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| 49 | Why A Narcissist Won't Apologise (8 minutes)Talk is cheap. My narcissist ex apologized easily and used it to gaslight me. He'd keep doing the same thing he apologized for and then would try to turn it around on me. "You heard me apologize, and now you're accusing me of doing it again?" Or "I apologized, and you're still upset, so who's the unreasonable one here?" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 02:43 AM |
| 44 | “Keeping the peace” just passes the problems onto another woman to handle. Stop the bullshit dead in its tracks when you can.I really liked this post for showing how high-conflict people are enabled by everyone around them: https://www.reddit.com/r/JUSTNOMIL/comments/77pxpo/dont_rock_the_boat/ I will add, even though I 100% agree with you, sometimes you need to be strategic and play a long game. It can be important to wait until you have some power before you start pushing back -- in a family, it might mean waiting until you're an adult and can support yourself independently; in the work place, it might mean waiting u… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/21 09:25 PM |
| 105 | The author said both positions were “totally reasonable.”Do you have a link or can you recommend any specific search terms? My ex-husband did this and it drove me insane | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/21 12:06 AM |
| 15 | FDS is, in and of itself, a revolution; and we need to be cognizant of that.There were women-only spaces, though. Reddit got rid of them. It's important to be prepared for the likelihood that the patriarchy will only tolerate this "insolence" for so long. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 04:39 PM |
| 14 | Want kids but dread raising them?I have a boy and a girl. One of the reasons my marriage ended was because I did not want my son to grow up thinking that the way my husband treated me was an acceptable way to treat women. Post-divorce, I have a high-powered career and a man who adores me. A couple times a week, no matter what I actually look like, he turns to my son and says, "Hey, doesn't your mom look beautiful today?" And my son will say, "Yeah, you do mom." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 05:01 AM |
| 10 | You know what’s attractive? Men who take care of themselves.I'd be careful with the good relationships with family metric. I am estranged from my family for good reasons and people have tried to hold that against me in very extreme and cruel ways. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 04:59 PM |
| 11 | What are your standards for a proposal and ring etc?The #1 standard for me is that the proposal should be about me. I want him to tell me what he loves about me and what makes me special. Watch a few seasons of 90 Day Fiance and see how many dudes' proposals are either totally devoid of content ("so, uh, will you like....yeah?") or make the proposal about themselves ("I'm so happy when I'm with you") Also, if he is serious, he needs to drop some serious cash, like $10k+. Free family heirlooms are also ok but may need to be reset to my taste. I am… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 03:14 PM |
| 12 | It's just a myth that attractive people have terrible personalitiesYes, completely agree. Men who are not conventionally attractive tend to be insecure and are intoxicated by external validation. Someone posted the other day about 90 Day Fiance. There is a guy on that show, Ed, who has a congenital anomaly that made his body grow differently. On the show, he bemoans the fact that his marriage ended due to infidelity... HIS infidelity. You might have imagined that his unattractiveness made him extra-loyal to his wife, who accepted him for who he was. But in fact… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 05:05 PM |
| 4 | The myth that young women will lust after 45 year old men in their apparent ‘peak earning potential’ 🤪Shortly before he filed for divorce, my ex-husband sat me down and calmly explained that: divorce would be great for him, because he would have lots of interest from lots of women, who would be much better than me divorce would be bad for me, because no one else would ever put up with my shit He's 42, bald, fat, and single. My boyfriend is 27 and treats me like a queen. tl;dr YUP | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 09:27 PM |
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