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| 2 | [deleted by user]They're people. It's as simple as that. Try just interacting with women seeing the diversity between them. Normally when people idealize partners it's a reflection on their own issues: they need the person to be perfect to fulfill something lacking in themselves - or they cannot tolerate imperfections in themselves and therefore need a 'perfect' partner to reflect on them positively. It could be, underneath it all, you don't really want to attach and this is your way of avoiding commitment or ge… | /r/seduction | 07/08/16 11:29 AM |
| 3 | I want to stop being beta.Firstly: alpha/beta is the dumbest thing on the planet. Stop using that framework. Secondly: I think what's underneath all this is a fear of rejection. You're likely attracting personality-disordered women (and men) who will attempt to take advantage of your insecurity and desire to be liked. Try investing in yourself for a change. (It might be worth your time to look up 'codependency' as a psychological concept and see if that material applies/resonates with you!) I think it best if you forget … | /r/seduction | 07/08/16 11:11 AM |
| 3 | "Women are turned on by being wanted"Nice Guys, stereotypically, have terrible social skills so they don't convey their interest very well. Another thing is they tend to be a bit sexist and have very outdated ideas that sex is degrading to women - not their fault individually, just the way culture developed historically with women being shamed for their sexualities. Other issue is that Nice Guys tend to be anxious, insecure, needy, passive-aggressive and feel self-loathing. So, yah, they're not particularly attractive to emotionall… | /r/seduction | 07/08/16 10:59 AM |
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