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Having been married for 22 years, I completely agree with u/Jenneapolis .... to reinforce that, keep in mind the differences between looking and DOING. His actions should speak 10x more. I would be more focused on his past and understanding that because "a tiger can't change its stripes, but it could try to hide them". Understand his past. If he's soo high caliber, and has previously cheated, is that the moral caliber of the "man" you want? I'm not trying to dissuade you from him, but understand…
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/24 02:32 PM
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OP…. Be aware that San Marcus and Austin are/were also predominantly college towns and Houston is not so conservative as it used to be. Tennessee is also a place where the cost of living is low, and it’s similar to Texas in a number of ways.
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/24 02:33 PM
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The things to note are for both sides and both people in a relationship need to understand them Understand the ground-rules of a fight, and this is where CLEAR COMMUNICATION is key You can NEVER EVER EVER truly "un-ring" a bell you've rung. Once it's rung, you've got to deal with the consequences. Hence walking away to prevent permanent damage (but making sure you communicate you will return) will help you out in SOOO many ways. Pride will usually get in the way of successful communication, work…
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/23 02:16 PM
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IMHO, he could've phrased/worded it better.... I don't think that he was meaning you're "soft", but more so "gentle". IMHO, they're 2 completely different things and gentleness comes with grace and experience and wisdom. Personally, I think your hackles are up because of your past, and some clarification is needed. Remember, relationships are about communication and CLEAR COMMUNICATION is truly required for a successful relationship. Good luck, and Congrats on leaning into the Red Pill.... I wis…
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/23 01:39 PM
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You be you, find out your likes/dislikes, and how to be HAPPY WITH YOURSELF.... Learn to love yourself, and not rely on the love of someone else (#1 & 2 are about becoming who YOU WANT TO BE) Learn the arts of balance & compromise Improve you communication skills Learn patience (with yourself & others (your future kids & spouse will thank you) Don't kill yourself with your career by chasing $$$, but build up that nest egg and become fiscally aware/independent (#3 -6 all are interconnected, and w…
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/23 07:15 PM
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IMHO u/LateralThinker13 is 1000% spot on..... most people (male perspective here) go clubbing with the intention/desire for a hook-up/quickie/happy ending..... NOT for JUST playful flirtation..... If I could tell my younger self that, it would've solved SOOOO much heartache/pain.... Just sayin'......
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/23 07:03 PM
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Have you ever ridden a horse? That by itself can break a hymen. Any male worth anything can (and SHOULD IMHO) look at this objectively and be understanding. If they don't trust your word because you don't have your hymen tells me you there's more fundamental issues in that relationship than your lack of an intact hymen. Put the "shoe on the other foot".... How do you know HE'S a virgin just because he says so????? Just my male $.02....
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/23 08:09 PM
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DAMN.... where was this like 30 years ago?!?!?! Could've saved me many times over.... I'm definitely going to keep that in mind to teach to my son....
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/23 07:05 PM
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I don't think you're reading too much into it...However, given today's society and the emasculation of men and the constant beat down by the feminist trend and woke insanity it's no real surprise. Just remember that we're our own worst critics, and you can definitely help build his self-confidence....
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/23 12:55 PM
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I couldn't agree more with u/Adventurous_Dog_1890... there are plenty of men in the same boat (unhappiness). Leaving a relationship is one thing, but leaving a marriage because you're "unhappy" is something else ENTIRELY, especially if there are children in the picture. For instance, my wife of 21 years started smoking within the past year. Am I happy about that, hell no, frankly it's a pet peeve of mine and I hate the smell/taste. Despite how unhappy it makes me, am going to divorce/leave her o…
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/23 09:43 PM
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Spot on u/Loveenglishpeople & u/ivysaurah ... As guy who's basically done this numerous times, i'm looking for 1) a REAL apology (like was listed) 2) meaning, and not just lip service without genuine feeling, and 3) follow-up with actions/changes. the above is usually what follow after a something like "That explains <whatever the behavior was>, but doesn't excuse it...."
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/23 01:51 PM
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Absolutely #SpotON!!!
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/23 10:16 PM
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IMHO, the ONLY person you should be competing with is yourself, and that's to become a better you. Comparing yourself to others is extremely self-defeating and destructive to your confidence and sets yourself up for failure (breeding the "keeping up with the Jones'"). Your happiness is determined by YOU and with whom you give that power to. Remember that in HIS eyes, you're already perfect. Let that younger girl do her thing, if that works for her, great for her. At the end of the day, your life…
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/23 08:06 PM
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Her’s a thought, could he have Attention Deficit Disorder? Asking as I have many qualities he has (Fast talker, short temper, high IQ, etc) and my wife noticed it because of her brother who was diagnosed and medicated during their childhood…. Just a perspective (I am 53 as well),,,,
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/23 04:20 AM
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So, can you move beyond that doubt and TRULY forgive him? That’s what you have to determine. Then you’ll have your answer.
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/23 05:57 PM
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Shoot him a text and just see how he's been... Just a thought, but you don't know if he's in a relationship or dating someone, so there's that.... Just a thought...
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/23 02:14 AM
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Don't know the financial situation, but it's most likely a $$$ thing, but I'm also wondering if, since he initiated, if he's found someone else, that may also factor into it. I'm not a lawyer, but I would think they would require a retainer for divorce, and getting that amount may be part of his delays.... Just a thought.... And again, depending on the state laws/requirements, you can file yourself if you're sure your done with the situation.... I hate you're in this situation, and maybe taking …
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/23 02:22 PM
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Extremely helpful and is basically a lexicon for many of youth..... In the famous words of Gru: "Light bulb!!!!!!"
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/23 11:27 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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