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| 1 | Expecting Men to Pay for First Dates Is EntitlementIt’s just men doing what they have to do let’s be real if most men told women before the date “hey let’s split” they won’t get many if at all dates don’t put too much stock in it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/26 12:52 AM |
| 1 | People who claim women are "happier single" have never spoken to a truly undesirable womanBut they’re single by choice because women can get their needs met from men without having to be in a relationship with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/26 01:35 AM |
| 4 | The average woman would fail at dating as a MenYou feel that way cause you’re a woman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/26 01:12 AM |
| 1 | Marriage doesn't make Men the happiest group because they are marriedBecause men aren’t getting any ass and women can get their needs met from men without having to be in a relationship with them. If a woman wants sex she go on tinder and get it in a couple hours, if a woman wants to flirt get a quick dopamine hit and feel desired she can go on a dating app or go out get the quick fix then go about her day, if she wants a nice date she can do that to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/25 04:21 AM |
| 2 | The idea that older men dating younger women are losers - is a woman's revenge fantasy.Youre wasting your breath man haha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/25 04:00 AM |
| 1 | The idea that older men dating younger women are losers - is a woman's revenge fantasy.Men don’t delude ourselves as much y’all think we do lol. First of all unless a dude is extremely attractive the grace of woman being “into you for you” runs out at about post 27 years old. After that obviously if you don’t have a job at all or are not making enough money for her that she deems enough it’s a wrap. I’m not saying women don’t find the men attractive I’m saying if you can’t provide at a certain age as a man it doesn’t matter how nice or attractive the man is she won’t be with him. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/25 03:40 AM |
| 1 | The idea that older men dating younger women are losers - is a woman's revenge fantasy.Really doesn’t matter you can get fleeced by an older one as well you might as well get a younger one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/25 03:28 AM |
| – | why do men hate sluts so much, instead of just feeling neutral?why does it being positve matter? If Ronda Rousey went into a building like a bank or something a just started fighting, knocking out, and killing all the men with her bare fists that would be violent. If a man did the same thing knocking out and killing all the women that would also be violent. But if youre not lying to yourself you know which act will be seen as more deplorable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/25 07:37 PM |
| 1 | Women: Why are you unable / unwilling to understand why most men consider "hookup/FWB material" more validating than "husband material" given that you put the FWB/hookup guys in a way more exclusive, privileged, elite club?if you treated each guy exactly the same then it would be no problem but often women don't. what happens usually is if a woman meets a guy that's hubby material shell make him wait because if she puts out fast she doesn't want the guy thinking she's easy or a hoe, whereas the hookup guy she doesn't care if he thinks she's a hoe cause she only wants him for a night. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/25 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Why must girls nights and / or girls trips (ie excluding and disconnected from your partner) include places that are known for flirting, hooking up, etc?you're just wrong im from LA and they absolutely do this where do you live? or theyll let girl in she just has to pay | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/25 04:01 PM |
| 1 | If you think that you can have ‘good’ to ‘mind blowing’ sex with strangers; your definition of ‘good to mind blowing’ sex is… Limited. CMV.great analogy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/25 02:40 PM |
| 1 | The ability to find FWBs, not relationships, is the measure of how sexually attractive a man is.As compared to men women are pickier on who they give sex to typically if a woman has sex with a guy she would date him. Doesn't work the other way around men will sleep with anything so that doesn't mean he would date her. No girl brags to her girlfriend that some dude really wants to bang her but men will definitely brag to their guy friends that a girl really wants to bang him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/25 08:21 PM |
| 15 | I think women are worst in bed then men areorgasm gap still doesnt automatically make women good in bed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/25 06:58 PM |
| 2 | Women judge men for promiscuity!how | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/25 07:30 PM |
| 3 | Women judge men for promiscuity!here's the gag they wouldn't be virgins if they were attractive most men are virgins for a reason and the reason is they're unattractive (in more ways than one). Since its hard for men to get sex if an attractive men gets the opportunity he's going to take it. Good luck finding the unicorn man whos is actually good looking and can get sex who is just waiting lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/25 05:37 PM |
| 8 | Women judge men for promiscuity!talk is cheap promiscuous men wouldn't be promiscuous if it was that repulsive to women but somehow women keep rewarding promiscuous men with sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/25 05:22 PM |
| 1 | Women don't deny they like attractive men. They deny that they are all attracted to the same menit has nothing to do with pregnancy lol hell most women wont commit to a man who they haven't slept with first cause they wanna make sure its good. Plus there's all kinds of birth control women have no problem sleeping with men the don't now or barely know its are they attractive enough | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/25 05:15 PM |
| 4 | Women don't deny they like attractive men. They deny that they are all attracted to the same menarent we all tolerating each other?no ones perfect and no one gets their ideal but as long its not egregious everyone "settles". For example if a 25 year old girl has the option of a 32 year old man ,50 year old man, or an 80 year old man and all of them pay all the bills she's going to choose 32 as number 1, 50 if she cant get 32, and 80 if she cant get 50 or 32. As a guy you just don't want to be the 80 year old where its clear as day she's only with you for money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/25 04:47 PM |
| 2 | Women gaslight men who date younger due to intrasexual competition.so in other words theyre easier lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/25 03:47 PM |
| 1 | We need to stop comparing sex with money, these are not great trade offs to begin with.The irony of this comment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 02:22 PM |
| 1 | We need to stop comparing sex with money, these are not great trade offs to begin with.Exactly men pay cause they "have to" not cause they want to in other words splitting the check is self sabotage. Any man standing firm on splitting checks will be a virgin for a long time or sexless for a long time lol cause if you wont pay another man will. This why men just do cheap dates instead so you don't have to get to the point of worrying about splitting checks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 08:44 PM |
| 1 | We need to stop comparing sex with money, these are not great trade offs to begin with.take that up with your sisterhood lol but women are driving the cost down so naturally no ones going to overpay for what they what they can get for free or if they pay definelty not an arm and a leg. If all women were virgins waiting for marriage then I and most men would pay a high price. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 08:37 PM |
| 1 | Apparently women expect men to read their mindsok but that's convenient who doesn't like convenience? sometimes you have to go out of your way to meet people. if i meet a chick at the grocery store yes its going to feel random and maybe a little uncomfortable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/25 05:42 PM |
| 1 | You should sleep with a woman before taking her out on a dateeasy to say when its not your money lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/25 08:31 PM |
| 1 | Escorts are the worst option for undesirable menOf course you do | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/25 07:16 AM |
| 1 | A woman being super sexual within relationships (ex-boyfriends) is a huge green flagIf you’re so inclined | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/25 09:05 PM |
| 1 | A woman being super sexual within relationships (ex-boyfriends) is a huge green flagtake that same logic and date a person who used to r**e children | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/25 08:10 PM |
| 2 | Escorts are the worst option for undesirable menfacts | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/25 05:49 PM |
| 1 | Escorts are the worst option for undesirable menlol do you think more women tell the truth than they do lie about their body count? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/25 05:31 PM |
| 1 | Escorts are the worst option for undesirable menhaha they wont like that one | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/25 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Women don’t go after men with wedding ringsexactly lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/25 05:22 PM |
| 1 | Being hookup material is much better than being husband material.it still doesnt change the fact that theyre risking pregnancy and disease for someone they dont want to be with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/25 08:53 PM |
| 4 | Being hookup material is much better than being husband material.if dead bedrooms didnt exist youd be right | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/25 08:36 PM |
| 1 | Women dont view having access to causal sex as a benefitIf you can sleep with a man you at least have a CHANCE yes men can detach easier and run through groupies easily and not give an F about them. However men are still are still human, plenty of relationships have started from casual sex and the man eventually started liking the girl. How can you argue that you have a better a chance with a man who would NEVER sleep with you versus one who would? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/25 05:33 PM |
| 1 | (Some**) Women have a hard time understanding analogiesNo they understand them they just dont like the negative ones weve all heard the ran through car analogy that they hate. if you were to say women are like flowers they're delicate and they smell good you'll obviously get less backlash. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/25 04:51 PM |
| 0 | Lauren Sanchez is the opposite of what Red Pillers are telling us that men want in women and shows that women just have to be hot and seductivebecause they dont the option to get better | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/25 07:49 PM |
| 1 | Lauren Sanchez is the opposite of what Red Pillers are telling us that men want in women and shows that women just have to be hot and seductiveits one dude lol i can come right back and point out bill bellichick | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/25 07:47 PM |
| 1 | Lauren Sanchez is the opposite of what Red Pillers are telling us that men want in women and shows that women just have to be hot and seductiveoutside of being down syndrome no woman on the planet will struggle to find A man the key is the man they want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/25 07:45 PM |
| 4 | Why do some women want a man to love her more than she loves him?Not understanding your tangent lol you can wait however long you want but men aren’t gonna endlessly wait for a girl who ain’t a virgin. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/25 06:23 PM |
| 2 | Why do some women want a man to love her more than she loves him?yup the one who cares the least has the power | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/25 04:58 PM |
| 3 | Why do some women want a man to love her more than she loves him?this only works if youre a virgin | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/25 04:53 PM |
| 4 | "Men care about penis size more than women do!" - that's bullshit.take your own advice | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/25 04:58 PM |
| -1 | "Men care about penis size more than women do!" - that's bullshit."They don't care unless it doesn't work for them." your words | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/25 04:45 PM |
| 3 | "Men care about penis size more than women do!" - that's bullshit.So hetero men just randomly one day just started caring about dick size with absolutely ZERO hetero female influence whatsoever its all just made up by men for no reason ok lol. So do the hetero women who obsess over bbl's and breast implants all of them have gotten them with absolute zero influence from hereto men? They all just woke up one day and said you know what? I want bigger tits. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/25 04:41 PM |
| 0 | "Men care about penis size more than women do!" - that's bullshit.which means they care why does it kill women just to say it matters? lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/25 04:24 PM |
| 2 | Women, by and large, are not "settling" with guys they aren't attracted toIn other words I give my body and risk pregnancy and disease with men I don't want to be with long term on the first night but with you I want to be with you long term so I'm going to make you wait." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/25 03:51 PM |
| 2 | Apparently, men are more likely to hit on women they think are easy and not necessarily because they think they're attractiveHell no one has their absolute ideal lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 02:06 PM |
| 1 | How would you react if your boyfriend admitted you weren't exactly his type looks wise but he values you for your personality?yes so would you like if it happened to you? I wasn't physically attracted to her at first but her personality grew on me". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/25 01:59 PM |
| 1 | If you don’t see the point in having female friends, you’d absolutely despise dating themKey was slightly bent when I gave it to her so that’s why I offered but normally you’re right | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/25 12:56 PM |
| 1 | It’s not worth it for men to have female friends, too many downsides, not enough benefit.exactly if were going to be used we want a benefit in return | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/25 08:38 PM |
| 1 | If you don’t see the point in having female friends, you’d absolutely despise dating themgo to every 24 hour fitness/la fitness in your city and you might see 1 girl if that playing basketball with the men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/25 05:45 PM |
| 1 | If you don’t see the point in having female friends, you’d absolutely despise dating themYoure wasting your breath bro lol but youre right when youre not useful to them or money gets involved that "friendship" dissolves. Had a female "friend" i let borrow my car she broke the key i said hey can you at least split it with me never heard from essentially again lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/25 04:59 PM |
| 2 | How come women dont realize how hard is it for men to get laid ?“Women don’t have some magical advantage we just get more attention “ 🤦🏾♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/25 02:48 PM |
| -1 | How are women who enjoy casual sex “being used?”Hold til marriage then you’ll see the truth 🤷🏾♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/25 06:55 AM |
| 1 | Why don't men want to date single moms?Right? Every woman is going to sell you a sob story about how her baby dad was the devil and she was an angel because they have to give a justifiable reason as to why you should get with her. It’s like a woman leaving her marriage cause she’s bored which happens all the time. But if you’re the new guy she wants to date is she going to tell you the truth? She’s not gonna say “yea I left my husband cause I was bored” she’s gonna say he was narcissistic, abusive, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/25 04:41 PM |
| 1 | Why don't men want to date single moms?but every single woman on the planet is going to say this to make themselves look better to their potential new partner because if they don't why would the man take them seriously? For example many women leave marriages because they're bored but are they actually going to tell truth and say that to a potential new guy? of course not so she's obviously going to paint him in a bad light to justify why he should take her seriously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/25 03:43 PM |
| – | Why do so many people have the "no 1 on 1 time with the opposite gender" rule?The odds that a man is hanging around and talking to a girl frequently who he doesn't want to smash are extremely low just accept it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/25 07:06 PM |
| – | Why do so many people have the "no 1 on 1 time with the opposite gender" rule?"I've always found it easier to be friends with guys than girls" lol and why do you think that is? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/25 04:38 PM |
| 2 | CMV: The Ant Edward’s Saga clearly demonstrates a flawed system that enables objectively poor decision making.Yes because lets be real none of you are going to be crying yourselves to sleep in 5 years that Ant Edwards daughter doesnt have a dad she will be just fine. If she cared about a two parent home so much she wouldnt have allowed to him to hit raw without a comittment of marriage first | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/25 07:26 PM |
| 1 | Expecting a partner to at least be in a similar economic position as you is entirely reasonableNot the same at all you can have whatever standards you want for yourself you don’t need anyone to stay home. But a relationship you need someone else to agree with you to do it. So the more and more standards you apply to try to find a suitor the more unreasonable it gets because it’s not enough people to fit that standard. I want a brown skinned, big booty, but not fake, flat stomach, no make up wearing, dark hair, 25 and childless, virgin, with a bachelors degree, makes 100,000 a year, both p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/25 08:48 PM |
| 1 | Why are women uncomfortable (or refuse) to date virgin menThat’s the one obviously women would prefer lol but those typically aren’t the case. Most older male virgins are virgins because they’re trying and failing and are undesirable. If you think most male virgins have the option to have sex but are otherwise choosing not to too wait for the right person that’s pure cope. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/25 08:26 PM |
| 1 | Expecting a partner to at least be in a similar economic position as you is entirely reasonableDon’t think that changes the fact that it’s still unreasonable but yes you can stay single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/25 08:19 PM |
| 1 | Why are women uncomfortable (or refuse) to date virgin menIt’s less of this and more of “if no one else wanted him why would I? What’s wrong with him?” (After a certain age of course) They just don’t want to admit it lol. Because the older you get the more baggage you accumulate men and women. So people with baggage and trauma really arent much better than a clean slate they’re just experienced. But being experienced means someone at least wanted you which means desirable and worth having. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/25 05:59 PM |
| 1 | Why are women uncomfortable (or refuse) to date virgin menYou say this but a virgin man is typically a virgin because he’s undesirable point blank period. I’ll adjust for age and say 23 and up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/25 05:52 PM |
| -1 | Expecting a partner to at least be in a similar economic position as you is entirely reasonableIf what you’re looking for is scarce whether or not you have the leverage to actually get it I’d say it’s unreasonable. Even if I was a rich 30 plus and tall wanting a virgin girl would still probably be unreasonable but not impossible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/25 05:42 PM |
| 1 | What’s Your Opinion on Men Who’ve Never Been in a Relationship Ever.Yea iight lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/25 04:36 PM |
| 1 | What’s Your Opinion on Men Who’ve Never Been in a Relationship Ever.So which would you pick | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/25 04:31 PM |
| 1 | What’s Your Opinion on Men Who’ve Never Been in a Relationship Ever.Maybe from a female perspective I can see that I as a man wouldn’t view it that way as long I knew he gets women as has a good amount of sexual experience. A 35 year old guy whos had a good amount of sex who’s never been in a relationship has more than likely been in a situationship and has had women like him so he can at least attract women which is important to women. If you had to pick 35 year old guy no relationship, no experience, no sex or a 35 year old guy no relationship experience but s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/25 04:24 PM |
| 1 | What’s Your Opinion on Men Who’ve Never Been in a Relationship Ever.How’s it odd if he gets women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/25 04:04 PM |
| 1 | What’s Your Opinion on Men Who’ve Never Been in a Relationship Ever.if hes had a decent amount of sex without paying for it then hell be fine | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/25 03:34 PM |
| 1 | Women are already aware that we have the option to "lower," "change," or "be more realistic with" our standardsexactly especially if you dont have any leverage to be picky. if youre 35 plus, divorced with two baby daddies, and overweight how in the world can you justify being picky? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/25 01:22 PM |
| – | Paying for Women: A Charity, Not an Investmenteither you got really good d game or shes mid lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/25 08:23 PM |
| 6 | If you have to chase a woman, you've already lost.Granted we dont want the girl whos been ran by the football team however tryna play virgin mary when youre not a virgin is worse. "I normally put out fast but i want him to think i dont so he thinks im a good girl". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/25 05:06 PM |
| – | If the average man is in a relationship and has the opportunity to cheat with an attractive women he should do itbecause there no benefit being with a woman whos smashing other dudes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/25 02:09 PM |
| 1 | Stating that sex and intimacy for men is a need, isn’t a proposal for sexual slavery. This is a common strawman that women propose because it would be ethically uncomfortable to acknowledge this being true.Yea that’s a whole mega rabbit hole but you got a point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/25 12:39 AM |
| 1 | Why do men believe virgin men are unattractive to women?You aren’t wrong | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 09:59 PM |
| 1 | Why do men believe virgin men are unattractive to women?And they’re all imagining an attractive man who can get women but chooses to not to. They’re not imagining a guy who’s socially awkward and has no experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 09:57 PM |
| 1 | Why do men believe virgin men are unattractive to women?but thats the thing if youre a virgin man the likelihood is your not choosing to be generally speaking virgin men are virgins typically because they're undesirable | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 07:52 PM |
| -2 | Stating that sex and intimacy for men is a need, isn’t a proposal for sexual slavery. This is a common strawman that women propose because it would be ethically uncomfortable to acknowledge this being true.Y’all gotta stop with this “you won’t die” logic a child also won’t die if you don’t love it but no one or at least i hope would argue that’s child doesn’t need love. Need as a verb is described as essential or very important. Just because you won’t die doesn’t make it not a need 🙄 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 06:58 PM |
| 1 | Stating that sex and intimacy for men is a need, isn’t a proposal for sexual slavery. This is a common strawman that women propose because it would be ethically uncomfortable to acknowledge this being true.Exactlyyyyyy my child won’t die if I don’t love him but we all know a child needs love. And noun as a verb is described as something that is essential or very important. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 06:49 PM |
| 1 | Stating that sex and intimacy for men is a need, isn’t a proposal for sexual slavery. This is a common strawman that women propose because it would be ethically uncomfortable to acknowledge this being true.can women live a healthy and fulfilling life without emotional intimacy and love including parental? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 05:50 PM |
| 2 | Stating that sex and intimacy for men is a need, isn’t a proposal for sexual slavery. This is a common strawman that women propose because it would be ethically uncomfortable to acknowledge this being true.true so you might as well say its a need because if I don't do these things the other person will leave or cheat. If I just decide emotional intimacy is not a need and i just stopped talking to my wife forever she would leave me. If a woman tells a man hey ill marry you but ill never have sex with you he wouldn't marry her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Stating that sex and intimacy for men is a need, isn’t a proposal for sexual slavery. This is a common strawman that women propose because it would be ethically uncomfortable to acknowledge this being true.you wont die without emotional intimacy either you wont die if i decide to give you silent treatment and not speak to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 05:38 PM |
| 1 | Men that tell women to “just choose better”, how do you feel about the exodus of women in the dating market?not necessarily because sex is easy dating takes work and dating requires a lot of metrics to be hit sex needs only one be attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 08:39 PM |
| 4 | Vast Majority of Women are Landing Men Who Were In Romantic Exile, and They Know Itthats not settling though thats the best they could get theres no such thing as settling people who have the option to choose better never choose worse. A single mom 40 year olds with 4 kids by 4 baby dads and overweight isn't "settling" for a short broke guy that's the best she could get. The inverse a 40 year old out of shape dude isn't settling for an overweight old single mom he cant do better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 05:53 PM |
| 1 | Is virgin shaming REALLY a high-school thing or it just seems so?Of course he’s open to feedback he’s never had sex before if he wants to get it again(because it’s hard for men to get sex) then he better listen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 03:16 PM |
| -1 | Why is it difficult for you to understand the validity of the idea of overcoming male (and not only) loneliness through romantic relationships?Because they’re a woman or good looking enough man to pull it off. 2. That couple is more than likely older and libidos have gone down. I highly doubt a middle aged couple in a sexless marriage BOTH parties are happy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 02:55 PM |
| 1 | Telling a man he'll have to wait for sex because you don't want to get "played" by him is a bad idea.You don’t have to do anything you don’t want to do in dating or relationships it just won’t be successful | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/25 09:25 PM |
| 1 | Telling a man he'll have to wait for sex because you don't want to get "played" by him is a bad idea.Dating is give and take at some point you have to give the other party what they want. If you only want to do things on your terms that’s your right I hope it’s successful 🤷🏾♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/25 09:04 PM |
| 1 | As a woman, I really don't get the logic behind "I got used for sex"which is why you get the "what are we" texts after sex lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/25 07:50 PM |
| 1 | Telling a man he'll have to wait for sex because you don't want to get "played" by him is a bad idea.You're right it doesn't have to be the first date but its got to be a reasonable time frame. I'm basically just saying there's consequences to going out on endless dates if you want to secure the man waiting a long time isn't going to work point blank period. It's not about entitlement its about who has the leverage if who want has more leverage you have to give in to what they want, take a worse option, or just stay single. For example if a guy said he's not going to pay for a single date until… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/25 05:32 PM |
| 1 | Telling a man he'll have to wait for sex because you don't want to get "played" by him is a bad idea."Pussy doesn't land women relationships" And not putting out won't get you relationships either 99% of yall are not virgins so what are you waiting for? It doesn't make sense to wait for a girl who isn't a virgin most girls you meet haven't been married and only been with one man they've been with several. All consisting of relationships and hookups and there's no way she made them all wait the exact same amount of time. Girls don't have a set standard for sex its however much she likes the guy … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/25 03:32 PM |
| 2 | The Reason Getting Dates is So Much Harder For Men Is Women Won’t Look Past Any Flawstrue if i had 1,000s of baddies lined up i would have to filter them somehow the only difference is men will have sex with mostly all of them lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/25 07:40 PM |
| 0 | Sexual double standard is irrationalI mean for one its illegal in most places at least in the US and not that accessible but yes men have egos if they can only have sex by paying for it to me they're still incels. And I'm sure women would view men who can only get sex by paying for it as such too. Even I grant you self improvement would help men get laid more they vast majority would still not be able to just go be promiscuous. If you think all it takes is just good hygiene, a nice shirt, and a good attitude to just run through ch… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/25 04:13 PM |
| 0 | Sexual double standard is irrationalthere wouldnt be incels if men could just go sleep around | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/25 02:05 PM |
| 1 | Sexual double standard is irrationalexactly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 08:42 PM |
| 1 | Sexual double standard is irrationali dont understand what youre not getting its easy for any woman to be a whore its not for a man simple as that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 08:30 PM |
| 1 | Sexual double standard is irrationalthe way men show our "not caring' about promiscuous women is just by not taking them seriously. cause think about it if she's promiscuous she's obviously not gonna make it hard to sleep with her like become exclusive or marry her. youre getting the milk without buying the cow so theres no incentive to buy it. In other words were not repulsed by her promiscuity we want that so we can use her and get a turn. the repulsion is taking her seriously most dudes in these comments would sleep with their … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 05:39 PM |
| 1 | There are 2 harsh truths that men and women have accept sooner or later.its not about hobbies its about going where the women are at you cant sit here and tell me that youll see more women at a basketball court than you will at dance class. your chances are increased when you go where the most women are at. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 04:37 PM |
| 0 | There are 2 harsh truths that men and women have accept sooner or later.this is dumb name anything thats guaranteed in life besides death? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 04:17 PM |
| 1 | There are 2 harsh truths that men and women have accept sooner or later.yes but understand men and women are different and have different hobbies so you may have to insert yourself into things that the opposite gender does. you're not going to find a bunch of single women at car conventions, video game conventions, or basketball courts. you'll find more at a dance class, a sip and paint, pottery class, something more neutral gender like a run club something like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 04:08 PM |
| 1 | Watching porn is not cheating and it is controlling to stop people watching it.i've always said this they're ok with you lusting after women so as long you cant actually do it physically and potentially leave her for that girl, get her pregnant, or bring back disease. To me that's phony be consistent and count it all as cheating . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/24 07:13 PM |
| 3 | A general criticism of the “but they slept with x person on the first date, why not me?”No matter how you dress it up if shes making me wait but f***ed the other the guy in 1 day shes not as attracted to me as she was the other guy it by very definition is personal. "Yea the other guy we hit it off quickly? but with you not feelin yet you gotta grow on me" lol naaa I'm good. Logically what you're saying is true though I'm not delusional a girl is not gonna f**k me in one day like she would Chris brown I'm not Chris brown lol nowhere near his attraction level. Guys do the same the m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/24 05:33 PM |
| – | Men who say they don't careput it this way take 1,000 random men and then 1,000 random women come up to them and say "hey lets be together but I don't wanna work I want you to pay all the bills while i stay at home and raise the kids." Lets just assume all those men could afford to do so most of them will be cool with that arrangement. Flip it around 1,000 men tell 1,000 women they want to be stay at home dads, not work, and have her pay all bills while he raises the kids. Very few women are gonna be ok with that the stay… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/24 04:43 PM |
| – | Men who say they don't carea woman making her own money or even out earning you still doesn't make her not a gold digger. hence the phrase my money is my money and your money is ours. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/24 04:24 PM |
| 1 | Men are having bad sex, and it is not talked about.enthusiasm | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/24 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Men are having bad sex, and it is not talked about.its also hard to be bad at sex as a woman no mans asking you to do backflips on it lol. just dont use your teeth and be enthusiastic everything else is a bonus. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/24 07:21 PM |
| 1 | Mandatory paternity/DNA testingrape and incest are only 1 to 2 percent of abortions but yall still want that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/24 02:43 PM |
| 1 | Mandatory paternity/DNA testingany woman that doesn't advocate this is saying their child doesn't deserve to 100% know who their dad is forget the dad just do it for your kids. Baby switches happen at the hospital so infidelity isn't the only reason to get this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/24 02:24 PM |
| – | Cheating is better than pornography.whatever you say lol im just telling you what cheating means for men not that they should do it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/24 07:27 PM |
| – | Cheating is better than pornography.regardless of the type of porn women who think this way are phony you don't actually care about him lusting after other women. You care about him leaving you, bringing an std, or getting someone else pregnant(all of which are under stable). It's all the same porn ,sex with random women, stripclubs, onlyfans, prostitutes all of it is lusting after other women aka cheating. So he can jack off his favorite porn star but if he were to have sex with her that's where you draw the line? lol doesn't mak… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/24 07:23 PM |
| 2 | Have you or any woman you know ever rejected someone for being a virgin?youre a woman its not the same | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/24 07:06 PM |
| – | Cheating is better than pornography.you're just wrong lol a lot if not most women feel this that a man cheating means they don't want them. I'm not justifying cheating im just tired of women saying" if you wanna have sex with other women just be single". Him having sex with other women has no bearing on how he feels about its just to get a nut off same thing he would do with porn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/24 07:05 PM |
| – | Cheating is better than pornography.Why do women think that a man wanting to have sex with another women means he doesn't love/like his wife and hates her guts and wants to leave her lol. Let's just walk through this logically a lot couples go to strip clubs together a stripper will literally shake ass in front of her and her man and she can visibly she he's enjoying it slapping her ass. So she doesn't think he wants to leave her then but if he puts her dick then he wants to leave? lol it doesn't make sense its just lust for men. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/24 05:55 PM |
| – | Cheating is better than pornography.i agree lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/24 05:40 PM |
| 3 | Have you or any woman you know ever rejected someone for being a virgin?if this were true there wouldnt be as many virgin men as there is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/24 05:30 PM |
| 1 | Have you or any woman you know ever rejected someone for being a virgin?i think you're proving her point even more lol that deplorable dude from Mcdeez still got laid versus a guy who isn't hasn't there's definitely something wrong. i'm not saying something wrong like he's a horrible human but something wrong as in hes not desirable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/24 05:25 PM |
| 0 | Have you or any woman you know ever rejected someone for being a virgin?i mean they go in hand in hand if you get to 25 or 30 as a virgin man there's a reason why and they're not positive 99% of the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/24 05:14 PM |
| 1 | The Paradox of Choice Isn’t Real With Datingbingo plus honestly there's no such thing as a girl without options the only exceptions would be like a super eating disorder anorexic chick, a drug addict homeless woman, or a chick with down syndrome and maybe a chick with missing limbs and even that's a maybe lol. Men want to have sex if you have a vagina you will not struggle to find A man. Now depending how attractive the girl is will obviously determine the level of guy she can get. But you can be ugly, a dwarf, 600 pounds you will still h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/24 05:40 PM |
| 1 | Women Don’t Care If You’re a Player Because They Know Most Men Wouldmocked by women not men and online at that never in person. and guess what all that mocking has done? nothing hes still dating young hot models. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/24 03:47 PM |
| 1 | If women is above 30 and a virgin is she still expired?imagine you're playing Sims and your building your wife and mother of your kids not just a random girl you wanna smash (this is key). the default is 0 bodies or you can max it out at 100 why would you ever choose more? It's not about obsessing over a virgin its more like the lower better like you're not going to be seeking out a chick that's ran through lol. Think about a girl you've really liked and wanted to be with have you ever said to yourself "hmmm you know what would make this girl better… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/24 05:54 PM |
| 4 | Why don't you approach men?2 is wrong men approach because we don't have the the luxury to not do it and still get laid or get a girlfriend. if all men said "I'm not gonna approach ill wait till the woman approaches me" 99% of us would all die virgins. Women see men they wanna talk to all the time and wont approach because they don't want to risk rejection why risk rejection when you don't have to? You're not going to look for a job with the same fervor if you already have a job versus if you don't have one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/24 04:48 PM |
| 2 | The Dating Curve With All Things Equal is Just Harder for Menmany women deny it theyll say stuff like (we all have our own struggles) trying to put it on an eqaul playng field when its not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/24 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Do men on here understand why women follow alpha fucks and beta bucks?because they dont have options | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/24 07:28 PM |
| 1 | Do women on here understand why men don't like being seen as the "safe" option?if your uncle dont say "i see you nephew" you know she ugly or if your friends say "ay as long as you're happy bro" lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/24 05:41 PM |
| 1 | Women, do you usually sleep with guys you find attractive in the first few dates?good mentality! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/24 02:30 PM |
| 1 | Virgin men that are rejectedmen dont get sex as it is they dont have the leverage to be turning down virgins to try and go get another girl who isnt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/24 07:46 PM |
| 1 | Why does it seem that Single Dads are viewed as 'somewhat' attractive by the average woman, while Single Mom's are viewed as 'somewhat' unattractive by the average man?Baby daddies also have multiple baby mommas they wouldn’t be able to get to multiple baby mommas if they were that undesirable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/24 10:24 PM |
| 1 | Why does it seem that Single Dads are viewed as 'somewhat' attractive by the average woman, while Single Mom's are viewed as 'somewhat' unattractive by the average man?If he’s rich why the hell would he date a 40 year old? Men don’t get rich to date 40 year olds lol. Drake is gonna be 38 years old do you really think he dates 38 year olds really?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/24 10:21 PM |
| 1 | Men don't hate women; men hate that women deny their privilege.Exactly no one’s blaming you just acknowledge it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/24 09:26 AM |
| 1 | Men don't hate women; men hate that women deny their privilege.Why does it matter who it’s coming from? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/24 09:24 AM |
| 1 | Men don't hate women; men hate that women deny their privilege.That’s just chicken and egg which came first are men just naturally not selective or are woman’s standards just to high? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/24 09:16 AM |
| 1 | Men don't hate women; men hate that women deny their privilege.Will you die if you aren’t emotional stimulated? Or aren’t loved? You don’t need those either then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/24 09:13 AM |
| 1 | Are women even sexually attracted to men?Just because you go into baskin robins and you choose chocolate and ignore all the 32 other flavors doesn’t mean that you’re only choice is chocolate. In other words not liking your options does not negate them being options. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/06/24 03:44 PM |
| 1 | A lot of women are awfully entitled to male company and friendshipThey still aren’t “friends” in that scenario at best their acquaintances or associates and that’s fine. People throw friend around too loosely. If you’re only really ever around them to use them to get other girls those aren’t your damn friends lol. I highly doubt you’re hanging out, calling, texting, doing activities together as the same frequency as your male friends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/23 02:43 AM |
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