudes were supposed to “hold frame” and agree and amplify and survive shit tests. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 02:14 AM
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I bet you have a man bun, wear skinny jeans
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 02:10 AM
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Not living together. My ex husband was a hoarder and filthy. So the secret of my current LTR is living separately. I have zero energy to clean up after a grown man.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 02:09 AM
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You shave your balls? Gay
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 02:02 AM
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Tell them you can see their camel toe?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 02:00 AM
1

Let me help you out, don’t date women. Problem solved. You’re not mature enough to date if you can’t figure out the basics and have to come to reddit for people to answer what should be obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 12:53 AM
1

We aren’t getting Brazilian waxes and boob jobs for other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 12:50 AM
5

7 million men of prime working age between the age of 25-54 are not working. Thus women are actually over represented in the labor force despite having to leave in droves during COVID when no daycares and schools were open. Facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 12:48 AM
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I’m not talking about wanting kids but you don’t have them because you can’t afford them. There was a study recently in childless women and like 80 percent of them thought they would have eventually had kids and well life circumstances just didn’t work out. Either they couldn’t afford them or didn’t find a mate etc. there is still yearning for what you can’t afford. I never had kids. I’ll be 48 this year and kind of wish I’d had 2-3 kids. I do know a few women that never wanted kids.
/r/ExRedPill24/06/23 09:00 PM
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Well true. Genetic mutations, lesbians so obviously not all women are like anything. But I think we can safely say a lot of women want kids. But in recent years a lot of women don’t want kids now. So evolution “evolves”
/r/ExRedPill23/06/23 11:12 PM
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Well evolution is what it is. Women and men are not the same. Watch animals mating in the wild and don’t fool yourself, we are animals too. Sure there are people who play games but steer clear of those women. Don’t play games and don’t tolerate women that do. However, there is nature and women are hard wired biologically for some behaviors and well I don’t think there is anything that you can do about that. Here’s hoping that you find a good woman and both of you treat each other well
/r/ExRedPill23/06/23 10:19 PM
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Do you do small things like when you’re driving in the car, reach over and hold her hand if you don’t need to turn corners or shift. I just love it when my man holds my hand in the car. He does all the chivalry stuff that I just eat up like candy. Always always has his hand on the small of my back when opening doors for me. Jokes with me asking if I “forgot” to wear panties. Puts my coat on me. Sometimes car time is spicier. But often times it’s him just holding my hand or patting or rubbing my …
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/23 10:09 PM
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Is your current gal into games? I mean has she ever “shit tested” you in the past? I mean everyone can be an asshole, but do you believe she is into “gaming” you. I think a what of red pill says are shit tests really aren’t. But of course, women do want their man to be their rock and subconsciously she is unknowingly testing you for that. It’s not a conscious thing. We want to feel safe and protected and that subconsciously you’re able to provide and protect any children. Nature.
/r/ExRedPill23/06/23 09:56 PM
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I don’t know if she’s the type of gal, but buying her a matching bra and thong set from Victoria secret or a lace thong teddy that holds her post partum stomach in. But if she’s completely turned off and sex is painful. Then I wouldn’t go this route. My man surprised me with a new lace thong and matching bra. But what he really likes is when I “forget” to wear panties under my dress and he loves high heels. I dress up even if we are going to Cheesecake Factory and he loves road head. But he make…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/23 09:49 PM
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Welp, only you know what you must do for yourself. When’s the last time you took her out on a date where she had to wear a sexy dress and heels? A restaurant with a white tablecloth. Do you take her on dates? Do you think she feels sexy?
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/23 09:39 PM
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I don’t know any girlfriends who have ever shit tested a man and plenty of my girlfriends can be assholes for sure. …for whatever reason. I’d say treat her how you want to be treated and if she behaves disrespectfully towards you, tell her that she was being disrespectful and she needs to stop or you’ll leave. Nothing wrong with demanding respect especially if you did nothing disrespectful to warrant that. Nothing wrong with a woman wanting your time, but you can just say “sorry sweetie, I’d lov…
/r/ExRedPill23/06/23 09:34 PM
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Obviously you know you’re own situation better than anyone else. You have to do whatever you feel is necessary. How old is your newborn? I don’t think you should tolerate disrespect. Was it an utterance due to painful sex or was it just to be an A hole to you? Again, it’s your life. You know your situation better than anyone else. Although I don’t think 2 wrongs make it right…meaning if you try to out A hole each other with everyone playing a game of chicken and no one offering an olive branch a…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/23 06:23 PM
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OP says she recently did something disrespectful during sex and they argue after sex. Um, I know if he was hitting a home run and making her orgasm, she ain’t arguing after sex. She’ll be happy as a clam, rolling over and snoring soundly. No way he hit a home run if she’s arguing after sex
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/23 05:16 PM
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So many women complain that sex is over with when he c*ms and leaves her hanging. You can still rub and give oral and even a clit vibrator while you do oral. If it’s messy, keep Huggie wet wipes or ask her to take a quick shower and return for round 2. Women often Masturbate after sex with their husbands.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/23 05:12 PM
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If you don’t know where her clit is or what it looks like, that’s a problem
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/23 05:07 PM
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Get a babysitter, take her out on a nice date once a week. She probably doesn’t feel sexy. Foreplay starts at breakfast. Have a lot of non sexual touch. Kiss her goodbye in the morning (without touching and squeezing her butt) every time. Kiss her when you first walk in the door at night. Make her dinner one night a week and let her sit and breastfeed the baby while you cook. But after a few weeks of courting her and doing little gestures to make her feel sexy and loved, if the tingles don’t ret…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/23 05:05 PM
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I dated one red pill guy for 6 months and didn’t find out what the red pill was until after i broke up with him. Now I don’t date at all. I’ve never done online dating as I was married for over 20 years. This was I a guy I’ve known since my 20s, started talking again and dated for 6 months and now I haven’t dated for 8 months and have no intention of dating again for quite some time. I would google the disgusting things he said like “she’s not yours, it’s just your turn”. I said that’s disgustin…
/r/ExRedPill21/06/23 04:54 PM
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Can you afford a babysitter?
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/23 06:27 PM
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