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Yeah I understand. Life can definitely be harder alone. At the same time it can also be far simpler, and that can be a good thing.
/r/seduction28/08/22 02:07 AM
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Cool thanks.
/r/seduction28/08/22 02:02 AM
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Honestly I think people are way off with the whole scale thing. Some guys say a girl is a “10” who I don’t think is an “8” and vice versa.
/r/seduction27/08/22 05:41 PM
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Yup. Online dating is so fucked at this point.
/r/seduction27/08/22 05:36 PM
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Exactly, and that goes back to the fact that men make up to 70-75 percent of dating app users. It’s such an imbalance that women can hook up with men they never would be able to IRL.
/r/seduction27/08/22 05:31 PM
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Age is a huge factor. Most attractive women over 27 are in relationships of some kind and not looking. So the majority of those hot 30+ year old women you see in the mall or in public are taken.
/r/seduction27/08/22 05:20 PM
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Lol. It gets worse as you get older. Overweight or obese women. Single moms. Women who haven’t aged well. The list goes on… After 30 or 35 you’re better off sticking to meeting women in real life instead of online IMO.
/r/seduction27/08/22 05:16 PM
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The one thing to keep in mind is you’re seeing couples (your friends, family and strangers) at their best. Behind closed doors things aren’t always going so well in their relationships. And yeah I don’t even count media (commercials, movies, TV shows, etc.) because it’s all fake and they’re trying to sell you something.
/r/seduction27/08/22 05:13 PM
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The Grind leads to burnout eventually, especially if your job and side hustle(s) are done from home.
/r/seduction27/08/22 04:48 PM
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Maybe it’s just me, but bars have been very lackluster since the pandemic began two years ago. Fewer women, and the ones who are out aren’t as open to strangers as they were before 2020. Anyway, the times I’ve met women at the bar were when I went with the intention of just enjoying myself and not looking to pick up. I didn’t just stare into my phone while I drank but engaged with the people around me.
/r/seduction27/08/22 04:42 PM
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Do you have any favorites? I’m always on the lookout for books on communication.
/r/seduction27/08/22 04:41 PM
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Yes, too much sun accounts for a lot of skin aging.
/r/seduction14/08/22 01:52 AM
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I’m also in decent shape and above-average attractiveness at 45 (almost 46), so I also get interest from younger women and occasional DMs from very young women. I usually don’t reciprocate interest because I don’t know if those relationships are worth pursuing. I tend to prefer late 20s or older because most of the “college age” women I’ve met are really still kids. Most, not all.
/r/seduction08/08/22 11:26 PM
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Agree to meet her but go dutch. Fuck her if she’s up for it, but don’t expect it to develop into anything beyond that. Pretty simple.
/r/seduction06/08/22 04:50 AM
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I was in the same situation once years ago. You have to either go back to her place (if it’s close) or get a hotel room nearby.
/r/seduction06/08/22 04:48 AM
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Yeah it sucks. Most women will not follow up with you if you don’t try to close that night. It’s a spur of the moment thing for them.
/r/seduction06/08/22 04:45 AM
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I agree with others who say get a hotel room, or go back to her place if she lives nearby. And yeah avoid dating apps at all costs.
/r/seduction06/08/22 04:43 AM
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Late reply, but did you try dating women under 35? How did that go?
/r/seduction05/08/22 04:29 AM
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The $$$$ thing isn't something I haven't run into much. I have maybe gone out with 2 women in total that wanted to be 'taken care of'. As for the other younger women, they seem to want a guy that knows all the right moves at the right time: The right amount of texting, the right level of assertiveness, knowing when to back off, etc. You stray just a bit and just long enough and they lose interest. Yeah being older means the expectations are higher on you than a younger guy. That's what I meant b…
/r/seduction29/07/22 07:03 PM
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The few times I tried that, it felt like I was being unkind to the woman. I’ve tried it before as well. And I feel bad when I think back on it, since there were times she wanted to get intimate and I just couldn’t do it because I wasn’t attracted to her enough. Women take it personally when men they like don’t find them attractive or lose interest. Since then I’ve vowed never to get with a woman I don’t find attractive. She doesn’t have to be a “10” or super-beautiful, just someone I like physic…
/r/seduction29/07/22 05:27 PM
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The argument against this is that age is an independent factor in itself. IOW a man can be better-looking, more emotionally stable, wealthier and more well-rounded at 40 than he was at 25, but his dating pool with women under 30 will be smaller than in his 20s simply because those women won’t date significantly older men. Now there are women in their 20s who don’t care about age, and there are some who actually prefer significantly older men. But most do care about age to some degree, whether it…
/r/seduction29/07/22 05:12 PM
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Don’t lower your standards. Trust me, it won’t work. You can’t force yourself to become sexually attracted to someone. I don’t know about you, but I don’t mind the dry spells. They give me a chance to focus on other things that matter just as much as (if not more than) dating. Do you have any hobbies or interests you can throw yourself into during dry spells? Bonus points for activities that are social and include women.
/r/seduction29/07/22 05:03 PM
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Younger women only stick around if things are petty perfect. Usually means $$$$ Otherwise, they just want to date around and sample the buffet. This is fine and something I’m ok with. It’s just a lot of younger women have pressure from friends and family not to do that.
/r/seduction29/07/22 04:56 PM
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Yeah but those 40s women don’t often look as good as 30s and they have multiple kids.
/r/seduction29/07/22 04:28 AM
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Damn if a good max lay-to-approach ratio is 3-5%, then what is a good date-to-approach ratio?
/r/seduction21/06/22 03:39 PM
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Your point is a bad take. But you’ll learn more as you mature.
/r/seduction17/06/22 04:26 PM
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Not so fast. Some folks lose their jobs or relocate and need some work for a few months to a year. Don’t be so judgmental.
/r/seduction17/06/22 05:11 AM
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Don’t forget “Take care of your teeth.” I think more than a few guys forgo bushing every day and seeing a dentist every 6-12 months. Also you might have to whiten your teeth eventually if you drink coffee or tea on a regular basis.
/r/seduction15/06/22 08:11 PM
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Yeah back where I’m from unemployed or under-employed men hopping from woman to woman is so common it’s a stereotype.
/r/seduction15/06/22 08:08 PM
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How old are you? I ask because earning minimum wage over 35 is a dagger though the heart of a man’s dating life.
/r/seduction15/06/22 08:01 PM
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I guess it depends on the level of teasing that you’re talking about. Some people could get a bit offended depending on the level. And making sexual innuendos can be creepy if they’re done too often or too early. I would avoid making them when you first meet a girl.
/r/seduction14/06/22 05:11 PM
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I think the important detail here is it took years for this guy you talk about to get jacked. Guys want to lift and get a lean, muscular body in 6-12 months. No that shit takes consistency for at least 2-3 years. And those guys who have model-like bodies with low body fat have been lifting and eating right for 5-10 years.
/r/seduction13/06/22 06:27 PM
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If you’ve been told more than once by more than one person that you’re “weird” than you probably are doing something that is off-putting. And that can be the only reason. A woman has to protect herself because, until she gets to know you better, you’re a potential physical threat to her. Weird behavior, therefore, can be a huge red flag to a woman. In another post you said that you make witty jokes that are “sometimes” offensive. “Witty jokes” that are offensive are just offensive, no matter how…
/r/seduction13/06/22 06:04 PM
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Genius! If a woman wants to talk to you she will, so no pickup line is needed. If a woman doesn’t want to talk to you it will be obvious, and no pickup line will work.
/r/seduction30/05/22 10:22 PM
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It must be something primeval, like women see “nice” men as weak and pushovers. And back in the day, a weak man wouldn’t be a good provider or protector of his family.
/r/seduction30/05/22 10:19 PM
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Flirting can include compliments and light teasing.
/r/seduction25/05/22 05:39 PM
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Either go to a nearby city or move to a larger place.
/r/seduction25/05/22 05:37 PM
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Ok give me a sec. Edit: https://www.realclearscience.com/articles/2022/05/18/the_trait_that_best_predicts_mens_mating_success_832788.html Height, a deeper voice and testosterone levels were also factors in how many sexual partners a man had.
/r/seduction24/05/22 06:11 PM
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What is your bf percentage?
/r/seduction24/05/22 02:37 PM
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Pictures taken on a phone aren’t a good indication if a person is attractive or not (usually). Video is much better. It’s possible OP is much better-looking in person.
/r/seduction24/05/22 02:36 PM
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For dudes like OP getting laid is a full-time hobby. I had a friend who slept with 60+ women over his life and he was always playing the game, day and night.
/r/seduction24/05/22 02:33 PM
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I’m not from France, but it’s the stereotype about your country that women are very open sexually?
/r/seduction24/05/22 02:29 PM
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OP is probably in the top 10 percent looks-wise is my guess.
/r/seduction24/05/22 02:27 PM
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A worldwide meta-analysis I read recently found that muscularity had the largest impact on a man’s number of sexual partners. All things being equal, of course.
/r/seduction24/05/22 02:22 PM
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Longer than I thought. That’s cool. I have the opposite problem: women wanting to know everything because they’re in a rush to get married and don’t want to waste time.
/r/seduction23/05/22 01:08 PM
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I actually like that a woman I’m with isn’t trying to dissect me after only knowing me for a few weeks. So many want to move too fast.
/r/seduction22/05/22 07:29 PM
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How long did those relationships last? Seems if they never asked about you then they couldn’t have lasted that long.
/r/seduction22/05/22 07:26 PM
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Not really, so don’t get weird and dress or sit in a way that emphasizes your crotch. At best that’s cringe, and at worst you’ll get the cops called on you.
/r/seduction21/05/22 05:36 PM
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Not really. I’m over 40 and have dated from 19 to close to my age. Casual dating should be just for fun and/or companionship.
/r/seduction29/03/22 04:18 PM
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What’s the average age of this sub? If this sub is full of 18-23 guys that might be why they are obsessed with women under 25.
/r/seduction29/03/22 04:18 PM
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Plus you don’t want to keep approaching women at the gym. If one of them feels uncomfortable and complains to the management you could be kicked out.
/r/seduction29/03/22 04:14 PM
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I agree. Maybe I don’t go to my gym enough, or I’m just not fit/hot enough, but only once in my entire time in gyms have I ever felt it OK to approach a woman. Other times they all have their headphones on and are ignoring everyone else.
/r/seduction29/03/22 04:10 PM
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