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i’m just new here. I spend a lot of time with music and I’m getting to know some other musicians here slowly. taking time tho. Yeh I like the idea about a gym class that you shared, because I love fitness too. thanks.
/r/askTRP20/12/18 05:17 AM
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thanks man. Factoring this in.
/r/askTRP20/12/18 05:15 AM
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I guess I must disagree for two reasons. FIRST, Plausible Deniability: she needs plausible deniability, and telling her "it's a one-time thing" casts her as the slut. SECOND, don't answer a Shit Test directly: This is a shit test, don't offer a serious response. Something humorous akin to "You accusing me of being a flake? Shots fired" and roll it off your shoulders.
/r/askTRP03/12/18 10:23 AM
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if the red pill is supposed to be so powerful then why are so many women going for these betas instead of solid TRP guys
/r/askTRP19/11/18 03:54 PM
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more betas than ever. I feel like the amount of guys who are 8s and 9s both physically and mentally...but, who are also beta followers... is unusually high at present compared to previous times in history. just fucks with the power of TRP for the rest of us.
/r/askTRP19/11/18 03:38 PM
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You are not alone at all. I look back on my adolescents and college years and my 20s and they are literally infested with ridiculously stupid blue pill life and decisions. so many setbacks that cost me so much time and money that would not have happened had I been at the helm of my life. but I’ve got my shit together now and I’m operating three businesses and doing well, thanks to TRP. Part of my issue was I did not have a red pill father, and he demonstrated and encouraged me in horrible decisi…
/r/askTRP18/11/18 04:28 AM
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you can never simply ignore this kind of behavior or it comes across as though you are slow with verbal responses and are therefore possibly beta. Condescending eye rolls, sarcastic “ohhh good idea, sure!” statements will convey that you are a self-owned man and above her silly suggestions. just make sure it’s always playful and easy-going. you’ll get her attention and confound her.
/r/askTRP17/11/18 12:05 AM
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Disagree. This guy’s petty whining is opportunity! It throws the door wide-open for you to demonstrate solid frame. Just ignore him, and wait for her to respond. If she does, continue as usual with an easy-going attitude and never complain about him. If she doesn’t, don’t text back. Your high road approach will spike your SMV whether she texts you back soon or not. Her white knight just offered you a pedestal at little effort needed on your part.
/r/askTRP17/11/18 12:01 AM
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Good stats. Here’s how this played out for me just four years ago: My ex claimed about me to the judge “he is an abusive monster,” with no proof to support this claim. The judge told me that she would not allow a 50/50 timesharing of our 2 yr old, until a thorough psych eval was completed. No evidence or trial had occurred, only a single claim. There had also been no police involvement or documented incidents before this. I worked for a government laboratory at the time and maintained a top-secr…
/r/MensRights12/11/18 05:52 PM
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the reply was delicious. well done. you’ll have her respect now regardless of what happens.
/r/askTRP11/11/18 03:39 AM
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I unequivocally disagree with this claptrap. If you fall into the trap of just being “yourself,” this includes not seeking to improve and would include generally being an asshole at times and excusing your own behavior. In which case hello, you are no better than the bbw whales who are so very proud of how (to quote them) “big bold and beautiful I am.” So mproved behavior is necessary, improving your body and your mind and the way you treat people which would include being a gentleman. don’t jus…
/r/askTRP09/11/18 06:44 AM
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Dude you encapsulated so much bona fide truth in your statement. so true.
/r/askTRP09/11/18 03:59 AM
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The most damning piece of evidence here is the simple statement she made...that she left her phone at home. Not these days, not a woman. As if.
/r/askTRP07/11/18 09:50 PM
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Yeh he needs to mooove ooooon. It’s hard to move on from someone you have invested so much time and attention into. someone you trusted. no matter how tough you are. But yeh...this woman has proven that she is exceptional at lying and it’s obvious that she can never be trusted. Move on or live in the lie with her.
/r/askTRP07/11/18 09:48 PM
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dude a chiseled muscle bound physique is going to be way better than getting rid of acne!!!!! if you have to choose keep the goddamn acne and start lifting
/r/askTRP06/11/18 06:38 AM
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he really did make good points. also - in my experience a good girlfriend does not hang out with other guys unless they are gay and really gay.
/r/askTRP06/11/18 06:30 AM
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It’s all good. Don’t listen to the stupid ass haters commenting here. they don’t know why they do the things they do. Watch porn or the Cooking Channel or the news or Netflix watch whatever you fucking like. and if you like women more, and that’s what makes you happier, turn off the porn and start improving yourself. but don’t do it because another dumbass guy tells you to. I had a nine here at my home tonight, wanted to get down but I was tired. we kissed a little and she left and then I enjoye…
/r/askTRP06/11/18 06:27 AM
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Because “confident in how I already look” may be false confidence if you dont look good. Value is earned, and not inherent from the day youre born. Everybody is not valuable just because they project confidence that they think they are valuable. There is a commonly understood standard for what is valuable to women and that standard does not generate from inside of one man, so TRP outlines what that commonly understood standard is and you can choose to try to achieve it or not. Conversely, non-TR…
/r/askTRP05/11/18 04:18 PM
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Yes. This is the only logical question.
/r/askTRP05/11/18 12:31 AM
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You have a fantastic attitude. to some degree we have all been there in one way or another. this sounds particularly bad though and you need to avoid scarcity complex and instead move on and find a new group. you have the most important thing, that very few people have, and that is the ability to self critique. next time with the next group you will succeed.
/r/askTRP04/11/18 04:58 AM
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not acquainted with this could you briefly elaborate. serious question, thanks
/r/askTRP04/11/18 04:54 AM
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FOLLOW YOUR HEART. You will always come back to what your heart wants even if you force yourself into a detour. So, don’t waste time on the detour.
/r/askTRP04/11/18 04:52 AM
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oh yeh, definitely. I believe a lot of the PUA philosophy and Ive found success with it. But that line “believe that you are the prize” is so ridiculous. as well as the whole underlying philosophy that accompanies it. no a dude is not the prize just because he has psyched himself up to think that; A dude is the prize when he has built an admirable career and developed an impressive physique and developed finesse with women. until then you have to use a lot of strategy and work harder than her, b…
/r/askTRP04/11/18 04:48 AM
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send for help
/r/askTRP04/11/18 02:27 AM
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This is a fucking great analysis. I honestly can’t disagree and I think you noticed some very important items that I need to think more about. we ended up going back to my place in cooking something (homemade lsagne) and then there was fucking, and some cuddling for her after that. thanks for taking time to spell some things out for me because it’s hard to do from this first person perspective.
/r/askTRP04/11/18 01:53 AM
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haha - classic that’s actually pretty funny
/r/askTRP03/11/18 08:55 PM
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Well it seemed like she wanted me to follow her around, so, dominance game. i think it’s clear. i understand that others wont. ok
/r/askTRP03/11/18 07:58 PM
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totally expected this response.
/r/askTRP03/11/18 07:56 PM
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Let’s be clear that science is only one thing: Coming up with a hypothesis and then testing it, and then testing multiple times after that to see if the results are consistent. That’s all that science is. it’s not a printout that reports statistics and demographics and hard data (although that is one way of looking at science, that’s not necessary to be science). it’s not biology or civil engineering or building rockets or whatever, those are disciplines. Science is how you come to a conclusion …
/r/askTRP03/11/18 03:56 PM
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Yep. I work in an office setting and there is a manager who always comes by our department and attempts to joke with the admin assistants in our department (4 young ladies) in a good-natured way. he honestly seems like he has a good heart. However, The jokes are always self-deprecating and he’s making himself the butt of all of his quips. over time the girls to come to openly ridicule and jab at him as well (joking, of course), because I think they’re just following his lead. I get the impressio…
/r/askTRP03/11/18 03:07 PM
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I don’t know if you and her already made up but your winning move is to be playful and nonchalant. if she gives you the “let’s focus on our friendship” speech, just smile and say “ yeh focus on your stuff, I think we both have stuff we need to focus on its all good.” then, change the subject to talk about something playful or superficial. The goal here is to establish a fuck buddy. by all means dont pursue this person as a long-term relationship.
/r/askTRP01/11/18 10:49 PM
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Standard TRP is not to break it off, rather, demote her to sex only; a fuck buddy/booty call. But definitely not a LTR. She’s looking elsewhere.
/r/askTRP01/11/18 10:37 PM
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read the game. neil strauss. you can change and you can be the prize.
/r/askTRP30/10/18 06:03 PM
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My brother, that is a scarcity complex you’re holding onto. The truth is that the glass is half full! and if you improve yourself even a little bit, you can have those rewards that as you say “only ten percent” can get. edit: i recommend reading The Game, by neil strauss.
/r/askTRP30/10/18 06:02 PM
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Sit comfortably. Lotus not required. Focus on your breath as it comes in and goes out. Some people try to breathe at a four or five second interval in and then the same time for out. Put the tip of your tongue behind your front tooth to minimize swallowing. Close your eyes until you can barely see out of them. So that you were just looking through the slits of your eyes. Minimizes distraction. every time you realize you have become distracted thinking about something other than your breath, just…
/r/askTRP29/10/18 06:50 PM
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This would either be a grand slam or an awkward loss. hmm.
/r/askTRP28/10/18 05:40 AM
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wear a dick on your forehead and be willing to laugh a lot. you’ll trump every sexy pirate or vampire with ease.
/r/askTRP28/10/18 05:38 AM
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edited
/r/askTRP27/10/18 05:03 PM
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sexy and masculine pirate, batman, vampire, wolfman (but dont do the mask), etc
/r/askTRP27/10/18 03:12 PM
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This. Social media amplifies the truth. And if someone thinks they’re going to avoid “amplification of the truth” by posting lies, wait til only 1 or 0 people ‘Like’ those posts. Truth wins out, and social value plummets or is brought into question.
/r/askTRP27/10/18 03:09 PM
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is that Phillips’ Body for Life
/r/askTRP27/10/18 03:07 PM
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I read it about 15 years ago. first half of the book describes journeys that he took all around the world’s geography. The second half of the book was what stood out even more for me, where he goes on multiple spiritual journeys in search of existence of the supernatural. Definitely worth a look into.
/r/askTRP26/10/18 02:11 PM
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painful lesson I learned, but one that I’ve valued as well. i’m about a 6/10, but strong game. I had a date set up with this girl I met on tinder and she was easily a 9/10 if not more. but my epic game didn’t work on her, in fact she said aite calmly “ you’ve got to have a big dick if you’re gonna play the big dick game” she hadn’t seen my dick yet. her metaphor was poking at something deeper: high SMV girls arent dumb, and strong game with them will only work about as well as a fat chick puttin…
/r/askTRP26/10/18 02:29 AM
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Adding smiley faces to some of my texts
/r/askTRP26/10/18 02:21 AM
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just ask her about it in don’t try to make wink wink jokes. a wink wink jokes suggest that you are uncomfortable and that you are walking on egg shells. dont talk like that. say “your pussy has an unpleasant odor, what do you think gives?”
/r/askTRP25/10/18 11:58 PM
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interesting response I enjoyed reading. have you read Michael Crichton’s autobiography “Travels”? It’s right up your alley.
/r/askTRP25/10/18 11:44 PM
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not everybody is passionate about a religion or political ideology. or a grand cause of some kind. some are but many arent. to the many I would suggest focus less on what your mission is, and instead determine what are your “values and priorities.” it’s taken me several decades into my adulthood to figure this out. example ——- my values are music, specifically creating and performing it. also having a child and spending a lot of time with that child. and a keen interest in nutrition. the way I p…
/r/askTRP25/10/18 11:42 PM
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Few others I didn’t see mentioned... 300 — King Leonidas is RP AF, and a leader of RP men. The Beach — despite his characters eventual downward spiral, Leonardo DiCaprio plays it RP for most of the film. 8 Mile — I particularly like Eminem’s potrayal of Rabbit in this film because Rabbit is very RP but literally has nothing and comes from nothing to achieve much just by maintaining his frame and “doing his own thing.” Gladiator — Crowe nails it. Very good frame maintained despite trials and the …
/r/askTRP25/10/18 07:52 AM
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soft next
/r/askTRP25/10/18 05:17 AM
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so true
/r/askTRP25/10/18 02:11 AM
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you need to go to the red pill and read the sidebar. I know you know this I know it’s hard to do. take it in little pieces every day and you will transform from the inside out. just read one page of some thing from there a day and that’s more than enough.
/r/askTRP25/10/18 01:00 AM
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Yep anybody else noticed ... seems like as soon as TRP was taken down all of this absolutely inane posting started.
/r/askTRP25/10/18 12:51 AM
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I agree she never gives him ultimatums but I would say dread game or soft next. she may learn. if continued defiance, then hard next.
/r/askTRP25/10/18 12:45 AM
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this is the only suggestion needed. do this and you can’t lose. don’t do this and you will fail fail fail.
/r/askTRP25/10/18 12:37 AM
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Not true, he’s doing honest self reflection. recognizing reality is very important, and then dealing with it and improving comes next.
/r/askTRP25/10/18 12:32 AM
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Might be worth a go: Meetup.org
/r/askTRP24/10/18 07:52 PM
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If you show up alone you’re going to start getting passive aggressive repercussions behavior for not doing what you were asked to do. Also, this all just sounds sleazy and possibly malicious, so if I were you I would just come up with excuses to not show up. Once you are involved you can’t back out no matter how bad it may be without it impacting your work environment. This is a situation akin to not dating someone you work with....
/r/askTRP19/10/18 01:33 PM
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Most definitely no disagreement there
/r/askTRP19/10/18 12:27 AM
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There are men that have the same trait. There also women who are feminine but are not self actualized.
/r/askTRP18/10/18 10:29 PM
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bam this.
/r/askTRP18/10/18 10:18 PM
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i would add self-actualized. Meaning, she knows who she is and what she is about and is not swayed easily.
/r/askTRP18/10/18 10:17 PM
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If youre in a grocery store, the mall, an airport, etc...only works if you are more attractive than the mark. Otherwise you are better advised to just start a friendly conversation and gain experience chatting with a hottie about some shared hobby or interest. This is reality.
/r/askTRP17/10/18 10:47 PM
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well I am a 40 something dude who may be out of the loop, i’ll admit that much first. but I want to add that from my knowledge of girls they would be far more impressed going to an apartment than a dorm room. at any rate good luck with the roommate situation
/r/askTRP17/10/18 03:00 PM
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Why don’t you just rent an apartment? have you done a cost comparison between sharing an apartment with someone & renting a dorm room with someone? Move up.
/r/askTRP17/10/18 09:19 AM
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She didnt invite you? That is not neutral behavior. If you and her have been in a monogamous relationship for a year and she is suddenly doing this, that is disrespectful behavior. Move on. The issue here isnt that she doesnt want to be your monogamous girlfriend anymore, rather, that she pulled this move out of thin air and expects you to go along with it as though this is the new normal. Gaslighting.
/r/askTRP16/10/18 03:51 PM
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dude, chill.
/r/askTRP16/10/18 06:04 AM
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speaking of “drama queen,” look in the mirror bro.
/r/askTRP16/10/18 06:03 AM
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usually the second response during the first several weeks after you’ve met the new girl. during this time she is making fixed impressions about you that will be in movable once they are made. Judging you on how balanced you are and safe you are and savvy you are etc etc. you can get away with being honest and boring a few weeks down the road once she thinks you’re a hero. she will overlook it then.
/r/askTRP16/10/18 05:30 AM
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I disagree. It can be interpreted by a lady as a lack of boundaries and social eptitude on the part of the man. Women are attracted to men who are smooth, not just honest.
/r/askTRP16/10/18 05:24 AM
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well done to walk up to her I agree. A lesson to take away from this is to disarm a lady by engaging in some non-confrontational chitchat, then escalate from there.
/r/askTRP16/10/18 05:22 AM
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I agree. now just needs to be explained his friend
/r/askTRP16/10/18 05:20 AM
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yeah if bullshit is mutual then bud that’s bullshit I can spoon down too. but if said bullshit is packed with feminist propaganda, i definitely decline. in that case, you can have my spoon.
/r/askTRP16/10/18 05:05 AM
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that is exactly the overall message, yep. i’m pretty shocked to find such a supportive bag of dicks here on askTRP for this blue pill garbage.
/r/askTRP16/10/18 05:04 AM
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that is exactly the overall message, yep. i’m pretty shocked to find such a supportive bag of dicks around this blue pill propoganda on askTRP.
/r/askTRP16/10/18 05:02 AM
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read the sidebar. there are no shortcuts. read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP14/10/18 09:48 AM
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I see what you want to do with the play on words there, but no, alphas do not disregard their mates. alphas have high value mates, and high value mates require respect and reciprocal honor. No Alpha is disregarding a mate and then that mate is returning the disregard by worshiping his cock. no. high-value mates have other options.
/r/askTRP14/10/18 09:45 AM
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judge whether your smv is able to pull her own value at this time. if not do some more lifting and self-improvement. if so then take this relationship in baby steps, instead of cold asking her out on a date; ask for her Instagram or strike up a conversation with her about something you have in common and shoot her your Instagram so that she can see the home studio you guys were chatting about etc etc. you need more frequency with this girl before asking her out on a 1:1 date.
/r/askTRP14/10/18 09:37 AM
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Music producer /performer here. As soon as you start sharing your beats with ladies they are going to ask how often you perform. You want to be able to say that you perform at least semi-regularly and have photos or video clips to share when they show interest, and until you can share that then you need to state no more than “I dabble in producing music, it’s a new hobby right now.” never overshoot your achievements.
/r/askTRP14/10/18 09:29 AM
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feminism would occur for the sake of women actually becoming alpha, versus feminism as a result of penis envy
/r/askTRP14/10/18 08:36 AM
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this wisdom. yep
/r/askTRP14/10/18 08:33 AM
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About as factual as askTRP
/r/askTRP14/10/18 08:31 AM
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“hank’s a fucking master of social dynamics” — But he’s not. every season in every situation he made enemies or lost his wife to another man or alienated his daughter from him. He is constantly being put in his place. Watch the same show?
/r/askTRP13/10/18 10:20 PM
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no claim made that I believe trp would go mainstream. from the top of my post - “More than one person on TRP-related posts has praised the prowess of Hank Moody (the fictional character played by David Duchovny) in Californication. I take issue.”
/r/askTRP13/10/18 08:40 PM
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this is the answer. there are no shortcuts.
/r/askTRP13/10/18 06:43 PM
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no claim made that I believe trp would go mainstream. from the top of my post - “More than one person on TRP-related posts has praised the prowess of Hank Moody (the fictional character played by David Duchovny) in Californication. I take issue.”
/r/askTRP13/10/18 06:41 PM
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https://caloriesburnedhq.com/bmi-calculator/
/r/askTRP13/10/18 06:09 PM
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Right. and you’re going to hear trainers say this from time to time “Do both because lifting builds lean muscle which will help you burn fat more when you’re cutting!” BS. yes it’s true, but your body will build far less muscle while losing far less fat if you try to do both phases at the same time, making gains in both directions slower. morale buster. I want to be clear that over the course of a year — if you spend six months in hypertrophy and then six months cutting — you will make far more …
/r/askTRP13/10/18 05:45 PM
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Musician here. I wear during performances and receive compliments from women. I wouldn’t wear it outside of music performance though, it would be too pretentious for my style.
/r/askTRP13/10/18 02:17 PM
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dude she knows what she’s doing.
/r/askTRP13/10/18 02:12 PM
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A blue pill theory promulgated over the last couple decades in particular suggests that attractive men and women can be friends in a purely platonic matter. this is blue pill propaganda. your girl is currently dating another man. “I don't want to break off a great relationship (aside from this situation this girl is literally everything I've been looking for) out of fear.” — scarcity complex. you are also second-guessing your instincts and tiptoeing around her, so that she is controlling your fr…
/r/askTRP13/10/18 02:10 PM
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it’s beta. you’re allowing her to change your plan and follow hers, on her terms, at her location, and at her timing. you can do better than that.
/r/askTRP13/10/18 04:14 AM
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youre dealing with scarcity complex. it also sounds like you honestly don’t see what you have to lose by showing up. “let’s meet up soon.” then don’t text again or respond to her for two weeks. dread game.
/r/askTRP13/10/18 04:10 AM
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The issue here is that she is not as attracted to you as you are to her. not because she isn’t willing to show up (She gets to cancel every now, we all get fatigued from time to time), but because she did so in a glib and impersonal way. there are a variety of other ways she could’ve communicated that to you. try to dissect yourself. what is it that you have done or what is it about your current status it would cause her to disrespect you. improve it. obviously you also need to play dread game o…
/r/askTRP13/10/18 03:50 AM
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Noooooooo read the sidebar my friend. she’s controlling the frame and there is no respect for you in that.
/r/askTRP13/10/18 03:47 AM
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Clubs and social groups. Bonus if it’s something you are passionate about, then others will see that and it increases your magnetism. Stand-up comedy, gardening, computer programming, a foreign language, an instrument, hiking etc. Learn a skill, get good at it, and you will be drawn to others who have the same interest. Avoid: Classes because you will sit in silence listening to someone monologue and have very little interaction with those around you. As you know once you were with other people …
/r/askTRP13/10/18 03:43 AM
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I agree. if you keep them to yourself and for yourself, on your own media.
/r/askTRP12/10/18 09:26 PM
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Dwayne The Rock Johnson. That guy has his life shit together, and he’s badass.
/r/askTRP12/10/18 07:18 PM
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exactly. not sure why someone is downvoting this shit it’s pretty self-evident.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 04:29 PM
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Pictures are currency in the online dating world, and, that includes Facebook and Instagram. you take hot photos of your girls and your are giving them an advantage apart from you. Sure it’s a nice thing to do for them, but has no advantage for you.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 04:25 PM
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exactly my same thought
/r/askTRP09/10/18 06:18 PM
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actually the whole point of the red pill is to rely on the experience of others to save time reproducing 10,000 fails in our own life. but I know what you mean a person has to be out there in the field trying as well
/r/askTRP09/10/18 06:18 PM
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excellent
/r/askTRP09/10/18 05:41 PM
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it’s not good at all. because of STDs, which high smv chicks (or young chicks in general) take as a serious concern. it’s possible to downplay this with humor and move forward, as someone else said above yes she still talking to you so that means she’s interested. but the bigger issue here may be your roommate and getting Mr. Cockblock out of your space. If you happen to really value this girl, doing some casual reputation damage to him may be in order, e.g., find a way to casually portray him a…
/r/askTRP09/10/18 05:40 PM
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Yes. The funny response is always going to fare better than, say, raising an eyebrow and questioning the ludicrousness of what she suggested. funny always wins and is less intense.
/r/askTRP09/10/18 05:35 PM
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Yes. The funny response is always going to fare better than, say, raising an eyebrow and questioning the ludicrousness of what she suggested. funny always wins and is less intense.
/r/askTRP09/10/18 05:34 PM
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This is good. And yet a response was requested, as completely ignoring her statement carries a degree of rudeness that a high smv chick won’t tolerate well (ignoring someone without a response doesn’t work well in general).
/r/askTRP09/10/18 05:31 PM
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wheeeeeww. ya boi
/r/askTRP04/10/18 09:00 PM
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Red pill doesn’t teach not to do those things. Rather it teaches how to maintain your frame if you do choose to do those things.
/r/askTRP04/10/18 12:31 AM
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This. Most people prefer a comfy blue bill to the truth. That’s the world. And what you consider to be “truth,” they will crucify you for.
/r/askTRP02/10/18 09:24 PM
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There are not two options in the situation. another thing you could’ve done is walk up to them and ask someone for the time or ask for a cigarette, to distract, then try to keep a conversation going so that she can move away while you do so. another option would be to pretend you are injured in order to distract and draw sympathy into the frame. I realize that neither of these portray yourself as the hero but that’s not the point of protecting someone who may be on the verge of being raped. mayb…
/r/askTRP01/10/18 03:11 AM
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provide picture
/r/askTRP29/09/18 02:49 PM
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I believe that it is. In my mind I would be 99% of the way to demoting this tramp, but, I believe it’s always fair to give the other person a chance to clarify some relevant random detail that may have been missed.
/r/askTRP27/09/18 06:42 PM
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First of all, She would not be letting any man massage her body unless he is attractive. Second of all, I don’t care what the fuck others on here say it’s ridiculous to think that that is acceptable. Third fourth and fifth, you need up your dread game and this massage classes of hers needs to stop. being alpha doesn’t mean that you have to pretend that everything is OK all the time and have no hard standards that can’t be crossed, not at all. The minute you start tiptoeing around these subjects …
/r/askTRP27/09/18 04:51 AM
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the only issue here is how she responds to it. not what they do or dont do. if she giggles, acts bashful, laughs — or in any way shows any response to them other than that she feels they are odd/creepy/or not worth her time — then she has disrespected you and must immediately be demoted. edit: i had a guy make banter at my expense in public and my girlfriend at the time chuckled. later i asked her why, and she said “cos i didnt want to be rude to him.” no argument or whining from me in response.…
/r/askTRP26/09/18 07:30 PM
3

True with modern music, it's pretty bad. But that was not true of most rock and hop hop up until 10 yrs ago.
/r/askTRP25/09/18 06:36 PM
0

Control is the issue here. I agree that jumping into sex as soon as she is ready only establishes more control for her not you, which is not good. so what you do next time is you jump into sex as soon as she’s ready,but then you toy with her during foreplay. you push and pull during foreplay to reestablish dominance. so you get to have sex but you reestablish sex on your own terms during foreplay. if you made a mistake you made the right mistake however because it sounds like she is malicious.
/r/askTRP25/09/18 03:17 AM
0

I don’t think you read closely
/r/askTRP25/09/18 03:14 AM
2

I have had success with BMI
/r/askTRP24/09/18 06:25 PM
2

find your BMI and shoot for a little below the middle of your BMI. there are tons of calculators online that can help you find that number. if you have trouble losing weight use Keto.
/r/askTRP24/09/18 06:20 PM
4

he probably met her in a way that circumvented worries about her being a Golddigger, she probably held her opinion on a topic that he isn’t fond of or demonstrated her own independence in some way. there so many fake people trying to get his attention and money that I’m sure he would respect someone unique like that. also she’s in pretty good physical condition and looks like a cutie.
/r/askTRP24/09/18 10:29 AM
5

feel free to downvote this to hell but it is definitely a must with most women. most women equate average use of Facebook with healthy social balance IE SMV. if you have a super robust social life then of course you don’t need social media but if you don’t then you better have a Facebook page and you better be participating infrequently, because SMV.
/r/askTRP24/09/18 10:25 AM
2

thanks
/r/askTRP23/09/18 03:16 PM
3

yeah chicks wont dig a muscley dude with a huge gut. trim down then build bricks back on that bod.
/r/askTRP23/09/18 02:46 PM
5

“press or bench” — am I amiss or aren’t these the same thing.
/r/askTRP23/09/18 02:45 PM
1

Just watched the first two episodes with my son. The feminism — no, rather, mysandrist male subjugation — is so thick with this one. barely subtle if at all. after getting halfway through the second episode I had to pause it and we talked through what we had watched. talking through key scenes that are especially cringe worthy which we had watched. I did not want this propaganda imprinted on his mind without having a say. in our household we believe in equality and respect toward both genders. t…
/r/MGTOW21/09/18 02:12 AM
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Well I mean this is ask TRP, right...?
/r/askTRP20/09/18 02:08 PM
1

perfect response.
/r/askTRP20/09/18 05:05 AM
1

Gentle kino works. you got a good gut you know when gentle kino versus sexy kino. Plain and simple she’s not attracted to you otherwise she would giggle and toss her hair when you do upside-down-clown-car kino. Go back and build attraction again if you can
/r/askTRP20/09/18 05:04 AM
2

It sounds like you have answers to your questions.
/r/askTRP19/09/18 05:41 PM
3

Clubs based around the type of people that you want to befriend and date from. Drama, versus Debate, versus Engineering, versus Spanish. Follow your natural talents and proclivities, you'll enjoy it more. That said, some clubs IN MY HUMBLE OPINION isolate people socially and carry a stigma -- video games, chess, choir, and marching band simply do not carry the same clout as French club or a Robotics club.
/r/askTRP19/09/18 05:22 PM
2

Yes, glad to see someone caught this. Blue pill is much harder to stomach and takes a much greater toll, all said. Wearing a leash provides no luxury.
/r/askTRP19/09/18 07:08 AM
1

holy shite. which one?
/r/askTRP19/09/18 07:03 AM
2

erudite. well said.
/r/askTRP19/09/18 07:02 AM
1

there is a way to eat pussy that will make you appear as a pussy. and there is another way to grab that ass in both hands and own that kitty with one’s tongue.
/r/askTRP19/09/18 07:00 AM
3

depends on how you go about it
/r/askTRP19/09/18 06:59 AM
2

First of all, you are right about your stance but wrong how you engaged them. others along this thread have already pointed some helpful things out. One of the most helpful that I read is that telling people what to do particularly when you don’t know them is going to create aggression. using more playful tone or private messaging one or two people who seem to be thought leaders in the group to see if you can change their minds at a 1:1 level would’ve been better (John Maxwell calls this the law…
/r/askTRP19/09/18 04:56 AM
3

places that are semi crowded but not loud. grocery store or bookstore or café.
/r/askTRP19/09/18 04:47 AM
1

This. Unlike guys, girls can be satisfied with flirting and teasing and not need it to go further, ever. you’re her flirty orbiter. she doesn’t see your value and you will need to flip her switches which will take work, but once you flip them she will respond. check out Neil Strauss’s switches. and ultimately, the only thing that could change this current sit is if she sees you getting attention from other women at your class.
/r/askTRP18/09/18 04:16 PM
1

I would never date a girl taller than me but that’s me. I don’t want to have to run a mental stoic game in fifth gear to pretend it’s all good and I’m not affected. fuck that I go for 5 foot one. scooped her little body up in my arms and held her all through the night two nights ago. not pretending there’s an equivalent to that with 6 foot two.
/r/askTRP18/09/18 08:16 AM
5

Speak slower, with decent volume, and don't lilt at the end of sentences rather let your voice descend (i.e., say "This is the answer" to demonstrate).
/r/askTRP17/09/18 05:18 PM
3

If you were ugly or wierd they would avoid looking at your face. They are attracted to you. But they don't know if you are safe/fun/sexy hence the hesitance. Gotta say hi or throw back a slight head nod & smile.
/r/askTRP17/09/18 05:16 PM
3

had exact. same. thing. happen. love of my life, had been dating for three years, thick as thieves. she saw my pic from 8 years earlier (pre-gym) and she said in the most even, blunt tone: "I would never date that. (slowly looked at me, then back at picture) You and I would never have talked."
/r/askTRP17/09/18 03:53 PM
6

sometimes I prefer my own damn hand. sometimes I don’t want to go through all the foreplay and fucking and follow up cuddling. but hey that’s me. and what’s important to me is doing what I want & not what society says I should be doing.
/r/askTRP16/09/18 07:47 PM
1

“Great! Bring him along I’d love to meet him.”
/r/askTRP16/09/18 07:43 PM
12

if she can clean the rug I’ll eat on it
/r/askTRP16/09/18 09:04 AM
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If she’s clean feelig and classy-looking, of course I do. If I want to.
/r/askTRP16/09/18 01:55 AM
3

During the first purchase you turn to her and say “ let me get this one.” And make sure to say “one.” If she doesn’t offer to pay at the second one, you only pay for yours.
/r/askTRP15/09/18 11:25 PM
1

yeah lifting is not going to burn that belly away. And trying to cut & bulk at the same time is going to require a lot of gym time every day that everybody doesn’t have. there is also evidence that trying to do hypertrophy while cutting at the same time produces less results in both areas.
/r/askTRP15/09/18 03:15 PM
1

find your BMI and shoot for the middle of it. Science tells you what’s healthy for you so look up the BMI.
/r/askTRP15/09/18 03:14 PM
1

yes if you have a huge belly then lifting is not the place to start. you want to start by cutting. to do that you eat whatever you can while still being able to maintain a calorie deficit. if you are over eating them there are triggers in your diet like sugar (as well as Stevia), salt, fatty processed food, and flour-based products, and super sweet fruits (banana, mango). some or all of these may be triggers for you, everyone is different. once you get the triggers out of your diet you will be a…
/r/askTRP15/09/18 03:13 PM
1

it’s corny because why would a girl feel like making you homemade curry is worth finding out where you got your men’s shoes? For example, you might as well tell her she needs to make you homemade curry before you answer her question about, oh, how your day at work was. These things are hardly equal and sound odd when paired together. On the other hand, say she were to mention that she wants guitar lessons, it would be more understandable to joke with her “Let’s see how good that Indian curry is …
/r/askTRP15/09/18 03:04 PM
12

You escalated that quickly
/r/askTRP15/09/18 02:28 PM
1

Agreed
/r/askTRP14/09/18 06:11 PM
3

This is one of several misfires that I noted in OP’s description. For example, an alpha is never out to one up other men rather a true alpha knows that networking and building wing men out of those alphas is the smarter move. The goals and aspirations that OP has outlined are not rooted in smart TRP.
/r/askTRP14/09/18 06:10 PM
1

hmmm Ive met some strange people who would attract more people if they cared a little more.
/r/askTRP14/09/18 06:07 PM
0

he already stated that he understands this much in his post. try again.
/r/askTRP14/09/18 06:06 PM
2

My personal opinion is that no one really is holding back. Only publicly they portray holding back because that’s what society expects, but that is a veneer.
/r/askTRP13/09/18 02:05 PM
6

She may have many plates herself and he’s the nerdy sensitive one, or His alpha game is super impressive, or He’s packin big bucks, or He’s packin big dick, or He used to be svelt when she first met him, or She’s tired of not getting her way with alphas and this guy is a likable beta, or etc etc etc But something unusual is happening that doesnt apply to 99% of us as the norm.
/r/askTRP12/09/18 11:18 PM
1

Not this one. Coy wont work, it will just show her that you care too much and that she’s getting to you. She will grin and say “No, Im fine! But Ive been meaning to ask Are you ok? Youre not feeling paranoid are you....”
/r/askTRP12/09/18 11:13 PM
12

This. Never lose your cool or react. People respect other people who dont react and remain professional regardless of how bad they get demeaned. She is being a dick, true. But dont think people will see you as inferior because of it, they wont. You’ll look strong when you remain professional and keep it unemotional. Dont even roll your eyes or shake your head.
/r/askTRP12/09/18 11:11 PM
1

Meh...was hoping for a real answer.
/r/askTRP12/09/18 11:08 PM
2

In retrospect I do see what you mean. definitely a lesson learned.
/r/askTRP11/09/18 10:08 PM
3

I know the sidebar. Good reminder, and well-articulated, thank you. We met online (versus through friends etc), so that comfort increase yeh definitely needed.
/r/askTRP11/09/18 04:07 PM
1

Haha I love that.
/r/askTRP11/09/18 04:03 PM
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