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| 176 | From dumped niceguy (4 year relationship) to a confident man: My takeaways and a thank you. | Temporary7890 | /r/seduction | 21/03/16 07:43 AM |
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| 2 | From dumped niceguy (4 year relationship) to a confident man: My takeaways and a thank you.I'm glad you found this post man. It gets easier. I promise. | /r/seduction | 22/03/16 02:57 AM |
| 1 | From dumped niceguy (4 year relationship) to a confident man: My takeaways and a thank you.Use Tinder temporarily to get some confidence back. Then ditch that shit. I got 2 f closes from it and uninstalled the app. Don't use it for any more than that. | /r/seduction | 21/03/16 08:48 PM |
| 1 | From dumped niceguy (4 year relationship) to a confident man: My takeaways and a thank you.Absolutely man. After my 5 months of being single, it was really just 3 months moaning over it and as soon as I realized what I had to do (stop chasing) it was like an epiphany. Everything was so simple and easy to me. And now I have what I would describe as the girl of my dreams. Even if she's not I don't care and there's more out there. I don't blame my ex one bit. I made HER the definition of myself and my life. Thinking it was flattering. Expensive jewelry ($850 promise ring, I was in high s… | /r/seduction | 21/03/16 06:58 PM |
| 1 | From dumped niceguy (4 year relationship) to a confident man: My takeaways and a thank you.(updated in comments) | /r/seduction | 21/03/16 02:42 PM |
| 2 | From dumped niceguy (4 year relationship) to a confident man: My takeaways and a thank you.Thanks man. I appreciate the advice. | /r/seduction | 21/03/16 02:36 PM |
| 8 | From dumped niceguy (4 year relationship) to a confident man: My takeaways and a thank you.I tailor my comments based on what I'm replying to, which does get confusing. I commented a little more clearly below but I'll say something here. I can tell there's something special about this girl. I can't explain it well, but there's just a spark. We have the instant feeling of being comfortable with each other. No bullshit games, no deception or manipulation, just pure and unbridled attraction. I'm going to see where it goes and cut it off at the first sign of incompatibility. The reason I … | /r/seduction | 21/03/16 02:31 PM |
| 0 | From dumped niceguy (4 year relationship) to a confident man: My takeaways and a thank you.Will do. Thank you! I'm always very conscious now of how much I'm just being a butler to women and I try to remember what I look for in a partner. I don't want a servant, I want someone I can brag about and who I respect. | /r/seduction | 21/03/16 02:20 PM |
| 3 | From dumped niceguy (4 year relationship) to a confident man: My takeaways and a thank you.There is more to it than that. I just commented with an update. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 21/03/16 02:18 PM |
| 5 | From dumped niceguy (4 year relationship) to a confident man: My takeaways and a thank you.That 4 year relationship taught me a lot. A year of that was long distance, too. I know how tough it can be. I appreciate it though. | /r/seduction | 21/03/16 02:18 PM |
| 5 | From dumped niceguy (4 year relationship) to a confident man: My takeaways and a thank you.Fair enough. However I'm not signing up for anything near 3-4 years by dating someone. I'm still in college. | /r/seduction | 21/03/16 02:17 PM |
| 4 | From dumped niceguy (4 year relationship) to a confident man: My takeaways and a thank you.It's very exhausting and draining to live that lifestyle for me. Maybe it's because I've been in a 4 year relationship, but I enjoy having a companion. I just need a break for a few months and would rather have someone with me to learn from than be alone while I relax. | /r/seduction | 21/03/16 02:16 PM |
| 24 | From dumped niceguy (4 year relationship) to a confident man: My takeaways and a thank you.This is the reason. Thank you! | /r/seduction | 21/03/16 02:15 PM |
| 13 | From dumped niceguy (4 year relationship) to a confident man: My takeaways and a thank you.I'm going to take this advice. Thank you. As I said in my post, I haven't been single since high school so things have changed. | /r/seduction | 21/03/16 02:15 PM |
| 17 | From dumped niceguy (4 year relationship) to a confident man: My takeaways and a thank you.On the potential girlfriend subject: I'm tired of the bullshit of meeting new women and trying to play the game to sleep with them. I've been going at it pretty hardcore for the last month and I'd like to settle down for a few months. I didn't say I was done for life, I just need a break. That being said, I've realized that I'm not going to ask her to be my girlfriend. I'm just going to continue things with her until that question arises, then decide my course of action. I also want to clarify t… | /r/seduction | 21/03/16 02:13 PM |
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