| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 825 | Something I noticed about men who sleep with alot of women. | Fundamentals | Teripendiicecreamyum | /r/seduction | 29/04/26 11:24 PM |
| 8 | How do you turn on a quiet/shy girl? | Inner Game | Teripendiicecreamyum | /r/seduction | 23/04/26 02:20 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | What is my butt like?0/10 for me because it's nonexistent. | /r/seduction | 19/07/26 11:05 AM |
| 3 | Your cold approach success rate should be LOW!Why not approach straight man as a straight man and keep getting rejected? | /r/seduction | 12/07/26 10:52 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with aggressive female cockblockersI can only imagine a really obsese woman cockblocking trying to save her friend. Gyal, if he can't handle me at my worst then he can't have you at your best. | /r/seduction | 10/07/26 07:10 PM |
| – | Women dislike weak and shy guys more than violent misogynists and I'll die on that hill"Women would sooner show sympathy towards literal rapists than weak males." Have you considered going to sleep or taking your pills lately? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/26 10:06 AM |
| 4 | Men are told to open up more. The only thing they open up about is women not fucking them. And then wonder why it's backfiring 🤦♂️We have bigger problems in life than sex. Your problem is not our problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 12:01 PM |
| 8 | Guys who have gotten addicted to cold approaching women tell us your story?Guy at the gym does and he brags about being confident, which he is. He doesn't put me or other guys down, so we are all cool. This guy is average looking, but can approach anyone chat/become friends. He literally has slept with 6-7 different women in 2 months by approaching/becoming friends and hooking up after workouts. | /r/seduction | 29/06/26 11:02 AM |
| – | Men have no sympathy towards womenI'm not reading all that, but must say you must try Mango cheesecake. It's delicious! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 10:44 AM |
| 0 | How do I let a woman down easy?You're a good girl, but your mouth and fingers aren't when you start venting. | /r/seduction | 29/06/26 10:22 AM |
| 1 | Feeling jadedThat's funny because I see social men, who are seen at the work/gym or other places pull the most women. These dudes just treat everyone equally and approach everyone to talk. I always see these men then surrounded by women and so on. | /r/seduction | 31/05/26 07:32 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone notice better results when comfortable?"I knew i had no issue stalking to girls now so i could talk to them because i did not care about the result. I was just being me, not someone i hoped they liked." Crazy how one typo can change the whole scenario. | /r/seduction | 19/05/26 12:51 AM |
| 1 | How can I tell if eye contact means interest or is just random?Observe her near other men. You'd be shocked by how many women that are holding prolonged eyecontact with you are also smiling and holding with other men too. Just being polite and friendly. It's just who approaches her first in a friendly way to test it. | /r/seduction | 11/05/26 06:34 PM |
| 1 | Girl “likes” me but said she doesn’t want to have sex?She doesn't want to have sex, so the way he wants to put in a baby will make him see the court too. He doesn't get it that girl has other dude for fun. | /r/seduction | 11/05/26 06:28 PM |
| 6 | She acts like we’re dating in class… then dissappears. Am I reading this wrong?Seems like only wants instagram attention. Be straight and ask her for movie or new cool restaurant to try next weekend. If she flakes or says no then stop being her puppy. | /r/seduction | 04/05/26 07:08 AM |
| 8 | Should I focus on a physical glow up (aka gym and diet) or focus more on social skills?Focus more on face/skin care and social skills. I've been working out for 15 years and have a Rambo physique naturally. Women stare and compliment and had women in 20s hit on me, but guess what? I also suffer from anxiety/depression and never developed social skills. I always see these women hook up with average guys who can make them laugh and show good time. | /r/seduction | 04/05/26 12:45 AM |
| 17 | Something I noticed about men who sleep with alot of women.No, I've already moved onto that guy. I'll get him before these 2 women to show dominance. No homo | /r/seduction | 30/04/26 12:33 AM |
| 72 | Something I noticed about men who sleep with alot of women.I was shocked to see the girl I like eyeing the guy now just because she saw him chatting with another woman. It's like she's on a mission now to get to know that guy because he's chatting with anpther girl and not her. It was seeing her follow him, but he left. She didnt even give fcuk about him for last 1 year seeing him at work. | /r/seduction | 29/04/26 11:31 PM |
| 13 | Women playing/adjusting with their hair while cold approach. Does it mean something or is it normal?Most women do it when they're nervous. I work in women dominated field and most of them are always playing with their hair around all kinds of people. | /r/seduction | 28/04/26 06:37 PM |
| 9 | Are young women not attracted to men anymore?Women have multiple guys to fcuk, so why would they date? My average looking female coworker got out of a 10 year old relationship and bragged about sleeping with 4 diff men now without a gf tag. | /r/seduction | 28/04/26 06:09 AM |
| 1 | How do you turn on a quiet/shy girl?I tease her about her physique being fit. She doesnt shy away from flexing arms like Arnold. How do I proceed from here? Like squeeze her arms and pretend to measure with mine. | /r/seduction | 23/04/26 03:05 AM |
| 14 | I want to stop seeing this girl but I don't want to hurt her"I'm even thinking of sleeping with her a few more times so that it comes easier to her, which I also think is a really bad and people's pleasing move." Ya wtf? to that. Tell her that you're moving abroad for whatever and will be leaving in whatever time you pick. If she wants to hookup then it's upto her/end it. | /r/seduction | 20/04/26 10:27 AM |
| 6 | What were the subject of seduction that you struggle the most?My mind is super negative seeing them together daily and you're right. Right now the brain is calling me inferior etc. I need to get into meditation, positive self talk and learn to socialize for my own sake. | /r/seduction | 20/04/26 06:07 AM |
| 21 | What were the subject of seduction that you struggle the most?I have the looks and physique that women check me out. My last 3 relationships were women that approached me, but guess what? I have no self esteem/confidence because I grew up alone and or had someone to teach me to become a man or socialize with people. I still get jealous of men that can speak freely with women. Worst was seeing the girl I liked and she kept checking me out. Another guy at work, out of shape but confident joined. He went after her right away and now I see them leave together … | /r/seduction | 20/04/26 06:03 AM |
| 2 | I went out to a mall to cold approach women and ended up chickening outShe called pizza pizza instead. | /r/seduction | 20/04/26 04:19 AM |
| 69 | How to get women in the gymThere is an average looking guy with literally no physique, but guess what? He approaches every single man and woman and gives them a bro handshake, compliments them and asks them questions. He did that to me as a quiet guy, introduced me to more peoole he sometimes has around. He does the same to women without coming off creepy and he has slept with atleast 4-5 women. Society says that women are there to workout, but if the woman smiles and likes your positive vibe to connect then do what he do… | /r/seduction | 19/04/26 07:55 PM |
| 53 | 3 Reasons Why Good Looking Guys Rarely Get The Girl They WantI see this average looking guy at the gym. He literally approaches all men and women and asks how their day was etc. This dude does the same with women too and we noticed that he slept witj atleast 3-5 of them. He literally says bye to people both men and women on the way out too. Can't hate on him, but feel really envious. They say that don't approach women at the gym, while this guy does and next thing you know they're at the exit of the gym in his car. | /r/seduction | 30/03/26 09:50 AM |
| 34 | Guys, what’s the need to date women from your workplace?The thing I have noticed is people may not date, but secretly hook up often at work. You're spending 5 days a week with them for 8 hours+ a day. It could turn into friendship, lust or nothing. Depends. | /r/seduction | 18/02/26 01:21 PM |
| 5 | How to approach my wife on wanting another 3 some?I'm sure, she'd be down for a threesome, if you insist a man this time. | /r/seduction | 05/01/26 11:17 AM |
| 181 | Men over 60: Be honest. Has your sex drive or sexual appetite changed from when you were in your 20s?Men over 60 are busy right now with their 20 years old gfs. | /r/seduction | 28/12/25 12:13 AM |
| – | 30s are perhaps the hardest years to date (as a man)I dont really agree, but it has more to do with social skills/charisma There is a 35 years old coworker, who looks 45-50 with bad eyebags. This guy approaches everyone to chat and makes women laugh. Craziest I saw was when he showed the Pic of hottest woman at work he took on a date(her age is 21). That girl literally turned down every man at work before. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/25 10:00 AM |
| 5 | dating introverts and dead airYou'll have to keep asking her favorite hobbies and boost her by asking to see her work etc. Her favorite childhood games, memories, places to visit. I met really quiet girl, who paints. I complimented her paintings and she was so happy. Slowly by slowly, she started opening up. | /r/seduction | 14/12/25 09:18 PM |
| 10 | I think I almost made her cheatDon't you dare disrespect your grandma here. | /r/seduction | 07/12/25 03:34 AM |
| 59 | Does anyone think the "nice guy syndrome" thing is total bsI work in women dominated field and can tell what man has the upper hand even with average looks. The one teases her will always be superior to someone always complimenting her and being sweet. | /r/seduction | 10/11/25 06:54 AM |
| 11 | Question: How do you NOT be this guy in this situation:Romeo guy pretended like it doesn't matter after and being so social, he just moved on to being friendly with other women at work. It's been few years and he works in different department now where it's him, that girl who rejected him and other women. What amazes me if, you can never guess who is sleeping with whom at work. Some people play the professional game really well. I only saw this stuff happen once a year at work party where everyone is drunk or cheating to go home with someone else. I… | /r/seduction | 02/11/25 12:29 AM |
| 12 | Question: How do you NOT be this guy in this situation:Messed up thing is, we all saw them both happily talk throughout the work. Thought, they'd end up dating. Only for man 2 to steal the girl in a few weeks. | /r/seduction | 01/11/25 09:31 PM |
| 34 | Question: How do you NOT be this guy in this situation:This guy acted friendly with everyone but more of ego/arrogant way. I guess women liked it and he did sleep with few more women at work before getting fired for anger issues. | /r/seduction | 01/11/25 08:52 PM |
| 89 | Question: How do you NOT be this guy in this situation:I've seen this first hand at work with two guys and a girl. Both were extrovert, but one pursued the girl like a Romeo and always being sweet for 7 months. Other one was new hire and he wasn't afraid to tease and make fun of her. This guy started 1 month before the work party . She ended up leaving with the second guy and whole work place saw first guy in tears. | /r/seduction | 01/11/25 08:36 PM |
| 19 | For those who have pulled from the gym what was your approach?One of this guy I knew did that to the hottest woman at the gym. He was literally friendly with everyone and would approach every single person to chat. This really good looking girl started working out alone by running on stairmaster and stretches. This guy worked his way up by chatting by using the stairmaster next to her by showing interest and getting to know her. Long story short, he started banging her and many men were jealous. Lol | /r/seduction | 23/10/25 06:58 AM |
| 3 | Is it possible to sleep with someone when you don't have your own place?Dead end by factory or forest area. Make her lay on driver seat,while you stand and pound her and go at it. Just make sure no deer sneaks from behind in the dark to sniff your bum and.... | /r/seduction | 15/10/25 01:04 PM |
| 2 | Who else has worked long and hard for something thinking it would increase their chances at getting girls only to have fallen short?I have the looks and physique to attract women, but spent my 20s in isolation working night shift. Left with no social skills and became quiet. Women lose interest in me after finding that I don't have crazy energy as they expect in a man. Like, I need therapy to become a normal person again. I literally only find few people interesting day to day to interact with. Few of them guys, I know at the gym are below average in looks/physique but super social/charismatic. These guys have slept with alo… | /r/seduction | 15/10/25 03:08 AM |
| 1 | What to train physically to be attractive mIt's crazy how much women dig guys with big booty. They stare at them just like guys stare at big booty. | /r/seduction | 12/10/25 12:15 PM |
| 17 | Male nursesOnly if you're good looking and extrovert. Women will gossip alot about you and if you're not packing then that woman who hooks up with you will tell all other women about your size in bedroom. I work in a women dominated field and women gossip crazy about men they find hot at work and would sleep with. 3 men got fired for sexual harassment over 6 years, even though it was mutual hook up between them. | /r/seduction | 06/10/25 09:40 AM |
| 3 | 18 year old added me on tinder too hook up she’s in high school and im 23 it’s just weird thing to do right?Woman of legal age to vote asking to hook up, if there is mutual interest. Are you going to say no or let another man pamper her in bed? | /r/seduction | 06/10/25 01:58 AM |
| 3 | 18 year old added me on tinder too hook up she’s in high school and im 23 it’s just weird thing to do right?He didn't ask to date, but to hook up. | /r/seduction | 06/10/25 01:05 AM |
| 2 | 18 year old added me on tinder too hook up she’s in high school and im 23 it’s just weird thing to do right?If one pen doesn't work then another does for her. Edit: just make sure to see her Id. Some of these are 17 pretend to be 18. Then you're screwed. | /r/seduction | 06/10/25 01:03 AM |
| 1 | How do you realize is time to stop chasing a girlWould you guys move on, if always you starting the conversation with that one girl. She would never ask you anything, unless you ask her. | /r/seduction | 25/09/25 11:22 PM |
| 2 | Went on a date but girl didn't show up. (Need mental guidance)I hope you book the second date, just don't show up and move on. | /r/seduction | 26/08/25 09:05 AM |
| 12 | How to socialise more as an introverted girl.Gym is the last place people will socialize, unless you join the fitness classes and get to interact with people. Try to join yoga etc classes in the gym and you will get to meet more people in those classes. Most people are too focused on getting their workouts and get out. If you like someone or wants to become friends with someone then compliment them or ask them for a spot on some lift. Carry on from here daily by small talks etc if they're open. | /r/seduction | 12/05/25 06:13 AM |
| 12 | Confidence isn't built in the gym or in the bank, it's build in the morrorThat was actually Shaq with a wig on. | /r/seduction | 05/05/25 01:28 AM |
| 62 | If a Girl Looks at You for Even a Split Second, Do ThisA girl looked at me from a plane, while I was looking at her through binoculars. We made a contact for solid 5-10 seconds. I couldn't really tell, if it was an old blonde granny or a golden retriever. | /r/seduction | 21/04/25 08:39 AM |
| 0 | How to deal with regret of not approaching?I've seen this worked at the gym few times, as long as you don't annoy them after. Few of these people hello etc now at the gym during the same time. | /r/seduction | 03/11/24 02:19 PM |
| 0 | How to deal with regret of not approaching?Your best bet is to ask her to spot you on some exercise and pretend to go for more reps and then thank her for motivation(fist bump) | /r/seduction | 03/11/24 02:07 PM |
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