Tesla_2 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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14	Gentlemen, Learn To Dance This was my problem. I've been to 5 or 6 swing classes and had a blast every time, but each time I was the only person not coupled up already and ended up dancing with the instructor.	/r/seduction	30/03/17 09:47 PM
2	What are your fun first dates? One of my favorite hobbies, immediately though it was a great date idea. Apparently I'm just attracted to girls who have a fear of heights. Bouldering is also apparently enough to trigger this fear.	/r/seduction	05/02/15 02:49 PM
1	How to overcome being "the guy that never gets laid" You have the ingredients, but I don't think you know how to cook. Not meaning to hijack your reply but I feel like this sums it up really well for me. Where do you go from here? I tried the direct approach for a while and failed miserably so I just started approaching casually and bullshitting about whatever and.... nothing. I can't seem to make it past friendly conversation. If I happen to catch one that was showing interest beforehand I can work with that, but that doesn't happen frequently an…	/r/seduction	04/09/14 12:22 AM
3	The "starting strength" of seduction Maybe it's because I was raised in the south, but please/thank you/excuse me were drilled into my brain as a child so talk like that to just about everybody (when deserved, if I'm asking for something or whatnot) and I get told more often than not it makes me seem timid. I just appreciate when I get acknowledged for going out of my way and like to give that same validation, but apparently it comes out beta-ish. Thoughts?	/r/seduction	03/09/14 10:01 PM
1	[FR] Girls are just as shallow - Get in shape After hearing the same platitudes over and over I really appreciate hearing something new. That's what I'm working on now, just not feeling any improvement yet =/ Thanks internet stranger!	/r/seduction	29/08/14 01:49 AM
1	[FR] Girls are just as shallow - Get in shape So what if you're fit and still not getting any attention? I've always been rail thin so I never had to lose any weight, but I went from disappearing when I turned sideways to having tone and definition from head to toe (yoga and climbing work miracles man) and from baggy clothes to stuff that fits. To the point where I look in the mirror and go "That guy is a bad motherfucker." And yet I couldn't buy a $5 hooker with a $100 bill. This whole sub talks about 'inner game,' about improving yourself…	/r/seduction	28/08/14 11:23 PM
1	Where to find girls on there own ? hey, I appreciate the advice man	/r/seduction	20/08/14 09:53 PM
1	Where to find girls on there own ? Not to hijack your reply or anything, but I've wondered about this same thing. My biggest problems with this is I'm at my best when I'm out doing my own thing, which is when most women just want to be left to do their business. I'm just completely out of my element trying to socialize in the bar/club environment, and when I inevitably project that.. well, it doesn't go well. Any pointers for day game? Or other places where they're in social mode? Most of the places/activities I go out to/do, eve…	/r/seduction	20/08/14 08:57 PM
1	Meeting random people in places like libraries, book stores or just on street when you are alone? My problem is going anywhere from casual conversation. I can usually approach someone and bs some idle talk, get to know them a bit and whatnot, but I can't seem to build enough attraction to go anywhere from there. It's like I can see them mentally switch off as soon as I transition from small talk to "Hey, if you like [whatever they were doing that I opened with] I know a great place to [talk further/do something fun/whatever]." Pointers on where to go from there?	/r/seduction	18/08/14 02:03 PM
2	Extremely scared of approaching girls. Ok, I totally identify with you, as I was that guy in high school too. I'm not exactly great at talking to girls now either, but I've had to jump some of the same hurdles. Just some things from my experience: 1. You worry too much about being creepy and project it. Take that mindset you're looking for (confident, witty, smile, eye contact, blah blah) when talking to girls and apply that to every interaction you have, friends, girls, teachers, those guys you just see in the halls. Eye contact was…	/r/seduction	11/08/14 02:30 AM
1	[FR] Tinder to K-Close Seriously, you must be a model. I don't exactly consider myself unattractive, mostly athletic with flattering pictures, and I have almost the reverse of your numbers. 3 months with 4 matches, all bots. What is your secret OP?	/r/seduction	23/04/14 03:26 PM