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| 1 | 18m, 6’4 brutally honest questions about attractiveness.I’m jealous of the height. I’m only 6ft, but women usually like guys taller than that. That’s one thing that’s a blessing. | /r/seduction | 24/06/21 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Do you use dating apps? If so, how do you not allow them to crush your self esteem and drive you insane?Let me add that it’s harder than ever for an average to below average guy to meet women in the wild. If you’ve been to r/letsnotmeet there are always stories of guys that don’t suit their standards described in the worst possible way. Example: last night I (22/f) met the ladies for coffee. After I sat down there was this table of skeevy looking guys with ugly clothes and bad haircuts looking at us. I saw them gesture to us, and the one rapey-looking guy shot me this creepy smile. I immediately s… | /r/seduction | 22/06/21 08:15 PM |
| 1 | As a younger guy, am I going to regret avoiding casual sex when I'm older?It kind of depends. I was terrified of STDs and unplanned pregnancy back in the day, and it only takes once. My fears were realized (pregnancy) thanks to a broken condom. That was all of the evidence that I needed to keep it to a minimum. Now I'd be more open to flings, but I cant personally say that I feel that I missed out. If something goes wrong nowadays I'm in a better position to handle it without derailing my entire life. That's just my opinion. Whatever you do, just be careful. Good luck… | /r/seduction | 08/05/21 12:59 AM |
| 1 | My tinder date turned out to be taller than me.I’m actually insecure about this. I’m 6ft, and have always wished I was like 6’3 or 6’4. I don’t like it when a woman is taller than me. I know it’s stupid, ridiculous, and petty, but we all have those aspects of ourselves. Nobody is perfect, we might as well embrace our flaws (within reason of course) rather than trying to get around them and always having an issue that keeps you from being truly happy. | /r/seduction | 06/03/21 08:36 PM |
| 2 | Going out with a very handsome friend wrecked my stateSo this scenario will likely play out one of two ways: First, the one you experienced Second, you make the best of a bad situation and either pick up the scraps or use your personality to engage the girls in his orbit. He can't bang everyone, at least not at the same time. And remember, some girls like Brad Pitt, some girls like Johnny Depp, some girls like the Rock, some girls like Seth Rogen, some girls like Ryan Gosling, some girls like Brendan Urie. Not everyone has the exact same vision of … | /r/seduction | 19/01/20 08:38 PM |
| 1 | Do language barriers prevent good relationships?That's an interesting question. I watch 90 day fiance and similar shows. From my perspective I can't imagine being with someone who wasn't fluent in a language in which I'm fluent. Communication is key to a great relationship. If you go in with communication as an issue, what do you have besides mutual physical attraction? On a more granular level, understanding of things like humor, idioms, and other seemingly minor, yet statistically sound indicators of connection are seemingly lost. Maybe it'… | /r/seduction | 03/01/20 07:33 PM |
| 1 | This is what success looks like gentlemanI can relate. Always the wrong women though...Always | /r/seduction | 20/12/19 07:34 PM |
| 0 | Increase Your Attraction To Women By Working Out And Eating RightYou cant work out or diet your way out of an ugly face. Source: fit guy with horrible tinder success. | /r/seduction | 21/09/19 06:25 PM |
| 2 | Should I tell the girl I am dating I lost my virginity to her?Unless see was also a virgin there's a good chance she figured that out on her own. There's no need to bring it up unless both of you love each other very deeply | /r/seduction | 08/07/19 08:36 PM |
| 1 | wtf did I doDamn, I know how that goes. I've been in the exact same boat. Unfortunately to her things are just weird for no reason. She might not have even had an inkling that you liked her. As mentioned above, I've been in the same boat. I was always more afraid of rejection than missing my opportunity. They got bfs, so I got weird and broke contact, leaving them confused and annoyed, thinking I was just an asshole. If I'd told them at least they would know why I went cold. | /r/seduction | 01/06/19 06:49 PM |
| 1 | How do I respond to this?Sounds like she's got one of those itches that only a dick pick response can scratch | /r/seduction | 23/05/19 08:24 PM |
| 2 | How to strike up a conversation and barter with a girl while on elevatorBartering on an elevator is a good way to either get maced, kicked in the balls, or arrested for solicitation. | /r/seduction | 05/03/19 10:59 PM |
| 2 | every day I'm angryBeen there, but I was more sad than angry. I just banged a lot of fat girls and tried to seduce them, usually successfully. Its not impossible to get attractive girls when you're ugly, but it's much more difficult. Confidence is the only way. Get witty. Not just funny, but witty. Wit requires intelligence and will almost always allow you to make a better looking person look foolish, thereby making you look better. Now if they are witty as well....give up and go after someone else. | /r/seduction | 12/02/19 09:18 PM |
| 3 | The Tightrope "Nice Guys" Need To WalkAttractive guys (the guys that have all of these "rules of attraction" mastered) have no say in how less attractive guys should operate. Its not as easy as hopping on a treadmill and eating better, and there's certainly no 'you need to BE confidant' turnaround. Nobody that has been beaten down by years of invisibility to or disrespect from women is going to suddenly have an epiphany and become confident overnight. We all have to get by with our limitations. The truth is that the 6'4 inch guy wit… | /r/seduction | 22/01/19 12:20 AM |
| 6 | I am great face to face with girls but struggle connecting through textingEveryone is different. I hate texting in general, especially expected quick responses. Just be awesome in person | /r/seduction | 20/01/19 05:38 AM |
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