| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Age/Generation | Temporary-Analysis75 | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/11/25 03:53 PM | |
| 1 | Age/Generation | Temporary-Analysis75 | /r/RPChristians | 23/11/25 05:31 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Facing Down Your Wife’s Disapproval CannonWith that said, if the wfe has a disapproval cannon, it's a sign your marriage is on the rocks and it's time to plot your exit strategy. | /r/RPChristians | 02/06/26 05:39 PM |
| 1 | Facing Down Your Wife’s Disapproval CannonWhat does this have to do with ChatGPT. | /r/RPChristians | 20/04/26 06:00 AM |
| 2 | Facing Down Your Wife’s Disapproval CannonPlus for most men, especially older geezers, starting over is harder (the "where do I go from there" question after divorce) and an even worse option. | /r/RPChristians | 20/04/26 05:59 AM |
| – | Lost in marriage and familyPart of Eves punishment is that she will desire to control her husband but won’t be able to. And feminism is trying to change/eradicate that. | /r/RPChristians | 20/04/26 05:38 AM |
| 1 | Lost in marriage and familyYou made a huge mistake marrying her in the first place. Marriage makes you concerned more with worldly matters. You will have to get a divorce lawyer. Silent treatment her and have your lawyer assist you with eviction from the house. If you want full custody, be prepared to cut your hours. Read the r/marriedredpill sidebar on strategies to reduce/eliminate alimony/child support. It looks like you are a victim of the Disapproval Cannon. | /r/RPChristians | 20/04/26 05:08 AM |
| 1 | It’s smart for a man to stop being friends with a women after she rejects himWhat about Financial, Mission, Mental, Reading material, Family/Social and diet (like the exercise part)? How much drinking, if any? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/25 04:53 AM |
| 1 | A lot of men marry women because they want constant access to sex, not because of her personalityThey could also marry because a voice inside their head says, "You had better get married. You're starting to look old". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 12:54 PM |
| 1 | It’s smart for a man to stop being friends with a women after she rejects himWell, rejection is an example of life kicking you in the fucking face. I can't help but wonder if a recent rejection influenced how a guy voted in last year's election and past elections for that matter. As an aside, for the guys who post stats, it would be helpful to have a rubric for attractiveness (assign a point value to each stat) and come up with a grid for SMV and as to whether to date, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 12:52 PM |
| 1 | It’s smart for a man to stop being friends with a women after she rejects himOr gaslighting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 12:42 PM |
| 1 | It’s smart for a man to stop being friends with a women after she rejects himAgreed. Opposite sex (platonic) friendships hold zero value. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 12:39 PM |
| 1 | It’s smart for a man to stop being friends with a women after she rejects himIt is better to avoid her very existence of her or any mention of her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 12:17 PM |
| 1 | It’s smart for a man to stop being friends with a women after she rejects himWhich is why you should never hit on someone at work in the first place. In school, the guy should just let the girl come to him. Truthfully, if you are forced to interact with any female regularly, you cannot consider her as a prospect. Waitresses, bartenders and female stylists and beauticians are an absolute no-no, too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 12:13 PM |
| 2 | It’s smart for a man to stop being friends with a women after she rejects himIt should motivate you to improve your stats, yes, and if you hadn't lifted before said rejection, to start lifting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 12:05 PM |
| 1 | 3 month updateAgreed. It is good OP moved out and I think the best option is collaborative divorce or a simple dissolution. | /r/RPChristians | 17/12/25 08:39 PM |
| 1 | 3 month updateDidn't realize you had kids with her. How many did you have with her? What custody decision looks like will happen? | /r/RPChristians | 29/11/25 05:00 AM |
| 1 | Not sure what to do, need guidance.Let me clarify for the OP: Do not give an ounce or second of energy, attention or time to the soon to be ex wife--it's bad enough he may have to give her money (watch his M.E.A.T.). | /r/RPChristians | 04/09/25 09:10 PM |
| 1 | Advice And Wisdom NeededIt's Corporate America that's pushing you around. Welp, that's Corporate America for you--one mishap can get you kicked out so fast your head would spin (it can chew you up and spit you right back out without a second thought). The boss(es) could blame you and decide you're a liability to their bottom line and without recourse or notice you are gone. | /r/RPChristians | 03/09/25 02:56 PM |
| 0 | Advice And Wisdom NeededWhere are the stats? | /r/RPChristians | 01/09/25 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Advice And Wisdom NeededI notice one post was missing, what happened? | /r/RPChristians | 01/09/25 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Not sure what to do, need guidance.There was a post from Monday that got deleted. Would you mind reposting it but in a different way as recommended by the guidelines? | /r/RPChristians | 23/08/25 04:29 AM |
| 1 | Not sure what to do, need guidance.Then have someone serve her with an eviction notice. | /r/RPChristians | 14/08/25 03:53 AM |
| 1 | Not sure what to do, need guidance.JabberWookie_77 is right. | /r/RPChristians | 13/08/25 07:11 PM |
| 1 | Not sure what to do, need guidance.You're welcome. Filing the papers is simply a resignation and acknowledgement that you are no longer a couple. My take is that you were looking for a lady who will be non-judgmental over your drinking but your being an alcoholic should close the door to that idea. Plus, at this or any future junctures, looking for someone accepting will not help you in your recovery, so first of all, a woman genuinely accepting of a man's drinking is few and far between, and second, should not be part of your jo… | /r/RPChristians | 13/08/25 07:10 PM |
| 1 | Not sure what to do, need guidance.Irregardless, she already has a lawyer and drawing up papers as this chat goes on, guaranteed. I'll bet she is already looking or open to someone new. Your lawyer will tell you whether you should contest it but, generally, the recommendation is to never contest a divorce when she files, because you always lose. Your lawyer should have the final say in this case. Finally, maintaining frame does not mean living or acting like you are in denial. | /r/RPChristians | 13/08/25 06:54 PM |
| 1 | Not sure what to do, need guidance.Tell all of this to the OP. You could also just simply blow your cash on lottery, sports bets or casinos or playing the horses. It is not going to be possible for him to stay in the house. The only argument, which will not be of much use, and he has no others as far as I know, is you are no longer living as a couple. All the more reason OP should just go ahead and go to the gym with no regard to the girls. OP should have left out the if and stop saying "if we get divorced". He needs to stop livi… | /r/RPChristians | 13/08/25 06:51 PM |
| 1 | Not sure what to do, need guidance.A good idea for this post like the OYS posts is to come up with an attractiveness or value score for each of the stats with a rubric for evaluating a composite score and a scale to see how good or bad you are doing. | /r/RPChristians | 13/08/25 01:25 AM |
| 1 | Not sure what to do, need guidance.You should have filed sooner. They will become a statistic of divorce no matter what. TBH, you are better off without her. Someone will drop the bomb, whether it is you or her. As far as withholding intimacy in the bedroom, the reason they do that as a response to something you did wrong is because what you did turned them off and caused them to feel contempt, if not outright hatred and revulsion toward you. The silent treatment from you is likely because you realized you violated your Prohibiti… | /r/RPChristians | 12/08/25 05:45 PM |
| 1 | Not sure what to do, need guidance.You guys can't be helped. This is why the ladder gets pulled up. Imagine bending your values simply to avoid being nagged - it's so cringe how terrified of conflict you guys are. 90% of the problems the red pill solves for are because men are mortified of hurting their wifes feelings. Either because they are conflict avoidant pussies, or because they are scared their wife will stop IV dripping them sex. Either way it's pathetic. There is the sense of "I get it. I let you down." I can guarantee a… | /r/RPChristians | 12/08/25 04:46 PM |
| 1 | Not sure what to do, need guidance.That question was for the OP. If the answer is yes, OP may be able to leverage it. | /r/RPChristians | 12/08/25 04:20 PM |
| 1 | Not sure what to do, need guidance.And also, you are NOT ready to mingle yet. | /r/RPChristians | 12/08/25 04:08 PM |
| 1 | Not sure what to do, need guidance.It is what it is. She is probably talking to someone else now so it is time for him to scoot along the track and live the best single life he can. The reason I posted what I posted earlier is because that marriage was not based in love. I think he was married to a gold digger. Their marriage was one of convenience and a purely financial arrangement where she only married for money and stability. He was only as good to her as the money HE made, which was no longer worth anything to her. She was l… | /r/RPChristians | 12/08/25 04:07 PM |
| 1 | Not sure what to do, need guidance.So then give her a divorce. Get a game plan. Don't talk to her at all. Go no contact. Only talk through your lawyers. Move out. Hide what you can so she can't screw you over, but be ready to lose anyway. The one good thing is you don't have a mortgage on the house, but that could mean, she can take the entire proceeds and leave you with nothing. Unfortunate that it was too little too late. If only you never drank or put weight on in the first place and she still didn't like you, you should not h… | /r/RPChristians | 12/08/25 04:05 PM |
| 0 | Not sure what to do, need guidance.People may even find that for many missions they don't need a woman. Therefore, it may be better to stay single. | /r/RPChristians | 12/08/25 09:49 AM |
| 0 | Not sure what to do, need guidance.Basically, you have to emotionally divorce yourself from her now. You are going to have to put up a facade for now and take the "fake it until you make it" approach. In fact, I would avoid interaction with her at all. You should only talk through your lawyers. | /r/RPChristians | 12/08/25 09:45 AM |
| 1 | Not sure what to do, need guidance.You also silent treatmented your wife because you were a piss baby about her not giving you said goodboy points. She also silent treatmented him because she has no respect for him anymore. He probably also silent treatmented her because he realized he broke the Prohibition and blew it and failed. In terms of finances, the end justifies the means. If he has to steal for sale on the black market or deal drugs to have an income so the wife does not nag at him about money, then so be it. Those six m… | /r/RPChristians | 12/08/25 09:37 AM |
| 1 | Not sure what to do, need guidance.But you have to do it for yourself OP should keep this in mind because, at this point, divorce is inevitable. She is calling all of the shots here. The divorce lawyer is ally #1 here, Doing the above for an extended period would be a massive transformation. Only then would you be an a position to measure your wife’s response. Basically, don't be your current self. The only way for you to be successful in that kind of situation is to be someone else. | /r/RPChristians | 12/08/25 09:32 AM |
| 1 | Not sure what to do, need guidance.Going back to school is a horrible idea. At the point you are, you cannot afford to lose more years to the Gods of academia. You also do not have any support. You should have started the process of divorcing your wife the day you lost your job. Many women consider a man's employment gap to be grounds for divorce. If you filed, you could have ducked alimony and child support. Now that you are back working, you better start your own bank account. Since she does not appreciate anything you do, divo… | /r/RPChristians | 12/08/25 09:26 AM |
| 1 | Not sure what to do, need guidance.Seems like we have had more uncontained issues than I knew. It looks like she forced you to not lift. Women hold on to grudges forever, so, it looks like divorce is the only remedy. In fact, it is inevitable because you broke the contract against drinking, so you had better lawyer up. Hopefully you two did not have kids of your own and you both only blended the children from previous marriages. If only you did not drink at all in the first place but she still treated you like a dog, then you cou… | /r/RPChristians | 12/08/25 03:30 AM |
| 1 | Not sure what to do, need guidance.You can't salvage your marriage. Here is your action plan: Look for a new place to live. Get all of your records out of her reach. Set up a new bank account with a different bank. Call a divorce lawyer. Get a private investigator. Record all conversations she tries to start against you (gotta be done covertly). Move your money into your new bank account. Draw up and file the papers. The rest is going to be up to the lawyers. | /r/RPChristians | 12/08/25 03:28 AM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (12/16/24)It is a grid to determine whether you should even bother with the opposite sex at all or if staying single is the best or only option for you. | /r/RPChristians | 19/12/24 01:56 AM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (12/16/24)What would be most helpful is an attractiveness chart with the financial and physical areas so as to assess SMV and chances in the dating world. | /r/RPChristians | 17/12/24 03:52 AM |
| 1 | My wife will divorce meYou did play it smart the first time. You should have continued to play it that way every time. | /r/RPChristians | 24/11/24 07:37 AM |
| 1 | My wife will divorce meI did initiate sex after that first encounter plenty of times. Your key mistake here was initiating it too many times. | /r/RPChristians | 24/11/24 03:25 AM |
| 1 | My wife will divorce meI did initiate sex after that first encounter plenty of times.> The big mistake you made was doing so too much. | /r/RPChristians | 24/11/24 03:21 AM |
| 2 | My wife will divorce meIn reading everything you say, if you had Doc Love's System, you would have recognized her Interest Level in you was not high enough to be married to you and seen that because her Interest Level already dipped below 50%, there was no shot at reconciliation, and therefore, filing for divorce was the only option instead of wasting all those months trying to understand frame. Additionally, she was a (F)eminist(a). so you never should have married her anyway. The reason she was nagging you about get… | /r/RPChristians | 22/11/24 05:41 AM |
| 2 | My wife will divorce meDid you mean no-fat or no-fap? | /r/RPChristians | 22/11/24 05:18 AM |
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