Terrthikgnop6 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
14	20,000 cold approaches - AMA	Lifestyle	Terrthikgnop6	/r/seduction	13/04/26 04:49 PM

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1	20,000 cold approaches - AMA I'd say around 100 when I visited London and was looking for instadate potential and wanted to learn about British women's mannerisms. This was a 12 hour span starting in the early am.	/r/seduction	14/04/26 02:19 AM
3	20,000 cold approaches - AMA Meaning you should completely wing your interactions. Behave without overthinking, rigid scripts, or excessive self-monitoring. It’s about letting your natural personality come through instead of trying to perfectly control every word or reaction. The idea is that spontaneity creates more genuine, attractive interactions than calculated behavior. The girls is not going to remember what you said only how she felt via your confidence & ability to walk up and start a convo.	/r/seduction	14/04/26 01:35 AM
0	20,000 cold approaches - AMA My view on this topic is quite controversial as I don't believe there is any basis/premise for "germ theory". So no, I have zero concern for std/sti. I'm not denying that they exist (lesions and other toxicity expulsion processes are very much a natural way of your lymphatic system to remove waste/toxicity in the pelvic region), I'm simply stating that the burden of proof is upon those who make the claim that diseases are transmissible sexually or otherwise such as the case for the common cold. …	/r/seduction	14/04/26 01:33 AM
2	20,000 cold approaches - AMA No, nor do I monetize my knowledge. I work remotely as a Dietician. I'm assuming you're saying "can't find girls/sex"? My approach and others who promote high volume day game is the best method for plate formation (multiple simultaneous relationships) The best technique is being completely relaxed and winging the conversation, being direct/forward, and expressing your intentions asap because women will get a sense if you are faking it, trying too hard, lacking genuineness, & memorizing lines.	/r/seduction	14/04/26 01:19 AM
1	20,000 cold approaches - AMA No I've been a silent wolf but decided to hop on this sub to share my findings. It's all internalized as if it is my life's work. Used to be quite introverted, now more of a hybrid. Thanks!	/r/seduction	14/04/26 01:12 AM
3	20,000 cold approaches - AMA I primarily use basic language but also limit my use of slang. In other words, I won't use complex language whatsoever until maybe later in the relationship when we've had numerous sexual interactions and get into more intellectual convos - if that's how deep I want to get with her. This is mostly dependent on maturity, age, & type of relationship (fwb or something more serious). Long and serious conversations, in most cases, turn women off unless they are extremely into sapiosexuality.	/r/seduction	13/04/26 11:48 PM
2	20,000 cold approaches - AMA Plenty via instadates... your highest chances for lays are likely to happen the same day you meet a girl. Consequently, more likely to get ghosted and less chance of plate formation.	/r/seduction	13/04/26 11:42 PM
3	20,000 cold approaches - AMA I just think going on so many dates you get a sense of how women react to certain things you say, what you share or don't share and when it's most appropriate to start kino escalating. How much you need to dial in the player and provider vibe for a certain demographic is also important. I used to be too agreeable and now I can calibrate subconsciously in order to properly flirt/tease or have them match/mirror my suggestions, pace, and body language. I'm also very forward now and I am willing to …	/r/seduction	13/04/26 09:25 PM
0	20,000 cold approaches - AMA When you have had many sexual outcomes over a span of a decade the number gets to a point of not needing to track precisely and I genuinely do not know what it is. It's not even the most 11th most important thing to me now after 10 years. Definitely in the first couple of years. The more important question is how many rejections have you gotten rather than how many lays. As the rejection number will ultimately give you insight into how many positive spikes you've had (lays). I will answer the wo…	/r/seduction	13/04/26 09:05 PM
3	20,000 cold approaches - AMA "I am well past that mark" is your own subjectivity based on stupid rules that society has deliberately instilled into people (aka brainwashing via sexual suppression & repression). I am not someone who views sexual conversion as a positive validation of my character just like I don't see rejection as a repudiation of it. Anyone can say they hooked up with a girl they randomly met and how awesome it was. We all have our stories. But I never act like that makes me cool. I don't act like it makes …	/r/seduction	13/04/26 08:06 PM
0	Texting advice most guys misunderstand (and it’s killing their conversations) Not really. Women who say there are monogamous will acquiesce to those men who have high SMV aka world class confidence. Not giving a fuck and doing what you want and continuing approach other women is what helps maintain the sexual attraction. Ofc you want to be polite and treat women with respect but don't change your behavior for someone just because she is trying to tell you what to do or wants to tie you down (unless you want exclusivity). If a woman comes to see herself as your sole focus …	/r/seduction	13/04/26 07:46 PM
4	20,000 cold approaches - AMA I used to care too much about what people think about dating dynamics/methodology as well as the surrounding audience that can hear/see me actively approaching a girl. Solution: be unapologetically bold and audacious and do it anyway, you eventually tune it out and make decisions in life that make you happy and successful. Cold approach and rejection seeps into other avenues of your life .. such as asking for that raise or continually seeking interviews for that dream job. This ties in with some…	/r/seduction	13/04/26 07:40 PM
5	20,000 cold approaches - AMA I cannot give you an approximate number to adequately answer that question because it varies so much over the course only a few hundred approaches. In the macro, I will say that a.man should expect his romantic or hookup experiences to come in waves. There will be stretches where rejection seems constant and nothing progresses, followed by periods where things suddenly click and multiple connections happen in a short time. Over the long run, though, these highs and lows tend to even out. In othe…	/r/seduction	13/04/26 07:28 PM
3	20,000 cold approaches - AMA Your interests/hobbies might differ to someone else's. Would you infer that it would be mental illness if someone spent 3-4 hours a week on self development such as taking a dance class or boxing? No. Well this is my confidence building activity I like to do in my free time. I very much like having women in my life from the viewpoint of exchanging intellectual and intimate time together, nothing more. I don't need her finances, her dependency, or any favors/gifts and vice versa. People should be…	/r/seduction	13/04/26 07:25 PM
-2	20,000 cold approaches - AMA So merely pointing out how many years I've been doing this and also giving you an approximation of how many women I've approached by doing simple math due to me approaching 30-50 women per week on average is contradictory? Alright. There are weeks I'll do 100 approaches or so. I may very well be well over 20,000... I couldn't tell you. I'm giving a number as a basis for the post not a definitive number.	/r/seduction	13/04/26 07:11 PM
5	20,000 cold approaches - AMA Newcomers often assume a woman is interested only if she’s clearly warm, smiling, and engaged. So when she seems distant or pushes back at all, they tend to end the interaction too soon. They may also worry that continuing in those moments comes across as needy. What they miss is that first impressions can be misleading. A woman’s initial behavior doesn’t always show her true level of interest. If he stays a bit longer and keeps things relaxed, some women who seemed uninterested or resistant at …	/r/seduction	13/04/26 07:04 PM
1	Texting advice most guys misunderstand (and it’s killing their conversations) I will never filter her out via texf if I already approached/met her. But then again this is a consequence of being polyamorous and cold approaching many women week to week.	/r/seduction	13/04/26 06:48 PM
2	20,000 cold approaches - AMA Are you talking about screening her or her "screening you out"? Both are nuanced topics.	/r/seduction	13/04/26 06:46 PM
1	20,000 cold approaches - AMA There are no "tells" per se apart from the obvious IOIs a woman will subconsciously signal/display. I will take it to the next step on the second date after doing some kino on the first date (hour in duration). 2nd date lay is my goal when meeting someone new, unless it's an instadate and im trying to pull within 30 min since the greatest chance of hooking up is the same day you meet her. Women's 'states' can be volatile in the span of a few days to a week going by (aka her willingness to date/s…	/r/seduction	13/04/26 06:43 PM
1	20,000 cold approaches - AMA I'm a Dietician	/r/seduction	13/04/26 06:12 PM
1	20,000 cold approaches - AMA I would make a couple approaches during the week while running errands either at grocery stores, markets, or a brauhaus (German brew house). approach anxiety is quite apparent in the first month or so until you reach about 100-200 approaches in the starting stages. Nerves never go away but now I'm just audacious and my 50th approach feels like my first one. Success comes in waves, you might get 12 straight rejections but it sets you up for the 13th that can go on to become a fantastic relationsh…	/r/seduction	13/04/26 06:12 PM
-2	20,000 cold approaches - AMA I'm not very outcome oriented or track % stats so I couldn't give you an exact number. Do you know how many girls you've kissed before? Hugged? Probably not. Why? Because it's a high number... I don't really count as a means of reaching a goal, it would just be an arbitrary number to me. Edit: my apologies for missing the worst rejection question. I was hyper fixated on your first one. The worst rejection I've had was when this girl jumped back and struggled to find her balance when I said excus…	/r/seduction	13/04/26 06:06 PM
2	20,000 cold approaches - AMA Excuse me, I thought you were pretty and wanted to come say hello. It's not a set in stone line, it can be said however you wish but the main premise is being forward from the get go and being direct to show true intentions. You will be your most attractive to the woman this way.	/r/seduction	13/04/26 06:00 PM
9	20,000 cold approaches - AMA Opening with a line that basically compliments her looks, then at some point a name exchange and you can literally talk about anything as long as you come off totally unregulated with your behavior. No need to force anything or get fixated on building rapport or DHVs (she's made up her mind within the first 20-30 seconds). It's mostly PUA nonsense that focuses on avoiding rejection and using scripted seductive language to flip attraction switches. Yes of course you need to have social skill prow…	/r/seduction	13/04/26 05:58 PM
7	20,000 cold approaches - AMA I don't exclusively pursue high volume for sexual results... even though that's great and all. I value the process... embracing frequent rejection, moving quickly in my interactions with women, and continuously refining my understanding of female behavior. For me, maximizing approaches and rejections and shooting for low batting average is key. Sexual outcomes are inevitable as a function of the numbers game. The emphasis is quantity over quality, where quick sub 2 or 3 minute approach is the ai…	/r/seduction	13/04/26 05:54 PM
8	20,000 cold approaches - AMA Night pull within 5 minutes of having some sex talk convo on dance floor. Fastest pulls/lay come from night game with alcohol involved. Day time was an instadate... 2 min convo pulled to coffee shop close by and pulled home after 20 min of sitting inside having coffee.	/r/seduction	13/04/26 05:44 PM
8	20,000 cold approaches - AMA White. I embrace and preach rejection since it's a prerequisite for positive outcomes (you never know who is going to be interested and go on to have relationship/sex). Success will come from high volume approach, 100+ a week minimum imo. The most simultaneous plates I had was 5 which a good number for me and many ONS from sheer forwardness and not changing your behavior for the girl. Primarily in Berlin & New York City. But I would do it on vacation as well, especially at resorts and cruises.	/r/seduction	13/04/26 05:40 PM
4	Texting advice most guys misunderstand (and it’s killing their conversations) I only use text to set up dates unless she is adamant about sending out some interview questions to get a sense of safety/comfort prior to meeting up in a public setting.	/r/seduction	13/04/26 05:05 PM