| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 2 | Why do fat chics always pose next to hotties in OLD and think that builds attractiveness?This comment section has been derogatory and borderline violent, to pretty much all women. "I prefer fit women because I live an active lifestyle and need someone who could keep up" or hell, even "I just prefer fit women" is standards, as you say. And there's nothing wrong with it. I couldn't date a guy who was unwilling to be active, and an overweight body is a likely indication of inactivity. Not always, but often. But y'all are trying to punch down on people who likely wouldn't pick you in th… | /r/seduction | 22/05/25 09:55 PM |
| 1 | Being funny and charismatic means nothing unless you are good-looking and have money.Did mommy and daddy tell them they're special and the handsomest man on earth and they actually believed it? Unfortunately, while that usually goes into it, it's a small piece of the bigger picture. It's not just Mommy and Daddy. They also grow up in a world that was built for them, with them in mind, and women are just the products that build them up. Think about your stereotypical 1950's American Dream©. You got your breadwinner Dad, who comes home to a clean house, a hot dinner, adorable doti… | /r/seduction | 30/04/25 05:03 PM |
| 1 | Being funny and charismatic means nothing unless you are good-looking and have money.Behavior like that is reflective of low self esteem, not high. Or at least, a reaction from the ego. I don't have all the proper terms on hand at the moment, but basically, think of your ego and your sense of self as two boxes. When the Ego box fits into the Self box, it's protected. It doesn't matter what the Self box looks like as long as the Ego can fit in comfortably. But when Ego box is bigger than Self box, it no longer has that protection, and it tries to protect the Self, but Ego can't p… | /r/seduction | 30/04/25 04:19 PM |
| 1 | Being funny and charismatic means nothing unless you are good-looking and have money.If one girl rejects you, she wasn't into you or maybe she was the problem. If every single woman you've ever tried to ask out rejects you, you're the common denominator. You know honestly, even as a woman this was hard to accept, so I do get it. Everyone has a cognitive bias that the way they are is the "right way," so it's challenging to accept that we are the destroyer of our own lives; even when we complain about the consequences of our own actions. I met my husband when I accepted that I was… | /r/seduction | 30/04/25 03:32 PM |
| 1 | Being funny and charismatic means nothing unless you are good-looking and have money.or are looking for any excuse to whine and cry rather than self improve. Honestly, if it's not this, then it's both, but at the center it's always going to be this. It's incredible how far out of their way some people will go to avoid self improvement. | /r/seduction | 30/04/25 02:52 PM |
| 1 | Being funny and charismatic means nothing unless you are good-looking and have money.I'd be way more likely to go with the funny, charismatic guy over the rich, handsome one; both for hook-ups and for long term. | /r/seduction | 30/04/25 01:54 PM |
| 0 | Men don’t approach women anymore because women are coldBut when it’s done beautifully it’s worth it. Then you need to start holding the ones doing it "wrong" accountable. Call out predatory behavior. Listen to your sisters and mothers and girl friends about their experiences, instead of just what you think should happen when you talk to a woman. Stop glorifying rape culture. Stop voting sexual predators into Congress. Stop voting for our rights to be taken away. You want women to be approachable? Make the world a safe place for them to be approached… | /r/seduction | 19/04/25 04:34 PM |
| -3 | Men don’t approach women anymore because women are coldThe problem is most men don’t know how to talk to a girl properly, and many of them take rejection in a bad way, even some of them reacting aggressively. Yeah, that's sort of the problem. I had a guy tell me he was gonna have me fired because I rejected him. I've been approached in real life with requests for nudes, blow jobs, and sexual favors. I had a customer refuse to leave because he wanted to hang out with me while I was at work. I've had that multiple times, actually. Same with stalking. … | /r/seduction | 19/04/25 03:02 PM |
| -8 | Men don’t approach women anymore because women are coldI'm seeing a lot of men agreeing with you here, so let me set the record straight from a woman. But you'll have to listen closely, here... WE DON'T WANT YOU TO APPROACH US IN PUBLIC. We never did. Your post, and all the men agreed with you, is just a big, whiney complaint that you guys have to actually put in some effort. I don't feel sorry for you. We are cold to men because of the actions of men. Before blaming women for your loneliness problem, maybe focus on what's turning people away in the… | /r/seduction | 19/04/25 01:32 PM |
| 0 | How to break the touching barrier with a girl without looking like a pervert?LMAO that's what I'm saying Hi, I'm a writer and apparently I can't even compose a reddit comment 🤦🏻♀️ | /r/seduction | 18/04/22 09:13 PM |
| 1 | How to break the touching barrier with a girl without looking like a pervert?There are numerous state, federal, and local laws, as well as large movements that say otherwise. Have you ever heard of the #metoo movement? You should look into it. You'll find all sorts of women who really didn't appreciate being touched without permission, and none of them are craving more. | /r/seduction | 18/04/22 09:08 PM |
| -5 | How to break the touching barrier with a girl without looking like a pervert?Judging from the number of people responding, I'm guessing I did a poor job of making my point. Either that, or some of the people don't understand what consent is and are missing the point on purpose because they don't want to have to learn. | /r/seduction | 18/04/22 09:07 PM |
| -5 | How to break the touching barrier with a girl without looking like a pervert?I feel like you and the other commenter are intentionally missing the point, which is respect and consent. "Where's my hug at" is not what I'm saying you should do. That doesn't give a comfortable option to say no; it's demanding, and makes the assumption that you're going to give him the hug that he's OWED. Which, again, is my whole point: insisting people not do this. | /r/seduction | 18/04/22 09:01 PM |
| 1 | How to break the touching barrier with a girl without looking like a pervert?“Today has been great thank you so much.. I feel the only way to end today would be with a hug”. This is still an acceptable way of asking permission without actually asking the question. It still gives the other person an out to say "I don't feel comfortable with hugging/personal touch." It's still respectful. I have had men just go in for a hug and It hasn’t angered me but I would have liked to have been warned prior to being enveloped. I would have liked to have been warned prior to being env… | /r/seduction | 18/04/22 08:54 PM |
| 1 | How to break the touching barrier with a girl without looking like a pervert?No, we don't. | /r/seduction | 18/04/22 08:46 PM |
| 1 | How to break the touching barrier with a girl without looking like a pervert?For people you already know have trauma No one walks around with a sign on their shirt saying "I've experienced trauma, please ask before touching me." If you're pursuing a person who has experienced trauma, hasn't told you yet, and you go in to hug them without asking? You're gonna be unsuccessful. However, asking first before touching shows restraint and respect, which are attractive and desirable traits. It makes whomever you're with, regardless of their trauma history (and believe me, most w… | /r/seduction | 18/04/22 08:46 PM |
| 21 | How to break the touching barrier with a girl without looking like a pervert?Another woman, here, to agree with the handshake thing. It's very annoying to have men shake my hand softly because I'm a woman. When this happens, I'll usually grip harder to make a point, and I don't like to. Shake her hand like another man: firmly, without getting into a pissing match. As far as touching goes, don't forget the important first step: ask. "Can I get a hug?" Is a great way to break the touch barrier, because it shows that you understand and respect boundaries. I'm not a big fan … | /r/seduction | 18/04/22 12:32 PM |
| 1 | Best way to respond if a woman says no when you ask her out?The only response is to be ok with it and move on with your life. | /r/seduction | 18/10/21 12:11 PM |
© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter