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No human being has the right to another human beings body. The woman's actions brought on the life of the child. She invited it in.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 08:21 AM
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Who cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 08:20 AM
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Because they'd be allowed to, no man would report them. Only men would ever get called out for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 08:19 AM
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You think its only creepy during the introduction, let me tell you it can be creepy at any time. Ever have a guy reject you, you were being creepy. Why didn't you just read his cues?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 08:17 AM
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At the point the child is born is when the problems start. Thats what you think. But the child can't take care of itself same as in the womb so kill it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 08:15 AM
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So what not all families have the same amount of money. How wealthy you are doesn't determine how good of a person you are or how happy you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 08:14 AM
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And that doesn't mean that women can steal and impregante themselves with it and force men to fund their lifestyles. You might as well say kidnapping is okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 08:13 AM
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its literally the childs body.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 08:10 AM
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THIS. "Financial abortion" just turns the average taxpayer into cucks for irresponsible men. You assume women wouldn't change their behaviour to accomodate. Women can fuck around now because they are completely secure in fucking men over. Men who complain about having unwanted babies are just as idiotic and irresponsible as women who complain about getting knocked up by assholes. Yes and women can murder their babies and everyone is fine with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 08:07 AM
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Is Abortion empathetic? too who?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 08:05 AM
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Then women don't control their bodies. Sperm is obscenely easy to get.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 07:54 AM
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how do you punish a father for her irresponsible choice without punishing the child?? This is the sort of sick attitude women use to protect themselves using your children. If a woman wants the child it isnt a punishment.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 07:53 AM
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What kind of society willingly allows children to grow up in poverty? This is basically normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 07:50 AM
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Lol Don't have sex. Women can literally pay to assasinate a baby, is that worse than it living in poverty? If yes the kill all the homeless.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 07:48 AM
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You said it's child abuse so the forfeit their right to a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 07:47 AM
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Only rich women should have children then. I love how women are wonderful till it comes to raising a child and we agree they can be monsters and damage their children.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 07:46 AM
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Women should be required to inform the father asap however. Waiting has to negate this or all women would do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 07:43 AM
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Safe from what their own delusions that they're one compliment away from being raped?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 07:41 AM
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being creepy is objective.\ no because almost any sex, flirting, sexting would be creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 07:40 AM
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Why don't you stare?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 07:38 AM
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saying no to sexual coercion in the workplace with a power imbalance and claiming that feminists are banning all flirting ever They are. Most women's complaints aren't about extreme behaviour at all
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 07:36 AM
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neither do women apparently. It's subjective.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 07:34 AM
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They should. Non retard females understand how clothing can be sexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 07:33 AM
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Its lording sexual power over men. Thats why modesty exists. Its Sexual, you are being sexually aggressive wearing things like that. Sexualized in the media is sexualized in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 07:32 AM
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Women are triggered if they have a sexy woman on their shirt. Also complimenting a woman is not a threat of anything. Slippery Slope.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 07:30 AM
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Female perversion is walking outside with their shit hanging out, to bad we can't call them on it. If you think a certain outfit is sexually suggestive on tv don't wear it in public. If it's sexualized on a child it's also sexualized on and adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 07:28 AM
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And if we avoided eye contact you'd think thats creepy to.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 07:26 AM
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Whast is a non creepy approach a man could do, now think about if you'd ever consider it creepy if another man did it . Is it realistic for a man to do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 07:24 AM
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Then don't go outside where a creep man can be standing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 07:22 AM
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Yes and she can still want to be platonic and you've gone into creep territory.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 07:20 AM
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You talk to a woman like a normal human being, This can be creepy you give IOIs during the conversation Very Creepy flirt, see if they flirt back and then one asks the other out. Mega Creeper Creepasaurous rex You aren't creep till you are, you can walk away right after but you're still a creep.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 07:19 AM
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How can you know how a woman is going to feel. I've stopped talking to a woman because I thought she was creeped out only for her to get angry at me for doing so.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 07:16 AM
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Being overly cautious is also seen as creepy and some women take offense because you're protecting yourself, lol. Women are as socially capable as a baboon, they only look proficient because nothing is expected of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 07:13 AM
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Sexual liberation opened up the door for creepines because we were told women's sexualities are the same as men's. Don't blame us for your social engineering. For the other things you mention, why should you stare indiscreetly or comment suggestively to a stranger? A compliment is one thing, a leer is another. No one give a shit about those because they're obvious its the things that are in the gray area that matter and effect us most and women simply deny it. I think women are sadists.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 07:08 AM
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You've never sexted.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 07:06 AM
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Its also not something that men choose to do, it's how you feel. Men who approach never intend to be creepy why the fuck would they want that? To fail, to get me tooed. Women live in fear because of a gender role women force on men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 07:04 AM
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This is moralizing women's sexuality. Looks absolutely have ton to do with creepiness. Also you totally contadict yourself .
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 07:01 AM
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Most women don't think they can rape or abuse men. Thats far worse and actually a real opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 06:58 AM
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because they can get away with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 06:56 AM
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Women can't figure out if a man will commit or really likes them. Same thing, except I can't get a woman fired from work because she asked for more.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 06:54 AM
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Not true. However the vast majority of creeps never do this but its also our role to initiate sex so the standard is extremely fucked up. Its also why asking for consent is stupid, because it itself is essentially creepy and needs the proper context.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 06:49 AM
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When I don’t like you, When I’m not giving you attention in return., When you assume a level of intimacy I’m not comfortable with and no man can know these things, theferfore reverse the roles of stfu. Your adhearance to gender roles is why you are creeped out.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 06:42 AM
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But I also think ALL women have been bothered by a creepy guy. Total red light. Gtfo. And yet he persists Women play hard to get, that is true. I've been wrong about a girl liking me as much as I've been about a girl not liking me. It looks very similar because a girl who likes you tries to hide it and a girl who doesn't acts friendly. Sometimes women act totally incongruant. ​ He had to have known I adored him. Just blurts out and asks if I wanted to stop a motel. and? You should have gone, you…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 06:38 AM
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If I found him unattractive? If I’m not interested, I might smile but when I sense he is headed my way to make contact? I shut that shit down ASAP. I don’t make anymore eye contact. I no longer smile. I might even face away unless it’s an abandoned street. Yes but women who liek you are often shy, and just because a woman si smiling doesn't mean she wants you to approach. Again your cues are mostly useless because they're just cues. They aren't agreed upon or widely distributed. The girls at wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 06:34 AM
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Thats the general energy coming from the feminist crowd which has massive social power these days. heres an incident of sexual harassment https://twitter.com/chris_notcapn/status/1387756701525422087
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 06:30 AM
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Yes but I want to make approach and dating safer for men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 06:29 AM
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All crimes should also be subjective.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 06:27 AM
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Yes and every woman is different and you aren't going to get it right everytime. If women have such a problem with it and are so good at reading cues reverse the roles. It's a lot easier not looking like a creep when you never approach. Even the immense simp feminist Dr. Nerd Love pulled a pro gamer move and got metooed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 06:26 AM
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If you're attracted to him. Most of the romance plots are creepy as fuck if you take attraction away from the context. Stop gaslighting.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 06:20 AM
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Thats why relationships are not for men and women wanting them from men is wrong. Men don't expect women to meet most of their needs women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 06:14 AM
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because the one that benefits more would do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 06:13 AM
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It does because the current metoo culture is based on it. Women don't want to recognize creepiness is subjective for some reaosn.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 06:08 AM
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thats not creepy though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 06:07 AM
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Anythign thats creepy could be considered romanitc or assertive if the girl is attracted to the guy. As soon as women realize this they'll understand why men are so creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 06:06 AM
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who I can have a family with and will provide for that family Archaic neanderthal view, honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 05:55 AM
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fine but women shouldn't be suprised men aren't going for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 05:52 AM
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It wouldn't be different if she is just standing there. Part of creepiness is that women will rationalize any situation in this way where she is unavailable. If they were at a bar and she was sitting alone, she'd say she just wanted a drink and he harassing her.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 05:37 AM
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Has your friend ever pointed to a random guy minding his own business and said he looks creepy? It happens all the time. Being ugly for a woman isn't great but for a man it's patholigized. Ugly men = criminals/rapists.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 05:35 AM
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They need to spend more then men, they need to care for children more then men. Because they've taken men's reproductive rights away don't fucking argue that women should get custody 90% of the time, initiate most of the divorces and then complain women are doing all the child rearing. Men did almost all of the child rearing in the past because they got all the custody, women decided to change that. ​ The fact most homeless women end up prostitutes for a place to sleep isnt a boon. Men don't eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 05:32 AM
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Why should there be a rape exception, feminists already label men as potential rapists so women should prepare themselves the same as for safe sex. Women can buy an assortment of weapons to protect themselves with.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 05:18 AM
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The vast majority of FDS is women in their 30s, 40s hence the overlap with dating over 30/40. You don't need FDS as a 21 year old girl, abusing and using men is pretty par for the course for women your age.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 05:12 AM
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Why would you marry a man if you hate men?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 05:10 AM
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Good men should pay for bad men, then the same goes for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 05:08 AM
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shitty manipulative behaviour is taught as gospel in regards to how women date and this is very common.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 05:03 AM
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Men have few reproductive rights so children are women's burden.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 04:55 AM
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I wonder which gender would complain more?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 04:54 AM
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I say talk to women at work but absolutely do not pursue just let them tie themselves in knots trying to get your attention, I don't think you'll have trouble if you are 100k guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 04:51 AM
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Most men already compliment woman and affirm them. They also physically show affection so clearly you are full of shit. You can't start from touch either. I think you mean women are most comfortable with getting money as a sign of "love".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 04:49 AM
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Its already happening men are dropping out. The problem with PPD is all the women are middle aged and married. Their opinions don't fucking matter yet they persist here.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 04:47 AM
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literally have sex with anyone. because sex is scarce for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 04:39 AM
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Women think sex is payment for everything a man does for them and enough of a reason that he should marry them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 04:39 AM
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no-dating policy might effect women? It would never effect women. They're only put in place for men. If a woman started fucking some guy in the group he'd be blamed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 04:30 AM
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It's still risky and comes with an enormous stigma if you get it even slightly wrong. Its unfair is the point. It also comes with literally no advice that could actually work across most groups of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 04:28 AM
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When I say scarce I mean almost nothing or nothing. Women aren't starving in the US or as homeless as men are, they can shack up with a Beta any time. Sex is scarce for men, not for women. Hence women don't experience scarcity in almost anyway, it's somethign women simply cannot understand. You can get sex and a relationship anytime. Women are waiting for better option, men have an empty bowl. Why would you bring up the third world? The vast majority of investment in males in poor countries is d…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 04:20 AM
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Women have shit personalities and thats why men don't stay and only want to fuck. It's a huge problem but part of it is that women simply think socializing is a man's job in a relationship. Their job is to complain, hence shitty personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 04:16 AM
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Women are about as likable as men are millionaires
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 04:12 AM
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It isn't because the more a woman makes the more she expects.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 04:10 AM
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No it's not. Women are not entitled to relationships. If women want to give you sex it perfectly fine to take it and not give anythign in return. It's nice guy logic for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 04:10 AM
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it is you think women want to marry every man they date, fuck them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 04:09 AM
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It's bizarre how stigmatized pursueing women is all while it is expected. Its as if we're supposed to stumble upon love randomly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 04:07 AM
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some meetups have a no-dating rule. Do not try to date in the no-dating rule meet ups. If this isn't proof that male sexuality isn't stigmatized I don't know what is. There isn't a single place where you can be sure talking to women is okay even in a place meant to socialize.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 04:04 AM
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I think you should still recognize it as wrong but I assume it will only be as bad when it effect women which it clearly is starting to. Let me give you a bit of perspective If I went to the phillipines I'd have the SMV of an average overweight female in the west here, basically a god. I'd be judged for that negatively here but why shouldn't women be judged. Men and Women should have about equal power for society to function properly. I don't mind the collapse because I hate women and I know the…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 04:02 AM
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Most women know they don't offer much it's part of their fantasies of being a princess and gaining wealth by marrying an obsenely high status rich handsome man for the price of existing and being decent looking. Its practically injustice for a woman to marry an equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 03:54 AM
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Which is why you ask a girl out.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 03:52 AM
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You show your age most young women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 03:45 AM
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Thats what serial killers get.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 03:45 AM
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Requiring an investment of money helps discourage these types of men from trying to take advantage of you. It doesn't most men know they need to pay to play. Also most men don't know if they want a relationship from looking at you and a short convo. It would be equivalent to saying women like you because she accepted a date from you or let you pay. ​ Who do you think is more interested/attracted - the man who volunteers to pay instantly, or the man who is reluctant to do so? Its a social norm it…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 03:29 AM
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Men have low standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 03:26 AM
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Then stop posting here.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 03:24 AM
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We're not sexually indiscriminate by choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 03:19 AM
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Unfortunately I've been in too many relationships with takers. I doubt it since you got trigger by paying for the third date. What do you mean by generous. and what do you mean by this ​ most men aren't comfortable expressing affection in any other way. I'd much rather cuddle and hold hands with a girl than buy her stuff. Buying a woman things is as impersonal as it gets, I feel nothign from it. It's bizarre that women think its a sign of being loved.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 03:15 AM
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I'll pay as long as I get sex until I'm disinterested and ghost her. I don't believe in relationships, what do women even do in them besides ask for more. I don't need someone constantly asking for more when I mostly want to be left alone, and occasionally want some affection and sex. I can't believe people engage in this weird shit where they spend all their time together.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 03:11 AM
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Women will never invite just complain that you stopped inviting them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 03:06 AM
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Incels aren't MRAs and most Incels aren't murderes. You're more at risk from Radical Islam
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 02:59 AM
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Women don't put even less effort online than in person so I see why you like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 02:58 AM
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No man want to pay for your date no matter how much he loves you, it's all forced. Also he's definitely not going to want to pay if he doesn't know you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 02:56 AM
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Back then, I was making $125K-$175K. You're going to be alone the rest of your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 02:50 AM
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You want a guy to spend $5,200 on you a year at least. What do you offer in exchange?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 02:49 AM
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This is why men only want sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 02:48 AM
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and if you appraoch them, to the campus trial you will go. "I was just trying to study".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 02:46 AM
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Normal men don't get love letters from 100s of women. Women have this bizarre fantasy of controlling a psycho who would never hurt them by fucking him into submission. Sex is the hammer that solves all problems with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 02:44 AM
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If women pursued and where tasked with escalation they'd suffer less rape and harassmentr. Most harassment and rape isn't even intentional thats how you know things are broken. Men aren't hopping out of bushes raping women, but failing to escalate exactly how women would like. I've been pursued and harssed by women but I understand that harassment goes with the territory of being pursued. Men cannot read minds and consent can't be given with any validity because of feminist rationalization #1231…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 02:43 AM
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To a feminist the average man is a rapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 02:39 AM
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I cross the street when I see black males coming towards me, but I'm not a racist. All of these problems would end if women took the initiative and men selected.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 02:34 AM
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So men shouldn't get married because of divorce statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 02:34 AM
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Do you think approaching strangers in public is creepy?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 02:31 AM
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How would they get to know you without asking you out?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 02:31 AM
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My friend dated a girl for 4 years she wanted to marry him but eventually the broke up. A year or two later when he got engaged his ex sent a letter to where he lived accusing him of raping her, clearly meant for his fiance. Women revoke consent when the relationship doesn't go their way.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 02:30 AM
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Winning women over sounds like the rape culture women have been complaining about.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 02:10 AM
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I'm willing to wait but I can't prove a girl is a virgin or not. Also girls have always wanted to have sex before I did and it is usaully on the second or even first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 02:07 AM
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Most women won't deny men paying if they just see them as a friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 02:02 AM
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Its women who are holding onto trad roles form women. Women don't have any role at all in western society.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 01:58 AM
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feminism and equality feminism isn't about equality its a consipracy theory meant to promote the hatred of men. The patriarchy is equivalent to the zog machine in neo-nazism. Sexual harassment is a far larger problem in Europe and is far more trad in Southern Europe. It sounds like an excuse to me. You sound like a MGTOW praising philipino and thai women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 01:56 AM
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They don't men are seen as servants. We're almost in Jim Crows levels of shaming to the point we won't be able to look at women directly in public without being accused of male gaze.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 01:48 AM
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Do you think a man is entitled if he expects her to shave when he won’t? I doubt any man would make scrupples about shaving but feminists think men will immediately kill them if they ask a man for anything. I shave my pubes because they're annoying. ​ Do you think he is cheap when he expects her to pay money to put on makeup/hairdressers when he doesn’t? Would you date man who wore makeup?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 01:45 AM
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Except that I don't pursue men. I only date men who pursue me. Sounds like entitlement and insecurity all rolled up in one. I'm not going to invest in a woman just because of looks. Makeup and surgery is all an attempt for shitty women to not work on themselves. It like the shine on cheap chinese plastic products.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 01:34 AM
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Then don't put on makeup. Makeup is about women trying to gain power over men and other women it has nothign to do with pleasing men. Women are barely traditional.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 01:31 AM
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The fact that women need to be paid for their time when socializing with men shows how much they value and respect men
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 01:26 AM
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as a man you already saw what you liked in that woman and decided you wanted to date her, whereas the date she agreed to is the actual way by which she decides she wants to date you You just like the way she looks and her accepting is literally the same thing. Women aren't forced to date men they aren't interested in. ​ no, the woman agreeing to the date isn't an equal transaction, since most men are simple and already saw the traits they liked in the woman they asked out It is looks aren't enou…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 01:24 AM
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When you go to the bar with your girlfriend does the person who invited you pay for all your drinks. It's just defacto trad gender roles via the fact that women wil never approach because of said trad gender roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 01:22 AM
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Men do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 01:20 AM
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Having sex with a woman is the price of me paying for her date, picking and planning the date, showering, getting dressed, and listening to her boring female bullshit while leading the conversation most of the time all this while under the threat of doing a bit of a metoo mistake during one of the 20 escalations from stranger to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 01:18 AM
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You act as if feminism isn't open misandry and it still accomplishes a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 01:15 AM
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Lets take the very serious threat of man spreading.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 01:14 AM
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mostly in a feminists imagination.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 01:13 AM
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Giving woman sex isn't being treated like shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 01:13 AM
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Women wanted sexual liberation they got it. Women told men that women want sex the same way men do. Now they're bitching men aren't trad enough and maid up demi-sexual to walk back their feminist bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 01:12 AM
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If a guy doesn't want more than sex it's because you suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 01:10 AM
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doubt the level of inceldom and female worship is hitting critical levels.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 01:09 AM
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Most women want a man who is better than them. Literally didn't understand the anology. You can only buy something of equal or lesser value.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 12:58 AM
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yes and when a man shows up they expect him to do all the talking.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 12:56 AM
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Creepyiness is subjective, my thick accented indian friend got metooed at work for putting his hand on the back of a woman's chair while talking to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 12:54 AM
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I find treating women well degrading like paying for their meals, approaching them, and helping them with chores.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 12:45 AM
2

letting a guy fuck you isn't everything. It's literally the most minimal thing to be considered to be in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 12:33 AM
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Most women can't make conversation. It's another thing that up to men to do. When you go out with friends you split the bill, when penis human comes around he pays. Same thing with conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 12:30 AM
1

Abortion would be illegal if men could get pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 12:27 AM
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Yes but FDSers are low effort. Why would a man invest in some selfish FDS bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 12:25 AM
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Yes but when the burden of conversation hits a woman even slightly shes gone. Women never expect to invest more than men. Women look to keep men in perpetual depth in everyway possible to feed off the sunk cost fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 12:18 AM
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If that were the case more women would go into STEM. Women don't avoid STEM because of misogyny but men they don't want to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 12:16 AM
3

Self improvement is me not dating fat women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 12:14 AM
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FDS is new because it is only now that women are smashing into the wall. Also feminism predates the RedPill by 40 years and FDS is just a selection of misandrist feminist ideas plus the traditionalism they didn't want in their 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 12:13 AM
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women should have reasonable dating standards based on the men available. Not make it it Chad or top 1% guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 12:09 AM
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I expect him to do half but not me is LVF energy that FDS has and honestly most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 12:07 AM
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When a woman complains about her asshol boyfriend its usually because he refuses to do somethign she wants and he doesn't. Women seem to be obsessed with controlling men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 12:06 AM
2

feel pressure to make conversation I knew women were boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 11:58 PM
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When does the FDSer put in effort. Maybe in an effort post.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 11:57 PM
1

and FDS sees treating men awell as misogyny, entitlement, and abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 11:56 PM
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Not helping with cleaning isn't contempt when no one from FDS would ever get under a car or mowe a lawn.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 11:56 PM
2

Imagine going to the store and trying to buy something that is equal or more to the amount of money you have.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 11:54 PM
2

the higher earning partner always gets their ass kicked in divorce lmfao. Women won't marry a man who makes less than them. Its defacto sexist. No one should get the other parties wealth. ​ men who ask for custody get custody more than women No they don't men almost never get exclusive custody if they ask for joint yes but it still favors the woman heavily. ​ the man whose partner doesn’t want an abortion is free to get a vasectomy. or use condoms Women have far more types of contraception but c…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 11:52 PM
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Most women are about to be excluded from the gene pool because they thought they were too good for men because they made 40k a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 11:43 PM
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They been sexless for the past 10 years is my point. That number is rising and FDS is the wall catching up.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 11:36 PM
1

And you're alone why?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 11:29 PM
0

Women aren't entitled to a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 11:27 PM
1

Making less money or being shorter than a woman is misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 11:26 PM
1

Women were never good.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 11:14 PM
1

Is it because men think women can be their maids? No maids are cheaper than wives. Women clean more primarily because they're more controlling and neurotic.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 11:04 PM
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You post on FDS so I doubt you're a great person.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 11:00 PM
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I’ll have more money with 60k alone then with someone who I have to pull their weight financially too. Women once again prove they can't do math. Also I assumed that you'd be okay with him making more and being a financial burden. Women are hypocrites as usual.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 10:56 PM
1

Do women expect to help men?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 10:55 PM
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Woman are by far and average more responsible then men. Men are the gender more likely to have destructive emotional outbursts. More likely to take frivolous risks. More likely to struggle to accept other points of view. It's not woman who act like teenagers. Women don't experience scarcity, it's like you were born into a privileged family. Women are mad the railing isn't mad of gold, while men don't have a roof over their head.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 10:51 PM
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but are convinced that all women are manipulative and evil gold diggers who always cheat and lie and blah blah blah 60% of marriages end in divorce, women initiate the majority of them and they wildy benefit at the expense of men from them. If you question it women say they deserve icompensation for being married. So yes women are evil. In addition when it comes to preganancy they don't give a shit that a man has a choice they're fine with forcing a man to have a child and just chide them with t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 10:49 PM
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It's different because Men are punching up. Women control the sexual market place.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 10:43 PM
1

Women's dating strategy is all one and the same, exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 10:42 PM
1

What is playing hard to get. Negging is totally over blown. Women's entire sexual domination of the market place is based on men being lesser than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 10:38 PM
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There isn't one because most women look to take advantage of men. It's why female fantasies include men dying for them, or entirely changing to fit their needs. Feminism is about men taking women as they are and getting nothing they want while controlling everything men do, it is servitude. If you concede women want these things you can't see them as morally superior the way most women think they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 10:36 PM
1

Men don't need to be perfect to be love or get fucked. But this trash tyranny of misogyny has got to do. From listening to what women want I don't believe this. Feminism literally exist to make women feel insecure about not having the perfect man, contributing in anyway to a relationship, or changing anything about themselves to get the sort of man they want. It's also massively popular. Most women are feminists, the same would happen if TRP was taught in schools, a common topic in the news, and…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 10:33 PM
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The media and academia is already an echo chamber for misandry.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 10:20 PM
2

more like all media, news, movies, and academia.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 10:20 PM
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FDS is bigger than any incel sub has ever been and in a much shorter time. Witchesvspatriarchy is also misandrist. TwoXChromosome with 12millions user is also Misandrist.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 10:19 PM
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Women control sex and relationships. The oppressed hate their oppressors. Women complaining their slaves aren't slave enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 10:16 PM
1

Thats all true though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 10:15 PM
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FDS is the wall happening. There was a decade of incels, puas, and red pill. Now those girls we were supposed to be in relationships with turned 30 and FDS was made.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 10:04 PM
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Women initiate most of the break ups. Virginity doesn't mean quality, a quality woman who is a virgin is what I mean, that is easy to fall in love with and commit to. Non-virgins will always give men more doubt.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 10:03 PM
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Men don't stare at vaginas, boobs and butts yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 09:59 PM
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Not chance of divorce. What'll happen in a divorce. People wore a mask for the past year because 1% chance of getting some disease but jump into a 50/50 situation of losing half their wealth. ​ I personally made it very clear to my husband that he should bring watermelon to the beach. He doesn't have to do what you command.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 12:11 PM
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Men are that rigid for marriage, falling in love is a lot easier with a virgin girl who he likes than one who isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 12:08 PM
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Hot women are nicer, ugly women are atrociously bitter and defensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 12:07 PM
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yes it's why men complain about how awful women are. Be better.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 12:06 PM
1

Would it make sense for women to go to school 200 years ago. Doubt. How many men went, probably a tiny minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 12:05 PM
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I am talking about mutual get togethers So a date. You're just PCing the term to feel victimized.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 12:01 PM
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Women literally need men to pick what they eat and what to do when they go out. They lose all agency when in a relationship but when it comes time for women to do something they need to 50/50 the shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 11:59 AM
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If you don't like it don't go it's a recipe for resentment.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 11:56 AM
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It seems women want men to contribute to everything they do but I don't think they care about contributing to what men do. Stay in your lane.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 11:53 AM
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do you stand there with the tool box when a man works on his car?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 11:52 AM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Timeline_of_women%27s_education Women not entering college is like women not entering STEM. They simply didn't want to. Can't compare society from 200 years ago to now.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 11:47 AM
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it's not working.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 11:45 AM
1

They literally post with if a guy won't give me one I'll just treat myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 11:44 AM
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Women can literally murder their own children if it inconveniences them, men simply have to live with a woman's choice. Women are the boogeymen.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 11:44 AM
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Men will give up porn when women give up sex before marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 10:57 AM
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Men don't force you to contribute to man shit so.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 10:46 AM
1

90% percent for college educated. Educated females are a threat to male wealth and psychological health.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 10:44 AM
2

marriage is a form of slavery in feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 10:43 AM
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Irrelevant since 1965. Feminists always defend trad laws from the dark ages of female rights when it benefits them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 10:43 AM
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Women paid literally nothing when men got primary custody most of the time. Women are simply losers and the government makes up for that by stealing from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 10:41 AM
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Would you get married if you had a 90 percent chance of losing your kids, the house only you paid for and, half the money you've accumulated in a divorce and the person you were getting married to would divorce you because you didn't bring a watermelon to the beach. Women rarely marry a man who makes less than them this is Feminist fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 10:39 AM
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Women also car about sexual history, they just want a man with a longer rap sheet to seem more innocent and moral. They feel insecure otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 10:33 AM
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You want help with your role, but men just do their own role and shut up never ask for help, do the same. Maybe men should shave the other half of your pussy next time you decide to shave.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 10:28 AM
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Worked for millenia.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 10:25 AM
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Not true there were always independent women. That's where the term Spinsters came from. Women today can't fathom dating a man who makes less money than them because then they'd be subject to divorce laws and might have to pay some of the mortgage.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 10:24 AM
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How much of the stuff in the fridge do you eat, sounds like he got lean, mean and minimalist. No surprise women are obsessed with material goods.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 10:20 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MDWZlV2kPYg OP destroyed.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 10:18 AM
2

Men want to fuck you in the ass You don't want to You want to make a gay picnic Men don't want to sounds like you want a slave honey ​ You also take half when it ends why should I provide anything in the meantime, when I'm already paying most of your bills and mortgage anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 10:13 AM
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Virtuous women have sex without expectations, Nice Girls have sex in order to get a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 10:01 AM
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People with relationship problems seem to make up the dating advice gurus.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 09:36 AM
1

FDS
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 09:34 AM
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Then women should stop pursuing marriage and shaming men for not wanting one they are expected to do near equal financing ​ With sex she won't orgasm nearly as often as he will. Men work for their orgasm women lay there expecting a man to give them one. ​ She's more at risk and impacted by utis stis and of course pregnacy If you're married probably won't get STDs at all. Preganancy effects men more because men cannot terminate a pregnancy their choice of becoming a father is up to the woman. Wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 09:30 AM
1

You think everyman who graduated college 200 years ago is in a history book?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 09:15 AM
1

yeah if you're a skilled worker (Chad), they don't for common jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 09:10 AM
1

A good man would be a guy that did everything for everyone else. Literally a doormat.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 09:05 AM
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men can be female supremacists.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 08:20 AM
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and women post like they're Ariel from the Little Mermaid
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 08:14 AM
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waiting is fine as long as the woman actually provides something besides sex up until then. I don't think it's realistic though, Women have sex the second they decide they like a guy, everything is shit tests up until then. Women are unlikeable until you fuck them. Fucking sets them straight, makes them nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 07:51 AM
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they fire up tinder and have a guy for a few months, its not that casual anymore. Point is women are always having sex with someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 07:26 AM
1

Women's homes look like the waiting room of a psychiatrists office, wonder why?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 07:22 AM
1

Women need 2 thousand dollar pillow shams to feel comfortable and not have a meltdown about how unfair the world is.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 07:22 AM
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If men were forced to date women they fuck, men's standards would change a lot and women would absolutely struggle to get the attention the used to. No one would chase thots.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 07:18 AM
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When women came up with demisexual they decided liberation was over back to trad sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 07:17 AM
1

Where do you go to meet men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 07:09 AM
1

We need to go back to wearing things that reveal availablility like a head scarf, or a shirt that says tinder for people like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 07:09 AM
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If I say no the woman might attack me and ruin my reputation, men live in fear. edited: so it makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 07:07 AM
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Employers are selectors but they don't send resumes to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 07:07 AM
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Women claim they want men to approach but constantly complain about it. I think we need a role reversal.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 07:06 AM
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I do, women aren't going to try to physically attack you just ruin you socially.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 07:05 AM
1

rom your hand pic I doubt but I have a feeling the problem is with the demographic of people you live around.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 07:04 AM
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Wear a burka when going outside. have to be nice to avoid being assaulted really biggoted statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 06:56 AM
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i get approached often enough irl, but that’s just me. many women i know say they rarely, if ever, get approached irl. you’d think it’d be a looks thing, but even some of my pretty friends have said that. If they did they'd probably write a blog about how the patriarchy destroyed their sense of safety
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 06:54 AM
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Women have less choices because they're more picky but if they weren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 06:50 AM
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Its because the guy probably isn't attractive. Logic has little to do with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 06:48 AM
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Women say be honest but they don't mean it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 06:48 AM
2

Men need to be made comfortable too, why are women entitled to everything a man is upfront.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 06:47 AM
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Because women haven't produced anything for the last 250,000 years and there aren't enough gay men to make the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 06:28 AM
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The grossest thing about women is their personality, it's why makeup was invented and why biology hamstrings males into being triggered by hips, breasts, and ankles.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 06:26 AM
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There is no such thing as a nice vagina just a less disgusting vagina.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 06:25 AM
1

I've talked to many women who are extremely intimidated by six packs because they think they won't be ablke to keep the guy around, that tells you everything you need to know about how effective working out is.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 06:24 AM
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then don't have sex loser. Fucking a guy thta pays for dinner doesn't prevent disease.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 06:18 AM
1

Maybe women should get on top and do the work instead of starfishing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 06:15 AM
1

You can communicate with the men you're fucking, I know feminism thinks women literally can't speak during sex to stop anythign but they can.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 06:15 AM
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Women don't deserve good sex because most men get nothing out of a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 06:14 AM
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You can't get to know a woman till you have sex with her everything preceding is angry bitter shit tests. Thats why men leave after fucking, because the resentment of the pursuit wasn't made up by sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 06:13 AM
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Why should he be invested?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 06:11 AM
2

Why are you telling women what to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 06:10 AM
1

Your female supremacy is being attacked.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 05:42 AM
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there is nothing stopping men from seeking women who are open to non-monogamy. there’s no rule that says men have to commit to monogamy. In the next few years as FDS types become the majority of feminists and the Wall gets more and more women men will be shamed for not commiting. It happening almost everywhere right now. Sexual liberation and non commital was for ages 16-30 for Women. Now theyre morphing to women who want hyper trad relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 05:40 AM
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Are we though? Women seem to be taking to a lifetime of casual and living alone just fine. Look at FDS, the wall is happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 05:38 AM
1

how common are dick picks?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 05:25 AM
1

Wow the man abused her by not doing what she wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 05:20 AM
1

When feminists promoted sexual liberation they told men they'd have more sex to, turned out to be a lie. Women's sexuality is moralized and men are trold they aren't superficial at all and that women are now okay with ONS. It's not a suprise men act that way. The only people who think porn is real is foreign Indian men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 04:29 AM
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The guy who got laid the most would routinely walk around choking random people in the locker room. He was a drug dealer. Not shocking at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 03:54 AM
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Many women have this strange belief that they will turn an asshole into a nice guy by fucking him. Seems like a pretty entitled narcissistic belief that a man should change magically from having sex with you and for you. Assholes do turn women on though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 03:52 AM
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Yes but extracting entitled to sex from that literally means that anything you do to improve your chances is being entitled to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 03:49 AM
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That literally never happens, it's just guys getting mad after being rejected while previously being nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 03:48 AM
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all men are east honey-bun.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 03:39 AM
2

Whores don't expect to get married after having sex once and they are easy to get with compared to some hyper conservative/shy girl who will metoo you for approaching her.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 03:39 AM
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I'm inclined to believe this is largely a strawman meant to demonize a certain demographic of men. Yes feminists spend an inordinate amount of time rationailzing anything a man does even good things as something evil. Ex. Opening doors for women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 03:38 AM
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Low value women don't get relationships from high value men. Women should know it's sus. Also no one feels sorry for the retired guy banging young philipinos and getting take to the cleaners in a divorce. In fact he's seen as the predator.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 02:50 AM
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Seems like an insecure fat chick take, and I think it's pretty common. This is why I've stopped talking to ugly women because better looking women seem to have the monopoly on good personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 02:47 AM
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Women get upset when they contribute to a relationship they think they're being taken advantage of. Its the result of feminits who nickel and dime every act of domestic work.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 02:41 AM
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Its women complaining about doing anything for their man while wanting those same men to act like their fathers and pay for everything. It's simply the recently old idea that the relationship is for women and only women should benefit from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 02:39 AM
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these women are buying engagement rings for themselves, no lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 02:35 AM
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TRP works because it doesn't let women play games and be lazy in the beginning of relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 02:32 AM
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FDS is women finally hitting the wall. It's why the community overlaps so much with dating over 30 and 40 subs. These once liberal feminists have become rad fems because it turns out they actually wanted to get married all alon and its misogyny that won't let them have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 02:29 AM
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What does an FDSer sees as her responsibility towards a realtionship with a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 02:26 AM
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Men make more = men are oppressors Men make less = men are losers
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 02:23 AM
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our becomes my very quickly during divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 02:22 AM
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The entirety of Fat Acceptance is about obese women dating fit men the opposite is considered entitlement. Recently there also been talk of women deserving an economically attractive man. Women's complaints are taken seriously while men's are simply attacked and a used as a sign that he is a bad male. Almost anything women desire is seen as the failure of men when not provided, and anything men ask for is seen as pathological male entitlemnt. Women deserve men earn.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 02:21 AM
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Yes unfortunatly none of those men would LTR an FDSer.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 02:16 AM
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remember that women don't count things like blowjobs towards sex. They fraud their number as hard as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 01:26 AM
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Being ugly isn't the problem with women rather massive entitlement and bitchiness is. There is no one more low effot in a relationship than women, they've basically decided that relationships are for Women to be given to them by Men. Yes some mutoid won't get a man but it's far worse if you are man. Only 20% of men can be the top 20% of earners. Women are relegating themselves and men to loneliness because they decided they're worth more, the universe doesn't agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 01:21 AM
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Experienced for a 50 year old dude is some decrepid 70 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 12:39 AM
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Maybe its the very vocal group of woman who say men should make more money than them or they're losers, statistics about divorces being more common among couples where men earn more.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 12:32 AM
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Not only that but they'd be accuse of abusing their power. If they really wanted their ego stroked they'd have sex with a fan who irrationally worships them, but can't do that because thats abuse even though a woman is clearly benefitting from the situation. It only hurt the girl boss types who think they are owed the Bezos and Kanyes of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 12:22 AM
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Women date down in look for security, he'll have to make up with money and probably have to submit to women's extremely specific standards on how to wipe the counters properly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 12:16 AM
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If you follow the advice of the anti manosphere crowd you'll learn that you are one shower away from being reverse gangbanged by swedish models. Women absolutely say that being nice will get a man a girlfriend and part of that is the way women moralize their sexuality as non-shallow. In fact they say misogyny is the only reason they don't get laid while they complain about their misogynist abusive boyfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 12:13 AM
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