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| 2 | So i just asked a girl out for the first time in my life, at 27...Good job brother, you took the leap. The only thing you can do now is expose yourself to more situations like this so you can go at it a bit more confident every time. You might not get the first ten girls you 'approach", but the 11th one will be worth it. Good luck and props again for taking action and sharing this | /r/seduction | 06/02/16 12:21 PM |
| 1 | Here's a good article on how to start a conversation with a womanI get you point bro, thanks for the feedback. Next articles will be more in depth with better explanation. Cheers! | /r/seduction | 13/01/16 06:44 PM |
| 1 | My 3 Essentials for Improving with WomenVery cool post bro! | /r/seduction | 04/12/15 02:51 PM |
| 1 | Please someone read this and help me out please I can't keep waking up with such confusion please please pleaseI wouldn't drop her when you're still that confused. Not to sound like a douche but I'm not even sure if you really want to experience other women or if you're mentally masturbating... It sounds like you have something great going on here with this girl, so I'd openly talk about it with her. Who knows she might be up for an open relationship or even threesomes and shit... And if she doens't make you happy anymore, you should break up sooner rather than later | /r/TheRedPill | 03/12/15 06:24 PM |
| 2 | Getting stucked in the boyfriend/provider frame.I'll assume that these girls just need more time. I'd say make the fact that you find them incredibly attractive & interesting clear, and that you enjoy spending time with them, but also convey that your not open for a relationship and that you're regularly going on dates with other girls. You don't have to say these things outloud, but it can help in the beginning, I personally project it in how I treat them and they just know whats up... And after seeing them about 3-6 times, they always ask m… | /r/seduction | 02/12/15 03:05 PM |
| 2 | [20/M] What can I do to improve?I think exposure therapy would be best. Expose yourself to as many socially acceptable uncomfortable situations as possible and ask feedback. I'd recommend you to start at least 5 conversations with new girls a day, and after the convo is over, especially if it went weird, just be vulnerable and say something like: 'Hey, I know I might have come across strange, but I'm trying to get better with women, and I thought you looked cute. Is there maybe some feedback you could give me in how I talked t… | /r/seduction | 02/12/15 03:00 PM |
| 0 | There Is No Such Thing As A "Natural Alpha"Some men definitely have a head start. Tall, good looking, smart... But in the grand scheme of things it doesn't matter shit. Actualising your potential as a man had a far greater impact. I'm pretty short, ok looking and fit, and I've still had more chicks than all but 1 friend. And all of my friends are socially very savvy, fun dudes, and most of them are taler then me and equally as handsome... I was very succesvfull with women without the redpill, but only after I accidentally lost my virgini… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/12/15 02:41 PM |
| 1 | The art of being polarizingWell the element of fun is for myself of course. It makes me enjoy the moment and just gives good feelings. And the thing is, me having fun will help her have fun too. Emotional contagion is real... So it's a very cool byproduct of having fun that the girl will be more in to you... And tbh, when the girl is 'just cute' I focus even more on the self amusing part, and just saying whatever shit's on my mind. (This sounds a bit douchy but when she's really hot I'm a bit more interested in what she h… | /r/seduction | 01/12/15 07:16 PM |
| 1 | What are your opinions on bringing women to work holiday parties/functions? Can I angle this situation in my favor?Do it bro, not strange or unreasonable at all. Ask her to come with you, have a shitload of fun and ofc try to make it happen afterwards... If one isn't up for it, ask another one ofc... | /r/seduction | 01/12/15 02:30 PM |
| -1 | Walk away from friendship, or accept it for what it is and go back to fishing?Just walking away from a friendship with a cool girl you get along with is the most stupid thing ever. That's not accepting reality and walking away from it. If you genuinly have no other intrest in her it's ok, but if you like eachother and could be friends, definitely do it! Only positive outcomes like a great friendship and maybe her hot friends (y) | /r/seduction | 01/12/15 12:30 PM |
| 6 | [22M] Cockblocked by my [21F] friend. What should I have done and is there any way to save this?You might be able to get her back but it wont be easy bro... It's always easier to find new girls than to fix something 'broken'. Best chance would be forgetting about what happened and focussing on having fun with her when you see her, and then going for it again... From what you typed you didn't actually do something wrong, so it's not your fault this happened, which makes it even harder to fix imo | /r/seduction | 01/12/15 12:11 PM |
| 1 | The art of being polarizingI feel ya bro, pretty fucked if you have no place to take her haha. Do you actually enjoy the interactions, purely fun wise? That takes your mind off the result... I always aim to have as much fun as possible (while being attractive and having the sexual tension in there ofc). | /r/seduction | 01/12/15 11:55 AM |
| 1 | The art of being polarizingKeep going at it an learning my friend. Hanging out with guys who are good at this is the best way to go by it btw | /r/seduction | 01/12/15 12:28 AM |
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