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I had an ex disappear on me for a few days over Christmas a few years back, he was spending time with a mate, and his housemate (a girl with issues - so I wasn't allowed to meet her 🚩). So I hung out with his sister, his family and a family friend to fill my time while I was visiting. Before I left his sister texted, asked if I was sleeping with said family friend. I had grown so close with her, we had both been confused by his behaviour so I can only speculate on what he had said to his family …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 05:08 AM
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I remember a similar conversation with a chick in a Meetup group I was attending, we were discussing dating and hookups. I had mentioned that I had too much self respect to have ONS or hookups and she immediately took to the defence, aggressively asking "are you saying I have no self respect???" Mate. I didn't say a word about you or your life choices. I said I had too much self respect to choose casual anything. Clearly she had regrets about her choices and decided to take a sentence about MYSE…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 12:20 PM
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Which is great in theory, but still shows the conditioning women grow up with from a small child. To have to mind read and anticipate what everyone else wants, but still pander to the needs of everyone else and explain to them step by step what WE need. Those same guys play dumb, and do the most simple tasks wrong so we have to fix it ourselves and don't ask them to do it again ever. Don't tell us the truth with the disclaimer that we never asked them (the correct specifically worded question th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 03:38 AM
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A past short relationship I had, he kept having a go at me for never reciprocating a compliment when he gave me one. Funny thing is I do compliment people quite often, but I refuse to feel obligated to invent one just because I received one unsolicited. In the end I realised I didn't need him at all, and he added nothing of value to my life so when he proposed a week break to cool down after an argument I accepted but made it permanent. Guess who was chasing me later on saying he is the one who …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 11:31 PM
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In the link picture his outfit has a clergy collar - like what catholic priests wear. There are a million things I could say about that choice...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 12:01 AM
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ISCI is already a terrible idea but hell, let's add more research and more money on technology to ensure infertility is passed on through the generations, ensuring repeat generational customers who will all need to withdraw from their pension funds to have their own biological, infertile children. This approach to "resolve" infertility in men drives me nuts. The health science field really need to find bigger priorities than this shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 02:26 PM
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I remember receiving an email from a team member at another office (who I had never even met or interacted with before) with a blunt inconsiderate two sentence instruction about what he needed me to do along the lines of : "TCNW, Find this document and forward to me with XYZ attached. Dave ." It was the first time I realised I am allowed to cut out the kindness and respect they refuse to give me, and replied with a similarly short and no fluff, no "kind regards" or "hi Dave".. just a: "Dave, Att…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 04:35 PM
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"I've already punished myself long enough for this before you brought it up, I don't need you making me feel worse" - when I confronted the ex about his bullshit behind my back. The trash took itself out. I have no need to go back and check on it ever again. It's always going to be trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 02:35 PM
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Holy crap this dregs up memories. I was one of the higher achievers in my class. I ended up getting the guy who was kept back a grade, who used to burp/fart/interrupt/misbehave constantly sat next to me and my friend got moved to sit next to a normal classmate. I already had sensory issues that made concentration a challenge but then I was punished with that shit because that idiot was more of a priority than my education and comfort. Saying that, I hated the teacher. He was always asking me to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 08:52 AM
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It's crazy because they will never find us wanting to purposely invade their personal space or demand conversation but when we ask for a barrier from this shit we get told society is too gynocentric or whatever term is in now. Jesus Christ dude. I just don't want to be bugged, touched, bumped, boob grazed or any other kind of uninvited interaction or assault from you or anyone else. Atleast other women know boundaries and can read body language. THAT is why we have women only spaces.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 11:52 AM
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Wait for their excuses about higher testosterone and their consequent increase of sexual needs or whatever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 05:49 AM
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My guess was the guy on the right, and when thinking back - it literally aligns with my experiences vetting these creeps. The most identical scrote to the image guy was one who did a 15 sentence rant AT me about using American slang, not being feminine enough and because I refused to give my number after two messages. He also told me that these were the reasons why I was still unmarried and childless at my age. This coming from the douche who was a year younger than me and clearly couldn't even …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 05:48 AM
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Can't be objective when it involves introspection so they will project it onto someone else to rationalise their own guilt and shame.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 01:29 PM
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And this is the kinda stuff I have needed to hear. Objective and rational, talk therapy never helped me much because it's always feelings. Straight to the point and it's absolute clarity. Thanks for sharing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 03:22 AM
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Sweet! I'm totally down for that, I miss my half tonne herbivore puppers. Although my job would have to be limited to hanging out with the horses and donkeys. Their scent and the feed aroma is so grounding to me. Like petrichor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 04:13 PM
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Funny you say that. His best friend is a chick (suprise) but she called him out on his bullshit threats and said she doesn't want to hear about it anymore since it never eventuates, and if he does it better damn not happen in her house. Her dad had similar mental health issues I think. She knew he wouldn't follow through as he would throw it out there everytime he had a tantrum. There are mental health issues but he definitely did it to manipulate, I just wasn't aware at the time what he was doi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 03:39 PM
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Ok so I looked at your history. Mine was also Bipolar, but not the same region, his kid has finished school now. I'm sorry you experienced this abuse too. Don't ever let that projection of his guilt and lies attach to you. You did nothing wrong, and if he chooses to do something drastic and implies it was your fault. It's not your fault. EVER. (Something something good will hunting) I loved the person I met, and it was hard to let go of who he was even with what he revealed later. Took a while t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 03:33 PM
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Uhhh..... How old is the kid now? On the odd chance it's the same oxygen thief.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 03:21 PM
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Yeah that was a very revealing few hours on the date, and that call was the final "oh god no thanks" straw. I had asked him to share something interesting about himself. He chose a story about his first anal experience in a public toilet with a random girl he met. In retrospect I should have bailed after that moment, but I was raised to be polite and agreeable and mumbled out a "wow..ok" instead. Good plan. You don't have a home until you decide it exists right? Schrodinger's home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 03:16 PM
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The most unbelievable non apology I ever received was "I've already punished myself long enough for what I did, I don't need you bringing it up to make me feel worse" then I received the silent treatment for the rest of the day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 03:00 PM
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I retract my apologies then lol. My trains of thought are very fleeting so I know it can be hard to follow my paths sometimes and pre-empt responses but yes. Absolutely right. Such a learned behaviour. Oh man. Wow. I would love to have that level of confidence lol. Saying that it was the middle aged divorced unemployed single men in my street that tried it on with me. They were as old as my dad, their kids my age. I'm good I would rather date the rock in my backyard thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 02:58 PM
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Duuuuuuuude that's awesome! Combined friends with good taste to fix up a property. Perfect! I'm envious, but I think I'm more scared that if anyone had to spend that much time around me they would hate me in the end lol. Platonic respectful relationships are so much more wholesome and satisfying. What's the word I'm looking for... Symbiotic? Mutualism? Anyways everyone is happy and no BS. An ex had a unit and was like hey move in! I'm like.. I'm gonna need furniture and plants and art and rugs a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 02:52 PM
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Ohhh the rune symbols are being used by some groups I think. Don't quote me but it's ringing a bell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 02:44 PM
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Apologies for the slight tangent but your post gave me a flashback. Years ago I was in a nightclub (in Australia) and this guy was following me around all night in his Tommy Hilfiger overalls (in a nightclub?!?!). Eventually he stopped me and his opening line was "Hi. I'm an American" like I would swoon into his arms. I nodded said congratulations and kept walking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 02:43 PM
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Sweet. Im like 2% Nordic. But I appreciate more the 4.3% Neanderthal genes. I think that means I'm like a Viking Cavewoman or something right? I have no idea what this entails but now I want this as my flair.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 02:39 PM
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I can only imagine. What an amazing deal. Mommy-wife/therapist/cleaner/cook/babysitter... And a double income to raise their kids too. I've been lucky the past few I've dated with kids. They were mostly childfree types who were irresponsible ONS and the mother wanted to keep it. But definitely over the baggage that comes with this stuff now. I reckon the stories now of middle aged childfree women bunking up together as housemates instead is brilliant. I need a bff to run a rescue animal sanctuar…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 02:35 PM
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The kilter is when he follows up with a vague but clearly implying blame on you for their future self inflicted mortality (trying to find a less triggering term just incase). Mine used the "...but it won't matter soon anyway" baiting when he hurt his own feelings by cheating on me and I called him out on his bullshit. Some of these idiots just need a swift kick up the arse and their mums to tell them to grow the fuck up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 02:27 PM
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I volunteer as a non-therapist ear to support your aversion to children and single parents of children. Even had my hairdresser get pissy with me when I didn't give the correct reply about kids. How dare we have a preference!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 02:22 PM
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The timeline is almost to the day in my experience. That hurts a little but is also a revelation and learning experience to avoid a repeat. Great find!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 02:46 PM
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I knew there was a reason I have a strong aversion to man-buns.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 02:20 AM
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Before I even went on a first date some meat sack stated that if we got together I had better not blackmail him by witholding sex. I was like wtf dude? He goes on a rant about how we are the gatekeepers of sex. I dropped a paragraph on how if he is adamant it's blackmail or manipulation then it's an unhealthy relationship and he should end it. I don't care for bullshit games and if I refuse sex it's because at that moment it is not only MY body, but I DON'T FUCKING WANT TO. Blocked the fucker an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 04:12 PM
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I believe the stats also show married men are happier than single men, single women are happier than married women.... Another blatant they need us but we don't need them moment ✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 04:06 PM
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"Honey, I am a prize not a participation sticker"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 07:59 AM
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So funny story cut down as much as I can... Dating app. Got matched. Guys profile was basically empty bar self description "nice guy" (coughfirstredflag) and we had a match of 50%. So low effort profile of 2pics. In two messages he wants to move to WhatsApp. I decline the stranger and ask for more info about himself. He says he's going overseas with mates for a trip and to give my WhatsApp. Again I decline. Said "dude. Help me out here. I know nothing about you, I haven't met you. Give me someth…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 07:26 AM
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Yep. The junior hired below me (I was then 6-7years in the field) got invited immediately. He didn't even finish one term of the course I did for the position.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 07:15 PM
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Wow. Those are the same assholes who spend their time in open plan offices discussing their men's golf days that we are NEVER invited to join. ETA: Don't even get me started on all the social beers or sundowners....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 04:20 PM
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Wtf. I don't feel so bad now about the idiot I briefly dated who unprompted told me he wouldn't ever take me out for dinner etc (as he was extremely frugal, something about being homeless briefly). What an absolutely overcontrolling douche canoe. There's a huge difference between having that kind of limitations on your own purchases and that of another person's. Budgets also include allowances for clothing and "emergencies".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 12:51 PM
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