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| 1 | Should I talk to my wife about amicable separation, or should I serve her with divorce papers?This AND set some realistic boundaries and a timeframe. These things can drag out. It is possible to get a lawyer and explain that you want to divorce amicably and they can help you navigate the system. It doesn’t have to be an endless money pit. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/04/26 07:52 PM |
| 1 | Custody ArrangementsMy kids are teenagers and we swap weekly. This is quite common I think. We also swap holiday/school breaks every year, so we end up getting several 2 week chunks during the year. Also have built in two week chunks during summer for vacations. You can set it up however you and your ex agree. As time has distanced from my divorce, I think we have both just tried to be accommodating with each other. This starts with one person and can be contagious. So, you have an opportunity right now to begin. G… | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/04/26 07:46 PM |
| 3 | Do you get Mother's Day gifts for your ex? "From the kids"I learned this the hard way. It can depend slightly on how old the kids are and how important this sort of thing is to your ex (it was very important to my ex as I learned). This might not be the same for everyone, so you can always ask your ex…then you know. That said, I recommend making sure your daughters have something for their mom. A card at minimum. This is more about showing them the importance of recognizing their mom. On the flip side, I never expect anything from my kids or ex on Fath… | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/04/26 09:30 PM |
| 1 | Men of Reddit, what’s the best way for a woman to navigate with separation?If you want to try to repair the relationship, be honest about what you know and how you found out about the ex. If you’re already set on divorce, skip the separation and move forward… no need to bring up the ex. An amicable divorce is possible, but having a lawyer is worth it. The rules (custody, support, etc.) are fairly clear, but the nuances can drag things out. A good lawyer protects your rights and keeps everything moving. Speaking from experience: my ex and I (Also have two kids) tried to… | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/03/26 07:49 PM |
| 3 | Is it a bad idea to blow this whole thing up?Agree. Just let it go. The best revenge is to move on and leave this behind you. You will feel better about yourself by being in control of your own emotions and focusing on making your own life better. Good luck. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/07/23 09:44 PM |
| 1 | Finding your next relationshipSetup and introduced by mutual friends and met at a community event. Pretty old school…I know. Still haven’t had the chance to experience online dating, but it seems like a good option. If I wasn’t seeing someone seriously I’d consider it for sure. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/06/23 09:56 PM |
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