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3 months ago lmao? Women that are forward like that are always with someone, she does this to other guys she likes too, not just you my dude. With women like that you have to take your shot when they give you the chance, just ask for her socials, ask her out and do it quickly.
/r/seduction14/01/26 12:38 PM
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It seems that these days the "meta" is being direct. Too many women just discard guys that beat around the bush too much. Years ago I used to be kinda indirect, talking to woman I'm interested normally like they were friends or something but I've noticed that now I'm better off just telling them what I want. They will say if they down or not. Of course that doesn't mean coming off too hard, don't be tactless please
/r/seduction25/12/25 07:19 PM
2

I don't understand the logistics of this. Where I live pretty much every woman wears ear rings, are you sucking their ear lobe with their ear rings on?
/r/seduction03/12/25 03:05 AM
1

If a woman is bringing up feminism in a date it's because its important to her, don't lecture her on it or go in a debate if you want to fuck her, don't be dense dude. If you want a serious relationship look for women that don't care about it or are right wingers or something.
/r/seduction12/11/25 11:17 PM
15

Giving fuckboy energy is one thing that helps. She already knows what she will be signing up for.
/r/seduction09/11/25 01:21 PM
8

Anyone that says they have a system to always get one night stands is lying, it's mostly luck, but of course you need to help your odds. We are talking about a human being on the other side. A woman will know when she goes out if she is down to have a one night stand, the more she wants it the higher your chances of getting lucky. Sure she can make a crazy decision on the moment but most of the time she will know it is a possibility when she goes out. If she isn't down to have one or never does …
/r/seduction13/10/25 02:27 AM
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It's huge. The more money you have the easier it is to date. I have lots of female friends and when someone asks about the guy they are dating they ALWAYS talk first about his job. It's literally every time. Also the best compliments are if they treat her well (meaning pays for everything, dines her to expensive dates, gives flowers.) so basically all you need to do to stand out is spend money on them. To be fair if he is good in bed is also the other common compliment. With that said, these wil…
/r/seduction05/07/25 03:48 AM
1

I like drinks first too but the problem is spending money with Uber+drinks and it's actually harder (at least for me) to get a girl to your home by Uber than it is by just picking her up with your car and taking her to your place after the date.
/r/seduction24/05/25 08:10 PM
7

This is wayyy more common than guys realize. I've for sure been the fuckbuddy that gets called up 1am after they've been in a date and I can't tell if I ever been the sucker that goes out with a women just for her to hit another dude right after, hard to say but I would it's very likely. I'm part of some big group of friends composed mostly of women and they talk openly about it. We even have some terms for it in portuguese like: seasoning (seasoning the meat for someone else to eat it)
/r/seduction24/05/25 08:07 PM
3

Don't chase women that ghost you is the best advice. If you are looking for a quick fuck, sure, but high chances she is gonna flake too.
/r/seduction17/05/25 02:39 AM
3

I keep them on my instagram. If I travel there again or if they travel to my city I hit them up. I don't travel that much tho
/r/seduction15/05/25 12:06 AM
10

What age range you mean cougars? Like 40-45?
/r/seduction14/05/25 04:48 PM
1

Easy come easy go Women that took the initiative with you didn't do it for the first time and most likely won't be the last, they also play the numbers game like men
/r/seduction08/05/25 05:25 AM
1

I only dated two older women and I ended with both because they wanted a long term relationship and I didn't.
/r/seduction07/05/25 11:04 PM
3

Just act the same bro, you would be surprised how age doesn't change much women's behavior. Your odds of getting turned down might be higher tho, a lot of older women don't like younger men
/r/seduction07/05/25 08:13 PM
10

There are women who don't test men? Where can I get one of those?
/r/seduction01/05/25 07:52 PM
2

Just tell him you want to wait before sex
/r/seduction28/04/25 12:07 AM
12

You both are right. He is 100% right about women wanting to sleep with one guy, but that doesn't mean they want a serious relationship all the time. The dating dynamics in my city (3 mil people brazilian city) are like this lately: Girl finds guy, they go on some dates and start fucking for a while but don't want to get attached and also wants to keep their options open. Their fling starts getting cold, frequency of dates slow down. Eventually some ghosting happens from either party. And then on…
/r/seduction26/04/25 03:07 AM
1

bootcamp is a type of course, just in person and more expensive
/r/seduction25/04/25 05:26 PM
5

If you just want casual sex and it's sure you won't get attached just treat her like you normally would any other woman.
/r/seduction22/04/25 05:56 PM
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In my experience just stay clear of those girls. Hot women will get attention regardless, I'm talking about the girls that actively putting in work to get more attention from men. Think of it this way: we are in this sub to learn seduction and be better at attracting more girls. Some women will do similar, but since the dating dynamics is about men approaching women, they develop their appearance, body language, how they interact with men in a way that increases their chances of getting approach…
/r/seduction22/04/25 03:40 PM
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Usually the 2 biggest reasons for that: They are avoiding long term commitment at the moment, but enjoy the romantic stuff you listed, so they stay for a while before jumping ship. They found someone else they liked more. It happened to me recently with the last two girls I dated and it sucked. Very similar pattern too: both had a rough break-up, were out of the dating market for a while, started looking around, met me, dated for a few months, kept looking around...
/r/seduction19/04/25 01:05 AM
3

These new pics are gold diggers magnets. I hope you have money to not disappoint them
/r/seduction17/04/25 11:06 PM
1

People are giving you too much shit, yeah you were kinda cringe but the biggest problem is that you didn't pick up she isn't interested and actually doubled down in trying to force some flirting. Flirting is like a dance, you need a partner going back and forth for it to work.
/r/seduction10/04/25 11:45 PM
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Dating for men is a numbers because you have to accept that you won't always get the girl you want. No matter how attractive, rich and popular you are you can never guarantee you will get that one particular girl. Also keeps you in the mentality of avoiding putting women on a pedastal. It's just not asking out every girl out, girls can smell that shit out, it's about playing the field around you, treating every women the same, not putting a specific one on a pedastal, creating too much expectati…
/r/seduction06/04/25 09:50 PM
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I've dated some 10s, I just can't manage for them to stay, the competition is too big. Also most them liked the attention anyway so a women like that would never work long term. If you are not a 10 yourself you are not locking a 10, it is what it is.
/r/seduction03/04/25 04:34 PM
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Colossal waste of fucking time too. Spending time with someone, texting and going on dates with one person is already time consuming, trying to do that with 2, 3 or even more people is absurd to me. I've tried it a few times and basically you end up focusing more in one of them and giving way less attention to the others, at that point you might as well focus in only one. You are just feeding your ego trying to spin multiple girls
/r/seduction26/03/25 02:47 AM
2

They kidnap you to empty your bank accounts, and if you don't cooperate they kill you
/r/seduction18/12/24 12:19 AM
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It seems like it's impossible to find a woman without trauma from past relationships or that hasn't gotten over her ex.
/r/seduction16/12/24 07:34 PM
1

Not rocket science dude. If you don't have a handsome face and tall height you need a good physique. Having money and a prestigious job is another option too
/r/seduction12/11/24 02:58 PM
1

It depends on how the night life is where you live. In my city you usually see the same people on night clubs, festivals. You end up making friends and people that like parties like to make their own parties, or they invite you to one their friends are doing
/r/seduction14/10/24 07:10 PM
1

condoms
/r/seduction12/10/24 03:22 AM
4

If they were asking for his IG then it would make more sense to be jealous
/r/seduction10/10/24 06:47 PM
2

Maybe because you didn't follow up with another date?
/r/seduction09/10/24 07:51 PM
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The girls you pick up at parties are the most likely to not follow up, at least in my experience.
/r/seduction09/10/24 12:19 AM
10

I have lots of gay friends and it's even worse for them. If you want a quick fuck or fling it's super easy, but long lasting relationships are harder for gay men than for anyone else. That's what they tell me anyway
/r/seduction07/10/24 09:01 PM
2

I have a friend thats older than you and he picks lots and lots of hot early 20s girls
/r/seduction30/09/24 09:51 PM
6

There is no such thing as text game. People created that to sell you a product Just talk normally through text like you would in person. Of course some things don't work through text but you just gonna have to use common sense
/r/seduction27/09/24 02:42 AM
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Start talking to her normally, build rapport treating her like a gym buddy at first, then see how behaves if she shows some kind of interest or not. Ask for socials and game her there. Never "cold approach" at the gym, we all should know by now that the odds of just asking a hot girl out are pretty bad even if you are very good looking, doing it at a place that you go almost every day is just asking to get a bad reputation. I've pick up lots of girls at the gym but I NEVER cold approached asking…
/r/seduction26/09/24 08:23 PM
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I'm 32 and if they are already done with college they are game. College girls really don't show much interest in me anymore.
/r/seduction24/08/24 04:51 AM
15

I really want to see a peer reviewed study of body language... And how do you mean look up? This is so uncommon that I don't even recall doing it personally. Like 99% of the people just look away sideways in my experience
/r/seduction24/08/24 04:45 AM
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I've suffered from crushes before. My advice is that if you don't do anything now, things won't magically get better. For example you won't get over your crush if you don't get closure on it, or she likely won't make a move if she is interested. Ask her out but try to make it clear you aren't going out as friends. Keep us updated
/r/seduction27/06/24 02:52 AM
1

Yeah but Ukraine is like top 5 in the world when it comes to attractive women. Pretty high standards you set there
/r/seduction09/06/24 02:36 AM
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I don't know about thigh area. If she is fine with touching her thigh she is fine with kissing already. I usually only touch thigh after we already kissed some or when we already know each other and I asked her out because I know she is down. Basically when it's a sure thing.
/r/seduction08/06/24 04:20 AM
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I agree, but online dating in Japan for me was like lottery. The girls either have no pictures of themselves, are hiding their face or their face is HEAVILY filtered. Also I found no girls down to something casual, and I was just traveling there for vacation, so I didn't want anything long term
/r/seduction04/06/24 01:32 AM
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Honestly, this sub should have some sort of sticky thread saying what I'm about to say: We all end up in this sub eventually because we weren't naturally good with women, some of us learned to be better while others are still learning. For us this process can take years. For your friend it never even crossed his mind, because he doesn't need it. He is naturally good with women for multiple reasons, some are out of your reach, but others you can learn from. If you stay in your head thinking about…
/r/seduction02/06/24 03:14 AM
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No, absolutely not. Unless you are hot and have a great profile, pulling girls from Instagram is tough. And send her a DM, don't comment on her pics.
/r/seduction01/06/24 04:08 PM
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Yeah, my friends go crazy about some girls, saying they are perfect or whatever, when I look at them I think they are average or even ugly. It's personal preference
/r/seduction31/05/24 04:42 PM
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Where I live saying "let's watch a movie at my place" is basically code for sex
/r/seduction30/05/24 11:45 PM
3

At your age it matters A LOT. I have a saying that the older you get it's less about who you are, but more about what you do. What I mean is that in high school girls literally don't give a shit to anything beyond looks and personality. In college you take these two attributes and pair it with intelligence. After college people want to know what the fuck are you doing with it. Seriously, just pay attention to girls our age talking about who they are dating, it's always bragging about their job t…
/r/seduction30/05/24 06:35 PM
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"every time I make a move towards her, she runs away" you left the most important thing for last bro. My bet is that one of those girls that love male attention. She teases men so they can hit on her and feed her ego, but she doesn't actually go through with them. I also bet that the guys that are actually fucking her brains out treat her like shit
/r/seduction29/05/24 08:12 PM
3

Honestly I think professional therapy would help you a lot more than reddit. Since you have money it shouldn't be a problem to get one
/r/seduction27/05/24 04:20 AM
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Women are human beings. No matter how hot and how good your game is, there is another person on the other side and she might not want to go home with a random. I'm a guy and I've denied sex multiple times too, maybe they don't want it and there is no magic you can do to change their mind. Seduction and pick up is not about pressing the right buttons and getting the same outcomes everytime, it's about increasing your odds.
/r/seduction24/05/24 06:49 PM
1

Always go in a for a kiss bro, you want to date her, not make friends. It might be awkward at first, but you will get the hang of it.
/r/seduction24/05/24 03:09 PM
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If she agreed to a date with you it's because she doesn't care about height and is interested. Keep us updated!
/r/seduction23/05/24 06:26 PM
1

A girl never did that to me in the early stages of dating, I think I would've loved it.
/r/seduction23/05/24 02:50 PM
1

2 is my absolute max. I can see more than that If they are just fuck buddies, but actually talking day to day, just two. With that said I don't really like to do it, I would just pick the one a like more and drop the other
/r/seduction22/05/24 02:59 PM
10

I have a really attractive friend and I was there the first time she was rejected in her life. Bro, she was cussing him and complaining for hours.
/r/seduction22/05/24 03:15 AM
4

hahahahahhahaha
/r/seduction22/05/24 03:13 AM
3

I love when nerds start pick up lmao My advice would be to stop focusing on numbers and approaching and instead try to improve the quality of your approach, dates and interactions as a whole. Going on dates with 18 different girls should give you enough experience to point out what you are doing wrong tbh
/r/seduction22/05/24 02:48 AM
5

If you do this in day game the only number you are getting is from the police.
/r/seduction22/05/24 02:42 AM
7

Damn I should go in more often then
/r/seduction21/05/24 02:02 PM
3

Depends on how attractive we are talking. 9 and 10s? Even the hottest dudes don't pull those consistently. Hot women are in higher demand than ever, meaning they get hit on all the time not only in person but on social media too. If you are actually average looking you need to compensate in other areas, just game alone won't cut it, you might get lucky sometimes but I don't think that's what you want. I have many woman friends, and a good amount of really attractive ones. When they are describin…
/r/seduction20/05/24 08:06 PM
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It's hard to say bro. Something similar happened to me last night so I actually asked her today, she said she wanted to spend time with her friends too. Makes sense.
/r/seduction20/05/24 01:55 AM
1

Can't tell if this is a troll video or not lmao
/r/seduction19/05/24 01:25 PM
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Asking out too early barely is a mistake. If she keeps interacting the same way as before she is gonna say yes eventually, just slow your pace down to match hers.
/r/seduction18/05/24 09:47 PM
0

Exactly. There is basically no game in getting a number just after you approached. If she gives you her real number she just liked your looks or is desperate enough
/r/seduction18/05/24 06:51 PM
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If you want something long term use that situation as test bro. If the girl is giving another guy attention you know she is for the streets, if she cuts him off quickly you know you can invest.
/r/seduction18/05/24 01:24 AM
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Out with you a chick you mean you scheduled a date beforehand? If that's the case just go ahead and put your arm over her shoulder or kiss her. If she is hesitant you are done for anyway. Also you talk this is a common occurrence, jesus the guys in your city are just waiting for you to leave to pounce or what?
/r/seduction18/05/24 12:46 AM
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There is showing interest and there is being needy, women don't like the latter. If you want a long term relationship you have to work it at the same pace as her. You do want to lead since you are a man, but don't force it by being on her face all the time. Does that make sense or you need a bigger explanation? Or maybe you aren't being needy, just chasing the wrong type of women. A lot of young women don't want a serious relationship these days, if you want a girlfriend you have to filter these…
/r/seduction13/05/24 07:44 PM
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Yeah, I've seen that happen a lot. Some women do like guys fighting like crazy for them and being pushy. It's basically a form of being "hard to get"
/r/seduction13/05/24 07:23 PM
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No kiss, no sex and 1 week without talking? I think it's all in your head tbh, I'm pretty sure she doesn't think about you it as much as you do about her. Ask her out again if you really want it to see if she is down of not, if she isn't you get some closure at least.
/r/seduction05/05/24 05:54 PM
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Talking loud, drinking and having tattoos is manly? what?? pick up women at the church, it seems like you will see more of what you want there.
/r/seduction02/05/24 06:37 PM
3

Yeah, it's fine
/r/seduction19/04/24 10:13 PM
3

Is it that common for japanese girls to make out with random men at bars??
/r/seduction16/04/24 12:30 AM
139

Dating a extremely hot girl also boosts your confidence, so it's not always being confident that will get you a hot girl, maybe he is confident because he got one
/r/seduction05/09/23 07:17 PM
11

Yeah, people are still acting like PUA stuff from 10-15 years ago is the way. Women are not some mysterious things that grant you access to their pussy from speaking a streak of clever lines. Only thing I got from this post was that she was very into OP from the get go, he handled himself well and fun and didn't fumble the bag even talking about anal.
/r/seduction21/06/23 07:01 PM
11

Even Cavill is getting into the "to old" territory now, I've heard that many times from girls. A lot of women like older men, but not that much older. I believe Harry Styles is the guy now.
/r/seduction19/04/23 03:10 PM
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Sorry, I don't know much about dating dynamics on that age range. I'm just gonna say that women hate guys wasting their time, try to be more assertive and go for the things you want to do, put on her plate the decision if she is one the same page or not.
/r/seduction31/10/22 02:31 PM
3

It's tricky, if done low key it's fine and you put the idea of kissing her on her head, if done badly it's terrible, you give a ton of "friends" vibe. Also you are giving ammunition for her to talk with her friends about how she went on a date with this guy and he just kissed her forehead. Doing it on a second date is not a good look either, may I ask how old are you? If you are really young I can see it you getting away with it.
/r/seduction31/10/22 02:08 PM
13

Do it before the main event when there is a DJ or artist doing the opening. I know a good amount of people that met their partners on concerts.
/r/seduction31/10/22 02:02 PM
2

We can't know who is the smoothest celeb alive because they don't flirt on camera do they. But I'm gonna say Robert Downey Jr., Sebastian Stan for overall demeanor. Don't focus to much on copying celebs and instead develop your own thing, most celebs have a SMV through the roof, they don't need to be smooth to easily pick up women.
/r/seduction29/10/22 11:15 PM
2

Not any girls, supermodels that turned 18.
/r/seduction29/10/22 11:10 PM
13

Or that you should always listen to elders, because they have life experience. I always had that as a rule when younger, but had my reservations. Now as I became older I realize that like 9/10 elderly people are just dumb as fuck tbh. The stupid shit I've been hearing from old people is completely absurd. The internet is a big part of that problem, since they used to get their information from newspapers, books, TV news, now they get fake news from god knows where.
/r/seduction27/10/22 12:22 PM
9

WHy is no one guessing this? I bet anything OP creeped her out, maybe because he is indeed a creep of because she doesn't like working out near men. She just wasn't confortable working out with you there and went back to her room hoping the gym is empty another time.
/r/seduction25/10/22 01:48 AM
1

I agree with everything these people are saying, even tho I never dated before social media, I still lived a good part of my life in a world without dating apps and shit like Instagram. Those two things greatly inflated women's egos. If you have any good looking girl friend with a non private profile on social media or that uses dating apps, ask to see her inbox, it's gonna be full of guys hitting on them out of nowhere, friendzoned guys giving attention, and some of them even are good looking h…
/r/seduction24/10/22 08:43 PM
1

I think he means back in the day without dating apps or social media, and those things really skewed the dating market
/r/seduction24/10/22 08:34 PM
7

Only advice is to increase your energy (smile more, act excited, joke around) and maybe improve your looks. Sounds like your friend is straight up more attractive. Let's not kid ourselves here, your odds to get a good reaction when approaching are directly related on how you look.
/r/seduction23/10/22 03:05 PM
6

It's not only that. The guys that attract the hottest women and have hot women chasing them just get a insane ego boost
/r/seduction19/10/22 07:22 PM
6

Bro you have brain damage. Just kidding, I understand that. For the longest time I didn't think a girl could be interested in me, and that lack of confidence might blind to indicators of interest from girls.
/r/seduction16/10/22 06:27 PM
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You don't sound that confident imo. The confidence in seduction is having the mindset that you are attractive to women and have a shot with the one you are pursuing. Your whole post gives the vibe of neediness and that is the complete opposite of what a confident man would act like. Maybe work on that
/r/seduction06/10/22 06:24 PM
3

Sounds like a great idea my dude. The move is to get her pregnant and marry her.
/r/seduction11/09/22 03:16 AM
2

If you do FBI is gonna put you on a list... Of course it's not weird dude, Reddit age gap craze is getting out of hand. A 3 year gap is a problem when you are like 15 looking for a 12 year old lol
/r/seduction03/09/22 10:16 PM
2

90% of the time when a girl asks for my number they never text lmao. Just last week I bumped into one that asked for my number and she said she sent me a SMS with random letters (wtf was that). Better to just take the initiative.
/r/seduction02/09/22 03:04 PM
1

I kiss on the first date 100% of the time. Maybe you messed it up thinking they were interested in kissing you but they very clearly weren't from how you typed.
/r/seduction01/09/22 12:23 AM
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It's like that everywhere bro. Doctors played on hard in school but then play easy mode on dating. If a girls brings home her new boyfriend and he says he is a doctor you bet your ass people are gonna treat you like a god unless they are docs themselves.
/r/seduction31/08/22 02:51 AM
1

At the gym just don't do it if it's distant, I would only do it if she is passing by you, asking to work in or how many sets it's gonna take, stuff like that. Better work on that confidence before tho, thinking your smile is awkward is a severe lack of confidence in most cases.
/r/seduction29/08/22 01:25 PM
1

They already know you are a fucking degen. I guess your only options are owning it up or finding a new place.
/r/seduction28/08/22 06:27 PM
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not the hot ones
/r/seduction26/08/22 05:55 PM
1

Me being 174 cm and reading that. Feels bad
/r/seduction25/08/22 09:33 PM
2

This is to aggresive. Do you guys seriously do this shit to people you might see daily? This is the stuff you pull on bars and clubs. Just bumping on them and saying something like "Hi, I've seen you here before" or some bullshit, if they are receptive you know it's on.
/r/seduction19/08/22 02:29 PM
4

Straight out of Brazzers
/r/seduction17/08/22 11:14 PM
3

Earlier in the year I made out with the hottest girl at a club. After she left a gay friend, without asking, tried to set me up with like a 4. I wasn't even aware but when I looked at their direction she was looking at me with a complete disgusted face and shaking her head. Even though I was on cloud 9 I still got a bit offended. I always knew people had different standards/preferences for attraction, but after that day I'm 100% sure of it.
/r/seduction11/08/22 06:49 PM
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Old guys like young girls and old women like young guys. Women are just way less blatant about it. Also women don't hit on people like men do, men do it much more. Of course there are preferences but good looking is good looking
/r/seduction09/08/22 02:57 AM
1

Since it looks like you are reading every comment I don't care I'm late. I coined this phrase from my life experience as a 30 year old: The younger you are the more girls care about who you are, the older you get the more they care about what you do. If you are going for girls your age or younger they must think it's nice you are loaded, but the main things are still the key elements of attraction. Do your own research on that. Don't expect your money to get you girls because you will only get g…
/r/seduction06/08/22 12:19 AM
1

These are the 5% guys he is talking about. They have so many matches that they don't care. I'm sure that with hotter girls they put more effort on their message
/r/seduction05/08/22 11:48 PM
4

High interest from a girl or being "easy" can generate attraction on men tho. I've seen it happen my whole life, with me included and I'm a very selective guy
/r/seduction05/08/22 11:45 PM
3

They like to look fancy in social media; They aren't serious with the person they are going out yet; They don't want people asking about who they are out with; Posting a IG story of you in a fancy restaurant is one of the best ways to get asked out on a date to a fancy restaurant
/r/seduction04/08/22 03:27 PM
1

Show a picture of his to people who have no clue who he is and the reaction would be mixed at best. They think he is attractive because of fame and mostly social proof of dating two very famous hot women
/r/seduction04/08/22 03:19 PM
1

He really looks his age btw. He looked super young in Civil War and Homecoming, because well, he was young. In No Way Home he really doesn't look like a high schooler at all.
/r/seduction04/08/22 03:16 PM
1

Nice face is a understatement. Pretty sure 99% of women regardless of age would go crazy by seeing him IRL. Dude's got literally perfect "movie star genetics" if there is such a thing. He also dates some really hot women
/r/seduction04/08/22 03:06 PM
1

She said she was 32 just in case there was some confusion. I'm just saying that if I have a kid that age I'm gonna focus on being a responsible parent and not go clubbing to use drugs and bang random dudes.
/r/seduction04/08/22 03:46 AM
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Last time I went clubbing I made out with this woman all night, she was talking about drugs with her friends and if I had any / was on anything. Next day I check her insta and she got like a 5 year old kid. If you got a small kid why are you clubbing in the first place and you do drugs on top of that?
/r/seduction03/08/22 11:50 PM
33

Just don't get her pregnant a second time lmao. Legit nightmare stuff
/r/seduction03/08/22 11:48 PM
1

Put alcohol into small plastic bags or baloons and hide them on your underwear. I have done it a few times before
/r/seduction03/08/22 01:08 PM
16

If I'm smuggling something into the club its gonna be alchohol
/r/seduction02/08/22 07:17 PM
76

Clubs where I live would never let you get inside with stuff like this
/r/seduction02/08/22 03:31 AM
2

Play the long game like the other guy said. Start making small talk with her smiling, being friendly, etc. If she isn't giving massive indicators of interest I wouldn't bother. If she is cute she gets hit on all the time and it must suck.
/r/seduction01/08/22 11:21 PM
5

If it's at clubs and bars it happens a lot. More often them not they actually don't text you lol. The booze wears down and their guards come up
/r/seduction27/07/22 12:05 AM
13

Smile and they will hit on you. If they don't you know you are butt ugly no offense.
/r/seduction25/07/22 05:09 PM
1

1 minute looking at lips and eyes is awkward as fuck bro lmao. I'm gonna stick to what I have been doing or use the line the guy above said.
/r/seduction21/07/22 11:51 PM
29

Fuck I'm gonna use this when I'm not sure when to go in for the kiss
/r/seduction21/07/22 05:51 PM
2

Got zero action with girls from college while I studied there. I had zero confidence and didn't work on myself back then, I barely dated anyone. A few years after I graduated I fucked two of the hottest girls that attended law school at my college. Got really a big confidence boost now but looking back I could've gotten at least some action
/r/seduction21/07/22 05:33 PM
14

If we are needing this sub I bet you most here aren't very attractive, leaning more to average/below average; Personally I can't say exactly, I think I'm polarizing, some girls think I look really good and others ugly. So not conventionally handsome.
/r/seduction21/07/22 05:29 PM
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You forgot to mention that everything they do revolves getting attention on social media. Picking her up for your date and she looks great, but you think she dressed up for you? It's because she is gonna spend 20 minutes taking selfies making stupid faces, then ask you to take pics of her besides some instagramable ornament. The food you ordered just arrived? oops, can't eat just yet, have to take pics from every angle. She actually suggests the place for you guys to go out? It's because she's s…
/r/seduction09/07/22 02:45 AM
6

Don't try to understand women, even they don't understand themselves and what you said is proof of that. I'm pure guessing here but from what I've seen on my life, women usually love being surprised by men. They like the thrill of it and it's one of the reasons women are way more likely to Friendzone guys than the opposite. Even if they are mildly physically attracted to you they will discard you as a potential partner if they already have you figured out. They would rather go through dates with…
/r/seduction05/07/22 12:28 AM
6

I mean, you are right, but I've seen countless times people say here on reddit this version: "just work on yourself and girls will come". No. Maybe one or two will pop up but that's a recipe to end up alone imo. I know the intention is good hearted and trying to change a certain mindset, but still is a very flawed advice. If you want to date women you are gonna have to work for it
/r/seduction04/07/22 11:45 PM
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Happened to me before too. Don't overthink this, she broke things off or rejected you like that because she doesn't exactly know how to do it. She doesn't want hurt your feelings so she put something good about you there instead of only saying things you don't want to hear. She is just compensating
/r/seduction30/06/22 05:24 AM
2

Sounds like a fuckboy move. If that's what you are going for that ok I guess
/r/seduction22/06/22 11:46 PM
7

Sadly this sub is turning into a incel territory.
/r/seduction16/06/22 10:31 PM
8

Where I live women are way more polite and friendly than men. If I have to talk to some random dude I don't know it's 50/50 if he is gonna be a nice person or a complete asshole. To many men are confrontational to any men they don't know, or are insecure to have a weird out reaction when talked to by other men.
/r/seduction16/06/22 10:31 PM
2

This sub is 99,99% male, some are fine, some are socially inept, and some are full blown incels. It's bound that some clueless comments happen.
/r/seduction14/06/22 06:17 PM
348

If anyone should make a post here it should be her lmao. "How I got the ONS I wanted by being cool and straight foward"
/r/seduction13/06/22 12:50 PM
6

Girls love foreigners. The acting as a tourist is amazing advice, you can pull a lot of girls with it, just don't use it as a crutch
/r/seduction11/06/22 05:16 PM
11

do you guys really pick up women at grocery stores? I can't even seem to fathom how thats possible
/r/seduction11/06/22 05:09 PM
2

You don't need spoken consent is a better way to think of it.
/r/seduction09/06/22 02:44 AM
1

I think they all are. They prey on lonely men desperation to sell something insanely overpriced they know will barely work, if at all.
/r/seduction04/06/22 03:21 PM
12

I know age gaps seem worse the younger you are, but 20 yo dating a 23 is such a insignificant gap... I bet almost everyone you meet can't tell if you don't say your age to them
/r/seduction02/06/22 01:50 AM
4

Fuck if I know but he looks like her uncle anyway. He must be 30+ and has a kid
/r/seduction02/06/22 01:47 AM
2

Pretty sure the dating process is the same regardless of age, but the bigger the age gap, more restrained I think you should be with approaching. Only go for the girls that look interested.
/r/seduction02/06/22 01:46 AM
3

And I bet he was praised for banging a cougar/milf. Flip around the genders and you know it... He is a predator and she is a naive victim. Society is a fucking joke
/r/seduction02/06/22 01:44 AM
15

Go after girls that are looking at you. My success rate drops off a cliff when you pop out of nowhere in front of them.
/r/seduction28/05/22 01:10 AM
2

For sure. It can work as an exercise to get rid of social anxiety when talking to girls but maybe you build had habits in the process. Personally I would never do it tho, I would feel desperate and pathetic.
/r/seduction25/05/22 08:31 PM
7

What's up guys Derek from More Plates More Dates dot com
/r/seduction25/05/22 07:58 PM
9

You are giving the right mindset that people should have, as well as some good advices that I used myself to ease my social anxiety. But I still feel like we need to mention that dating for men truly is a numbers game, it doesn't mean a 'magic number' but it means that even the hottest men can't get any women they want, why us that need reddit advice to get girls would? You have to balance out trying to get real interactions with girls, without focusing on the "getting her number" goal, but you …
/r/seduction25/05/22 07:32 PM
3

Yep. The women from dating apps are much lower value than from 'real life'. I don't mean that as a incel or something, and I know some super hot 10/10 girls that have used dating apps in the past, but like you said, the pool of girls that are actually consistently using Tinder to meet guys aren't getting options on real life. I get interest from much hotter women on real life than on Tinder. I can get matches with hot women but getting dates with them is another story (almost never), there is ju…
/r/seduction25/05/22 02:39 AM
1

She is extremely hot and looks classy, but after her husband she dated some really trashy dudes, one even younger than her daughter I believe?
/r/seduction25/05/22 02:01 AM
3

Right? Kim Kardashian has a explicit sex tape all over the internet, a crazy ex husband, a bunch of kids and a crazy fanbase. She is not that high value Leo has been fucking multiple young 10/10's for years, it's not even close
/r/seduction25/05/22 01:58 AM
3

Even if Bezos is ugly as fuck he should be pulling much better women with the money and physique he has. I really don't understand how a single billionaire is not slaying hot chicks left and right
/r/seduction25/05/22 01:55 AM
7

Yes. 100% of the women date 10% of the men, the math checks out
/r/seduction23/05/22 01:15 AM
1

And this happened more than once? They probably think you look much better than them
/r/seduction22/05/22 03:01 PM
1

This is actually one of the best ways to do it lmao
/r/seduction20/05/22 03:16 AM
2

That's usually how it works tho. Game helps but the final say will always be from the girl. You will never easily pull a girl for sex like this just because of "text game" lmao, no matter what PUAs on the internet tell you
/r/seduction18/05/22 11:12 PM
2

Because you can interact with them through stories. With a number it's hard to gauge interest level. For example, you post a instagram story looking for reactions, that will give them some initiative, with a number very often will be just you chasing. On social media you also have more stuff to talk about. I usually ask for instagram if I'm feeling the girl is like medium level of interest or even low interest (why not?). If it's high interest I ask: "give me your instagram or number", most high…
/r/seduction18/05/22 12:01 AM
14

I never hold hands before I have kissed them a few times, I think it's weird. High fiving them and holding for a couple more seconds than usual to build some tension is good. Touching them on the arm, shoulder, forearm, legs is better imo. Having said all that, I don't think just the holding hands thing was the problem here. Don't overthink about stuff like that, it goes against what seduction is about. Extra and more important advice: 1. Don't message them thanking them and saying you had a gre…
/r/seduction17/05/22 03:33 PM
6

Girls can lose interest even if you don't do anything you know. Also you are not giving the full picture, maybe you were clingy as fuck and she got tired of it.
/r/seduction17/05/22 01:20 AM
1

Find some DTF girl, don't say anything to her and after you fuck her you won't be a virgin anymore.
/r/seduction17/05/22 01:15 AM
1

Maybe focus on dating apps and put all the info there "traveling", "in town for the weekend looking for fun" Then when talking ask where they are from, when they ask back say your original city and that you are just visiting. This should weed out the girls that don't fuck on the first date so you don't waste time and oportunities.
/r/seduction17/05/22 12:42 AM
26

A lot of women on dating apps are problematic.
/r/seduction15/05/22 09:40 AM
10

From body language alone you can tell whats going on
/r/seduction14/05/22 05:12 PM
2

Gold digger and/or attention whore that wants to share expensive stuff on social media. This shit is super common dude, to the point that if I see a girl putting "wine" on their bio I already raise my eyebrows. That shit must be a code to "Buy me a expensive dinner and wine bottle"
/r/seduction13/05/22 03:26 PM
1

Colossal waste of time and and emotional effort. I never even had this friendzone conversation, I can pick up when a girl is turned off from dating me: flaking when it comes late night dates for drinks or something, but actually goes after you to talk or do bullshit activities she would do with her friends. When it comes to this situation just dip bro, don't invest in a girl like this. Being stuck in the friendzone should be a mistake you learn in highschool or at most early years of college, do…
/r/seduction13/05/22 03:19 AM
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XDDDDDDDD Where do you live that hot women don't like well off guys? The rich guys where I live only date hot as fuck girls
/r/seduction10/05/22 01:44 AM
2

Lame as fuck. If you get a date saying this bullshit she is desperate af, better wrap it up buddy
/r/seduction10/05/22 01:33 AM
5

To prevent people thinking you are a incel or something, men can be like this too, but I also share the opinion that women do it more.
/r/seduction03/05/22 09:08 PM
9

Here in Brazil is the exact same bro. I'm reading this thread and it's all shit that happened to me
/r/seduction24/04/22 12:53 PM
20

In my opinion the most confident girls are not the hottest. Like the most confident girls I meet are actually just above average. Super hot girls most of the time have a huge ego tho, but I consider that different from being confident, they usually have insecurities of their own.
/r/seduction21/03/22 04:45 PM
32

The girls are really down to hook up at parties and night clubs. It's kinda common for guys to pick up multiple girls in one night, sometimes even double digits. From what I observed compared to countries like the US, is that here in Brazil girls are down to make out, but are harder to have sex with. (if the stories here on reddit about guys pulling multiple one night stands per week are true). I'm in my late 20s and only banged two girls I picked up from a party or club. (on the same night) On …
/r/seduction20/03/22 02:35 AM
1

I do the same and it works a decent amount of time. Also when I don't bother to waste a ton of time on tinder I just leave my number there and don't even bother looking.
/r/seduction01/03/22 08:24 PM
90

To many guys messaging them
/r/seduction01/03/22 08:23 PM
1

Curious about that too
/r/seduction28/02/22 01:33 PM
13

The boom of pick up artists that made desperate men think you can sleep with a women even if she is not interested in you if you say X or touch her in Y. Big surprise here for people that still don't know: Women are human beings just like you, not magic creatures with weakness like a dark souls boss.
/r/seduction25/02/22 10:06 PM
3

Just think about it, if a girl you are interested invites you to hang out, are gonna ignore her?
/r/seduction25/02/22 08:36 PM
2

If she was going for a pr stunt shouldn't she get someone more famous? I know people are still talking about it but the more famous a couple is the more they boost each other (Pitt+Jolie, Holland+Zendaya for example)
/r/seduction18/02/22 12:40 AM
0

Just say anything bullshit, it really doesn't matter much. At clubs you need to draw a girls attention before you talk to them. (Looks, height, dancing)
/r/seduction16/02/22 05:36 AM
11

This is key advice for modern dating. Meet up as soon as possible (ideally same day or at most 2 days after). The more you wait the more they lose interest.
/r/seduction14/02/22 04:32 PM
1

So you are saying it's common for a girl to go out with you after 1 message? lmao
/r/seduction14/02/22 04:27 PM
7

Yep. My best female friend always said my height is good, that I'm tall enough. One day I'm at her house and she is talking about this hot, rich influencer she was dating. I was actually surprised to know she was dating him since I already knew who he was. She said she kinda liked him but it didn't work out because he was "short as fuck", I was surprised since I actually thought he was tall so I asked how tall was he... She said with a super disgusted face: "174cm" (that's like 5'8). I was like:…
/r/seduction10/02/22 08:41 PM
10

Some people are good at certain things without trying. There are guys that are naturally good at picking up women, guys that put on a PUA persona to do it, and people that need help picking up women. His book is for the last 2
/r/seduction31/12/21 06:14 AM
1

This clown copy pasted part of the most recommend book in this sub lmao It's obviously great advice but even you have that mindset you can be set back really badly when you approach a girl and she looks at you with complete disgust. There is one girl that approached for like 10 seconds and I will never forget her face looking at me
/r/seduction25/12/21 11:37 PM
1

I don't like nudes and hate sending them, but if I was receiving nudes in high school I would feel like a Chad tho
/r/seduction20/12/21 05:04 PM
25

I know you have good intentions but let's not fool ourselves here. The most important thing in clubs is how you look/behave/come off. You can get away saying any bullshit imaginable and it can work, it's just the way you say it and approach (and obviously looks). Just flip the POV, if a ugly chick approaches you are you gonna suddenly get super interested because she said something clever? No.
/r/seduction08/12/21 04:47 PM
1

Hard to say without looking at your profile and conversations. But Tinder is a numbers game specially if the girl is cute as you said, maybe she matched with a more high value guy that she is more interested and stop wasting time with you. Maybe she is not using tinder anymore... There are a lot of variables here. When I used tinder 2 years ago I got 3 dates out of over 100 matches. Maybe o could've gotten more but I had no patience for it, but luckily I found a great girl that I liked. Most gir…
/r/seduction06/12/21 12:27 AM
16

Does winner of the biggest beauty peagent on my state counts? I'm gonna be honest, you don't pick them, they pick you. It's the only way you can be different from all the other rich or hot guys on their DM's 24/7
/r/seduction01/12/21 04:21 PM
1

Baby steps bro, you are clueless about what to do when a girl gets closer to you at a dance club, taking them home is a lot harder.
/r/seduction29/11/21 08:31 PM
1

Yep. From my personal experience and the friends I go out with, the girls you pick up at clubs are very likely to ghost you after. Easily +90% of the time it goes nowhere. My guess is that they are more down because of alcohol and vibe of the place, then regret it the next day or feel slutty for making out with some random dude.
/r/seduction29/11/21 01:35 AM
54

The big truth bomb is that if you are really good looking a lot of people will say it (family doesn't count). Since it's not our case (be honest guys, what 10/10 hot dude is gonna spend time on a seduction subreddit?) the best way to know if you are attractive, or more specific, if you are attractive to certain girls, is if you catch them looking at you consistently
/r/seduction26/11/21 03:29 AM
1

And where are you meeting these women?
/r/seduction19/11/21 04:40 PM
38

I'm not the best at it either but I've picked up a good amount of girls on nightclubs. I don't dance either and that is indeed a good advice, but I'm a complete retard when it comes to dancing. I only go after girls that are looking at me (more than once), your chances are veryyy slim if she didn't even notice you before. So if a girl is looking at you just come up to her at her side, not front and NEVER behind and say some small talk bullshit like she looks fun or whatever. It doesn't matter mu…
/r/seduction12/11/21 04:38 PM
1

Trying to set up a date as soon as possible is the best advice. Anyway, for your case text her one time with whatever bullshit comes to mind but don't keep initiating, it should be 50/50. If she is not initiating it shows lack of interest and high chance of flaking
/r/seduction08/11/21 05:31 AM
3

There is no "text game". Thats bullshit on the internet to sell you stuff. If you are online dating what will get the girls interest is your pictures and profile, not what you are talking about. Conversation skills in person don't translate well to text.
/r/seduction02/11/21 06:24 PM
1

You look good bro, don't worry about it. I've been approached before but mostly at parties/clubs (I don't really go to bars) but almost never I'm approached by the girl themselves, usually it's a friend that says she is interested on me, so you still have to make the true approach lmao, but it's a thousand times easier tho. Also I've noticed that there are some days that you are approached more often, like most days no one approaches you but some lucky days a bunch of girls friends come talk to …
/r/seduction23/10/21 08:00 PM
94

A father of 4
/r/seduction05/10/21 11:08 PM
1

Is this instagram? If it is post some cool stories and see if she reacts to it
/r/seduction04/10/21 03:49 PM
3

Seneca teaching how to slid into insta DMs. I love reddit
/r/seduction04/10/21 03:47 PM
4

Weird flex but ok. Of course a shit ton of women care a lot about height, but there are a ton of shorter women than you regardless of your height since women are naturally shorter. So even if you are short you can find girls the same height as you or shorter The good point about this post is that height is not something you can change, so you shouldn't worry about it. Worry about the things you can change
/r/seduction03/08/21 02:01 PM
3

Why pay if you can get it for free from a simp? If you have any hot friends you know how much free stuff and help they get.
/r/seduction24/07/21 05:48 PM
16

More like this is a summary of what happened to turn a girl that is already very interested in you into obssesed. Don't believe me? Try ignoring a girl thats mildly interested and return back to me 1 week later, or 1 month later, even 1 year later... It doesn't matter, she is gonna drop you buddy. There is not magic trick to win people over. It doesn't mean everything in this post is useless, but to keep it in short: If you are needy and clingy but pretend that you don't care that mask is gonna …
/r/seduction22/07/21 05:17 PM
8

Yeah man. Imagine my female university professor with a PHD trying to give ME academic advice? /s
/r/seduction16/07/21 01:35 AM
3

It might be a good exercise to get rid of social anxiety and stuff like that but I think cold approaching like this at the mall is a recipe for destroying your confidence and get you nowhere
/r/seduction12/07/21 03:08 AM
2

Having $ doesn't mean buying the person dude, showering them with expensive dinners and gifts is a way to find a gold digger. With that said pretty much every woman in the world wants someone successful as their partner, and the more successful you are the more high value women will be attracted to you.
/r/seduction09/07/21 11:27 PM
51

"Just be yourself and someone will come along" is indeed terrible advice, but I think a lot of women say this not because they play on easy mode, but because a lot of guys just put on a mask when they are trying to seduce someone, sometimes girls can pick this up right away but other times it takes a while, but eventually you will meet their true self.
/r/seduction02/07/21 02:10 PM
7

Blows my mind how every woman shame/make fun of guys for having shirtless pics but using tinder while being ripped and having shirtless photos is literally easy mode
/r/seduction12/06/21 04:22 AM
6

I never call, even if we are dating for a long time. This is me tho, some people might like it
/r/seduction07/06/21 10:29 PM
3

Thats a no brother. Move on
/r/seduction30/05/21 07:23 PM
5

If a girl does that and you just brush it off you just showed her that you are a little bitch and will put up with whatever shit she pulls. Have some self respect for Christ sake
/r/seduction11/05/21 07:10 PM
1

A lot of succesful people come across a fake to me, so thats not unheard of
/r/seduction05/05/21 08:55 PM
5

Real life is like this my guy. Not only in dating but when applying for a job, scholarship. The ones that have the power to choose are always looking for someone better, or atleast more in line with what they want. You might do this too. If you get a bunch of matches on Tinder aren't you gonna give most of your attention to the girls that look the best, the girls that are more interesting?
/r/seduction12/04/21 02:03 PM
36

I know you kinda kidding but I would say go for it, man. You obviously love D&D and action figures, hiding that from future partners will work against you. Do you want to have a relationship with a woman that doesn't respect your hobby and doesn't take seriously the things you like? Might wanna keep that hidden if you are just looking for casual sex tho. A lot of girls are ready to call men imature for having that stuff.
/r/seduction10/04/21 06:32 PM
6

Literally every women I've ever dated did shit tests, it's soooo tiring. I'm not mysoginist or red pilled but this one I think it's wired on their brains, can't think of any other explanation for every girl I've had a date to do shit tests
/r/seduction29/03/21 03:55 PM
2

This is one of the worst recurrent advices here on reddit. It's not that it never works, some women are open to go on dates like this, but you guys have to keep in mind that most women have reservations when going out with guys they don't know, there are a lot of creeps and abusers out there, some women feel more secure if they build atleast a bit of connection first. If you have a bunch of girls lined up to go on dates with you then go ahead and just ask them out, but I don't think most guys lo…
/r/seduction04/03/21 03:38 PM
1

I had a crush on a girl from college and didn't ask her out even though she used to talk to me. I thought she was too much for me (all the guys said she was the hottest girl, but some of my friends said I had a chance and whatever) it went on for like a year talking to her sporadically but never asked her out. Like 2 years later she dm me on Instagram all embarrassed saying she had a crush on me back then and still does.... I'm trying to not beat myself up for not asking her out back then but I …
/r/seduction10/02/21 02:49 PM
2

I wished I had a Grandma too man. She will recover pretty fast and teach you more game!
/r/seduction02/02/21 10:52 AM
2

Pretty sure I had a thing with the female version of you. I was VERY interested in this girl but had to cancel our date because I was sick with a very contagious disease(mumps), the stupid me just said I was very sick with another thing to not scare her away, I said I wanted to see her again but didn't set up another date, she took really well and even joked about it. Some few days later she ghosted me... Maybe she thought I was flaking because I wasn't interested? My point is to not set in ston…
/r/seduction16/01/21 03:37 AM
5

If youu don't have a page with a lot a great photos and a bunch of followers I wouldn't even bother. If you have those 2 things just dm commenting something fun about one of their photos
/r/seduction28/11/20 04:48 AM
1

I think he means recording it for content
/r/seduction19/11/20 05:14 PM
1

The way I think it's best: Always get the phone number if the girl is interested. If you notice she has lowish interest in you ask/give your instagram
/r/seduction01/03/20 02:29 AM
1

Just do the hard part and approach/invite to a date the first time and maybe the second time, if a woman is interested in you she will do the same in the future. In my experience girls "chase" the same as men after a while (once you had dates, hookups, sex), they usually just don't initiate and like to play hard to get at the start, once they are interested in you they WILL chase you.
/r/seduction18/02/20 08:39 PM
2

Don't be stupid. You like this girl, add her and get more dates with her, see how she is like
/r/seduction07/02/20 08:57 PM
0

Don't tell her
/r/seduction19/01/20 05:18 AM
8

One thing I learned from losing my virginity later in life it's that is no big deal. After you've had sex things won't change much, if at all. Try not to care about what people think, don't go around saying you are a virgin and it won't matter
/r/seduction25/12/19 03:41 AM
6

Improve your photos and description. You need to have good photos to get matches. If you don't, delete Tinder and focus on having fun and recording the moments with your phone, then you will have more insteresting pictures.
/r/seduction28/10/19 02:34 PM
1

The vibe you give is that for you, the goal is getting the number. That's one of the big traps beginners fall into. Try changing the mindset so that the ultimate goal is dating girls, and getting the number is one of the tools you need to achieve that goal.
/r/seduction10/10/19 06:54 AM
2

If your female wingman is charismatic it's like 20 times easier, no joking.
/r/seduction22/09/19 04:24 PM
4

A true lesbian, no. And you are just being a douche and wasting your time if you keep forcing it. Now, a lot of girls look lesbian but are actually bi, so those you can game.
/r/seduction18/09/19 04:15 PM
1

A "maybe" in 2 months away? Forget about her
/r/seduction18/09/19 04:13 PM
1

I'm 27 years old and never met someone that's all those things combined. You can be funny without having the ability to make a room laugh for an hour straight. Everyone has some degree of ambition. Everyone can take good care of their appearance. I's very hard to find someone truly dumb, life is not a sitcom or a slapstick comedy where people just do stupid shit all the time and don't understand the simplest things. And if that person called you lame she/he just wants to hurt you, I don't care i…
/r/seduction18/09/19 04:13 PM
1

Tinder gold is worth it I think. You have unlimited swipes and you can see who liked you, so you choose the ones you like more.
/r/seduction18/09/19 04:04 PM
5

If they have nothing on their profile just ask them to say something about them, something they like to do.
/r/seduction18/09/19 03:58 PM
1

Ignore it and ask her out again on a real date. Try that I guess.
/r/seduction18/09/19 03:55 PM
1

Completely dick move to be on Tinder on a date. You dodged a bullet there.
/r/seduction18/09/19 03:31 PM
2

Put a comedy on. When she starts laughing look at her and if she looks back at you, kiss her.
/r/seduction17/09/19 04:53 PM
1

Looks matter a lot. But I would say being fit is more important than just being good looking
/r/seduction13/09/19 04:00 AM
11

I had a girl buy me beer once at a club and I was scared shitless about getting roofied. I don't even know how girls trust random guys. They must be really desperate for free drinks
/r/MGTOW12/09/19 05:14 PM
1

Dating apps are hard. They lose interest really fast because there's lots of guys giving them attention
/r/seduction11/09/19 02:19 PM
1

The more you do it the easier it gets. Sometimes you will get really nervous if it's a girl you are very attracted but even then, having experience while nervous still is experience I guess haha
/r/seduction06/09/19 06:23 PM
1

This is actually good imo, I'm like you, except the tall, jacked good looking part. What I've been trying to do is always go for what I want, I try not to go over my head for the thousands of things she could be thinking. You want to dance with her? go for it, if she doesn't want it she will say so or push you a little. Now, I don't go around trying to dance with everyone, I wait for the signals like some of those you said. And why I said that fear of offending is good? Because I know you are li…
/r/seduction06/09/19 06:21 PM
5

Approach by commenting on something you noticed about her, but never about her looks. Maybe the hair if she dyes it but don't say it like "I love the texture shading of your highlights", you want to fuck her, not be her new gay best friend. Say something along those lines: "Omg that's a very interesting hair color" after she says "thanks" say: "It really compliments your style" then you introduce yourself and start the bullshit small talk. Since you mentioned college bars you can also say: "Hey,…
/r/seduction06/09/19 06:01 PM
1

Only quick glances. If you get a lot of looks from girls on the street you must be very good looking or something else is drawing attention. In my experience, the less likely the chance of meeting someone in that place, the less looks you are going to get. What I mean by that is girls don't expect to meet someone on the street, but they do in a class, bar, club...
/r/seduction06/09/19 02:54 PM
2

Think about it really well. If he is good friends with some of your best friends and you start banging his girl right after they broke up it can ruin your friendship with them. I know he isn't really your friend, but he is at the same social circle, and trust me, they will know.
/r/seduction04/09/19 05:51 PM
3

This guy has a point, a true 9 is like Sebastian Stan (winter soldier) or something. Women would flock all over you if you were as good looking as you say OP. It's good to have self confidence tho, it means your only big problem approaching is fear of rejection.
/r/seduction02/09/19 05:46 PM
74

For some women it does. But if you go around talking about "your huge dong" like Devito does I bet it's a huge turn off.
/r/seduction27/08/19 03:19 AM
1

You are right, I mistyped it. Fixed it now. Thanks!
/r/seduction26/08/19 07:15 AM
3

Indicators of interest (main one for someone you haven't approached yet is if she keeps looking at you) Good luck today man, don't worry too much, it gets better/easier the more you do it, so you can be more comfortable.
/r/seduction23/08/19 10:06 PM
14

I've always thought I was a super ugly mother fucker but since I started going out to bars and clubs I always get pretty big IOI's from at least 2 or 3 girls or I straight up get approached by them or their friends (mostly it's by their friends)
/r/seduction23/08/19 07:15 PM
19

This is important. In a bar or a smaller club you don't want to be the guy that's hitting on every women, you lose a lot of value by doing that, but OP provided a interesting list to build "social momentum" that you can use so you can be the "social guy of the bar" instead of the "creepy dude hitting on every girl"
/r/seduction27/07/19 11:28 PM
5

It happens a lot at clubs and parties where I live (Brazil). Obviously most girls don't approach, but a lot of times they start talking some nonsense to you or they send their friends to get you. But yea... At the subway I've never seen something like that
/r/seduction14/07/19 03:21 PM
6

This sounds obvious but the most important thing for picking up girls on instagram is... having a high value instagram account. By that I mean having great pictures and stories doing interesting things
/r/seduction13/07/19 04:52 PM
4

It matters a lot actually. I don't even bother with women that are taller them me (even if she is taller cause of heels), your chances are a lot slimmer with a women taller than you.
/r/seduction01/07/19 04:06 PM
1

How long has this been going on? She seems very interested but if this is going on for a long time maybe she wants you as a friend
/r/seduction29/06/19 11:04 PM
1

I would also love a link for that video haha. I don't know how to dance at and I'm super stiff, but I'm not shy about dancing in clubs anymore, so I always wing it some crazy stuff
/r/seduction29/06/19 10:34 PM
2

9s & 10s get attention from a ton of guys all the time, specially on social media. If you take a look at their DM's the thing is filled with thirsty guys hitting on them. When it comes to very hot girls you just have to do something to stand out.
/r/seduction13/06/19 05:50 PM
1

Careful with this. I have a friend that always said that his girlfriend can't get pregnant because of that same reason. He has a baby now
/r/seduction10/06/19 04:55 AM
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I think only when you are in your 40's that you start to look out of place in some parties
/r/seduction10/06/19 04:43 AM
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