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Just try. You'll fail. You'll be awkward. But you will also learn, and succeed. Take it in stride, and make sure to enjoy yourself :) This is something I need to learn to do.
/r/askTRP27/10/16 04:58 PM
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If you're going to argue against the core tenets of RP in favor of your own beliefs, why are you here? There are certain things I agree with on this sub, but I'm not some sheep who isn't going to remain skeptical of core tenets or top rated threads. Outcome independence (from my perspective, and I could be completely misunderstanding its definition) just doesn't work. I can enjoy the process of reaching a goal, but what actually makes me truly feel accomplished is reaching that goal. A better wa…
/r/askTRP27/10/16 04:52 PM
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But hey if you like being outcome dependent, cool. Being independent of the outcome doesn't lead to mental growth for me since I would be essentially apathetic towards learning anything. The dependent mentality allows me to analyze mistakes, and contemplate ways to improve.
/r/askTRP27/10/16 01:24 PM
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Does being hard on yourself get you anywhere? It got me a job. It's helping me get a promotion. It helped when I used to be a speedrunner for DOOM. It's helping me refrain from porn/masturbation. You get the point.
/r/askTRP27/10/16 06:15 AM
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That is such a fucking entitled attitude. Ok? I'm helping you understand his and many men's perspective on this "issue". I've never bothered with the mating game so I can only give so much input, but men are bothered when they improve many aspects of themselves (status, money, looks, personality, etc), and lose to a guy that got lucky genetically.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/16 11:32 PM
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Makes sense. He gives that woman: Time Attention And essentially deals with whatever she's going to throw at him (shit tests) Mr. Genetics walks in and barely has to do much of the above, and gets sexual satisfaction in a fraction of the time. You really think men want to wait to have sex? Do you really think men of all types frequently want to go through the mating dance without guaranteed sex no matter how on point his/your game is? We're almost "ready" once we see you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/16 03:29 PM
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You could adopt a child and do the above. YOU wanted to have a child (They have no say in this) Consciousness isn't a choice. There are environmental pressures outside your control that can have serious psychological effects on your offspring If you're bloodline has a history of mental illness, there is a fair chance they may have to go through that ordeal if something exacerbates their illness (I'm never reproducing for this reason) Finite amount of resources Among other bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/16 01:52 AM
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Not having kids is selfish because you place your needs and desires above other people's. Having children is selfish in its own right. Either way, you're still selfish.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/16 11:47 PM
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Introversion =/= Shyness, social anxiety, awkward, etc. The problem is people rationalizing that they are introverted instead of socially inept which is softer on the ego. There is scientific evidence that an introverted person's brain is different from someone with an extroverted. Regardless of whether or not you think you're an extrovert or introvert neither of these can change regardless of how much you change your personality.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/16 01:29 PM
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Well, I was hoping you'd research to see what sticks out to you specifically, when I mentioned: Impulsivity, and inattentiveness. You'll have to excuse that about me. Here's a quick, generally universally-applicable, summary - there are five main Hindrances (src: TMI) Appreciate it.
/r/askTRP13/10/16 07:18 PM
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We are just a bunch of organic cells aimlessly burning food and oxygen anyway. That's a funny explanation of us (humans). Had me laughin'.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/16 01:08 AM
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It never really interested me when I learned about it at a young age. I've been fairly apathetic towards dating since I was a young negro, and the only reason why I would do it now is because I'm curious as to how sex feels. I don't have the "game" to skip the dating process either so I'd have to learn the mating game ("RP" style). Maybe even get an escort to learn the ropes to get rid of sex anxiety. I actually didn't realize how important flirting was in my HS years and simply dismissed it bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/16 12:32 AM
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Romantic life doesn't exist for me. Never dated, never kissed/made-out, and obviously haven't had sex I consider myself happier than most men & women who either have no romantic experiences or not getting enough of it. Personally I think I'm luckier than a lot of men due to genetics, but I simply haven't tried to date. I might change something about it. Male (23 1/2) Purple I'd say? With more red tossed into the mix.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/16 12:11 AM
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if you don't want other people to respond to your comments, send a PM. I was just making a clarification (I don't mind if others respond to my comments as I prefer it)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/16 06:02 PM
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I was asking /u/OfSpock, but I do agree with both your points. Still want to know why he/she is generalizing men who have visited prostitutes in a negative manner.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/16 03:02 PM
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And what are these traits?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/16 10:15 AM
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99% of women would run. Oh, I believe you. I just wanted to see some BS here. Please don't delude yourself. Your question is almost like asking a guy, would you date a hot 400 pound woman. The concepts are mutually exclusive. You really think I'm this stupid? Ever think that someone has never bothered trying who's decent looking since they weren't really that interested to begin with?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/16 07:00 AM
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I would assume he's either socially awkward Give me a few examples of what you perceive to be socially awkward?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/16 02:27 PM
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he's just a hot alien dropped on earth to observe human mating, yeah sure why not? Reading this was amusing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/16 10:33 AM
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Care to elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/16 10:32 AM
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You're getting laid with very little investment. I don't think personality matters one bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/16 11:14 AM
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Have you ever had lots of sex with little investment? I have zero experience with "romance/love/affection/intimacy/sex". As in nothing due to a lack of proper understanding of our mating game (That and being psychologically fucked up specifically with emotional connections with people). The idea of sex with little investment makes complete sense to me as it means: Time is saved due to little investment I'm not required to do anything other than learn how to fuck her good and look good. And the o…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/16 11:12 AM
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So this is essentially my answer on that forum. The only response I got was: "I would never waste ten hours talking to a woman for some pussy." And that's how you avoid a TRPer. You do realize this isn't remotely exclusive to a TRPer, and a lot of guys who want to get laid would most likely agree with that statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/16 02:00 PM
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This man speaks some sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/16 03:20 PM
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and I like men with standards. Why would you assume a player has low/little/no standards? You think a high status male (in terms of sex) has low standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/16 12:51 AM
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It is also why a man who gets women to sleep with him quickly is a stud. He convinced women who swore high and low they needed time to get to know him before sleeping with him that doing it "now" was a good idea. Exactly I.e. sealing the deal as quickly as possible - is going to make women think men have no self respect, that they are just sex obsessed, shallow and want to use her without giving anything in return. A man gives a woman: Time Attention Sex I don't see how women can even think the …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 01:37 PM
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I would not want to go out with somebody with so little self-respect that they would want to take any shortcuts to sleeping together without getting to know me a decent amount. How is wanting to fuck as fast as possible with little investment associated with little self-respect?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/16 11:40 PM
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so the backup won't be as painful emotionally. If the guy is pre-planning to upgrade in the future how would it really be painful emotionally?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/16 06:45 AM
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I like the way you think. I'll respond to this in full at a later date.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/16 12:18 PM
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There is no such man in the red pill. They might tell you of how many 8s and 10s they ''bang'' casually per week but that's whole made up. They aren't alpha. I personally do not believe many natural Alphas brag about their sexual escapades. They let their actions speak for themselves and don't really need an ego boost since they are secure about themselves. Speaking as a man who is deprived or romantic love.. meh, I don't really know about being stunted. I'd like to believe there are psychologic…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/16 12:15 PM
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You want a custom abstract drawing akin to this for helping me out?
/r/askTRP11/09/16 04:13 PM
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There is this misconception that "introverts" are quiet, shy, reserved, etc; and that introvert = beta. Let me respectfully correct that misconception. Introversion relates to where you draw your energy and recuperation from. Introverts draw their energy from within; are internally motivated; and they need to rest up by being alone. Extroverts draw their energy from others or activity; are externally motivated; and recharge by interacting with other people. There can be chatty, outgoing introver…
/r/TheRedPill10/09/16 03:40 PM
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This is the best comment I've seen in ages.
/r/askTRP09/09/16 12:43 AM
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but being 100% honest actually is a great way to live. It is the fastest way to get taken advantage of.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 01:28 PM
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Because you are interacting with human beings of the opposite sex, face-to-face, learning real human dynamic and relationships. This is the development time in a young persons life. What if one simply wasn't that interested in dating in the development stage? I didn't understand our mating game at all (as in not knowing chemistry, flirting, emotional connection, etc), and I thought it wasn't that important (It obviously is). This computer/internet /cellphone shit is fucking young people up, lock…
/r/askTRP05/09/16 10:29 PM
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Why should first dates be at 16?
/r/askTRP05/09/16 02:31 PM
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The woman's body contains the prize. The uterus that will grow a baby. She is whole, and contains everything needed to continue the human race (apart from a seed). I understand and like the "Prize Mentality" espoused on TRP, but I feel as though a lot of men are deluding themselves when they actually see themselves as a prize even though generally speaking they (men) still do the hunting and are not the selectors. I guess logically we'd be the prize? Beyond all of the above, we're all still like…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/16 11:46 AM
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There is no biological imperative. That's such a weird construct. Care to elaborate? I agree with the statement and I'm a virgin. Seems like it's explained very well here Besides, no one mocks sexually successful people that are infertile. That's because they're successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/16 11:30 AM
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Sounds like you've got a lot on your plate, bud. You getting help? Medicated, and finally employed making 9USD per hour (A lot of money for a guy like me) with not an ounce of psychotic symptoms. Cut the the porn for the most part, and lowered the masturbation heavily. Mentally I feel better with both out of the equation, but I'm rather impulsive so... Just recently got "A Black Man's Guide Out of Poverty", and "What Every Body Is Saying" so one will help financially and help me reflect on how I…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/16 12:56 AM
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how did it affect your dating life and other aspects of your dating life Never dated before in my life. I have zero experience with women (as in none at all and I'm in my early 20's) My mother attempted to explain the "proper method" of dating, and I really didn't take any of her advice because it didn't make much sense to me. I have very little interest in dating (schiziod personality traits mixed in with fear of intimacy) , but I need to start somewhere if I want to get a notch count of 1. and…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/16 12:34 PM
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If sometimes equates to "in my leisure time" or some iteration of that then it shouldn't be a problem. If you're like me though (approximately 1hr everyday even if I know something else needs to be worked on such as reading or working out)...might want to work on yourself.
/r/askTRP13/08/16 03:08 PM
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What is love from your perspective?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/16 01:34 PM
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You're right, without having this in your life, you're missing out. Would you consider sex to be one of the most important aspects of life?
/r/askTRP10/08/16 02:42 PM
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Love is simply lust, infatuation, and an amalgamation of strong emotions. It is irrational, conditional, capricious, and is an arbitrary abstract concept. From a biological/physiological standpoint it's a chemical process.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/16 06:21 AM
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False. Look this information up as I'm tired of explaining something so simple to people, especially when there is a plethora of information regarding extrovert/introvert. Introverts can be outgoing, social adept, etc they simply recharge alone, and lose energy socializing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/16 04:05 PM
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I have no clue how to properly express my sexuality. I don't think with my dick much, which is odd. I have no romantic/sexual/sensual/dating experience (as in zero/none/nada) with women at age 23 which doesn't help with confidence. I don't really flirt or maybe I'm not a good one. It's happened before (touching, teasing, maybe an ass smack), but for the most part I didn't flirt because it didn't really make sense to me when I was in High School (Yes, I didn't realize flirting is apart of our mat…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/16 07:55 PM
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Introversion usually correlates to those things unless you consciously work them out. Agreed. It's just gettin' annoying seeing RP members constantly misuse introvert/introversion without bothering to read what it really is.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/16 07:14 PM
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You don't overcome something innate. Introversion =/= shyness, socially inept, not outgoing, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/16 06:54 PM
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as /u/FrogTrainer said, ask questions. You never know if you can contribute something to a conversation unless you ask about the topic. Be comfortable with not knowing things. I'd say it's more confident to ask about something you know nothing about, than to stand/sit there not knowing anything (you can be perceived as being awkward even if you're comfortable). But what the hell do I know? I've had and still do have the problem you face, but asking questions has always worked for me, and as a bo…
/r/askTRP22/07/16 12:23 PM
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I'm not understanding the part about being an introvert. There is no problem coming off as an introvert.
/r/askTRP22/07/16 12:00 PM
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WTF? You are going nowhere without actually caring about other people...all the gimmicks. routines, or practice in the universe isn't going to do anything for you unless you become interesting enough yourself to want to care about other people... Not that I won't attempt to become more interesting, but I highly doubt I'll actually start caring about people if I became more interesting. As much as I've tried, it's very hard to make an emotional connection to others. Why socialize at all if you do…
/r/askTRP18/07/16 09:52 PM
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I am the company I keep, so I suppose it's time for me to become more interesting and also not care what others think of what I enjoy.
/r/askTRP18/07/16 09:45 PM
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Because I have zero interest in what they are as people, which is fucked up, but I've been working on it. We are very similar in that regard. I too shall work on that.
/r/askTRP18/07/16 09:45 PM
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Another tip, don't be so inside your head when you're out. I've found when I'm monitoring every action I make and judging everyone as they are talking, I'm out of the moment and not genuine. My problem is that if I don't do either of these the conversation dies off. In mid conversation I'm generally attempting to predict what they're going to say or figure out something to say after the person I'm engaging with is done speaking. I'm very "robotic", but not to the point where people notice. Just …
/r/askTRP18/07/16 09:44 PM
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Would you recommend "What Everybody is Saying" for someone who just figured out what body language is last year? It's hard to study something when you have no idea what to look for.
/r/askTRP18/07/16 09:37 PM
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Comment saved* Small talk has never been something I'm good at (it's also somewhat annoying too), but I now realize how important it is if you want to become better at socializing. I've yet to understand body language properly, but I'll keep that in mind. Thanks.
/r/askTRP18/07/16 09:34 PM
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Where the fuck did you get this idea from It wasn't uncommon that me and my friends were ridiculed or ostracized for our interests in video games, science, and the like. Not uncommon to be called awkward or have someone tell you straight to your face they don't care about what you know or pretend to be interested and make sarcastic comments. I adopted an alternate persona of someone who was not a nerd and I managed to be included in more social circles in HS. Most people never knew about my actu…
/r/askTRP18/07/16 09:25 PM
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The big difference is guidance/nurturing/stability. There was no guidance. Sporadic nuturing (no father, and mother worked most of the time). And since there was hardly a family foundation the stability was subpar.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/16 01:10 PM
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From personal experience being raised by a single mother I'd say yes. My mothers advice: Be nice to them Open the door for them Smile more often around girls Pay for their dinner/movie, whatever You'll find the one Etc I didn't follow any of it (aside from the rare slip up with a compliment) and swore off dating if that's what I'm "supposed to do". I got luckier than a lot of other guys I read about or see irl who were raised by single mothers because I was always rebellious instead of a Good ob…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/16 11:17 PM
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Guidelines, not rules. Please excuse my impulsivity.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/16 08:52 PM
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Take off your fucking hat. Seriously. Doesn't matter if you're bald. You're inside, hat off. Hell no. My visor beanie complements my personal style. Never had anyone complain anywhere about me having my hat on.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/16 08:11 PM
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Poor work history (which makes it harder to get even a low wage job) I've also had mental break downs at 2 of my jobs so there's that. Laziness/depression Underdeveloped (I'm essentially a boy in a man's body) A slew of psychological issues it seems (diagnosed with Bipolar Disorder depressive type). No ambition/motivation
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/16 12:26 PM
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Then go to more parties? Don't you have friends? I have friends, but they're more prone to go to a bar than party (although apparently they do party at the bar). Make friends with people who are in the scene, ravers, emos, alternative people. Not into partying, but if I have to fake a personality and be someone I'm not to get laid I'll eventually do that. Become more open if your problem is that you socially isolate yourself. By more open do you mean talk about yourself or be more outgoing? Notc…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/16 12:42 AM
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?? How can you be an incel if you have looks going for you?? Parties? Nightclubs? rave clubs? Hello? I've only ever been to one party Nightclubs are a waste of money (shit music, expensive drinks) I don't party or go to many social gatherings as it's generally a waste of money for a broke nigga like me. Plus if you're socially inept looks only take you so far Hookers? Don't have the money, nor do I have a vehicle hookers don't count. He wants sex, he doesn't want public toilets. I don't see why …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/16 12:09 AM
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In terms of physical fitness? Try at least 5 days a week (almost near my football days). Social Skills? Still trying. Occupation/Money? Hardly ever try. I'm essentially a NEET at the age of 23. Developing Game? Have yet to do that. Developing an interesting life? Somewhat given up, but I doubt it's because I don't get laid. The only thing I have going for me is looks and that's the smallest fraction of game.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/16 10:37 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/4o22iz/premature_ejaculation_help/
/r/askTRP15/06/16 10:46 AM
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Let's say a female incel is propositioned by the male equivalent: terrible attitude, loud mouthed, ugly, obviously doesn't take care of himself. No way a woman would be able to get wet and enjoy sex. Do you think she should just lower her standards and deal because bad sex is better than no sex? If you know you're not going to enjoy the experience at all why even bother? Is being incel just that bad for people that they're willing to stoop that low for sex? She's/he's a minus 1.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/16 06:27 PM
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Well then. My answer still stands. I may be incel but I'm not even remotely close to being that desperate (I'm hardly ever desperate for sex/companionship/romance). She has a terrible attitude, loud mouthed, ugly, and obviously doesn't take care of herself. There would be no way I'd be able to have an erection from her.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/16 09:40 AM
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Not at all. Is this serious?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/16 03:06 AM
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Have you ever flirted with someone who was completely oblivious to it? Don't know how to flirt. Were you ever completely oblivious to someone flirting with you? Yes, due to not being able to detect what flirting is and my lack of ability to understand body language properly. Lots of missed chances.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/16 07:29 PM
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This is the answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/16 04:33 PM
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The challenge for you would be to find and give meaning to your life in ways very different from how others do it. This is the absolute challenge of my life and has been ever since the end of high school. Can't live in a state of paracosm, workout, live off the government and play video games for the rest of my days. I appreciate your time sir. Take care.
/r/askTRP20/01/16 01:22 AM
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Never dated nor put myself in a situation to date. Never partied nor have I really hung out with a lot of people. I'm generally apathetic towards any form of intimacy so sex/relationships/etc has never been a strong priority even though society in America puts a lot of emphasis on sex. The more I was taught about dating, the less I wanted to do it. I'd say I'm one of the lucky few incel virgins who doesn't loose his shit from not getting any.
/r/askTRP19/01/16 11:43 PM
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First, you have to define clearly what success and happiness in your life means. This will be something I'll have to contemplate, and I appreciate the good response.
/r/askTRP19/01/16 12:25 PM
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Understood. Ambition has probably been my #1 problem. Thanks.
/r/askTRP19/01/16 12:24 PM
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Incel Kissless Virgin, although at first glance I look nothing like one.
/r/askTRP19/01/16 12:04 PM
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Nah. That A3 Swag.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/16 12:23 AM
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Your first two points I've been doing for over a year with very little results. I have bipolar disorder as well so that could probably be the issue. That and the fact that I sleep better during the day than at night, but my schedule doesn't allow for that usually. I shall attempt to turn off the computer screen before sleep
/r/askTRP
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Regular smoking fucks with your quality of sleep My quality of sleep is worse without weed. What have you used as a substitute for weed when it comes to sleep?
/r/askTRP
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My first kiss was at 22. First sex 22 or 23 (hazy 6 years ago, I was also a chronic stoner for a while). Did you cut cannabis from your life completely or did you simply slow down a lot? I feel that I need to stop smoking completely for at least a month and restrict it to nighttime only. Avoid dopamine addict behaviours (porn, shitty food, internet, vidéo games). Work on yourself. Porn and shitty food are out. I'm going to have a fair amount of issues with the internet and gaming though. Cut bac…
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Getting started is a lot easier than it seems though. What makes you say that? I don't disagree, but I'd like to hear your opinion on that. Just do some pua reading (might skip it but it helps) and start approaching, you'll score soon enough. The optimism is strong with you, heh.
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When it comes to an actual relationship, that usually brings the opposite of happiness... The most down I've ever been, the most down I've seen friends, is when they're in a relationship that's turning. I was specifically talking about sexual relationships/casual dating instead of monogamy/LTRs/serious relationships
/r/askTRP
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Bear in mind that having a "natural" relationship with a woman will not make you happy but as long as you do think that's dragging you down, it will do so. By natural relationship I mean sex.
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You are going to fuck up to start with, it's going to hurt and you are going to be awkward as fuck. However if you do it often enough, laugh at yourself, be disciplined and set yourself goals, you will be backflipping in no time. I'm most likely not going to laugh at myself, especially if I fuck up. I understand that it will happen, but I've always been hard on myself. In other words, start chatting to girls, going on dates, hanging out with groups of people, etc. This is the big issue. And I'm …
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