ThaddeusJP Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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3	My wife (32F) told me (44M) she wants to separate — 30 hours after the kids and I joined her in Spain I think we can end this cordially. It's basically just custody of the kids, and that will be 50/50 or me taking them some more. You need to talk with a lawyer, especially one that's familiar with International custody situations, because if she remains in Spain there is absolutely no way in hell you're going to have 50/50. One of you is going to be granted 100% custody. Lawyer lawyer lawyer. You're in shock and you're not thinking straight. While this is completely normal future you is screaming…	/r/Divorce_Men	11/07/26 06:21 PM
1	Moved from the U.S. to Australia for my wife’s family. Now she wants a divorce. Do I stay for my son or go home? Is your kid a US citizen and she is not (or she is a US citz?)? You could take him back if hes a us citizen and then its US/AUS fighting it out. And if shes NOT a AUS citizen there is nothing preventing you from going back to the US with your US born son. In any event you need to talk with a lawyer familiar with international custody!! Get educated. Dont leave your kid.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/07/26 02:20 AM
1	Moved from the U.S. to Australia for my wife’s family. Now she wants a divorce. Do I stay for my son or go home? You need to get a lawyer that's familiar with International custody situations. Is your child us citizen? Does your child have Australian citizenship? Does he have dual citizenship?	/r/Divorce_Men	02/07/26 01:41 AM
6	Wife won’t sign the PSA her own attorney presented to me? Her not signing her own lawyers stuff is gonna bite her. The reason is simple: she wanted you to have to fight and be stressed. You giving her what she wanted, and more, the first time totally took the wind out of her sails and she's upset she wasn't able to make her puppet dance. Keep in mind that is her goal here, to make you upset. She knows how to press your buttons and this one failed to activate and now she's salty. Remind the offer and send a draft back offering her nothing. That will be …	/r/Divorce_Men	28/06/26 02:35 PM
5	Hurts way worse than I expected Call 988. Now. Please. It's also a crisis line.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/05/26 01:30 PM
1	How did you value your home? Unless there's something in your decree that prevents her from selling the home, you need to operate under the assumption that the second the signature is dry on the decree she could sell. Get your own appraisal done (they work for you) and something in the decree saying the house can't be sold until your kid is at least 18. Don't let the love for your kid have you doing favors for your ex. Don't think like a spouse or it WILL screw you over.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/05/26 04:52 AM
1	Passports for kids? Mom is Canadian. Yeah, that's the fun part. She can register them as dual citizens. Do NOT let them leave the country even with a custody order in place. Lock down passports: https://travel.state.gov/content/travel/en/International-Parental-Child-Abduction/prevention/passport-issuance-alert-program.html Resource if things go sideways: https://travel.state.gov/content/travel/en/International-Parental-Child-Abduction/prevention/prevention-faqs.html	/r/Divorce_Men	17/07/25 02:52 AM
4	How do you find out if your kids left the country with their Mother? US state Department. Now. Especially if your ex has citizenship abroad. https://travel.state.gov/content/travel/en/International-Parental-Child-Abduction/prevention/passport-issuance-alert-program.html If you have immediate concerns about international parental child abduction and wish to speak to someone, call 1-888-407-4747 and ask to speak to a Prevention Officer.	/r/Divorce_Men	05/07/25 05:14 AM
1	If their mom does this, what would you do? You need to get copies of her FULL paystubs to see what acounts deposits are going into. Good bet there is another account. Pull your bank records as far back as possible. Go onto a branch and ask for a personal banker and that you need as much a history as possible Run a credit report. On her as well if you can.	/r/Divorce_Men	27/06/25 12:11 AM
1	Senate Democrats propose requiring women to register for military draft Earlier this month Federal Student aid removed this requirement, along with a no answer to drug convictions. https://fsapartners.ed.gov/knowledge-center/library/federal-registers/2021-06-17/removal-selective-service-and-drug-conviction-requirements-title-iv-eligibility	/r/PussyPassDenied	21/07/21 12:28 PM
1	Senate Democrats propose requiring women to register for military draft Earlier this month Federal Student aid removed this requirement, along with a no answer to drug convictions. https://fsapartners.ed.gov/knowledge-center/library/federal-registers/2021-06-17/removal-selective-service-and-drug-conviction-requirements-title-iv-eligibility	/r/PussyPassDenied	21/07/21 12:27 PM