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| 1 | 𝐁𝐨𝐫𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐂𝐨𝐧𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐈𝐬 𝐀𝐥𝐥 𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐍𝐞𝐞𝐝 𝐓𝐨 𝐆𝐞𝐭 𝐋𝐚𝐢𝐝Good advice. Be comfortable with yourself. That will let the lady become comfortable, as well. Any suggestions on how to become socially calibrated? | /r/seduction | 11/09/20 03:03 AM |
| 21 | 𝐁𝐨𝐫𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐂𝐨𝐧𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐈𝐬 𝐀𝐥𝐥 𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐍𝐞𝐞𝐝 𝐓𝐨 𝐆𝐞𝐭 𝐋𝐚𝐢𝐝I think it’s missing a comma. If you make her feel not pressured, big chances she would want you herself. | /r/seduction | 11/09/20 02:53 AM |
| 6 | 𝐁𝐨𝐫𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐂𝐨𝐧𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐈𝐬 𝐀𝐥𝐥 𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐍𝐞𝐞𝐝 𝐓𝐨 𝐆𝐞𝐭 𝐋𝐚𝐢𝐝I have left the chat | /r/seduction | 11/09/20 02:53 AM |
| 1 | Made a Summary of "Models" By Mark Manson. The best book I've found for dating advice.I thought the same thing but realized maybe we’re doing it wrong. Makes no sense to slog it for so many hours every week. | /r/seduction | 03/09/20 02:59 AM |
| 1 | This Is How You Stop Creeping Women Out Or Stop Feeling Creepy Around WomenSame. /u/GrandMasterB19, all are excellent points but can you elaborate on the 1 & 2 about understanding psychology? You express the need for it, but how to learn it? | /r/seduction | 09/08/20 10:59 PM |
| 1 | Is 28 too late to start hooking up more?Not dumb at all, that’s a perfect accelerator environment to understand women from a young age, I envy you. Very good points, thank you man, really appreciate it. | /r/seduction | 09/08/20 03:09 AM |
| 1 | Is 28 too late to start hooking up more?That makes sense, thank you very much man, appreciate it. Nice, would love to check it out, please PM me the title. | /r/seduction | 09/08/20 03:06 AM |
| 1 | Is 28 too late to start hooking up more?Yes, although you have some cheat codes, no doubt it still takes a lot of work to get to your number. But for many men without height and/or facial hair, it can be hopeless to reach there without 10x the same amount of work. But what I’m learning here is the sheer number of women that become unlocked at good rope bondage! I may need to look into this. What did you mean by failures with it? | /r/seduction | 08/08/20 09:55 PM |
| 1 | Is 28 too late to start hooking up more?Gotcha, thank you very much | /r/seduction | 08/08/20 09:49 PM |
| 2 | Is 28 too late to start hooking up more?Makes sense, thank you. | /r/seduction | 08/08/20 09:39 PM |
| 3 | Is 28 too late to start hooking up more?Makes sense, thanks. I wonder how to get there. It seems like a superpower, being able to figure out or have someone reveal their inner workings, man or woman. I’ve known friends for years and still am unsure what makes some of them tick. Did you get there with practice? Getting a person to be comfortable with you is definitely a skill to have. I feel like whenever I get to know someone, it can seem like I’m prying and they start putting their defenses up. | /r/seduction | 08/08/20 09:37 PM |
| 4 | Is 28 too late to start hooking up more?How do you break out of the friend group and chat up surrounding groups? Maybe we’ve been going to the wrong bars. | /r/seduction | 08/08/20 07:53 PM |
| 3 | Is 28 too late to start hooking up more?Tall, beard, and kink life, so basically yeah. | /r/seduction | 08/08/20 07:51 PM |
| 2 | Is 28 too late to start hooking up more?This might seem like a stupid question but from someone who is so far away from where you are now - have you been able to avoid STIs over the years? Have condoms done the job every time? | /r/seduction | 08/08/20 07:50 PM |
| 1 | Is 28 too late to start hooking up more?This might seem like a stupid question but from someone who is so far away from where you are now - have you been able to avoid STIs over the years? Have condoms done the job every time? | /r/seduction | 08/08/20 07:48 PM |
| 2 | Is 28 too late to start hooking up more?the #1 thing that most men miss altogether is the ability to illicit a woman’s thoughts while making her feel comfortable and confident in her ability to communicate. Could you please elaborate on this? I’m completely lost on it. | /r/seduction | 08/08/20 07:43 PM |
| 4 | How to be more flirtlyIt’s fine if it’s a hypothetical you created to give your example. Otherwise, I was just asking cause I guess I am old and was surprised to hear someone would say that out loud. Was hoping you’d help me understand but it’s ok if you don’t want to. | /r/seduction | 28/07/20 12:24 AM |
| 4 | How to be more flirtlyHuh? No I’m curious about the context where she said “oh my bf gives out my nudes for free”. | /r/seduction | 28/07/20 12:20 AM |
| 1 | How to be more flirtlyI’m curious about the first part - free nudes? Is that like a Dom/Sub kink those two have? She was just saying it casually? | /r/seduction | 28/07/20 12:17 AM |
| 14 | How to be more flirtlyI feel old reading this. | /r/seduction | 27/07/20 05:54 PM |
| 1 | Does height matter?Thank you! | /r/seduction | 12/07/20 05:06 PM |
| 1 | Does height matter?That’s a good mindset, thank you. It brings a sort of inner peace. Is there some reading material you would recommend? | /r/seduction | 12/07/20 05:29 AM |
| 1 | Does height matter?In the free market too, privileged people don’t have to work as hard to get to the same level. | /r/seduction | 12/07/20 05:19 AM |
| 1 | Does height matter?How did you come to love yourself so much? I need to get there | /r/seduction | 12/07/20 05:16 AM |
| 95 | [GUIDE] If you need to remember one seduction advice : EYE CONTACTin a non creepy way RIP me | /r/seduction | 09/07/20 09:01 PM |
| 5 | "Nothing is more threatening and simultaneously attractive to a woman than a man who knows his value to women and the world."He said the quiet part out loud | /r/seduction | 03/07/20 07:42 PM |
| 1 | I HAD A GIRL HOME WITH ME FOR THE FIRST TIME!You mentioned that everything you said is applicable to low self esteem women. How does it work with high self esteem women? | /r/seduction | 01/07/20 09:49 PM |
| 1 | I HAD A GIRL HOME WITH ME FOR THE FIRST TIME!What about the high self esteem ones? | /r/seduction | 01/07/20 08:59 PM |
| 2 | What kind of kid were you?That is awesome, dude. Hmm it is an interesting challenge, especially with the pandemic in the way. Any chance at moving to a new town after this is all over? Otherwise, you can can try hitting the outside edges of your friend group and expanding from there - getting to know friends of your friends, etc. Or even extended acquaintances. | /r/seduction | 30/06/20 02:58 PM |
| 2 | What kind of kid were you?Nice. What kinds of things are you doing? | /r/seduction | 28/06/20 11:46 PM |
| 1 | Do you feel the concept of modern dating is working/fair?That’s disgusting man. You dodged a bullet. You’ll find a way higher quality girl, don’t sweat it. | /r/seduction | 18/06/20 11:39 AM |
| 1 | Do you feel the concept of modern dating is working/fair?How did you know about the DM? | /r/seduction | 18/06/20 04:42 AM |
| 1 | LAY REPORT: SAME DAY SEDUCTIONVery interesting. Makes sense. Glad to hear about how progressive they are there now. That is encouraging. Lmao I’m dying at the thick lips. Thank you man, really appreciate the insights! | /r/seduction | 17/06/20 03:29 AM |
| 1 | LAY REPORT: SAME DAY SEDUCTIONThat is fascinating! Thanks very much for sharing. I can see how they’d have high standards. Not that it matters to me either way - as a person of color, I know my chances out there are infinitesimal to none. So I make do by satisfying my curiosity of how young people in traditionally conservative cultures are evolving socially in this day and age. Another question, so if it hasn’t seeped into the public conversations there yet, is it difficult for people to source condoms and birth control? | /r/seduction | 16/06/20 07:46 PM |
| 1 | LAY REPORT: SAME DAY SEDUCTIONThat’s awesome! Thanks | /r/seduction | 15/06/20 01:41 PM |
| 5 | LAY REPORT: SAME DAY SEDUCTIONIt’s pretty well documented. East Asian girls generally never get with foreigners unless they’re white. | /r/seduction | 15/06/20 06:22 AM |
| 2 | LAY REPORT: SAME DAY SEDUCTIONYep | /r/seduction | 15/06/20 05:39 AM |
| 1 | LAY REPORT: SAME DAY SEDUCTIONThat’s awesome. Is casual sex pretty common there? I found that kinda surprising tbh, at the risk of sounding ignorant. | /r/seduction | 15/06/20 05:38 AM |
| 2 | LAY REPORT: SAME DAY SEDUCTIONReally? I thought it was the opposite. | /r/seduction | 15/06/20 12:01 AM |
| 20 | LAY REPORT: SAME DAY SEDUCTIONOh snap, dude I totally did not expect that. Extra congrats are in order then, I know how things are out there. Thanks for sharing. Keep slaying man. 👏 | /r/seduction | 14/06/20 09:39 PM |
| 7 | LAY REPORT: SAME DAY SEDUCTIONI’m just curious of what the scene is in Korea. We rarely hear about field reports from other countries. FYI, I’m neither white nor Korean. And I am happy for him! | /r/seduction | 14/06/20 09:36 PM |
| 15 | LAY REPORT: SAME DAY SEDUCTIONI’m assuming this is in Korea. OP, if you don’t mind sharing, are you a white guy there or of Korean descent? | /r/seduction | 14/06/20 09:28 PM |
| 5 | IRL vs Tinder (and dating apps in general)I’m not dismissing that some of them have struggles. But if they have to put in X amount of effort to escape their struggles, men that are not tall, white, and funny have to put in 4X that same effort to get to the same level. That is a level of privilege that the majority of men on the planet do not have right now. Yes, the first group can be trapped in things like depression, lack of game, or fitness, but you have to look at the bigger picture. | /r/seduction | 03/06/20 03:33 AM |
| 2 | IRL vs Tinder (and dating apps in general)How so? | /r/seduction | 03/06/20 12:22 AM |
| 11 | IRL vs Tinder (and dating apps in general)Mate... tall, white, and funny has already put you into the 95th percentile. And you’re basically a big teddy bear which so many women are into. Nothing special, my ass. | /r/seduction | 02/06/20 11:07 PM |
| 2 | Interested girls lose interest after talking to me for a while.Makes sense, thanks for explaining. I think this discussion is indeed touching on a wider realization that perhaps marriage or a life-long commitment to just one person is not always the best idea. Nothing wrong with that. I thought you might say there is a bridge to go from one sphere to the other, to somehow transition into a long term relationship. But since that’s not the case, it seems OP will have to pick between either being distant and attracting short term relationships or ... actually … | /r/seduction | 30/05/20 06:25 AM |
| 2 | Interested girls lose interest after talking to me for a while.Thanks for sharing. I have a couple of questions. How would you move to a meaningful relationship if you lose interest when he shows interest? Also, if knowing less and keeping him on a romanticized pedestal is better, what would happen when you transition into a longer relationship or even marriage (when you end up knowing everything and more about him)? | /r/seduction | 30/05/20 05:04 AM |
| 1 | Some good words of adviceAh true. Any others? | /r/seduction | 25/05/20 06:33 PM |
| 2 | Some good words of adviceWhat sort of masculine traits? Like physique? (I haven’t seen the show) | /r/seduction | 25/05/20 04:01 PM |
| 2 | How To Be An Attractive Man (4 Key Tips)It’s clear that the two of you like each other. Do you like her more than your gf? If so, then you need to break up with your gf. Keeping her on the side while you play with someone else is not the manly thing to do. Good luck, brother. | /r/seduction | 17/05/20 01:00 AM |
| 1 | 2 Years Of Cold Approach, 15 Lays, And Right Back Where I StartedWhich watch did you get? | /r/seduction | 11/05/20 04:35 AM |
| 2 | Finally got laid, push and pull technique was the best.Like the other guys said, I missed a comma. I should’ve said “Good post, man”. Good catch! | /r/seduction | 05/05/20 03:43 AM |
| 3 | after a week of heavy reading on r/seduction i was asked out for lunch (context we met while out clubbing, talked for a while during quarantine, now quarantine is lifted) any suggestions for where the first date should be?Good advice, can confirm. I’ve done that first part and the cringe lasts forever, but you learn from it and become wiser. | /r/seduction | 04/05/20 06:29 PM |
| 22 | Finally got laid, push and pull technique was the best.Good post man, congrats. Hijacking your comment to provide others a tip - if you find yourself constantly unable to hold off on replying to text messages right away, try Hide Alerts in the Messages app. It’s helped me a lot to get back to being a normal human being who has his own schedule, instead of looking like a creep that is constantly awaiting her texts. | /r/seduction | 04/05/20 04:14 PM |
| 2 | I Have Been Doing Cold Approach For 2 Years Now: This Is How I Went From Kissless Handholdless Virgin To 15 Lays In 1 MonthWhich watch did you get? | /r/seduction | 02/05/20 07:59 PM |
| 7 | How do you start tinder conversations“Going to Whole Foods later, want me to pick you up anything?” Results may vary during lockdown. | /r/seduction | 29/04/20 10:27 PM |
| 2 | BEING PRODUCTIVE IS BEING ATTRACTIVE. When I've been busy and had more important things than girls, I did a lot better with girls. When I had too much time and thinking too much about girls, I did worse. This may not apply to everyone, but I discovered for me my best results are when I'm productive.I thought you might say that. For whatever it’s worth, I’m the same height as you. For me at least, I refuse to let life’s unfairness bulldoze me to death. Sure, most others get their sexual fixes easily. But I can’t let the lack of that biological gratification overrule my entire life. At the end of the day, it’s nothing we can’t get for a few dollars. Yes, I may never feel what it’s like to have someone like me back or lust after me upon first sight. But every girl who has spent sustained time… | /r/seduction | 12/04/20 05:56 PM |
| 3 | BEING PRODUCTIVE IS BEING ATTRACTIVE. When I've been busy and had more important things than girls, I did a lot better with girls. When I had too much time and thinking too much about girls, I did worse. This may not apply to everyone, but I discovered for me my best results are when I'm productive.I’m not dismissing your worries. I’m just saying... what else is there to try? | /r/seduction | 12/04/20 05:21 PM |
| 1 | BEING PRODUCTIVE IS BEING ATTRACTIVE. When I've been busy and had more important things than girls, I did a lot better with girls. When I had too much time and thinking too much about girls, I did worse. This may not apply to everyone, but I discovered for me my best results are when I'm productive.I feel you man. An alternative mindset I can offer is to just focus on life. We only get one, and it would be a shame if we didn’t use it to become the best we could’ve been. Yes our genes restrict us, but there is a lot that is still within our control. Imagine being on your deathbed in the future. What are the regrets you may have? Focus on those right now. At least we can get those regrets out of the way. Then, as another guy said in this thread, who knows, tending to your garden may bring th… | /r/seduction | 12/04/20 05:07 PM |
| 2 | My father testing my inner game mindestExcellent 👍. Thanks again | /r/seduction | 10/04/20 09:28 PM |
| 2 | My father testing my inner game mindestGood post, you have gold there after the exchange with your dad. But man, he just wanted to celebrate and be happy that his boy is successful lol, maybe not the best time to teach him your philosophy. Anyway, thanks for sharing, I’ve saved your post so I can keep referring to it. | /r/seduction | 10/04/20 09:21 PM |
| 2 | My father testing my inner game mindestWhy do you say that? | /r/seduction | 10/04/20 09:15 PM |
| 2 | 13 Ways To Make A Girl Want YouKnow what you mean. We may have to just fake it till we make it | /r/seduction | 27/03/20 02:27 AM |
| 19 | 13 Ways To Make A Girl Want YouMe too, bro. Maybe we need to let go of being strict on what the facts were, and focus on the art of the story telling. | /r/seduction | 27/03/20 02:07 AM |
| 1 | What makes a man mysterious and what do girls feel about them?What if she asks, “What important stuff”? | /r/seduction | 16/03/20 09:20 PM |
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