Temporary-Drawing212 Archive

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–	Memoir: Kamala Harris: I Lost Young Men to the Manosphere Keep in mind when they say this. They mean immigrants coming in. Like that’s the least of your worries	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/25 10:39 PM
2	Before subscribing to toxic ideologies to get what you want, you should see what being an amazing person gets you first You see the title is the issue. The assumption you should be an amazing person because it gets you something. We gotta stop telling people being good will be rewarded. If anything most ‘good people’ learn quickly they’ll get taken advantage of. Everyone gets a baseline of courtesy. Going above and behind? Nah I’ll wait and filter who gets that’s treatment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/25 09:37 PM
–	Memoir: Kamala Harris: I Lost Young Men to the Manosphere You voted in a tyrant. Ignoring federal judges, thinking executive orders are law and final alongside the attack on anyone with opposite beliefs? Like I guess we can give you guys a round of applause because you voted in one yourself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/25 09:34 PM
8	Shy and socially awkward women are as disadvantageous in dating as shy men I think it matters what type of guy you’re talking about, and where you’re from. I’m very introverted and have a RBF. I still get approached going out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/25 08:43 PM
1	How should child support work? The only thing that should be taken into consideration is money for a childs wellbeing?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/25 02:23 PM
1	Men are 7x more likely to be victimized by a stranger Women violence towards other women is hardly physically it’s psychological. Exclusion, humiliation and harmful gossiping is women violence.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/25 04:13 PM
1	Men are 7x more likely to be victimized by a stranger Why wouldn’t they be? Men have a higher capacity to actually defend themselves against another man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/25 04:09 PM
–	Whats your opinion on what men think the female gaze is? Wanting to have sex only is not the same as dating!	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/25 03:53 PM
–	Whats your opinion on what men think the female gaze is? I don’t know why you guys expect simple answers when reality is far from it. Relationships aren’t one-size-fits-all; they depend on the woman, the context, and the situation. This is exactly what I mean when I say a lot of you lack the social skills to approach situations in a fluid manner. Social dynamics require adaptability—being able to read the room, understand the context, and respond accordingly. If you’re stuck expecting a formulaic approach, you’re going to keep missing the mark	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/25 03:52 PM
1	Let's talk about age gap relationships, specifically when the woman is the younger party. Age-gap relationships are uncommon, but I know of two examples. The first is an older man, a wealthy accountant, who is bald and overweight yet has been in a relationship with a much younger woman for three years. The second is a man with a criminal background who sells drugs. He has multiple children with different women and frequently dates women 20 years younger than himself, often getting them pregnant. From these descriptions, you can guess the quality of the women they attract. When women …	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/24 06:28 PM
1	Let's talk about age gap relationships, specifically when the woman is the younger party. No one cares because it's unlikely to even happen. I don't know who's getting mad about something most will never actually experience. The only two people I know that engage in age gap relationships are sigfitncatly different. One is a well off accountant, and the other is a felon.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/24 06:19 PM
2	Why is it that every time someone suggests men raise their standards or communicate their desires early to avoid relationship pitfalls, there’s always pushback? Instead of taking the advice, it seems like there’s an endless list of excuses not to do it. None of this matters in the end. If a woman decides she can’t find a worthwhile partner, she has every right to choose not to date. Whether it’s due to a lack of suitable options or personal standards, her choice reflects what she believes is the best alternative to being in a relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 07:15 PM
1	Relationships are a much bigger investment for men than they are for women Nope relationships are a bigger investment for women simply because the amount of energy that goes into the relationship is unequal. Both parties do not invest the same into a relationship. Women are selective for this very reason.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 05:00 PM
1	Why is it that every time someone suggests men raise their standards or communicate their desires early to avoid relationship pitfalls, there’s always pushback? Instead of taking the advice, it seems like there’s an endless list of excuses not to do it. Like I said before, everyone categorizes people and treats them differently based on their relationship, and there’s nothing wrong with that—it’s something everyone does. I don’t treat a friend the same way I treat an intimate partner. Some people form bonds quickly, while others are more slow-burning, and that’s just part of how human connections work.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 04:58 PM
1	Why is it that every time someone suggests men raise their standards or communicate their desires early to avoid relationship pitfalls, there’s always pushback? Instead of taking the advice, it seems like there’s an endless list of excuses not to do it. I’m confused—what’s the issue here? Both people had a mutual desire to have sex and acted on it. The only problem being implied seems to be that she decided to sleep with someone else sooner. I don’t understand why men see this as an issue, especially when this is the same gender that often categorizes women into groups and treats them differently. Are you upset that women also categorize men and treat them differently now also?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 03:20 PM
1	Why is it that every time someone suggests men raise their standards or communicate their desires early to avoid relationship pitfalls, there’s always pushback? Instead of taking the advice, it seems like there’s an endless list of excuses not to do it. If I’m not mistaken, the message was to make better choices, right? Women are doing exactly that by choosing themselves over relationships that don’t serve them. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with being single, you know?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 03:14 PM
4	Why is it that every time someone suggests men raise their standards or communicate their desires early to avoid relationship pitfalls, there’s always pushback? Instead of taking the advice, it seems like there’s an endless list of excuses not to do it. WTF is “hook up for free” supposed to mean? Framing two people choosing to have sex based on mutual desire as some kind of "free hookup" is exactly why so many of you struggle with relationships. People have sex because of sexual desire—crazy concept, right? Turns out, you don’t have to pull out your wallet for that one.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 12:42 AM
–	Most people don’t care about the culture/gender war. You’re exaggerating the one similarity they have which is both are WOC. Harris is an extension of the Democratic Party, and as of 2024 they’re not liked nor viewed as reliable. That’s why most don’t like her because of what happened under the Biden administration in their eyes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/24 11:21 PM
1	Most people don’t care about the culture/gender war. There is two things that made her lose: immigration and the economy. People suffer from the casual relationship fallacy where if X happens (issues of money) its because of Y (current admin). The economy to most people wasn't good, so they blamed the administration that currently was in office. Most claimed it was better under Trump, and thus voted for him. The only thing Trump did better was market himself as the better option for dealing with the economy. His pro tariff stance comes across as b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/24 03:57 AM
1	Most people don’t care about the culture/gender war. The only way she made herself look a feminist is through being pro abortion. It seems representing yourself as being a feminist is code for a successful women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/24 03:38 AM
0	Most people don’t care about the culture/gender war. The only people focusing on the topic 'woke' are conservatives as usual. Once again claiming Dems are doing X, meanwhile they're the ones doing it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/24 03:34 AM
2	Not men's fault (re-upload due to lock, reason has been rectified) Going after price gauging, first time home buyer aid, tax cuts for lower incomes and etc are things she was going to do to fix the economy. Did you actually seek out what her policy where, or did you passively letting information just come by?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/24 03:57 PM
0	Not men's fault (re-upload due to lock, reason has been rectified) White men, white women and Latino men specifically are the three groups that DID vote for Trump allowing him to win. We also know people without college education overwhelmingly voted him. Men are probably getting blamed because when you break it down based on gender most women did vote blue.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/24 03:50 PM
2	Debate: Men are forced to support women other than the ones that love them; the opposite is not true. The more income you make the more taxes you pay unless your apart of the 1% that uses loopholes to avoid them. The only thing I see here is someone who does not like their individual work going back to society, or the collective. The point of taxes is to invest in the country and to provide goods and services for the benefit of the American people You probably are against your taxes going towards social security, medicare and welfare programs too right?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/24 02:32 AM
1	At what point is the lack of experience becomes a red flag and what to do about it? Its a red flag that at 34 years old someone has had all failed flings and not even one relationship. People will wonder how its possible none worked out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/24 09:04 AM
7	Do you think women can just passively exist and still get relationships? The answer is yes. As someone who is introverted, bordering on asocial, I can be attending to basic errands like grocery shopping or getting gas and will be approached. Attending the gym, class, hobbies, and special events also allow for approaches. If you are attractive, you just have to sit and wait, from my experience. I have never needed to initiate an approach with a man, making me very passive in initiating things with men. They just do it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/24 05:56 AM
4	People that play games, why? Be honest. Its entertaining. Insecure attachment. The belief they need to work or prove their loyalty to them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/24 05:49 AM
1	The bear in the woods debate is not enlightening and doesn’t do any good but cause stress between men and women. The assumption is that there reasoning is based on logic. 9/10 when men claim it's not logical they just mean they don't understand the reasoning or it does not match with their thinking. So to the women claiming this it probably is logical, but as said before. Most of the decision to pick a bear is based on personal experiences with men so its natrually subjective.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/24 12:35 PM
6	Women consistently base their selection and opinion of men on what other men and women think of them, this is very strange behavior It really dosen't matter if she trust it she would have no choice but to take their opinion into consideration. Some family disown people over stuff like that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/24 09:25 AM
2	What do you think is the biggest contributor apathy in men as of late? No one is getting an ego boost from people who don't want to put in the work. Literally no one ever. A lot of the people here are just soft and coddled. Actually live in an area where poverty exist then come talk to me about being depressed about not getting ahead. People who actually live in those circumstances arent worried about Reddit nor being depressed because they are simply trying to survive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/24 09:22 AM
0	What do you think is the biggest contributor apathy in men as of late? Groups of people have faced that for years, yet they aren't apathetic. It's time to see how coddled a certain group is if they are trying to kill themselves over the inability to get ahead. That's been some people reality for years.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/24 05:19 AM
7	How is society going to change with the growing DINK phenomenon? oh well? This means the gov can finally begin decreasing its spending on National Defense and actually towards its younger population. They understand the problem they now need to give the solution	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/24 06:25 AM
-2	Why people never talk about the fertility in men dropping as they age? No one cares about those Viagra babies they made.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/24 05:21 AM
9	Why do many women say age gap relationships have a "power imbalance" yet say nothing about wealth gap relationships? Yes, father warns their daughter about age-gap relationships. That says enough about whether or not age-gap relationships are in the best interest of women. Of, course older men who want to date significantly younger women wouldn't say anything. That conflicts with their interest.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/24 02:02 AM
12	Why do many women say age gap relationships have a "power imbalance" yet say nothing about wealth gap relationships? Older people are always offering advice to younger people. Relationship advice is included. If many older people are shitting on it it's because they think it's not in the younger person's best interest to do so.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/24 01:56 AM
6	Men and women are not equal and will never be equal The law itself is a set of rules and regulations meant to be applied impartially. However, the implementation and interpretation of the law by individuals, such as law enforcement officers, judges, and other legal authorities, can be influenced by their own biases, beliefs, and perspectives.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/24 06:59 AM
1	Women are afforded a lot more leeway in what they can get away with Baby-faced people and attractive people get lower time also.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/24 06:49 AM
9	Best strategy for approaching women out and about during the day? Why are you coming to PPD for dating advice? The lost are just leading the lost at this point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/23 06:55 PM
4	Population collapse: The worldwide Hell that is coming Most young people don’t even make money to pay taxes in the first place. Now, tell me how much you need to make to pay taxes and ask yourself if the average young person is making that or more.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/23 11:50 PM
1	How come "nice girls finish last" isn't as popular of a saying? Female virtue is highly valued by men Showing high moral standards is simply being nice and agreeable. Says a lot about you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/23 09:08 AM
1	CMV: The reason why most women initiate breakups/divorces is because they are physically unattracted to their partner You guys are so ignorant it's ridiculous.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/23 03:51 PM
1	Those who are not doing well in their 20’s will probably carry on as they get older It is too late. Nothing wrong with thinking in possibility but most people in their 20s that don't accomplish shit or improve won't be in their 30 or 40 either.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/23 07:14 AM
5	Why Men Are Resentful of The Way Women's Sexuality (Often) Works The fact society and men think of sexual desire solely through the lense of spontaneous urges that just happen is why most people's sex lives end up shit once the spark dies. There's more to a person's sexuality than just external stimuli. Whether or not sex occurs depends on the person's perception of others, the context of the moment, and their own personal experiences and desires. Sex is a dual process that involves both turning on the ons (excitation system) and turning off the offs (inhibit…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/23 04:34 AM
5	I don’t understand the notion about men waiting until their thirties to be successful financially as well as at their “peak” and then date women in their upper teens or early twenties who are in their “peak” You guys use younger women to broadly. Myron when he says younger women means 18-25 year olds SOLELY. Meanwhile, it can also simply mean younger than the mens relative age. And data showcases that most men do date younger women. It's only 1-2.3 year age gap.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/23 03:14 AM
-1	Men don’t see unattractive women as human Oh plz stfu. White me have it on easy mode yet the majority of you guys stay on here complaining because you guys really want stacey and not settle for becky ass. Like boo hoo there's tons of women who are willing to date.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/23 02:00 AM
1	Being unsuccessful with women doesn't mean someone is a misogynist Treating someone differently does not equal putting them on a pedestal.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/23 12:29 PM
0	Being unsuccessful with women doesn't mean someone is a misogynist I've never put women on a pedestal and I'm still alone. I treat women the same way I treat men. And that's where you got it wrong. Do you treat the women you're attracted to the same as men?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/23 12:25 PM
3	The average woman is completely delusional about men's income and what they "qualify" for. Thanks, I was going to mention this also. Location, class, and occupation need to be taken into consideration. If these women come from very well of families they most likely have grown up around people making average salaries altering what's considered normal for them. They probably think 100K is normal because that is what they have been surrounded by.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/23 03:06 PM
0	Women generally want men desired by other women Attractive men are desired by other women. Who knew.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/23 12:38 AM
–	CMV : women don’t have an easier experience dating. It’s just as hard. But that’s because they’re playing in a higher league. Shying away from actually responding because we know it was an emotional response to try and one-up someone who never claimed it. Yep, big oof.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/23 10:51 PM
–	CMV : women don’t have an easier experience dating. It’s just as hard. But that’s because they’re playing in a higher league. Wild asf jump. First off I didn't write the comment. Even then there's nothing personal about the comment. Actually, explain the point you making. You can't just say X is personal because of a phrase. Your CMV was refuted. They were telling YOU that the toughest thing for women isn't being a short-term fling like you said but finding a guy worth it for women. I just said, "Finding a guy worth it." Am I also making it personal now to you also? No, because we all know good and well I am just refut…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/23 10:47 PM
–	CMV : women don’t have an easier experience dating. It’s just as hard. But that’s because they’re playing in a higher league. LOL, making it personal when OP said, women. Yikes, I bet this is lowkey projecting at this point	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/23 10:35 PM
–	Too many men prize a pretty face over the content of a woman's character Facts. When they bring up how criminals get love letter from women. It's a prime example of not giving a f about the women character and only focusing on the fact she is a women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/23 10:32 PM
–	For any man with abundance/options, there is no benefit to choosing a promiscuous woman You said they have a similar level of attractiveness.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/23 10:29 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Your last comment is so irrelevant. You just had to slip that in. Someone political affiliation does not equate to being a hive mind.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/23 09:46 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Anyone who says this is just implicitly admitting they haven’t been around a diverse group of people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/23 09:43 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Race, education and geography need to be way higher. Where you grow up at largely determine what politics you will believe in. The same applies to race. White women vote red way more than Black women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/23 09:40 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Then pull up that data. Because if you add in race and class then you’ll quickly realize certain groups of women vote red.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/23 09:37 PM
5	Men's SMV doesn't actually increase with aging. It matters if the man was taking care of himself when he was younger. Suddenly hitting 35+ and deciding to take care of yourself won't reverse 15+ years of not taking care of yourself. Not, only that but you have basically stayed complacent in bad habits for years. It not easy to just decide to start working out weekly, eat healthily, and take care of your appearance when you never did.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/23 10:05 PM
5	Moderately successful men in their 30s with very limited dating experience, have to be a very harsh decision to take 👏👏👏👏	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/23 08:28 AM
2	Moderately successful men in their 30s with very limited dating experience, have to be a very harsh decision to take LOL you got dragged through the gutter!!! 😂😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/23 08:28 AM
6	Moderately successful men in their 30s with very limited dating experience, have to be a very harsh decision to take I hope no one actually listens to this. The reason relationship end is due to character issues not sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/23 08:27 AM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Men put wayyy to much weight towards how much women actually care about men opinions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/23 09:05 PM
3	Daily Community Chat Megathread No shame can come from disgust or repulsion. They aren’t mutually exclusive concepts.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/23 08:45 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Are those the only women that pay you attention?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/23 08:44 PM
1	CMV : As a Man i believe using Game and Manipulation is immoral, but i believe u have to do it because otherwise u cant compete, and this is actually sad. The advice given you listed aren’t mutually exclusive. You can not put women on a pedestal and also not show toxic masculinity as you put it. It’s called being normal. And yes it does. If you feel you cannot be playful around the opposite gender. You are putting them on a higher pedestal. The reasoning why ties back to viewing them as better than you and needing to be extra careful not to slip up because your too scared of there judgment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/23 08:43 PM
1	CMV : As a Man i believe using Game and Manipulation is immoral, but i believe u have to do it because otherwise u cant compete, and this is actually sad. The way you described negging is just playful teasing. If it’s not actually serious and framed as a light hearted joke then that’s not negging. Needing to be told it’s cool to be playful with the opposite gender only showcase how most men put women on a pedestal.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/23 07:46 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread How likely is this even happening?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/23 03:35 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread How? If we remove child support. The mother would have to seek out other ways of getting money to support the child. There would need to be programs funded by someone to replace the father's contribution.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/23 03:33 PM
1	CMV : Its hypocrisy to hate on Andrew Tate and his Mindset, and then proceed to date a guy with a "Tate mindset" Thats one Target.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/23 10:45 PM
1	Fathers work harder overall than mothers on average. 57 hours per week???? Got damn no	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/23 12:50 AM
2	Another AF/BB example. Do women really think that the “BF” material is winning? Men once again showing their selection bias. Choosing a Instagram model/rapper as what? A representation for all women is so inaccurate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/23 05:10 AM
6	The majority of younger women (18-24) are NOT attracted to old men 30+ Lifestyle and race matter a lot when it comes to discussing aging. For certain groups YOU CAN tell a 20 year old from a 30 year old because they age drastically different from other groups of people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/23 08:15 PM
3	CMV: Men see younger men as other men, where women see younger women as little children. This is at the core of many disagreements on PPD. I agree. Men and women do not share the same experience at all. Most people care more about younger girls because we understand society (men) will target them for their own selfish desires at the mental expense of the girl.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/23 07:23 PM
2	CMV: Men see younger men as other men, where women see younger women as little children. This is at the core of many disagreements on PPD. No, that's strictly a YOU thing. Don't take your abnormal experience and generalize it to the rest of the young men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/23 07:20 PM
1	CMV A lot of the "toxicity" and "misogyny" are just men no longer making up lies to please women You guys make ZERO sense. An abuser isn't just going to allow their victim to walk out nor feel like they can. Abuser use a wide variety of manipulative strategies to ensure they victim does not leave or give the perception that cannot.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/23 06:41 AM
–	If it wasn't for sex, most men would not bother with women. Men love making men as a group looks horrible. They don't fail.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/23 06:21 AM
–	CMV: Women on PPD exaggerate how much women generally work and earn. Sounds like you shouldn’t been on PPD if you can’t form an argument. Notice how it’s her fault and zero incentive regarding the men’s duty as a father nor adult here. Most of you men here aren’t here for good faith arguments at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/23 02:11 AM
–	CMV: Women on PPD exaggerate how much women generally work and earn. Cooking can take 30 - 1 hour. Most people eat breakfast + dinner. So it’s actually 2x this amount. Cleaning a home can take 2 hours. The issue here is if a women is working 40 hours. Her work days are spent sleeping in before work and after work. Chances are she can only do those activities during her off day. Chances are the 2 off days she has she wants to relax and enjoy it. Having to do chores + most likely do errands like (go grocery shopping, go get essentials for the homes or do other acti…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/23 12:50 AM
4	Men Desire Romantic Relationships More Than Women Do Okay but what is the sample for the women? Are these women working or stay at home moms? Are they part time or full time? The issue wit your source is that it says nothing about the women. A men making 100k may earn significantly more than than his wife because she’s a stay at home mother. Rarely is this the women who is complaining about unequal household distribution.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/23 09:50 PM
10	Men Desire Romantic Relationships More Than Women Do Okay then you just have a narrow minded perspective. You didn’t refute anything but revealed a personality flaw.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/23 09:43 PM
5	CMV: Women on PPD exaggerate how much women generally work and earn. No. It matters the age range. 0-5 years old is different from 16-18 years old. Even then the issue isn’t solely taking care of kids. It’s also the combination of cooking and cleaning daily while managing your own life. All that will begin to add up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/23 09:37 PM
1	Studies saying women are "happier single" than men are extremely misleading You guys love throwing out negative generalizations against me. Yet, would be the very first one to claim not all men when a women does it. There won’t be a lot of homicides. It will just be a lot of male suicide, additions and bad habits they use to cope with their situation. If men weren’t so competitive against each other and actually stopped being so individualistic towards other men. Then maybe men would actually develop deep relationship with other men. Yet, instead of actually changing th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/23 10:41 PM
1	Studies saying women are "happier single" than men are extremely misleading Nah, you’re acting obtuse. Women tend to have more close relationship with both men and women. So using what you linked they would be happier than single men. Since they tend to not have many close friends.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/23 09:51 PM
1	Studies saying women are "happier single" than men are extremely misleading Yet, single women tend to have more close relationship with men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/23 09:48 PM
1	Women get over breakups faster because they do less work to initiate relationships Nah, the only thing you did here was not understand what I said. I never said the complaint wasn’t serious. I said the reason why women dismiss men’s issues are not under the reasoning it’s not serious. It’s typically OTHER reason why’s never that one.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/23 02:52 PM
1	A lot of the toxicity around pill spheres has to do with missing out on young love and stunted social development as a result Anything to help you sleep at night. No 18 year old is going to pick an inexperienced 24 year old. When she can pick an experienced 24-30 year old. That makes zero sense since that’s women who have the most options. Your not in reality	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/23 02:27 PM
3	A lot of the toxicity around pill spheres has to do with missing out on young love and stunted social development as a result If you have to use money to get women. That is beta behavior under RP.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/23 10:59 AM
3	A lot of the toxicity around pill spheres has to do with missing out on young love and stunted social development as a result So you’re down for being with a women who clearly is seeing other men. You do know that means she really isn’t interested because she wouldn’t need to seek out other men if she wasn’t.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/23 10:59 AM
1	Women get over breakups faster because they do less work to initiate relationships Right. I’m not taking you serious because I doubt you would say the same shit about men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/23 10:44 AM
1	Women get over breakups faster because they do less work to initiate relationships I don’t see women dismissing men’s complaints as they aren’t serious ever.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/23 10:43 AM
1	I'm convinced that about 5-10% of men ruin it for everyone Nah, you just don’t know them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/23 10:41 AM
-1	I'm convinced that about 5-10% of men ruin it for everyone Thank you. Them trying to push it to a hyper minority need to stop. Your average men is doing these things. The issue is that most men don’t see it as a big deal or don’t TRULY know the men in their lives.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/23 06:09 PM
5	This video explains why the way men look at women creeps them out What level of trolling is this	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/23 12:24 AM
3	This video explains why the way men look at women creeps them out You’re not in reality at all. You don’t need to have your titty out and ass flapping to get stared at hard asf	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/23 12:17 AM
2	This video explains why the way men look at women creeps them out Yikes what an emotional response. No one named called you. I said a valid claim which is stop saying claims you know for a fact you won’t do in real life. I doubt you actually will go on a plane and just randomly stare down a total stranger. Saying such a claim is trying to appear tough for no reason what so ever.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/23 12:05 AM
4	This video explains why the way men look at women creeps them out No body is saying that. It’s just a fact you’re not going to actually go out in public and just outright stare at a complete stranger with zero reasoning behind it. Stop trying to appear tough asf on the internet	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/23 11:31 PM
4	This video explains why the way men look at women creeps them out I swear you guys have so much confidence to say this shit. Yet in real life I know for a fact you’re quiet and probably can’t even look at people in the eye. Stop trying to appear tough on the internet!	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/23 11:29 PM
3	This video explains why the way men look at women creeps them out I’m talking about America not Europe.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/23 11:19 PM
3	This video explains why the way men look at women creeps them out LOL 😂😂😂😂 What a joke	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/23 09:03 PM
1	How do you guys explain lonely women? Because the red pill is to cope emotionally with the negative problems you have with women. Not to actually solve the problem they have with women. Just go and look a the most popular red piller and there most viewed videos. It’s a circle jerk to release negative emotions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/23 03:24 PM
11	This video explains why the way men look at women creeps them out It can be seen many ways. But, yes one way is creepy. If I’m outside and I catch a man staring at me I’m going to think you’re weird and need to develop some courtesy skills. There’s a certain way you behave in public and staring at people is disrespectful. Staring is very different from glancing or glaring by the way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/23 12:11 PM
1	Women get over breakups faster because they do less work to initiate relationships Who you replied too: This is why Red Pill says that the man needs to be in continual self-improvement mode and keep gaming his gf/wife throughout the entire relationship, lest his woman feel unloved, or even worse, bored. Your response: Still sounds like a shitty deal in a way…like you constantly have to jump through the hoops as a man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/23 11:48 PM
1	Women get over breakups faster because they do less work to initiate relationships You quite literally replied to a comment that said you need continually self-improve and gaming your gf/wife throughout the entire relationship. By saying that’s jumping through hoops and a bad deal. You are saying doing anything for your partner once you’re in a relationship is miserable. If not clarify then	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/23 11:38 PM
7	Here are my dating hot takes. What are yours? More like don’t date someone until you’ve seen their bathroom.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/23 11:14 PM
3	Women get over breakups faster because they do less work to initiate relationships Nagging does not equate to affection. When I was younger and my parents were nagging me about overspending. It was blunt and straight to the point on the issue. Yet, most teens understood it came from a sense of care. It’s a such thing as tough love.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/23 11:11 PM
2	Women get over breakups faster because they do less work to initiate relationships Nah viewing putting effort into a relationship as jumping through hoops is your faulty thinking. Once you get into a relationship you don’t just stop doing things for your partner. Simple compliments, doing small things for her, going out every once in a while and surprising her is not jumping through hoops. If anything you come across as self absorbed seeing you base your reasoning on the view it’s not what you need. Well your partner is not YOU.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/23 11:07 PM
3	Women get over breakups faster because they do less work to initiate relationships No, you using an example that most likely won’t even happen in real life is such a weak argument. Yes, I did make the claim issues may be invalid to some people m. But I made it clear it’s “certain issues”. I didn’t say ALL issues I said certain ones. The extreme example you used isn’t included in what I deem “certain issues.” When someone wants you to forsake your own interest 24/7 and only appeal to theirs. It’s going to far.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/23 05:29 PM
5	Women get over breakups faster because they do less work to initiate relationships How many issues are truly objectively over blown though? Sure a partner going crazy because you left the keys on the table can be seen by many as over reacting. But truly how many complaints regarding issues fall under that category ?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/23 05:18 PM
2	Women get over breakups faster because they do less work to initiate relationships Using an extreme examples does not prove your point. Most average people aren’t complaining about the smallest things and expecting the world to cater to them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/23 05:15 PM
1	Women get over breakups faster because they do less work to initiate relationships I’m not taking you serious at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/23 05:05 PM
2	Women get over breakups faster because they do less work to initiate relationships Yes, certain issues to YOU are invalid. You’re not the one actually experiencing the situation so you won’t be able to actually grasp how much weight the issue is truly affecting them to begin with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/23 05:04 PM
2	Women get over breakups faster because they do less work to initiate relationships Add on lacking empathy, insensitivity towards other and self absorption. When you can’t think outside yourself and only judge things based on. Does it make sense with my reasoning and would I take it serious. You’re going to have an issue with actually thinking outside yourself and dealing with a relationship. Since, relationships are daily being maintained and weakened /strengthen through how you communicate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/23 04:48 PM
3	Women get over breakups faster because they do less work to initiate relationships Yeah I agree lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/23 04:45 PM
4	Women get over breakups faster because they do less work to initiate relationships You’re right not all cases are such but then the question would be. Are the other cases exceptions and outliers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/23 04:40 PM
3	Women get over breakups faster because they do less work to initiate relationships No duh? Have you never been in a relationship or seen other relationships? Yes, when someone’s tells you it’s an issue over and over again. Most people register in their Brian’s if I don’t fix the problem it will lead to me breaking up. You need to be explicitly told she will break up with you for it to be addressed?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/23 03:59 PM
2	Women get over breakups faster because they do less work to initiate relationships You said a lot. That translates to most. You don’t need to explicitly say most for it to mean that. Being introspective is quite literally analyzing your own thought process. Claiming it leads to putting your own thoughts and whims before others has nothing to do with introspection. That’s self absorption. You just don’t know the terms at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/23 03:57 PM
3	Women get over breakups faster because they do less work to initiate relationships I explicitly said: The women has already tried to communicate with him the issue.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/23 03:52 PM
0	Women get over breakups faster because they do less work to initiate relationships This does not refute my point. It still exist.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/23 03:51 PM
2	Women get over breakups faster because they do less work to initiate relationships Because most of the time. The women has already tried to communicate with him the issue. The men just does not care. So the women internally process this and the emotion that come with accepting a sad reality. If anything men should listen to the issue women bring up so they don’t. Women pulling the plug is the AFTER of a men choosing to not listen.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/23 03:44 PM
12	Women get over breakups faster because they do less work to initiate relationships Yep, because they get tired of constantly trying to communicate to a man who won’t listen and just dismiss them. What do you expect? They reach a time where they finally see reality and understand he won’t change and process their emotions. Than it’s bye bye	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/23 03:40 PM
0	Women get over breakups faster because they do less work to initiate relationships Because it’s not as popular. Just because you don’t see it does not mean it does not exist.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/23 03:38 PM
3	Women get over breakups faster because they do less work to initiate relationships Define introspection. What you are describing is being self absorbed not introspective. Introspection is analyzing or examining your feelings, actions or thoughts. You think deep about what might have caused what. Deep analysis. Self-analysis. Your search for answers within you. Retrospection is merely recalling a past event. The event could be a happy or a sad one. There is not much analysis here, but just the unfolding of events as they happened. Even then aren’t you the same user that said yo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/23 03:36 PM
5	Women get over breakups faster because they do less work to initiate relationships Thank you. Men always showcase this exact same opposition tactics towards women’s feelings or complaints. Where they Dismiss, discredit, downplay and discount women feelings	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/23 03:32 PM
5	Women get over breakups faster because they do less work to initiate relationships Okay go ahead and dismiss your partner complaints are not being serious. When you’re in a relationship with someone you can’t base how serious something is from your standpoint. You have to be able to think outside your perspective and see they may see it as “serious.”	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/23 03:30 PM
0	Everyone man should make a dating profile as a moderately attractive Woman and see how you feel. You can see how desperate some men seem.. Show me the picture you used	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/23 04:44 PM
0	So where exactly are these ugly women? What does being fuckable have to do with being a women??	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/23 01:57 PM
2	"The Hoe Phase" And ick because you wish that was you LOL	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/23 02:57 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Some of y’all on here are miserable man 😭😭😭	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/23 07:19 AM
1	The rise of Andrew Tate is due to a lot of men seeing women only chase successful men and(To Tate fans) he shows a definitive path to becoming those men… Nope, this is incorrect. Men who only sleep around for years are unable to develop and sustain a deeper relationship. Give them a month and they are going to go back to craving variety and that it's boring to be in long-term relationships.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/23 01:15 AM
0	The rise of Andrew Tate is due to a lot of men seeing women only chase successful men and(To Tate fans) he shows a definitive path to becoming those men… Regular guys have success with who?? Tell me right now who is more influential. A guy who pulls average women or attractive women. Once you answer that you quickly realize showcasing regular guys' success won't compete with men pulling attractive women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/23 01:12 AM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread Because men don’t want to become psychologists.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/23 04:21 AM
8	Daily Community Chat Megathread Feminist don’t need to groom women. Women’s negative experience with men is more than enough.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/23 10:51 PM
3	Daily Community Chat Megathread After seeing that graph on overweight/not overweight. I am once again wondering what white incels are complaining about regarding unfairness in the dating market. When it seems other races are doing way worse.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/23 10:51 PM
-1	The Red Pill Rage Loop Bad boy = Men with boundaries and doesn’t put women on a pedestal. I doubt this “bad boy” is actually bad. It’s just that most men going to TRP are agreeable doormats to women + view women as idealized goddesses putting them on a pedestal. Any men not doing this is a “BaD BoY”. Let’s not forget the blatant selection bias most men have. Half the time they aren’t talking about average looking women but conventionally physically attractive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/23 08:32 PM
1	There is a certain hypocrisy in RP creators who simultaneously go on about men in their prime picking younger women vs “young men aren’t getting sex and its a problem” Men after 35 should not be having kids. So many health issues and more come from women procreating with these men it’s actually crazy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/23 11:05 AM
-2	Toxic masculinity isn’t really the best term I think No it’s not. This is exactly why the term needs to get changed. Because men really are stuck on this false assumption people who use it are saying it’s inherent. What they are saying is some traits can be taken to an extreme and become toxic. This is basic common sense. If you take any character trait. There is a toxic way that character trait can be presented. Since masculinity is literally just a bunch of traits. Those traits can be toxic. Thus you get the term. I don’t get how you guys still …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/23 06:59 PM
3	Daily Community Chat Megathread This is the same poster that claimed he retired in his 30s and is traveling and more. Like the blatant lying here is crazy sometimes 😂😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/23 06:43 PM
7	Daily Community Chat Megathread Now come on. Anyone with an ounce of sense see what she is doing is crazy asf if you’re in a relationship with someone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/23 06:39 PM
2	Telling men to stop associating their self-wroth with sexual success is like telling women to stop feeling like they have to be beautiful. Men want to stay trapped in a system so they can proceed to whine about the “injustices” that same system puts on them at this point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/23 02:20 PM
1	Why isn't the plight of unattractive women ever talked about? This is male thinking. We understand you guys want quantity and fuck ANYTHING. We are women and want quality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/23 03:33 PM
2	The elephant in the room is the libido gap between men and women The idea that any one group of people has the power to control or restrict another group's happiness is not accurate or helpful. Claiming it's women that gatekeep men happy puts all the responsibility on women removing agency from men. Quote me when I said men having basic needs makes them an infant. I said men wanting to remove agency from their own lives is infantilizing them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/23 03:31 PM
1	The elephant in the room is the libido gap between men and women Women are the gatekeepers to men's happiness but they are also the judges Now we are not. Do not strip men of their agency over their own life. You guys stay infantilizing men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/23 03:14 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread What happened to wall street won't happen again. There are small areas in Atlanta, Huston, and DC with affluent Black people. They issue is that Black men that actually get there shit together take it and run doing nothing for the community. They don't put money back into the community or donate anything but instead pursue individualistic pursuits.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/23 03:07 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread If only black men put this amount of effort into actually fixing their community	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/23 10:05 AM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Oh okay. Have a good night. ☺️	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/23 07:46 AM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread Thanks for admitting it. You don’t have to delete shit to argue in bad faith. You adding things when I already replied is also arguing in bad faith	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/23 07:40 AM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread And you’re not slick. You are going back and editing all the replies to me after I’ve replied to them. You’re not debating in good faith at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/23 07:33 AM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread The same PPD user: Where? Youre saying fixation on looks is a bad thing because it negatively affects women, but men dont need to care about women's feelings.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/23 07:29 AM
0	Why aren't men's bodies lusted and desired as much as women's bodies are lusted and desired? That question was never directed at that point. It was directed at your response to it since after you published a study. You made a judgment. In return she questioned that judgment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/23 07:01 AM
4	Daily Community Chat Megathread Random PPD user: Women shouldn’t view men fixation on sex and looks as a bad thing Same user: Men don’t have to care about women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/23 06:58 AM
2	Why aren't men's bodies lusted and desired as much as women's bodies are lusted and desired? Most of the things that are miserable and inconvenient for men aren’t a result of women action. So it’s no point in changing a women behavior. At best most women are totally apathetic to your presence. Meanwhile most men go out their way to be fucking annoying towards women. It’s a big difference here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/23 06:29 AM
1	For the committed ladies: how do you feel about your husband/boyfriend hiding money and investments from you as a backup plan? I don’t care. Both people in my opinion should have personal saving for themselves. It would seem like the most logical thing to do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/23 01:50 AM
1	Could it be that women just do not like men that much? The men here are C R A Z Y. The wildest generalization about men on this sub come from other men!!😂😂😂😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/23 11:56 PM
-3	Do Fresh and Fit bring women on the show to actually discuss dating topics or are they trying to embarrass them or something else? Yes, because it’s fucking Miami. Idk what some of you guys expect. Especially if they were at south beach. It gets fucking crazy down there	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/23 10:50 PM
6	Could it be that women just do not like men that much? If women don’t like most men. It’s not because of safety. It’s the way they act and think around women that makes us not like them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/23 09:16 PM
14	Could it be that women just do not like men that much? Pin point to my comment where I said women didn’t need men on a global level? When I said global level that means women do understand they need men to work the shit and get my trash. I don’t need a man to pay my bills, give my a house and more. THAT is what women are saying. What’s is your point?? A childless women that wanted kids but couldn’t is very different from a women that didn’t want them. Like oh my god I’m shitting my eggs out because I’m scared???	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/23 08:59 PM
4	Could it be that women just do not like men that much? What’s men instinct to rape and pillage?? Is that what YouR SayInG??? What’s men true instincts???	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/23 08:56 PM
16	Could it be that women just do not like men that much? More blabber from men. When women say they do not need a men. They are referring to an intimate relationships with them. Not on a global scale Sherlock.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/23 08:52 PM
38	Could it be that women just do not like men that much? And this is exactly why I take with a grain of salt. Men saying they have a friend they know that is a “good men” yet can’t get into a relationship. You can be good friends with someone yet that doesn’t mean anything about how it’s like to be in an intimate relationship with them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/23 08:50 PM
1	Do Fresh and Fit bring women on the show to actually discuss dating topics or are they trying to embarrass them or something else? Gotta love PPD men moving to a different topic. How is he gonna talk about their after hour content. You make an argument then say wait noooo!! Let’s look at this other content that’s irrelevant to what you even debated him about. They stay being unserious	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/23 08:46 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Red Lobster is not a fancy restaurant. Truly fancy restaurants aren’t charging $40 dollars for a whole ass meal.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/23 10:41 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Men aren’t any different and are fat?? Most of you could actually lose some fucking weight so you can actually see your dick	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/23 09:46 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Now why would I be upset about men dick sucking each other? Be fr the covert gays finally embracing their true nature are showing why they hate women so much.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/23 09:32 PM
0	Sex Tourism/Mail-Order Bride Weekly Discussion Thread Be fr? You really think when I am talking about generalization i am talking about the ones that say women prefer tall men? Be fr? I am talking about the negative generalization being thrown here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/23 09:25 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Dick sucking is not a nasty generalization unless you think being gay is also 😒	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/23 09:08 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread The men here are such dick suckers it’s crazy. Everyday you have men here throwing out nasty generalization about women and saying we are a monolith and want the exact same thing. But, let a women do that shit and all of a sudden. “Men aren’t a monolith.” “It’s not all men!!” I’m not about to take that argument serious AT ALL coming from hypocrites.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/23 08:56 PM
0	Sex Tourism/Mail-Order Bride Weekly Discussion Thread I do not want to hear that bullshit argument of X group is not a monolith. When on this exact same debate sub you continuously have men saying women are X or even AWALT. Are you saying the exact same thing when men do this towards women??	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/23 08:15 PM
18	Which man would you pick? If Tom and Sam both have the same income, both same level of attractiveness and are the same age why isn’t Tom fucking but Sam is?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/23 07:42 PM
3	Do men really want traditionalism more than women? If this is your 3rd time needing to repeat yourself it’s a YOU issue. Seems you need to articulate your point better hence why I said maybe you should edit it. Is that clear?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/23 05:39 PM
6	Do men really want traditionalism more than women? Then edit your post because your making it seem 50/50 is women do all the frequent cleaning while men get to do the cleaning and fixing that is required every 2 months. They are not the same at all	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/23 05:25 PM
1	Do men really want traditionalism more than women? In your brain the only reason women lose interest in a man is because they want to jungle on new dick or because they see a hotter man? You’re not a women first off and if you are you really need to think.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/23 05:23 PM
19	Do men really want traditionalism more than women? You guys love to say well I mow the grass and fix things. Yeah how often?? Every 2 months? Meanwhile childcare and managing the inside of a home requires frequent maintenance weekly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/23 05:20 PM
2	Do men really want traditionalism more than women? Where do you get your idea they can? From the evidence you used it’s based on your own experiences right? If so I don’t think I need to explain why personal experiences isn’t sufficient evidence to back your premise up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/23 04:41 PM
1	Do men really want traditionalism more than women? Any men that says he does lives at home with his parents. Because if you actually lived alone and have to pay rent/mortgage, insurance, bills, credit card, groceries, car loans, car maintenance. On top of that needing to save money in case of an emergency and to enjoy life. Will understand how horrible being a sole provider in this economy is. You would have to be above average in salary to sustain an entire family off your one income. Most men won’t be above average in terms of salary nor will …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/23 02:28 PM
2	CMV: In today's age, men are expected to take on both the feminine AND the masculine roles in a relationship, while women are only expected to take on the feminine roles. Learning to cook, clean and manage yourself and your space is basic adult shit. Your parents taught you how to brush your teeth right? To clean your room right? To do the dishes right? Like those task are not traditionally feminine. They are task enforced to ensure once you are older and you live on your own. You can properly manage your own space once you’re older. The expectations for men is to be able to function like a basic adult. That consist of working, knowing how to clean a home and you…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/23 02:08 PM
3	Daily Community Chat Megathread It is 😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/23 05:21 AM
1	Has dating really got worse, or is it always been the same? Okay good your clarified your not actually being serious and wanting to debate	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/23 05:20 AM
1	Has dating really got worse, or is it always been the same? Now tell me about Jenna upbringing. No women that comes from a middle class background and above is going down this path. Most single mother come from poverty or low income households. You’re not talking about women as a group. You’re talking about a specific type of women who is low income and capitalize off their kids to get by. Making 40k from one pay check a year is SHIT for a women with 5 kids. Only low income dumb women do that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/23 01:44 AM
1	Has dating really got worse, or is it always been the same? Name those safety nets. And then tell me how much they get from it and how easy it is to get qualified and receive the benefits. You guys love pushing this narrative that single mother are making bank from the government	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/23 12:00 AM
4	Daily Community Chat Megathread Or let the men here continually throw out negative generalization about other men and it’s silent as hell. But once a women does it all of a sudden it’s, “It’s NoT All MeN!!”	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/23 11:50 PM
4	New study finds men are leaving the workforce en masse, why work hard if you are not entitled to a wife nor children? This already happened in Japan by men turning into Hikkikomori and japanese economy is in the brink of collapse, men have left the plantation since there's nothing left for them Yikes, nothing compares to experiencing things in real life. Most of the most meaningful things happen in real life around other people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/23 08:59 PM
0	Adults of PPD, do you have friends who just can't get a relationship despite being good potential partners? Define decent options	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/23 08:56 AM
2	Adults of PPD, do you have friends who just can't get a relationship despite being good potential partners? What is this post? Just because you know them as a friend does not mean you know them in intimate relationships	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/23 08:55 AM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Oh it’s a straw man now? So men don’t say if men can’t reproduce or have sex they won’t become violent? Your example makes zero sense. A black person can be a bigot? So Wtf are you talking about???	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/23 02:50 AM
-11	What do you think has lead to a decline in men "putting themselves out there"? Oh cry me a river!!! Men are finally facing the issues women have to face for decades. Yet, somehow women manage to still pull through while men have given up. FutureIsWomen Now I see why men needed to push back women. They saw the future and know where it would head and disapprove their entire narrative!!!	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/23 02:32 AM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Brooo WTF is this shit I’m dying 😂😂😂😂 Either you lack reading comprehension or I need to articulate myself better. I explicitly said explain how Mr anything reply has anything to do with mines. Yet, you instead explain why my post isn’t correct. BE FRRRR RIGHT NOW!!!!!😂😂😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/23 02:24 AM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread What does hitting a Cathy Newman have to do with negative generalization? Cathy spewed strawams not generalization first off so wtf are you talking about????? You guys stay using evidence that does not support your claims. Even then my post was highlight a very specific generalization. So claiming what other women are saying does not matter unless it’s pertaining to the generalization I gave above. So once again what does his post have to do with mines?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/23 02:12 AM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Still does not refute my point. Even if the observation was valid it had nothing to do with my post. Because once again it was about negative generalization and the double standards on when men do it vs women. Yet, somehow it became about inequality and how the choice people make will affect them in the long run. Like there is no logical connection being made for his post. If so explain it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/23 02:07 AM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Nope, the point of my post was showcasing how men perpetuate negative generalization about men yet remain silent. But once a women does it all of a sudden it’s not all men. The example being listed in the original comment. Yet, somehow it became about inequality and how actions have consequences. Like you missed the entire point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/23 01:55 AM
7	New study finds men are leaving the workforce en masse, why work hard if you are not entitled to a wife nor children? This already happened in Japan by men turning into Hikkikomori and japanese economy is in the brink of collapse, men have left the plantation since there's nothing left for them Where are you guys reaching these conclusions. I said men are not leaving the workforce because they cannot find a women. Then you proceed to say the labor shortage is decreasing. You do know this does not refute my point because i was never saying if men are leaving causing a labor shortage. Like what I’m not following this. 😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/23 01:25 AM
3	New study finds men are leaving the workforce en masse, why work hard if you are not entitled to a wife nor children? This already happened in Japan by men turning into Hikkikomori and japanese economy is in the brink of collapse, men have left the plantation since there's nothing left for them You need to read my comment again. I said men are not leaving the workforce because they cannot find a women. I never claimed men leaving the workforce was a net negative to begin with. My comment was explaining the why they are leaving not the affects it has.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/23 01:21 AM
5	New study finds men are leaving the workforce en masse, why work hard if you are not entitled to a wife nor children? This already happened in Japan by men turning into Hikkikomori and japanese economy is in the brink of collapse, men have left the plantation since there's nothing left for them Okay I’m not following?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/23 01:16 AM
2	New study finds men are leaving the workforce en masse, why work hard if you are not entitled to a wife nor children? This already happened in Japan by men turning into Hikkikomori and japanese economy is in the brink of collapse, men have left the plantation since there's nothing left for them We are talking about the decline of birth rates causing a possible collapse soon right?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/23 01:12 AM
1	New study finds men are leaving the workforce en masse, why work hard if you are not entitled to a wife nor children? This already happened in Japan by men turning into Hikkikomori and japanese economy is in the brink of collapse, men have left the plantation since theres nothing left for them Okay, you’re right. I shouldn’t have simplified it down to only broke and uneducated men. But I think you are talking about a certain kind of successful men. Most successful men simultaneously develop their career and find a wife during college years. Reddit attracts a certain type of men so you’re looking at a sample bias. Would most of the men identify as being introverted? Dislike small talk and not need much external stimulation?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/23 01:11 AM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread It’s no longer the 0999ABC time period. Even if the biological imperative is there. The world has become progressive and we have rules and regulation put in place and socially enforced customs and behaviors. Just because it happened when we were in tribes does not mean it will happen again. The world is very different now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/23 12:26 AM
13	New study finds men are leaving the workforce en masse, why work hard if you are not entitled to a wife nor children? This already happened in Japan by men turning into Hikkikomori and japanese economy is in the brink of collapse, men have left the plantation since there's nothing left for them Japan slow collapse is not due to men leaving the work force because that can’t find a women to begin with. It’s because of the crazy long hour and work culture.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/23 11:57 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread This has nothing to do with my post. It’s entirely irrelevant to the topic and a pure goal switch. To baby feed you the purpose of this post. It’s to point out how men will throw out wild negative generalization about men yet seem down with it. Yet, once a women does the same thing all of a sudden it’s not all men. The only thing I am seeing as idiotic is reading comprehension. READ	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/23 11:51 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread Lol no you didn’t. The people who voted for trump was middle aged non college grad white men. From data we know that most middle aged white men are married dumbass. The rise of trump is due to that group!	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/23 11:46 PM
3	New study finds men are leaving the workforce en masse, why work hard if you are not entitled to a wife nor children? This already happened in Japan by men turning into Hikkikomori and japanese economy is in the brink of collapse, men have left the plantation since theres nothing left for them A critical mass that won’t exist. Most men would have committed suicide by then or drowned out through porn, video games and drugs. Y’all aren’t starting shit 😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/23 11:37 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Wow one thing. 😂😂😂😂 Get serious	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/23 11:33 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread Most women are not thinking about incel rising to begin with. It’s distinctly a wet dream men have to buss a nut to in their deranged minds!!	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/23 11:17 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread You just said excess men might be dangerous. Yet somehow in your head that doesn’t mean they are a threat? What you’re doing is contradicting yourself because dangerous = threat.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/23 11:08 PM
3	New study finds men are leaving the workforce en masse, why work hard if you are not entitled to a wife nor children? This already happened in Japan by men turning into Hikkikomori and japanese economy is in the brink of collapse, men have left the plantation since theres nothing left for them A fraction of men is not enough since it’s won’t actually crumble society like how you wish it would.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/23 11:05 PM
1	New study finds men are leaving the workforce en masse, why work hard if you are not entitled to a wife nor children? This already happened in Japan by men turning into Hikkikomori and japanese economy is in the brink of collapse, men have left the plantation since theres nothing left for them Not it’s fine. The only issue I have with your comment. Is taking you personal experience as if it’s the average experiences. Most Americans throughout their entire life won’t see 75k. So if you were able to fuck around for 10 years yet still manage to make 75k. That is not normal at all. Lacking a purpose in life can be a serious issue. Ways to combat that is volunteer work, helping other and being an active member in some kid of community.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/23 11:04 PM
13	Daily Community Chat Megathread Men: If the majority of men can’t reproduce or have sex they will get violent. Men: Silent Women: The majority of men cant be trusted and you should be cautious around them. Men: ItS NoT aLl MeN!!!!!😠	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/23 10:52 PM
3	New study finds men are leaving the workforce en masse, why work hard if you are not entitled to a wife nor children? This already happened in Japan by men turning into Hikkikomori and japanese economy is in the brink of collapse, men have left the plantation since theres nothing left for them You guys keep on saving men not getting picked will get violent. When in reality only a fraction of men actually commit violent crimes. What ends up happening is that those men play video games, watch porn and do drugs to escape from their reality. I understand you want your wet dream to be reality. But it will never happen.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/23 10:51 PM
1	The “female delusion calculator” RP men use is flawed According to statistical data, the probability a guy of the U.S. male population ages 20 to 40 meets your standards is 7.8%	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/23 05:51 PM
2	The “female delusion calculator” RP men use is flawed 20-40 years old and not married Any race 5’9 aka average height Not obese 35k average income 3/5 aspiring cat lady. Yeah this is defiantly correct!!!	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/23 05:43 PM
1	New study finds men are leaving the workforce en masse, why work hard if you are not entitled to a wife nor children? This already happened in Japan by men turning into Hikkikomori and japanese economy is in the brink of collapse, men have left the plantation since theres nothing left for them Now how many man do that. Cohabiting is common in areas with extremely high rent like NYC but typically women do that with other women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/23 05:34 PM
0	New study finds men are leaving the workforce en masse, why work hard if you are not entitled to a wife nor children? This already happened in Japan by men turning into Hikkikomori and japanese economy is in the brink of collapse, men have left the plantation since theres nothing left for them How many people actually do that. I don’t care about imaginary possibilities or what if. I am talking about the reality of most people who follow this path. They fuck over for their entire life and stay in low income jobs that won’t allow you to own a home, get an apartment or even survive unless with welfare. Not only this but bad eating habits, addictions, not going to the doctor often and monitoring your health will catch up to you. I don’t care if you want to renter the work force at 40 you’…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/23 05:33 PM
4	New study finds men are leaving the workforce en masse, why work hard if you are not entitled to a wife nor children? This already happened in Japan by men turning into Hikkikomori and japanese economy is in the brink of collapse, men have left the plantation since theres nothing left for them There is little thought to this. Any men claiming to follow this path is happy to leech off parents even when they are 30+. It says a lot about their parents and I wouldn’t be surprised why they have low standards for themselves. Their parents do also! Because shit like this does not go down in certain cultures.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/23 05:28 PM
0	New study finds men are leaving the workforce en masse, why work hard if you are not entitled to a wife nor children? This already happened in Japan by men turning into Hikkikomori and japanese economy is in the brink of collapse, men have left the plantation since theres nothing left for them Who are these men? What men? Because the average young person would need to work hard to secure an independent lifestyle and that’s not secured though doing the bare minimum.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/23 05:23 PM
0	Modern day dating is basically a winner takes all market… Link the source	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/23 05:19 PM
3	New study finds men are leaving the workforce en masse, why work hard if you are not entitled to a wife nor children? This already happened in Japan by men turning into Hikkikomori and japanese economy is in the brink of collapse, men have left the plantation since theres nothing left for them That’s why I said. These men are in privileged spaces if their parents are willingly to support them doing the bare minimum throughout your 20 and 30.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/23 05:17 PM
-1	New study finds men are leaving the workforce en masse, why work hard if you are not entitled to a wife nor children? This already happened in Japan by men turning into Hikkikomori and japanese economy is in the brink of collapse, men have left the plantation since theres nothing left for them Hard choices creating an easy life. Easy choices lead to a hard life. You can choose the easier options and have zero responsibility. But it’s going to come back and fuck you up once your in you 40+	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/23 05:14 PM
2	Dating is just a waste of time and money these days. Oh you’re definitely the one pressed. A whole paragraph of whining with zero actual argument.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/23 12:38 PM
-1	Modern day dating is basically a winner takes all market… LINK THE SOURCE	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/23 12:36 PM
2	Dating is just a waste of time and money these days. No one was hurt. It seems like you are trying to impose made-up emotions to fit a narrative that doesn't actually exist, to the point where I suspect you might be projecting your own emotions. Based on your downvoting, it seems like you might be the one who is feeling hurt.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/23 08:54 AM
-2	Modern day dating is basically a winner takes all market… Relying on assumptions without sources is not a reliable. To guarantee accuracy, it is essential to provide sources that support any claims or ideas. Which somehow you failed to do. Nonetheless, it is possible to make mistakes in judgment, resulting in inaccurate conclusions, even with sources provided. Like pick a struggle.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/23 08:52 AM
5	Modern day dating is basically a winner takes all market… Blaming men is not productive. Holding low standards for women and accepting anything is not helpful either from men. If a woman is able to get a man, how is that not positive reinforcement nothing is in need of changing? Yes, we should raise our standards and expect better from everyone. By doing so, we can create a positive culture where both men and women are encouraged to improve their behavior. But that’s not how society works.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/23 08:47 AM
2	Dating is just a waste of time and money these days. No, you are not. You just asked a sexist question that objectifies and dehumanizes women, reducing them to nothing more than sexual objects. And now want someone to baby feed you reasons to not believe that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/23 08:29 AM
2	Dating is just a waste of time and money these days. You didn’t correct shit and now I’m thinking you’re possibly on the spectrum with that weird ass syntax you just listed. You might as well had just wrote: totalValueOfWomen = (value-myValue)/trends Print(“My sexist beliefs have come to the conclusion that the value of a women is”, totalValueOfWomen)	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/23 08:24 AM
2	Dating is just a waste of time and money these days. LOL who are you trying to fool? The only thing you are doing here is framing your beliefs as a questions, to avoid sounding like your making that statement or asserting your opinion as a fact. Now your just being manipulative and dishonest, because I know you’re not genuinely interested in hearing different perspectives or considering alternative viewpoints.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/23 08:18 AM
2	Dating is just a waste of time and money these days. Why would I explain why someone values X when you just implied the the only value a women offers is one thing? Get real you already have a belief in your mind and me explaining it won’t change that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/23 08:00 AM
2	Dating is just a waste of time and money these days. Keep exposing yourself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/23 07:50 AM
1	Dating is just a waste of time and money these days. Dating should be fun. If it’s not you need to look at the type of women you select for.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/23 06:23 AM
2	Dating is just a waste of time and money these days. Aka I think the only value women bring is sex. Hmmm, not surprised your single with this mindset	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/23 06:20 AM
1	A Common Sentiment These Days is That Men Are Generally Trash Partners. But If a Man Works to No Longer Be Trash What Incentive Does He Have to Now Commit To a Woman? My question is what value do I get from a monogamous relationship with a woman. How is this not what I just said? When I said you don't see any value women add to your life I was talking about romantic relationships. I enjoy the presence of my friends, share the same life goals, compatibility and more. I don't need a monogamous partner for any of that. Wait, so this man we are talking about is just really you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/23 10:26 PM
6	A Common Sentiment These Days is That Men Are Generally Trash Partners. But If a Man Works to No Longer Be Trash What Incentive Does He Have to Now Commit To a Woman? You answered your own question. If YOU don’t see any benefits to a relationship than that’s why you wouldn’t commit. The issue with this statement is that this is a subjective value you hold that you are projecting unto a group of men you don’t know.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/23 01:46 PM
2	A Common Sentiment These Days is That Men Are Generally Trash Partners. But If a Man Works to No Longer Be Trash What Incentive Does He Have to Now Commit To a Woman? The point of a relationship is not solely one possibility like how you mentioned. The reason people successfully maintain and get into long term relationships is because they enjoy the presence of their partner, they share the same life goals, compatibility and more. Why is this so hard to understand? Just because a person has their career going well, social circle and physically wells does not eliminate the want for an intimate partner. This maybe hard for you to understand because you don’t se…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/23 01:44 PM
3	CMV: individual women take general criticisms of female behavior personally because they are solipsistic, invalidating the purpose of this sub You just proved their point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/23 06:49 PM
10	CMV: individual women take general criticisms of female behavior personally because they are solipsistic, invalidating the purpose of this sub No, presenting a unrealistic dichotomy of serial killer or simp Is straight fallacious for example. Because the real world does not operate based on either or nor black/white thinking like how you want it to be.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/23 06:43 PM
5	CMV: individual women take general criticisms of female behavior personally because they are solipsistic, invalidating the purpose of this sub Why do you guys keep pushing behaviors as if it’s a gendered thing because it’s really not. Women make generalization about men and you guys proceed to say not all men from a personal standpoint.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/23 06:40 PM
7	Statistics on single women buying properties on their own Also related to the "will society correct itself" and I don't care if it hurts your feels or it's just revenge fantasy, but there is a world where enough men get tired of meekly sitting at home lighting up their 3rd blunt of the day because there are less and less opportunities for men in the world, all the while hearing day in and day out it's HIS fault. BRUH PLZ STOP. Men can go into STEM aka engineering or computer science. Two fields dominated still by MEN. Even with inclusion being pushed w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/23 05:05 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread LOL what? Introducing your GF to friends and soon the family is a part of the process regarding adding them to your life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/23 02:03 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread The issue is that public schools tend to be underfunded in areas where the people who live there come from a lower socioeconomic status. We currently fund based on the wealth of the town around the school district. So you can already think how starkly different schools will be based on something the child can't even control. If you want to equal the playing field they would need to invest more in these schools so they have the materials, courses, and competent teachers to teach them. T	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/23 02:01 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread It should be based on, race and class since they're intertwined due to the history of America. White women already benefit the most from AA what would happen is that most likely the poor kids let in would be predominantly white.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/23 01:53 PM
58	Is pre-selection actually real? I mean I won’t even lie. But I’ve seen first hand women all of a sudden have interest in a men because he’s taken. One uping another women is a thing here and idk why the hell women do this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/23 01:55 AM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread Jesus Christ.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/23 07:15 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread A stable household can’t be stable if both partners aren’t happy with each other. 😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/23 05:06 PM
0	Daily Community Chat Megathread What standards do women have? The standards women have is due to wanting security. The n count preference is rooted in typically insecurity because they don’t want to be compared to other men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/23 05:05 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread I’m not gonna let one moment make me become unconfident in myself get fucking fr.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/23 05:00 PM
4	Daily Community Chat Megathread Men who claim they want low n count or virgins are dog whistling for the fact they mean they TRULY WANT underage girls. You guys aren’t fooling shit around here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/23 04:51 PM
1	How do redpillers justify sleeping around if they diminish the worth of women? What the fuck…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/23 04:48 PM
2	How do redpillers justify sleeping around if they diminish the worth of women? You can! It just so happens these men themselves aren’t traditional, religious nor seek out communities that value these things.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/23 04:39 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread I literally am not and have seen this many times. The father doesn’t sign the birth certificate > mother wants child support > mandated dna test to establish paternity > father dosent do it not shows up > END THERE If they even do get put on child support they just don’t pay it. And wait a bit to terminate their parental rights because they can’t afford it or simply haven’t paid it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/23 04:28 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread It really wouldn’t matter. Because even if she did demand a DNA test to prove paternity and get you on child support. Not paying for a certain time period is a justifiable excuse to terminate your parental rights allowing you to opt out of paying child support.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/23 04:12 PM
-2	Daily Community Chat Megathread What are you talking about? You can be the biologically father yet still choose to not sign the birth certificate. The fathers name on the certificate means he recognizes the legal responsibility he has to that child which includes paying child support. If you do not want legal responsibility for a child that you do not want (we are talking about specifically if the women does not want to have an abortion) do not sign the birth certificate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/23 03:44 PM
-3	Daily Community Chat Megathread Don't sign the birth certificate	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/23 03:38 PM
4	Daily Community Chat Megathread The men here claim men should have the say to not financially support a child they don't want if she does not want to get an abortion. You guys are just showing how young and/or how inexperienced you are. Because it's already a way to do this LOL. You guys can dedicate time to finding 20+ studies but not on this topic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/23 03:22 PM
2	If a woman having strong masculine traits is mostly irrelevant to men (e.g a high paying career) is a man having strong feminine traits irrelevant to women? Lol right! The average women works 35-40 hours a week and loves doing all the domestic labor during their off days. What a joke	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/23 02:55 AM
2	If a woman having strong masculine traits is mostly irrelevant to men (e.g a high paying career) is a man having strong feminine traits irrelevant to women? It sure as hell gets a women pussy dry when she’s doing the majority of the house work because you can’t do shit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/23 11:47 PM
2	If a woman having strong masculine traits is mostly irrelevant to men (e.g a high paying career) is a man having strong feminine traits irrelevant to women? Women are definitely going to be turned off by a men that does not know how to do housework. He can’t cook? He can’t do the dishes? He can’t fold nor wash his own laundry? Can’t keep his space clean? Yeah, no that’s ducking nasty. And a turn off because that’s basic adult skill you should have learnt by the time your 18 years old. You guys are so out of touch with basic things adults have to do I wonder how old or sheltered you are.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/23 11:46 PM
2	If a woman having strong masculine traits is mostly irrelevant to men (e.g a high paying career) is a man having strong feminine traits irrelevant to women? I swear to god labeling everything masculine or feminine needs to end in 2023. Knowing how to cook, clean and maintain a home is basic ADULT SKILLS. These are not feminine or masculine traits but something any functioning adult learns to develop.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/23 11:42 PM
6	What are the traits of a Stacey ? A Stacey is quiet literally a conventionally attractive white women. The name itself screams White women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/23 05:12 PM
5	What are the traits of a Stacey ? A made up reference for a pretty White women by Incels.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/23 05:09 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread You replied to the wrong person.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/23 03:29 PM
–	63% of men under 30 describe themselves as single, compared with 34% of women in the same age group I feel as though most men who say this are in a position where their parents will let them live with them for however long. So they don’t have to worry about starving or being homeless.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/23 03:06 PM
–	63% of men under 30 describe themselves as single, compared with 34% of women in the same age group Prime earning males? You mean mens prime working years, are out of the labor market today. What you typed is not what the articles are saying here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/23 02:02 PM
–	63% of men under 30 describe themselves as single, compared with 34% of women in the same age group Then work hard to be able to get a partner. The issue you guys aren’t seeing is that most people don’t like their job. But they go because they have a home they want to keep, bills to be paid or a standard to meet. Men who say why should I contribute. Are implying they most likely don’t own shit nor have any responsibility. A person with a card, rent, bills and etc are not asking these silly questions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/23 01:55 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread It really doesn’t matter. All this talk about discrimination African Americans face discrimination in the hiring process if their name sounds black so what’s your point? The world is inherently discriminatory. And all things you choose over another can be deemed discrimination.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/23 01:49 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread No she is not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/23 01:43 PM
–	Why is sex framed as something a woman “gives” and a man “takes”? Or drop his standards	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/23 01:41 PM
2	Many female users here claim that they commonly see "attractive" women dating "less attractive" men. Does makeup explain this? Women are not stabbing her.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/23 01:40 PM
1	Many female users here claim that they commonly see "attractive" women dating "less attractive" men. Does makeup explain this? List these women since you know	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/23 10:58 AM
–	63% of men under 30 describe themselves as single, compared with 34% of women in the same age group Okay the same applies to men. Most men only approach, show attention and talk to women they find attractive. The women you guys are talking about is usually the conventionally attractive extroverts	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/23 10:56 AM
–	63% of men under 30 describe themselves as single, compared with 34% of women in the same age group You said it yourself large age gaps aren’t common. So? The women here insist large age gaps aren’t what most young women do. Women here do insist women prefer men slightly older than them or their age. So? Anyways I always say this. Men 30+ are a different generation. Gen Z men are at best 25-27 years old. We can’t say Gen Z men will follow the same trends that lead to 30+ year old men from different Gen getting partner. All the things that make beta bux happen is providing stability. Can’t say …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/23 10:53 AM
2	Who should men model themselves to and look up to? Okay, thank you. Have a good day as well ❤️	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/23 11:13 PM
0	Who should men model themselves to and look up to? It’s not random and READ THE DISCUSSION again. We are talking about teaching something daycare workers and elementary teachers do. There is a bias against men in profession that you need to be around young kids often. The wives are just voicing BOTH opinions. Second, I don’t care if you never heard it. What is one experience contradicting how most people feel?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/23 11:09 PM
4	Who should men model themselves to and look up to? Okay? So don’t complain when the school systems doesn’t have male teachers??? Don’t complain about male mental health when you guys don’t want to even become psychologist to help young men mental health because you want to make your money? Wow, people here weren’t lying when they said men also don’t care about men either.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/23 11:04 PM
4	Who should men model themselves to and look up to? Yes, men don’t trust random men around their kids.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/23 11:01 PM
8	Who should men model themselves to and look up to? The main reason why is because men don’t want to do it. It’s simple as that. I asked the exact same question on why don’t men become nurses, psychologist or teachers. The issue was that the pay sucks therefore they don’t want to do it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/23 08:28 PM
12	Who should men model themselves to and look up to? People both men and women do not trust men with their kids at daycare or in elementary school. They would rather have a women doing it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/23 08:26 PM
2	Romantic Chivalry and "being a gentleman" is institutionalized pedestalization Nah, this is YOUR definition of chad. To others it definitely is used to talk about a physically attractive male and more.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/23 02:03 AM
4	A lot of the behavioral differences of men and women can be explained by a simple evolutionary observation What behaviors are universally happening across all times and location? For each period humans have existed can you point out all the points you listed without misattributing it or oversimplifying it. I agree men have higher sex drives and women are more selective. You don’t have to prove those two.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/23 07:56 PM
3	A lot of the behavioral differences of men and women can be explained by a simple evolutionary observation I swear to god I hate post like this that believe in this nature determinism shit. You cannot ignore nurture when both tend to interlace with one another to the point you can’t tell which is causing the behavior.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/23 07:48 PM
3	I actually think women SHOULD find a man who has already made it Not really. Most men aren’t dangerous even when unfulfilled. It’s only a few that actually act out on it by killing people. Most men just use distractions: video games, drugs, porn and more	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/23 05:08 PM
2	I actually think women SHOULD find a man who has already made it Okay so your projecting. If these men are down for a society that’s turning to shit like how NYC is becoming than sure. But, I want to live in a safe and secure society Which requires consistent maintenance. Any men who is down for society to to just crumble is giving hints they still live with mommy and don’t have any responsibilities.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/23 04:22 PM
1	I actually think women SHOULD find a man who has already made it Omg boo hoo Idgaf about society nor basically my damn future because my dick isn’t getting wet. You guys staying being so unserious 😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/23 04:13 PM
3	I actually think women SHOULD find a man who has already made it You are not going to separate the state from the individual. The individual creates the state. Even then taxes go to keeping the society functional. It’s not just social programs that your taxes go to but can also be things like a better transportation center or roads.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/23 04:06 PM
–	Should it be acceptable to take actions at the personal level which destroy society at the macro level? Honestly, it’s always deflecting the blame to other groups like women or minority because they assume they have better credential than those groups.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/23 03:38 AM
1	What do the two genders gain from even engaging with each other? You don't even know the term's meaning. Chronically online means someone who is basically always on the internet and their entire existence revolves around being on the internet. Being on Reddit alone does not make someone chronically online.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/23 01:13 AM
1	What do the two genders gain from even engaging with each other? What a chronically online take. Normal people enjoy being around others who share their viewpoints or are entertaining. Gender does not limit these two things. If you are enjoyable to be around people are going to want to engage with you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/23 12:59 AM
–	Should it be acceptable to take actions at the personal level which destroy society at the macro level? We are preventing men from getting into college and getting jobs in favour of women for the sake of "diversity". Link? Nothing is stopping men from going to a community college, apprenticeship, or trade school. No one is taking your spot due to inclusion unless I need to update my information of hard quotas.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/23 04:11 PM
2	'Leo's doing what every man wishes he could do...' Alr	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/23 01:43 AM
8	'Leo's doing what every man wishes he could do...' I don’t know what your talking about. Leo is a stark outlier and his behavior is not normal. Your average women is not excessively jumping from multiple relationships to the points it’s a negative think like Leo.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/23 12:25 AM
11	'Leo's doing what every man wishes he could do...' You make no sense. Leo has been jumping from relationships consistently for 30+ YEARS. Men remarry more than women and women's average number of relationships is still very low.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/23 12:12 AM
13	'Leo's doing what every man wishes he could do...' Define what you mean by what makes sense. What makes sense for a long-term relationship is different from what makes sense for some random casual flings. Leo's behavior is such a stark outlier from normal behavior. Most people do not continue on hoping from relationship to relationship for 30+ years constantly. I swear young men love overtly broken men /ASPD men I think they project when they claim women love them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/23 08:12 PM
56	'Leo's doing what every man wishes he could do...' Each time a man here uses Leo as the male ideal life is only showing you guys are down to become broken human beings. No, one will ever sit here and convince me jumping from relationship to relationship to relationship constantly is healthy behavior.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/23 08:02 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Nah, it just means feminism actually has something to fight for!	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/23 06:02 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread They need to flat-out remove it and push for the right of publicity in ALL states. Any deepfake of you that appears in a work and you can be clearly recognized as the subject shown in that work without your consent should be punished by law.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/23 05:58 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Seeing deep fake even being used for pornographic reasons is showing how degenerate society has become and how much of a threat AI really will be in the future. Sooooo many men think their dick takes precedence over anything in the world it's ridiculous.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/23 05:54 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Pure degenerate behavior.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/23 05:50 PM
1	Why haven't women built their own independent, semi autonomous female utopia? I’m not about to explain to someone who is claiming the mother only needs to spend most of her time taking care of those kids for the first 5 years. Someone needing to explain why that’s incorrect. Shows a lack of experience resulting in pure ignorance on how much time it takes to raise good functioning adult.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/23 11:52 AM
2	Why haven't women built their own independent, semi autonomous female utopia? “ A woman doesn’t have to have kids until she is atleast 30 and will only need to spend most of her time taking care of those kids for the first 5 years before the child enters school if she chooses to stay at home. After that a woman can have the same amount time in her day as a man to pursue whatever she wants. “ What a take! Anyone willing to respond to this delusion better have some alcohol ready!	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/23 11:33 AM
5	If a woman has to recondition and force herself to find you attractive the relationship is doomed from the start These men have no clue. They really think single mothers are making bank from being on welfare. It's hilarious!	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/23 01:36 PM
2	If a woman has to recondition and force herself to find you attractive the relationship is doomed from the start Another unserious take. You guys want to harm children to get back at these mother is antisocial! Forcing people to have children does not make them more responsible. It only will lead to increased crime rates, mentally ill children and more childre not knowing when their next meal is going to be.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/23 01:35 PM
1	If a woman has to recondition and force herself to find you attractive the relationship is doomed from the start Being a single mother is not easy and most are not banking off of their children. Most single mothers struggle financially. You guys are unserious each time I see this argument single moms are getting racks of money from taxes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/23 01:32 PM
0	RP and related manosphere ideologies are only going to result in women becoming even more selective, less sexually available, and purposely choosing to avoid men altogether And listening to Andrew Tate is only going to make these men more lonely which continues the cycle of watching manosphere content as negative reinforcement. When you go on YT to watch this content it’s hardly about finances or systematic issues men face and solutions. If they do it’s not getting watched by them! Instead the most viewed videos are always negative. The creator manage to selectively pick footage to paint women in a negative way. Resulting in these men having a selection bias. Telli…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/23 07:20 AM
0	Is it better to be hook-up material but not relationship material, or the other way around? We all know the sex starved men here are going to choose the hookup options. Any men that ACTUALLY has experienced it and isn’t in la la land knows how empty casual sex become. Nothing will EVER beat a happy and fulfilling romantic relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/23 03:58 AM
1	Is it better to be hook-up material but not relationship material, or the other way around? Was just about to comment something like this. Pursing causal sex constantly gets boring unless you are willingly to do more extreme things each time or are open minded to variety.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/23 03:54 AM
1	Study finds that only 36% of liberal women think cheating is always wrong, whereas as 71% of conservative women think cheating is always wrong. Just because something is mainstream does not mean it’s not controversial.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/23 03:48 AM
3	Study finds that only 36% of liberal women think cheating is always wrong, whereas as 71% of conservative women think cheating is always wrong. Lol your going to choose the most controversial belief in order to paint the left as what? Stupid? Some of you guys are so unserious I swear.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/23 04:10 PM
19	Study finds that only 36% of liberal women think cheating is always wrong, whereas as 71% of conservative women think cheating is always wrong. The left don’t have any beliefs??? What type of take is this? You do understand if the left had no beliefs they wouldn’t be advocating for anything, protesting towards anything nor trying to reform the system towards their beliefs.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/23 03:46 AM
9	Study finds that only 36% of liberal women think cheating is always wrong, whereas as 71% of conservative women think cheating is always wrong. That's not a traditional marriage then. He's just rebranding the term to fit his narrative. Mongomoy applied to both people in traditional marriages. Adultery is a sin for BOTH people, not just women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/23 03:42 AM
3	Q4W: Where does this hostility towards men today really come from? Good to know. Your responding to the wrong person because idc if you feel it's a double standard. Men say hate women because they aren't getting any attention or sex from attractive women. Like sure Conner, that's a reasonable excuse to dislike women. At least women have actual valid reasons as to why they dislike men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/23 01:21 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread And people do not care? If you are getting downvoted even if it's not allowed you have shit takes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/23 01:13 AM
3	Q4W: Where does this hostility towards men today really come from? Congrats if you want to understand why women are hostile towards men. Just look in the mirror. You don't even have to make a post!! Just analyze yourself at this point 😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/23 01:10 AM
2	Q4W: Where does this hostility towards men today really come from? Hostility towards men comes from experience with men and when younger boys. When women go on the internet and say yeah fuck man. It's always from bad experiences with them. I don't blame them I believe in disliking men as a collective but appreciate and loving individual men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/23 01:07 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread You have shit takes probably and A LOT of people disagree with you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/23 12:59 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread I swear you gotta love it when it's a Q4W and the man always proceed to invalidate every single response women send😂😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/23 12:57 AM
11	Women Tend To Change Their "Tone" As They Lose Options Why do you guys assume the women might not have any issues. The women rewarding the shitbag could very well be another shitbag. Oh my god who knew women could be possibly not be good girls😳	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/23 01:37 AM
3	Women Tend To Change Their "Tone" As They Lose Options Some people do need to learn the hard way. Once again environment and parents play a big part here. Someone with no guidance is going to make worse decision that someone who does. Yet, we don’t know either. Some people grow up in environments where doing drugs is normal.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/23 01:35 AM
2	Women Tend To Change Their "Tone" As They Lose Options Basing your claim on your experience is irrelevant here. We don’t know her story. From her post history she already had her own issues and is an enthusiastic weed smoker. That combined with a heroin addicted ex indicates that she likely experimented around with other drugs before settling down with just weed. Once again only proves my point. Women making mistakes like this come from a multitude of reasons and this one seems like the environment she is in.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/23 01:34 AM
2	Your past matters, but it isn't just who you have screwed. A chronically online take.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/23 11:28 PM
4	Women Tend To Change Their "Tone" As They Lose Options Well duh, it's called getting older and becoming wiser. Young women face a weird problem when they are young. Young is always synonymous with being dumb from the lack of experience you have. Before anyone comes saying it's a possibility young women can behave older than her age. We are talking about reality, not hypotheticals. While some older people have wasted their lives, and therefore not cultivated much wisdom, younger people have not yet even had time to gain much experience or cultivate m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/23 11:19 PM
2	Women do initiate most divorces and it is not because "paperwork" This proves nothing. Men don't do the paper work. They just stop putting effort into the relationship until the woman decides to finally settle it by divorcing them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/23 01:49 AM
3	What do you think about foreveralonewomen community on reddit? The definition of femcel is going to be different for women. Women do not struggle to have sex with men as incels do with women. Women tend to struggle with either vetting, discernment or getting into long-term relationships with men they actually want.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/23 11:47 PM
1	The Red Pill gurus are biased to the women they meet through their "specific lifestyle", so their main dating advices aren't helpful to most people Your 1 week late	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/23 11:45 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Who tf said everything is subjective? Took a false narrative and ran with it. Once you start claiming things should be basically ought to be. You are now discussing subjective values. And, once again I do not debate values because you either agree with them or do not. Modernism is associated with progressive thinking and fairness. I'm good over here!	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/23 02:27 AM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread Yes, most gen z people suffer from dissatisfaction from constantly wanting a certain lifestyle they want. Consumerism and materialism are through the rough from this constant pursuit of achieving what they want. Human being by nature are irrational and go off the subjective not objective. Especially, in relationships where the very foundation is built of emotions. People like you who disregard this fact to shit out this idealistic nonsense of how logical people should be will always make me gigg…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/23 02:18 AM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread Once again keep assuming. Settling has a negative connation because for most people it's a negative thing to do. Settling does not equate to happiness even if you actively try. You can't beat away the feeling you accepted less than what you want or deserve.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/23 02:06 AM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Your comment makes no sense. Dating apps are look first unless you think women can guess the emotional connection she may have from a short bio.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/23 02:00 AM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread It's the same reason men are insecure about high n count women. The fear the countless experience she has had risk her comparing him to all the other males got most of these inexperienced men in a choke hold!	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/23 01:58 AM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread While the outcomes are the same. We never were talking about the outcomes. But the causes behind WHY the outcomes occur. Most men here thinks it's some high value men causing there dating struggle when in reality it's just women content with being single or plain disinterest.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/23 01:54 AM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread Your assuming settling = happy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/23 01:50 AM
7	Daily Community Chat Megathread Some men really think the reason why they are struggling dating is due to competing with some chad. Yet, in reality your competing with women ability to be alone and disinterested in dating overall. Most young single women are not riding a cc instead content with being single.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/23 01:47 AM
1	Do men really get better with age? Gen z men live in an entirely different economy then men of previous generations. If it's true men gain more value from mainly stability and finances. Then we will have to wait to see how Gen Z men turn out. Since, right now the housing market is crazy, rent/food/essentials are constantly rising and younger people are living at home for longer duration than any generation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/23 12:46 AM
3	Are men who are inexperienced in their thirtys going to be taken advantage of? A power dynamic that won't even exist, to begin with. Young women do not go after inexperienced 30-year-old men. That itself is a red flag and most want to know why you couldn't attract women for more than 10 years.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/23 03:21 AM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread No, I’m not seeing one video has 3 million views.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/23 08:41 PM
12	Daily Community Chat Megathread How do people take these YT Red Pillers debating topics seriously when the people they are debating with are either bimbo from Miami or OnlyFan girls? Why don’t these men actually bring on women who have done research like they have to make it a balanced debate panel???	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/23 08:35 PM
1	The Red Pill gurus are biased to the women they meet through their "specific lifestyle", so their main dating advices aren't helpful to most people Social media has made it to where echo chambers have become easy to get sucked into. I frequently watch content creators who audiences largely are both RP and male. Most of their content is solely negative depiction of women posted on social media. It’s basically negative reinforcement from selective perception. Always these channels show the worst videos of women since they understand their audience and know extreme = more watches.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/23 03:41 PM
4	The Red Pill gurus are biased to the women they meet through their "specific lifestyle", so their main dating advices aren't helpful to most people Lol what a mess called a comment. Women cause men to become depressed 😂😂😂😂 Get a fucking grip	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/23 03:33 PM
1	The wall for women isn’t when they hit their 30’s, it’s when they hit motherhood No duh? 25+ is the time people are actually looking for something serious with someone. Having kids, a home and being able to maintain your standard of living is dependent on what job you are doing. Of course that age range is asking those question. Are you sure this is your actual experience or are you making this shit up? You don’t have to explain this type of things too people around that age.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/23 02:39 PM
1	The Red Pill gurus are biased to the women they meet through their "specific lifestyle", so their main dating advices aren't helpful to most people You quickly notice this about ANY movement created by men in this century. They stay being obsessed with women yet claiming they don’t give a fuck. A prime example being MGTOW. Where each post was just about women. But I’m supposed to believe you guys really are going your own way? Nah, your just coping hard asf. At least when women are tired of men they actually do not want to interact with them or turn lesbian. Most of the men on here are introverted and don’t interact with many people. So the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/23 02:36 PM
4	What do men mean when they want a “submissive” wife? If you keep running into the same problems regarding women. It’s time to take some accountability and see it’s the choices you are making that keep making this reoccurring. Men who claim having a women who is agreeable. Is just a dog whistle for. I want a women who will never question my viewpoint.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/23 02:21 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread What are the main 3 causes of divorces?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/23 02:19 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread People are not either agreeable of disagreeable. I would get rid of the weird dichotomy being presented. Once again my comment was about women who are CONSTANTLY disagreeing with you. I’d stick on the topic that is being discussed. No one is saying you won’t have disagreements. We are talking about constantly being in disagreement.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/23 02:18 PM
1	The wall for women isn’t when they hit their 30’s, it’s when they hit motherhood I’m not talking about men living in Europe. I am talking about America	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/23 02:16 PM
1	The wall for women isn’t when they hit their 30’s, it’s when they hit motherhood Is the average women dating or seeing a doctor or lawyer. Women who go to college date men who are also in college. Last time I checked that’s not limited to two professions	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/23 02:15 PM
1	The Red Pill gurus are biased to the women they meet through their "specific lifestyle", so their main dating advices aren't helpful to most people Facts. These men have selective perception towards women because the only ones they are looking are the ones their race/culture finds attractive. That’s why it’s no point in taking serious the shit the young men here say.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/23 02:12 PM
3	The wall for women isn’t when they hit their 30’s, it’s when they hit motherhood Apex fallacy once again. Go look up the median income of people living in America. Using someone making 200k is an exception and proves nothing about the average men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/23 01:55 AM
2	The wall for women isn’t when they hit their 30’s, it’s when they hit motherhood Who are these men? Most people here are Gen Z and I doubt Gen Z men will have many resources. Each generation after the next has less than the previous. Rent is high, the housing market is crazy, food is going up and the cost of living is skyrocketing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/23 01:52 AM
2	What do men mean when they want a “submissive” wife? No fucking duh Sherlock. I doubt we are talking about women complaining about you parking 1 inch to far in the drive way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/23 01:39 AM
6	Daily Community Chat Megathread The submissiveness post only shows men pick women who are incompatible with their life. If a women is constantly disagreeing, nitpicking or has deferring beliefs regarding what you want. That indicates incompatibility not submissiveness.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/23 01:29 AM
5	What do men mean when they want a “submissive” wife? What does this have to do with submissiveness? It just seems you picked a partner who does not see eye to eye with you. If they are constantly nitpicking you chances are you both have different outlooks on things that once again indicates nothing regarding submissiveness. But instead incompatibility.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/23 01:26 AM
3	What do men mean when they want a “submissive” wife? You do know that if someone is complaining. That can indicate you both are incompatibility? Someone complaining does not always mean they aren’t submissive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/23 01:25 AM
8	What do men mean when they want a “submissive” wife? You wouldn’t need a submissive wife to live that life. You find a women who already wants that to not have incompatibility.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/23 01:21 AM
6	What do men mean when they want a “submissive” wife? Well your contradicting yourself. You claim it ends up with the women leaving the men and calling him a doormat. Yet, claim studies say they have longer and better relationships.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/23 01:13 AM
-2	Brutal racepill for Asian men. Doesn’t matter. Data shows White men have it easier in comparison to all other races of men. Your either hideous or have wayyy to high standards.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/23 06:25 AM
0	Brutal racepill for Asian men. No, the men here especially White men live in a false world if they really think they have an issue with dating or they are straight up hideous.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/23 05:29 AM
1	Men like to complain that women always end up with “bad boys,” but it’s unfair to criticize women for that. You have to get to know someone before you know what they are like! Not comparable. Back then Chris Brown was going through his soft boi era and no one knew he beat women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/22 09:11 PM
-1	Men like to complain that women always end up with “bad boys,” but it’s unfair to criticize women for that. You have to get to know someone before you know what they are like! Some women just wanna fuck or get the bag from men like him. Idk how that isn’t hard to understand. Any women that does get involved with a piece of shit like Chris Brown with a known history of being a jerk is either: stupid, into toxic men, zero morals or has daddy issues.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/22 09:10 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Nah, at this point your misconstruing what I’m saying. When I said you found a hypocritical person. I was referring to the people you claim you found on social media that most likely are normal people. Claiming they are against body shaming but are body shaming others they dislike.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/22 09:04 PM
0	Daily Community Chat Megathread Right you use the race card as a gotcha. We know that dude. What’s your political affliction? Because this is very common in white liberals. Back to the point though. You do understand that does not debunk the claim someone made that you cannot compare racial slurs to someone claiming your dick is small. They aren’t comparable. Where in history has someone dick being small lead to violence against them like racial slurs have?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/22 09:01 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread If it's not the majority then I don't see the need to care. Quite a few sound like a relatively small number. And it only shows you found a hypocritical person. Like wow?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/22 08:56 PM
0	Daily Community Chat Megathread The point is that you cannot compare someone making racial slurs to someone getting the dick size talked about. They are not equivalent at all. We've found that one user who loves to use the race card as solely a gotcha despite knowing you most likely do not gaf about the race.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/22 08:51 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread I must be missing something because what proof Is there that these people want to fight against body shaming???	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/22 08:47 PM
0	Daily Community Chat Megathread Nah, the only thing I'm seeing here once again is some werido trying to force fit logic where it's not at. You really think people give a fuck about someone on the internet telling them its fallacious to insult a physical trait that bears no reverence to what makes someone bad? Especially when they are purposely trying to hurt their feelings? (TATE) LOL, first off most of the people understand that already. The just do not give a fuck and want to roast the fuck outta Tate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/22 08:40 PM
-1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Go cry a river. People are making vile comments toward Andrew Tate because he is a vile person.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/22 04:53 PM
2	Does anyone else feel like feminism has ruined a generation of women for dating? If you want women that most men won’t want them sure go for it. But it’s a reason as to why no one wants them	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/22 09:37 PM
5	Does anyone else feel like feminism has ruined a generation of women for dating? The dating pool shrinks when your are starting to look for longterm partner in your 30. You should have been doing that throughout your mid-20 at least.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/22 03:23 PM
23	Does anyone else feel like feminism has ruined a generation of women for dating? EXACTLY. I said this in my post. Looking for your wife when your 30 is going to be hard. That's why most people already have who they want to be married to locked down by the time they are in their late 20. All the good people are taken by the time you're in your 30’s	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/22 03:05 PM
11	Does anyone else feel like feminism has ruined a generation of women for dating? Why are you trying to find your wife by 30? Most people already have found who they want to be with by the time they are in their late 20 and early 30. The pool of good partners shrinks the older you get. So it's going to be hard	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/22 03:02 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread Your assuming the outcome is that he won't fix it. Sure, if he doesn't bother fixing it just use it as evidence that he's a lazy ass mf.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/22 12:00 AM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread Excuses. If your husband is putting in less then you reciprocate it by doing LESSER. Why would someone accommodate behavior they do not like?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/22 11:50 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Men already do because most won't ever have enough money to support one whole family off their income.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/22 11:44 PM
1	Men who complain about women not taking personal responsibility often don’t believe men should take responsibility for anything. How many women do you think will say it feels like they are on vacation from taking care of an entire household nearly 24/7. THAT IS YOU MISS NOT THE MAJORITY 😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/22 11:43 PM
6	Men who complain about women not taking personal responsibility often don’t believe men should take responsibility for anything. Once again it’s not clicking and your just trying to deflect. You claimed women do not serve men. A women cooking for YOU and cleaning after YOU is serving you. Magically adding random variables to move the goal post is fallacious.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/22 11:37 PM
2	Men who complain about women not taking personal responsibility often don’t believe men should take responsibility for anything. No one’s bubble is getting bursted. I work 12 hours while being a part time student in CS. No one is saying a husband has to run the house but contribute. What’s not clicking? If I can still find ways to help out in my household men can also	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/22 11:33 PM
1	Men who complain about women not taking personal responsibility often don’t believe men should take responsibility for anything. That’s YOU	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/22 11:23 PM
0	Daily Community Chat Megathread No, the only one dumb asf here is you. Suggesting you help your wife out by buying appliances makes you look like a toddler now 😒	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/22 11:01 PM
-1	Men who complain about women not taking personal responsibility often don’t believe men should take responsibility for anything. Now your moving the goalpost or saying some irrelevant things. A women does serve a men. Something your claim she does not. Her contributing to the household still will be serving him. Those two things are not mutually exclusive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/22 11:00 PM
4	Daily Community Chat Megathread Which is exactly why men need to help. If you have off days help your wife. It’s not that hard to spend time with your own kids and clean your OWN home	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/22 10:52 PM
2	Men who complain about women not taking personal responsibility often don’t believe men should take responsibility for anything. Are you a women and housewife though? If not stfu. Maintaining a house is 24/7 you clocking out from your 12 hour shift is not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/22 10:50 PM
4	Daily Community Chat Megathread Not the point Sherlock. The point of my post is to highlight men not giving a fuck about their wives issues and not wanting to solve it like the natural “problem solvers” they are LOL😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/22 10:48 PM
7	Men who complain about women not taking personal responsibility often don’t believe men should take responsibility for anything. No, the only entitlement here is thinking you you only have to do one thing while she has to do everything else’s. If men actually cared about their wife they would want to solve their problem and be useful.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/22 10:47 PM
6	Daily Community Chat Megathread Working 10+ hour shift is not an excuse not to help a SAHM. During, your off days. Sure use one day to sleep in and do whatever. But after that it’s no excuse not to help out in YOUR home. Men thinking the only thing they have to do is work are entitled asf! And even if you do not want to help. If you constantly hear your wife nag about an issue solve the problem by getting things that make the job easier. Buy a dishwasher, hire a nanny, buy a robot that replaces vacuuming or sweeping and etc. A…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/22 10:45 PM
4	Men who complain about women not taking personal responsibility often don’t believe men should take responsibility for anything. Working 12 hour shifts is not an excuse. I work 12 hour shifts each week while being a part time student. Yet, I still make sure to help at least around the home like: cleaning or getting essentials for the home. You guys simply do not want to do it. Or want to be appreciated for the bare minimum.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/22 10:37 PM
12	Men who complain about women not taking personal responsibility often don’t believe men should take responsibility for anything. Pure bullshit. The things men want women to do in intimate relationships fall under serving them. Cooking and cleaning for YOU is serving you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/22 10:35 PM
23	Men who complain about women not taking personal responsibility often don’t believe men should take responsibility for anything. This makes no sense. Your going to harm YOUR child to get back at your baby mama?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/22 10:30 PM
3	Women often use fear as an excuse to be rude to men even though men have assaulted/victimized more men than women That’s not the point of drawing the similarity between the two. The point is to highlight how the reason people react to circumstances that statically are unlikely to happen is due to the potential it might.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/22 04:37 AM
1	What do you think about these "Are we dating the same guy" groups? Once men stop lying about the fact they do the exact same thing they wanna critique women on. Maybe we will get somewhere. You were moving the goal post by switch the narrative from ten to thousand to 100k. There have been countless times where group chats have been exposed showing casing men posting intimate details about women. From the large South Korean nth room to the telegram chats. You can try to make these things seem like they are different but there not. Both are doing the same behavio…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/22 04:33 AM
1	What do you think about these "Are we dating the same guy" groups? Nah, at this point you just can't comprehend. You cant claim these groups don't have ten to thousands of followers yet when I bring up chats that do you switch the narrative to 100k. That is called switching the narrative aka moving the goalpost.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/22 03:39 AM
0	What do you think about these "Are we dating the same guy" groups? This is not a one-time thing. There have been multiple occasions of these group chats popping up. They were just exposed in September on Telegram by another man warning women. You can't say A does not include B and I provide that B does indeed happen and try to switch the narrative. There are groups with 100k members.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/22 03:25 AM
5	Modern women don't respect modern men because they have allowed material conditions to deteriorate in the west. No, I'm asking you since you know that men haven't been able to step into the caretaker role. Who's stopping men from caring for their kids?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/22 03:21 AM
3	Modern women don't respect modern men because they have allowed material conditions to deteriorate in the west. Lol, what kind of take is that? Who is stopping you from taking care of your own damn kids?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/22 02:27 AM
0	What do you think about these "Are we dating the same guy" groups? They do not. Not, long ago there was exposed telegram chats showing thousands of men posting women's nudes, social security number and addresses.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/22 02:21 AM
2	What do you think about these "Are we dating the same guy" groups? And your guarantee is false. There are group chats made that have the women's photos, social security numbers, addresses, and body count and they are still up on telegram.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/22 02:19 AM
1	Women often use fear as an excuse to be rude to men even though men have assaulted/victimized more men than women Almost any time you see a woman be rude to men, the common response is that she was scared. No, they do not. What a lie to start your premise. Completely IGNORE that men are the MOST LIKELY victims of assault. The only type of assault that women are more likely to be victims of are sexual assault. Sexual assault is extremely important. It should be talked about all the time and definitely hurts women way more than men. However, aggravated assault is about SEVEN times more common than sexual assa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/22 02:10 AM
5	Women often use fear as an excuse to be rude to men even though men have assaulted/victimized more men than women Statistically speaking the most dangerous place for a young child, according to statistics, is being hurt or murdered by their caregivers in their own home. Does this mean that all this focus on keeping the little ones at home is unnecessary than? I mean hardly any babies are killed this way. If, according to statistics, women should not fear being harmed, because it’s men that get hurt more. We should also send our children outside to roam the neighborhood alone, because statistics say they are…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/22 01:56 AM
1	Its true, women don't make any effort in dating Yikes, did you even read what I wrote? I said women not men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/22 12:24 AM
-1	Its true, women don't make any effort in dating Because that is apart of women's game. Literally, put yourself constantly in the guy's proximity in order to increase the chance of speaking to him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/22 12:16 AM
1	Question for Men: Would you rather marry a 20 year old who looks 30, or a 30 year old who looks 20? Where are the men that claim body count matters for long term relationships? I'm surprised they aren't spamming the stats since older women are assumed to have higher counts.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/22 12:08 AM
-5	CMV: Men want women more then women want men, and that’s why we don’t care about your standards. Lol sure	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/22 05:50 AM
14	CMV: Men want women more then women want men, and that’s why we don’t care about your standards. Because the same standards you hold for yourself you hold for your partner????	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/22 01:45 AM
5	N-COUNT WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD Fucking tons of people can lead to getting tired of uncommitted and meaningless sex. The main reason why is pure eww. But some of you guys always need to rationalize feelings.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/22 01:40 AM
0	N-COUNT WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD Finding one similarity between two things does not make them comparable at the end of the day. keep ignoring the huge difference between killing someone and fucking someone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/22 01:33 AM
0	N-COUNT WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD Wow they have one similarity but lets ignore the large difference between fucking and killling someone. Wow, you really got me there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/22 06:09 AM
-2	N-COUNT WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD Not this again. Sex is something human being are going to do. If you have a normal sex drive you are going to want to fuck. Shaming someone for doing something natural to human is straight up weird.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/22 01:26 AM
1	The Myth of Men’s Time Vs Women’s Time Lets get real here. Stains indicate that left over food or beverages have been left sitting on the table. The literal definition of clean is: free from dirt, marks, or stains. Now tell me how having stains on a table is considered clean when the very definition says free of stains. Using individual example means nothing. The general public knows what a clean table looks like. Ask anyone to visualize it and most will say a table free of stains, organized and clear.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/22 01:59 AM
4	The Myth of Men’s Time Vs Women’s Time Y’all are nasty. Imagine choosing a plastic chair over a comfy couch simply because it’s less needing of being tidy. If your so efficient with your time than you can make time for making sure you can tidy your couch up. Another thing is couches don’t even require that much tidy. Literally just fix the pillows. And every once in a while hire someone to deep clean it. Y’all aren’t efficient your lazy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/22 12:31 AM
1	The Myth of Men’s Time Vs Women’s Time Oh there is defiantly an objective criteria for what makes something clean. It just matters what you are talking about. You know what clean dishes look like. Just like how anyone knows what a clean table looks like.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/22 12:22 AM
0	The Myth of Men’s Time Vs Women’s Time The wage gap only exist in later years. Younger women out-earn young men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/22 12:16 AM
1	The Myth of Men’s Time Vs Women’s Time Running a household is nearly a 24 hour job. You can’t clock out and just leave this task. Based on how young the child is determines how much work you need to put in. While somehow managing your own life. Once a child is in school. You still have an entire house to tend to and your own life to tend to. Free time ain’t free time if it’s spent playing catch up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/22 12:15 AM
3	The damage caused by the sexualization of women is substantially greater than any benefit. Glad you noticed this too. The men her have this weird belief attractive men can’t be good because they have options.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/22 04:04 AM
-1	Men are happier in marriage and women are happier single And she made a video debunking theirs. Chopping up someone’s video so you can misinterpret it is not refuting anything.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/22 11:37 AM
0	Do you think being a male breadwinner is becoming less of a status symbol? Men and fathers on the screen are all portrayed as fat imbeciles, the butt of every joke, deferential to the dominant woman in their lives. It’s embarrassing. Young boys need someone to look up to. LOL as if men haven't for centuries been lifted up over women. You aren't going to sit here and tell no one young boys don't have anyone to look up to. There are plenty of male role models from different areas of life they can look up to from Marcus Aurelius, Nikola Tesla, and Barak Obama. Yet, they c…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/22 11:49 PM
2	Older men are more bitter and resentful and have more baggage than older women Baggage occurs at any age. Baggage is not traumatic life experience you encounter as an adult. Kids can have baggage from a dysfunctional family. Teens can have baggage from bullying Incels issues are not solely tied to insecurity. But anger, despair, bitterness and resentfulness. All at the same level as a women who only experienced toxic relationships.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/22 06:30 PM
1	Older men are more bitter and resentful and have more baggage than older women Men overall have more baggage than women. It doesn’t matter if men and women dating lives aren’t symmetrical. The asymmetry at the end of the day leads to same outcome. Which is baggage. Incels on here have the baggage equivalent to a 40 year old chick that only experienced toxic relationships with men. Which is crazy considering they are holding on with both hands to their V card. If women benefit from women are wonderful, the fact they are young and pretty (pretty privileged and halo effect), …	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/22 01:22 AM
3	Where did this idea that younger women make better partners come from? Further proving the point some men here don’t see women as a person with their own autonomy. But simply an object to modify to fit their own desires. Literally will remain one of the weirdest shit since these men can easily just find women that naturally have the traits they like.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/22 01:15 AM
5	Where did this idea that younger women make better partners come from? Get in reality. Have many people stay with the person they meet in their early 20? Your preaching a concept that simply does not play out for the majority.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/22 01:11 AM
1	Most women don't care about toxic masculinity and actively perpetuate it when it suits them. You claimed women are afraid of dying alone. If women are afraid of dying alone they would pair up with a man even if it includes settling. It's true men die earlier or pair with women younger. But the common age range of couples is 2-3 years. Men are not pairing up with significantly younger women. You claimed man have lower standards. Yet, now it's only a specific group of man? Yeah, no and using bachelors aka an exception to the rule does not prove anything. Your average Joe is not a bachelor…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/22 04:28 PM
1	What is the goal of feminism in terms of redefining masculinity? I'm done debating here. Once again focusing on the terms wording. Yet, you have presented zero evidence that could refute my claim which was: Taking this if masculinity is defined by behaviors/attributes. Those behaviors like any trait can become distorted and shown in extreme forms.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/22 04:22 PM
1	What is the goal of feminism in terms of redefining masculinity? It really has nothing to do with an ideal, but rather authenticity. To you. Masculinity is a standard aka ideal man. Masculinity cannot be authentic because it's not all men's natural way of acting. Still, it's bigotry to label the status of being a member of a class as being "toxic", even in part. Who said that being a member of the male sex was toxic? That's an assumption you made and projected unto me. Toxic masculinity says that traits associated with masculinity can become toxic not that th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/22 02:28 AM
1	What is the goal of feminism in terms of redefining masculinity? Masculinity is being a man as well Okay? There are two ways people use the word masculinity. Describe Males The ideal version of what it means to be a 'real man This is common sense. Use semantics to understand the point. Masculinity focuses on what the ideal man is like. There's a reason you wouldn't put "toxic" before any other class marker. You have presented zero evidence to refute my claim because you're arguing something else. You have an issue with how the term is worded seeing you are so…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/22 12:11 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread The two are not mutually exclusive. You can be naturally physically attractive yet be unhygienic to the point you don't wipe your ass. Not that hard to understand.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/22 11:44 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Hot dudes can't be losers or not wipe their ass? Halo effect much.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/22 11:17 PM
1	Most women don't care about toxic masculinity and actively perpetuate it when it suits them. It's not an either-or scenario, to begin with. Women older can pair with men around her age. It would be easier for her since as you said: "Men have lower standards". So, if a woman is single when she is older it's because she is voluntarily choosing to do so. This contradicts your claim women are afraid to die lonely.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/22 11:09 PM
2	What is the goal of feminism in terms of redefining masculinity? Masculinity = social expectations of being a man. It is not solely the quality of being male. Telling men not to cry and show emotions is toxic masculinity.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/22 11:07 PM
2	What is the goal of feminism in terms of redefining masculinity? No, you have taken the meaning of the word just like feminist and distorted its meaning. There is most definitely a such thing as toxic masculinity.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/22 12:27 AM
3	Most women don't care about toxic masculinity and actively perpetuate it when it suits them. In terms of singletons, more women are single when they are older than when they are younger. The reverse is true for men. For all the toxicity women spew about men, women don't want to die alone. However they spend their youth doing their damndest to make it so. They waste their youth on men who won't commit then divorce the men that do. If women were so scared of dying alone they would be partnered up when they are older. The data says otherwise so I doubt it's fear. As you said men's standard…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/22 11:55 PM
-1	Your mother didn’t “lie” to you. Women didn’t lie to you. They genuinely thought they were telling you the truth….and that most girls were not they them I’m just gonna say this we spend hours in school learning about geometry,biology,literature but no one teaches us how to deal with each other That's your problem. You are in school for 12 years, multiple hours a day & 5 days a week. Not, only this but its afterschool activities you can do to stay longer. It's your fault you couldn't learn social skills and understand women. Even then most go to college so you still have time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/22 09:26 PM
1	Your relationship should not depend on sexual attraction The case still stands and I don't care if the 'smart people' got it. Partner = people you are romantically tied to. What other time is this word used except when talking about someone you are in a romantic relationship with? I get it now. Your not talking about romantic relationships but expect people to think your talking about it when you say partner. Because once again when else is that term used for?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/22 01:01 AM
1	Your relationship should not depend on sexual attraction It's not solely the fact you used 'relationships'. You said partner when in a relationship. People do not call friends partners only people they are romantically tied to. What do you think that is going to indicate to people? Get grounded now. If anything it seems you need to learn how to better articulate yourself if multiple people are confused with your post.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/22 12:40 AM
3	Women do not need to be sympathetic to mens dating struggles Say you ban abortion. All of a sudden, there is more incentive for women to pick safer guys which means that those women will slightly change what they and therefore society values. Which is probably not going to make incels suddenly turn into Chads but is a push in a slightly better direction for them. Seems you are implying incels are the safer guys. Which is false.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/22 12:34 AM
3	Women do not need to be sympathetic to mens dating struggles Literally, no one gives a fuck. You're acting as if women are the only ones who don't care. You guys only have smoke for women begging them to show empathy yet never men. No one cares neither men nor women regarding men's issues as a collective. The reason vary: some women don't believe they exist but the biggest is that people are way to concerned with their own issues and people closest to them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/22 12:24 AM
1	Your relationship should not depend on sexual attraction It does and I'd advise you to read your own post. You switch from talking about a friend to mid-paragraph talk about a partner in a relationship. Would this person genuinely be my friend if they didn't find me physically attractive? This is what everyone should ask themselves and their partner when in a relationship. Like what?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/22 12:16 AM
1	Your relationship should not depend on sexual attraction Would this person genuinely be my friend if they didn't find me physically attractive? Yes, people can be friends with people they don't find physically attractive. This is what everyone should ask themselves and their partner when in a relationship. Be honest with yourselves.. How do you go from talking about a friend to a partner in a relationship? These two relationships share similarities but there are still large differences. If you know your partner is only in your life because they find…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/22 12:11 AM
6	The decline in quality relationships is just a reflection of an increase in human freedom. Not necessarily a negative. It does unless you are talking about the validation your ego gets from someone wanting to have sex with you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/22 08:10 PM
7	The decline in quality relationships is just a reflection of an increase in human freedom. Not necessarily a negative. There are other means available. Go get a fleshlight or sex doll if it's tormenting you so badly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/22 08:05 PM
2	CMV: The Empathizing-Systemizing theory explains why women here are so dismissive of empirical research on sex, dating, and relationships. Never said they couldn't. This is not an either-or thing. Most humans are in the middle. People who are highly systematic thinkers may be autistic seeing the theory is about it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/22 12:19 AM
2	CMV: The Empathizing-Systemizing theory explains why women here are so dismissive of empirical research on sex, dating, and relationships. The point of my comment was to highlight how subjective these values are, to begin with, sherlock.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/22 12:18 AM
2	CMV: The Empathizing-Systemizing theory explains why women here are so dismissive of empirical research on sex, dating, and relationships. Empathizers didn't come up with the Theory of Evolution, or engineer the device you used to type your comment. The ability to systemize is arguably the most socially valuable form of intelligence. When most people say "smart" or "intelligent", that's what they're thinking of: being "book smart". Not being empathetic or "emotionally intelligent" or whatever. This is a subjective value you hold. Not, everyone highly values book-smart, intelligent people who can systemize. You know this though sinc…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/22 01:07 PM
2	The idea that women will hit the wall and will suddenly need men and give lower SMV guys a chance seems like a bluepill fantasy to me Half of men 18-29 are single. Only a quarter of them is single between 30 and 49. Talking about two different generations of men. Gen Z men are 18-29 years old. While the next-gen is 30+. There is no proof Gen Z men will follow this same pattern as the previous generation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/22 11:25 PM
2	The idea that women will hit the wall and will suddenly need men and give lower SMV guys a chance seems like a bluepill fantasy to me The question is will Gen Z men be able to gain the same economic standing as previous generations of men that allowed them to be self assured and financially stable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/22 11:21 PM
12	What is something you didn't know about the opposite sex until PPD? WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD Classic derailing. Just say you have no argument and keep it moving. Focusing on tone to shift the conversation is not an argument.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/22 03:10 AM
3	For all this talk of “the Wall”, I think in big cities (certainly London in my experience), men need to be alive to the fact that there are a lot of women out there who are totally fine with remaining single well into their thirties and potentially forever “Loneliness” can’t be measured objectively so don’t try and treat it as an objective fact. And 50 year old women are literally still women in the workforce so obviously not who I’m talking about when I say old age. Read the second paragraph because they did this with Americans and people in Australia, Finland, and the Netherlands who were 70 years or older. The average age expectancy in America is 73-74. These are old people and the results are the same as 50-year-olds. We can measure things lik…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/22 02:57 AM
3	For all this talk of “the Wall”, I think in big cities (certainly London in my experience), men need to be alive to the fact that there are a lot of women out there who are totally fine with remaining single well into their thirties and potentially forever You claimed: Loneliness is less of an issue for women with children. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3159916/ As for childlessness at midlife, Koropeckyj-Cox, Pienta, and Brown (2007) analyzed national, cross-sectional data to compare the well-being of childless women and mothers in their 50s and found that childlessness was not associated with worse psychological outcomes in midlife. Several recent studies have explicitly compared the well-being of parents and the childless in late…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/22 02:33 AM
1	For all this talk of “the Wall”, I think in big cities (certainly London in my experience), men need to be alive to the fact that there are a lot of women out there who are totally fine with remaining single well into their thirties and potentially forever Need proof of this because there is no consistent data that backs this up. It's spouse and friendship that are higher predictors of loneliness for older women and elders, not kids.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/22 12:48 AM
1	For all this talk of “the Wall”, I think in big cities (certainly London in my experience), men need to be alive to the fact that there are a lot of women out there who are totally fine with remaining single well into their thirties and potentially forever Define family oriented. Because from google: What does it mean to be family oriented? A family oriented person is someone who cares deeply about each family member and makes sure they feel seen and heard as well as accepted for who they are. Women wouldn't initiate most divorces if men were 'family oriented'.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/22 12:40 AM
2	Most women are not attracted to honest men. They're attracted to men who are the best at faking their intentions Well no duh. They are lying so the intent is either false or left ambiguous. But, said to gain the approval of the person.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/10/22 04:13 AM
1	Prettier, dumb women will always triumph over an average to less attractive intelligent women. I use me as an example, but all men perceive women the same. I can make a claim about all groups of people. All men perceive women as being women. I know how I perceive them, and how I see men act and talk so I know they think the same. Never claimed that you could not make a claim. I am addressing the evidence you are using to back up your claim. Just because YOU perceive something as X indicates nothing on if your perception is normal to the point it's an accurate representation for a group. b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/22 02:45 AM
2	Prettier, dumb women will always triumph over an average to less attractive intelligent women. however you are mistaken when you claim that a man of lower intelligence would be intimidated by more intelligent women. men do not measure women up against them in terms of intellect. I perceive female thought patterns like when I see a toddler walking for the first time, getting all exited but falling over because the nervous system is just not configured to achieve the outcome. in the childs mind, it was a great success to make two steps before falling over. If you are going to make a claim f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/22 12:06 AM
10	CMV: Men are normally more emotional than women, and that's why many pretend it's the other way around Literally every line after your bolder section says “there is some evidence that women are more emotional than men” Before or after those same lines they say: Gender differences in emotional responding tend to disappear. there seem to be as many reports that do not indicate that there are sex differences in responding However, reports of emotion measured in other domains are less straightforward Once again the results from these experiments is inconsistent. There are no consistent results that b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/22 08:31 PM
25	CMV: Men are normally more emotional than women, and that's why many pretend it's the other way around They are reporting what their experiment found. But, if you actually read the study, it says other experiments show inconsistent results regarding this topic. There is no consistent data that support gender differences in emotional reactivity. Empirical studies of gender differences in emotion have produced far less consistent results than might be expected based on popular convictions. In accordance with popular beliefs, there is some evidence that in the domain of emotional expression, women d…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/22 06:39 PM
3	Is it true that men have it harder than women because what makes a man attractive can't be faked or is extremely difficult to achieve? Healthy is subjective. Many relationships are long term due to one's success because the divorce gappens due to debt and money issues. Character goes out the window when finances are an issue. Many divorces happen from finances, this isn't a personal claim being made but simply a fact about factors that determine if a couple will last. TD Ameritrade has the number at 41% other polls give it 50+. You are taking my claim and forming it as though it's an either or. I am not saying a relationship ca…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/22 03:19 PM
1	Is it true that men have it harder than women because what makes a man attractive can't be faked or is extremely difficult to achieve? You have no source either as two people have pointed out. Stop being hypocritical here. List your AcAdEmIc sources then. Show me proof long-term healthy relationships can last without the need for a man's character. Keep in mind you were the person who left your argument vague. Which made me ask you to specify your claim. Does this include healthy long-term relationships in America also? Sounds like you are making an absolute claim here that all relationships can last without a man's character. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/22 02:54 PM
0	Is it true that men have it harder than women because what makes a man attractive can't be faked or is extremely difficult to achieve? The issue is most people take these posts as attacks on them. Just because you may be a woman that cares about a man's character doesn't mean you are the norm. You missed the point of my comment. The point is that if OP is talking about long-term healthy relationships. Character > success. This isn't a personal claim being made but simply a fact about factors that determine if a couple will last. Your supporting evidence is irrelevant to what I said. Argue the actual claim of my point which was:…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/22 02:39 PM
15	Is it true that men have it harder than women because what makes a man attractive can't be faked or is extremely difficult to achieve? You need a source to know that character determines if a healthy relationship lasts. Get serious right now. This is like asking do you need to be disciplined to get in shape. Certain things have obvious answers to the point you do not need a source unless you have never seen a good relationship or experienced one. People who need a source for everything are only showing their lack of experience in the world and need to compensate for it by researching chronically. Go outside, look at your family…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/22 08:06 AM
19	Is it true that men have it harder than women because what makes a man attractive can't be faked or is extremely difficult to achieve? Women do care about men's characters. Are we talking about long-term relations or short term?? Assuming you mean a healthy long-term relationship in America. Character is the ultimate decider in if long-term relationships even become long-term. Not how successful a man is or if he's willing to do her bidding.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/22 07:42 AM
1	Women don't need marriage in 2022 Nah, they have enough sense to know what they can say on social media vs out in public	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/22 01:28 AM
1	Do you think men hit the wall around 45? Based on your comments, I can surmise one of two things: either you have an unusual talent for misinterpretation, or you're being deliberately obtuse. Nowhere did I imply that skincare products promise to make a 60 year old woman appear like a 20 year old woman. My comment never claimed this. Nowhere in my comment did I mention anything on how a 60-year-old woman was supposed to look 20. My comment was addressing the misconception on skincare. You claimed: These 'women' skincare did nothing to p…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/22 03:33 PM
13	Women don't need marriage in 2022 AKA I've been on social media for a bit too long and need to go outside and touch some damn grass. When you say you heard so much no sense from feminists do you mean your algorithm showed you a nut job on the internet or deadass when you went outside you heard an actual nutjob say this?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/22 08:40 AM
3	Do you think men hit the wall around 45? I once mentioned that as living proof that all those expensive skin care treatments women swear by do absolutely nothing to preserve the appearance of youth; Skincare is not supposed to preserve the appearance of youth, to begin with. That's a misconception you hold about how skincare works that simply is not true. Now, what skincare does is help slow down the signs of aging. Something totally different than maintaining the skin in its original state when you were in your youth. Who are these wo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/22 08:34 AM
2	Men on ppd are adamant that women don’t want to accept the fact that the majority of men are disgusted by promiscuous women, while refusing to accept that the majority of young women do not find men 10+ years older than them attractive Weren't you the same user who said: Where? Where are these young women? PPD? Lol, you must be joking. You basically said women of PPD do not represent how average women think regarding this topic so she hit you back with a rhetorical question. The question was never saying YOU believe in this. It was a question asked for a purpose other than to obtain the information the question asked Sherlock.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/22 11:15 PM
2	Older men hitting on younger women is not harassment, nor immoral, nor illegal So you drew assumptions of being immoral, and people willing to do anything to be immoral You make zero sense. The discussion is about if older men hitting on women is immoral. So, yes the assumption is going to be included in this discussion. The question is if it is inherently immoral or not. The point of my comment was to highlight how by all means can lead to the immoral actions we are discussing right now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/22 11:06 PM
0	Men on ppd are adamant that women don’t want to accept the fact that the majority of men are disgusted by promiscuous women, while refusing to accept that the majority of young women do not find men 10+ years older than them attractive NO, you took it as if they are implying. If you know you are not the 'men' saying n count matters then YOU are not the demographic of men they were talking about to begin with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/22 10:58 PM
2	Thoughts on the Piers Morgan/Andrew Tate interview? He dialed down A LOT. He proclaims things like all I am doing is trying to teach young boys how to be strong providers for women. BULLSHIT. He just doesn't want to stand by all the controversial things he said for shock value.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/22 10:54 PM
5	Older men hitting on younger women is not harassment, nor immoral, nor illegal It is an issue. Women do not want to be hit on by men they are not into.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/22 10:44 PM
8	Older men hitting on younger women is not harassment, nor immoral, nor illegal Social media is not real life. You seeing angry women on the internet does not prove a lot of women are triggered. Most do not give a fuck.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/22 10:41 PM
1	Men on ppd are adamant that women don’t want to accept the fact that the majority of men are disgusted by promiscuous women, while refusing to accept that the majority of young women do not find men 10+ years older than them attractive They never said YOU, to begin with. Yes, they did say MEN of Reddit but obviously, they are talking about a certain group of men on Reddit who keep saying n count matters. Think for a second you are not the men she is talking about. They are not making up shit. If you actually have been on the sub reddit you will know it is most definitely a group of men who proclaim men care about n count.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/22 10:37 PM
1	Older men hitting on younger women is not harassment, nor immoral, nor illegal By all means, can easily lead a person to leave open all available tactics for the desired end goal. The point of my comment was to highlight that specific section of your argument. A person who by all means is going to date younger women can easily cross into doing immoral things in order to achieve the goal.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/22 10:31 PM
1	Older men hitting on younger women is not harassment, nor immoral, nor illegal But if you can, by all means. A mindset like this can quickly cause actions that are considered immoral, illegal, and harrasment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/22 08:43 PM
6	There are more women who sexually select for evil men than vice versa. Thus, in a way, evil men exist because of some women You never explained why nor gave any evidence. Just presenting a claim that confidence and coolness aren't attractive is not an argument.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/22 05:32 AM
9	There are more women who sexually select for evil men than vice versa. Thus, in a way, evil men exist because of some women You’re ignoring that tons of women are literally unironically attracted to violence and evil as the source of it. Because fucked up women exist also? Do you want those women is the question? I’ve met women who said their biggest turn on was a man having no empathy I've met women who said their biggest turn-on is a man who shows empathy and emotional intelligence.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/22 03:59 AM
4	There are more women who sexually select for evil men than vice versa. Thus, in a way, evil men exist because of some women Yes, it's not only confidence. That is why I never simply said confidence but included: physically attractive due to grooming, high-status job, charming and personable, confidence, and signs of status.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/22 03:50 AM
13	There are more women who sexually select for evil men than vice versa. Thus, in a way, evil men exist because of some women Study after study has shown dark triad traits, psychopathic, literally criminal and villainous traits can be seen as very alluring and attractive to women. Yes, and those traits on the surface usually are attractive. If we go off of superficial observance for starters, most men like this will be confident. It is an attractive feature for anyone to be confident and unwavering. Another might be coolness under pressure. DTP men can be very charming, and personable, and know how to make their partne…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/22 03:40 AM
4	The Future of dating for men is only gonna get much worse. Mean as in real life or on Reddit?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/22 03:14 AM
3	Why is Reddit so hell-bent on convincing men that body count doesn’t matter? That actually makes a lot of sense because women that typically do well with men and are considered attractive do not complain about their partner wanting a woman with a low body count. No, duh they aren't going to complain about their partner wanting a woman with a low body count because: It hardly is even brought to begin with. Attractive women being attractive can compensate for having a high body count. Causing it to not be a barrier for them thus = what is there to complain about? Still, it…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/22 05:40 AM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread This is cliche advice your parents give your ass in high school.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/22 05:19 AM
3	Daily Community Chat Megathread Women call men gay as an insult. Yes. And women are the ones calling 80% of men unattractive and all women attractive. That's actually gay Women do not call ALL women attractive. When you say women is it code for 'women who are celebrities /Instagram models?"	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/22 02:26 AM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread What	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/22 01:56 AM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Then there is nothing left to discuss here. That's your opinion and you are entitled to it think that way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/22 01:55 AM
3	Daily Community Chat Megathread Because it's not that simple. It's not bald men = ugly yet bald women = fine as hell. Learn what nuance is. On average neither men nor women look good with bald hair. Yet, in this situation, we are talking about one specific woman who has bald hair, not an overall gender. Dywane Wade Johnson looks good with bald hair and is fine asf also.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/22 12:10 AM
6	Daily Community Chat Megathread Just because you find someone attractive does not mean you are attracted to them. I can say Doja Cat is fine as hell yet still not be attracted to women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/22 12:01 AM
3	Daily Community Chat Megathread And she still looks fine asf.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/22 11:43 PM
3	Daily Community Chat Megathread You should care if you're an average person. Chances are you both use each other money to buy/pay necessities, rent, mortgage and have a good standard of living for your future kids.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/22 05:14 PM
3	Daily Community Chat Megathread I never claimed it should be forced. The point of my comment is why was birth control created for women first and not men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/22 05:08 PM
6	Daily Community Chat Megathread Men should be the ones with birth control, not women to begin with. Women have to carry a child for months meanwhile men can produce 50 new babies if they wanted to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/22 05:00 PM
3	CMV: it's hypocritical for a woman to criticise men for caring about past sexual history if she herself would not date a man who is a virgin or never had a gf at 30. Okay? The same thing can apply to virgin women through terrible family or friend relations. Like, think for a moment. Why is it the only baggage from romantic relationships? Disappointment, negative issues, and trauma are not limited to only romantic relationships but also family, friends or platonic relationships. Have you not seen Incels? They have zero partners but have apparent issues.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/22 04:54 PM
7	CMV: it's hypocritical for a woman to criticise men for caring about past sexual history if she herself would not date a man who is a virgin or never had a gf at 30. Is the only thing that vastly changes someone's personality how many partners you have had? The answer is no. The virgin most of you idealize so heavily can have emotional baggage that makes her and the chemistry not possible.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/22 04:51 PM
8	CMV: it's hypocritical for a woman to criticise men for caring about past sexual history if she herself would not date a man who is a virgin or never had a gf at 30. It comes down to why. it's not simply that you are not allowed to it's the reasoning behind it. Most people won't say anything if your reasoning is due to religion or you have a low n count yourself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/22 04:44 PM
1	Most women find very few men attractive I don't have to enlighten you on skincare since it's google and the term is quite explicit. It's taking care of your skin. My suggestion was due to OP claiming men cannot increase their looks from either a 6/10 - 7/10 or whatever rating. For some average men a skincare routine can be incorporated to increase your looks. If you have acne, hyperpigmentation, redness or more incorporating a skincare routine will make you look more attractive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/22 04:19 PM
1	CMV: If legal, age doesn’t matter And like I said before. Just because you have seen many age gap relationships does not take away from the fact it's unlikely and atypical. The data shows that 10+ age gaps are not the norm making it unlikely to happen for this topic. The facts do not care about your individual experience.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/22 03:32 PM
2	Most women find very few men attractive I've seen videos of average men look maxing though. Going to the gym, getting a haircut, growing out a beard if you can, skincare routine/dermatologist visits and clothing can really change the average men. It's just not a quick fix and takes discipline/dedication.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/22 03:25 PM
2	Most women find very few men attractive I mean for me it matters the location. My parents live in an area where it's mainly older middle class people. There I have hardly seen an attractive men. But, when I go into the known cities everyday I see 3-6 young attractive men a day.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/22 03:22 PM
1	What do you believe are the underlying reasons behind the issues men face when dating? How can they be addressed by society as a whole? The only thing I'm getting here is that the rights of passage into manhood basically means the process of becoming a man. The only issue here now is, what does it even mean to be a men? The traditional definition which was to provide is slowly ceasing to exist or becoming unattainable for most men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/22 03:20 PM
1	CMV: If legal, age doesn’t matter Age gap relationships are unlikely. Most people are in relationships with people around their age. Just because you've seen "many" people who are in one does not eliminate the fact it's still atypical.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/22 03:13 PM
11	When it comes to men's fortunes in dating.....the few, CONSTANTLY ruin it for the many...... You did not point out any fallacious argument. Your comment is just you telling someone to get over it and how you'd be called a misogynist. But, go off that's a wonderful argument right?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/22 02:07 AM
3	What do you believe are the underlying reasons behind the issues men face when dating? How can they be addressed by society as a whole? LOL, oh okay. Sorry, I've learned a while ago some poster actually are serious.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/22 12:56 AM
2	What do you believe are the underlying reasons behind the issues men face when dating? How can they be addressed by society as a whole? Are you serious right now? We stopped doing rituals like this ages ago. Do you have a modern example?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/22 12:36 AM
7	What do you believe are the underlying reasons behind the issues men face when dating? How can they be addressed by society as a whole? It's easy to blame an external source on your reason for failure. But, I do not buy this excuse. You took things at face value and ignored reality. People tend to sugarcoat reality to other as white lies. Yet, you have eyes and your own brain. What stopped you from looking at what men in the real world got the most women or had girlfriends? They were probably physically attractive, hading engaging personality, or a desirable hobby/job. It's no one fault you blindly accepted what other people sai…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/22 07:10 PM
2	What do you believe are the underlying reasons behind the issues men face when dating? How can they be addressed by society as a whole? - not raised to be men by strong father figures, not taught things they were supposed to be taught I agree. lack of support for men who are struggling I agree. And it explains why the manosphere blew up. -lack of trials, tribulations, and rights of passage into manhood What is the passage to manhood? You never defined this process and I don't want to assume.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/22 07:01 PM
9	CMV: If legal, age doesn’t matter Why do you guys want to debate a topic that is unlikely to even happen? You all are getting defensive over something that will never apply to your life. Suck it up most average people side eye age gap relationships. The only time people don't give a f when it's rich and well known men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/22 06:54 PM
4	For marriage, it's logical for men to marry the youngest attractive woman they can pull. You are basically allowing people to determine who you marry because it drops your social status. Relationship last not based on how both people increase/decrease their value to other people. It's the time you spend and the quality of that. Not, only this but marrying young increases your chance of getting divorced so how is that logical?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/22 07:19 PM
12	Women are far crueler to men than vice versa, especially regarding looks A whole post using well muh experience?? There was recently MUTIPLE group chat created by men exposing women home addresses, social security number, nudes and more. A group chat where women rate and talk shit about men is nothing and men do it all the time. It's just not in group chats but when they are around each other.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/22 04:19 PM
3	EVEN if you could FORCE monogamy and "redistribute" love and relationships, you can't force a woman to genuinely love you and you FEEL the difference Missed the entire point. Living with two parents that dislike each other does not result in better mental development for kids. My evidence is: Exposure to parental conflict is associated with poorer academic achievement, increased substance use, and early family formation and dissolution, often in ways indistinguishable from living in a stepfather or single-mother family. It is better for the parents to separate instead of sticking together like you are trying to push. Link the data also.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/22 09:31 PM
4	EVEN if you could FORCE monogamy and "redistribute" love and relationships, you can't force a woman to genuinely love you and you FEEL the difference Dude, exposure to parental conflict is associated with poorer academic achievement, increased substance use, and early family formation and dissolution, often in ways indistinguishable from living in a stepfather or single-mother family. While children tend to do better living with two biological married parents, the advantages of two-parent families are not shared equally by all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/22 08:15 PM
10	EVEN if you could FORCE monogamy and "redistribute" love and relationships, you can't force a woman to genuinely love you and you FEEL the difference Because it's good for the kids mental health, mental devellopment and give them more chances in life. Talking like someone who has zero experience. Family structure and parental conflict are associated with child well-being. Not simply if you have two parents. Children who grow up in 2 parent household where both parents dislike each other are not good for kids mental health nor development. You may assume it isn't since as you said: "And it also help people not resenting to each other, when the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/22 05:36 PM
18	CMV: I don't think men are "bad at communicating" like we women often tell each other. I think this stereotype is false and men are fantastic communicators... when they want to be. I think most men, however, are bad at pretending to care about things they don't. Now your are moving the goal post. You asked for an example of this. I'm not here to debate with you on the reason behind why people act this way or give them solutions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/22 02:02 AM
11	CMV: I don't think men are "bad at communicating" like we women often tell each other. I think this stereotype is false and men are fantastic communicators... when they want to be. I think most men, however, are bad at pretending to care about things they don't. You don't need an explicit example told to you. Using the definition I gave above people can think for themselves what are possible examples. Since, being vulnerable means allowing yourself to be susceptible to physical or emotional attack or harm. It matters based on the person what makes them vulnerable. That's why I left it broad not vague due to it being a very individualistic thing. It's revealing a part of yourself which leaves you exposed emotionally, and therefore, exposed to being hurt.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/22 01:56 AM
28	CMV: I don't think men are "bad at communicating" like we women often tell each other. I think this stereotype is false and men are fantastic communicators... when they want to be. I think most men, however, are bad at pretending to care about things they don't. When you open up to someone usually about vulnerable information. And, they use it against you in arguments or confrontation. It can be used by anyone but from my experience women do use it more.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/22 01:20 AM
2	Men need to stop justifying why they don't want to date women with high body counts Most people do not attack the standard/preference. It's the reasoning and beliefs towards x behind the preference that usually is attacked.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/22 08:36 PM
4	Tait Brothers Mega-Thread Most of Andrew Tate following is middle school boys to young college kids. No one but inexperienced and emotional charge hormonal people are taking this guy serious.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/22 07:57 PM
2	American men should stop dating/marrying American women Aren't you married? Like you've been off the dating market for years. How do you even know this?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/22 07:52 PM
–	“Why are men in Crisis?” discussed on Bill Maher The amount of work required to live a sufficient life is extremely low for the average person. Define what you mean by a sufficient life. You keep things vague and expect people to fill it in for you. A sufficient life is going to be defined differently based on the person. What is a sufficient life? Based on your response it’s coming across as you mean the bare minimum in life. Do mediocre in HS and College then get a Job. You won't thrive but you can survive. Compare that to someone in China o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/22 05:01 PM
–	“Why are men in Crisis?” discussed on Bill Maher Modern society has removed almost all adversity from life. Leaving men without purpose. What is all this adversity that has been removed from life? Anyone out her working and building for their future will not say I have not encountered any/nearly any hardship or difficulty. If anything life naturally comes with adversity.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/22 04:03 PM
1	The rate of women never married is increasing significantly. What effects will we see if this trend continues? Okay, that facility needs to make sure the people can actually maintain themselves first so that they can have the energy and capacity to support another entity. America needs to actually help Americans have the wages and more to support a family.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/22 02:06 PM
5	The rate of women never married is increasing significantly. What effects will we see if this trend continues? Your comment makes no sense. You can still see your child. Single mother means a child being raised without a father in the picture at all. Your child will be raised in a single parent home where they will still be able to see there father. Those two things are starkly different.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/22 02:04 PM
2	South Korea’s Gender War And The Future Of Gender Relations In The West Nope, outside the box thinking is called creativity. We have terms put in place to describe behaviors. People who are creative can showcase transgressive and rule breaking behavior that changes the way we see and think about things. That is called creating something new AKA creativity. Creativity: Innovation, inventiveness or imagination. The tendency to generate or recognize ideas, alternatives, or possibilities that may be useful in solving problems, communicating with others, and entertaining…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/22 01:59 PM
0	South Korea’s Gender War And The Future Of Gender Relations In The West Nowhere In the article does it say that nor discuss that. Once again it only talks about myths and boys separating from parents and the effects .	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/22 01:53 PM
0	South Korea’s Gender War And The Future Of Gender Relations In The West Independent "outside the box thinking" is creativity. Thinking outside the box is making shit up. Original idea aka creating new things require creativity. So that's feminine? Think for a moment bro now you're contradicting yourself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/22 01:48 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Two parent can mean mother + mother or father + father.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/22 01:11 PM
13	The rate of women never married is increasing significantly. What effects will we see if this trend continues? Men have it harder because they don't get sex nor loyalty. Meanwhile, women complain about being a single parent. Like you guys are so unserious.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/22 01:03 PM
3	The rate of women never married is increasing significantly. What effects will we see if this trend continues? Just an idea. But, I don't think anyone thinks about life when you are 80+. My great grandmother after my great grandad passed has lived alone and managed to wash herself, clean her home, wash her clothes and move around. All the way up until she turned 85 years old. Ever since then she has been falling because she is getting weaker, needs her kids help keeping her home clean and more. Before, she was just fine but now? She needs help. So if people are not getting married and not having kids who…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/22 01:01 PM
0	South Korea’s Gender War And The Future Of Gender Relations In The West The article only explains stats on how gender are different in their performance and myths. It says nothing about how the actual school system is causing these problems.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/22 12:49 PM
-1	South Korea’s Gender War And The Future Of Gender Relations In The West You're also wrong about disruptive ideas, objectivity, independent "outside the box thinking" and creative problem solving are all natural male qualities, they're simply qualities that are being squelched in young boys by female teaches who prioritize obedient behavior. Nope, they are not. You never actually explain your points nor try to back it up. You do know that just saying men are creative and objective isn't an argument right? Studies show that the SCHOOL SYSTEM. Not, female teacher squas…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/22 12:42 PM
3	South Korea’s Gender War And The Future Of Gender Relations In The West Because those are feminine ideals being imposed on boys that they don't come naturally to, and shouldn't. Following rules and acting politely are not feminine ideals that is being human. Human are by nature social animals and how we manage to work together in a group is by constructing/following rules and being polite. Since, it keeps the group together and was OUR survival strategy. We don’t see as well as most birds.We don’t detect electrical signals like sharks.We don’t detect pressure waves …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/22 05:58 AM
6	South Korea’s Gender War And The Future Of Gender Relations In The West That has zero to do with feminism but instead SK work culture and their economy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/22 05:44 AM
1	South Korea’s Gender War And The Future Of Gender Relations In The West Again it boils down to effectiveness. The two genders.are different, women are just better at providing emotional support so men avoid getting support from men because the help likely wouldn't be as good. Same reason they get their hair cut at the barber and their cars services by a mechanic rather than the other way around. Naturally a full therapist is far better, but with them you lack the personal connection. You do understand the barber and mechanic first needed to learn the proper skills t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/22 12:33 AM
8	South Korea’s Gender War And The Future Of Gender Relations In The West Can you name this restrictive behavioral standard? they shouldn't be expected to follow rules and act politely What?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/22 12:28 AM
7	South Korea’s Gender War And The Future Of Gender Relations In The West Most are blaming feminism for the gender wars though. So, yes to them feminism is bad due to causing this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/22 12:26 AM
22	South Korea’s Gender War And The Future Of Gender Relations In The West This is why I dislike men here trying to use South Korea as an example and how feminism is bad. Like this post is pure cherry picking.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/22 05:35 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread the idea that women need to fear being attacked on the street never made any sense to me, especially since men are objectively way more likely to be the victims of street violence. What does the fact that most children are not allowed to walk alone at night, while adults are more at risk to be harmed say about our society? When you say men are at more risk of being attacked, I assume you are talking about rates of violence committed against men, as opposed to women, being higher? Adults are al…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/22 05:24 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread well if people actually used cognitive empathy all the debates on this subreddit would be finished in under an hour Well, at this point I think you're just saying shit because no one said use cognitive empathy during all debates to begin with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/22 05:04 PM
1	So how do I vet women to make sure they have their head on straight before getting with them? How old are you? 20-22? It reaches a point in life you have at least SOME clue how to spot a women you do not want to date. There isn't a simplified answer to your question. Because usually years of experience with the opposite gender tells you this. My only say is to read human nature by Robert Greene. He has a section dedicate to gauging people character and recognizing subtle hints.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/22 05:06 AM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread so rather than empathy you should be asking for understanding because understanding is a logical understanding of issues other people face, there is no need for the emotional aspect and humans have understanding in spades Empathy is a broad term and you are referring to emotional empathy. I am talking about cognitive empathy. Cognitive empathy is basically being able to put yourself into someone else’s place, and see their perspective. It's ‘empathy by thought’, rather than by feeling.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/22 04:59 AM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread Hypocrite for what? There would have to be something contradicting to his beliefs or feelings.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/22 04:14 AM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread Do women carry the same strength and speed as a men though? You can't say well men go through this also yet undermine the fact men actually have a chance of defending himself if attacked by another men. Both are conceptually similar, yet widely different in terms of defense against said actions. The point of my comment was to highlight WHERE both fears come from and how it makes zero sense not to empathize with each other. False allegations are unlikely to happen to you. Being killed and assault…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/22 04:10 AM
6	Daily Community Chat Megathread I can never understand men who don't empathize with women being cautious/fearful around men either due to the chance of violence, abuse or sexual assault happening. Most would argue against this by claiming there is a low chance of it actually happening to you. Yet, most don't realize the small potential IT CAN happen is enough to make someone proceed with caution. The male equivalent of this is literally false allegation. Most of you guys here have a small chance of it actually happening. YET, …	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/22 03:08 AM
4	Modern day women have absolutely zero accountability whatsoever To add they hardly got any sleep. So I know sleep deprivation made it even worse.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/22 11:50 PM
1	80/20 is common sense and it appears the mainstream is getting it... The government is not going to do shit just because a group of men suck on dating apps. Dating apps bring in billions of dollars you're naive to think they are going to break it up just because men are struggling.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/22 09:45 PM
1	So how do I vet women to make sure they have their head on straight before getting with them? No, the person is going to believe they are at a job interview. Some things do not need to be asked because there actions will just show it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/22 06:00 PM
2	So how do I vet women to make sure they have their head on straight before getting with them? Go out and experience dating then. Crazy women will show red flags because no one has the energy to constantly keep their mask on. If a women does something out of pocket either your gut will have that feeling or there will be that voice in your head that's going wtf. The issue is if your inexperienced though. If so you will learn how to identify the signs. The first step is getting off of reddit and the intenet and into the actual world.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/22 05:56 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread City boys derives from Megan Thee Stallion calling her fans who are predominantly women Hot Girls. It came from Black people and once it became mainstream all of a sudden it's gen z term when it's not. It's AAVE but misidentified as gen z slang. My point still stands the people who use the term the most are Black people since it was made by them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/22 02:25 AM
3	Daily Community Chat Megathread Lol get real. There has always been a subset of men they do shit like this though I don't think its all men. You guys hate when women claim all men yet your doing it here? That's not ironic to you? Philly and Detroit are predominately Black areas. While city boys is a term used mainly by Black people. If you want to be specific then it's the state of modern Black males.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/22 01:50 AM
2	Bluepillers, what do you think the redpill offers young men? My comment is about sustaining a relationship not getting a relationship nor ending up in one to begin with. Noticed I mentioned cheating and martial happiness two things that require you first to be in a relationship. LOL talk about common sense I guess it's not common after all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/22 01:40 AM
1	Bluepillers, what do you think the redpill offers young men? Right, no argument. You claimed it's better for men. I asked you do you mean for long term or short term. You claimed both when data shows that it has a negative correlation with marital happiness and increase in cheating. Like how does that make men better long term partners? I'm wondering if you are the daft one and are projecting.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/22 01:27 AM
-1	Bluepillers, what do you think the redpill offers young men? No, it's not if it shows its a negative correlation each time your n count increase. Once again you can have experience and not have a high n count.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/22 10:55 PM
1	Bluepillers, what do you think the redpill offers young men? Having a high n count is not good for neither genders. It has a negative correlation for both as the number increase. So, I don't agree women value men with hight n count for relationships. Sure, for short term but not long term relation. A men that has a high n count likely has less relationship experince. Men like that cannot sustain the relationship because they will want to go back to having sex with a variety of women. Most men that have alot of experience need to experience more sex. You c…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/22 10:39 PM
0	Bluepillers, what do you think the redpill offers young men? You can have more experience a not be a slut nor have a high n count. Second, experience for what? Long term or short term relation?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/22 10:14 PM
39	The traits men want in a DAUGHTER vs WIFE Makes no sense because you should want the same beneficial traits that would help your daughter like how it can help your wife.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/22 05:14 PM
165	The traits men want in a DAUGHTER vs WIFE Some men don't want them dating men like themselves either. All talk about sexual strategy fly out the window when asked if you are down for your daughter dating men who use those said strategies. Some men will flat out say they don't want their daughter to date. Like hmmmm why is that?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/22 04:38 PM
1	Q4RP: If women are only attracted to hot and/or wealthy men then why are the majority of men still able to find relationships? And these only worked because the dominant demographic wanted it to. Women didn't wage a war to get the right to vote, men voted for it. Black people were never more than 20% of the population, the Civil Rights movement needed a lot of white people too. The Indians didn't really get any help, and now the reservations are some of the worst places to live in the country. I'm assuming the point of this comment was to say a movement for men wont take off because the dominant demographic does not wan…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/22 04:00 PM
0	Q4RP: If women are only attracted to hot and/or wealthy men then why are the majority of men still able to find relationships? It actually is. Why is it that women are freed from their genders roles but men should still have to earn more and be better in every way than the woman? Why don’t women start providing for men the same way men do for women in relationships? Women date across and up. Men do not have to be better in every way than women. Average women marry average men all the time. You can go outside and see an average chick with another average men. Men are freed from their gender roles like women are. Men no l…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/22 01:17 PM
1	Q4RP: If women are only attracted to hot and/or wealthy men then why are the majority of men still able to find relationships? The ‘issue’ with women elevating themselves economically is that the more they rise socioeconomically, they want a guy that’s on an equal/higher footing. Combine this with men graduating at lower rates and overall just being shit on for being men, ‘suitable’ partners are declining in numbers. The issue isn't women then. There doesn’t seem to be an outcry to help men pursue higher education; affirmative action makes sure women are still given the upper hand to fill quotas and such. Men don’t have…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/22 01:51 AM
3	Women fuck emotionally distant men, and keep "good communicators" in the friendzone Yet, you should zero ways you are actually sexually attractive to those women. You think talking to a chick about fashion is going to make her wanna fuck you? I'm only assuming this cliche group of men are most likely also physically attractive or has game also?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/22 05:39 PM
10	Daily Community Chat Megathread So there are studies saying that young single men are the most lonely. And, we understand the rise of the RP among young men seeing how Andrew Tate has taken off. Does that not indicate the RP isn't working for men and not solving there issues?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/22 04:50 PM
2	Q4RP: If women are only attracted to hot and/or wealthy men then why are the majority of men still able to find relationships? Idk how you do it but props. People want to secure the money they worked hard for. So, no duh middle class women aren't going to be shitting out babies like lower income women due to a higher risk of economic loss. Wages are stagnant, younger adults are living longer with parents, the house market is crazy but soon so is renting an apartment. All these variable will cause anyone worried about their future to be very cautious having kids. Imagine trying to raise a child when you're still living w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/22 04:43 PM
2	Q4RP: If women are only attracted to hot and/or wealthy men then why are the majority of men still able to find relationships? Your comment is confusing. The user told you the reason people are not having kids is due to economic reasons. And, your response is well we aren't going to blame women to begin with cause it's risky. You're going to blame women for taking into consideration they are not economically ready to have kids?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/22 04:36 PM
6	Daily Community Chat Megathread At this point you guys are claiming anything is Red pill. Now, going after your goals without external sources influencing you is red pilling? LOL wtf.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/22 09:19 AM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread https://youtu.be/-dy_FUynrTE Look maxing at it's finest. His results are very impressive. Following some of his tips might help some of the men here wanting advice on how to improve your looks. 11:53 - 11:55 to see his actual results from one year of taking care of his appearance. The results are IMPRESSIVE and in your face. He is in his 20s also and actually managed to grow his face forward it looks like.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/22 01:54 AM
2	Purple Pillers, what would you have done to prevent this situation? A man is not going to outright hit a women off bat. Things like raising his hands towards you as if he is restraining himself from hitting you is a sign things may escalate. The issue is that some women may never think it will escalate to him actually hitting her. So they downplay it. There are other signs also like getting in your face when angry also.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/22 03:48 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread And taking away that feature is only going to result in women ghosting more men once they actually see them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/22 02:35 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread No	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/22 02:23 PM
0	After romantic rejection, men feel less positive emotion and hold shifted socio-political attitudes. Women do not follow the same pattern. Choosing to believe in astrology or horoscopes has zero to do with being logical or rational. You do understand that people hobbies and interest are not all guided by if it's logical or not. Most are based on if you enjoy the activity or how it makes you feel.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/22 01:23 PM
10	Men shouldn't concern themselves with being "Good" as seen by society What debate has SNEAKO ever won? He is just like the 'woke' people he tries to warn his viewers about. He gets emotional and heated whenever someone goes against his worldview and accuses them of being 'woke'. He can spend hours simply yelling and throwing out personal insults that add zero to the discussion because he does not have an actual argument to begin with. Lastly, is the wild ass leaps he does to draw conclusion. Reminds you of another group of people? Radical Feminist and fake woke pe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/22 09:44 PM
1	Men shouldn't concern themselves with being "Good" as seen by society You guys can say all you want on how the red pill community isn't like X. But Fresh and Fit, Sneako, Andrew Tate and more only reinforce the negative narrative people have about RP.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/22 09:36 PM
22	This trend of women feeling entitled to a man of much higher SMV will end up with a lot of women getting cheated on and/or replaced. Yes it was a gotcha and you proved their point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/22 02:58 PM
3	Daily Community Chat Megathread https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-state-our-unions/202208/the-rise-lonely-single-men	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/22 05:30 PM
1	Women really dislike autistic men It does exist but since body language is not only highly dependent on the specific context (sometimes people are just scratching their nose because it itches) but can also vary significantly between different cultures. It will be interpreted differently.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/22 03:51 AM
2	Women really dislike autistic men Now you reframed your response. Before you said; You all are speaking a language that does not exist. Now, it's they can't see the language because to them it dosen't exist. These two responses are not the same. Before, it came across you were saying it does not exist at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/22 12:35 AM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Men are not returning to religion. That is bullshit they returning to cherry picked verses.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/22 10:35 PM
2	Women really dislike autistic men Don't misconstrue what street smart is. You gave simply one facet of how street smart may manifest in people. Being “street smart” essentially means being aware of your surroundings and using appropriate behavior in unfamiliar/familiar situations. Anyone from any class will have street smarts if they wish to migrate the social world correctly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/22 10:14 PM
1	Women really dislike autistic men Your comment makes no sense. Being socially intelligent exist. It's not even a language but having tons of experience's with people to know how to migrate nuanced situations. Reading social cues may seem like it does not exist because it's not in your face and literal. Most people on the spectrum from what i've seen have zero social awareness and can not pick up on body language when it's saying something. Normies since they are baby can pick up on nonverbal body language and react to it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/22 10:10 PM
8	Women really dislike autistic men Because most people take into consideration First, "How should I frame my response so that it maintains the social environments harmony and peace." You can be honest yet take into consideration the person feelings and possible reactions towards things. Some people can take blunt responses other people not so much.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/22 10:06 PM
4	Women really dislike autistic men Not, understanding social cues. I can recall I only met one autistic person before. Everyone knew this gave him the benefit of the doubt and would actually talk with him whenever he wanted to. But, he could not read nonverbal body language when you were not in the mood to talk, uncomfortable from certain remarks/questions, being inconsiderate (not on purpose) towards framing things.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/22 10:02 PM
4	Making a man wait for sex is an AWFUL strategy that ENCOURAGES him to pump and dump you and see sex as an END GOAL Nah, the only thing this shows is how your sexual past altered the way you view things for the worst. Anyone, that tries to make the claim a mens sexual past does not affect him like women should take out the time to see your mentality. You even understand how fucked up it is seeing you are trying to warn people. It's even more worse seeing you're going to be warning you daughter about men that are exactly like yourself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/22 05:05 AM
6	Making a man wait for sex is an AWFUL strategy that ENCOURAGES him to pump and dump you and see sex as an END GOAL It's not an absolute ending to this strategy. It all comes down to what type of men he is, the lady personalty/looks and his intentions. One guy was just complaining about how he had to wait 5 months for sex and was investing emotional time to connect.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/22 05:02 AM
1	Making a man wait for sex is an AWFUL strategy that ENCOURAGES him to pump and dump you and see sex as an END GOAL It all depends on the lady’s personality. He’ll wait if he’s attracted to your personality and you both can have a good time. Will some lose interest in you? Maybe, if he finds a real connection with another girl or because he only wanted sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/22 04:57 AM
1	Dating spaces gaslight the absolutely living shit out of men The issue is thinking there are concrete laws like our legal system for dating.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/22 09:59 PM
41	Dating spaces gaslight the absolutely living shit out of men Then she really does not like you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/22 09:54 PM
1	The argument of "just lower your standards" to undesirable men is misguided since they have no option that is being filtered out by their standards Yes, I did. There was always that group of kids at my school who loved anime, kpop and that weird furry shit. They were weird and strictly talked to people who shared the same interest as them because no one else would.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/22 03:16 AM
1	The argument of "just lower your standards" to undesirable men is misguided since they have no option that is being filtered out by their standards Bullshit. I grew up in Detroit all the way up til the end of highschool. The nred, anime lover, kpopies, furry lovers and etc dated each other and mingled with people like them strictly. Always, in any school there was ALWAYS the group of kids who were studious and cared about getting out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/22 03:09 AM
2	Women hate the manosphere because it's the only thing actually helping men Glancing at a women is no objectifying her sherlock if that's what you mean.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/22 12:13 PM
2	There is zero point in being confident as a man if you’re physically unattractive. Some of you guys here never fail to make the wildest leaps in their conclusions I swear. There is only black and white thinking with relationships and attractions. You are inexperienced and it shows from how you do not know the nuance it comes with people and attraction.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/22 12:09 PM
2	Women hate the manosphere because it's the only thing actually helping men Okay, what is your point? Nothing you said disagrees with my comment. I claimed don't assume women have never tried casual sex just because they don't prefer it. And, now you want to drive the discussions towards why women aren't as open about their sexuality as men? I'm not interested in discussing that. Make up whatever hidden intention on why as you like. But, it's clear as day as to WHY women don't openly flaunt nor discuss sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/22 12:05 PM
2	There is zero point in being confident as a man if you’re physically unattractive. The point of my comment was where does confidence come from. It is not solely from looks as OP is trying to push. My comment was never about if it helps you get women in the first place.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/22 11:56 AM
2	There is zero point in being confident as a man if you’re physically unattractive. The achievements someone has accomplished in life usually means a lot to that person. Unless, you're the type of men that only goes out and try to do something with your life if he guarantee's you sex and women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/22 11:55 AM
5	There is zero point in being confident as a man if you’re physically unattractive. The assumption here is that confidence is solely dicated by physical appearance which is not true. Confidence comes from external achievements that causes the person to believe and trust in themselves. Some of you guys are so lost.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/22 08:39 AM
3	Do you think women place the same rules on ugly guys and attractive guys? No attractive men do not. They are still men and have the expectation to be a provider and make something of his life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/22 08:38 AM
4	Women hate the manosphere because it's the only thing actually helping men Well I grew up thinking sex was something intimate to be done between two people that like each other Anything other than that was sluttyness. By the time I went "ok I will have casual sex" I saw no point in monogamy, because how can sex be as unimportant as a handshake when it comes to casual sex but as important as being a sacred thing that cnt be done with anyone else when it comes to most relationships, which are monogamous? Just because you have X belief towards something does not mean it's…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/22 08:37 AM
2	Women hate the manosphere because it's the only thing actually helping men No duh the average chick you aren't going to look at her and automatically know what her sexual behavior is to begin with. That's reserved for personal conversation with people they know and trust. Women do prefer long term relation over casual sex. That does not mean you take a huge as leap and assume they never tried it before.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/22 08:25 AM
3	Do you think women place the same rules on ugly guys and attractive guys? Attractive guys women can get away with having a poor personality, economic standing, etc and still get plenty of opportunities thrown at her. Combine this with the fact: physically attractive woman, you can get free drinks, free dinners, tons of sex/relationship offers based almost solely off your looks, hired for jobs based of looks/sex appeal alone regardless of talent, the list goes on. if women looks are the first priority for men. Women are going to benefit way more for being attractive …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/22 07:19 PM
15	Women hate the manosphere because it's the only thing actually helping men The issue is that you guys see women as some aliens that are not like men. Sure, we have our difference but thinking women wouldn't have casual sex to the point it shocked you is a belief that fucked you over. Especially seeing how once that belief got shattered by reality you thought women were sluts.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/22 07:11 PM
3	The fact that in almost any discussion about dating there is an overriding implication that women are the prize and men are lucky to win them suggests women are superior to men and is symptomatic of the misandry and gynocentric sentiment that is rampant in western culture What do you mean by 1/2 partners? 1-2 partners where the relationship lasted for 2-4 years? Why would the women care? He shows he can sustain a relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/22 06:29 PM
2	The fact that in almost any discussion about dating there is an overriding implication that women are the prize and men are lucky to win them suggests women are superior to men and is symptomatic of the misandry and gynocentric sentiment that is rampant in western culture Thank you I'll like to add. It's not the inexperience. It's the fact it's unlikely a man who is attractive to women will be inexperienced. If men have higher sex drives and pursue + are attractive. The chances he's inexperienced is very low. It's only really introverted, inhibited, socially anxious, asocial or unattractive men that have no experience or hardly any experience with women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/22 06:24 PM
1	The fact that in almost any discussion about dating there is an overriding implication that women are the prize and men are lucky to win them suggests women are superior to men and is symptomatic of the misandry and gynocentric sentiment that is rampant in western culture Just because women have said they aren't okay with it. Does not mean they hate inexperienced men. Men pursue casual sex to try and keep up with women and get experience. Women do it to try and keep a man with sex or have trauma. Men pursue casuals sex for many reasons: ego boost or just for the sexual pleasure. If you want experience in sex or relationship because women hate if men are inexperience. They you can get into a committed relation ship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/22 06:20 PM
3	Intra-Sexual Competition Mega-Thread They only have to compete with IG models if that's the type of women he physically finds attractive. By default women might assume this and then think that's how they must look to get his attention.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/22 06:11 PM
3	The RP/Manosphere is making the Beta Bucks an endangered species and many women are going to be screwed. What do you mean child poverty and child malnutrition? If the mother is unable to raise the child then the child should be with the father. It is not that simple AT ALL. The mother/father won't give up parental rights that easy. If father is also unable then the child should be in foster care. You must not know nothing about how bad the foster car system. Sure, they are a few gems but most stories are not good. The foster care system does not create well adjusted happy children. Most are in …	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/22 01:29 PM
3	So what do men want women to say / do when they face continuous rejection? right, which I never said I did. Just because it isn't 'all of them' (obviously), doesn't automatically mean it can be dismissed as 'none of them,' which sounds much closer to your position. You claimed that: Thanks to the liberation of women, we're charging headfirst into a polygamous landscape, wherein 'be ruthless and morally uninhibited' is most selected for. This is false and only makes it seem you need to go outside and see who is with who. The most ruthless and morally uninhibited are not…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/22 04:36 AM
2	So what do men want women to say / do when they face continuous rejection? You need to read his comment again then. He said: We're charging headfirst into a polygamous landscape, wherein 'be ruthless and morally uninhibited' is most selected for. He did not say the most selected for will be high status, wealthy, noble or physically attractive men are. Unless you're apart of the crowd who thinks attractive = bad.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/22 04:21 AM
5	So what do men want women to say / do when they face continuous rejection? Do you go outside? The people getting choose are simply externally attractive, internally attractive or both. The ruthless and morally uninhibited will get choose because they don't give a fuck. But you can't assume ALL people in relationships casually or romantically are that way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/22 03:01 PM
1	So what do men want women to say / do when they face continuous rejection? It’s amazing how modern people do not see the value in basic empathy/compassion anymore. This sub is toxic asf, people are so rude to each other and treat each other like robots. Make it make sense. The people being rude can be the men struggling with dating = no empathy from the other side. These will be the same men with lines of studies, stats and RP talking points to compensate for their lack of experience. So, not only are you dealing with someone bitter and frustrated but a know it all des…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/22 02:45 PM
0	Why this misconception that less attractive men will treat women better? You average men is not the sole provider. Most households that consist of two people are dual income and they both are doing 50/50.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/22 04:31 AM
1	Why this misconception that less attractive men will treat women better? That is not how this plays out. It's the women puts up with more bullshit from the attractive guy because he's attractive. Meanwhile, if an unattractive guy did the same thing she would leave him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/22 04:30 AM
-1	Young single women are checking out of dating/society more than single men. How are men supposed to learn how to empathize with women (ignoring the fact that they aren't putting forth the same effort with men) without having opportunities to establish rapport with them out in the world? What do you mean by rapport? Most men do not care about women who they don't deem attractive and want to date. Is rapport to you romantic relations or platonic friendships? Women are cool with platonic friendships. It's men claiming they've been friend-zoned and end it there. The only th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/22 03:56 PM
1	Young single women are checking out of dating/society more than single men. No we say that for men on reddit who chances are that they are really introverted and do not like going to events that deem as for "extroverts". Why do you always here people say PPD men are not your norm or average? Because most know your average guy is going out and mingling with women	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/22 03:36 PM
1	How are men supposed to treat women as equals? His situations shows how crucial environment can shape you. Seems he grew up in a upper class environment in Brazil. Most likely an area that is manipulative, exploitive and produces people like him since it;s the best way to survive and thrive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/22 03:25 PM
2	How are men supposed to treat women as equals? I never claimed it was a jungle or Amazon to begin with. Shitty does not solely mean the physical environment is unkept, low income and looks terrible. It meant the social environment is shitty. You proved the point I was going to make. If you travel outside that area and go somewhere else the people are not going to be that bad while some other are just worse.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/22 03:23 PM
1	How are men supposed to treat women as equals? Looking at the different definition's it can be interpreted in different ways. Youthful can mean typical or characteristic of young people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/22 03:19 PM
7	How are men supposed to treat women as equals? I can see why from the things you post. Chances are if people are constantly being rude or an asshole to you then chances are it's because you are dislikable. Where do you live at? The area you live at could just be a shitty place and you became just like it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/22 05:12 AM
13	How are men supposed to treat women as equals? Basically saying boys will be boys. I hate to break it to you but most people never have youthful sociopathy to begin with and need to grow out of it. Don't try to make this seem like its normal for young people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/22 04:56 AM
5	The generational disconnect that makes some conversations in PPD lack nuance If you want people to actually begin caring about the future of society. That society should fix: the housing crisis, student loan debt, baby food shortage and the fact wages are stagnant yet every other metric of living is increasing. People are not having kids because they are to expensive now. It's not the 1950 nor 1960 where you could have a basic retail job and live nicely. Millennials and younger generations no longer have the safety or security of a stable job, a thriving income, long-ter…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/22 04:43 PM
1	Dating for women has ONLY advantages and ZERO significant disadvantages in the West - not even violence You gave only two options though? The user already proposed what option most women will do which isn't a black or white options. Women will take caution will still dating.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/22 09:59 PM
3	Dating for women has ONLY advantages and ZERO significant disadvantages in the West - not even violence Missed the entire point. Women will take the risk while being cautions. I don't even get why you guys have an issue with women doing this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/22 05:24 AM
1	If you're a guy whose goal is to have as many children as possible, what is your best course of action? Get rich and famous then pop out as much babies as you want. Nick Cannon and Elon Musk are already doing it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/22 09:46 PM
1	It's not enough for a man to THINK he is pulling his weight domestically. Right and as I said before. There is no difference between the two partner on average.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/22 02:01 PM
1	It's not enough for a man to THINK he is pulling his weight domestically. Were talking about the average person though? The majority of people are not surgeons.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/22 11:20 PM
5	Daily Community Chat Megathread They don't forget about you though. You may go longer periods of not speaking to them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/22 07:24 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Then make friends while your in college, trade or doing a hobby. Like what else do you guys want to hear? Make friends while being on discord? I bet most of you guys are already on that. If you want to meet people you have to go outside and find them. There is no other solution	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/22 07:22 PM
0	It's not enough for a man to THINK he is pulling his weight domestically. What is your average person job like then? I understand not all work is equally tiring but I doubt the average men vs women job is soooo different in terms of demand. Most people after working 8 hours is not going to feel like doing extra work around the home.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/22 07:18 PM
1	It's not enough for a man to THINK he is pulling his weight domestically. t's more fair to make the one who has spent half of their workday bullshitting do it rather than the one with a very demanding job. Some of you guys here love using wild examples in order to support your claim. Your average person is not a surgeon nor doing very demanding jobs to begin with. Some jobs are physically demanding while other are mentally demanding. Yet, most aren't doing high demand jobs to begin with so it's no point in bringing that up. After working a 8 hour shift I doubt the per…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/22 07:15 PM
1	It's not enough for a man to THINK he is pulling his weight domestically. Does not matter. I doubt any person wants to come home after work and wants to do more work around the house.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/22 05:52 PM
1	It's not enough for a man to THINK he is pulling his weight domestically. Your replying to the wrong person u/Ylduts said that. I made it clear if both people work the same amount of hours you both do the same amount of chores. IDK how you mixed us both up unless you simply were not reading my responses. I agreed with you and have said in my comment: If a women works the same amount of hours as you and you both spilt the money. You both do the same amount of chores. Your response: But you CANNOT both work 40 hours, and then have her do more at home because your sala…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/22 11:56 AM
5	It's not enough for a man to THINK he is pulling his weight domestically. If a men is doing all the work and paying all the bills the wife is usually a stay at home wife. She is going to be doing most of the household duties or the maid will be. I have never heard of a men making tons of money and still expecting the women to pay the bills or work. Unless the women is choosing to do so.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/22 11:45 AM
2	It's not enough for a man to THINK he is pulling his weight domestically. If a women works the same amount of hours as you and you both spilt the money. You both do the same amount of chores. I have seen first hand how a women playing both the traditional and modern role of a women does not work in your favor at all. The only reason's a women was doing all the chores was because she either was part time or did not work. That is the traditional dynamic. The modern dynamic is everything is 50/50. You don't get the best of both worlds. If we both spilt 50/50 the bills th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/22 11:39 AM
1	It's not enough for a man to THINK he is pulling his weight domestically. Then she most likely is not working to begin with. That usually is a traditional relationship where the men works and the women stays at home.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/22 11:34 AM
2	It's not enough for a man to THINK he is pulling his weight domestically. So how has you relationships been in terms of chores and who spilts them then?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/22 11:14 AM
11	It's not enough for a man to THINK he is pulling his weight domestically. Are you playing obtuse? Cooking, cleaning and childcare are done more frequently than what they listed. Those task are done daily or weekly. Repairing, mowing the lawn and cleaning the gutter is something you do monthly or yearly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/22 11:08 AM
8	It's not enough for a man to THINK he is pulling his weight domestically. A women working the same amount of hours as you is going to feel just as tired and worn out. If you know you wouldn't feel like cooking or cleaning. IDK why you would think a women would also. If you both spilt the bills 50/50 and work the same amount of hours. You both do the same amount of chores.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/22 11:05 AM
1	It's not enough for a man to THINK he is pulling his weight domestically. Usually, if a person is supporting the family financially 100% the other person is not working to begin with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/22 11:02 AM
13	According to surveys, among people over 50 women are less interested in dating and relationships than men but among people under 50 women are as interested in dating and relationships as men. What is the reason behind this difference? Men are expected to take out the trash, mow the lawns, clean the gutters and repair machines, all without pay and work a job at the same time Mowing the lawn, repairing are not done as much as cooking and cleaning the house. You can go months without repairing something. You can go weeks without mowing the lawn. You cannot go weekly or daily without having to cook and keep a house clean. Cooking and cleaning are done way more frequently then those two things you listed. and are expected to jum…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/22 03:18 PM
2	The average man does not "overestimate" his own attractiveness It does not matter. When people see attractive people they notice them, are attentive, receptive, put themselves in your proximity or will spark up a conversation themselves with you. Attractive people are told they are good looking, pretty or handsome. It's only late bloomer who I think can be confused.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/22 03:00 AM
2	Flaws of the 80/20 rule I think you misunderstood. My comment was saying when women are complaining it's hardly ever logical to begin with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/22 11:45 PM
17	Do most women acknowledge the fact they have very high standards and that the man they want probably has way less and doesn’t ask for much from a woman? Most families rely on dual income	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/22 06:13 PM
1	Flaws of the 80/20 rule The data also shows they still reply and respond to those men though if I am not mistaken.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/22 06:01 PM
1	Flaws of the 80/20 rule Women are hardly logically complaining about something like that happening to begin with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/22 06:00 PM
2	Flaws of the 80/20 rule No look a mess means what I literally said. Physically you are not that cute so your getting swiped left on. It's that simple. I already made a profile as a young women without a profile picture. I will admit women do have an advantage on OLD. That advantage allows them to get away with things men cannot. Is it crazy? Yes, getting tons of matches from men is cool. But when you start to see they swiped right on you despite you not having a picture it means nothing. A landwhale got a ton of matche…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/22 05:58 PM
2	Flaws of the 80/20 rule Right. It seems a lot of the guys don't like partying nor social events as a whole. IDK what to tell these guys if they dont want to open up and try to relate to the people they are interested in. It's even funnier when they whine about not getting casual sex but don't drink, smoke nor go to parties.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/22 05:54 PM
1	Flaws of the 80/20 rule Okay then lets say women do not look good on OLD which I disagree. Just because they dont look good does not mean men can. Not only is OLD dominated by mainly men women have higher standards. This produces a different outcome despite the similarity. Another thing is women on OLD do look better. How old are you? Most of the young women 18-23 are slim and take care of themselves and it shows. Are you 30+ All the older men on OLD look bad and so do the older women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/22 05:51 PM
2	Flaws of the 80/20 rule Just because both groups share on similarity dosen't mean they both get the same outcomes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/22 03:36 PM
4	Flaws of the 80/20 rule How does not wanting to date someone mean they do not like you? That just means they are not sexually nor romantically attracted to you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/22 03:16 PM
6	Flaws of the 80/20 rule No, most of the men here I suspect are really introverted and this is there daily social interaction.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/22 03:02 PM
4	Flaws of the 80/20 rule I don't blame them. The vast majority of men on Tinder look a mess.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/22 02:54 PM
1	Is it true that women get their hearts broken by good-looking men in their youth and then settle down with nice average looking guys when they're done with the toxicity? Sure, I shouldn't have said all but some do. It manifest as he is a hoe, playboy or non-committed. While for men it's more extreme where it's hes dark traid or straight up psychopathic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/22 06:39 PM
6	Is it true that women get their hearts broken by good-looking men in their youth and then settle down with nice average looking guys when they're done with the toxicity? Women do not think this though. It is the men here saying nonsense like this that good looking men are bad people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/22 04:23 PM
2	Is it true that women get their hearts broken by good-looking men in their youth and then settle down with nice average looking guys when they're done with the toxicity? Yeah it depends what you qualify as high quality. I am talking in sexual sense. So, good looking, aggressive/assertive, edgy, psychopathic tendencies etc. I'm confused with your defintion of high quality. Is getting tons of women = high quality. I doubt if I told you I know a guy that always has a young women by him yet they all come from dysfunctional homes, druggies or have mental issues. A men dumpster diving with a high n count is not high quality either I bet to you. I am tall. Built. Used …	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/22 04:20 PM
1	Jan 6th Hearing Mega-Thread It's funny how armed the police were when dealing with the George Floyd riots. Tear gas, full body armor and etc. Yet, when we look at the capital riot they sure as hell quickly breached pasted it all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/22 04:07 PM
1	Roe v. Wade Mega-Thread Amazing conclusion drawn. Your friends are going through the same issue also?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/22 01:28 AM
3	Roe v. Wade Mega-Thread Thank you!! We are going through a baby formula shortage, everything is rising in prices. Notice they have done nothing to actually help people support the child. Nope, let's ban abortion ya'll.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/22 01:03 AM
19	Roe v. Wade Mega-Thread No one wants to talk about this. I think 30 years from now we are going to see an overwhelming number of young adults that were born into families unprepared to care for them and are struggling to be productive members of society as a result. The prevalence of single-parent households will increase. The number of families relying on government assistance will increase. Women's representation in the workforce will decrease. Rates of maternal mortality will increase. Economic disparities will incr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/22 10:52 PM
1	Roe v. Wade Mega-Thread How would you even form an argument against Brown? It's easy to form an argument against Abortion. But segregation based on race? There is no argument that can support that unless they want to tie it to religion somehow.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/22 10:44 PM
12	Roe v. Wade Mega-Thread My only issue is what's next? I've heard so many crazy thing that could happen after this. Loving v. Virginia, Griswold v. Connecticut and I've even heard brown v board of education.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/22 08:13 PM
1	Women would rather be pumped and dumped by a hot guy than have a fulfilling relationship with an average guy How many men take til 43 years old to have their lives together? What is the average age men get married? All you used was exceptions to prove your point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/22 04:48 PM
1	Women would rather be pumped and dumped by a hot guy than have a fulfilling relationship with an average guy Your point is? I said OR for a reason. Being in medical school is enough for some women to think you have potential to be something in the future.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/22 04:46 PM
1	Women would rather be pumped and dumped by a hot guy than have a fulfilling relationship with an average guy Even by your mid-20s that's nearly impossible in this current economy. A 1BHK flat in most major cities costs anywhere between $1500-$1800. With the rise in fuel costs, owning & maintaining a car costs anywhere between $350-$500. Obtaining a degree costs tens of thousands of dollars. Getting that coveted job title (Senior Engineer, Financial Advisor, Doctor, Lawyer, etc) takes years of hard work and sacrifice. Out of everything you've stated, "well-groomed" is the only one I agree with. Otherwis…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/22 04:43 PM
1	Women would rather be pumped and dumped by a hot guy than have a fulfilling relationship with an average guy You think most guys in their early 20s can afford to own a car, live in a 1BHK apartment AND save a decent chunk of money, in this economy??? In a major city, no less??? What world are you living in? And you think it's that easy to climb the corporate ladder? Never claimed early twenty. As I said before. If you have been working hard since your early 20. By mid to late 20 you should have something going for yourself. A car? Apartment? Saving? Well groomed? Job title? Degree? You think men that a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/22 03:38 AM
3	There really is NO WAY of knowing when a woman is FLIRTING with you It's not simply look at behavior and assume she likes you, Context matters, comparison on how she acts around other men and how frequently does she do these thing need to be taken into consideration.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/22 12:42 AM
0	Women would rather be pumped and dumped by a hot guy than have a fulfilling relationship with an average guy What are you talking about? Everything you just said is irrelvant to my comment. No one is talking about women dating choices and marrying. We are talking about why 35 year old men still single should be avoided if you want marriage and kids.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/22 12:28 AM
-1	Women would rather be pumped and dumped by a hot guy than have a fulfilling relationship with an average guy That rarely happens and in his mid-20s, it's often hard for an average-looking man to show any kind of potential, other than giving them an idea of his ambitions. How does this rarely happen? The average range for people to get married is in their 30. It takes people years to get married. So, no this is not rare at all. Women find the men they want to be with in there mid 20 just like the men. They will ride with a guy if he shows potential. Like what? Even in lucrative fields, it takes a long t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/22 12:24 AM
0	Women would rather be pumped and dumped by a hot guy than have a fulfilling relationship with an average guy Do you have any idea how long it takes and how hard someone has to work in order to establish himself as a HVM, especially if he's average or below-average in physical attractiveness? If you are working so hard. As I said before. Women will see that potential and be willingly to be with you. It's very common for women to say they want ambitious men. If they're working their ass off as they claim a women will find that desirable and see your potential. They'll invest in a relationship hoping it p…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/22 11:32 PM
6	Women would rather be pumped and dumped by a hot guy than have a fulfilling relationship with an average guy The same applies to mid 30 year old men. Women who want actual relationships should stay away from men still single at 35. No men that wants marriage and kids will still be single at that age. Especially, if he's high value. Women would have taken him off the market long ago. And no late bloomer are no excuse. Men accumulate specks of value as age due to making the right decisions. By the time a men is in his mid to late 20 he should already have overt signs of his value or a women will be willi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/22 10:19 PM
5	Women would rather be pumped and dumped by a hot guy than have a fulfilling relationship with an average guy Women aren't have fulfilling relationship with average men seeing they file most of the divorces.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/22 05:23 PM
1	The “ bad boy” stereotype exists because of the halo affect on women High value men as in: tall, high paying job and physically attractive? Or simply makes a lot of money? It makes sense as to why men like the one I mentioned gets tons of women. It's nothing good but he targets a demographic of women that are vulnerable and does not mind doing horrible shit to them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/22 08:51 PM
3	What are the upsides of actual dating instead of directly paying Who says you are guaruntted to get this with dating? Most women will literally go out of their way to say that they will neither desire or fuck you if you fail fit a very specific archetype of male standards that they expect Conflating two different types. If you are dating a women do you really think she has no desire for you or won't want to have sex with you? Chances are women say they don't desire men they have no interest in dating. Not those they are.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/22 04:39 PM
7	The “ bad boy” stereotype exists because of the halo affect on women It wont. The missing ingredient of "personal, individualized, internalized," shame does not exist. Instead, of looking internally. Now people mitigate one’s bad behavior by blaming the victim, blaming society and blaming the accuser.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/22 04:06 AM
4	The “ bad boy” stereotype exists because of the halo affect on women I agree. I know a guy in his late 40 who constantly get young women. Think 18-21 years old. Yet, when you actually look at the women they usually come from broken homes and are trying to escape that by finding a men to rescue them basically.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/22 04:01 AM
5	The “ bad boy” stereotype exists because of the halo affect on women If your hobbies are reading, roleplaying and video games. Chances are there will be a group of people who think you are boring alongside your hobbies. People lament that they feel a their limited freedom due to career leads them to being ignored and being "punished" for doing the right thing. Most people balance out their social life and work life. It's only people who put all their focus on their career yet not their personal life that have this issue.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/22 03:57 AM
7	Men and women, have you ever been the "Chad/Stacy" who she/he was cheating with? What are your feelings on it now? He's basically scared of men like himself coming in and ruining commitment basically.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/22 03:42 PM
0	The word incel has become meaningless, and is used as a knee-jerk response any time a woman doesn’t like something a man says Lol okay buddy. Just because someone is telling you X does not mean you believe X.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/22 03:40 PM
0	The word incel has become meaningless, and is used as a knee-jerk response any time a woman doesn’t like something a man says Lol, sure saying men choosing to believe fiction over reality is blaming everything on men. Get out of your victim complex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/22 06:24 AM
0	The word incel has become meaningless, and is used as a knee-jerk response any time a woman doesn’t like something a man says I do not care what your mother, sister, the tv, or your grandparents told you. When you attended high school, college, went to clubs and overall seen the dating. Did what they say match up with reality. If not its no one fault but yours you decided to ignore reality and chase potential.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/22 01:29 AM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread What was the highest you've been downvoted here and what did you say?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/22 03:40 PM
1	The word incel has become meaningless, and is used as a knee-jerk response any time a woman doesn’t like something a man says I will never understand claims like this. Society, movies, television told you all X. Yet, I always ask. What did CONCRETE reality actually show you? What men in your actual day to day life not fiction get women? The only thing this arguments shows is that you ignored reality and wanted to be in the clouds.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/22 03:38 PM
2	The word incel has become meaningless, and is used as a knee-jerk response any time a woman doesn’t like something a man says I tell people I dislike feminism. When in reality, the women in my life consistently let me down when it came to discussing science. Do I really dislike feminism, or do the vast majority of women prefer talking about the Kardashians and thus I actually want more for them. I'm more feminist than them. I want them to try harder. Be more intelligent. BE my equal. This makes no sense. You dislike feminism because when it came to discussing science women didn't meet your standards? What? You seem to …	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/22 03:34 PM
-3	Romantic successes and failures can have profound impacts on how men think It sure isn't society rejecting him	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/22 05:01 PM
5	Gun Violence and School Shootings Mega-Thread He graduated from high school in June 2021 — two weeks after state police took him to a hospital for a psychiatric evaluation after he said he aspired to murder-suicide. But it was A jOkE so they released them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/22 03:41 PM
0	Romantic successes and failures can have profound impacts on how men think Most people are having a hard time. Your average person is living pay check to pay check, tons of student loans, won't be able to own a house, rent is going up, food is going up yet wages arent, mental health issues are rising, and people are becoming more isolated and etc. IDK why men want to act as though they are the only ones struggling? The least of your problem is dating issues.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/22 03:26 PM
5	Romantic successes and failures can have profound impacts on how men think Yes, that is weird. But one is forcing women. Force means you do not have a choice.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/22 03:22 PM
0	Romantic successes and failures can have profound impacts on how men think Oh well? If women are a good motivation then use wanting them to improve your life. If you see you aren't getting anything out of that motivation. Instead, of quitting you need to develop a different set of motivations. Simply one stability and a good standard of living is a good one.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/22 03:21 PM
0	Romantic successes and failures can have profound impacts on how men think I never proposed this, to begin with. I never said men who have a "good" social life, habits, or career. But solely friends and a social circle. The point of my comment was society is not rejecting you if you aren't doing well in terms of dating.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/22 03:19 PM
2	Romantic successes and failures can have profound impacts on how men think Very few men actually go out and kill/hurt people. That is a small minority of men you know.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/22 03:12 PM
-5	Romantic successes and failures can have profound impacts on how men think Sexual rejection comes from women choosing not to date you sexually and romantically. That does not mean men or other women are rejecting you platonically.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/22 03:11 PM
-7	Romantic successes and failures can have profound impacts on how men think The key word is CAN. It's a possibility it can happen but it does not mean it's the typical experience of men failing in dating.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/22 03:09 PM
1	Romantic successes and failures can have profound impacts on how men think And? When i was in college they were screaming for women to join and would pay for a FULL Bachelor's. Guess what women didn't join, because women don't want to be in the STEM field...Why wouldn't they take that money and help a guy that was poor and stuggling? What do you mean and? Men still dominate STEM fields. The opportunity is useless if women aren't even using it. Why did it have to be a women? Why force women into an area they don't want to be apart of? They aren't forcing women into STEM…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/22 03:07 PM
-1	Romantic successes and failures can have profound impacts on how men think Yep for sure, one era represents most of history. By the time of the industrial/Modernization era, people weren't trading women in for cows.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/22 07:03 AM
0	Romantic successes and failures can have profound impacts on how men think Isn't one of the claims women make is that men had more say in the past? If that is your truth and you want to live it, that is fine, but it isn't the truth for everyone. What do men having more say in the past prove women were not the prize. You act as if both are mutually exclusive and cannot exist simultaneously. Men chase women, men GET women therefore they are the prize. What part of history have men not actively approached women and tried to court them? What part of history have women	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/22 06:51 AM
-4	Romantic successes and failures can have profound impacts on how men think You're acting as if people know you aren't having sex. Most women assume men can have casual sex by default. No person looks at a group of men and goes they are definitely sexual rejects. Unless, it's clear overt signs: socially inept, horrible appearance, and awkwardness. All that your average man isn't.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/22 06:36 AM
-8	Romantic successes and failures can have profound impacts on how men think If a college or organization is majority male then that is a bad thing that needs to be "improved", but if a college or organization is majority female then it is a "huge win" and something great for society. What conclusion is a man supposed to get from that? Men still dominate STEM fields and not only have the opportunity to go into trades or apprenticeship programs but are openly encouraged to. Not only do they suit most men who prefer hands-on learning but you do not have that much debt. The…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/22 06:32 AM
-27	Romantic successes and failures can have profound impacts on how men think A man being unsuccessful in the dating market does not mean society is rejecting him. That only means the specific women he is going after have rejected him not all of society. Men have friends and a social circle correct? You are not alienated socially from the majority of people correct? Then society has not rejected you. Women are not society.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/22 05:10 AM
5	Romantic successes and failures can have profound impacts on how men think Nah, if you add the Reddit men here. It also shows evidence that unsuccessful men are the loudest women hater and enviers of attractive men. For anyone to need sources to prove this just shows how much experience you must lack.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/22 05:04 AM
11	Men would you trade getting more attention for increase risk of being sodomized, stalked, harassed and being sex trafficked for more attention and special treatment from women? Does that gender like Heterosexual sex or not? Do women get on average more sexual stimuli by penetrating men (???) or by being penetrated or having their clitoris stimulated? What does enjoying heterosexual sex have to do with unconsented sex? The point of the two being deemed similar is that both acts of penetration are forceful and hurtful to the person and go against their own autonomy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/22 05:01 AM
18	Men would you trade getting more attention for increase risk of being sodomized, stalked, harassed and being sex trafficked for more attention and special treatment from women? Vaginal rape is forced and unconsented sex that is usually you getting penetrated by someone who most likely is attracted to that gender. The same action would be sodomy since the person attacking you most likely likes men and wants to put his dick up your ass to get off. They are 100% the same.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/22 02:31 AM
2	Gun Violence and School Shootings Mega-Thread Wow, one woman shooting up a school in comparison to all the other White men that have. Round of applause 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/22 02:23 AM
1	Gun Violence and School Shootings Mega-Thread While I agree, I do not see how the right offers a better way. The right offer to go back to the traditional days yet fails to see our economy is nothing like the traditional days. Where one income is not enough to sustain a family. There is a reason most younger generations are living with their parents for a longer duration in comparison to any other. Because the standard of living is going up in all metrics. It's made the provider role dead for the average man. Not only because it's harder to…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/22 02:17 AM
2	Gun Violence and School Shootings Mega-Thread I'm confused so actually explain your point. Mass shootings happen and you tie it to mental health issues? What does that have to do with women and the left?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/22 07:23 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread Having a young brother and seeing him grow up. I'm starting to see why they have the need to do performative masculinity. It doesn't even start with the reason being impressing girls but little boys.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/22 12:45 AM
15	men who believe that woman are "after their money" actually know deep down that they have nothing to bring to the table besides money Their comment never implied that good-looking people are dumb. What they were saying is that people tend to disregard their intelligence/personality and simply focus on their looks. I've seen this happen before with both good-looking women and maybe one good-looking man. It plays out where the conversation starts and revolves around your looks and worse cases your hard work gets discredited because of your looks.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/22 12:12 AM
3	I keep seeing we have enormously high standards but like what exactly are they? And why does the dating world not reflect said absurdly Hugh standards most women have? Most men in LTR are not being settled for. That is what I am saying. The narrative women are settling for men is an atypical experience.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/22 09:52 PM
0	I keep seeing we have enormously high standards but like what exactly are they? And why does the dating world not reflect said absurdly Hugh standards most women have? According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC)Trusted Source, the average age-adjusted height for American men 20 years old and up is 69.1 inches (175.4 centimeters) during the years 2015 to 2016. That’s about 5 feet 9 inches tall. 175.26 cm = 5'9 cm. According to the May 2020 National Occupational Employment and Wages Estimates by the BLS, the average salary in the United States is $56,310, with a median wage of $20.17 an hour. The average American is making way over 25k. The…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/22 09:50 PM
1	I keep seeing we have enormously high standards but like what exactly are they? And why does the dating world not reflect said absurdly Hugh standards most women have? The experience of atypical men does not represent LTR experiences of average men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/22 09:32 PM
14	I keep seeing we have enormously high standards but like what exactly are they? And why does the dating world not reflect said absurdly Hugh standards most women have? Once they enter an LTR they discover that their GF settled and aren’t even that attracted to them in the first place What? I swear you guys be saying shit from your ASS. There is no way this is happening consistently to the point you can make a generalized claim like this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/22 09:31 PM
3	I keep seeing we have enormously high standards but like what exactly are they? And why does the dating world not reflect said absurdly Hugh standards most women have? It does not mean a rough spilt between 50%. The average man is 5'9 and makes 35k. The calculator results shouldn't say 3/5 aspiring cat lady.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/22 09:28 PM
1	I keep seeing we have enormously high standards but like what exactly are they? And why does the dating world not reflect said absurdly Hugh standards most women have? The average height of men is 5'9 meaning that is the majority. Most men are not obese but overweight it's a difference. From 20-to 27 years old most men are not married. Most men get married at the age of 32 years old. Once again the average amount men make is 35k. As someone mentioned: Door Dashers average $38,000. Target employee $35,000. Panda Express cooks $50,000 Credit card call center reps: $50,000.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/22 09:18 PM
22	I keep seeing we have enormously high standards but like what exactly are they? And why does the dating world not reflect said absurdly Hugh standards most women have? You can look up the female delusion calculator which uses census bureau data and how unlikely it is to find a man that fits the parameters most women want. Nope, I made a post where I put in the average metrics for men. Yet, I still got 3/5. Age: 20 - 45 (Not married) Any race Height: 5'9 (exclude obese) Min income: 25k You will get an aspiring cat lady. The only way to be considered down to earth is to make the minimum income of 10k. My thing is the average man is 5'9 if you are American. And g…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/22 06:48 PM
-1	For generations a women’s only worth was her looks. Now it’s mens turn. ONLINE DATING IS NOT REAL LIFE	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/22 02:23 PM
1	New article: 50% of single US adults are not looking for relationships or casual dates People will find their special women. Just when they are in their late 20's.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/22 06:29 AM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread Instead of me saying it doesn't exist I'll say it hits white people much harder in comparison to any other group.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/22 01:56 AM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread The 32-year-old guy is only evolutionary better if he has the resources to support an entire family and provide stability. Something this newer generation of men isn't showing. When it comes to evolution women will either pick based on stability, or physical attractiveness. Your average younger man is more attractive than older men. Older men only provide stability.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/22 01:53 AM
4	Daily Community Chat Megathread The 18-year-old guy. Unless the 32-year-old has money, status, and hair aka physically attractive maybe he can run laps on the younger guy. But no 18-year-old woman is choosing an average 32-year-old man over an average 18-year-old. Another thing is the wall is a concept solely for White people and not minorities.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/22 01:39 AM
6	Q4W Can you describe/show what “attractive men” look like to you? Why are you taking an extreme stance to try and prove your point? Taking their argument and choosing not only the opposite of it but an extreme version does not prove your point. No one claimed women are attracted to men who are short and have weak chins. They only said that stereotypically masculine looks are not for all women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/22 01:33 AM
0	Q4W Can you describe/show what “attractive men” look like to you? Women do not like all the same kinds of men. Their culture, age, and of course preferences will determine what they deem attractive. Based on what circle you hand around some are into pretty boys. Think of the Tik Tok men you see, K-pop idols, and boy bands. While older women maybe into the stereotypical masculine look. I think the only common physical attributes they share are: Height, full eyebrows, lean/muscular, and a noticeable jawline. Henry Caill Jason Momoa Cha Eunwoo Michael B Jordan Ti…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/22 01:30 AM
4	Guys, why are you so easily influenced by sex? No duh and why? Children were an investment in a future labor pool and indirectly, a form of old-age pension. The parents raised the children, taught them to work the farm, and passed the farm to them as a possession and the children would in turn support their parents into their old age. In a system like this, the inability to bear children was a social catastrophe, consequently, a woman had to prove herself able to produce healthy children. Women had as many children as possible because there …	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/22 01:14 AM
0	Guys, why are you so easily influenced by sex? Humans have will over their sex dries. We can consciously recognize it to the point we can simply stop doing it, whereas animals without a sufficiently strong volitional capacity may not be able to disengage from their fixed action patterns.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/22 01:11 AM
9	Guys, why are you so easily influenced by sex? As usual men assume attribute X plays a large role in why we have low birth rates. No, the reason we have low birth rates is because the kids are to expensive to raise. Food is rising, gas is rising, rent is rising to the point younger generation are either staying with their parents for longer duration in comparison to previous generation or simply living pay check to pay check from their job. Have you seen the housing market? Most wont be able to buy a home until boomer die off. Thus gives b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/22 08:35 PM
2	Guys, why are you so easily influenced by sex? OP just said they are wired to have many offsprings and pick one main family. Meaning they are the cause for households that do not have a consistent father in their life since they are to busy with their main chick. You made the claim that men were happy to have many kids with one women. The reason why was because back then children became a ‘liability’ when we moved from an agricultural economy, to an industrialized and now service economy. But, also because reliable contraception didn't exist…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/22 08:27 PM
3	Guys, why are you so easily influenced by sex? If we have the choice to act on it or not as you claim then you do have free will.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/22 08:21 PM
12	Guys, why are you so easily influenced by sex? Because unlike those animal we have higher levels of thinking.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/22 06:21 PM
4	Guys, why are you so easily influenced by sex? So men are to blame for the rise of single parent homes	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/22 06:18 PM
1	Women need to step up in the modern dating world who are largely unaware of what, exactly, a given woman wants. Men do know what women want.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/22 04:38 AM
4	Solving "Our greatest public-health crisis? The angry young American male" And men aren't doing that. They rather focus on casual sex and scoring as many women than worry about male loneliness and suicide.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/22 06:52 PM
0	Solving "Our greatest public-health crisis? The angry young American male" Lol they rather push the manosphere to the mainstream public that focuses on sex and women. Then mental health.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/22 02:45 PM
19	Solving "Our greatest public-health crisis? The angry young American male" Exactly the recent shooter was a nut job. Came to school with scars on his face and happily said he did it because he likes the way it looked and had images of animal abuse. He was socially isolated because people most likely feared him and thought he was crazy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/22 02:24 PM
14	Solving "Our greatest public-health crisis? The angry young American male" And once you realize the reason he didn't have any friends and most likely was socially isolated was because of the way he acted. New reported a young girl who went to school with him. She claimed he came to school with scars on his face and when asked if he was okay. He smiled and said he did it to himself because he liked how it looked. Most people are going to avoid you out of fear you are crazy. This was a clear sign he needed help. I don't know why people ignore clear signs that these men…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/22 02:20 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread Men claim they want to be freed from traditional roles like being a protector and providers. Yet if you take those things away what do men offer women?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/22 10:54 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Hookup culture is mainstream. Most adults are not virgins especially young attractive women past a certain age. How old are you? Do you live in an environment that holds these values and follow them? Or can you find one? If not your not being realistic about how likely you'll find one and might remain inexperienced longer only hurting you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/22 06:23 PM
2	The reason men get butthurt about women making them wait What characteristics make a guy attractive enough to sleep with him? It's a lot and no social situation will be the same but: Physically attractive - Nice voice, clean style, height, face and smells good. Other - Good game, status, clout, and overt signs of money. The presence of drugs and alcohol HELPS A TON. If you want to get laid with a stranger you go to a pub, bar or club.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/22 05:39 PM
3	The reason men get butthurt about women making them wait Yep, I agree. I can understand why alongside being consistently rejected. Social rejection HURTS especially if women take it another level and embarrass the guy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/22 05:35 PM
-2	The reason men get butthurt about women making them wait But one should not expect basic human decency or fairness in face of such gross injustice. Women are showing injustice towards men because they would rather have sex with attractive men than average men. Behavior like this is so hypocritical of men. Men like you ONLY have this way of thinking because you cannot do it yourself. It's an injustice because you cannot do the same thing women can. The group that claims they are visual creatures and want to have sex with quantities of young women. Thin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/22 05:31 PM
1	The reason men get butthurt about women making them wait It's a combo of it all. Unlike women where it's their looks and the way, they carry themselves. Men can use their looks, personality, and money to woe women. It seems men have just given up on it all since they think looks play such a large role in if it all will work out, to begin with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/22 05:18 PM
3	The reason men get butthurt about women making them wait LOL okay. One day you'll understand life simply isn't fair. Very attractive men just like women get special treatment average people simply can't have. If you are a 5'9 guy weighing 190lbs pounds with average-looking features. Your crazy if you think you will have the same treatment as a 6'4 with an 8 inch. You'r crazy and just as delusional as women who want a men thats 6ft, 100k and 6 inches yet average.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/22 05:10 PM
-1	Do Women Give Their "Sexual Best" To Their Boyfriends or Husbands? When I was in the army Women in the Army are KNOWN for being promiscuous. They do not represent the average chick.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/22 03:16 PM
10	The reason men get butthurt about women making them wait You want the same equal treatment despite sharing none of the characteristics that give those guys that treatment?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/22 02:53 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread This makes no sense. The men here claim they do not like being 'settled' for. Yet it's a common saying here that young men have hardly any options or little therefore desperate for any average woman even IF they don't like them. How isn't that setting also?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/22 02:46 PM
1	If women shouldnt feel proud about talking money from simps and losers, then men shouldnt feel proud about fucking Pick Me Girls and female losers ! They are contributing to society though or else it wouldn't have ANY value in the market.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/22 01:50 PM
1	If women shouldnt feel proud about talking money from simps and losers, then men shouldnt feel proud about fucking Pick Me Girls and female losers ! If you are the outlier and you making actual bank from OnlyFans. Something only the top % can make. You can be proud 100% of it. Most creators do not make much money off OnlyFans. It's an even bigger bonus when it's not even explicit photos. A good example is that Bhad Babbie chick making 50 million off that shit at 19/18 years old.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/22 01:48 PM
2	Women say that the bar low for men? Is this really true? oh my god bo hoo people want to date people making the same income as them	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/22 03:16 PM
-3	When discussing dating, women do not consider the average men as people so they compare themselves to the top 10% which is why they think dating is harder for them. They are because they cant take pictures. I wouldn't be surprised if they look better in real life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/22 01:52 PM
2	When discussing dating, women do not consider the average men as people so they compare themselves to the top 10% which is why they think dating is harder for them. Wrong point. Most think women can still reap the same benefits as those women simply because she is a women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/22 01:51 PM
1	Don’t you want to be that guy? LOL being socially aware is not limited to talking to strangers and making them laugh. Are you researching the definitions you are using? Social awareness is the ability to take the perspective of and empathize with others, including those from diverse backgrounds and cultures.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/22 01:50 PM
1	Do you think it's a good thing or a bad thing - or neither - that women dominate college and already have a foothold in dominating the economy? And why? You misunderstood what I wrote. I was not saying STEM would be downplayed and discredited. I meant them being there would be downplayed and discredited based on their gender. The men here are always saying women get into STEM because of quotas and AA.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/22 01:46 PM
1	Don’t you want to be that guy? If you're carrying the conversation. It's one-sided and she does not like you that much.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/22 01:44 PM
6	Don’t you want to be that guy? You're out of your mind if you think I'm taking you seriously after claiming social skills are solely based on how well you take rejection. Ignoring that social skills also include very broad topics like recognizing nonverbal cues, empathy, and communication. Not some narrow-ass category of how well you handle rejection. Women have an orientation naturally towards people while men things. This is a fact seeing how very young babies based on their gender show this preference. Also how women gravi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/22 03:05 AM
1	Don’t you want to be that guy? Any man who gets with a woman has far better social skills than her - that's why she likes him. Assuming the men must have better social skills is a generalization based on zero merits but your feelings.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/22 02:52 AM
1	Do you think it's a good thing or a bad thing - or neither - that women dominate college and already have a foothold in dominating the economy? And why? Most minorities especially black people make up a small population yet are disproportionally low income or in poverty. So no duh they are going to have more scholarships they need the funds more than you do. If you were even able to get ONE degree you are at a better start point than someone who can't even get their first degree. Especially if it was useless as you claim. No one low income has the chance to risk money on something useless.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/22 02:38 AM
0	Do you think it's a good thing or a bad thing - or neither - that women dominate college and already have a foothold in dominating the economy? And why? It really does not matter. If women were to start entering STEM and dominate it will be downplayed and discredited based on their gender.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/22 02:34 AM
2	Don’t you want to be that guy? Social skills aren't solely based on who's cool with rejection.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/22 02:23 AM
3	How much impact do cultural factors have on who we find sexually attractive? How do cultural influences change who we find attractive? The want for tan skin and big asses prove this also.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/22 01:34 AM
3	Daily Community Chat Megathread The female delusion calculator is not accurate at all. Age: 20 - 45 (Not married) Any race Height: 5'9 (exclude obese) Min income: 25k You will get an aspiring cat lady. The only way to be considered down to earth is if you make the min income of 10k. My thing is the average man is 5'9 if you are American. And google says they make an average of 35k. So is this inaccurate or are men really doing this poorly in life?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/22 01:27 PM
2	Wanting a relationship If you've been single for a long time I doubt you know female nature. If you did you wouldn't be single when you want a relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/22 04:19 AM
2	What is asshole behaviour? Nah, you're just letting your personal experience cloud your judgment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/22 08:48 PM
1	Attraction and Attractiveness are dynamic/flexible and heavily influenced by things like behavior, demographics and competence. 9/10 Is literally beautiful/handsome. The average person isn't even a 7/10.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/22 10:05 AM
1	What do you think of single men who used surrogacy to have children without a wife? It is difficult to use social class as a reliable variable. The lack of a consistent definition is one of the reasons. Each researcher uses a different definition of social class, thus making it difficult to study it as a variable across research. Not only does the definition of social class cause a problem, so does measuring it. Once again there is not a specific assessment process used universally. The reporting of social class contributes to the lack of reliability as well. Since social class…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/22 10:01 AM
22	What do you think of single men who used surrogacy to have children without a wife? Children do best in a 2 parent household.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/22 04:24 AM
1	Men care about n-count:The Moratorium My argument was very specific and strictly the two things you mentioned. Just because historically we have cared about premarital sex or whoever was the kid does not mean NOW we have to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/22 04:22 AM
3	What is asshole behaviour? Makes sense. Narcs have low self-esteem and compensate for it by getting external validation from the world. How do you think you even get that in the first place? Being attractive and embodying the things people find desirable both physically and behaviorally. I see why women would be attracted to a narc. Add machiavellianism and you have a man that can be prince charming until he doesn't get his way or gets what he wants. Men like this are rare thankfully. Yet, it only makes them more appealin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/22 08:48 PM
1	Men care about n-count:The Moratorium was Glad you said it. Just because historically we have cared about premarital sex or whoever was the kid does not mean NOW we have to. It's understandable why that era did. They didn't have the same technology we now have to prevent the negative causes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/22 08:22 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread It's not random. All the big RP channels' content center purely around women while their most viewed content is about women. Fresh and fit also follow the same route where they give men tips but they don't get nearly as much attention as going off on a BimbO as they claim. I think these men have some weird as a kink of seeing young attractive women finally getting told off. Kevin Samuels follows this, mediocre tutorials and reviews follow this and so does manosphere highlights.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/22 05:01 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread All the wrong women I doubt most people want. Unless you down for white nazi/alt right babes wanting you to help produce more WhitE bABiES.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/22 04:41 PM
4	Daily Community Chat Megathread The only reason why Kevin S. blew up was because of that video where he told the women, 'Your AverAge AT best." Before, then his content was directed only at helping men learn fashion, games, and financial tips. He got nowhere in views and likes holding men accountable for that shit. It was only when he started criticizing women and their standards did he blow up. Which is 100% odd to me. It;'s only when manosphere content has something to do with women do other men somehow magically start comin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/22 04:33 PM
0	Men care about n-count:The Moratorium Anyone can catch up. Instinct is just a way to hide behind biology and make it seem it's something we unconsciously do and have zero control of. Humans have a higher level of thinking where we can take notice of behavior and change it by simply stop doing it. It's the way men can go against their so-called biological instinct to spread their seed by being monogamous and the way women stop being so hypergamous past a certain age.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/22 04:24 PM
1	Men care about n-count:The Moratorium Cheating is something humans have reinforced as being morally bad.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/22 04:20 PM
2	Men care about n-count:The Moratorium Nah men have a short-term and long-term dating strategy. Fuck the hoes but never wife them up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/22 04:18 PM
0	Men care about n-count:The Moratorium All signs of good health Positive traits your kids will inherit making the possibility of them having offspring easier.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/22 04:17 PM
3	Kevin Samuels Mega-Thread This isn't a red pill or blue pill thing. It's average men not wanting to be told they are dog shit and their egos being hurt asf from it. Gotta get your ego boost from women being told off by Kevin instead and not you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/22 12:36 AM
-1	Men care about n-count:The Moratorium We live in 2022 not times when paternity test were not a thing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/22 12:12 AM
7	Men care about n-count:The Moratorium Proof men just like women have a dual mating strategy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/22 12:08 AM
5	Women here constantly respond to every complaint by men with some variation of “women don’t owe you sex” or “sorry you can’t get your dick wet” and basically imply that sex is all that men want from women. This is obviously false and used to once again diminish our struggles. That's why you go on dates and talk to the person. You don't need to be overtly told why this person is worth being with. You know at a certain point and will proceed. This always seemed like a gotcha questions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/22 07:43 PM
17	Women here constantly respond to every complaint by men with some variation of “women don’t owe you sex” or “sorry you can’t get your dick wet” and basically imply that sex is all that men want from women. This is obviously false and used to once again diminish our struggles. This rings far more true for women than men. This is the main reason you are seeing a rise in the male podcast about women and the manosphere. Most men cannot catch the attention of women because most women do not need men in their personal lives. Emotional connection and companionship can easily be found with friends. The same cannot be said about men since they don't not cultivate this type of networks as efficient as women do. If they dont offer that than what? Money and a stable home? The pr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/22 05:35 PM
25	Women here constantly respond to every complaint by men with some variation of “women don’t owe you sex” or “sorry you can’t get your dick wet” and basically imply that sex is all that men want from women. This is obviously false and used to once again diminish our struggles. ” The implication is that men are just horny deviants who want to use women as fleshlights. Plenty of men fit this description, and yes men are insatiably horny. You have openly admitted plenty of men are like this. If it's the truth how is this a shaming tactic?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/22 05:19 PM
0	Daily Community Chat Megathread Believing virgin women who waited will match the average male's sex drive. If someone is a virgin other than religious reasons it's most likely a low sex drive, asexual or repressed sexuality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/22 05:09 PM
1	Most men just take the little options they get Yet, somehow still fuck up those options looking at the divorce stats.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/22 07:45 AM
1	Why hate mgtow? No one is talking solely about pre-historic time. That's the only time you can use to disprove my claim.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/22 12:40 AM
-2	Study: Sexually Unsuccessful Men Retaliate By Endorsing Anti-Egalitarian Attitudes and Becoming Fiscally Conservative Okay, it seems you genuinely have had negative experiences with women. Understandable that you may view them negatively. It's still not right to generalize all women as being that way. She is entitled to that opinion and that decision. I know she is wrong though just by looking at statistics like domestic violence rates where nonreciprocal domestic violence rates it is the women doing it more often than a man and the lesbian domestic violence rate is almost double that of gay men. This does not …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/22 09:07 PM
-2	Study: Sexually Unsuccessful Men Retaliate By Endorsing Anti-Egalitarian Attitudes and Becoming Fiscally Conservative Over-exaggerating, the fact they have one similarity while ignoring how different poverty is from not getting laid is a false equivalence.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/22 07:55 PM
-5	Study: Sexually Unsuccessful Men Retaliate By Endorsing Anti-Egalitarian Attitudes and Becoming Fiscally Conservative Who never cared about me and treated me badly. There is a stark difference between women intentionally treating you like shit. If that's your case then I can understand why you may feel this way. The issue is when other men think women not giving them attention or having sex with them means they never care and treat them badly. Second, you can't generalize most women from your personal experience to the point you can say they don't care. I find it funny no men have called you out about this. Let…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/22 07:48 PM
6	Girls not wearing make-up should be normalised. Plus the filter they use to make it look better on social media.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/22 01:43 PM
1	Why hate mgtow? My point is women can choose to be lazy and not work on themselves and they often do. This is no one fault but men's. It's nothing wrong with deciding to go through life easily. That is a human quality to have. Second, you have a choice on who you decide to pick and the date. If men are choosing women who are lazy and do not want to self-improve that's on them. Even an average looking woman can decide to marry and be lazy and not work if she finds a willing partner I'm glad you said IF. The prob…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/22 01:40 PM
11	Q4W - How does it make you feel that your husband/boyfriend/significant other has been rejected by 90% of women he approached in the past? No attractive men will be a virgin that's why. If men biologically have much higher sex drives than women. He's going to want to fuck casually or in a relationship with women once puberty especially starts. It makes no sense looking at men sex drive + the social shaming of virgin men that a men should be a virgin passed a certain age.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/22 01:16 PM
2	Why hate mgtow? Your average woman is average-looking. Beautiful women make up a small group in comparison to average women. So basing your evidence on a small group proves nothing since your typical homeless woman is average-looking and will not benefit from her looks to the point she can leverage it for a nice life. This is the typical apex fallacy from men here where they only want to use the best representation (either physically, mentally, financially, or socially) of a group to prove their point. It's no …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/22 01:07 PM
-2	Why hate mgtow? Wrong, they wouldn't have had any of that stuff without intellectually gifted men and men with actual money to invest. Your laughable hypergamy is when women marry men of high socioeconomic status. Don't switch the definition of a word to fit your narrative.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/22 12:54 PM
0	Why hate mgtow? Yes, those men are at the bottom. It's the men that actually create the items you use and work with that are at the top.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/22 12:52 PM
1	Why hate mgtow? So does a man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/22 12:49 PM
-4	Study: Sexually Unsuccessful Men Retaliate By Endorsing Anti-Egalitarian Attitudes and Becoming Fiscally Conservative The imaginary boogyman called feminism really got you this bad. Just say your up in your feelings and don't want to believe the data.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/22 12:42 PM
-3	Why hate mgtow? Average men love to piggyback off the works of a few men. No, your average man did not build anything. It was built by a few men at the top. If you want to take on the accomplishments of all men. Make sure you stick to this same logic when women claim most men are (negative x trait) and don't use the: oh well not all men are like that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/22 11:02 PM
0	Why hate mgtow? If you're a white male, you need to sit in woke silence and "just listen" to the woes of ALL of the marginalised groups "beneath you" else you're Hitler. Proof as to why many people do not like MGTOW. Not only does 70% of the content they post revolve around cherry-picked posts of the worst women so they can say their biased criticism towards women. You'll get a sprinkle of rhetoric far right-wingers love to say. You're in lala land if you can't see saying an entire group is beneath you helps pu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/22 10:55 PM
1	Men who “defend” women in comments on social media and virtue signal by shaming men are only doing it seeking validation and women’s favor, and women do not find this attractive at all despite what they say Your whole argument is that since a women's orgasm doesn't aid in reproduction it does not matter. People do not fuck to simply produce kids. The fuck for pleasure you know?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/22 02:15 PM
1	Men who “defend” women in comments on social media and virtue signal by shaming men are only doing it seeking validation and women’s favor, and women do not find this attractive at all despite what they say It does not have to be a literal term for it to mean that. The way RP use it in context with their arguments alone will show they are using it literally. Not everything has to be spelled out for you to understand they are implying it. It's a such thing as implicit assumptions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/22 02:12 PM
1	The main dating problem for women is that they want commitment and relationships from guys who can enjoy the fullest extent of their company without committing Men who make claims like this and I'll add say men with options do not commit or men who are willing to commit are basically undesirable to women. Are pushing a negative narrative on men. You're basically saying if you had options you would just have casual relations with women and that's it. It's funny how they go on to say this and wonder why no one cares about their dating struggles. You're only like that because the situation your under is 'forcing' you to need to commit. Not because you act…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/22 03:38 PM
2	Purge me on age gap relationships How old was she when they met? If it was mid 20 no one gives a fuck about 25+ women having huge age gaps with their partner	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/21 12:50 AM
1	Purge me on age gap relationships How old is she?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/21 12:47 AM
3	As a man it's better to be a "husband material" than having random short term encounters Nituting a child is bullshit now?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/21 10:16 PM
2	I made a series of posters to inform people about sexist discrimination, and its similarity with racist discrimination This entire post is literally just advocating that when addressing privileges or oppression. intersectionality: Gender and race. Need to be brought into the picture also.	/r/MensRights	27/09/21 06:38 PM