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Terra_Lee/r/ExRedPill11/08/17 03:07 PM
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LTR/MARRIAGETerra_Lee/r/RedPillWomen09/08/17 08:24 PM
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Terra_Lee/r/ExRedPill18/08/17 03:16 PM
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I would say we had an average sex life- regularly intimate, mutual pleasure, but we never had romance movie fireworks. I thought that was something only women wanted anyways though.
/r/ExRedPill18/08/17 03:11 PM
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Yes we have several guns, I didn't consider that. I am currently staying in a hotel and he isn't allowed up to my room, but that is a good point.
/r/ExRedPill18/08/17 03:10 PM
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I feel like I'm about to fly apart into a billion pieces. But typing it out, its easy to delete the hysteria.
/r/ExRedPill18/08/17 03:09 PM
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Coastal USA, so yes and no.
/r/ExRedPill18/08/17 03:09 PM
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I have been separated and staying in a hotel for a couple of weeks. I don't feel safe with him right now.
/r/ExRedPill18/08/17 03:08 PM
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I think I will invite him to post here. I have met him twice over the last week and tried to get him to consider a marriage counselor, but so far nothing there. I think people here might steer him straight.
/r/ExRedPill18/08/17 03:06 PM
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I documented it when it got bad. That should be enough to activate our prenup if that is what I have to do.
/r/ExRedPill11/08/17 04:00 PM
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I'm so sorry that you went through it. I don't want to demean your situation by saying mind is anywhere as bad. Thank you for the advice
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/17 03:20 PM
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If I don't have questions I've just been staring the comments. Do you not get a notification when I like them?
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/17 03:17 PM
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If you include him in your therapy, you'll fail. He can have his own therapist. You need yours alone. I've considered that we will need our own therapy, but I think we will need time to work through this together too. Do you disagree with doing sessions together and apart?
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/17 03:15 PM
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you shat where you eat. I got him a job there after he lost a job managing a doctors office
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/17 03:15 PM
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I think I am going to ask to speak to him tomorrow. Neither of us will have had work, so we can discuss what exactly we want to do. I'll bring up therapy then.
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/17 03:14 PM
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I suspect his discontent ran deeper and longer than you ever suspected. In posting here, I think that is the most heartbreaking thing I've discovered. I've been truly happy in our marriage and partnership. It seems he probably wasn't
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/17 03:13 PM
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The word rape is such a trigger word. Yes what he did is def a negative thing, but consider that there are "shades of rape. The reason I didn't use the word rape is that I feel I could forgive him for what he did, whereas women who were truly raped can't forgive their rapist. I think he is being sexually violent, but I think I could forgive him given time and probably some help working through it. Since you make more money, simply hire a maid to handle the chores. It will be a minimal cost that …
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/17 03:12 PM
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said in my post that I am not RPW pretty clearly. That was my question. Got helpful feedback from it (but not really what I was hoping to hear), so admins can take down the post if they think I wasn't being sincere. I dont intend to use Reddit or this blog again.
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/17 06:00 PM
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Thanks, but that isn't my husband. He doesn't work at a grocery. He works at my company.
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/17 05:57 PM
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Nope. I know its tacky to say how much we make, but I wanted to emphasize that his pay cut wasn't changing our lifestyle at all (less than 5% of our income). I am a pharmaceutical researcher. I develop new medication. So my performance incentives are for passing benchmarks in drug development.
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/17 05:54 PM
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We've always been planners- we had a plan for when to have kids, and my issue is the sudden divergence from it. It is just out of character (like everything else). I'm definitely not out partying- I'm staying at a long stay hotel right now to avoid involving family/friends, working, and focusing on trying to fix my marriage. I don't want to involve family and friends because if we can work this out, I don't want anyone to hold it against him.
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/17 05:52 PM
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No he wouldn't. It is such a personality shift I think that's why I haven't just left. The things he is wanting from me are opposite of the things we previously enjoyed...
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/17 05:47 PM
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I see your point.
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/17 05:45 PM
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I would never say it to him, but he's a paper pusher. Anyone can do that job. Office managers, HR, ect are always the first ones to go in a layoff scenario. He used to like what he did, and liked that he could be home when I was... I work in research, so I have somewhat long hours. If you told me that an alien replaced my husband with someone else I would probably believe you. But thank you for your advice.
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/17 05:41 PM
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Thank you! I think I will look into this.
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/17 05:37 PM
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I know it seems crazy. But I've been in love with this man for years. I can't imagine life with out him. This hasn't been him at all.
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/17 09:37 PM
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Thank you, based on the advice here I think I am going to look at getting a therapist for us
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/17 09:35 PM
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I honestly don't care how much money he makes. I love my job and I'm really good at it. It has allowed us to travel, build a dream home, and have a lot of the things in life we've wanted.
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/17 09:35 PM
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Are there therapists who work with RP men? Is that something we could look for?
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/17 09:34 PM
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Thank you for the input. I think, with the feedback here I will seek a counselor.
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/17 09:33 PM
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Ok, well my life is in shambles. I've moved out of my home and don't recognize the love of my life. But glad you enjoyed reading it.
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/17 09:33 PM
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Honestly, I haven't told anyone. I know what advice I would give a friend/family member if I told them this: they would demand we separate and might even call the police. Even if they don't, if he snaps out of this what would it mean to his family that he did this?
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/17 09:30 PM
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I moved into a long stay hotel Sunday evening. He has tried to come see me there and at work, but I said I needed a few days to think.
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/17 08:55 PM
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I felt very much raped. However, I've been reading on the forum he read and know they don't acknowledge spousal rape, so I'm trying not to hold him to it. I'm just not sure. Thank you for the advice on a counselor. I think I'm kind of just shocked that the whole marriage just went sideways and not thinking straight still...
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/17 08:37 PM
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