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It is certainly a weird world. MGTOW is okay but WGTOW is not? Some people are just not meant to have partners and children. It is the comments that can throw you off. The internet is full of trolls and people who judge you for what works for you. Look what is said about the large families with many children. So many have something to say. They over use resources and are not good for the environment? Yet, there are concerns about population collapse. I do not agree with forcing families on anyon…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 05:35 AM
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Truly.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 05:25 AM
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I repeat"children were legally subject to the absolute authority and control of the father". It was not the parents then. It was the father. Of course, it is better that children are taken care of by both parents. She ran the money in the household if he allowed it. If she had a job, it was his money. Per paper abortions, what exactly is wrong with that? If it's her body and her choice, why should he be held responsible and be forced to pay for a child he never wanted? It matters because the chi…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 05:23 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WyeQXlQycEg&t=146s This is weakness? The reproductive load is not for weak people. We carry, bear and care for children. We are verbal when angry, we do not punch people. This is strength not weakness.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 11:43 PM
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Sure, that's why we care for children and those cats, they are so transactional. No fluffy kisses unless they get steak.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 11:24 PM
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Well predicting mental health is not easy but bipolar, postpartum psychosis, 3 children and not responding to medication. I expect unfortunately, it could happen elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 11:00 PM
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She sounded so sick before she killed them. This is a living nightmare. (I do not live in the US, so I just looked the story up) She should have been hospitalized before things got this out of hand. I think she should be committed and whether she ever gets out again is not really that important but she sounds so ill it is doubtful. What an absolutely horrible situation. This is a very sick woman. I think it is unfair to say women are defending her. They understand how sick she is but no one is s…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 10:20 PM
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Delusion of TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 10:01 PM
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It will help. I had to start exercising to haul around my grandson.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 05:12 PM
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Breast feeding has kept infants and babies fed since the beginning of our time. Breasts are to feed babies. If someone is breast feeding a baby and you cannot behave yourself and leave the mother and child in peace, you have a problem. It is difficult enough to be a woman without worms harassing a mother who is trying to feed her baby. Grow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 05:10 PM
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The littles grow up and it is easier. It is very necessary once they are teenagers over 13 to be working or doing something just for you. Your sanity may depend on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 05:06 PM
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If she was actually in a postpartum psychosis I have some understanding of the situation. Consider it is very similar to being schizophrenic and having an episode. A psychosis is a very serious mental illness where the sufferer is detached from reality. If she was in a psychosis she had no idea what she was doing. She was probably paranoid and totally disconnected from reality. Mental illness like this is serious. https://ny1.com/nyc/all-boroughs/ap-top-news/2026/01/27/man-who-beat-4-people-to-d…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 05:02 PM
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I think often they are at the beginnings of dementia.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 04:44 PM
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A sane man answering. A definite crazy take.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 04:41 PM
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It is finding a balance because the whole family matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 04:37 PM
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First off let's put the idea of women's debts being covered by a husband. How many women could go out shopping and spend money without any money? It did not happen. People were not giving credit to women without their husband's permission. Perhaps if estates came with debts then it landed on the husband but the limitations of coverture on women were oppressive. Once a woman became married, she had no current claim in Common Law to any property she might then receive, as her husband had full cont…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 12:49 PM
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No, but I think bitter small men like you have a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 11:36 AM
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Hold up a mirror to see someone who does not seek virtue. You have no idea what women seek. They would just talk to you and roll their eyes and think, another one of those guys who thinks he knows a lot about women but really is just an embittered man passing his unhappiness around and blaming women for everything. It is so much easier than looking at himself. You have no insight. You rush to blame women because it is easier than looking at yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 01:00 AM
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Whatever the reasons for denying women bank accounts, they were not because anyone wanted to do right by women. You can say what you want about women getting custody of children over men, I am sure this was not done for lulz either. Well yes, because the man was responsible for paying all of her debts and she could not be held legally responsible for debt. Do you get we were not making the laws here but being oppressed by them? It damn hard to change laws when you have no say. Men made the "the …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 12:58 AM
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Everything you say about women is about how awful they are so I really think you should start with yourself. You seem to need it the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 12:25 AM
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The complainer who started this should work on his flaws first.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 12:10 AM
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You are projecting. It is the only way you can make the accusations you make against women and then claim we point out flaws in others and never correct their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 11:57 PM
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Credit cards are not bank accounts, but banks still had options and they did not take the one that would be of benefit to women. "Although women in the United States could legally open bank accounts long before the mid-20th century, equal access to banking and credit wasn’t fully protected under federal law until 1974 with the passage of the Equal Credit Opportunity Act (ECOA). Before then, many banks could legally require a single woman to have a male cosigner or insist that a married woman obt…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 11:54 PM
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So should men. Men often display bad and reprehensible behaviour. They are adults and should conduct themselves accordingly. "Men typically drive more miles than women and are more likely to engage in risky driving practices, including not using seat belts, speeding and driving while impaired by alcohol." https://www.iihs.org/research-areas/fatality-statistics/detail/males-and-females#:~:text=Male%20passenger%20vehicle%20occupants%20ages,for%20both%20males%20and%20females Just one example of men…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 11:30 PM
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Not true, women could have their own bank accounts, and did after they divorced their husband. "it wasn’t until the Equal Credit Opportunity Act was passed in 1974 that women could get their own credit cards in their own name" https://www.forbes.com/advisor/credit-cards/when-could-women-get-credit-cards/ Oh and men only have equal rights to having custody of their own children as women in 6 out of 50 states, in the other 44 states women have more rights to their own children than fathers do. "Un…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 10:35 PM
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Your inability to understand a scientific study lets me know the sort of person I am talking to. You are very angry. Perhaps you should stay away from women. You group a possibly desperate woman you cannot understand with ALL woman. Do you ever wonder how she got there? If someone is doing this because they are selfish, they are the exception not the rule. I hope you learn to let your hate go. ALL women are not evil nor awful. Many struggle to survive in difficult situations just like some men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 09:59 PM
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Actually, in my experience it is the other way around. "Finally, we hypothesized a sequential pathway from gender to altruistic helping via psychopathy and affective empathy: male gender is associated with higher psychopathy, which is associated with lower affective empathy, which in turn predicts lower altruistic helping" https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC12781327/ Men are more likely to have dark triad characteristics than women. So the behaviour you discuss is more likely evident in me…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 07:40 PM
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That is no way to talk about ants.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 04:03 PM
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You should try hauling around a 3 year old and a 6 month old with no stroller.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 04:03 PM
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You just so good looking, if you want spend time adoring yourself in a mirror and we will be relieved to have less time with you around.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 03:59 PM
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No one has all the answers. TRP, feminism, whatever; no one has all the of the answers.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 01:01 PM
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You think? It is the foundation of the Abrahamic religions. It has been around a looonnnnggg time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 07:57 PM
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Genders have been throwing stuff at each other from the beginning of time. Some of it was in fun. If you were around when I was in the 60s you would get feminisms roots. How about seeing a woman manager brought down because she was a woman? I saw it in the 80s. I had to work with a calendar man. He ran the mail room. No man ever said boo to him. The manosphere calls what they dump on women science even though the scientists do not. They take studies and twist it and then find every negative thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 04:39 PM
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Because the millennia where we provided home care and child care, we rarely had much money. (Plus there was working in the fields, etc.) You do not understand what it was like not to have birth control? Oh and society should change overnight? You are just another let's kick women around man.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 01:38 PM
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I have 3 bros, husband, son and son in law. None of them have been blamed for anything that they do not deserve. The usual empty the dishwasher stuff, etc. However, if you want to dump on women for every feminist out there, can we talk Andrew Tate and his ilk? No feminist tried to traffic men did they?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 01:29 PM
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Since the beginning of time women have had to rely on men and they had to rely on women. Yes, ancient women hunted but I expect they found it was not great to tie a child to the mother and have the baby survive, so often we got left behind and the provisions brought to us. We ended up doing most of the gathering. It was easier with the children. What really freed us was birth control. All this may seem obvious to you but since we have been relying on each other for resources since the beginning …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 12:46 PM
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I did not say they were a problem for just women; they are a problem for all. Men judge women hard for their past. Tell me, how would you be about marrying a former escort? Many think it is just a woman who has been abused continuing the pattern; that or she is a psychopath.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 11:18 PM
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How about chlamydia, gonorrhea, syphilis, herpes, human papillomavirus (HPV), and—rarely—human immunodeficiency virus (HIV)?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 08:53 PM
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I will answer your question about men and deliberately induced opioid addictions in newborns if you can answer why men on the Epstein list who raped girls get away with it? So many crimes and addictions on both sides. Shall we point fingers at only women? What about the men like Andrew Tate who like to pimp out women? The trafficked women/girls can end up addicted just to survive what is happening. Those BFs who do not want responsibility for a baby and tell this to their GF who is probably youn…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 11:34 PM
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I apologize for hurting you. My intention was to make you think. Obviously, in a temper I made the wrong choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 03:00 PM
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No. I was a human being who was tired of the whining. You cannot own up to being too much. You would rather blame me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 02:57 PM
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Initiating a divorce does not mean you are the one that caused the divorce. The way things are going in the US, I am not sure how many members of the middle class will be left. The lady who had the alcoholic husband was a sweet lady who was overwhelmed with what was happening to her. She did not want to tell her family because she was ashamed. She left about 4-6 weeks after he threw the children's shoes at the children. I saw it. I was 8 or 9 and I was shocked. I did not know what to do. He was …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 02:14 PM
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Perhaps but I hope you can come out of a first meeting just down the price of one coffee and wiser if you click or not. It is not bad for the price of a coffee.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 02:05 PM
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I hope you are young but you have to understand I lost it and you need to listen to why. You are in a rage because women get sexual attention even if they do not want it. Who is being hateful? We did not make nature and we pay a price for it. The reproductive load is ours and it can be very heavy. Do you really think it is easy being a woman? Sure, it is no fun being horny and alone but we are supposed to fall on our backs for you? What price do you think we would pay for that? I am sure you wou…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 01:57 PM
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That is fine but it is okay to pay too. I buy friends coffee too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 01:29 PM
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No worries, I get downvoted too. Just go to a cat or dog sub and make a witty comment and you should be good.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 01:27 PM
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You go for coffee the first date so you can figure out if you are going on the second date. None of the first 3 dates should be a splurge. I have seen how expensive stuff is. I think if you are going on a second or third date a great idea is to order some picnic food (deli sandwiches?) in (if you do not make) and go find a park where you can watch the sail boats and the ducks. Something like this. You can talk a lot and get to know each other. I think it goes better with a lot of women if you do…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 01:24 PM
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It is a good way to meet and figure out if you want to do this again.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 01:11 PM
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No, it sounds like I am talking to one of Elon's hired help. Go to reddit and complain about ODSI and do not forget to kick around women for divorcing men. Men who divorce women shall be left off the hook. Men who fail to pay child support will not be mentioned. Men should not carry any blame. They are the saints of our time. With some marriages the best thing is that they divorce and this is not necessarily the women's fault. A toxic combination can happen. Men are more likely to be addicts. Or…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 11:06 PM
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In your opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 10:43 PM
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So? You may do something different but how is that any better? You do what you choose but who knows what you will be 5 years from now? You are in a car accident and survive but the brain injuries and memory loss changes who you are? Everything is altered and she gets kicked to the curb? The promise of working falls apart because of financial concerns? Well this is unlikely, there are no guarantees in life and no proof that what you do is better. Legal obligations can be a good way to protect som…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 10:38 PM
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What if it is because there is a sick child? Some find out they have to stay home. Some cannot afford child care so they stay home until they are school age or they only have to put one in child care.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 06:45 PM
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Just curious but what about the opportunity cost? I know you think this is how it should be covered but why not just say this when we were debating? I took care of our children when there was no money but I did it for them and our family. If my husband and I divorced why could not the opportunity costs be covered then or over time? Of course, I vetted and I cared for my husband but sometimes things like addictions, abuse or affairs ruin things. We cared for each other and our children like you c…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 05:50 PM
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The first date should always be coffee. If you are not rich, I do not get the expensive date stuff. Do not pay if you do not want to but if you plan the next date do not make it expensive because loads of us are not rolling in dough either.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 05:24 PM
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No we do not. We find men who complain about sex when women are the ones with everything at stake hard to take. Most women do not want to be used; we want to have relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 05:20 PM
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Ok, someone get this man a vagina so he can have his friends chase him around. It will give some women a break. EDIT Add: Jeez you are emotional. Is your period due? (I wanted you to have the full experience because lord knows we do not deserve any sympathy.)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 03:07 PM
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Get a vagina or get over it. Do you know how tiresome your whining is? We get shit from TRP and the manosphere just for existing. We did not set up nature. Get over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 02:25 PM
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I been married 42 years... men are not ready to settle when they are young but they get to spread their seed before but we are judged. You are just another man influenced by TRP garbage. There is nothing new here.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 01:40 PM
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Someone has to try and explain women to you. We can feel like no one is listening. So what if she thinks she speaks for all women. Pay attention. Perhaps she will teach you something. I never met a man or woman who could not learn by listening harder. What about the things like hypergamy, manipulative women and self interest garbage that comes out of TRP? It is awful tiring hearing from men what we are like. Do you think we might have some idea?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 01:29 PM
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Ok, but then you are not entitled to sex. Please do not fake it, just move on. Most of us need a relationship to have sex. We want so much to trust and love you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 11:43 AM
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Well, there will be consequences because of the consequences. Humanity can pay this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 02:10 AM
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There will be less children born. I know you have no problem with this but more men will just shit on women. Damned if we do and damned if we do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 01:54 AM
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Simply because you are not the only one in the situation. Women have a right to want a relationship first. If you cannot do it, move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 01:26 AM
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The exchange shows how much many men do not understand and how impossible they are being about a situation that makes us vulnerable but not usually them. (Same goes for SAHF). It punishes mothers (or fathers) who decide to care for their children and take some of the stress off the family. If women are to bear the reproductive load, the child care and the loss of a career it is probably better that they do not have children. If nothing gives, why give? Sometimes, when it is necessary for the sit…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 01:24 AM
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Let's agree to disagree and move on. You talk like this to women, you will just convince more of them to back away from children. There is too much risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 01:11 AM
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The decision is more complex than you think. My son had asthma and was constantly sick as a young child. It was almost impossible to work. He settled as he got older but he had croup and I did not get a lot of sleep. The decision to stay home was based on this. My husband did not want to. I did go back to work but it did affect my career and I ended up working part time. There are a lot of women who are stuck between a rock and a hard place. Child care may eat up all their income. It is not abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 12:57 AM
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I guess it depends on how fussy you are about the house and how many children there are. For me, it would be all about how well cared for the children were. The rest is just noise.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 12:16 AM
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We are going to have to agree to disagree. Remember, best interests of the family. The family is a unit. The family is not a business. There is no opportunity cost.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 12:08 AM
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"The judiciary is complicit in making the one that stays at home avoid responsibility by paying them for the opportunity cost." No it is not avoiding responsibility, it is caring for the family. "Nothing should be paid. She took a decision. She should pay the opportunity cost." On repeat: this is not a business. The couple makes the decision together. There are some men who push for it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 11:58 PM
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It is not just their decision, it should be made as a couple. What if she stays home because the father comes and says he does not want to quit his job but he finds working with very young children impossible with her working? She likes her job less and he makes more so it is a good decision for both. The decision is not made by her alone. A couple makes this decision. I find many men who do not have children do not understand that she/he is not at home just filing and painting his/her nails. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 11:32 PM
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She is not getting paid. I worked for free and there was no spare cash. How would she be paid if she was at home full time? Unless her partner makes a significant amount of money. The same goes for SAHF. Remember it is not a business. It is a family. Everyone benefits if a parent stays home and takes care of the children. Hopefully, she can go back to work when the children are in school full time. Then it gets nuts busy again but at least there are no diapers and less sleepless nights.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 11:16 PM
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It is why she gets alimony. The alimony should last as long as it takes for her to retrain herself and get back to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 09:39 PM
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The couple pay it because it is a choice that benefits both of them and the children.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 09:14 PM
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I disagree. It remains unchallenged in your mind. Families are not a business. There are real people and real children who benefit from a parent being at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 09:06 PM
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It is for the benefit of the children and the family. A family with two working parents is extremely busy and stressed. To put it all on the mother who usually stays home with the children is unfair because the whole family benefits. The assets in a marriage should be divided and the wife should receive enough alimony that she can retrain herself and get back to work. My brother paid 8 years of alimony after a 15 year marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 09:00 PM
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I apologized for forgetting my husband's crescent rolls today after I went grocery shopping. He will have to wait until tomorrow now. He's over it and so am I.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 08:35 PM
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I apologize, my daughter apologizes. It is harder to get it out of my husband. He never says it the first day and I have to be stewing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 07:31 PM
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4th
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 01:29 AM
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Feminists are not evil. Yes, there are evil people amongst them but this is true of any large group. I know no "hagged-out second-wave feminist lich queens who consider her a pickme gender traitor." Almost every woman I know in their 30s wants to be with someone and most want children. There is one who cannot. She has been told she cannot have children and she needs a hysterectomy. One has not found anyone. The rest are married and want children. Every child born is born of a woman. There are 3.…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 12:25 AM
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Can you step out of accounting and take a more general view for a moment? The Roman Empire shows that programs have been around for a long time. I expect as much as they could hunter/gatherers carried the weaker. Let's face it a heavily pregnant woman with a toddler would be a hinderance but then beyond having necessary sustenance what matters? Do we let them die from hunger if their partner disappears? Do you have a fit because a pregnant woman with a child might not be able to carry your load?…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 05:02 PM
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Schizo? You are the one in a dream state so you never have to judge yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 03:50 PM
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Look at the Epstein list. Was a 13 year old okay? For Drump? Oh wait there is no proof? When the US Attorney General is appointed by you, do you think anything that would absolutely prove Drump's guilt as not redacted? The stench from this administration will never clear. The ones who voted for him will probably just stop talking about it. After WW2, regions that were complicit for the horrors of nazism denied it. Will MAGA? I expect they will minimize, deny and take no responsibility. Who cares…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 03:29 PM
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It is not evil and it is not new. They gave out food in Roman times to the poor. If you think it is all about you and you do not care for others, you can take delight in what the withdrawal of federal funding of SNAP benefits will do. There will be people starving. As well, the maternal mortality rate will be going up in rural areas. It is too high already for the richest country in the world. More rural hospitals are closing, maternity wards make little money and many rural women are on medicai…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 12:48 PM
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Could you have a source for this?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 12:14 PM
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You can have a tracker put on your baby. Your baby can stay the whole time in the room with you. There are loads of other solutions. Men whine about how many women's programs cost them in taxes but we have to pay for your insecurity? This is not a government problem. My husband did not need a dna test; my son in law did not need one. The incidence of dna fraud in committed relationships is extremely low. 1-3%.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 01:54 AM
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Some women, just like some men, have abuse issues. Their lives can end up a private hell. A man who treats you like a 'queen' can give off creepy vibes. You wonder if he has some preconceived fantasy of how things should be or is just desperate to get you in bed. The men who never think they are the problem, can be the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 11:48 PM
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They work an office job and spend most of their day on reddit ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 07:08 PM
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There are very attractive personalities. Some people have charisma and what we need. Their looks are secondary.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 03:14 PM
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Yup. There are few intelligent ones but I would be surprised if there are any on this subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 01:26 PM
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All of them? Nothing like sweeping statements. A lot of young people like cities. I know I did when I was young. These days I live in suburbia but I love both the country and cities. Each have something to offer.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 01:23 PM
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I know young women and they are in their 30s and are now having children (Some not all) and carrying their own weight. All have to work outside the home. I only had about 4 years off where all I did was be a SAHM. 2 of them were because I was sick. You do not know me and there are still loving couples around who can count on each other financially.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 01:20 PM
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They are child free now, sometimes they are not later.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 01:17 PM
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It is not a race to the bottom. There has been less opportunities for men to be gold diggers because less women had money compared to men. Expecting a man to spend money is to show he can do it. There are enough men with no generosity out there that some use this as a way to vet men. I do not think it is so much the amount spend as the spirit of the encounter. So going out for coffee and just ice cream if money is tough is fine. You can also do picnics in the park and just inexpensive stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 09:08 AM
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Pregnancy and children are not an excuse, they are a reality. Women do not want them to suffer. Lots of women do not need lots of things but if they are to have children they need enough to feed and care for them. There are men who are gold diggers too. Men have married women traditionally for their families money and now there is the woman's salaries. I remember a man who married a nurse saying it was like marrying a woman who had family money. He could count on her salary.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 08:42 AM
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How you think is not new and while you can argue possibilities, you cannot know for sure. There are no guarantees, no crystal ball. Mostly, people will do what they think is right because this is how it has always been done. People used to kill one another about which way you believe in Jesus, and whether your religion is right. In the neolithic era, during the Y chromosome bottleneck, men wiped out others for land and women so there were actually less Y chromosomes variations. We are a brutal p…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 11:13 PM
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It depends. Would you marry a porn star? A lot of men would not. Also, I would not if it was a male porn star. I am not impressed by societies excesses, especially of porn. I am not really here to debate this. You can disagree and it's your life, so do as you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 07:44 PM
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Probably a lot of people do. It is thought of as immoral by many.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 07:27 PM
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So you get to decide that no one lives because we suffer?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 07:15 PM
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Of course, we have to do all the work, just like their mommies did. We should be honoured.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 04:48 PM
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No, it does not happen all the time but it happens enough of the time to be a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 04:46 PM
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I have known some charismatic guys. I do not think they got to 100. They did have loads of fun and long term relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 03:56 PM
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So you want women but we have to do the work. Do you know how much work a relationship is for a woman? Too much of the time if we end up living together we carry the bulk of the household work. So you know, it would help if you did some stuff. So here is my deal, I get to ask you out as long as if the relationship lasts you do all the bulk of the household work? Let's switch? This article says couples are happier if the man does the initial approach https://ifstudies.org/blog/who-asked-whom-does…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 03:50 PM
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Dead bedrooms come in relationships because there is either a problem with one or both sexual drives. That or exhaustion hits when there are young children around. Also, there we can be a gradual ebbing of care of your partner. They stonewall and only pay attention to themselves. They cannot be bothered spending time with you. It is an erosion of care often. If you are in a serious relationship, I would tell the man you would like to try domination occasionally. Sex can be a lot of fun with two …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 02:59 PM
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So? It has always been like this. We do not all need to be Ghandi. Who are you to judge people who have children but not those who decide not to? If you are in a position to care for your child it is not selfish. Nihilism is not new. Nothing is worthwhile? That's your choice and to impose it on others is selfish. Two can play this game.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 01:09 PM
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The world has been filled with evil since the world has been here. We still have children. Children are our hope and many do not disappoint. Social media can blind you to the good out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 12:35 PM
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It happens to women too unfortunately. We are judged by our gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 12:23 PM
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The best babysitter I ever had was a boy. He read me a lot of stories. I would hire a boy I trusted and I would vet him the same way I would vet a girl. Very carefully. Usually if a job becomes more female than male, pay goes down. I am sure it will be the same for doctors. When I was young teachers were very respected. These days some call them expensive babysitters. The only constant is change. Mothers care for their sons and they know boys. Most of us love them. There are always over the top …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 12:13 PM
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The first one is behind a paywall. Not joining. Is it as fair as me having to teach my daughter not to go to parties with a bunch of drunk young men and get drunk. I talked to her about how men can think and to be very careful. It is reality. I taught my son too. If a girl says no, respect it. Go have a cold shower. It is not about saying oh you're a rapist. It about saying this is consent and there are things you cannot do. Boys and girls are taught things like this every day. We have cookies. …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 01:22 AM
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Boys should not be treated as potential rapists. However could you give me a source for this?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 12:09 AM
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And many have died. The maternal mortality rate is still too high in the US. You are minimizing women's experience. You just shrug and think all goes fine in the modern world. The maternal mortality rate will be increasing in the US because rural hospitals will be closing their delivery units. Rural women are less likely to have commercial insurance. The maternal mortality rate will be going up in richest nation on earth. Global estimates on maternal deaths are about 287,000 annually. (WHO) This…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 11:43 PM
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Do you understand what birth can do to the mind too? It can cause a psychosis or a very severe depression. The postpartum period can cause the onset of MS. Pregnancy and giving birth affect the brain and body systemically.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 11:16 PM
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I suggest you state that at the beginning of your next post because most people understand that history says a great deal about men and women. You seem to be missing out anything I bring up that suggests other than what you say. Rural women will not be receiving maternal care. Labour and delivery units are too expensive. Women and infants will be dying in greater numbers and the maternal death rate is too high as it is in the US. More men, women and children will be going hungry because of chang…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 09:42 PM
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Of course, women in the modern day would help hungry men if they can afford extra food. As for maternal mortality not mattering because it happens in poor countries. The richest country in the world has a surprisingly high maternal mortality rate. As well, the rural hospitals in the US closing and there will be less care. The rates are expected to rise. There will be more dead mothers and infants or did you skip this. What about the changes to the SNAP program. Do hungry people not matter? This …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 09:06 PM
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"in the old days women generally did not work" What? They had too many children and rarely stopped working. "If you want more evidence that women have it better, they are the main beneficiaries of DEI/affirmative action programs. " DEI was a response to system discrimination. University programs where there are 50% women no longer have DEI. DEI works for white men who have disabilities, or are vets. There are DEI programs for men who want to get into nursing and traditional women's programs. "Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 07:15 PM
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One whole case? How about before you have your child in a hospital you check out their standards. They put tracking devices on newborns when they are still beside the mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 08:55 AM
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It is because you have no love or feeling for women. You lack an important quality that is necessary for strong, loving relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 08:53 AM
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You are an extremist and what you see and say about society and women is what you want to see. You have a scapegoat for society's problems and where they come from I do not care. I expect you want to control women for their sexuality. You are willing to destroy women's rights and will make up excuses to do this. You want ownership not relationships. There is no making inroads, no community spirit with dealing with women. You only see what you think you personally need. Your narrative offers noth…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 08:48 AM
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The possibility of a mix up is extremely low. They are putting trackers on infants right after birth now.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 01:44 AM
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Wife's ego? she has just been accused of being unfaithful. You are inducing pain and you are incredibly selfish.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 01:30 AM
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Often if you have a normal delivery and a healthy infant, the infant will remain in the room with you for the duration of your hospital stay. If you have a healthy pregnancy and baby is presenting properly, you can have the baby at home. There is no chance the baby will be mixed up. If your baby is taken away they have bracelets and ankle identifiers. The argument is for your ego. You cause needless hurt for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 01:28 AM
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I just asked my husband if he feels listened too. I think he's pretty happy and I do not think he's placating me. He even listens to me. It took sometime to get to here though. I was around when feminism started and it was well and truly needed. We could not have bank accounts without our husband's signature until 1974. There was no DV shelters (started by feminists); little hope for a salary for a woman to support her children if she needed to leave her husband. There was working with men who h…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 01:17 AM
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No you are doing this to the wife. You are saying she is not faithful. You are an insecure man and you family will suffer for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 12:54 AM
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We can turn this around immediately. It is why relationships end because what you are doing to the women. You are saying you do not believe she was faithful. I asked my husband if he would do it and he said he would not. He knew he could trust me. I question your authenticity of your commitment to the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 12:25 AM
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By contrast, Women typically get validated or excused for every bad decision they make. This is a major disservice to the woman in the long run. No we do not. There was no one there for that woman. No DV shelters, no working her way up to a decent position. This happened in the 60s. There are women who get away with too much, but definitely a lot of women do not. It tends to be more the trust fund boys and girls who have free rein. I have a friend who raised their brother and sister. I had to ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 12:08 AM
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Usually authentic people can recognize humanity in others. I'm sure we could argue, not if they are from the dark side. So they have to be authentic and empathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 11:18 PM
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I have seen women be rejected and put in their place because they are not pretty enough. Rejection comes to women too. As for bumble, women do not usually have to try too hard for male attention so they do not have to make much of an effort. If we have to make an effort, I always thought okay so he's not interested and that's fine. There are others. In person, we can send out subtle signals that we are interested. If you are aware at all you pick it up and either respond or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 04:29 PM
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No, just true to ourselves if we are authentic at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 04:18 PM
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It should. We are not robots.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 03:58 PM
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Hopefully some understanding and recognition of a fellow member of your kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 03:35 PM
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Men maybe simpler but that does not mean they are better. Also, each of us are different, just like men. What works for one does not work for another.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 01:35 PM
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Human being is a person. It is not so nebulous. Women are human beings. Men too. Both of them should behave like they are members of the same species because they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 01:08 PM
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Me too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 01:04 PM
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If it is hot enough, I would not worry about it. I find hairy legs amusing anyway. I think I would be more turned off by a guy who worries about wearing shorts when it is hot out.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 04:17 AM
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I disagree that women lack depth. I had lots of ideas about life when I was young but I did not talk about them. I was not that confident and I am so ancient as not to have had access to the internet. The library was my information and I was more interested in psychology and history. Too many philosophers were men with negative views of women. You will hear more about what they think as women hit their 30s. You can also consider the university crowd if you want more opinions. They are simply mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 04:10 AM
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He did, he just go himself together a bit later. I was an early bloomer and he was a later bloomer. He pulled his share too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 09:15 PM
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"Women overwhelmingly vote for retarded men who wants to destroy their nations. single women to be more specific." Certainly, Drump votes came mostly from men. "I'm all for women voting, as long as they have a state mandated duty like men with the draft. I already named them, EVERY western nation has been on the decline because of leftist leaders and policies." Norway, Denmark and Germany have extensive social programs and they are doing just fine. Since men are not being drafted in the US now d…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 09:08 PM
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Alot. I went back to school too and then it was his turn to support me. I had a mystery illness and he supported me until I was diagnosed and doing better. He worked hard too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 08:22 PM
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The reason why I have continued talking to you is I hope you will think about how you talk and think about women. Perhaps you really need to try dating someone outside the usual. I will tell you, in general, both men and women in their early 20s are self-centred and I do not think many of the media influencers of either sex have done much for anyone. Instead of talking philosophers and names with the young women you date ask them about what they think of the world and what is important to them i…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 08:14 PM
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I give compassion to the ones who seem to need it. Many men just come here to strut and kick. I can kick back. Some need a wake up call to let them know they are not impressive and some of what they say is repulsive. Women matter and we are not men's kick around. Men matter too but in this sub, I have been told by men that we do not love, we do not get upset compared to men if we have been cheated on, we are lazy, we are basic and boring, we have ruined the western world, we do not like sex, if …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 05:07 PM
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So other men are not very good at picking women too. You are wrong about women being basic and boring. Good mothers are not as rare as you think. I can only wonder who you hang with. Of course, I can be wrong but how you present yourself even in a comment section can say much about you. I read off some of what you have said to some older men and their reaction is arrogant. The word came from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 04:37 PM
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Taking care of children can be done superficially but this is not a good mother. Good mothers are not superficial and superficial is the antithesis of what they do. You just do not understand it. You do not understand parenting and what it demands. I can make judgements of you by what you say. You are unable to admit being wrong and you are not very good at picking women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 04:13 PM
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It's okay most women would be over it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 04:06 PM
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I think you are missing something and do not understand how good mothers work. Taking care of children is usually not superficial at all. It is demands a deep understanding of the child and responding in a way that is best for the child. It is the antithesis of superficial. You may say you are not interested in impressing women but you are probably turning many off. You really do not sound that aware.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 04:05 PM
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I expect why you get women with no depth is because you speak like you do. I would suddenly not be available if I heard a man talking about women the way you do. You just sound so arrogant.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 03:57 PM
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You be honest too. The women do not matter, the pussy does. This is what he said.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 03:50 PM
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I think you need a new type.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 03:47 PM
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I know women in their 30s who wear makeup because it is expected but do not worry about it too much. They are not shallow or self involved. They are usually trying to get 20 things done at once because often they have young children and work. Superficial is the last word I would choose to describe them. What most of them would love is a half day to themselves but they know their children need them so it rarely happens. The ones that do not have children usually have at least one type of voluntee…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 03:46 PM
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Men have fantasies too. Women do not hang on to the prince idea much past puberty in my experience. If they do, there something wrong. Currently, where I live, there are no princes on the loose. I think we are far more likely to run into a white steed and those are pretty rare even on horse farms. Men could step away from OF and women being held to impossible physical standards too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 03:37 PM
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It is not true. You are boring and basic. There nothing you have said that is not banal.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 03:10 PM
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Women are self centred? I have a husband, 3 brothers, a son and a son in law and a grandson. I can tell you men are self centred. It can happen on a continuum for men and women. I have known people in the dark triad and they turn up in either sex. I have hobbies, I find history, anthropology and psychology fascinating. I find sports boring and very unsubstantial. None of the women I know just worry about their nails, clothes and makeup. I expect there are few women like this. We have depth, abil…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 03:08 PM
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I was not the only one who was confused by your reply. So let's move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 02:59 PM
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We are basic and boring? You think this is a compliment?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 02:56 PM
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I expect you are too. We all have to muddle through life and it can get messy. We all have things to get over in ourselves. It is called maturing. Men do not fit the fantasy either. Men are supposed to be a Prince with a glass shoe that fits me and where is that happily ever after?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 02:53 PM
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I have personally saved enough to put a downpayment on a house, put my husband through school, raised two children, had a mortgage and paid it off. I am an adult. I have come here and become more and more appalled by what men say about women. You are just another example of delusional male superiority. Insulting women (or any whole gender) shows a banality that is the very definition of being even less than boring and basic.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 02:43 PM
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I was explaining she was doing this because she was so bored.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 02:36 PM
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You said that women were evaluated through friendship about women being boring and basic. Perhaps you should be clear you are not agreeing?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 02:32 PM
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Give me an example of this basic. You keep repeating it but seem to never extrapolate. As well, throw in an example of why men are so extra special.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 02:26 PM
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Falling in love with a fantasy is not new and happens across the genders in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 02:25 PM
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They are obsessed with pussy, not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 02:23 PM
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She's probably so bored by you her eyes are crossed.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 02:22 PM
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Has it occurred to you they are bored by you?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 02:17 PM
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Really, give me an example of this less basic and boring because I have not seen it. Men can bore me to tears.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 02:16 PM
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You're a member of TRP and you are a member of a group take studies about women and twist them to the worst possible conclusions. We are to be manipulated so you can get women in bed as fast as possible. Yet we engage in deceptive self presentation to get sympathy? It is because you are seeing what you want to see. Self presentation can be deceptive by either sex. You perceive yourself to do a better job of analyzing behaviour? Yet so much of the comments that I see from men in this subreddit ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 01:39 PM
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Men too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 01:23 PM
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There are 3 countries where women cannot vote. Vatican City, Eritrea and Afghanistan. I certainly do not think the 2 latter countries are in good shape. None of the things you list lead to the destruction of their country. You do realize that most countries are lead by men? Perhaps we should discuss the wars that men like Putin and Drump have got their countries into? "No, their turned off by men in general." We are not. Sex is a wonderful thing with the man you love. Who do you hang out with? Y…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 10:45 AM
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Correct, Women's voting habits vote to destroy their nations. When men say women can't love they got it wrong. Women love alot of things, but most have a natural dislike of men, masculinity male sexuality and attraction. If they put the effort in looking for women who actual like men then they wouldn't believe that but many men think the average women likes them because they're ignorant. What nations have women's voting habits destroyed? Please have sources too. I know of no women who have a nat…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 02:29 AM
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Honey in the morning; honey in the evening; honey at supper time... we are busy as bees.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 12:17 AM
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I have bought cat trees and have the cat ignore it. I bought a window seat for my current cat and he liked it until we were caring for my daughter's cat and that cat monopolized it. The other cat is long gone but my cat will not go near it. Rome looks happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 09:27 PM
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Sometimes in the morning too.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 07:44 PM
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If this is a serious relationship and this is what you think? If I was the partner I would leave and I expect this breaks up a lot of relationships and there is an infant involved. It shows the garbage TRP and the manosphere is teaching. It shows you do not trust your partner and if you talk yourself into this being alright, it shows how selfish you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 07:27 PM
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So you are fine being essentially selfish. I find there is no connection between what you say and real life. You are not an American. Could it be you come from a traditional society where women who like sex are looked down on?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 03:12 PM
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I am motivated to attack you because your ideas are selfish. You show no understanding of women but expect them to work around you. Just as you say women who do not work around you are low value sexually, I say men who think like this are low value men to women. They bring nothing to the table but their needs. Many of women's needs are based on what they need to bear children but they are running into so many selfish men that they are moving away from them. You are just another one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 02:49 PM
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Why would the mods remove my comment? You are limited by your idea of a response. A lot of them also think women are more beautiful than men, which indicates they can't relate to ever feeling sexual attraction. Where do you get your ideas? You know what women think and feel? No you jump to conclusions. Your idea of low value women sexual partners makes me wonder if you have considered you are a low value male partner. Women are usually not wired the same of you but you think you have a right to …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 01:38 PM
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Things did lighten up from when I was young but the garbage that is out there is screwing up relationships. Now, I would be terrified to date before I knew a guy and very cautious to trust. TRP guys think we are just out for their money. Men who have no GFs say they will test their children's dna and they are not even in a relationship and I should just ask my husband if it is a good idea. They are shocked when I do and he says, no, he trusted me. Then they are surprised when they are not dating…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 01:27 PM
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There are none so blind as those who cannot see. Like the poster you only see men and whether you are getting your sexual needs met. Women get called whores, and sluts if we show interest. We are fallen women and loose women historically. We are taught if we are sexual we are dirty. If we are not careful we get used and hurt. You are demonstrating how you only care about yourself. I love men. I have many male relatives in my life. Would I like the dating process? Not now. The manosphere has made…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 01:19 PM
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There is a message to women if we are too free with our sexuality that we are 'dirty'. We are not good women if we let go. For me, I learned to do it in a LTR but I needed to feel safe and respected. I did not want to have my SO talking to other people about it. I did not want outsiders to judge me. Do not give your SO a hard time about it, the message is drilled in and men have as much to do with it too. They can gossip and laugh at us and make up stories. All those slurs they have for us, whor…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 01:02 PM
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That was not how it worked for me. It was more send a signal, receive interest. I was not very pushy and the guy I liked responded immediately and was just the one for me. Looking back we were just so sweet and interested in each other. There was none of the crap out there that is there now. I feel sorry for men and women trying to navigate it. I do not think the manosphere has done much for relationships. Now all the men think they have to lead and it must be their way and we must chase them so…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 12:36 PM
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As I became older I became more interested. My husband teased me by saying supply exhausted demand. This was in response to how the poster discussed women. I do not think women do not like sex but I do think some are taught it is 'dirty' for a woman to want it. I doubt there is a woman who has not been called a whore by men if she seems sexual. In what way did I say sex was transactional and contingent on meeting my needs? You can explain yourself too.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 12:16 PM
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Loads of things kill off marriages and sometimes from the outside it is hard to see. However, I saw a woman having such a hard time with menopause have a stroke and die. They say a stroke killed her but I think menopause did. Her husband had moved in with a neighbour. She should have had meds but she refused. She was unapproachable. I have known a few who sailed through it comparatively.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 10:12 AM
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This one is just about himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 10:07 AM
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Menopause is a wonky time but it does not last forever and we are still interested as we get older. Lots of couples continue doing what they can until their 80s. We are just not reproducing. Thank god. When I was 20, I did not want a 40 year old. I wanted someone similar in age to me. It is nice to grow old with someone too.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 01:13 AM
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I was at my best in my 30s and 40s. I did not find it disgusting at all. It was the best fun I have ever had. I just need to do it in a LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 12:10 AM
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Show me the textbook with your kind of sex negativity. It sounds to me like you are sex negativity. Only your dick matters? There are loads of others connected to far better men. Women owe you nothing, so continue whining and complaining. It is going to be an unhappy life. You will always be at the end of the line with your negativity. Women will be with the man who has a bit of patience and understanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 12:05 AM
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I do not get this idea that women find men repulsive if they are not 'beautiful'. It really depends what your idea of beautiful is. I do not want a guy that is beautiful like a woman; I want a guy who is beautiful like a man. I would not think sex is disgusting, but I am wired so that I want it in LTR. I am not going to jump into to bed with you until I feel safe, I know you and I can trust you. You think you know women? My husband jokes about when supply exhausted demand in our relationship. Yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 09:49 PM
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So someone crafted a hoax in Omaha, NE that got men arrested and women are responsible? How about 15,000 to 50,000 women and girls are trafficked each year in the US and compare it to one scandal? A question: where were you when I was a child and saw an alcoholic husband throw shoes at his children? What about the wife's bruises? Yet there were no DV shelters and she had to work to get away from him but the jobs she could get did not feed them? I was under 10 and had nightmares. Everyone turned …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 03:39 AM
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You are funny. Full of yourself and your injuries and you have joined the women are the ones to scapegoat school of thought. It is an old school, used primarily by a certain kind of man and it's been around since we have recorded history. I spent a lot of time talking to the graduates of it in the 60s and 70s. You are nothing new. Epstein girls and trafficked women, laws to control women, maternal death rates, incel mass murders, wage gap, unpaid labour, domestic violence, and taking away voting…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 03:03 AM
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So any behaviour is okay as long as you believe you are the abused one? You have no responsibility for what you say? Dehumanizing is okay and taking accountability for making sweeping statements about people is not a problem because HR and Admissions offices are gynocentric? Young men cannot get together and no political party takes them seriously? You are the whipping boy? Have you tried the local pub? Renting some time on the soccer field? A community centre? Gathering at someone's house? Wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 02:13 AM
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So you're good with it? Let's change the subject and put it on you. You do not have to think I do anything wrong, it is your fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 01:44 AM
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The fact that Asia aborts female fetuses simply because they are female does not mean it does not affect this planet and this whole planet matters. Humans matter where they live and whatever gender they are. I do not think many women like men resorting to violence for competition for them. Sure we might get a kick out of two guys trying to get our attention but please no blood or hurting others. If you have a woman pushing for this kind of behaviour, my advice is she has just proven she is not w…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 08:43 PM
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Let's not be ridiculous. The only place I find women not listening to men is this subreddit because they make sweeping statements such as women do not listen to them. Seriously? We listen but sometimes it is just too much. I answer the comments that say women do not feel, women do not listen, women are not as affected by men cheating, every father should have a dna test, and women do not love. This sub can demonstrate a lot of men dehumanizing women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 06:56 PM
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Neither. Pain is pain and men can go talk about it if necessary. The men on this subreddit rarely give women their due. I have no issues saying men suffer and cheating hurts. How would you know men suffer more? Because women talk about it? So talking about it lessen's it? When my brother died nothing I did lessened the pain. I tried talking and pretending it did not happen. Both hurt and I think talking about it was worse. You are minimizing women's experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 04:45 PM
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I disagree with you that the entire system crusade against evildoers for women but treats men as infrastructure. Do we protect women more? It is because it is usually necessary. https://www.mprnews.org/story/2015/01/14/study-1-in-3-men-ok-raping-if-its-not-called-rape As well, when you protect women, you are often protecting children too. However, the Asian abortion rate for females shows how we can be valued in families; we are viewed as less worthy than males. Rural women's maternal healthcare…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 02:24 PM
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Men need to come up with an alternative? Woman should have no say? How about you start making comments when you can better manage considering both genders? How about the children too?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 12:40 PM
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The term cuck was never used when I was young. Men have brought this term forward and I think most of the judgement that you speak of is by men. I have just as much sympathy for both men and women. I am disgusted with a cheater of either gender. I do not look sympathetically on women at all. My disgust gets worse with both if there are children. We all face problems in life but it is how you deal with them that shows your character. Women having affairs has traditionally been looked down on beca…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 11:56 AM
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None of the males in my family are disposable and I have a fair amount. I would not like to live my life without any of them. I know I love my son and I would die for him. The people who do this to infants and children are often sick or so twisted that they should never leave prison. Have you checked out the global population statistics? Females are being aborted at such a rate in Asian countries that it has skewed the usual population statistics globally. Perhaps what happens to trafficked wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 11:45 AM
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I am talking about the people who stay with people who are cheaters. I am not justifying the abusers.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 09:24 PM
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Trauma is very real. People often spend their lives repeating the patterns of their childhood wounds. Some do develop insight and stop the behaviour but some never do.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 09:07 PM
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I am not sure I agree. I think you should be careful with minimizing women's pain. I have seen women nearly destroyed by their husband's affair and they do not really recover.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 08:23 PM
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Trust me, no woman who thinks she is in a LTR with someone wants this.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 08:21 PM
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A father killing a son was the most likely (29.5 percent of cases), a mother killing a son (22.1 percent) follows. A mother was slightly more likely to kill a daughter (19.7 percent of cases) than a father was (18.1 percent). The rarest instances were stepmothers killing either a stepson (0.5 percent) or a stepdaughter (0.3 percent). https://archive2.news.brown.edu/2007-2015/articles/2014/02/filicide.html
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 08:20 PM
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We run into rejection in our lifetimes. We show our emotions more. No one really likes rejection but everyone has it happen. It happens to all of us. I think people respond to rejection over a continuum and perhaps women talk more about it but we move on. Some men start scapegoating women. There are men in this subreddit who believe women can do no right. Everything wrong is caused by feminism or women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 08:15 PM
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Or could they have an abused upbringing and know of no other way to live?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 07:49 PM
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Are you kidding me?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 07:48 PM
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The same applies to women. Do you think we do not think, what did I do wrong, why am I not good enough. Why do you need to minimize women's pain when it is as real as yours?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 07:48 PM
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How would you know this? You are simply guessing. Any parent trying is making strides. Some may need a lot of help but a parent who tries and gives a damn is far better than some read all about it snob. Most parents love their children. Some are damaged or have issues like extreme depression, or maybe just are not that smart and these leave problems. "Most children (about 60%) are securely attached" https://cpa.ca/attachment-in-children/ Some families need help. 60% are securely attached and you…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 04:49 PM
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Most are not. None of us are perfect though and yes we always leave some problems. So do many dads. It is being human. We are becoming more aware. Few of us have children if we do not want them. In past generations it was expected and many just did it because that is what you did.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 02:35 PM
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I think a SAHM is not necessarily a tradwife. I believe in attachment theory and very young children having a parent home for the first 3-4 years of life if possible. I am also a feminist and I do encourage you to get back to work after this period. I will also tell you if you have adolescents, working is a good thing. Being a trad wife does not mean you are not necessarily an authentic human being, but it does provide limitations and I certainly hope with time, you can move on to a more optiona…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 02:14 PM
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I believe it is not just a lack of strength that makes women less violent. We care and bear children and the first years (especially the first months) with an infant are incredibly demanding. If we couldn't cope and became violent there would be a lot more infanticide. This does not mean there are not violent women but it is less than men. Violent women would kill a lot more of their children. There are guns now and guns can be used by both genders, yet we use them less. There are innate differe…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 12:26 PM
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It is also become so expensive because of war and greed. Perhaps you might feel differently if you had been around in the 60s and seen what I had seen. A few desperate mothers trying to feed their children and get away from their alcoholic husbands might change how you view women having careers. For some the societal changes that allowed women to have careers were absolutely necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 12:12 AM
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I said incel mass murders... this means incel mass murderers, not all men are evil. However, men have a propensity for violence. Are women sweet little angels? Not a chance but we have less of a propensity for violence. This is reality. I think science needs to dive deeper into what it means to be human and I hope along the way we can figure out who is not coping and at risk of harming someone. We still have very far to go. I do not think this being alone so much is good. Young people are too al…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 11:45 PM
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Valerie Solanos was diagnosed as paranoid schizophrenic after her trial. So she was a very sick woman. I cannot speak for the women who supported her, but remember horrors like Andrew Tate have many more supporters. This study from Britain does not find a gender difference with the victims: https://www.manchester.ac.uk/about/news/findings-from-most-in-depth-study-into-uk-parents-who-kill-their-children/#:~:text=child%20killing%20by%20parents%2C%20known,of%20parents%20and%20step%2Dparents%20who I…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 10:54 PM
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Valerie Solanas is a nut case. She sold about 400 of her book and no one heard of her until she attempted to kill Andy Warhol. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/SCUM_Manifesto Various scholars consider it parody or satire. It sold more after her Warhol attempt but I would be surprised if it could be found these days. It sounds like absolute garbage to me. From what I gathered some considered her an anarchist. She sounds like garbage to me and certainly not anyone who is of any importance. I never he…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 07:04 PM
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Men and women were not told to put the other first, because if you go back to the 1950s and the times before, it was usually put the children first. You got married if you got a girl pregnant for the child. No one kicked up a fuss if the married men with children got time off for vacation when the schools were closed because there were children. In a relationship, for it to survive, there are things you have to do for yourself and your partner but if you have children and there are things that s…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 08:45 PM
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Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 03:40 PM
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Resources that go to women commonly go to them because they bear and care for children. Babies and young children and the high expense of child care often make it necessary to stay with them. Would you be happier with them starving to death? And before you start blaming mothers for not having fathers around or needing programs like SNAP? Do you object to disabled or elderly men getting help? Or just women trying to care for their children? You know the ones abandoned by men. Do not tell me sex i…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 01:09 PM
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I was privileged before because you told me so. Such an expert on other's lives. Is it cold up there in the stratosphere as you look down on all of us? So judgemental and so sure you know it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 09:20 PM
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There are women no one picks and who would be slammed down quickly too. Or be only fit for men to use. You think women do not get hurt? Try and be the one who was good enough to live with and give your best years too and then he walks away because it does not want it to last.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 09:01 PM
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What do they call mens?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 08:55 PM
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Only talking to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 08:54 PM
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I was too busy doing what needed to be done to worry about privilege. When I was young there were no SAHF. Now there are and they face some of the same garbage than women faced when they went into traditional men's jobs in the 70s and 80s. I saw a woman manager fired from her job simply because she was a woman. SAHF may take some stuff but I would not be throwing any garbage their way and no one can fire them. Was I privileged when I was pregnant? Giving birth or doing so many night feeds I walk…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 12:30 PM
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I was a SAHM for about 10 years. I also took care of a little boy for extra cash because I do really like children and I could manage him easily enough. We are still friends decades later. I had problems with only one friend during this period because I think she was insecure in having to work. She had picked out a great day care and went everyday during lunch to be with him but she was not at peace with her decision. The rest of the world feminists had no problem with it. I never knew a lazy SA…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 12:15 PM
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What man do you think every woman would say yes too? He does not exist. However, the women who are interested will probably surround him so it will appear like no one would say no. Someone who is truly not interested in one night stands is not going to be a one night stand with anyone. If I do not know someone I am never sure how to take it if a man compliments me. There are a few who can do it in a non creepy way but I suggest you be very careful with it. If I know you and we are friends, I sho…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 11:53 AM
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No, we will not. There is no good reason for him to not ask either if he is interested. I am not adverse to a woman asking but why should we have to do this? We carry the reproductive and much of the emotional load. Exactly, what do you guys expect? Everything done for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 08:53 PM
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How do we know he does not have a problem. It will not be any safer.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 05:14 PM
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Sometimes we do have a sense. Sometimes we do not. We do not use crystal balls.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 03:46 PM
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Definitely written by a man who does not want to ask a woman on a date. He would prefer her to do the work. I can see it a year later. It is better for the women to do all the housework because then the man knows she truly cares. And so on and so forth. How exactly is a woman safer if she does the approaching? How does she know that he's not violent? We are no mind readers.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 02:47 PM
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Maria Theresa of Austria was attacked by Fredrick of Prussia simply because she was a woman and he thought her weak. Do you think the lesson there was not to be more vigilant and aggressive? Elizabeth 1 and Maria Theresa of Austria ruled during the religious wars in Europe. They were extremely violent times. The Netherlands spend 80 years at war with Phillip II of Spain over catholicism and protestants. I am somehow amazed with that 27% going to women rulers knowing the brutal history of Europe.…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 12:00 PM
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Matilda's actions were typical of a monarch who was fighting to keep the crown. She was no worse than any man of those times. She treated her cousin Stephen similar to how he treated members of her family. She was heavy handed but not cruel. https://www.historyhit.com/why-did-two-namesake-queens-fight-for-the-english-crown/#:~:text=Queen%20Matilda%2C%20however%2C%20immediately%20demanded,to%20endorse%20the%20new%20regime It was more a fight of Matildas. Stephen's wife Matilda was more astute tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 12:28 AM
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So Ferdinand and Albert get no responsibility? Ferdinand was Isabella's political equal. Elizabeth 1 had the Spanish armada come after her to dispose her and return England to Catholicism. Also, single women rulers were more likely to be attacked. Married female rulers had their husbands as advisors. Albert advised Victoria and Ferdinand led the troops into battle. Perhaps you should do some reading about the Plantagenets? They were incredibly violent. Or let's discuss the two world wars of the …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 09:32 PM
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I know of no woman who believes women do not commit crime. Seriously, this is an exaggeration.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 08:57 PM
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It is a good laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 08:42 PM
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This is a personal issue you have. You need to deal with it. I am not going to discuss my personal life with you but let's say I love my husband and what you describe would be a small part of our life together. Love is so much more than one moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 12:52 AM
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I find you so entrenched in your beliefs that you are dogmatic and inflexible. Feminism does not want to destroy families. Once again the definition of feminism: "Feminism is a socio-political movement and ideology dedicated to achieving full political, economic, and social equality for all genders." I am a feminist and I have no wish to destroy families or hurt people. I just want women to have opportunities. Opportunities can mean women make choices you might not agree with but it is a right t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 12:48 AM
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Society has changed. Look to Scandinavia and how many children are born out of wedlock. It is not feminism but a change in how men and women view societal rules. Many of the 'out of wedlock' children are born to stable relationships and it is not because men have slid into relationships. Men and women make choices often. What changed society more than feminism or any other movement was the arrival of the birth control pill. People were also moving away from religion. The best thing for a child i…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 11:38 PM
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Lazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 10:37 PM
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No, it is not. If I was interested in a man, he would have to smell right too. So cut the cologne. I love snuggling my husband and nestling my nose into his chest. When you fall for a man your brain can lose its common sense and this is why humans can end up in trouble. We can be intelligent people but our minds are ignoring red flags. You have to be able to get a hold of yourself and think because whatever is going on is not thinking. It's chemical.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 10:10 PM
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There is a lot involved with dating, but with taking care of yourself you have eliminated the turn offs. You could do all those things and not appeal to me. There's chemistry involved. A sense of humour makes me curious. A sense of safety can make me stay.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 09:06 PM
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You are just full of yourself. You know what I feel but I do not? How do you even know what I sit with? You have a personal issue and you should be working on it, not dumping on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 09:00 PM
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You might be single for even longer with no hobbies, friends, fitness or hygiene and bad character is a big turn off.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 05:37 PM
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My personal experience with teenage pregnancies and the increase in the 70s of single mothers keeping their children was there was a lot of information at that time about the pain that happened when young teenage mothers were separated from their children because of societal disapproval. So there was a pushback and in families that allowed it, teenagers were able to keep their children. Often there was a lot of help from their families. It really was not feminism per se. It was more of a movemen…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 05:30 PM
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I would lament a trend towards lynching of anyone too. How about a lament for the incel's mass murder dead? I am for moving young people involved in criminal activity in a locale. In Italy, they broke generational criminality amongst the mafia by moving children to other cities and having them fostered or mothers moving so their sons would survive. https://www.theguardian.com/world/2026/jul/16/italy-mafia-law-families-break-free-crime-new-identities#:~:text=Children%20and%20young%20adults%20rais…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 04:39 PM
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Ok. I am probably missing some but ask away.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 02:19 AM
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Ok, you do you. Find a better plan than prostitutes. I think a truly advanced society would not have them. Have we reached the end of our debate?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 02:14 AM
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Conflict does not mean we punch each other. Conflict means we discuss things possibly in a heated manner. There are some people I just stop talking to. Prostitute are often desperate women trying to feed their families, psychopaths, or drug addicts. They are often abuse victims. I do not think it is a good idea. Women do not desire divorce when they are getting married. Divorce is something that happens when the marriage breakdown and it can be a slow erosion.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 01:16 AM
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I do not expect to agree with people on this subreddit but I think I should be able to speak my mind. This can bring conflict. Conflict avoidant people probably would not come here. The word agency with respect to how I used it means your sense of what you can do and what you think you can do. It is your power to affect your future. Agency takes your desires, make plans, and carries out the actions necessary to obtain them. So saying men have no agency means men lack this in marriage. Too many m…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 12:50 AM
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I am sorry but all of women's jobs are daycare? Seriously? Or If women deserve equal opportunities to men why shouldn’t men deserve equal opportunities to women? And if we as a society pay to close the gap for women it’s only just we do it for men. Equal opportunities to women? We are human beings. Not things to have opportunities to. We do not exist to be trapped by your inability to handle life's disappointments. We just marry and fuck up? Men have no agency? You take statistics and miss the w…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 09:40 PM
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Geez there's nothing like your morning coffee and finding out I am responsible for the lynchings of males in the past. Where is that article about young men using moral outrage to try and win points? You are just so emotional and unrealistic. Can I suggest a lie down so you can return your equilibrium to normal. You might be able to come down from your pedestal later if you do. If you're a judge and you know who you are sentencing has a higher chance of recidivism because they have a gambling ad…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 12:48 PM
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Scientific source that women’s jobs are daycare for adults? Thats a subjective claim. Or at least I can’t prove any intent behind industrialists supporting feminism. However we both know women predominantly work white collar, not blue collar jobs. And the men’s jobs really hold up the infrastructure of an economy. Look around you right now. Everything was designed and built by a man. Women invented the spring loaded windshield washer, leprosy treatment, Noether's theorem, antiviral drugs, treatm…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 12:05 PM
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Men rage pill and go off on tangents too. Some of them can never be wrong. Or there's this moral outrage BS I run into too. https://www.psypost.org/young-men-use-moral-outrage-to-claim-status-in-political-debates/ I have no problems with judges judging criminals during sentencing. They have to figure out if they are likely to reoffend. I would be light with first or 2nd time offenders but if I had someone with a list I would be using all the information I knew to judge them. I find it hilarious …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 02:22 AM
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I think that if it was a violent offence I would be more likely to give a longer sentence. However, women are less violent than men and that should be taken into consideration when evaluating the sentence. https://bjs.ojp.gov/press-release/recidivism-females-released-state-prison-2012-2017 The recidivism rates are lower though I do expect if criminal offences are increasing amongst women it should be reevaluated. I believe prison reform is badly needed. I think that for many rehabilitation could…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 01:53 AM
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The problem with women banking in the 1900s is they could do it if they had their husband's signature. In 1885 a husband could sell his wife's property without her permission. (this is for the US) I have never heard or seen anyone ridicule National Men's Mental Health Month. Mental health is really important. Could I see a source for this ridicule? Trust me, though women do get ridiculed for things like PMS, hormone changes, and many other things. The draft, it does not exist yet in the US. I wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 01:33 AM
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You have failed to answer these: Scientific Source? Or proof? Scientific Source? Or proof? Scientific source? Basically you are upset that women have greater access to sex than men? This does not necessarily mean they are hypergamous. It is not women's fault some men do not get out there. TRP even tells men to work on themselves. I would not like the life in a large American city and would probably move away to quieter places but I would not be telling other people how to live their lives. I dou…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 12:22 AM
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I think one of the ways of measuring DV and abuse of intimate partners and comparing it fairly is comparing homicide deaths. In 2021, 1690 women were killed by intimate partners. 1078 men were killed by intimate partners. However, the statistics got muddy when I tried to figure out if self-defence was an issue in any of the women murdering their partners. There were statements that it was an issue but I could not find any real information that supported this. There are more women than men in the…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 11:52 PM
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1 in 4 women (24.3%) and 1 in 7 men (13.8%) aged 18 and older in the US have been the victim of severe physical violence by an intimate partner in their lifetime. https://www.thehotline.org/stakeholders/domestic-violence-statistics/#:~:text=Over%201%20in%203%20women,intimate%20partner%20in%20their%20lifetime 1% may be violent with strangers but DV paints another story. Humans are not really very nice and the problem with men is they can do more damage.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 10:07 PM
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Where did I say throw men in the trash? Men are just people usually but they do tend to be more violent.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 09:35 PM
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I think the reason men get less leeway is because they can be more violent if they respond. Certainly the incel mass murders are a concern. Whatever we say, women do not usually commit mass murder. I was born in 1960 though and I can tell you there was a lot of garbage thrown at women in the 70s and 80s. Calendars of women in mail rooms, ignorant comments and I saw men actually bring down a manager because she was a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 07:49 PM
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One study found female drivers were 23% less likely to be ticketed, 55% less likely to be arrested, and 76% less likely to be searched at traffic stops. It is almost like the cops understand that we are risk adverse. We really do not like to go around with drugs or guns. Sure there are a few psychopathic women but not usually. I do not think that women cannot commit abuse or rape but I do think it has suddenly been acknowledged and now people are going to go a bit of the railings with it. It is …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 07:44 PM
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Do you have a source for women being guilty of more online rhetoric and misandry behaviour?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 07:23 PM
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Give sources of your so full of it, it is leaking all over the place. Seriously, you spout BS, because you cannot even back yourself up.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 07:02 PM
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So I ask you again, why not finance incels to close the sexgap? What does this even mean? Give money to the incel for prostitutes? This isn’t a subjective opinion. Polling time and time again showed women no where wanted the right to vote. That is why there was never a referendum held on it, because the government knew it wouldn’t pass so authorities just passed it themselves. Scientific Source? Or proof? Hookup culture says otherwise. The fact that a small amount of men sleep with all the women…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 04:49 PM
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I was told that a loose woman was a danger to your husband because she was looking for a man to snatch. Any man would do. Where I grew up and where I am now, there are not too many prostitutes. It would have been big gossip when I was a child. I did know of a few kept women but that was only after I moved to a larger city. Do I know trafficking and prostitution exist? Yes, but they do not usually move in circles where there are families and most of them are desperate women looking to support the…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 01:30 PM
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Incel mass murders: 2014 Isla Vista, CA killing spree 2015 Roseburg, OR 10 killed 2017 Aztec, NM 2 high school students 2018 Toronto, ON van attack killing 10 2020 Glendale, AZ 3 injured 2021 Plymouth, UK killed 5 2023 Allen, TX killed 8 (not just incel, white supremacist too) Let's be honest, women do not usually pick up guns and go looking to punish a gender by killing them. I do not know one woman who wants men exterminated.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 06:35 AM
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There will always be single mothers. Relationships breakdown and men die. Parents need to talk to their sons and daughters about how sex is for adults and they need to be very thoughtful about what they do. The majority of women were content. The majority of women never wanted the vote. Women self report never being more miserable. I categorically disagree and you need to talk to different women. We need rights. We have a right to speak for ourselves and we have to because men are unreliable. Lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 06:14 AM
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How about we talk about the prosecutors that stopped the investigations into Epstein allowing him to continue his activities for decades? What about the victims who have spoken up? How often were they ignored? I suggest you look up the Rotherham Child Exploitation Scandal and see how many men failed the victims. They were girls. So you get to pick who you defend in the manosphere but I cannot? I am guilty of all the radical feminists but you are free to say, I had no part in this. How markedly u…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 05:35 AM
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The bulk of women have. The outliers get all the attention and it has become very trendy to attack feminism. Your user name is savethebros so I know what is important to you. Not a woman or a feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 05:20 AM
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You do not get to set the terms of what I accept. This is the definition of feminism: Feminism is a social, political, and intellectual movement dedicated to achieving full social, economic, and political equality for all genders. It seeks to dismantle systemic inequalities and challenge harmful gender stereotypes that limit opportunities based on sex. (wikipedia) This is what I believe. Not what you have decided I should believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 10:36 PM
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I did not remember it perfectly. However read points 4 and 5 of this article: https://www.straitstimes.com/world/united-states/8-things-you-need-to-know-about-mackenzie-soon-to-be-ex-wife-of-amazon-founder I expect you can say that without her things would have been different. She was married to him for 25 years. She cared for their children. There is no reason why she would not deserve half. Did your wife nurse a newborn? Did she do the 2 hour feeds? Did you help? The first 3 months are very ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 10:31 PM
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We can say the same thing about the manosphere. They just arrested Andrew Tate and his brother. If you are red pill are you automatically supporting them? This is the definition of feminism from the UN women: "Feminism is a social, political, and ideological movement dedicated to achieving equal rights and opportunities for all genders. It works to dismantle systemic inequalities, challenge traditional gender roles, and eliminate discrimination so that everyone can participate fully and fairly i…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 07:00 PM
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So I can use the same reply? I do not associate with policies that oppress men? This way I have no responsibility? If someone who supported it said so and I understood the implications, I would say something.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 06:55 PM
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Jeff Bezos says his ex deserved her share. She supported him and raised their three children. It is odd to me that men do not think that what women do is not worth what a man does. https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2019/jan/12/mackenzie-bezos-divorce-jeff-why-she-deserves-wealth-money-husband Have you ever been pregnant or raised a newborn? You just have no idea the commitment having children demands usually of women. Your need to minimize it says much about you. What women do is of equa…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 06:53 PM
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Most do not know about it. I had to look it up because of comments made. Do you go online and take responsibility for things said and done in the name of repressing women? Do you say anything about discussions about taking rights away from women?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 05:36 PM
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Women want and deserve the right to vote. Why would anyone be content with not having rights? It is inhuman to deny rights to adults based on their sex. Women started the movement that gave us the right to vote. Our traditional work has meaning but is taken for granted and thought to be lesser than men's 'important' work. Ideas such as the rule of thumb show countless men lack the clarity and ability to see we deserve both rights and privileges. The rate of teenage pregnancies is down significan…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 11:52 AM
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What brought feminism about? It started for very good reasons. Some women had to leave men and take care of their children on their own. They looked around and realized the best they could do was a retail job but they knew they could do the harder jobs and that they needed the money. Single motherhood takes a man leaving or impossible behaviour from him for it to happen usually. Many of the men do not pay child support so the mothers end up on government support. You can get more than one year l…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 03:36 AM
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The policy was written in the 80s. It has faults in its perception of abuse by women. Most of us know this happens. This does not mean that it represents all feminists. The apex fallacy applies to feminism too.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 03:13 AM
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What is a women's fee-fees?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 03:07 AM
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No, but this is not the result of feminism. It is the result of financial needs usually. Now because child care is so expensive, women are staying home. We usually do what we have to in this world. I think children under 3 should have a parent or someone who loves them taking care of them but this is not often possible. Women returned to work because they had to often. I returned to work to pay for my children's education. I have seen women return to work because their partners have abandoned th…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 03:01 AM
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I believe in attachment theory for young children. However, you are unfair in blaming feminists for this. Women usually have to work. We went back to work for good reason too. Husbands were alcoholics, there was DV, affairs and many issues. Women often went back to feed their children and along the way they realized we deserve the same opportunities as men. There is much we are able to do. Most feminists advocate for paid maternity leave. The US is one of the few developed countries without it. …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 02:34 AM
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Feminist do not all believe in the same thing. I have issues with prostitution. Do you think that there is a reason many have addiction problems? What do you think leads to what? Does prostitution lead to drugs or does drugs lead to prostitution? There are women who are good at it. They usually have psychopathic traits. Low fear responses, a lack of empathy, and shallow emotions etc. A lot of the women are desperate to feed and support their families. A lot have abuse issues. Men go to prostitut…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 02:00 AM
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I am not sure that social media is real life. A lot of it is click bait. The real stuff where there are actual wounded people is another story. Sometimes we need to turn the crap off and realize it is not what is going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 12:54 AM
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The pay gap makes a difference to women. The care gap is huge. If you have a sister, she will likely be the one caring for your parents when they are elderly. Or if you have a partner it will likely fall on her. Many men have a lack of understanding just how much there is to do caring for children and the elderly. It is a lot of unpaid work that we get no credit for. For example what do you do when you come home from work? Then compare it to what a mother does. It is the second shift. I think fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 12:50 AM
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Source? and clarity because I am not sure I understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 11:59 PM
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I agree rights and opportunities are not the same. But what? Comparing incels and sluts? Sluts usually have a time limit on them? By sluts you mean women who sleep with many men. You live long enough and the attention dies. I think part of the problem is there are not as many sluts as the incels would want because there would be less incels? Some sluts usually want attention but that time limit is ticking or they have been abused and I can manage sympathy for men and women who have serious issue…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 11:23 PM
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It can be personality or it can be other things. They could be chasing the wrong woman. I do not find men as good readers of body language usually. Also, women can be put off when a man approaches her because she does not know him or she is just not thinking that way about it. We are risk adverse and as the statistics show it is inherent to females. I am appalled by abusers. I am not by awkward people but when I was young they would make me feel awkward too. There are a myriad of reasons why men…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 10:56 PM
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They are made out as being worse than abusers and criminals"? Hardly. They are complained about but not compared to criminals and abusers. Do we tolerate this? Usually only if we are young or have been raised with this behaviour. So we are unimpressed by AHs? Of course. I think everyone should ask what value they bring to others. We are social animals and no one should be expected to carry someone else with no return unless it is a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 05:12 PM
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How can you believe in equal rights and not be a feminist? We are of equal value. We deserve equal pay for equal work. We deserve equal access to jobs. Men deserve the same. From the UN, there definition: A feminist is an individual who advocates for the political, economic, personal, and social equality of the sexes. By acting on the belief that everyone deserves equal rights and opportunities regardless of gender, they work to challenge patriarchal systems and dismantle harmful gender stereoty…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 02:04 PM
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I consider women to be of equal value to men. We deserve the same pay for the same work, equal access to most jobs, respect for our intelligence and abilities, the right to vote and to have political aspirations. Being a feminist does not mean I disrespect men. I just happen to have a brain that works and I have opinions and ideas. I am not lazy, selfish, incapable of love, evil (yes, there was a post on this), not accountable, etc. Why would a feminist not care about her partner? We think that …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 01:26 AM
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Yes, are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 12:31 AM
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Women may choose not to get into relationships. For some it is not their path and that is the way it should be. We can handle it And those stats on incel terrorism are completely overblown. It’s pure propaganda that any sought of public threat emerges from the manosphere. I totally disagree and this is a list of their mass murderers that some of the incel online groups cheered. This is not propaganda: 2014 Isla Vista, CA killing spree 2015 Roseburg, OR 10 killed 2017 Aztec, NM 2 high school stud…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 12:26 AM
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I disagree. I think that many women do what they can for their husbands. Many have careers, just like their husbands do and a lot of pressure but it does not mean they do not care or help them. I think you have a cognitive bias. I think you have made up your mind it is this way but I assure you it is not. I am actually better than my husband usually at doing things for him and this is not unusual.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 11:52 PM
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I hope you manage this. I think it can make such a difference to some. Best of luck with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 09:21 PM
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I too have seen this first hand. It is very hard and it breaks people. I actually come here to stop some of the BS. Some are hopeless and you have to dump on them but I am for not wishing people not to be here. I do try to get them to think. I truly do care about men and women. I had an undiagnosed autoimmune disorder when I was in my 30s and if I was not sick I think I would have fostered. Children should not be alone in the dark with monsters.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 09:05 PM
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Duh, I have a daughter and son and they have friends. I know some of the issues and struggles. BTW, I spent the first 6 years of my life without a TV because hardly anyone had one. This does not mean my brain is dead or cannot get issues. Do you think someone without children can be a child psychologist? Someone without cancer is an oncologist. People can understand issues. Our brains are not frozen in time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 08:43 PM
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I absolutely agree. So much is trauma or head injury. We really should be doing better. It is heart breaking.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 08:39 PM
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Hardly. Most women prefer long term relationships and not hook up culture. However, hook ups cannot be compared to incel behaviour. Women are not into mass murder. Incel's have done this.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 08:30 PM
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Untrue. You just cannot know this. Can I ask you where you are from? Just the country? Because many women and men care for each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 08:25 PM
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I was misinterpreting.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 08:24 PM
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Life without parole if they are dangerous.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 08:23 PM
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Oh my. I am not complaining but this has not been my experience. Maybe it is because I say my age? Still always be and do better than anyone like this. Do it for yourself so you can feel good about yourself. If anyone DMs you can you just ignore?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 08:22 PM
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He is talking incels and extreme pill poppers. Most women are not close to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 06:55 PM
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whatever women experience and call love is nothing approaching what men mean when they say love. What he says is garbage. Women are capable of love. Someone has to stop this verbal diarrhea.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 06:52 PM
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So what happens if there is something serious? Can you get them banned?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 06:50 PM
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If they are going to be dangerous, let's put them in prison. We can see what we can do there but we never let them out. We have to be better than them or we are all shits.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 06:49 PM
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I am going to try that one next time I have something that has to be done. I am loved just for existing, you make dinner, and do my share.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 06:44 PM
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I would just avoid conversations with her. If she joins in a message convo, ignore her. You cannot block DMs?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 06:27 PM
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I just do not think we should kick them down. I get not being able to handle it or not knowing what to do but we do not turn people away who have cancer, why would we do it to the mentally ill?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 06:24 PM
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Well, I am sorry. I cannot fix this but I can tell you to block her? Absolutely, most women do not think like this. I come here to talk men out of the women hating garbage. This stuff does not help but I try to speak up for all and say when something is wrong. She is wrong. Do not let this upset you because this is not about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 06:22 PM
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I still do not want it. People who are suicidal can be stabilized and live fulfilling lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 06:17 PM
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I only hope that she is trying to get you to realize just how awful some of the black pill/incel crowd can be. She is giving you the same stuff they can give to us. I do not support this in anyway and I hope she hears me and thinks about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 06:14 PM
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I am sorry but I cannot support wanting men to kill themselves. I support therapy, medication, or prison if necessary. I do not want anyone harmed.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 06:11 PM
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No I do not think a reddit user has. However, some of the incel crowd has and been cheered on by other incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 06:07 PM
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I was hoping the problem would solve itself in time not that men would kill themselves. Your response is over the top. I want no one hurt. If this is what she wanted, I expect the mods would have a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 06:04 PM
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Really? Could you give me a source? BTW, how violent are those women? Anyone gone on a mass murder shooting spree?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 05:33 PM
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We really should get together and discuss jewelry. Do you have a gem preference? I do like rubies but have you seen how much you can get for a natural emerald? Green does play up my eyes. The fact that I am 66 and still at it shows how desperate some of the men have gotten but hey a little plastic surgery here and there so if you want tips on how to keep them coming until you are elderly, ask away. They all think I am 43, tee he he.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 05:32 PM
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How would you even know that? Another arrogant statement. I mean why not, let's just jump to conclusions about things you know nothing about. I do all the cooking and he enjoys it. His idea of cooking is taking frozen pizzas out.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 05:25 PM
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I hope so.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 03:24 PM
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I have real concerns for people who take this seriously and what they will do.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 03:20 PM
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I worry it has become trendy to scapegoat women. What if it does not stop?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 03:17 PM
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The stuff I have been hearing from some of the manosphere community is bizarre but it is concerning about how much seems to be entering society. Things like we are lazy, we are selfish, we cannot love. Awful stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 02:36 PM
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One of the reasons, your father and your brother protected their sister or daughter was because if she got pregnant they would have to provide for the child. It was thought that the man who was impregnating the woman should bear responsibility. As well, fathers and their brothers often love their sister and do not want her to suffer. To be raped is suffering. Even in those days some men cared about women. Women do not corrupt men. Men allow corruption to happen to them. It can be because they ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 02:27 PM
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It really depends on the man does it not? Women can get in a lot of trouble if they do not check on what is going on with finances. There are men who cannot handle things but act like they can. I can think of political leaders that have failed the people but have acted like they are the real men coming to save the country. It can be damned inconvenient to take that approach in the long run.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 02:04 PM
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My point was women can react to what they hear men are saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 12:49 PM
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whatever women experience and call love is nothing approaching what men mean when they say love. The absolute arrogance of that statement. How do you even know what we feel? I know I would take a bullet for my husband, my son, and my grand son and his father. What is wrong with you that you need to minimize our love? You need to sit with this for a while and try to gain insight into why you need to disparage our ability to love. We are more than capable of it. I have experienced it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 12:43 PM
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I have a beautiful orange fluffy rescue. He's such a handsome cuddly boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 12:22 PM
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Perhaps you should consider what the red pill says about women. They take studies and twist them to the worse possible conclusions about female behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 12:19 PM
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If she's difficult, she is using you? No. If she is difficult there could be a plethora of reasons for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 12:13 PM
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For most average people, it is good when they can depend on each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 11:33 AM
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Yes, but you move on because this is how to live your life. Most cope and move on. There is too much that is interesting to a young teen.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 02:09 AM
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It is also possible the man gets money from his partner. I supported my husband through school and saved the down payment for a house. A lot of women own homes too. https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2026/may/13/women-home-buyers-men-dating
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 02:06 AM
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And they called it puppy love Oh, I guess they'll never know How a young heart how it really feels And why I love her so Do you think what you are saying is new. They are still kids. I cannot remember the name of the guy who made me cry at 16.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 02:02 AM
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I said, A lot of men only seem to think... This does not say ALL men. 57.4% of women work and they are 46.8 of the US labour force. They are self supporting. How do you prove women do this to any degree except to make funny videos?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 01:59 AM
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Young teenagers really do not think like adults even if they act like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 01:39 AM
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It means most women do not do this. It does not happen with a lot of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 01:37 AM
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A lot of men seem to think only what they experience matters. They do not even seem to be able to acknowledge us as human. Also, who put you in charge of what everyone knows? There's 14 year olds reading this stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 01:36 AM
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So do women. Why not make sure it is said?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 01:33 AM
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There are videos? Yes it happens in real life but it also does not happen. Lots of women are self supporting.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 01:32 AM
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How men comment can affect how women view them. I did not expect to get them to care but rather explain why a woman can view relationships with men as something where they may not be well treated.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 01:30 AM
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Why a woman could have a low opinion of why man behaves the way he does.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 01:10 AM
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Have you heard how some of the men talk about women? We are lazy, we are not accountable, we selfish, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 01:05 AM
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How about we discuss the US president? Is he held accountable?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 01:00 AM
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If I see a man and I think he's good looking, I think he's good looking. I do not think about having sex with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 12:52 AM
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I already know about more women not paying child support. I have no proof but I think part of this is because the women who do not have custody usually have issues. (The same goes for some of the men). There are more men not paying child support than women simply because more mothers have custody. Getting away with not paying child support does say that the men who do this are not accountable. (yes, the women too). Some women know that going after the fathers are a waste of time. They will never…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 12:42 AM
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It is a real thing. You should try pregnancy. The craving for a certain food can make annoyed husbands wonder around in a snow storm looking for chocolate covered almonds. Or sometimes we cannot stand our favourite food. If you did not have hormones, you would not be interested in women and find all this garbage pointless. Hormones make babies happen. Hormones get people in trouble. Hormones are a bigger deal than you realize.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 10:17 PM
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All these years surrounded by men and getting along with them most of the time and now I find out I did not like them? I do not think we are disgusted by them. Sometimes we are annoyed. Disgust is for the men who treat us as less than human.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 09:14 PM
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You win the prize as the first man to be blaming women. I knew it would not last.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 08:48 PM
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I agree but there are bitter men out there who want a philosophy that says nasty things about women. Rejection cannot be their fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 02:56 PM
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Not enough parents are paying attention to their internet use. Yes, this age bracket should have limitations to what they access.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 02:30 PM
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https://yougov.com/en-gb/articles/47419-one-in-six-boys-aged-6-15-have-a-positive-view-of-andrew-tate Anyone liking his views on women is a concern.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 02:25 PM
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Any attention to Taterism is too much. 1 in 6 boys is too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 02:00 PM
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I find a lot of his attitudes have been adopted by men in this subreddit. Even men who do not identify as red pilled. He claims women are intrinsically lazy and I find myself arguing this with male commenters on this subreddit. I think rejected men often need to blame women. I have seen men reject women too and make a woman feel small in the process. She was not pretty enough to be dancing around him and he made sure she knew it. I think a lot more of red pill thinking has leaked into the mainst…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:52 PM
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In the 80s the fashion was big boobs and narrow hips. Not easy standards since most of us were made to have babies and had hips.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:17 PM
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A lot of this is influencers, not regular people. So you are getting people who want attention. So many women just want to live their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:13 PM
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So about 30% of parents (nearly 1.6 million) who are owed child support payments receive nothing at all. (Dept. of Justice, US). So 50,000 are in prison. That is 3% of the parents who are not making child support payments. This is accountability? Generally, they do not send you to prison if you cannot afford to make payments. This is for parents who refuse to make payments despite having enough money. Of course, why not have the American taxpayer pick up the tab? Or would you prefer children sta…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 12:59 PM
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in her article, Harris concludes that her unsuccessful replication of Penton-Voak and colleagues' studies poses serious questions about the reliability of the effect of menstrual cycle phase on women's masculinity preferences (and, somewhat curiously, about the validity of an entire theoretical perspective on human behavior). Did you read the conclusion? Another question for you. If the chance in a committed relationship of paternity fraud is 1% https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1111/joim.1…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 11:03 PM
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Your post is untrue and trust me women will not be fighting for you. We have better things to do. If what you say are facts, give a source.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 10:47 PM
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Just another man looking for excuses for why they are not chosen or why they are divorced. It cannot be men's fault. It is women's because we are flakey and cannot make up our minds. Remember under no circumstances is a man ever mixed up. It is always the woman who is.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 09:46 PM
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I expect you have never had married sex. Of course, one Russian spy should define how wives are? The similarities between most women and a Russian spy must be many. Just last night I was thinking this as I made Stroganoff; I am so similar to a married Russian Spy, especially when it comes to my approach to sex. Frankly, I hope Russian married male spies are good at it so I can compare? Where does one find one? Do I have to have information for them to be willing?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 05:47 PM
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Women may well choose not to because they fear retribution. Also, it is doubtful sending him to prison will get them what they need. It would be better if they could send him to an enforced working environment but then that's slavery. Also, it is not easy to send your children's father to prison but I would do it. At any given day in the US there are 50,000 people sent to prison for non payment of child support. As for your delightful comment that I was wrong about every example? How about girls…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 05:25 PM
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How many women let the father's of their children get off because they do not want them to go to prison? Incarceration is a last resort. Men are rarely imprisoned for non payment if they simply cannot afford it. I never said that men were not scammed. I just brought up this because you talked about men being taken advantage of. Of course, men are taken advantage of. Did you read my last paragraph in my comment? The rape of boys is a horrible crime. I am all for it being taken more seriously. Aga…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 12:07 PM
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I apologize for my late reply. Life got in the way. I disagree: "the health benefits of marriage for bothgenders are borderline non-existent." https://www.health.harvard.edu/mens-health/marriage-and-mens-health https://www.clsa-elcv.ca/marriage-strongly-associated-with-optimal-health-and-well-being-in-men-as-they-age/ https://fortune.com/2023/01/13/why-are-married-men-healthier-on-average-women-gender-research/ I expect that married men and women are healthier. People do not marry unhealthy peop…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 11:51 AM
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An app that lets you know about men who do not pay child support? Or a f*ck boy that uses another name or someone who had to move because of how he treats women? Then there is this: https://teaappgreenflags.com/blog/awdtsg-removal-services-compared/ Plus how many men have Facebook? I do not lie, I do not need to. Women have to navigate life in ways men do not. There are more problems out there than someone taking advantage of you for your money. Being used for your body hurts in ways that are no…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 10:23 AM
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No you can post. I would spend a few weeks just reading at first but I would bet you will be bored to death.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 01:53 AM
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There are horrible people on this subreddit and in life. These people are criminals.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 01:43 AM
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If a woman openly says they hate men, I think how sad and wonder how she got there. Men who hate women can be frightening because men are more likely to be violent. Most of us try to live our lives and avoid haters.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 12:30 AM
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So pointing out male behaviours is solipsism and neurosis? It should be all about men's desperation? It the only thing that matters?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 11:37 PM
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Are men accountable for taking advantage of women? There are f*ck boys, rapists who get off, men who do not pay child support, DV abusers who get away, and con artists that scam vulnerable women's money. Many get away with it. Being a F*ck boy is not a crime. Emotional abuse is not a crime usually. Some people get away with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 03:15 PM
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I still hope they meet someone but I get it. Their life is their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 12:12 PM
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Women are not partaking either.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 12:03 PM
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First off, men and women are worth it. (well a lot). I spoil my husband and I know other women spoil their partners back. I appreciate the fact that I would be living in a house with broken down tech if it was not for him. Also, he is very cuddly. Tbh, I do not think men are great at showing a woman is worth something unless they are good in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 12:00 PM
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I think couples are worth it to each other if each gives a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 11:53 AM
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You said was it really worth it? For some it is. Lots of men on this sub go on about women. There are a few fair ones but they seem to give up because there is no headway with many.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 10:06 PM
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You're off the list, you got no game. If I did want someone just for a FWB sort of situation, I would want at least some energy. We are worth it and you do not think so. Why even talk about it on reddit? Go back to sleep.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 09:11 PM
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Definitely a disturbed person. There have been very few feminists like this. I am afraid I cannot say the same about incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 10:52 PM
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People forget that not every demographic of women grew up exposed to feminist grievance-based propaganda every waking hour of their lives. Obviously we are influenced , just by how often we hear it. We are capable of discerning truth. Every hour could not be hyperbole? No. I think you have brains which are perhaps more easily influenced though, be it by way of nature or nurture. So, how about a source for women who are easily influenced? The conclusion from the quotes is you were talking about f…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 09:11 PM
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Ok, but do not put women on the list until you have made some headway because we are not here for you to judge. We have our own problems and you do not clearly understand them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 03:24 PM
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I disagree that it is good advice. Judging women unfairly is not a good way to be. I have as many rights as you do. Why do you not start by working on the problems that men create before you turn around and judge us.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 03:18 PM
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Most women do a very good job of being mothers. However, you are not in a position to judge us. You are very high handed and seem to think you are morally superior. I do not find it so. I find you judgmental and you do not understand women. You also do not hold men accountable for their failings. How about you do something about the many awful male leaders we have? Or the men who traffick women and children? Or violent men, or men who beat their wives and children? Men are not morally superior a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 02:43 PM
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Perhaps if you go back and read what you say but replace men where you put women, you might get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 02:35 PM
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You can be held responsible for your doings. I do not think you have the moral high ground. You just think you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 02:19 PM
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Yes, you're very horny when you are young and some blame women for this. You are visual, some are logical and smart but some are not, you are very different as individuals, many are not as smart as they think they are, some are cuddly, a lot are judgmental, some are mean, some are not. I have 3 bros, a husband, a son, a grandson, a son in law, and nephews and a good friend who is gay. I love them all and none of them are abusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 02:17 PM
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I just told him. He did not care. He knows I love him and I have had a lot of fun in bed with him. I am sensual not visual. You do not understand women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 02:09 PM
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So as long as you do not say it in the current thread, you do not have to take responsibility for it elsewhere? I am just not impressed by how you judge women. Men are usually the ones in power, but do they take responsibility for the state of the world? Men are measurably more violent than women, do you own up to this? Is this moral? Where is your accountability. Or can you not do it because your finger is pointed.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 02:08 PM
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I never thought my husband was very good looking but I really like him. He's major cuddly though. I do not think women think about looks like men do. I mean you wave a photo of a naked woman in front of a man and get a totally different response usually than if you do the same to a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 01:55 PM
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Stuff like this happens. Take it as a compliment.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 01:51 PM
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I am not. I am attacking you because I saw your post about you believing men have the moral high ground because women can prostitute themselves or use OF to sell themselves. The users bear no responsibility? I am responding to how you talk about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 01:49 PM
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As far as I can see is you are not so much of a male rights activists as a kick woman around activist.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 01:43 PM
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Mary Cassatt, Georgia O'Keeffe, Frida Kahlo, Faith Ringgold, Marlene Dumas, Margaret Atwood, Charlotte Bronte, Anne Bronte, Sylvia Plath, Alice Walker, Emilie de Chatelet, Mary Wollstonecraft, Hannah Arendt, Simone de Beauvoir, Aspasia, Maya Angelou, Emily Dickenson, Gwendolyn Brooks, Louise Gluck, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 01:42 PM
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In a break up men will list things about their ex too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 01:27 PM
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A lot of prostitutes just want to feed their families. It is desperation.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 12:42 PM
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We are repulsed by what she does but it is difficult to tell others how to live and often if we do that they just dig their heels in. However, since you think we have such power, could I give you a list so you could hold some men accountable? Then let me know how it goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 12:41 PM
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Just a question: what percentage of users of the Epstein girls were male? Any ideas?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 12:28 PM
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So the John's bear no accountability? Seriously? If there was no demand; there would be no problem. Enough of you use OF to make millionaires. As well, privileged people get abused too. One of the common factors in with prostitutes and escorts is childhood abuse. There are deranged men out there too. They can add violence to their derangement. Where do you think the term madman came from? You are the pot calling the kettle black.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 12:23 PM
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I concede your point. Most of the women I know do not like it but I gather there are enough that do. I have known women who practice martial arts. They usually do so to defend themselves if attacked and to exercise.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 11:42 AM
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I sometimes wonder if they live in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 01:27 AM
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Ignore the cashier. Really. I get how hard it is today. I am a believer in attachment theory and being home with the children for the first years of life but it is an impossible situation. You cannot afford childcare and you cannot afford to stay home. I was a child in the 60s. We were all happily poor. I never went out to dinner. We ate at home. A trip to the candy store was unheard of and we never had pop. Halloween was my only hope. If you needed to call a relative who lived far away, you wai…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 11:42 PM
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It does not mean you do not engage in moral outrage. Incel discussions was an on topic response to the post. It was used as a comparison against femcel. You straw men and use moral outrage.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 11:21 PM
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I was explaining the difference between incel mass murders and women who kill their children for this debate. I was not saying anyone was good here. The difference is that incels are a manosphere group that cheer the mass murder of women. Women groups do not cheer the death of children. They do not want this. Please look up severe postpartum depression and severe postpartum psychosis. If I was looking to increase the drama I could bring up DV and male violence. I am not. This is about incels tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 11:09 PM
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I am delusional? Look at what you say.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 10:57 PM
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Incel ideology exists. Look it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 10:46 PM
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You are dramatic and good a twisting things and taking no responsibility. Remember you said this. So if women don’t want violence directed in the wrong direction, perhaps do a bit better, stop blaming everything on men, and help men aim their violent tendencies towards something better. But I am blaming the wrong people?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 10:40 PM
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You know nothing about me. I was not distracting from serious topic, I was discussing one. Incel mass murder is a serious topic and it applies to the issue at hand. What you say about me has no effect on me because it is just BS and I am right stomping. You are using moral outrage when there is no place for it. https://www.psypost.org/young-men-use-moral-outrage-to-claim-status-in-political-debates/ So seriously get over yourself. You need to stop distracting from serious topics like mass murder…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 06:47 PM
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I am not a man hating person. You do not define me. Rather than realize that blaming women for men's violence is not right, you have to be right. This is the path you have chosen. Men alone are responsible for their violence. You are trying to justify being a wife beater. You are the one with the issue. I know you will blow a gasket but if you are violent with others, please seek help.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 06:38 PM
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I referred to the incels because we were discussing use of the internet as proof women judge men but never themselves. I felt it was fair to turn around the question and ask whether this applies to incels. Incel mass murder is a serious issue. I discussed women killing their children because he brought it up and I pointed out that unlike incels who cheered when there was a mass murder, you could not find a woman who would approve of this behaviour. I also wanted him to understand how sick these …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 06:32 PM
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They actively cheer when incels have committed mass murder. So if women don’t want violence directed in the wrong direction, perhaps do a bit better, stop blaming everything on men, and help men aim their violent tendencies towards something better. Women are not responsible for the violence when men choose it. Your comment is one of the worst ones I have come across on this subreddit. Men usually say things like we are lazy, practice hypergamy, gold diggers, expensive to date, easily susceptibl…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 05:29 PM
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Source for women are easily influenced by feminism? The manosphere is the cultural zeitgeist for many men, especially in this subreddit. You are an example of it. If I ever see a general compliment towards women from TRP men anywhere, I will probably have to return my eyeballs in my sockets. I am not worried that all TRP men will respond with shock and attacks. (if you can say women are exposed to feminism every hour, I can make hyperbolic responses too).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 03:52 PM
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I am not accountable for your behaviour. Men blaming women for their violence is about as low as you can go with a lack of accountability. You are responsible for your choices. https://www.bwss.org/abusive-men-describe-the-benefits-of-violence/ What you are allowing yourself to believe is immature, abusive, small minded, selfish and absolutely horrible. I hope if you ever are abusive you face the consequences of your behaviour. You will deserve it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 03:26 PM
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It is an untrue conclusion. Young people can be more easily influenced but we do not stay young long and most women are not more easily influenced than young men. Men seem to be easily influenced by the manosphere ideology. They have the ability to take studies and twist them so they can come to the worst conclusions about women. Women only care about money. Sure we all want billionaires with harems. I cannot wait to share a man with 8 women. We are all into hypergamy and using men for our gold …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 03:19 PM
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I think you have such a strong cognitive bias that I find it difficult to comment with you. You do not really seem to understand women and your response always seems to be about denigrating them. I find like many RP men, you jump to the worst conclusions about women. Many men do very well in a marriage. They are healthier and live longer than unmarried men. Men are a lot of work often in a relationship. Single women are happier than married women usually. When you say worse off, you are discussi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 02:36 PM
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Bad faith discourse because I went into a direction that you did not approve of? I talked about women instead of men? You have the opportunity to discuss male suicide in a real and meaningful way but instead you point your finger at me and blame me? You think you are not a problem? I am aware of statistics and abuse of women and men's issues as well. I go on advice sometimes and I try to never turn my back on the hard mental health problems that both men and women have. The issue I chose still m…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 02:05 PM
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Every hour? Geez the young mothers I know have no time on the internet except to look up how to deal with sleep regression and temper tantrums. Do you really think we do not have brains? Tell you what take some time and look at how you are so judgmental of women. Perhaps you should step away from the manosphere garbage? Then work on gaining insight and stop jumping to the worse conclusions about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 01:41 PM
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I have never heard a woman say that either. I live in a western country. Really women do not go around hating men. Usually we have too much to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 01:37 PM
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Your reply does not address anything. Women doctors can be just as difficult as male doctors. We do not want segregation we think we should be able to work together. If you cannot get along at all with women, who has the problem? If we cannot address our issues and are told start an independent communist society, we are wasting our time talking to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 01:31 PM
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I am sorry I did not take my comments in the way you expect. Why did you not address this issue in a way that does not scapegoat women? Incels murder people, let not say things that lessens mass murderers and people who cheer them on. By all means tell me that I should discuss male suicides as well. I will listen and discuss it. I care about men. If you are going to attempt to kick me around because you need to stick it to women though, I know who you are. Join the many other men who come to thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 01:19 PM
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So if women don’t want violence directed in the wrong direction, perhaps do a bit better, stop blaming everything on men, and help men aim their violent tendencies towards something better. You are unbelievable. Blaming women for men's violence? Next you will be telling your partner DV is women's fault. Women know men like you. They have always been around. They cannot handle responsibility and have no integrity. Women know the violence that men have is their responsibility to contain. We do not…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 01:13 PM
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My study explained why women initiated the divorce. No one denies this happens. I do think you are splitting hairs but perhaps I do not understand what your point is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 01:06 PM
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It is focusing on incel men whose targets are women because of an ideology against women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 12:49 PM
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It depends on the laws and the marriage. Many couples buy houses together and have prenups. Divorce should be reasonable. I had saved the downpayment and paid for the wedding when I got married. I would never hold this over my husband's head if we were going to get divorced unless it was a marriage shorter than 7 years. If she is a SAHM and that has been her home for 35 years and she has worked both at home and outside the home, assets should be evenly split. For example, if when she married she…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 12:48 PM
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I do not go to the femcels because I am not interested. I thought they just put men down. So they are about being upset with pretty women? Well it sounds to me that pretty women are taking a lot of crap these days. Seriously, what a stupid thing to do. It does not compare to what incel and TRP say but they are all joining together to scapegoat women. Oh and women judge themselves. They are just know they cannot do much about people who are all about judging them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 12:41 PM
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Of course, women have issues. We are human, just like men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 03:24 AM
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Since I do not go to online communities that discuss men besides this subreddit, I can only comment on this subreddit. I would say that comments made by any community could be used for judgment. I find some of the comments made by men on this subreddit blatantly unfair to women. I have found myself also having to respond to some women who have been blatantly unfair to men. In my opinion, there are more men being unfair than women but I have done no study. Of course, suicide should be treated ser…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 03:19 AM
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We are discussing femcels and incels. The incels can become mass murderers. I have not heard of the femcels doing this. It was worth mentioning the mass murders as a difference in their ideologies. I think you should think about the difference and why this would apply to this conversation. Women who kill their babies are often mentally ill, or in a severe dissociative state. The ones who are psychopaths are criminals and should be in prison for life. I would do everything I could do to stop this…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 02:53 AM
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Usually the women are in a severe dissociative state. Some of them do not even understand that they have given birth or that they were ever pregnant. It is also possible they are suffering from schizophrenia or severe mental illness. They are usually isolated. It is not a result of a political or ideological position but rather desperation. I am referring to the newborn deaths. When the baby is older it can be because of postpartum depression or psychosis or you are dealing with a psychopath. In…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 02:23 AM
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I do not go to any of those kind of sites. I have to say though perhaps you should pay attention to some of the comments men make about women on this subreddit. I can respond to a woman who is over the top here. There is one problem comparing the incels and femcels. This is what the incels have unleashed: I do not think femcels have done such. 2014 Isla Vista, CA killing spree 2015 Roseburg, OR 10 killed 2017 Aztec, NM 2 high school students 2018 Toronto, ON van attack killing 10 2020 Glendale, …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 02:11 AM
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It not all biology, some of it is what suits you and your genetics. I do not think much of hypergamy. There is a lot more going on in our decisions than just money and height. I am just tired of hearing about men blaming women for things. We are all the way we are for some reason and no one wakes up in the morning deciding to make things one way or another.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 12:30 AM
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I am not justifying it. It is this way for the best interests of children and humanity. Complaining about it is like me complaining about men being taller usually than women. It is pointless. It is life.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 12:18 AM
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would OP even make this post if men were the ones demanding 68% of divorces? So this was referring to?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 12:15 AM
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You blame women for what men do, it's pointed out to you that the women do it for their children and then you blame women again. What colour is your flair again?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 11:28 PM
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Women gravitate to the top of the food chain for their future children's sake. It is innate behaviour because they do not want their children to suffer because they do not make a good choice and pass on bad genes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 10:37 PM
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Excuse me, have you seen what men spend a lot of time on? Have you seen how competitive men can be? My problem with so many of the men on this subreddit is they seem not to spend much time gaining insight but loads of time pointing out faults.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 10:03 PM
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Sometimes it depends. Crying because you have to mow the lawn? Nope. Crying because the dog died, Yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 07:30 PM
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I do not make children for men. Yes, we have the decision making power, but if you think most women want to do it alone, you are disconnected. If you think men do not want children you are disconnected. Most women want a family that includes men. Marriages breakdown for a multitude of reasons. From infidelity to contempt. Many people just do not put in the work for their partner. Women filing for divorce does not mean men do not have agency in this. https://www.bbc.com/worklife/article/20220511-…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 07:24 PM
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Sometimes, it is hard to figure out the worth of things. I know many men in this sub do not put much value on what women traditionally do and they do not seem to understand it. I never thought men had it easy either. Life is just hard a lot of the times.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 06:54 PM
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I am sorry this is how your marriage worked out. I congratulate you for how hard you have worked for your child, I know it was not easy. Would it help to know I babysat 3 children with my own 2 while my husband travelled. Now it may not sound like the graveyard shift but I had a son with asthma and croup. I got up almost overnight with the croup for years. We sat outside or in the shower while I forced myself awake. When it snowed 30 inches I listened for the children while I shovelled at 2 am. …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 05:07 PM
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Child custody should always be in the best interests of the child. So if 50/50 is the best interests, then you get 50%.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 04:15 PM
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I find it really depends on how you rate work. Have you ever been with a woman who just had a baby. Do you know how hard it is to care for the baby and breastfeed? It is 24/7. You feed the baby every 2 hours, have to change and then get the baby back to sleep. You are lucky to get three 1 hour intervals of sleep. Of course, throw in a toddler and sleep is next to non existent. You can do this for months. Look up sleep regression in infants and babies, then throw in teething and colic, mix it up …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 04:14 PM
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So most of the divorces I know get 50/50 childcare. Alimony has limits but child support does not. I think in cases where the women makes more, men should get the same settlements as women. The man gets children with 50% of his dna. He gets 50% of what was earned for the household while both worked because the work in the household is worth something. Having a SAHM if this is the case is worth something. It also can take a lot of stress off the man if he has a SAHM to his children. I was giving …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 03:15 PM
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although women spend about six hours more than men in household work and about three additional hours in child care, bringing the total work time to 45.6 hours per week for men and 45.2 hours for women. From your link. Also, I doubt they compared the hours of work with many women with newborns or infants. They just did not have time to fill in any survey. Men are the breadwinners because women are busy with the household and children. Do you think we get any credit for carrying the reproductive …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 02:37 PM
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I find that many men only see the difficult parts of what men have to do and the easy parts of what women have to do. Pregnancy, childbirth, caring for infants, raising children and taking care of the household is easily a full time job if she is doing a half decent job. If she sits at home and does nothing, there is a neurological or psychiatric problem I expect. Your perspective is absolutely unfair. Women become vulnerable when they decide to do what is best for the children and the family. C…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 01:50 PM
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What about women? Do you think they look forward to a life where they have 2 children and are a SAHM and they find out there is an affair. They have to leave but poverty will be their results. In a marriage, you both contribute. Why when separation happens is she suddenly not entitled to her share? He should get 50/50 custody shouldn't he? What she has done is worth nothing?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 01:40 PM
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It sounds exhausting. Plus if you have children as part of the long con, I would question your sanity. They are a lot of work. Let us hope she can manage some feeling for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 01:38 PM
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You are still taking polarized positions. You look at what happens to men in the worst way and compare it to the absolute best outcomes for women. This is absolutely not how it is and it is a totally biased position. You are seeing what you perceive and it is not there. Staying at home and caring for children can be hard and yes, so can working in dead end jobs. Rarely is life easy for anyone. How many women return to the job market after taking care of young children for a few years at home? Do…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 01:35 PM
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I like rib best. It is tomorrow night's supper.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 12:37 AM
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There is a study out of England where they found it did not exist: https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC11790178/ It is from 1837- 2021. If it existed in North America, it was probably during the colonization days when there just were not that many women around. Most people just marry others around or near their class.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 12:21 AM
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I have been married 42 years and only once when we were in a bad patch did I tell him to get stuffed for a few months. I do not do anything I do not want to do. He had some growth and listening to do. I have no cognitive dissonance or delusion. I live as much as possible with my eyes wide open. Do not jump to conclusions.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 12:03 AM
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I come here to argue with men who say women live easier lives and the other hypergamy BS that manosphere spills out but I had to speak up. I mean sex can be loads of fun for the woman too. Work this out for the benefit of all. The loss of connections is making people batty, you are right here but let's get off the bandwagon and just be decent to each other. These mass generalizations are wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 12:00 AM
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Oh, it is okay. I do too. This whole post is just odd and really a bit sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 11:45 PM
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There is loads of slander towards women too from men in this sub. However, I have tried to mention counselling to her because I do not think the problem is men here. Perhaps the man or men in her life and she may choose a type. The issue here is not men, it is a personal issue she has.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 11:31 PM
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No. Sex is a wonderful way to have fun and show love. For me, it has to be in a LTR but why would you put up with anything else?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 11:27 PM
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Untrue. Many care about men's problems. I find this whole post a bit odd. To me it sounds more like a personal issue because while my husband has shortcoming, they are nothing like this. Do not take this to heart. It is certainly not my reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 11:23 PM
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Many women do not think this way. A couple like this need therapy and to both lean in.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 11:20 PM
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I guess I got lucky, because I have had a lot of fun with him. He was never grabby and always caring in bed and I enjoyed myself and tried to make sure he did too. It was never a chore. There's loads to work on in a marriage. Marriage counselling can really help if someone is not listening.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 11:17 PM
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Kids can suffer because of one or both parents. It's dismissing their needs for yours if you are the parent.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 06:56 PM
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Not as pointless as your constant complaints about what women complain about?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 06:55 PM
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That you are pointless?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 03:49 PM
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Not really, but hey, have a good day.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 03:44 PM
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Probably not, but let me guess, you are going to attempt to awaken me with your beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 03:40 PM
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You give yourself too much credit but I am not mad. Not even angry. Slightly bored in fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 03:40 PM
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I can handle it but I do not think you can.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 03:38 PM
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Yeah, make me. If you talk on an open forum you should expect replies. Most people can handle it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 03:36 PM
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Perhaps you should start your comments with a comment that you are special and will only speak to people of your choosing?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 03:34 PM
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It is a result of greedy employers hoping to get work done for less money.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 03:31 PM
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Yes, but I laugh at you commenting with others telling them not to talk to you because they made sense and I guess you could not defend yourself? Who is stupid? I did not take personal offence to you. I think you think you think deeply but I do not. You deny reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 02:58 PM
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Yes, thats true. But that doesn't change the fact that society doesn't appreciate him. You think about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 02:51 PM
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You call having children bullshit but you think your opinions are worth listening too? The readers get to decide too. Also, this is an open forum, expect to get replies from everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 02:39 PM
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Not enough money? Or probably are failure to produce enough children?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 02:37 PM
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You can live your life your way, that is fine. However, you complain so much about being judged, what gives you the right to judge others and their choices? We do not have to be impressed by you. The more I read the more bored I am. You do nothing for the community and then seem to think your ideas are special. Nihilistic ideology is not new, it is banal.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 02:35 PM
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Don't but you really have little input to give on something you do not understand. Live your life but do not tell me how to live mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 02:29 PM
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So? How does that mean anything important? Just keep all women informed of how you think. You are using a thought pattern to justify only caring for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 02:28 PM
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How do you arrive at this?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 02:26 PM
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Do you have any?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 02:23 PM
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Men complain too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 02:14 PM
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You are right, to get even with those women, let's hit the children. Why right after they have given birth send them to work. None of this recovery stuff or taking care of an infant. I must protect myself from female robbers that come in the shape of wives and partners. Nature is tough enough on us but you have no clue. Keep your eye on your money because the manosphere says we are after that. Nothing must take precedent over your needs and wants. If you knew anything about caring for an infant …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 02:07 PM
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Maybe they watched a movie? Probably not though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 01:59 PM
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Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 01:40 PM
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https://www.verywellmind.com/the-craft-approach-to-substance-abuse-intervention-5191125 This has been somewhat successful. How about education programs for family members to help deal with the addict? As well, I expect they should be given at least one chance to dry out. They too need to be in the right place. Mental Illness has to be dealt with. This needs a multifaceted solution that is too much to go into here.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 01:38 PM
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Never be a provider, make them work? Who cares if the children suffer? It is all about me. Of course, do not expect me to help around the house or carry as large a load. If you are in such a rush to dump on women, before you hand over the military to us, could you deal with tragic behaviour like this: https://www.ibtimes.co.uk/tragic-deaths-harassment-women-us-army-1807381 Or wait, can you do something about the need for OBGYNs being needed to help women (War Witches of Ukraine) after they leave…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 01:29 PM
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What if it is a relative or someone you love? Men (and women) complain that not enough is done to prevent male suicide. We have obligations to others whether we like it or not. It is easy to turn our backs on others but you do not know their story. You do not have to give what you cannot but there should be programs for addicts and mental illness. Let's give them one chance at the very least.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 01:03 PM
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Yes, we should only care about the gender we are. Men caring for women; women caring for men? Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 12:36 PM
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It is not for us, you are the provider. It is for the future, for the children. Marriage in the past was often the only way you could have sex with a woman. This does not mean you have to do it. You do you. Women receive similar treatment if they do not want children or marriage. There will always be gossip in society and people being horrible. Live to suit yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 11:44 AM
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I think you do. I concede.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 02:20 AM
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Are you on the list? Are you a soldier? Or are you just offering up your bros? I think there are woman who would not make great soldiers but some would. Definitely they should be allowed to volunteer. Denmark, Norway, Sweden and a few other countries draft women. I think you have to be selective about who you send into combat. I would not like to be captured. What the Russians do is the stuff of nightmares.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 02:18 AM
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I have a dog too. She is the most laid back lab you could ever have but she will come for a treat. My cat though is fierce. A orange male rescue who can handle disobedience with a look. Mice tremble.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 02:03 AM
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I will send my cat over to force you to delete your comment and comply. Resistance is futile.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 02:01 AM
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I agree that the idea of male disposability can be a problem. In a sinking ship situation a man is more likely to survive. I did not say it disproved male disposability but it does prove in dangerous situations it is usually everyone thinking of themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 01:55 AM
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I bet he's about 15 and his mother is driving him crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 01:04 AM
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When you start throwing in step parents and outsiders you often get abusers. The children are vulnerable.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 12:56 AM
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Being that men stop complaining and give the children away? Or do they just open the door once they are diaper trained and hope that village steps up?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 12:55 AM
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It does not work this way. Hold your grandchild up to your parents and then run is the way it is often done.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 12:54 AM
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What ever happened to the best interests of the children?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 12:51 AM
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No, no, find that crew member and do not loose sight of them. Perhaps you can pick up a small child along the way and make yourself a hero? If you have ever flown across the North Atlantic, I love when the stewards tell you, you can use your cushion as a flotation device. Sure I will freeze to death rapidly but at least I will float.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 12:30 AM
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Well you can confidently know that should you find yourself in a sinking ship, you are more likely to survive than a woman is. https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC3421183/ The best thing to do is find and follow a knowledgable looking crew member if you know nothing about surviving such a disaster.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 12:22 AM
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Don't worry, with the exception of the Titanic, men are more likely to survive maritime disasters. On the Titanic they used guns as crowd control otherwise I expect more men would have survived.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 12:17 AM
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You are full of yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 12:14 AM
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It is the threat of violence by men when you are young that they do not seem to get. I know few women who have not had something happen where they have been approached and frightened.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 12:09 AM
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I do not agree with you. I am trying to show you it can be hard to be a woman. You are entrenched. My argument is we all suffer. Gender does not prevent this. All people struggle, it is a part of life. You are restating, I am not allowed? You need to be right.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 12:06 AM
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I am screaming this from the rooftops. More men survive maritime disasters than women. The Titanic was an anomaly. https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC3421183/ I suggest you talk to the politicians about the draft stuff though. I do think politicians should be drafted and the general population not.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 11:59 PM
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I am repeating myself but I feel it is worthwhile: https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC3421183/ More women die in maritime disasters than men. The Titanic was an anomaly.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 11:56 PM
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More women go down with ships than men. The Titanic was an anomaly. https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC3421183/ That island has to have rum on it and if it is a deserted island, it would not probably. Unfortunately, I did not see the show so maybe they brought it. So make sure you bring rum to your deserted island. Or maybe vodka?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 11:54 PM
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I have said I thought there was an equal distribution of problems. They are often different but of similar weight. Your response about empathy and recognition applies to you. It is something you have lacked for women. You acknowledge but do not seem to understand the cost. I hope you have daughters. At least, three. I have seen love change people. It can transform their prejudices.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:55 PM
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I agree we are going in circles. However, I think you're wrong and it is lifetime of experience that I pull from. It may not seem much to you but I have seen decades make profound changes in people. The problem is often how nature makes things work out. However, you should realize we both had no input in how things landed and I certainly do not think women should be jumping into bed with you to keep your complaining down. We have far too much at stake. I have one wish for you. It is many, many d…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:37 PM
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It made sense to me. You do sound like you being very pedantic.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 05:32 PM
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Underhanded social tactic? Can you give some examples of the behaviour you are discussing?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 05:09 PM
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I said we both have hard lives. I did not deny men's hardships. I also said some individuals, man or woman, can have very hard lives. One of the biggest problems I have with TRP is their mocking and derogatory comments they make. I have seen forums where it is a constant stream of anti women garbage. The monitors keep the worst commentors under control on reddit. Men with the least experience and understanding of women speak like they are experts but they seem to have little understanding of who…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 11:49 AM
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It's that, on balance, women generally have it easier today than men in several important areas. I think it seems so from your position but I do not agree with you. Women lead more complicated lives than men because of our biology. I do not think young single men understand how much bearing and caring for children can alter to our lives and we bear the brunt of this. There's a motherhood penalty to our careers and a schedule that is unbelievably busy that some partners do not involve themselves …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 11:58 PM
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Listing women's hardships was an attempt to get you to be more reasonable with your remarks. The contemptuous comments are unnecessary and often untrue. They show a disturbing mindset towards women. We are being scapegoated. Comparing the lives of men and women is fair. Where one has it difficult another has it easy. Somehow we manage. Seriously, if a man can pick up a heavy box better than we can should we go into a diatribe about how easy their lives are? We have to perhaps go and get a dolly.…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 11:34 AM
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Men do not go down with their ship for women. In fact, the Titanic was the outlier. More men survive marine disasters than women. https://www.thetimes.com/travel/destinations/uk-travel/no-its-women-and-children-last-when-the-ship-goes-down-mtm7xb2j59z I think men save the women they care for and have or hope to have sex with. They do it for their children too. Men who have servitude towards women... where do you find such men? Sure my husband does things for me but I do as much back. I was tempt…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 01:19 AM
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A woman who breaks your confidences is not doing this because she is a woman, she is doing this because she is a shit. There are shit men who do this too. If you tell me something in confidence, I will keep it that way. Many women do this. It does not say much about her character that she does this. Also, there are pedantic, detail oriented women and there are women who are not. I am one of the not so detail oriented. My husband is detail oriented. I think I annoy him sometimes but then he can a…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 12:43 AM
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Good, take care.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 11:04 PM
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Ok, but have you thought of talking to someone about your mental health? I think you would do well with a male therapist? Please consider it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 10:04 PM
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I do not get your middle paragraph. Could you reexplain please. Custody is responsibility. There is responsibility with pregnancy too. Life has responsibility. No one gets off the hook.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 09:40 PM
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Where is the evidence they are not choosing it. How is it that other fathers manage to see their children? Most women want their children to have fathers they can see. My brother shared 50/50 custody with his wife. Some men just do not want the responsibility. Have you heard of paper abortion on this subreddit?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 09:31 PM
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Women dumping infants in the dumpster can have postpartum psychosis or depression. Most are emotionally immature and young. This is their first birth and they are socially isolated. Many of them deny they are pregnant or have given birth despite proof. They give birth in a state of disassociation. I hope they find additional solutions to this because it is horrible that this happens. The safe haven surrender laws are a start. The problem is finding mothers who are this socially isolated and ment…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 09:11 PM
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Shouldn't you do a fairer post than? Or how about one about father's that fail their children in a divorce?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 08:17 PM
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Of course, member of TRP think differently. I have found one thing to be true though, there are a lot of belittling of women comments on this sub and very few reasonable men. Let me give you some examples from this post (with out identifying their user names): Women are treated the same way famous and rich men are. But feminism basically complains about not having the privilege rich or famous men have, like money and... and money, and using that money to convince others to do things for them. Bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 07:51 PM
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It is just how you pick this one issue but do not fairly deal with the many issues men can bring on in a divorce. Most women do not want to keep their children from their fathers but some women are dealing with awful men. And some men are dealing with awful women. You only see the latter.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 04:11 PM
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I hope you go for help because you have no clue. You are someone just taking your personal issues out on women. They are easy to scapegoat these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 04:01 PM
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I wonder how much your father's death stressed your mother out? Of course, I was not there but going by your post you have an issue and you have decided it is women's fault. The lack of a father was hard I expect but there are couples where there are horrible fathers and some of those men should not be near their children. Are their bad mothers? Yes, but they are less likely to be so and at least try to give the minimum. I have seen men be very coldhearted to their children. I have also seen ver…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 03:59 PM
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This is no choice by women. I do not understand your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 02:51 PM
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I move from averages to individuals. I see no reason to limit myself to one or the other. Averages are statistics; individuals are people. Both can deliver a message. People change in their 20s and most of us grow and our brain changes through our lives. https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/cgl6klez226o I can attest to this. I take a totally different view to life than I did in my 20s and 30s. I actually have more compassion for people and I have learned life has a way of coming back to bite you if…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 01:40 PM
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The internet can bring loads of outliers together. I seem to be able to manage handling this subreddit so far and will quit if I find it necessary. Now I am still mostly curious. As for having cake and eat too, that phrase has been around forever and just applies to life. Do men or women have it better? It's a bit of this and that mostly. Life is just hard though and it gets you one way or another. Some individuals have truly brutally hard lives and I do not get why we cannot have more compassio…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 01:58 AM
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How about the best interests of the children?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 01:10 AM
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Methinks you spend too much time gaming. Do you think most mothers want their children taken away? I have 2 adult children and I would rather die than not be able to see them when they were little. Many mothers love their children and want to see them. So why are you thinking they do not? Why do you think a way of life that takes children away from their mothers is a good one, if they are good mothers and they want to be with their children
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 01:09 AM
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Thanks for the first paragraph laugh. Women do not get their cake and eat it too. There is just so much BS here. I do not say shit with zero evidence so if you want ask for sources. I usually have them. I do not make things up. Do you know how many of the men are trolls? She can have decent answers. There seems to be a shit on women bandwagon going around these days and so many men have jumped on because it is easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:49 AM
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I am wondering if she knows the father? She does not think he will go for custody? Maybe he will and it is a very stupid move if he does, but I wonder how he will cope with the reality of child care, especially if there are young children. So tell me why did you make this post about mothers, when there are obvious problems with father's not paying child support? A good deal of men just abandon their children. Why not start with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:43 AM
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Non custodial mothers usually have a serious issue and have lost custody for a reason. They are mentally ill, addicts, or at the very least have a personality disorder. The children in these circumstances are far better off with their father. 20% of fathers have full custody. When there is single custody, in 80-84% of the cases in North America, it is the mother. Do not tell me it is just the decisions of the court. Men tend to abandon their children more. If you look even at adult children, the…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:39 AM
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So women must be punished? for using custody as a leverage? Men use money? 30% of fathers pay no child support. Only 46% receive the full amount of child support. Less than 10% of men ask for custody in a divorce. Are men such saints that they should be punishing their children's mothers? Both have the children being used by parents and when is the end game the best interests of the children? So how about we do not point our fingers at mothers? Should we talk about fathers?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 11:25 PM
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No, because she had a relationship in her 30-40s and now she does not. Someone else is having a relationship with that man and the women said, well that's done, I think I will go off of men for a bit. Since 65-75% of women are in long term relationships, this is a difference between the 19% who are not in relationships. Some relationships do not last. Yes, of course, there are men who have more than one women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 05:50 PM
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Not necessarily though polygamy does exist. More likely since 30-49 is about 20 years, women are breaking up after 5 years and some poor foolish woman is picking up her cast off. Ok, maybe it was the woman who was difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 05:26 PM
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I do not think most parents are telling their daughters what you say they are. Sure there are the horrible influencers and a few garbage parents but you must be living in a different world than I do. I do not think it is a huge percentage of men who are not getting women. There are women who are actively avoiding men too and women for various reasons who get no one. About 27% of men in their 30-40s are not in relationships and 19% of women are not in relationships in the same period. Life is not…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 05:20 PM
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I disagree with much of what TRP says about women. To me hypergamy is women and men mating with the best person they can find. Some of us will actively reject a person because of their ego or lifestyle too. Narcissism is not really the best trait to spread, give me intelligence instead. Some of us are different. Men being gold diggers is a sign that hypergamy goes both ways and women are becoming more educated generally than men. Women can marry down. Attraction is complex but most women do want…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 05:12 PM
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There is a strategy. Not all women hop into bed. It sounds like you have a type. Possibly at least extraverts. Most of us do not care about your ego. How many men are chasing the same good looking woman without a glance at average? Women do it and men go apeshit. Some do go to bed but enough men are rejected before they get to the finish line that a man's personality and character matter. How many complaints do I have to read about men buying dinner but that's all they get. I know a young woman …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 03:38 PM
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Trying to avoid being cucks but listening to TRP will not explain women to you. We are people and we are complex. Women do not think about sex like you. We usually want relationships then we will have sex. Women want decent, capable men to eventually father their children if they are going to have them. There is a historical study out of England that says hypergamy does not exist. https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC11790178/ This stuff like men have to be so tall, well if they went around …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 03:08 PM
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Where did I say women should never be criticized? You put words in my mouth. You interpreted it this way. Mostly it is individuals that deserve criticism. As for selfish behaviour? All young adults are selfish. The prefrontal cortex has to mature. You are so wrong if you think men are not difficult with their expectations and demands. So many think women should work around them. They operate with little understanding of the opposite sex. Those that pick up the red pill philosophy follow pseudo s…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 02:36 PM
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Usually to establish breast feeding it is best for the mother to do it for the first 6 weeks. Some women can have issues pumping or breast feeding. I had a friend who produced more blood than milk and 3 breast feeding experts and a few doctors did not solve it. Also, you have no clue what you are in for. The fact that you think you do shows what kind of a wake up call you will get. You can plan all you want and your partner might be there with you until a very difficult pregnancy and birth nearl…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 02:26 PM
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Well there goes the future but why should men not fix themselves? It cannot be all women can it?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 11:58 AM
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You pay for childcare and work a full time job and come home and take care of the children. The schedule is 6AM - 12 PM. It is hard and expensive enough with one. The complications from pregnancy and childbirth are onerous. The caring of infants 24/7 where you nurse a baby in 2 hour stints, then feed and change them and try to get 1 hour sleep before they are up again. You are lucky to get 2-3 hours sleep a night in 1 hour increments. I am sure you have no clue. So tell me why your life is so ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 11:56 AM
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I would but that's me. I have discovered in life that I do not really matter to most people outside of my family so what they do does not mean that much to me. When I was a teenager I had 2 boy teens come up next to me and howl like dogs. Like what did that mean? It bothered me for a long time. I had just moved to a new neighbourhood so I was concerned. What an awful world some people can try to make. I have learned to not give people like this power.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 01:26 AM
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I do not think you can know for sure that is why they left. If it was just about you why did they not move to another seat in the theatre? They left the movie and there may have been another reason for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 01:14 AM
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Perhaps they had a bad experience. When my daughter was living in a large US city, she use to travel wearing earphones and refusing to talk to anyone. She was young and pretty and use to deliberately dress so she would not get attention but she had to become very cautious because she would get harassed otherwise. Still I would only leave a movie theatre if the man did something but you do not know if they had something happen before. Women do get harassed even if your sister has not. I was terri…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 12:34 AM
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A mother and her daughter may be leaving the theatre for other reasons than you. I do not get up and leave if a man is sitting near me, so something sounds off here. Men rarely sexually harass or rape women where it can be seen. They wait for opportunities when others are not around.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 12:10 AM
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Oh please. What about the 30% of men who are supposed to make child support payments but do not? It is the mothers that end up picking up what the fathers do not pay. 60% of men do not pay the full amount. Do you know that more than 1 million women will need medical care as victims of DV annually in the US? In 2024, 649 women died directly from maternal causes in the US. 87% of maternal deaths are unnecessary. https://hmhba.org/?gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=23885777191&gbraid=0AAAABDu1xRr3hXshXnE…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 11:45 PM
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She is not an obnoxious troll. She gave a fair answer to a dumb comment. You just want to give it out and not get intelligent replies.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 11:26 PM
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Working is hard so women are leaving the work force? Their children that they are not having do not have anything to do with it? Men like you might be the reason women are remaining on their own? I mean someone must of set up your bot so we can look at your insightful responses. Right? Many of the couples I know have one child because affording a second is expensive. The cost of daycare if prohibitive but they need two incomes. Mexico, Iceland and Italy have female leaders. How do you explain th…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 09:16 PM
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Read your comments and the one above you to understand why women may not be having children. Men have all jumped on the shit on women bandwagon. If there is a problem somewhere, blame the women. Men deny responsibility but it is often a couple's choice. Affordability is a big factor and do not tell me people in poorer countries do it. Westerners grew up in houses they could afford and with hobbies that people cannot manage to have these days. They are not going backwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 09:01 PM
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We can argue this but we have to deal with what women have to do that is hard and what men do to make our lives harder. Near 30% of men who should be paying child support do not. Nearly 60% do not pay the full amount they owe. It is the children who suffer but it is the mothers that have to try to make up the difference. Yes, men are threatened by violence too but what gender is more likely to be at the other end of a gun or is violent? More men are mass murderers or serial killers. There are in…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 05:10 PM
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People like to think they will get it right and when they do, it can be very good. Truly you need to be thoughtful before you jump into anything. Society has loads of fantasies to get lost in. The US is you can get rich. Boys pretend to be super heroes, girls princesses and some people keep the fantasies. I think parents need to talk to their children more about life. They can need reality checks once they get to the early teens.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 12:26 PM
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A lot of marriages come apart because people are not thoughtful about the marriage. Some are desperate to be married because they fear being alone. Some marriages just run their course. My brother ended up divorced because neither would do the couples counselling that would have helped. I think my brother is happier without her but it was very hard on the children. Marriage can be hard work and it means not being mean or contemptuous with your partner. It takes generosity of spirit to understand…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 12:12 PM
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Unfortunately, I have argued with a RP man on this subreddit who says we are less capable of it. He definitely believes women are the problem in society. We abort children and are innately cruel. Nothing men do compares. Of course, like feminism, TRP individuals are not necessarily consistent across a group but look at the podcasters and see what some of them say.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 11:54 AM
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When I met him there was no reddit. BTW my mother was 5 years older than my father and they were in their 30s when they had to get married. Still my oldest brother was their favourite all their lives so it somehow worked.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 11:34 AM
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I disagree with men from TRP who think they know women. They twist studies and take them to the worst possible conclusion on women. Many men do not seem to have clarity when it comes to themselves either. What some of them have said to me. We do not really love, we are not useful, we use men, we don't protect ourselves enough, we protect ourselves too much, we are evil incarnate (all except his family) because we have abortions, there are too many programs for women and that is why their taxes a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 01:08 AM
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Some do. Some of TRP actively admit it and then try to backpedal. I just finished a conversation with someone who did this. Some of TRP say women cannot love or that we are less capable of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 12:47 AM
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The same goes for men. There are many self aware women out there. Perhaps they are just not your type.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 12:41 AM
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Some women, but it is the same for men. They just tend to behave badly when the relationship has soured. Some people just want children or think it will work and then realize later it is a mistake. This does not mean all women think this way. Where I live 62% of marriages last and no we are not all miserable. You can learn a lot from your spouse, they can hold you accountable in ways many relationships and friendships do not. Usually you cannot hide your faults from them and they can care enough…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 12:20 AM
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No one leaves just for laundry. They leave for how they are treated and the laundry just represents this. It is very possible to be in a relationship and be very alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 11:58 PM
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Loads of women just like some men and if you listen to some of the men on this subreddit, some of them actively hate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 11:56 PM
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Brad Pitt has nothing to do with his children. She left when he abused one of them. Tom Brady claimed his true love was football. Who is Chan Tatum? some actor? People get left. Men get left, women get left.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 11:55 PM
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"I really doubt he "knows his stuff" and is "very high in the industry". " You have no idea but continue to make yourself feel better because it is obvious you need to do it. Oh, shoved myself into a talk on an open forum. Ou am I getting to you? You won't entertain more BS, that would mean you have to stop commenting. If there is below replacement TFR, why are you not out reproducing? Or after talking to you are they all running away as fast as they can?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 11:31 PM
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I have run into too many RP who are like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 11:05 PM
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No this is someone very high in Industry and he knows his stuff. You just need to belittle women. It is a constant with you. Women get more programs because they raise children usually. Many of the programs are needed because men abandon their families. You can complain about women all you want but without us there is no future. No you said hate. "I'm not cruel by laughing at someone that think that I hate women for pointing the current situation of the job market." Take responsibility for what …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 11:04 PM
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What your mother did is of value. She helped her family and she paid taxes. Ignore all idiots who deny this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 10:50 PM
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I am not a dead weight on society nor have I ever been one. Many men are dead weight too if you only admire traditionally male jobs. I have seen psychology make a difference in people's lives. It is the people who lack insight who put psychology down. 22% of software engineers are women. I know someone who works in the industry and he says there are great women software engineers. "I'm not cruel by laughing at someone that think that I hate women for pointing the current situation of the job mar…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 10:25 PM
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I shall try.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 09:57 PM
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Nurses, doctors, teachers, daycare workers, artists, psychologists, police officers, software engineers, etc. Why is there always an element of cruelty in the TRP men who end their comments with LMAO? Also, why do you need to belittle women? Tell me what is more productive than a pregnant working woman? Doing so many things at once.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 09:50 PM
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Interesting. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 09:44 PM
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The best times of my life have been with my husband and we were not platonic.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 09:43 PM
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I have never been that involved in a game but my son does get like this. Next time, I visit I will have to try.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 09:34 PM
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It's 2.2 age gap in North America. I am 5 months younger than my husband and it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 09:31 PM
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Oh but the fun we can have together.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 09:29 PM
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I think it sounds fun. It is just that I am not impressed with someone who thinks what they do is fun but not what I like to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 09:25 PM
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So women only date older men? No give me an intelligence and youth when you are young. It is so fun to grow together.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 09:24 PM
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He has his potential, his intelligence and his future. He can offer a lot to the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 08:58 PM
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If we are so little, why bother? You sound like a someone who has no woman and wants to placate himself by saying how awful we are so he feels better. I can ask you what is so interesting about your hobbies? Some gaming? What exactly would you do that would not bore me to death? Yet you are so sure that what you do is interesting and what I do is not. What a closed mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 08:56 PM
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I can hit back and I have done. For some hurting women is the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 07:46 PM
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People are not always shy. Someone who is obsessive does not obsess about everything. Someone who is an introvert can act like an extravert for a bit of time. We are not all stuck in our normal behaviour. Sometimes we can rise above it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 07:35 PM
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I think this is true for many in the TRP. When they say women have no feeling for men, or they believe in hypergamy, what they assume about single mothers, and that the world would not run if men were not emptying the garbages. They deny there would be a problem if there were no women. It's the hate that scares me and then they say it's our fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 06:59 PM
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Shy people tend to feel negatively about judgment by people. They can manage this enough to ask someone out.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 06:35 PM
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I am introverted and certainly would prefer someone quieter then an extravert. I think it is an individual thing but you have to do the approaching. If you can manage this and live with the idea that you could get rejected, that rejection happens to all, you will be good. Remember rejection is not about you, it is about her and could be for good reason. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BXVqFG5rz5k&list=RDBXVqFG5rz5k&start_radio=1
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 12:01 PM
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I was giving an example of what can happen to women. It was to illustrate that women can have issues dealing with men as well. Men are not alone in having relationship problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 11:30 PM
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No one has a crystal ball. People do the best they can with what they have.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 11:28 PM
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If you are in a LTR you should be able to talk to your partner but some men are not available for any emotional discussions. We should listen to each other. What I said was not about casual relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 09:46 PM
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Universities are a part of the academic system. Oppression stories? Life has oppression for men and women. If you think women have it so easy you should spend some time watching the podcasts that red pill men make. How about the idea that men loose their lives more in sinking ships? https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC3421183/ Have you ever had to go to the doctor for a female health problem and be ignored? Or wait, how is the catch up going with female health studies? You know all those st…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 08:53 PM
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Well uncontrolled rage would be one but seriously, do you know women get shut down too? Some men do not like emotion and avoid it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 08:16 PM
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You do not think women do not get to hear this stuff too? Men can be very uncomfortable with emotion and just shut it down or stonewall.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 08:12 PM
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The best example of "toxic masculinity" is denying that women have not earned their presence at Universities. DEI or similar programs do not exist once women are over 50% of the student population. In programs, like math at US universities, only 12% of math professors are female. Only 36% of full professors at US Universities are women. There is an implicit bias against women in many traditional 'male' programs. We also pay a motherhood penalty. If we take time off to have children or work less …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 07:52 PM
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Sex does not work like this. Who we choose to have sex with is complex and we do not owe you it. The price of sex can be pregnancy and most of us are very thoughtful about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 07:31 PM
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This is how YOU perceive it to be. It is not real life. "for women being unable to handle male emotions." Lots of us handle male emotions, we just keep it private because we are respectful. The only one that is difficult to handle is rage when it's directed at us. If this one turns up, there is a problem if he cannot handle it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 03:59 PM
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Don't worry, read what so many men on this subreddit say about women. We get accused of loads of things. Trauma dumping, being too emotional, weaponizing what you say, (of course, men would never do that), hypergamy, single mothers, gold digging, coldness, sex with anyone that is not them, no sex, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 03:31 PM
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It's not extreme suspicion if you are cold approaching a woman. How do they know who you are? You think we should all relax? There are guys doing posts here saying women do not do enough. I cannot tell you how much garbage I took from men when I was a teenager. I was followed by cars (more than once), and I was followed home by a student once. By the time I was in my 20s, I was cautious. If you do not get this, you are the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 03:25 PM
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The blind spots men have. Do you think women do not have problems when they tell their emotions to a man? Do you think we really get pats on the back and there, there? They might try to fix it but usually they do not know what to do with it. So we are usually alone as you are. You do not get that we have to adult too. We have to face our struggles. If you cannot see this you have a blind spot and you can just line up with all the other men who think they have it hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 03:18 PM
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"No again. Most common complaint about opening up is that women will weaponize it and use it in future fights. Even 20 years later. And they do. So thats why older men give younger men advice to not open up. You just give ammo to her, no need for that." This is something humans do to each other. Men weaponize what you tell them too. Could you look at yourselves and perhaps gain some insight instead of women this and women that?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 03:15 PM
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Opening up to men is not necessarily a good thing either. I think it really depends on the individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 02:58 PM
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Anger from a man who is a lot larger and stronger than you is a frightening thing. Give me tears any day.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 02:55 PM
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Men are trash? I have never heard any woman speak like this except if they are having a painful breakup. Reread your comment and then talk about YOUR mindset. Are you sure women are the problem and you have none? Saying women are treating you with extreme suspicion makes me wonder what YOUR problem might be. Women pick up suppressed anger and other issues in a man. They walk away quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 02:53 PM
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The video is 2 hours long. I did 5 mins. I certainly think uncontrollable growth is a larger problem. However, life will be hard because it usually is to some extent. Did you notice with the first two women the husbands did not want children? I do not think men in this subreddit take enough credit for their influence on women. I cannot help but wonder with all the damage we do to this earth if population collapse can save us. I have lived through enough to know threats and possibilities are alwa…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 02:44 PM
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There are lies, damn lies and statistics. This is what I think the case is here. I think many on the right have put forth the idea that economics are not as big a deal as they are. In poor countries where more children are born there is a culture of raising the children together. It is tougher in many western countries because there is just the nuclear family often. Also, many Scandinavian countries have very expensive housing. The parents of the educated west do not want their children to have …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 12:08 PM
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I know of no women who are buying into the slavery idea of having children. My daughter has a son but had serious issues being pregnant. Then there is the expense of another child with the cost of daycare and where she lives is so expensive she must work. They live there for her husband's work. Feminism did not make the women I know with a genetic issue decide not to have children. Feminism did not make the women I know with clinical depression decide not to have children. Women are more educate…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 11:38 AM
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I am not interpreting it as every woman thinking like this. Sure there are some, but you should see what some of the men think. We are all about hypergamy, while desperately trying to get married because we are now 30 and need to settle, then we give up on sex and later divorce. There is too much placed on women these days as the problem but how many of you will not date a woman who is not attractive or cannot afford the basics? Or what if she made the unforgivable mistake of having a child and …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 12:34 AM
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And more women are not going on about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 12:22 AM
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Maybe on TikTok and other social media because influencers need attention but the rest of us are doing what we do. Most women live in reality and just want a decent guy or are happy on their own. I only know one gold digger in my life and she was more about trying to manipulate family to give her money. She had to accept she married average income and do something about it while staying married to him because I think despite being a shit, she loved him. Most of us are just normal people doing th…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 12:13 AM
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Do you think fantasies rule our lives? Or that every marriage is miserable? That we are all settling? Do you understand how you think is a turn off? Many women can pick up negativity and know that men who think like this will just drag them into misery. I do not mind carrying my own weight but it is someone who thinks he knows me and pulls me down with their miserable expectations that would make me run the other way. Then they say look, I was right when they were only showing who they are and d…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 11:14 PM
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Some of the men on this subreddit say they will not date a woman who does not split the tab. Or you have to have a low body count or they want big breasts or they can be male gold diggers because they exist too. I started dating this unemployed guy and he then went to school and then I married him... he was smart and really technically savvy in ways I was not. The problem with many of TRP is they only see the problems of women, when men can have as many. There are loads of women who date men who…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 11:02 PM
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TRP seems to come to the worse conclusions about women. They take studies and twist them and seem to spend much of their time belittling women. It is very concerning.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 10:24 PM
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Hmm, could we try it on men first? They can have their stumpy X all by itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 11:31 PM
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Actually, you are just going back to when our lives were very hard for both men and women. It was really birth control that changed women's lives significantly though. We are not any less feminine today. We are just educated and we have choices. I do not think you would enjoy the 1900s much either. How about working in a mine, or a factory(60 hour weeks), or as a servant, or a farmer. People still starved to death in 1900 too. Let's not romanticize the past and difficult conditions.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 11:26 PM
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I find the idea that you have reached peace but we have not, very typical of men's idea that they are superior. You are waiting for us to have peace with ourselves? We are mostly peaceful by ourselves. Men can be incredibly arrogant with women yet hold us responsible for their loneliness, our choices when it's not them, and some blame us for their anger. Re read your paragraph and pretend you are a woman saying the same thing to a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 11:08 PM
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It is because having the two Xs is more likely to give us a chromosome that does not have asthma. It is interesting that it came back with estrogen. I found this study https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC8748393/ They did not change the women's hormones but she did change her lifestyle and her asthma improved.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 10:56 PM
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Some men just cannot wait to take their turn at belittling women. It is so in fashion and cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 10:49 PM
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We understand ourselves. We do not think much of men who think they know more than us. There are just so many who think they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 10:47 PM
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If we have had children we can take pain better. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WyeQXlQycEg&t=146s
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 10:42 PM
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Two Xs are necessary to be a biological woman with autoimmune disorders, unless you are an unlucky trans woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 10:39 PM
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Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 10:33 PM
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What does a woman behave like? You get to tell us? No wonder we are stressed. There are far too many bossy men. If some of them would just not be we would all be better off.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 10:32 PM
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If you are female and a mammal you are going to live longer than your male counterparts.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 10:29 PM
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I think it is partly our physiology. We get 2 X chromosomes so we have backup against some disorders like asthma. However, there seems to be an issue that is inherent in having these two Xs that make us more vulnerable to autoimmune disorders. https://med.stanford.edu/news/all-news/2024/02/women-autoimmune.html#:~:text=As%20many%20as%204%20out,marked%20by%20lopsided%20female%2Dto%2Dmale%20ratios So, while stress is a factor and would be in many diseases today, I do not think it is an indicator t…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 10:27 PM
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Well we have gone round and round and round. We might as well move on. I do hope you rethink this before it is a problem for you. Have a good life.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 04:39 PM
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I am no where near the men who attack me for being a feminist. I am bringing down civilization by being one and held accountable for every miserable out of line feminist that ever existed. It can be very tiresome. If you identify as TRP you are certainly not pro feminist or even pro women. It is fine to be pro men but TRP seems to want to belittle women. If I was a young woman TRP would have me backing up away from any guy who identified as such. https://www.glamourmagazine.co.uk/article/quit-ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 04:18 PM
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Why are you talking to me? Your flair says you are a member of TRP. What you join is a reflection on what you think. You should expect to be judged by it. I would if I was a member. One of the problems with TRP is they think they hold a key to how this world works. If they stepped back and watched they would find out they do not. I really wish they would apply thinking to their gender that aligns with how they think about women. Of course, it is still possible to talk to each other when you disa…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 03:03 PM
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It is definitely interesting seeing how humans are evolving and if we will survive ourselves let alone all the garbage nature and the universe can throw at you. One comet and we become the dinosaurs.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 02:44 PM
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But mine matters? You are arguing with me. How flattering. His opinion is irrelevant? He has been in a relationship with a free thinker for decades and he has some understanding of what makes a relationship work. He can give me constructive criticism and he can take it to. Imagine seeing someone clearly and loving them? TRP men who think they deserve a partner who loves and adores them does not understand that the foundation of a loving relationship is care, compassion, generosity of spirit, rec…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 02:23 PM
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Unlikely that they were have a child that would have your ears unless they are sleeping with your brother. My husband thinks you have a problem. You are massively insecure. He does not think you should marry someone with the intention of a paternity test.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 01:50 PM
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You do not have to. It should be obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 01:30 PM
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There can be no doubt without the test.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 01:22 PM
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An additional reason they did not want sex was the fact that the results of sex could kill them. In Roman Britain men died on average at 51 and women at 28. Childbirth was potentially lethal.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 12:57 PM
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I offered my husband the opportunity to test his two children. He has a 39 and 37 year old with me. He laughed heartedly. You can know your children are yours over a short time. I have a daughter with his personality and his grandmother's shape. A son with his ears and his families build. Thank God they got my face. I have 3 brothers, the middle one was a throw back from my mother's family but there was enough of my dad there you knew he was their son. He agrees with me, he thinks you should tru…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 12:50 PM
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If you have a child with a woman you do not trust, you have an issue. You spend too much time paying attention to TRP and not enough believing in possibilities. You have already decided you will need to do a paternity test, she will not have the opportunity to be fully trusted. You dismiss things you cannot defend. Like so many in TRP you take everything about women to the worst possible conclusion and cannot understand it is you that are lacking, it is not women. We are so much more than the tw…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 12:26 PM
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To me if you respect someone there is admiration. I would not admire a man who to force me to be with him means I must fear him. I expect some men loved their partners and usually their children. Were the times brutal? yes. Slaves were cattle, men served feudal lords, and you were lucky to survive infancy. I think there was love though. William Marshal a knight in the time of Richard the Lionheart had a much younger wife, when he died, she did not survive long. She loved him, I expect. Someone b…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 12:18 PM
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You are going to do a sneaky paternity test because you are afraid of raising a child that is not yours. In a stable, committed relationship, your chance of paternity fraud is 1-2%. It says a lot about you and how you will view her. You show all the typical behaviour of TRP. "That's why women talk and men do?" Bearing and raising children is a big do. Women make up close to 47% of the US work force. Plus many raise children. Women do. "When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 11:53 AM
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I denied god like abilities. If you create life, you will not be sleeping that well if you are an involved father. If you are not, I feel sorry for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 01:34 AM
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She will be doing all the stuff though. Pregnancy, childbirth, breast feeding, lack of sleep... oh wait you can help with that. You can give the baby a bottle at night and let her sleep once in a while because there will not be much of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 01:25 AM
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His smv maybe high but she has to want a baby otherwise it is all for naught if reproduction is the point. Technically you guys can have 2500 progeny but it is unlikely to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 01:08 AM
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You cannot choose someone who is not interested in you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 12:00 AM
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Most of us carry our childhood wounds into adulthood and marry someone who affects them in some way. People who were raised by narcissists can end up with one or be one. Someone with an alcoholic parent can do the same. How we react is not always clear but somehow our childhood injuries can rule the decisions we make. It goes for men and women. I know men who say all women cheat and when they eventually admit their mother did, they sometimes have insight into how they always end up with cheaters…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 12:00 AM
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I see no connection in being fussy about your skin and pedophilia. I wonder about the people that do. You can do everything you can to keep the wrinkles away and pretend you are erasing time. You are not. It catches up to you. It just sounds to be like making big deals where there are none.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 09:49 PM
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I do not think feminism has done much for mothers either. There is quality daycare but it is very expensive and I do not think feminism had much to do with its creation.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 09:25 PM
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Training and knowing laws will not help if you have mental health or just hate issues. There are people who should not carry guns. Gun control saves lives: https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC11381453/ If you cannot use a gun to protect yourself from intimate partner violence, whereas as a woman you are likely to need to defend yourself, then really what is the point? Just when she needs a gun, she cannot use it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 08:40 PM
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How about we talk Stand your ground laws and women instead: "Women appear to invoke Stand Your Ground laws far less frequently than men, and when they do they often face steep barriers to success. Courts and juries are more likely to view women—especially those defending themselves against intimate partners—as aggressors rather than victims." https://giffords.org/analysis/the-gun-industrys-empowerment-marketing-and-stand-your-ground-laws-fail-women/#:~:text=Women%20appear%20to%20invoke%20Stand,p…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 08:21 PM
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I disagree with there is no downside. There are downsides to giving men (because they are mainly the mass murderers) guns. Men may have fear and anxiety too, they just do not talk about it and they are the ones more likely to be attacked. Women generally should fear intimate partner violence but nevertheless always be cautious in the world. Men too. I think Europe in general is doing better than the US. They are certainly learning who their friends are and I know people who have moved there for …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 08:06 PM
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Money is not everything and not paying attention to risk is to the detriment of men. I think it is fair to discuss whether men are so faulted in a debate because they can be. Women have survival instincts. Most of us take precautions. I just do not think carrying a gun is a solution. We have a murder rate of about 2.1 per 100,000 people and a very low violent crime rate where I live. I am also cautious and avoidant if I think there is a problem. If I am worried, I either do not do it or I talk t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 07:31 PM
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Yes, you talk about it with your partner but if you are in a committed relationship and insisting on a paternity test for no reason but your insecurities, you have a problem. Deal with it if talking about it does not help. You have a trust issue. Get help.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 07:12 PM
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Funny how so many men take risky jobs, it like they are missing out on something such as danger? They do, unfortunately, loose their lives in work accidents because women avoid high risk work. If young women can be naive, so can young men. Some have to learn the hard way and this is not particular to one gender. There are always people who never learn. As for the delusion that women can depend on men, let's be honest in life or death situations a man will use his strength and knowledge for himse…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 07:07 PM
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If women disappeared, men would be going down the drain about a month after. A minor timing issue would be the only difference. However, some women would survive without men. No it would not be pleasant but neither would your experiment be.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 06:33 PM
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Really? I disagree. I think it is about equal unless there are young children. They can make life very busy. I find it an arrogant thing to say. Why would you think that?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 05:35 PM
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No, you are fantasizing about fantasy. You are not taking responsibility for the damage you do to women and possibly your children with your choices. You have an issue but we have to pay. You cannot trust. People always eventually reveal who they are. For her, I hope she has heard Maya Angelou, "When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time."
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 05:32 PM
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A problem that goes to whether she is unfaithful, when she has given you no indication that she is, shows that there is a greater problem with that individual than you were previously aware of. I am sure you would gladly take a test that shows you whether you are unfaithful or not? There is no such thing but what would it say about her that she asks you of this. She certainly would have a trust issue. The best thing for these types of insecurities is therapy, but this subreddit tends to get up i…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 05:24 PM
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Of course, you believe I have a fantasy. Finding a reason to dismiss women and treat them badly is the modus operandi of the red pill. You do no wrong? That is your fantasy and hurting women unnecessarily is merely collateral damage to your beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 05:18 PM
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Then why are you here? and responding?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 04:50 PM
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I disagree. I have talked to red pill men before. The constant I find is their willingness to assume the worst about women. It has reached predictability. I learn from my experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 04:46 PM
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How am I intentionally misunderstanding? To me you have a problem with women and how you treat them. You are so sure you are right. I see no spark of humanity towards women. Just absolute selfishness and willingness to assume the worst about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 04:36 PM
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I had talked to him before and nothing I said worked. I saw how he talked to others. I do try to consider if I am being high handed but you need to too. Now let's move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 04:34 PM
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You are responding to a 1-2% chance of paternity fraud in a committed relationship. Anyone who does this is over the top and assumes the worst about women and their relationship. I wondered if this applied to all things in life? If you are that paranoid about paternity fraud would it carry on to all of life? No, it is just about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 04:30 PM
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I have. How long are we going to do this? Your questions sound high handed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 04:27 PM
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If you are into risk (assesion?) assessing why are you not a prepper? There is a chance of a natural disaster, or a government imploding? You should be actively trying to mitigate these risks too. You assume the worst about women. You will loose things over time because of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 04:26 PM
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You are so wise? Did you? You are obsessing and showing that you believe you are superior. Are you sure? I admitted to doubts and you jumped in and continue on. At this point, what is your point? Are you tired of virtue signalling yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 04:22 PM
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It the option of the insecure and it's remarkably high handed. It is typical of TRP to assume the worst about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 04:20 PM
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To you, it reads like this. I was not soothing myself. I had, had enough of his behaviour. To me it is markedly cruel to dismiss SA and think only you matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 04:19 PM
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You jump to the worse conclusions about me. I simply explained how we do laundry here and you decided I was judgmental. I would like to point out, it is difficult to put clothes on the line with an infant in -35C because you are loath to leave the baby alone inside. I was merely curious as to why you iron baby clothes. It sounded old fashioned to me. I was looking for an explanation, I did consider that since you were acting like an American, you had no idea what women did with children. Many pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 04:13 PM
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The test itself is an accusation and representation of your state of mind. It says everything about you and almost nothing about her.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:38 PM
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I think I was dismissed in the round of opinions that he heard. I expect he has a cognitive biases against women. Harshness, can work to shake a person awake. He is harsh too. Please feel free to talk to him because you are beyond making a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:35 PM
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I ended with harsher words so perhaps he might respond and pick up that he was out of line. You learn from responses.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:58 PM
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Whatever I said, he was not going to listen. He has made up his mind. I hope someone who cares about him reaches him.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:36 PM
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If you actually do this in a relationship and she leaves, do not tell yourself it was because she has a problem. Let the issue lay where it should, on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:35 PM
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They do and he was dismissing and attacking too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:31 PM
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I hope you are upfront with your opinion at the beginning of all relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:28 PM
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In secure relationships, there is only about 1 - 2% rate of paternity fraud. If you're paranoid about this, I suggest you start prepping too. That is loads of garbage that can happen. Prepare for a natural disaster and government collapse.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:24 PM
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You have been reading and listening to too much internet BS. You would be funny but the break up is on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:20 PM
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Your advice would wreck families. All relationships have their ups and downs. I have been married 42 years and I would have packed my bags, taken my infant and left. Some women have backbone and there are limits to what we should put up with. This shows a degree of control and paranoia that would be unacceptable in a relationship. Of course, if you behave like this, it is time to leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:17 PM
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Did I browbeat or attempt a definitely unheard wake up call? He was more than a bit much. I talked reasonably to him and he responded in a manner that said women did not matter, men and their loneliness did. Nothing I said mattered; it was continuously about him and his suffering. I have been grateful (not immediately) when people have given me a wake up call and I am listening to you. I am unsure on this one but the right thing would have been to tell him he needs therapy stat. Of course, he wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:08 PM
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It is true. They were making fun of men in the 1700s because they dressed with more accessories, etc. and were thought of as effeminate. Some heavy thinkers of the time stated it was the end of civilization. They actually called these men macaronis.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 01:51 PM
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It's really not my style, I was just curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 01:41 PM
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I have issues too and I get it. Do all you can to care for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 01:40 PM
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He's whining continuously. He needs an intervention. Do you think this life is all women want and we do not have to deal? Basically, he should get some professional help if he really feels this bad but you get shot down by men on this subreddit for saying it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 01:39 PM
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No, you are just all about yourself. You are lonely. It's women's fault. There are influencers that say things that hurt my feelings. So what if women get SA by horrible men? It is all about me. You are so over the top full of yourself. You think only you matter. How about you talk about what you will do for women before we HAVE to do something for you? Take your rage for how hard life is and grow up. We are not your mommy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:06 AM
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These powerful men are a problem for women. If we are so horrible because of them, even as we flock to them, why don't men get involved in trying to take them down? Also, women were not flocking to them. Did you notice many of the girls were foreigners? I expect the ones who did "flock to them" had serious abuse issues or were 13 and could not really understand what they were in for. Somehow the fact that women are suffering extreme abuse does not move you but your loneliness and a bunch of awfu…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 01:27 AM
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Yes and they are a reaction to men saying they are lonely because women who do try to be friends with men often end up being hit on. So we back off because it seems like there is nothing we can do. I have never heard any of my friends or people I know say anything like this about men. It is something influencers say. Please give these people less weight. There are things men have said about women since I can remember. We are nags, balls and chains, drama queens, too emotional, bossy, ball buster…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 01:12 AM
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Could you give me examples of these trends? Without using influencers who are doing anything to get attention. I do not believe there is a systemic trend to mock lower status men. They are my brothers, sons, SILs, and friends. It really sounds to me like you have lost your grip.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:45 AM
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I think this post reeks of paranoia. Most women do not spend time hating anyone but the people like Trump and Epstein. They moved in the shadows, blackmailing, wounding, and possibly killing and the people who should have brought charges against them failed women and 13 year old girls. To say this fills us with hate against men who have done nothing is not true. Are there people out there who enjoy rejecting people? Both sexes do this. I once watched as a young man punished a less attractive wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:31 AM
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Where are these ATM men? I have never met one.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 11:31 PM
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Sex can be a lot of fun but for me it has to be in a LTR. There comes a time when supply can outdo demand. You just have to live long enough. I have travelled a bit, crossed a few things off my bucket list but some of best times I ever had were in bed. Of course, you need someone who puts some effort for your sake. I did have times when I did not feel like it because I am human but if you are not ever interested, there's something wrong. I hope you figure it out because it is worth it and it can…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 11:30 PM
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You are delusional and you cannot even spell liar. Do your research because it's too important. How lazy and shameful can you be? With you I would just end up having a URL links argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 10:10 PM
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Why can other men manage this?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:56 PM
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And your propaganda is fine or can you just not see it? You cannot even manage women's clothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:55 PM
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We think most of the men are abusers and the women have Stockholm Syndrome.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:48 PM
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The incel community is an example of hate. Let me give you some examples of mass murders committed by them: 2014 Isla Vista, CA killing spree 2015 Roseburg, OR 10 killed 2017 Aztec, NM 2 high school students 2018 Toronto, ON van attack killing 10 2020 Glendale, AZ 3 injured 2021 Plymouth, UK killed 5 2023 Allen, TX killed 8 (not just incel, white supremacist too)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 05:45 PM
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Sometimes, but do you know how many incel mass murders there have been? So while most are just trying to protect themselves, some are deadly to women: 2014 Isla Vista, CA killing spree 2015 Roseburg, OR 10 killed 2017 Aztec, NM 2 high school students 2018 Toronto, ON van attack killing 10 2020 Glendale, AZ 3 injured 2021 Plymouth, UK killed 5 2023 Allen, TX killed 8 (not just incel, white supremacist too) Gender hate is not something we should feed. Men can be very dangerous.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 05:42 PM
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I have not accused any one of a crime. Hating half a gender, well protective for a time, is very limiting. I would suggest anyone who does this to look for therapy and try to change their choices. It is a lot less exhausting than hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:42 PM
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I am not doing the work you should be doing. You have had to have had your head in the sand to be so ignorant.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:22 PM
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Foid is a word used by the incel community but of course you would give them a pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:07 PM
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When I was a 14 year old, in the 70s, I discovered Harlequin Romances. I read two and knew they were garbage. There was no sex or maybe just the suggestion of it but the guy was always something like a powerful shipping magnet drawn in by a sweet virgin. If you read this stuff from that era you could end up in hysterics. Now they have just added the sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 01:21 PM
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Men do the same too. There are no halos on haters.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 01:07 PM
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Depression has to be dealt with in ways that are healthy for society. Forcing women to date men so they will feel better is not a solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 01:06 PM
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That's life and it works until women are around 40 years of age. Then the opposite is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 01:05 PM
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I do not know any women practicing sexual hedonism. I think they exist mostly in your imagination. The women in porn have often been abused to get where they are. Taking away choice though is taking away rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 01:02 PM
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Your donation to the process of reproduction can be timed in minutes. I admit to no god-like abilities but having babies can seem to be a miraculous process. I just wish they would sleep more consecutive hours than short stints they need to fill their tummies.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 12:58 PM
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I think misogyny is usually based on the burden of life women bring. You had to expose your infant daughters to get rid of them. Your slaves could reproduce but it was expensive to feed them long enough to sell them. Responsibility for your progeny is a hard and so we will just treat women like cattle and to do so, we will need misogyny. It is taking responsibility or misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 12:47 PM
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Practically. We only need you for a few minutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 12:28 PM
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To quote a song: what's a man without a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 12:28 PM
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Your donation to the reproductive process can be timed in minutes. Yes, our lives are better with you than without you but we basically carry the reproductive load. Let's be honest, we are better with each other if we do start reproducing. Children need parents and we are a lot happier if we are with each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 12:26 PM
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If someone treats you bad is hating a whole gender justified? I understand when it happens in childhood because we are forming than, but hating a whole gender? The same goes for misandry, and racism that is based on the behaviour of a few.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 12:13 PM
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You are just showing your misogyny. Haters gotta hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 11:44 AM
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I am not doing your work. If you believe where you are now, you have done no work.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 11:42 AM
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Two can play this game. You are judgemental, full of yourself and a bit tiresome. Let's move on there so much more to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 02:13 AM
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I think in the US a lack of education is a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 02:11 AM
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It's how you make a big deal of what you have. Things do not make people special and it says much if you think they do. You are the one highlighting this, not me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 02:08 AM
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That can get boring. Do you ever want to do other things? You know learn things, go to school, read a book, or give up bragging? Just curious because there are other things in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 01:58 AM
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I do not think misogyny is a problem for most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 01:55 AM
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Exes? Well that sounds like fun. Money must be bringing you so much happiness but certainly not constancy. Here we are, you are spending time with me. Did the misogyny get to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 01:50 AM
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Whatever works.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 01:35 AM
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Probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 01:34 AM
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Do you consider caring for the home, work? I do. It really becomes hard work if there are young children but I think you have no children because you do not know. All that stuff sounds nice but I would want to be with a man who loves me and I can speak my mind. We get to negotiate life and what I feel and think matters, just like he does to me. If my husband had become sick or was in an accident I would have done my best for him. I do not have to have things, I love him.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 01:32 AM
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It is one thing to ignore the house for a bit but you cannot ignore the children.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 01:22 AM
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Mine is too old to get up anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 01:20 AM
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Good, life requires us to think and have opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 01:19 AM
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I know women are not a monolith but I do not think misogyny is the biggest problem in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 01:17 AM
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I love my dog but she sleeps on the floor and she is adoring but it is hard to have a conversation with her. Doggy's are easy to live with but people take real work, intelligence and ability.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 01:15 AM
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You expect them to do as they are told? I like to think so I guess I would not be okay? It's okay, you missed out though because I have very smart children.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 01:06 AM
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You do as you are told?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 01:06 AM
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Just what women want a misogynistic partner. The line up of women must be hard to deal with.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 12:42 AM
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Trump is guilty and he is also suffering from cognitive difficulties and that is why he has made such a mess. You cannot take a woman being right. Your tirade shows what a weak man you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 11:27 PM
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I am sorry this happened to you. Men (and women) should not have to kill themselves working. There should be a good work/life balance. My husband was brought up to support the family and work, work, work. It was a hard cycle to break but it can break your health otherwise. My mother was autistic and severely depressed. (she was raped in a hospital when she was young). My father was better with my brothers than he was with me. I carried a lot of what should have been my mother's work growing up. …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 05:46 PM
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There are reasons women are not sent to the front. Perhaps we could take a moment to discuss what torture they do to the War Witches. They need OBGYNs to repair what is done to them if they survive. It is unlikely they will be bearing children after. Women are harder to replace in reproduction. One man can replace many men but not so women. When she cannot reproduce her children are gone. In reproduction it is easier to replace a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 05:32 PM
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I believe there will be issues if we let men run around without consequences. On paper this covers the needs of the child, but not the needs of society. There has to be consequences. Yes, it is rough but it is necessary. Part of those consequences bring men into adulthood. (the reproductive load brings women there) BTW, the Dutch have this great idea that for about 2 weeks after a baby is born, the mother gets a night nurse. It's not a huge amount of support but it is a start with the services.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 04:04 PM
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I am not religious but I do not think I am an atheist. I do consider myself to be moral and try to come to my own conclusions. I consider myself a lifelong learner. I am 66 and a Canadian. I am not conservative. I am more practical. I think we take what works and use it. The free market works? Okay but let's use this to the advantage of humans, not corporations and businesses. We need to find a way to manage it. I think the US is full of tax whiners. I think there should be social programs that …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 03:59 PM
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Only a man would think that repeating yourself twice with a point you know is important and then overreacting to it is alright because he is a man. You are continuing to overreact to this. You cannot be wrong? Only your way is right? You are using rationalization to justify being cruel to a child. There are no excuses. I am not going to argue abortion with you but there is a difference between a fetus and a child. You cannot argue against abortion and then deny a child it's father's care because…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 03:49 PM
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There are more children born in Hungary because there are a group of women willing to have less. Not being the only one who does not have much money makes life much simpler. Expectations are similar and having less is easier to digest. I grew up in a time when no one had much in the way of things. We opened the door when the children were old enough and set them out to play. Mothering was easier and we had less neurotic children. Now mothers are expect to watch children constantly and the demand…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 03:25 PM
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I am sorry, I disagree with the opt in part. I think men unless they are studying, men should at the very least financially support their children. Is it unfair, to me that's not important, the child is. I gather you were in a situation where there problems because of this. However, I think it can work and I think it is very necessary to make potential fathers think they can be held responsible if they have sex. I do not want them believing they can have no responsibility if they have sex. There…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 01:59 PM
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I disagree. If women in their 20s could navigate their lives while they have children when they are young but they knew they could still get their education and not having crushing debt, I expect more would do it. I think that the idea that programs that could make this possible would not work is part of the political right making sure that nothing costs the oligarchs or the rich. Yes, nordic countries are not making enough children and part of it is culture but the developed west is not cultura…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 01:51 PM
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Women/girls get hurt too. They throw just enough money at them for them to survive and then leave them in poverty. Only if she has good parents to support them do they usually do well. I think sex is for adults and more should be done to discourage it if you are under 18. Adolescence can be a minefield. What is best for the child should always be the driver in decisions made for that child. If a man is an unfit parent but is capable of sending child support, he should do this. I do not care how …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 01:36 PM
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If father's can manage to continue in school by paying smaller amounts to their child, I am all for it but once through school they need to meet the demands of being a father. I am not about wrecking men's lives, I am about a child getting the care he needs. Believe it or not I want the father involved with the child but if that does not happen, I want him paying for the child because what the child gets could be better than a mandated government benefit. I want children to do well. It is import…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 01:21 PM
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What happened financially in 2008? Women who are not having children can often go to post secondary education. Let's say this takes 5 years and then they start their career. (of sorts because it is much harder to start one currently). To get set up in their career puts them close to 30. They are saving and being careful but being young they go on a few trips and enjoy life. Men do this as well. They want a house and a stable environment to have children in. So they save for a few years. At 33 th…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 01:14 PM
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It punishes the child. I believe sex is for adults and adults know the possible consequences of sex. The child needs to cared for.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 01:01 PM
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The only reason I think men would be better at drones is because they are more likely to spend much of their time playing video games. It probably gives an advantage. Also, I think you missed this: "By all means draft them for the tail". I guess I should have used rear echelon motherf*&er.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 01:01 PM
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I stated something in two previous separate comments. They were an important part of the comments. You going off on it is an overreaction. Paper abortion sounds good to you? So really this is all about getting even with women and not caring if a child suffers because of it? I often run into men in this subreddit whose problem is really with women. They have found ways to blame every woman who does not think like they approve of, or it can just be as simple as blame all women. They think they are…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 12:57 PM
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I have no problem with 50 year old women being drafted to work as rear echelon mother f*&$ers. I am sure many women do not have a problem with this. I realize you were saying this to make a point. I have seen previous posts in this subreddit where men were infuriated by young women partying while their male counterparts went off to die. It infuriates me too. Remember though, some of the Ukrainians went to Russia and work for the Russians. There are always betrayers and the young can be very self…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 12:45 PM
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Poor countries have tons of kids because they have a culture that is set up for it. Communities share and celebrate the children. In the west, it is different. Your child is penalized if you have less and many people will not do this. https://www.jrf.org.uk/care/does-money-affect-childrens-outcomes Parents are delaying having children because they are expensive and this also affects how many children they have. Parents in the west have different considerations than poorer countries and they take…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 12:01 PM
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Housing is still expensive in nordic countries and I do not think that couples today want to have less for their children than what they had. Many of the women I have spoken to in their 30s are not having more than one child because it is too expensive. Childcare is very expensive and they can only afford to have one child in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 03:50 AM
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What, I am not repeating myself, I am making myself clear. Stop overreacting. My daughter is in her 30s, and many of the couples are having one child but not more because they cannot afford it. Only 2 of her friends out of 8 are not interested in children. One is married and one is not. Paper abortion is something I believe members of this subreddit have come with that if a man gets a woman pregnant they can refuse financial responsibility because a woman can have an abortion and it is not fair …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 03:43 AM
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No they should not be drafted into having children (there is so much more than just birth) because children deserve a mother that wants them. You are responding to influencers more than every woman. Many woman want children but they are held back by finances. The reality is life is hard and childcare is expensive and most couples need two incomes to have a child. I can also say have you heard how some of the men talk about women? They want paper abortions so they have no responsibility if they i…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 03:22 AM
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I do not think the birth rate being low is only because women decide not to have children. The decision is often made by whether they can afford children. Currently, if you do have children, it is likely that your children will have less than what their parents gave them growing up. It is unlikely that many couples will want to do this. The cost of living is too high. Yes, there are women who do not want to have children and they should not be forced. Children are hard work and not everyone is m…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 03:03 AM
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Have you heard about the War Witches of Ukraine? They risk torture and their lives for what they are doing behind enemy lines in Ukraine. There are always women/girls who die in war zones. We are never safe if there is war where we live. I do not think sending 50 year old women into combat situations will solve your problem. By all means draft them for the tail but most 50 year old women are not going to be able to fight against young men and likely survive. Along with the many symptoms of menop…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 02:39 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 02:04 AM
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Most woman that I know got exactly who Amber Heard was. You do not think or know us if you think otherwise. The ones who did not get it were probably very young.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 11:34 PM
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No one who does not want children should have them. They are a huge commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 09:42 PM
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So many men do not get it. It can be very very hard. I am glad you made it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 09:39 PM
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How about we undo the nonsense of paper abortions? Then there is TRP own version of nonsense. If you have sex, you are both adults and while every attempt can be made to prevent pregnancy, sometimes they fail. So you both be adults and meet the child's needs. This pouting about women being able to have abortions but men not so therefore they can have paper abortions. A child is born with 50% of your dna. You knew what the risk was when you had sex. You are an adult too. Step up. Do you think bea…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 09:26 PM
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I did it twice. It was worth it. It is scary and it is hard. Especially the 6 months to a year after the child is born. Men do not always step up for this. We are afraid to trust them. Failure of the parental relationship can be devastating for the child and very difficult for the mother. Men do not seem to take women's concerns very seriously. In this subreddit, they talk about things like a paper abortion if a woman has a child and they have not given consent. It is because a woman can have an…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 08:07 PM
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Are we crippled? Why would having a uterus cripple them. (Do you think I am serious? It is getting the men to think about what equality really is)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 07:41 PM
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Women can work very hard. You try taking care of a newborn just after you have given birth. Women doctors, nurses, truck drivers, construction workers, etc. work hard. Paying is not unnecessary. Getting Dad a job is.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 07:40 PM
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What if a woman is in a LTR with a man and has a baby. Then he leaves? You guys seem to think it is some sort of judgement call that she failed to make. If the man did not want the child is it not a failure of his judgement? We are not all seeing. What if she does not believe in abortion under any circumstance? What if she was raped? What if she looses her job?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 03:06 PM
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If you post something, you are going to get all sorts of opinions. Few of them will be exactly what you want. I discuss female privilege and before I know it I am discussing Florida laws. There is one that is unfair to males I understand. I just do not believe in paper abortion. If a child is on this earth as a result of your sexual behaviour and you are able, you should be doing your part. You do not want to? Then do not have intercourse. I for children's rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 03:04 PM
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The rights of the child are paramount if they are born. They need parents and parents should be adults and do right by them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 01:51 PM
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Let's be realistic, none of us are going to get any money for being pregnant from a man unless it is a surrogate situation. We have to be humane to each other so if you cannot breast feed we will not send you to the mines, just the people who want to send you to the mines. Some people believe young children sleeping with their parents is best for them. https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/article/item/how_cosleeping_can_help_you_and_your_baby
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 01:37 PM
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Do you think I am serious? I simply want these guys to get that we cannot make things equal. Abortions are a result of our physiology and the fact we carry the child. Paper abortions? Seriously? We have to carry a child and do all the things that are necessary but you are upset because things are not equal? How do you make it equal from our point of view? Install uteruses. Of course, it is ridiculous but hey, now I feel things are equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 01:31 PM
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Sure, if you do not respond to other posts and I do not have an opinion. We take children away when we discover obviously unfit parents. In some cases, the parents should lose their rights and the children put up for adoption. There should definitely be sex education in schools. Young people need to know what they are doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 01:27 PM
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How does my position on abortion affect what I believe about child care? Parents have to do the best we can. If you're not making 100,000$ that's fine but let's give the child what we can. If you are unfit then you at least meet the financial burden and that goes for both parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 01:00 PM
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Good on the dads who do care for children. No many take on newborns though. The rest about spewing sperm? What. We only need a few. Geez. Perhaps look into consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 12:55 PM
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Breastfeeding can go on for longer than one year. Some do it for 2 years. I did it for 14 months with my daughter and she is the healthiest child. My daughter fed her son for 18 months. They are not fed on demand but they need to be around mom, at least, in the morning and evening. Some women really cannot breast feed. I had a friend who tried so hard and all she did was bleed because there were problems with the latch and she got an expert and nothing improved. She gave up after one month. No, …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 12:53 PM
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You say this like this is equality. It is not for the child and the child is paramount. So if she carries 100% reproductive burden and you will not meet 50% of the financial burden, I think it is only fair that you find out what it is like to be pregnant and carry a child. Let's get a uterus installed. You can have the hormone swishes, the breast feeding, the c section, the newborn and find out what it is like when the other parent refuses to meet their child's needs. It is time for you to bear …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 01:22 AM
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No. What is best for the child is best. Those early months if the mother's are breast feeding are best mostly with the mother. The father gets to slowly move in and when the child will stay with him and not be unsettled, then it should be 50/50. If the mother makes more than the father she can pay childcare to him. Same if the situation is the father earning more. If they make the same, then either they both provide clothes, etc. for the child or someone pays 50% of the expenses.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 01:19 AM
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You do not make sense to me. I do not think the men who fall short of picking up their share of the financial load of caring for children should get away without picking up the reproductive load. So if you want to run from your responsibilities, in all fairness we should have total equality. Let you find out how it feels to be pregnant and have someone not face their share of the load. Let's get these men pregnant and carrying fetuses and then caring for newborns alone. Let us be equal. Then the…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 01:15 AM
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How can you withhold consent to something that realistically can result in a pregnancy? Do not do the act if you cannot take the possible results.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 01:08 AM
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There is a point because then he could never be held responsible for a pregnancy unless the procedure failed. Then he could sue the doctor? She right that all this is landing on the women's shoulders and children should be the responsibility of both sexes. No should get to abandon their child because it is cruel for the child.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 01:07 AM
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Sexed? Explain please.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 12:27 AM
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Daddy gets 50% of the DNA in a baby but no responsibility? I am sure the taxpayers cannot wait to pick up your responsibilities. In fact, why don't you see what you can do about it? Get a law passed because you are so special you should not have any responsibility. Since when does a woman not have responsibilities? I have never known a mother on her own that does not work. Yes, there are a few who do not, but the ones like that often find better ways to get money without working. To have your ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 12:27 AM
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Well let's be honest here. You will bear 50% of the financial burden but women bear 100% of the reproductive burden. I think the solution is to give men the opportunity to carry fetuses. How about if a man does not want to meet his share of the financial burden could he pick up the reproductive burden? Let's install uteruses in men? Let's make things fair. Let's give them the opportunity to learn about what it is to carry a child and have to care for it. Let them experience c sections, breast fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 12:13 AM
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Women have to carry the reproductive burden. If men are upset because a woman can choose to have an abortion but men cannot, let's make things more fair. Why don't we install uteruses in men who will deny their child financial care. Let them find out what it is to be pregnant. Of course, c sections will be necessary but I think you should be able to breast feed and care for a newborn. It is simply not fair that women have to do this and men don't. Let's make things really fair. Let's see how men…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 12:07 AM
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You can call the patriarchy? How about you give the phone number? No, if a man is upset that a woman can have an abortion but he cannot, how about we make life more fair for women. Let's get the guys pregnant. Installation of uteruses to any man who does not want to pay support. Then let's have them carry a sibling for the baby the woman is growing that they do not want to support. Let them find out how it feels. These guys want things to be fair? Why not make it really fair? Enough of us carryi…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 11:50 PM
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For the children. If they are born, no one should be able to have something like a paper abortion or be able to run away. We should be putting children first. This paper abortion stuff is for children. They say it is not fair because women have a way out. Let us give them a clue to what women have to deal with because it is not fair they do not have to bear the reproductive load. (This is because they say it is not fair they can't get an abortion) So if they impregnate a woman they should get th…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 11:45 PM
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Whoever children end up with should be in their best interests. If one of the parents is abusive, they should not have custody. If both are, let's see if we can find other relatives. It is the children who matter and if both parents are fit, they should be able to see both.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 11:34 PM
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With the way things were in Saudi Arabia, how many of them could pay child support? Also, do you think taking children away from their mother's is fair? I do not. Saudi Arabia does not do 50/50? How about we be fair to the children?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 08:05 PM
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The more you guys go off, the more I think it's a good idea to install uteruses in men. Let's make things equal. Hormone swishes, childbirth (definitely a C-section) breastfeeding, let's give you guys the whole of it. Then of course a newborn to care for. I mean how many people are going to cut themselves to protest circumcision but we compare this to bearing and caring for children? That's beyond weird. Maybe it is time to give you a turn.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 08:00 PM
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I just told someone that to be fair with women having the reproductive burden, they should be lining up to get uteruses. We should do this instead of getting a paper abortion. Don't you think this would be fairer? So I am deliberately being ironic or just difficult? This is what we do. I hope to offend so people will think.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 07:35 PM
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Ok, fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 07:23 PM
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So men's rights are more important than children's rights? We cannot have a man put out because a child is born? Since the beginning of time we have known how children were created. Because there are options now, we get to abandon our children? Your comments are up there with women pouting because they have to carry the reproductive load. Men cannot get pregnant? Let's solve this, if a woman has to do a pregnancy, to be fair, a man should be forced to be pregnant too. Line up for your installed …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 07:07 PM
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Either do I but I think if a child is born, people have to do what is right for the child.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 06:56 PM
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No. The child is too important. There are no excuses for child abandonment. Paper abortion does not exist in reality because the judiciary knows children are too important. Paper abortion is the fantasy of the irresponsible.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 06:55 PM
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Yes, a mother who abandons her children is a waste of time. So is a father but we do not think much of anyone who does not do what they should do when there is a child born.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 06:51 PM
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I disagree because if a woman decides to have a child, there is at least one parent in. I hate the idea of a child being born without even a mother interested in caring for it. Really it should be given up for adoption if this is the case. I am not about punishing men, I am about making sure the child gets cared for. You are the adult, now adult. Many men complain about single mothers but in truth it is fathers abandon their children that are a problem. At least if they have a relationship with …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 06:48 PM
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No, I wish it did not have to happen but I am realist. I want children to have parents as much as possible too. This is not about preferential treatment for one sex, this is just the reality that a child should have 2 parents. It's not that the father does not matter, it is that the child does. This is not an argument about a car. Nature has made men and women different so we have different choices when a woman gets pregnant. If you are not living together, despite paying half of the child suppo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 06:44 PM
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This is not about abortion rights. This about rights for children who are born. Women should have abortion rights because it is their body. Children should have parents if they are born. To not want a child to have the support they need and deserve whatever circumstances they are born under is cruel. This means whether they like it or not, fathers and mothers step up. Or you can go to all the fatherless children and tell them they do not matter, Daddies get to do what they want because they will…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 06:35 PM
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The person who gets the shit end of the stick is the child.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 06:27 PM
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Not really. I do not think you can weight it out. In many people's thinking both the bank robber and the home thief are horrible. In some areas an abortion is murder and a deadbeat dad is just a weaselly coward.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 06:26 PM
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Adults have sex. Not children. If you cannot deal with the fact that one of the consequences of having sex can be reproduction you should not be having it. Children are too important to ever be abandoned. It is a cowards act to leave them. The judiciary knows that children are vulnerable and it is their parent's job to raise them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 06:24 PM
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I just put down the only stuff that mattered. You were about father's not knowing paternity, but this can happen. Perhaps it is best to introduce yourselves before you have sex? Perhaps let it be someone you know and talk to? However, can you explain this comment: "Women should not be trusted about what they say they will do if they get pregnant if they have never done it before and even then you can't be sure if they will be okay with it just because that was what you agreed on". What about men…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 06:13 PM
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What about the child? Do you really think you should be allowed sex without adult consequences? If this is the case, should you be having sex? Sex is really for adults and one of the things that can happen to a man is fatherhood. There are tests to prove it is his. Children who cannot meet the possible results of having a sexual relationship should not be having sex. The judiciary understands that their job should be to protect the vulnerable. This means children caught up in this situation. Any…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 05:32 PM
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Ok. I just was interested how it was working and if she knew.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 01:02 PM
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You were not clear. Just wondering if she knew you were still considering approaching?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 12:52 PM
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You have a current partner? And you still consider approaches? Interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 12:49 PM
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Of course, men can be victims. We can all be victims and it's very painful to be one. I hope that anyone who has this happen comes out wiser. It is unfortunate that it has to happen. There are people who will defend atrocious behaviour. Really, it is indefensible and it can reflect badly on them. You maybe able to get away with it on reddit if no one knows who you are, but if others figure it out in real life, you should find people stepping away from you. There are bad people with a band of fol…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 12:06 AM
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It is unfortunate that Electricians have the death rate they do. I am hoping they figure out ways to lessen this. Mercifully, they probably have less chance on the job of being caught in a mass murder situation in a school. 95% of the perps are male. I am curious, where do you live that you have to iron clothes? Won't a hot dryer (on sanitize) work? Full disclosure, I live in Canada. We need dryers cause hanging clothes on the line when it's -35C is just impossible. As for dickish questions, how…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 03:01 PM
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Finally, my highlight that evidence of women's "care work" relies on self-reported time-use surveys was not to say that the work "isn't real" but to note that "less hours spent doing care work" is not "less care". If I can wash formula bottles or iron baby clothes faster, it doesn't make me a worse parent. A good evidence of women's care work would be worse outcomes (behavioral/ academic / whatever) of children left in custody of fathers rather than mothers post-divorce (at least short-term). Is…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 01:08 PM
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Let's make it about something I could make for him. Say my first bf wanted me to make a shirt for him but I had no idea how to make a shirt. So I have since learned to do some sewing. Now I have the love of my life with me and he asks me to sew a shirt. I might attempt it but I would not make promises for the best shirt ever because shirts are hard to make. Also, the answer might be no because I have too much to do at that point. I might try later or maybe not because it's only a shirt. I will b…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 11:44 PM
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Well I will do things for him that I will not do for others and I certainly hope the same is true for him. If you love them though, it should not be about hurting them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 10:59 PM
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Many jobs that women primarily do are female jobs that are paid less simply because they are jobs that are historically paid less because they have been usually performed by women. Men do not value kindergarten teachers or nurses the same way they do engineers, doctors and scientists. Female doctors make less than male doctors https://globalnews.ca/news/11613338/ontario-female-family-doctors-pay/ and it is primarily because a female doctor will spend more time with patients. This can make a sign…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 09:02 PM
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There will always be women who want to be fawned over. (there are men like this too) Just make the first dates inexpensive. Tell them it's all about getting to know them and if they are interested they could stick around.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 12:18 PM
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It's not hypocrisy. I started dating as a student and the guys were too. I had no issues keeping costs down but it was nice if the guy made an effort. If she has great expectations, then she should pay her half. Some restaurants are very expensive. I was thrilled when an unemployed guy I liked took me to McDonalds. I knew it cost him a lot and I did offer and he was so sweet, we ended up having some really great times together. Yes, he got a job, but I picked up the tab for a camping trip before…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 01:05 AM
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I am a life learner and I try to understand why things get the way they are. I also try not to hate because it never solves anything. It is part of the reason I in this subreddit. I have chatted with men who make my hair stand on end when they go on about how evil women are. What? Perhaps it's my contacts but none of the people I know are evil, misled yes, not very smart, yes, selfish, yes and even grumpy. There are AH but I avoid them. There are way too many narcissists around though. Avoid, av…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 09:23 PM
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I came of age in the 70s. Everyone was all about environment made us who we are. We just had to get those girls to play with trucks and boys with dolls. I never agreed with it but just kept my mouth shut because it was tiring to argue when they said this is what science says. If you had seen some of the treatment of women I saw as a child and young adult you would understand feminism I have concerns about TRPs ideas on evolutionary psychology. They seem to take science to the worst possible conc…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 08:32 PM
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Ok, I think he should pay for the first few dates but I have no problem with it being coffee for starters. Next date, can be ice cream or just a walk in the park where you get to know each other. It does not have to be about expensive restaurants. In fact, it should not be. This is about getting to know each other and this does not mean spending a lot of money.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 08:03 PM
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Adulting is not easy. I have been married 42 years and I admit to a few times wanting to open the front door and kick him to the curb. In times like this, you go for long walks and calm down. He is a good father and worked very hard and I loved him but he was not the greatest listener. You have to make the effort but when all else fails you do not abandon your children. You stay in their lives. When a divorce happens too many men make it all about the money and too many women try not to share th…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 06:29 PM
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I agree. I really do not think much of anyone who runs from responsibility to their children. You can be a brilliant scientist or entrepreneur but you are nothing if you mess this up.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 03:39 PM
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It is and if families do break up, we should never abandon our children. I worked at a post secondary school and I remember hearing stories about young adults who did not have places to go home to for Christmas. One of them committed suicide. If you get a step parent who does not want your children around, boot them out the door. The step parent obviously, because you cannot even manage Christmas with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 03:23 PM
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I disagree. Men can make mistakes too. Those hormones can cause a lot of problems. In the west, parents can reject who their daughters and sons bring home but if you have a child in rebellion or mind is made up ,you can just end up alienating them and they may need you in the future. It can be difficult to navigate, yes, they are adults but they are your adult children. I think we need to talk to our children when they are hit by those hormones. We discuss consent and how powerful those hormones…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 02:46 PM
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There will always be men who will leave women when a child is born or when he's not having fun anymore. In the US, families need SNAP and other programs. This is not just the inner cities, this is rurally as well. Poverty is real and leaving children to starve is inconceivable. We can argue how to solve this but this is not what this sub is about. Women do not have a crystal ball. We cannot know when a man will leave us in the future. The teenage pregnancy rate is down in the US. Many women are …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 01:37 PM
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No men have a say here too. (Don't freak - read on) Most women do not want to have their children alone. Pregnancy and the early years are a heavy burden. You may find a woman having one child, before she gets just how hard it is on her own, but most quickly realize it is far better to have a good father and husband around. Do some women not want children, yes, and some men as well. Before you get all in a tither because you think I am denying reality, yes women have the body choice, but those w…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 10:46 PM
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For basic science, no or men for not facing responsibility? This life is hard and anyone that walks away from their children is not much of an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 09:11 PM
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I have little sympathy for whining from men that they are not getting laid. If you cannot get what is at stake for us, it is not my issue. No woman owes a man sex because he wants it. If we are not showing empathy for life's difficulties to someone we do not know well we are often protecting ourselves. I have sympathy for men. Life is hard for both sexes. Men who are ill, men who have to go into a war zone, men whose life is difficult. Men can self inflict their pain too, just like women can. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 07:01 PM
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Once again we blame women for choices but do men have no agency in their choices? So many believe they should never have to deal with the consequences of sex that life can bring. The teenage birth rate has gone down by 79% in the US since 1991. This is a big deal of women/girls doing their best. How many reddit men do you see complaining if she get's pregnant it is all on her. I wish they would do it to her face so she has a better idea of what she could be in for.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 04:12 PM
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Bull. Most of us learn to manage menopause. I did have one hilarious moment in my life where I went a bit over the top on two guys about where a coffee shop was but most of the time I did my best. I have heard of one woman who I swear had such a hard time, she had a stroke. She had just never run into a situation like this before. She did not have a clue how to manage it. It was so bad, her husband moved in with a neighbour hoping it would pass. She really needed to see a doctor. https://pmc.ncb…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 03:15 PM
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As long as you are never horrible to her, she should put in the necessary work, except around menopause. This has been the experience of women who I have chatted with. You still have to go off of HRT. There's no running from the mood. It passes. I know some women who just dove in without HRT and 6 months later they were good.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 01:31 PM
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It would help if you directed me to the chats because it is hard to judge on the info given. Sometimes there's a lot going on in-between the lines too. So I thought these URLs (that I just used elsewhere) might get the point across. https://www.aol.com/article/2016/02/18/these-14-women-were-brutally-attacked-for-rejecting-men-why-a/21314765/ https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/cjw668jq6evo https://www.cbsnews.com/newyork/news/19-year-old-stabbed-to-death-after-she-and-twin-sister-refused-mans-adva…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 01:21 PM
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How about these instead then. https://www.cbsnews.com/newyork/news/19-year-old-stabbed-to-death-after-she-and-twin-sister-refused-mans-advances-inside-brooklyn-deli-sources-say/ https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/cjw668jq6evo https://www.nbcnews.com/id/wbna35818227 https://www.aol.com/article/2016/02/18/these-14-women-were-brutally-attacked-for-rejecting-men-why-a/21314765/ What would you call what happened to these women/girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 01:16 PM
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So this is just a mind game. I thought so. Why do you think you need to fear for your safety? They will not just leave if you ask? We do not call the police on men who approach us but women can tell them no or just say sorry, I have a BF. It is not a big deal if they just leave. It is a problem if they do not get it then. What if we date someone once and we don't like them and they give us a feeling that
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 01:09 AM
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No, if I was in a LTR and he cheated, it would be the end. I misunderstood.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 12:22 AM
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No, of course not. You think that people would be cautious about confessing to crimes on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 12:18 AM
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Oh wonderful. I would do the boss says to call police if you come around, so please do not return. Or can you just keep your door locked and get everyone a key? Or you could contact the organization's offices and tell them to not come to your location? Or you could put a bigger sign that says "No solicitation, we will call the police" on your door. Also, what about the building managers? Surely they should not let everyone in. Can you ask them to deal with it? You do not want someone shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 12:17 AM
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So you are in a LTR with someone you are just not willing to put any kind of work into? Perhaps it is best you do leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 12:08 AM
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You are just being obtuse now.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 12:06 AM
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So you can tell those who should know. Maybe. There is no justifying robbing people. There was one guy who was talking about rape on this subreddit and he was gone before I could say abracadabra.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 12:06 AM
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Ok. I have not seen this mentioned before. Women who have actually robbed men. They discuss this? If only we could get them to reveal their location. Oh well, I am sure this is against the rules too.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 12:00 AM
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No, but if they are really annoying you, tell them you will call next time if they come to your offices. You can tell them, if you do not like taking responsibility (or you are fearful that there will be retribution), that your boss has asked you to do this but you wanted to warn them before you do. This is something a menopausal woman might do. 😉. Or a cranky guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 11:58 PM
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I am not a game player so if I was avoiding looking at him, it would just be because I am not interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 11:48 PM
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It is discussed? Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 11:45 PM
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The problem for women is they do not know you. They should not have to compromise their feelings of safety. I would just move on because that's all you are going to get. If you have had more than a few dates and she knows you, yes, she should just say, it's not working for me. She could friend zone you and to me that just means, if we see each other somewhere there's no animosity. Tell me have you ever dated a woman and not called her again after 2 or 3 dates? I am sure this happens. We should j…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 11:41 PM
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What did these women do? Who are these women? Can you give me the url that reveals this? (You have to add an np) There's all sorts though in this world. I am sure there's some really bad men too. I have run into one that seems to think there is nothing more evil than women. We are all hiding our Cruella de Ville evilness and it will only a short time before we attack you and then put our halo on and try to hide our true nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 11:35 PM
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Then you go off and you need some time to get back. It is often individual. It can be different for guys as you get older too and little blue pill are not always an options. You'll figure it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 11:16 PM
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You cannot take HRT forever. 10 years at most. It does come back after menopause but it can take a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 11:10 PM
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That's okay. She just rejected you. Move on. You can handle this.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 10:50 PM
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A woman shot you? I might get avoidant after such behaviour. I live in Canada, no one carries guns to the grocery store or really anywhere. If anyone open carried we would think they were crazy. The police would be called. Carrying a gun is not normal for much of the world outside your country methinks. (Please no arguments on this, we can disagree and get back to the subject) "Some will accuse this mindset of being “paranoid.” But paranoia means seeing threats where none exist. Women’s caution …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 10:49 PM
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I doubt I would do it. I would do the friend zone thing or no spark but it's people's right to end it and if there is no real relationship, (no more than a few dates) that's fine. How many times do men not bother calling back after a first date? It happens both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 10:29 PM
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We usually call aggressive women crazy if they are aggressive with men. If you're a woman you usually have some idea how nasty some women can be. I have never been concerned about women turning violent. Tell me, if you are in a grocery store and a slightly wild looking woman approaches you and asks for your number what would you do? As for aggressive, women are concerned that this can lead to violence. Since men are larger and stronger than women usually you could understand why that might be mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 10:13 PM
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This is why I do it this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 09:51 PM
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Rejected, just approached men, can be aggressive. The point is you do not know so you take the safe route.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 09:50 PM
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From the beginning I was talking about being cold approached. Also, fear of safety is a legitimate fear. Drugging and robbing is a different kettle of fish. It's criminal behaviour. If they have gone out with you but still feel that do not really know you, but want to move on, ghosting is an option, especially if they get an uncomfortable feeling about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 09:48 PM
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And if her desire dies for a bit at sometime, is she not worth working with?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 09:44 PM
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I go through organizations to donate. Strangers approaching you can be fraudsters.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 08:45 PM
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You are in an office with other people. Being polite is unlikely to cause aggression. Of course, if it did you call the police. If you are alone and approached by a man, it is more concerning. You do not know them. Quite simply you are not being fair here. Men can take things personally if they have ideas. You know if you smell alcohol things could go south fast. You take the safer route.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 08:44 PM
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It can depending on the issue. If you were taught sex was dirty, or if you are in a LTR and you need to work on how you feel about your partner. Life is not steady, it can have a series of ups and downs. We can get depressed or unhappy. Therapy can help you reframe things. Couples counselling can help to get partners on the same page. If one is just not listening and the other is exhausted from it, you can work on this. Just going to couples counselling shows your partner you are invested. You c…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 08:34 PM
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I thought we were talking about rejecting men who approach you? If we are going to talk about women who commit fraud isn't this a different subject? I was talking about organizations that can approach you in a store for donations. Not about fraud. Do you want to talk about what awful things men can do too? Stalking if they have information on the woman. Or how about we spend sometime talking about aggression and violence? Which gender is more so?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 08:19 PM
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I know of no one who has used fear of safety to justify drugging and robbing men. Actually, no one I know does this stuff. There are bad women who do bad things and then come up with excuses, this sounds like one. This fear of safety thing is real. I know because I am a woman and I was afraid of men when I was young because they can be aggressive and unreasonable. If we are rejecting you they can go off on a tangent and it can be terrifying. I am 66 and I am simply trying to get the truth out th…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 08:12 PM
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Unless it is something that therapy could help? Or they are ill? Or just had your baby? If it's a relationship, you talk about it and then make decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 08:04 PM
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Defrauding? Geez she just wants him to go away. Frankly, when men approach you they want something. If she does not know you, they cannot be sure what is going to happen so they take steps to protect themselves. What do you do if someone you don't know approaches you for something? Do you give your number? Say they want a donation or for you to join something? Would you hand your personal information out?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 07:58 PM
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If there is a relationship, yes but if they are just asking you out and you are not interested... then do what you need to do because you do not know them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 07:53 PM
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We do not reject them in the worse way possible. There are far worse ways. We reject in a way that protects ourself because there are bad actors.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 07:52 PM
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No it doesn't. What you talk about doing is devastating to a person. I would be appalled if a woman said to do this too. If you reach this stage, just end it. Have some integrity.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 07:50 PM
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Trust me that stuff happens though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 07:48 PM
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It's not about it being mine, it's about being fair along the way. If you want the house later, you pay for that and divide the other expenses. You can ask for rent but be reasonable. However, if you are in a marriage or in a relationship with children you have to do better. You would take away the roof from your children? You work something out. Or set up a prenup and make sure she knows she gets nothing from you if there is a divorce. It will prevent her from relying on you. She may not get ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 07:47 PM
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So it is alright if she pays everything else and you reap the benefits of this? You pay mortgage and she pays everything else? How to take advantage of people? You place no value on what women often do.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 07:17 PM
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Many women do what they have to do because all it takes is 1 guy to make your life hell. You may not like it, but it is reality for many women. You not choosing to see how difficult it can be does not mean anyone has to change for you. I suggest you read some of these stories: https://www.buzzfeed.com/patricepeck/street-harassment-women-rejecting-men-toxic-masculinity I am 66 years old and I still remember being terrified a couple times by males when I was young. I once had to run into an elemen…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 06:48 PM
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I saved the down payment for our first house. I was not even thinking divorce. I was thinking of a place to raise our family. If you are in a relationship and she works and provides things, such as, you pay the mortgage and she pays for food, electricity, and taxes, she should be compensated. Relationships should be fair when end too. Or do you just line up women to use. I wonder how you would feel if you had a daughter and she was treated like one?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 06:29 PM
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"Almost anywhere and at anytime." We have a wacky relationship with sex? Can we at least have it indoors cause the mosquitoes are bad this year?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 05:24 PM
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Then define the issue. You may like it when people disagree with you but if you cannot see the problem with calling people condescending turds you need a serious reality check. You argue ideas or at least try to discuss getting growth from the individual you are talking to and you learn too. How about you work on your emotional regulation. I suggest you also go back and read the study where young men are often high handed. It could apply to you or are you just above everything? There is nothing …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 12:50 PM
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Well being a kettle is slightly better than being a condescending turd. You definitely engage in moral outrage and I am sorry I am not impressed with you. It must be hard to be above all. Let's stop here because how dare someone disagree with you. Consent is a wonderful idea and it is not that difficult to get.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 11:04 AM
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Let's discuss some women haters for a moment, since you seem to think men haters are the problem: shall I make a list of the incel murders? The 2009 Collier Township shooting (Pittsburgh, PA), 2018 Toronto van attack, The 2014 Isla Vista attack, 2020 Toronto Spa Murder, 2021 Plymouth Shooting England, etc. Women just do not go around shooting people like men do. We are rarely mass murderers. Women pay about 34-40% of the US federal tax burden. Men do not carry all the tax burden. You do not carr…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 02:06 AM
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Right telling you to ask for consent is condescending. Tell you what, take a look at this: https://www.psypost.org/young-men-use-moral-outrage-to-claim-status-in-political-debates/ You are seriously full of yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 10:13 PM
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Well I was going to answer you but you lost me at condescending turd. Perhaps you should reread this and consider the fact that you are one.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 09:46 PM
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Trust me, she will have a far larger headache than you will. She can never be sure you will not leave her if she becomes pregnant? She can have a better idea of guessing at what you will do if she talks about it. Some of it is to see how you deal with the idea that she could become pregnant. Women also tend to communicate better than men. We talk about our feelings. I remember reading about a math teacher who taught a boys school and then a girls school. She said the major difference was that gi…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 09:30 PM
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We are often just living with it. I do not know why you want us to hide it. It is a serious reality to live with. Women have been risking pregnancy from the beginning of time by having sex. It is a very strong primal urge. We can get lost in the moment. It is living with risk. We do not accept it as much as we fear it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 09:07 PM
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Risk is reality though. We can get pregnant so we prefer to have sex with men who stick around and we can lean on if we do get pregnant. We are human though and we can get lonely or enticed. How often do we moralize about what women do sexually? We judge women a lot harsher for sleeping around. There's a whole bunch of slurs just for this. Sex carries greater meaning for us because of what it can result in. We are not hiding behind it we are trying to deal with it and still have a life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 09:01 PM
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Could you give me an example?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 08:22 PM
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Life is always a bit better with it though. It is one of our fundamental drivers. I suggest you go without it for a while and it will seem a bit more special.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 08:20 PM
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https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC12657800/ This more recent study says that there is a problem. https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S2667193X2500047X https://news.ubc.ca/2022/04/health-research-differences-between-sexes/ This points out that our differences need to be studied. Furthermore, compared with female-prevalent diseases, male-prevalent diseases receive nearly twice as much actual and burden-commensurate funding.<sup>6</sup> https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/art…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 05:22 PM
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No such offices exist because it is thought that women are outside the norm and have specific issues. We are not men but most health studies are done on men. Please take a moment to read this and instead focus on this: "The gender gap in medical research, alongside overarching misogyny, results in real-life disadvantages for female patients." https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC8812498/
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 01:47 PM
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The men who tend to attract the most attention are often the ones who create excitement, spark intense emotions, and project charisma, confidence, and unpredictability. The men like this just get more attention from everyone. Women mature too and are not really interest much past adolescence in such men. I think you are painting women with quite a large paint brush. Many women are not interested in men like this at all. We are individuals.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 12:32 PM
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FGM is carried out by ignorant women. That does not make it less harmful. I never said women have a halo. Any word on the disproportionate amount of research that uses men as a baseline?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 12:27 PM
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The important question is, is Godzilla male or female? What gender abused Gozilla? We need a study and a panel to discuss this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 11:31 PM
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Whether you agree with it or not, many do not see male circumcision as mutilation. Many people have a completely different perspective. If you want it stopped you have to have people recognize it is a problem. You cannot fix what is not acknowledged. The damage done by fgm is viewed by the medical community as "Globally recognized as a human rights violation, FGM offers no health benefits and causes severe physical and psychological harm, including dangerous childbirth complications. Over 230 mi…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 10:50 PM
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I have dealt with enough young men to know arrogance. https://www.thegentlemansjournal.com/article/crucial-difference-confidence-arrogance/Just keep your lmao attitude and you will be interpreted as arrogant. Also, just in case you can open your mind: https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2026/mar/10/the-guardian-view-on-gen-z-young-men-hold-startling-views-about-women-inequality-may-be-to-blame#:~:text=The%20Guardian%20view%20on%20gen,inequality%20may%20be%20to%20blame
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 06:22 PM
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You sound like so many 18 year olds that I have known. I am always right and I know more. You are, yawn, nothing new. I am hoping maturity comes in a few years. If you are older than 18 I suggest you start by opening your mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 04:32 PM
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You need to self observe more and perhaps try to listen? You sound like you are coming from a position of I do no wrong. If you do not agree with me, you are the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 04:11 PM
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The wealth of a country or an individual affects life expectancy across the board as far as I can see. The US is a country where wealth can make a huge difference in health care. I am all for improving it for both men and women. I am all for a retirement age of 60 for both men and women. I am 66 and somewhere in your early 60s, life gets achier. In Canada, on average men retire at 66.2 and women at 64.5. (Statcan). It's a 1.7 year difference. Not bad but it would be nice if it was earlier. Those…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 04:09 PM
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I suggest you rethink your perspective. You do not understand that your quoted comment insults women?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 03:58 PM
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" all the misandry that women spew endlessly on this sub and are trying to just insult me " You do not think there is a problem with this. You have a cognitive bias or how about a mind set that says when in doubt blame women and OMG if they insult me, they hate me because I am so perfect I do not need to make improvements. I have now insulted you because I definitely think you have a problem. I do not hate you though. I want you to open your mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 03:14 PM
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There are people who claim they were raped and they suffer because they do not report it. It is something this society has to work on. Too many men and women try to bury it and then are called liars later. We should never let rapists get away with it. I have nothing but sympathy for rape victims, they are trying to deal in a world that judges hard. The US states passing laws to rectify the problem of rapists getting custody of their children is an example of a human reaction to an inhuman proble…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 03:11 PM
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I can reply with all the misogyny men spill out. Do you really think you are that fair? You do not insult us?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 01:56 PM
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The countries where the life expectancy of men is highest also reflects a similar increase in the life expectancy of women. No country has men living longer than women. The reason why men live longer is the same reason why women live longer. It is lifestyle, good health care, high education levels and strong social integration. However, female mammals still live longer than male mammals. You compare taking away voting rights to having to ask a woman if he has consent? He needs to have a yes? It'…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 01:41 AM
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Any children? I have not known a child who does well when their parents divorce. There is fall out. I am all for getting it right the first time. 4 marriages? You have a falling in love issue or you are a tosser. Wouldn't live in partners be easier?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 12:04 AM
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I do not think hypergamy exists to any degree. https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC11790178/ However, we both should watch out for those gold diggers. Do not appear to sensitive, women now know you are just after our money. Guard your gold from narcissists. https://www.vice.com/en/article/are-men-or-women-bigger-gold-diggers-science-finally-has-an-answer/
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 12:02 AM
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So are you black or red pill. Women do not hate men on this sub. They just do not agree with you and you twist this to hate? Or can you just not understand we can be very different than you? Women keep men at a distance often because many of us do not sleep around or we are very thoughtful and careful about men we do let get close. Some men view this as hatred and make it into something nasty.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 11:24 PM
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What do you mean women 'doing it for me'? I can't decide if we didn't turn you on or if we did but we were not available? Women are taxed too and single women bear the same tax burden men do. Only if we have dependents are there any tax break. Taxes do not have separate tables for men or women. If each of us made $100,000 we would both have to pay the same taxes if we had the same amount of children and the same deductions. There is no special deduction for women. When I was young and had a bett…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 10:40 PM
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Certainly medieval Europe had many Saint's days and the peasants often got them off. I am all in. Don't tell our billionaire overseers until it has been accomplished and they have to live with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 05:53 PM
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If that is what you want, there is nothing stopping anyone from doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 05:47 PM
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In mammals, all males have a shorter life span. However, if we find a way to simulate this could you manage to add child birth simulators too? So much of this subreddit is about male pain of not getting sex when they want it, do we find a way to add this? We can go on about this all day. Is having a party a bad idea? No but I do think men should do the work for males. Perhaps someday we can have some older members of the opposite sex talk about what is involved with being the opposite sex. I do …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 05:46 PM
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Yeah, walk into a meeting saying as loud as possible, 'I have horrible cramps so can we keep this short?' I would keep it short but I bet someone would complain to HR.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 05:40 PM
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Go for it but you plan it because we have enough to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 05:20 PM
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I think gender parity is not possible, but I do understand there are menstrual pain simulators. Really more men should try it. BTW if you want a party for your son because your daughter has one, why not? It is just not something either of my children would have wanted. They would have been uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 05:18 PM
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The young awkward adolescents I raised would be telling me for the rest of their lives how I damaged them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 05:10 PM
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Plus sometimes there are problems with the onset of puberty and that's painful enough to deal with.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 05:07 PM
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He definitely has a type.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 05:05 PM
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Can I suggest some male bonding trip? with a happy home dinner at the end because you are back.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 05:03 PM
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Yeah, your mom celebrating your first boner would freak so many out.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 05:02 PM
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There is nothing more embarrassed than a 12-13 year old girl. Mostly they do not want anyone to talk about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 05:01 PM
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Frankly, I did not make a celebration of it for my daughter but I did cuddle her all night. I had to give her analgesics and reassurance. Remember these are mostly 11-13 year old girls. As for men, have at it. What do you suggest? I do hope you can figure it out cause most women are fairly busy but we will offer our support.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 05:00 PM
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I do need to get more done and I really should join you...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 03:57 PM
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I have lived with men and it is amazing how blind they can be to what women do until there is not one around to do it. Women working part time is often so that can do the caregiving work that they so often do. Is not women making nearly the same as men sharing the tax burden? Medicaid covering 42% of births is not nearly enough. It should be 100%. You are 58% short. The richest country in the world can manage this. Usually it's married women with children who work less, do you think we could get…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 03:27 PM
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You cannot leave him. He needs you. I hope you find some relief.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 02:26 AM
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I hope you find a solution. Please do not give into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 02:24 AM
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Oh I get it but please never do. It hurts so much to loose the people you love.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 02:22 AM
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That sounds like the depression talking. Also, if you have teenagers or young adults, they come around eventually. Why by the time my children were 30 they were almost human.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 02:22 AM
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Have you tried exercise? I know someone who cannot take meds and she manages her depression by walking 5 hours a day. I know it might seem nuts to you but try walking more. Our ancestors certainly moved around a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 02:15 AM
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Do not give into the darkness. Those people who rely on you for money, need you to be there for more than money.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 02:13 AM
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How about you just do not do it. Seek out help. Take up chalk painting. Do not do this, ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 02:12 AM
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Please do not. I lost my brother to suicide last June and it has been so hard. Go to doctors, therapists. You are worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 02:11 AM
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Please do not. I lost my brother to suicide last June. I will never stop missing him. Find a way. Talk to doctors and therapists.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 02:10 AM
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Social media is not good for us. You should quit 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 01:49 AM
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Advanced age in pregnancy is 35. "Drug overdoses are typically not included in the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) official maternal mortality figures." (The New England Journal of Medicine). "Violent deaths, such as homicides and suicides, are generally not included in the official, foundational statistics used to track US maternal mortality." (National Institutes of health) These deaths are not included in the maternal mortality figures I gave. I never said there was a patriar…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 01:44 AM
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It's not new and I hate to suggest this but men can be rather full of themselves at times. They do tend to have a larger ego than many women. I have many men in my life so none of this surprises me. We can do the same. None of us are perfect and it's good to point out the other's imperfections so neither gets carried away.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 12:53 AM
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You did say that arguing preferential treatment was the new norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 12:02 AM
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I lived in the 60s and there was definitely male preferential treatment but I was always a whole picture person so I do not really recall ever telling males they had preferential treatment because I got that life was not ever really easy even then. (and it was a lot easier than it is now financially if you had a job) I did see things then that were really heartbreaking and I have called myself a feminist since. It was never you lousy male, it was let's fix this so it's better. The feminism I saw…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 11:39 PM
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I have said various times within this post, I do not think that male or female privilege exists when you broaden your scope. Sure I can say men have this and you can respond with women have this and we can throw examples of preferential treatment of each other at each other. Perhaps a scale with a piece of toilet paper for each item? The one with the most pieces and weight loses? Life is just hard for both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 09:32 PM
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"PurplePillDebate is a neutral community to discuss sex and gender issues". I am discussing gender issues. If I failed with my message, I do think some receivers are the problem. Is my message perfect? No but either are your responses. Surely you can do something better than "any civilised measure can be counted as privilege." Despite its many faults, I prefer civilization to the other option. Tell me honestly, how much do you understand about the female experience? If you need to be nasty thoug…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 06:23 PM
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I do not believe men or women have privileged lives. Being a soldier is hard; being a civilian in a war zone is hard. Life is hard. I just am getting tired of hearing about privileged women's lives are. They are really not, just most of you do not want to hear it. I have listened to men and I have learned but I have to say the bulk of male contributors on this sub do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 05:49 PM
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The amount of women who die by suicide still shows that women die. More soldiers may die in combat but does this lessen the amount of civilian casualties and the damage it does. Women get more help when they are depressed than men. I have personally reached out when I have been depressed but I know of depressed males who do not. It was not easy to get the men to get the help they needed. I am going to say what made me reach out was my family. Not pressure from them but the hope that I would not …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 05:46 PM
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While the numbers are less, women die by suicide as well. We are more likely to be depressed but we are also more likely to reach out for help. I am in no way minimizing the pain men feel and I definitely think every effort has to be made to lessen this statistic. Yes, you may win at the numbers game but I am trying to teach men that our lives are not easy. Too many men on this subreddit think women have it easy. We suffer from clinical depression at 1.5 to 2 times the rate of men. This is not p…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 04:15 PM
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https://www.nbcnews.com/news/us-news/louisiana-woman-says-rapist-was-custody-child-ongoing-court-dispute-rcna34140 https://prismreports.org/2025/10/27/rape-survivors-child-custody/ Plus there was OJ Simpson. He got custody of his children with Nicole after he killed her. The reality is many rapes go unreported. It is just too harrowing for women to go through the process. They hope to put the whole episode behind them. Female circumcision may be outlawed but it is still performed and still an is…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 04:02 PM
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It certainly a struggle, especially with TRP. It is just so hard to accept that most women are not sitting around in their bikinis and checking their OF profiles for their latest money drop while trying to figure out how to manipulate the many BFs they juggle. Hmmm maybe I can get that new guy to pay for dinner and I will let him kiss me good night while I perfect my cocktease. Now for my real stressful activity, what should I wear?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 03:32 PM
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It is a mistaken way of thinking. I wonder if a man put it in place? As for female privilege, how about you read up on some of the issues women have to deal with that men do not. Are you exhausted from caregiving? Oh wait you're a sigma male. That just could not happen. Care for your future elderly parents will probably not fall on you unless there are no females in your parents lives that can take on the burden. Over the long haul of our lives no gender really has privilege. Lives are just hard…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 03:27 PM
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I just hoped to make more men aware of issues in this subreddit. They can bring out numbers but they need to learn about our lives. I framed it this way because I was totally annoyed with this female privilege garbage. Over the long haul neither gender has much privilege. Life is can be just hard for both of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 03:23 PM
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Most of the female privilege that you speak of has equivalencies in male privilege. How likely will it be that anyone will gossip about you and say you got the job on your back? Etc, etc. Majority of states it's allowed and the majority of women can travel to a state where it's allowed to have the procedure. This requires funds that many people do not have. As for shaving, you do you and we will do us. Many just do not want the ouchies and I just had a friend develop sepsis for a shaving cut on …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 03:20 PM
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No the reason behind my topic is to try to get some of the men who come to this subreddit to understand women's lives. Too many think women have it easy because we can get laid easier than they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 02:22 PM
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How many women do this stuff? I too can play this game. A man can rape a woman, get her pregnant where there are no abortions allowed and then sue for custody of the child from the woman if she plans for adoption. She has to keep, and care for the child or the child is raised by a rapist alone. There are loads of other kinds of fraud that men can play on women. Should we talk about f*ck boys? Tell women lies to use them? Disproportionate spending on health care? You be female and go into a hospi…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 02:18 PM
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I disagree with more male autists. I think women are still less likely to be diagnosed. I do think it is because of women being able to fit in better so the experience is harder for men. I just do not think one gender has privilege over the long haul of our lives. I do think you should add women bear the reproductive burden because I do not think men get how heavy it can be. Our lives can be more complicated than men. It's a good comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 02:00 PM
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You are blaming me for every feminist/women's opinion on this sub. Global issues apply because they are part of the human experience. The US is also not a bubble. Those women matter. Women are physically more vulnerable than men. It is just reality. Many women take precautions because of this. It's a survival mechanism. I am not saying petty privileges do not exist but over the long haul of our lives we both pay a price for our genders. Too many men in this sub fail to see that women have anythi…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 01:53 PM
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The people I know are irrelevant but you think you are such a big deal that you are slamming me in the forehead? You give yourself much. Do I know reality, yes. Wedding invites are down but there are people still getting together. They just do not come to this sub. Life is just too expensive for many children but some men on this sub do not want to give it the credit it deserves. It might get people too riled up and make demands on their government that do not suit their political leanings.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 01:44 PM
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Yes, there is a lot of male suffering. I started this post because I was tired of hearing about female privilege from arm chair warriors. Sometimes being female is not a walk in the park and I believe that men and women can have equally hard lives. They are just different. Individual differences can be substantial though. Illness, accidents, genetics, and our environments can truly make some of us have brutal lives. I think the experience combat soldiers have can be nightmarish but I also think …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 01:41 PM
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It's horrible. You cannot give into blackmail because you will never be free. Parent have to be aware these days and lecture children about scams and how awful people can be.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 01:21 PM
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You will still never bear children or understand how difficult it can be. To be honest, what do you think are the chances that you will be sent into a war zone as a combatant? I don't think they are very high. You are an arm chair warrior at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 08:34 AM
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I disagree with you again. Reality has a way of breaking through. Social media has made some freaks but most of the people I know are married or partners and some are having children. It is just so expensive they are having less.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 08:32 AM
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We are vulnerable because nature makes it so. There is no getting away from reality. My evaluation of life is it is hard for both sexes and the reproductive load is something women bear. Most men do not have a clue so they dismiss it. The main complaint on this sub is they just cannot seem to get laid enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 08:29 AM
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I will learn to read right after you learn to think. Over the broad scope of our lives, considering the price of the reproductive load and just how hard life can be, women do not have privilege. Just because you do not understand does not mean it is not the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 08:26 AM
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I disagree. No one wants to give their children less than they had and that is the reality they face in this present world.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 08:23 AM
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So 260,000 maternal deaths globally just does not mean much and the Epstein girls just don't rate the same as your stats. Over the broad scope of our lives, there is no female privilege. I did not say there was male privilege. So about that good faith... because we could improve those construction conditions and the maternal care offered to poor women. More males are born than females. Women have 2 X chromosomes and men only 1. If women carry a fault on one of their chromosomes the other one can…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 08:22 AM
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Do you realize the average US soldier goes into combat with a minimum of 68 lbs on their back and the possibility of 120 lbs. We have 1/3 your upper body strength. If we step back from the details and we look at our lives, I do not believe that women's lives are any easier than men. There are women casualties in war zones. There are women DV victims (1200-2000 annually in US), there is maternal mortality, there are female combatants in the front lines who chose to be there, females on the Epstei…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 08:04 AM
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This is across the western world because who can afford it? People do not want to have children because these days it could mean having less than what they had as children. They cannot afford a house.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 07:50 AM
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What? If you mean 500 messages, do you think most women want that? Maybe a 15 year old with nothing else to do. You have no idea of what women do. You are just upset because you do not get enough dms? How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 07:48 AM
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No this is reality not a zero sum game. Our pregnancies come with a real cost. I wonder how much your chance of being drafted is? The likelihood that you will actually have to do combat? Do you think there will be civilian casualties in a war zone? Since WW2 we seem to be willing to have more collateral damage.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 07:44 AM
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Sweetie pie, mostly it is the teenager's birth rate that is down. Women are still having children.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 07:28 AM
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I disagree except for the homeless part. I think too, you could put in programs to get men off the streets. Too many are mentally ill and need help. The US bucks at this idea. OMG my taxes. My problems are not self imposed and ultimately most of us do die alone. I have worked and saved most of my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 07:26 AM
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Yes, but so many commenters are complaining that we have a choice not to get pregnant. It is one way to prevent the draft. Have a war where no one will turn up because they were not born. Many women are having children in their late 30s and early 40s. The drop in the birth rate is mostly from teenagers no longer having children. I did this post because I have come across posts that say women not getting drafted is female privilege. Well I am sorry being a female has its price and you clueless id…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 06:19 AM
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We could argue this. I also could argue that children need both parents and so males should not be drafted too. Would there be a war if no one turned up?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 06:03 AM
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It is not a good idea. I hope it changes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 06:01 AM
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I hope my empathy goes to all people. I chose to post this because I have run into comments where they say women have privilege because we cannot be drafted. I think it is blatantly unfair because there is a price to be paid for being female and many in this subreddit do not get it. I was actually trying to teach because I really feel many of the male commenters have no idea. I wanted to make some people think that maybe being a woman was not as easy as they thought. So many of the men are dismi…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 06:00 AM
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Maternal mortality is not something that should be dismissed because we have a choice to get pregnant or not. The reality is men are conscripted because women bear children. You are also larger and stronger than women so you get chosen first. I chose to do this subject because men say it is a female privilege that women do not get drafted. However, I disagree. There is a price women pay for being women. We bear the reproductive load. Over the broader scope of our lives, women can pay a heavy pri…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 05:37 AM
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If we stop having children, there will be no complications or people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 05:29 AM
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If we do not have children there will be no wars because there will be no people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 05:29 AM
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Certainly those are the good aspects of being one gender and I am sure there are times when most of us would like what the other gender has. I have found a lot of wisdom from trans people on this subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 05:28 AM
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Could you give me examples of some of these social advantages? The reason men are drafted is biology. You cannot get pregnant and you are larger and better able to fight. I think that biology and nature places demands on us and there are prices for being female and bearing children.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 05:25 AM
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Yes, but if we do not where are the people of the future going to come from?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 05:18 AM
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So you think birth is all there is? How about periods, pregnancy, childbirth, breast feeding then caring for an infant that needs to be feed every two hours. Then raising the child and working as most women do? You have real limitations understanding of women's lives. I am not playing victim, why are you having a hard time with the truth? It just does not suit your narrative that women have it easy with all the advantages. If they do not, how can be nasty and be proud of yourself for it? Maybe y…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 05:17 AM
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I do not think women are any more privileged than men. I have had some petty examples thrown at me in this post and I usually try to respond with equal petty samples. I just do not think women getting into a club for free is a huge deal compared to conscription or maternal mortality. There are arguments for the longer sentences for men because of recidivism. Men's crimes are more likely to be violent. A judge will usually have a criminal's record in front of him when he sentences so he maybe fai…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 05:10 AM
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Now that is a leap but I guess it is getting late.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 04:44 AM
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I try to be a good bean. You did not tick me off. I can come from commenting with another who I find difficult and find I jump to the wrong conclusion with others. I hope you find more friends to love.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 04:43 AM
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Men are risk takers compared to women. As well, women carry 2 X chromosomes. Genetically, if one X has a problem we have another that will cover us. Unfortunately, men do not have this. As well, with all mammals the females live longer. It is why there are more women in old folks homes. If you look at the global numbers females are falling behind. This is because there are more females aborted in China and India.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 04:39 AM
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Yes but they go to what we experience. I chose this because I have run into men in this sub saying that the reason women do not get drafted is female privilege. I do not believe in the broad scope of our lives there is much privilege for men or women. I wanted them to get that women have experiences that they do not have and we do not come from a place of privilege. We can pay a price for the reproductive load.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 04:29 AM
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I try but I have to admit some people tick me off and I can go off. I am far from perfect but I know life is hard for most people so I do try to keep that in mind. A lot of these guys here are young and have no idea what women experience so I am really trying to teach.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 04:25 AM
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You do not understand the issues and difficulties that women actually face, even in the face of statistics that show we can die from just being women. Women bear the reproductive load. Your ideology as a RP man is to diminish women. You do not want to see that their lives are not easy. It would be harder for you to kick them around and blame them for being able to have more sex than you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 04:20 AM
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I put this post up because many men in this sub seem to think women have easy lives. I do not think most do. They just seem to be so unaware of the issues women can face. I have run into men saying that women not being drafted is female privilege. There is a cost to this female privilege and some women can die from it. They just have no idea what women can face in this life.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 04:15 AM
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No worries. I am a fast typist and not a great editor. Sometimes, I cringe after I reread a message. You got your point across.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 04:12 AM
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I believe that over the broader scope of our lives women really have no discernible privilege. The reproductive load takes its toll. Men are the ones that say women have privilege because they cannot be drafted. I wanted to point out to many of the men in this sub that women pay a price for being women. The reality is women can die in pregnancy or childbirth even in nations like the US. There is a cost to things like periods, pregnancy, childbirth, breast feeding and caring for infants. Sometime…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 04:11 AM
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There is stuff like this. Over the broader scope of our lives, I believe privilege for both men and women does not exist unless you are very wealthy. I was thinking about the worse thing that can happen to us - death. It can happen to women in ways that it cannot happen to men. Yes men can get drafted but we pay a price for just being women. There are incidents of privilege for both sexes. I just do not think women getting into a club for free is a big deal. Loosing your job because of your gend…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 04:06 AM
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I understand privilege. I just do not believe it exists over the broader scope of our lives. I do not think men or women who are not very wealthy have much privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 04:00 AM
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I believe data can be very useful. I agree. I also do not want men to die by suicide or any means. I am just trying to get the men who believe that women have easy lives to open up their eyes. I do not think over the broad scope of our lives there is much female privilege but I do not believe most men have much male privilege. It the very wealthy who have privilege not your average people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 03:59 AM
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I thought it was an acronym I could not figure out.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 03:56 AM
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I am not a perpetual victim. I am pointing out problems that real women have. You just cannot deal with it because it interferes with your ideology that women have easy lives. We do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 03:52 AM
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You have privileges. Your life will never be in danger from a pregnancy, however, you do not have post conception rights because it is her body. What about if she is not allowed an abortion? You can run? How many men get away with having no responsibility for their child. Our biology controls much of our lives. It is reality. If I buy your razors, what will I do if I need to shave places that are not really made for male razors. There are specific ones that work better. This is why we use female…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 03:50 AM
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What about when the biases give you privileges.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 03:44 AM
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Yes, boys get trafficked and it needs to stop as much for them as it does for girls. "The majority of forced labor victims are male, and the majority of commercial sexual exploitation victims are women and girls. " https://www.transportation.gov/stop-human-trafficking/human-trafficking-101 These stats that show females are more likely to be sexually exploited does not take away from the males that are also, or the pain they may have from being forced to do slave labour. I talked about women beca…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 03:41 AM
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In response to your women and children first: "A 2012 study by Uppsala University economists argued that the "women and children first" rule is a myth, and that men have a survival advantage in shipwrecks, with a survival rate of 34.5% compared to 17.8% for women in a sample of 18 disasters" https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Women_and_children_first#:~:text=A%202012%20study%20by%20Uppsala,a%20sample%20of%2018%20disasters Comparing deaths in from maternal mortality and pregnancy to soldiers deaths is…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 03:30 AM
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I do not think there are any wars that are being fought today that should be fought. I do not think that men should be drafted. The reality is women that 260,000 women died in 2021 from pregnancy and childbirth complications. It is a very high number. It is something men will never have to face. The maternal mortality rate is high in the US despite it being the wealthiest country in the world. I am saying that if you look at our lives overall, there is no female privilege. We have our own proble…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 03:19 AM
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What is mlre?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 03:09 AM
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Will this list do as a start? https://guides.rider.edu/privilege/male Yes, men have privileges women do not have. They do not have to argue with doctors about whether they are in significant pain. I doubt you have been mansplained to or talked over. I doubt you have ever been asked when you plan on having children or why you are not taking care of your children.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 03:08 AM
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The comparison may be weird to you. You obviously do not understand the female experience. Too many men in this sub are just concerned about getting laid, not the possible results from it. In 2007 the hostile action death by US soldiers was 847. I cannot find an accurate figure for maternal mortality deaths, just the rate but 700-900 women die each year usually from maternal and pregnancy related deaths in the US. https://www.propublica.org/article/how-many-american-women-die-from-causes-related…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 02:57 AM
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There are forced pregnancies in the US and other countries because there is no option to abortion. Women can stop having babies and it would stop wars eventually because no people but truly is this an option that would be good for the human races survival? I acknowledge males are civilians and I do not want them to die either but I wanted some people to understand women and girls die in war too, not just soldiers. There are high rates of civilian deaths since WW2. I was trying to focus on women …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 02:44 AM
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All deaths do matter. It is just I find many in this subreddit really do not understand the risks women have just by being women. I do not believe there is female privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 02:38 AM
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It is biology that gets men drafted.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 02:35 AM
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Bad faith? You state that women start fights between men. I have never seen a woman start a fight but I have seen men fight because of their egos. This is an absolutely disingenuous argument. Is not the global figure 260,000 women dying because of maternal deaths not a true indicator of risks women face. Does this compare to men having to beat up other men because his gf gave someone the finger? You open yourself to ridicule by comparing something that only 3 immature people would make happen an…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 02:34 AM
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I think pregnancy and childbirth is definitely a foreign concept for most men on this subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 02:23 AM
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All male mammals generally die before female mammals. It seems to be part of the mammalian experience? There are discussions about taking away voting rights from women by members of the far right. There are no discussions about taking away voting rights from men. There are selective service exemptions for men. As for women business owners, please read: https://www.forbes.com/sites/kmehta/2023/11/13/why-women-entrepreneurs-outperform-men/ or how about this paragraph from the article: "Yet, invest…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 02:18 AM
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Both women and men's suicide deaths matter. Let's not use one to lessen the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 02:04 AM
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I do not know about studies but I definitely would not want to leave my family a mess if I was committing suicide.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 02:03 AM
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Health care and birth control helps with being a woman. In Roman Britain the average age of death for women was 28 and 51 for men. Women are treated better? Ask the Epstein girls how they felt with that special treatment. How about all those trafficked women? As for cherry picking stats, I used soldiers because it is most often where I run into the complaint of female privilege. How many father's get away with not paying child support? How many people blame women if they get pregnant and it is a…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 02:01 AM
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This does not minimize the maternal mortality rate. Getting into clubs for free, I assure you is not much use over the life time of women. I could reply that our make up and razors are more expensive. Some of your things are so minor that I will skip them. As for post conception rights, if you do not want a pregnancy you know how not to have one. Yes, men need more help when facing DV but many organizations like RAIIN help men too. Let's not say dealing with DV is easy and that getting into shel…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 01:51 AM
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Most women do not want men to die and live honest lives doing their best. I can only wonder about what you think of women or if you hang out with some very shady people. The behaviour you are complaining about sounds like a mental illness to me. I can respond to you by saying in any given year in the US, 1500-2000 women die a year from partner violence. When does DV usually start in a relationship? When she is pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 01:42 AM
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How do you define privilege? I wish men would not do jobs that put their lives at risk. Men have throughout history been risk takers. I think there is more choice here though than pregnancy and childbirth. We have to have children could you please not take risky jobs. It is simply the truth, there is risk in simply being a woman that men do not seem to understand or want to give us credit for. Here's another angle: How many men are trafficked compared to women? How many women and girls were abus…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 01:36 AM
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What is your point? You are just minimizing. Our maternal mortality rates are something women have to face and deal with. It is reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 01:21 AM
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The numbers are still the numbers. Deaths in 2021 from maternal mortality in the US were 1205. https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/data/hestat/maternal-mortality/2021/maternal-mortality-rates-2021.htm In 2021, 13 US soldiers died in hostile action. https://dcas.dmdc.osd.mil/dcas/app/summaryData/deaths/byYearManner Maternal mortality rates are high in the US considering it is the wealthiest country in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 01:17 AM
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Forced pregnancy is a reality in some states and countries. There are abortion bans. That being said, there are enough complaints about the birth rate. If women stop having children there will be no people. No wars would be a result of this but I do not think it would be viewed as a success. I do not think not having children is the answer. Do you think carrying children should result in women's deaths? The high mortality rate is because of a lack of health care in many places. The US maternal m…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 01:09 AM
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Could you quote that? (the feminists are behind the Ukraine War) Quote where it is said that I said you said that feminists are behind Ukraine's war? I did say that no woman or feminist wants it. I also said feminism or women are not responsible for going to war. I have stated that I wanted this said for others to understand this. Reread how you talk about feminists. We are dismissive and annoyed? I wanted to make sure you understood that we are not dismissive. We do not want war. This is not on…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 06:54 PM
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Me too. I actually did manage to get somewhere with a homophobic man. There is always hope.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 05:27 PM
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Find where I said you said that feminists are behind the Ukraine war? I said feminists do not want the Ukraine War. There a decided difference. You talk about clear cut sexism? I bring up issues that men never talk about. Death that happens only to women. I deny women have privilege because we have our own areas of suffering that you do not even acknowledge. This is up for grabs because you talk about female privilege like it is something we have. If you look at the broader picture we do not. Yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 05:22 PM
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I agree with you and I sure wish it did not exist. We can always hope for epiphanies and growth for the closed minded. Some actually do learn.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 04:40 PM
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I am responding to your thinking process where you blame feminists for their thinking. You think there is no issue with it. I do. I am not derailing the topic, I am not responding to the conclusion, I am responding to your initial thinking. You are so sure you are right, you cannot see the issue. There is really no such thing as female privilege. You do not respond to my denial of its existence. I do not think there is any male collective guilt. I have not heard any of this expressed ever. I gav…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 04:35 PM
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It may be part of the issue but I think her being female was a larger part. You may be fair minded but it is not as common as I think you believe. There are some very sexist people in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 04:13 PM
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I did not but I wanted to debunk any thinking from anyone who might read this that women are not in anyway for war or soldiers dying. I believe it needs to be said. If you get it, someone else reading this might not. You are way too concerned about yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 04:07 PM
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More men than women voted for him. A lot of people, unfortunately, object to a female president. Yes, most of them were white, but not all. Some of the non white people just would not vote for a woman. (white people too but I think that is part of the reason he got so many votes). If they do not see the problem with what they have now and what is happening, they are hopeless. I hope this is a lesson for the ages.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 04:05 PM
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Talk about an overreaction. I was not off topic because it was an important part of what feminism and women think. You brought this up. You think you are meaningful? I do not. I think your discussion points about feminism is a waste of time and not very meaningful at all. You are fixated on being right. You are not learning. I have no female groupies. Why are you incapable of responding to what I have said? This is my response to your claim there is female privilege: "When you speak of female pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 03:55 PM
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I wanted to make sure you knew that women did not want this war because of your unfair attack on feminism and women. Your posts have been removed because you are fixated and you do not think you are doing anything wrong. Take a look at yourself. Stop blaming me for what you do not understand and the fact that you are not getting the replies you want. Me: In no way was my response childish. Nor was my response just about feminism. I did not agree with your way of thinking. I do not think that 'ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 02:14 PM
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Sometimes, if something happens repeatedly, it is good to take a good look at yourself. When you think you are right you stop learning. In no way was my response childish. Nor was my response just about feminism. I did not agree with your way of thinking. I do not think that 'male collective guilt' is deeply ingrained in my logic. Do you have any guilt because there are forced pregnancies now in some states? Do you have any guilt because there were 669 maternal mortality death in the US in 2023 …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 02:00 PM
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Some do stay in fight. Women have options because they bear children and are smaller. We are not traditionally soldiers. It is not our choice to send you to war. Most warmongers are men though. I have a small build and I run just a bit faster than a turtle, however, I would be good as a rear echelon mother f***er. I do not understand the bitterness towards women. While child birth rarely kills these days, the demands our bodies make are real. The reproductive load is not light. Historically we h…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 01:23 PM
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Probably, if they will not say it. I wish we could get the location of where these posts are from too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 09:20 PM
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Is that what you say about people who do not agree with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 05:47 PM
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Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 05:29 PM
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