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| 2 | Is it better to be hook-up material but not relationship material, or the other way around?If you are not hookup material to her, she is not genuinely attracted to you. Most relationships have the woman not attracted to the man, which is why it is overwhelmingly women who "lose" interest over time leading to dead bedrooms. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/23 11:50 AM |
| 3 | Is it better to be hook-up material but not relationship material, or the other way around?It is far better to be hookup material. This question is equivalent to asking "would you rather have the genetics capable of women lusting after you but perform certain behaviors that make them think you aren't the best partner?" vs. "would you rather not have the genetics capable of a woman lusting after you?" Answer seems pretty simple | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/23 11:49 AM |
| 1 | Every man pays for sex in one way or another.Well no, the men that women are physically attracted to and sexually lust after don't have to pay. That is a very small number of men though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/23 11:36 AM |
| 1 | Do you like the opposite gender?Only the tall ones, most likely | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/23 11:27 AM |
| 1 | Do you like the opposite gender?Fuck no. For the most part, their goals are directly opposed to mine, and their style of communication tends to be frustrating even in a platonic context. I just want to get what I want from them and leave. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/23 11:22 AM |
| 2 | This is why women have become more choosy (from a woman’s perspective).The only two men I’ve ever been deeply in love with wrote me poems, love letters, brought me flowers, and spent quality time with me. Maybe so, but that doesn't say anything about why you were in love with them - it just proves that they were in love with you. Obviously these actions are only even appropriate after the love has been created - or else it's just creepy if it's unwanted. What made you want them in the first place is not the love or flowers since wanting them was necessary for you t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/23 03:56 AM |
| 1 | This is why women have become more choosy (from a woman’s perspective).It literally never is. Emotional maturity has very little influence on sexual success and that makes sense - being immature and childish doesn't change your genes and bone structure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/23 02:28 AM |
| 2 | This is why women have become more choosy (from a woman’s perspective).What people say =/= what people do, especially in dating. Women also say they prioritize personality way more than men, but that isn't true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/23 02:27 AM |
| 1 | Men in their 30+'s, what are the early signs you are just being "settled for/betabuxxed"?lol what Look at every mammal species. Look at humans pre-civilization. Our base urges don't change, only how we act on them. nope. Yes. An analysis of human DNA shows that 80% of women have passed on offspring while only 40% of men have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/23 02:27 AM |
| 2 | Men in their 30+'s, what are the early signs you are just being "settled for/betabuxxed"?Women absolutely settle for stability/security with a guy who they don't physically lust after, this is literally most marriages since the biologically the vast majority of men cannot be attractive to women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 06:24 PM |
| 3 | Men in their 30+'s, what are the early signs you are just being "settled for/betabuxxed"?Yep. P much all women have engaged in casual sex at atleast one point in their lives, so if she makes you wait then clearly you aren't attractive to her, or you would have been treated the same as the other guys who hit immediately. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 06:22 PM |
| 1 | Men in their 30+'s, what are the early signs you are just being "settled for/betabuxxed"?To summarize this entire thread: the more casual a woman acts towards a man, the more she likes him. Period. Yep. Because the more she acts casual to you means the more she enjoys sex with you for sex-with-you's sake a.k.a she is more attracted to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 06:19 PM |
| 3 | Men in their 30+'s, what are the early signs you are just being "settled for/betabuxxed"?They would rule out a huge amount of women because most women chasing after single men in their 30's are indeed looking for betabuxx. If it rules out a huge amount of women, it's working. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 06:14 PM |
| 3 | This is why women have become more choosy (from a woman’s perspective).And with the rise of discussion around mental health, women seek men who are emotional providers. Are you emotionally mature? Will you actually listen when we speak? Are you an engaging conversationalist? Are you funny? Do you have a hobby or passion outside of work? Have you processed your trauma in order to avoid dumping it on me? Are you self-aware? Do you love children and will be a good father to my kids? Will you treat me as an equal? Are you loyal? Lmao emotional maturity is absolutely no… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 06:12 PM |
| 4 | Why are men here so opposed with being the nice guy a woman means and ends up with later in life?I think this quote from above best describes the entirety of why men have an issue with it: I'm not expecting a virginal acrobatic blonde stick figure with breasts like airbags dressed in a school uniform to take it in three holes at once and moan like an anime supercut. But I do expect some amount of passion, because what's the point otherwise? Why would I want to be in a relationship where there's no chemistry, no attraction, no spark? I don't have a problem with the idea of growing old with s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/23 06:44 AM |
| 2 | Is the bar really “in hell”?The bar for maintaining a relationship/maintaining interest with a woman is low. The bar for catching the interest of a woman is very, very, very high. Women are always talking about the former because they will always have male interest towards them, the only part where they have to put in any effort is maintaining a relationship/interest so it goes beyond a short term fling. Men are talking about the latter because that is where most men stumble because the bar is very high for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/23 12:12 AM |
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