Thaeland Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Ladies, when having sex with a guy for the first time, is there an ideal size that you're hoping for when you take off his pants? Well it takes time but it can and is done... At least going larger.....	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/26 06:44 AM
1	Women would not make the decisions they want men to make if they were us LOL!!!!!	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/25 02:04 AM
8	Children need Dads and Fathers. My 47F neighbor is hiring a 29M to come over and attempt to impregnate her on a monthly basis. Am I old fashion or is this crazy? The state doesn't care about any waiver of responsibility between the two of them. The state will come after him immediately if she ever files for benefits and the courts won't won't consider the agreement if she decides she wants him to pay child support......	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/25 05:18 AM
6	Q4M: if women don't respond well to men being vulnerable, why would we push so hard for it? What do we have to gain from lying? Because many women like it in principle, they like the thought of shared vulnerability bringing them closer to their partner, but when they are actually faced with it, they have a visceral 'ick.' This is what I was going to respond with also. The message many men receive is “Please share yourself with me, but don’t share too much or in a way that makes me feel like you’re not a strong confident man.”	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/25 05:31 AM
4	Admitting something I have noticed as a woman myself: Many women take it really personally and get annoyed if an attractive man ends up dating someone below his "league" looks wise. Is it the same for men? While men do talk about how someone looks, just like women do. When it comes to actual relationships. Men tend to look for women who are low maintenance, no drama, and show that they can have compassion for others.....	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/25 04:11 PM
3	Stating that sex and intimacy for men is a need, isn’t a proposal for sexual slavery. This is a common strawman that women propose because it would be ethically uncomfortable to acknowledge this being true. Finally, the correct perspective.....	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/25 05:08 PM
3	Men treat men worse than women do THIS !!!!!!!	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/24 11:50 AM
1	Are the men here mostly on the younger side and single? I just turned 60 and I've been married for 40 years....	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/24 02:43 AM
1	The opposite side of the War Bride dynamic is that men are natural rapists under certain circumstances 76% of women initiate all divorces. You can't blame men for this.....	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/24 04:16 PM
–	In 20 years, will women blame men for allowing their sexual liberation? Never underestimate the ability to blame men for everything........ :(	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/24 07:29 PM
4	In the False Paternity Scenarios We've Been Discussing, What Would Be "Fair" Restorative Justice for the Deceived Partner? We don't know that..... But when you read most stories of paternity fraud the bio father knew more times than not......	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/24 09:37 PM
3	In the False Paternity Scenarios We've Been Discussing, What Would Be "Fair" Restorative Justice for the Deceived Partner? Plus interest and other fines.....	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/24 09:29 PM
5	No fault divorce but with a twist Most issues could all be solved by requiring couples to agree to a prenup before any marriage and enforceable in every state......	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/24 01:36 AM
2	What would you describe as a man repellent outfit, hair or makeup look? Too much cosmetics completely turn me off.....	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/24 09:27 PM
–	Most relationships end because men take advantage of their partner and stop putting in effort. I would say it's the other way around....	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/24 04:46 PM
0	The reasons divorce sucks for men are social, not financial Yes because its generally is assumed that either the husband cheated or he absurd the women and that's why they got divorced. These assumptions are made without even asking first for the reason....	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/24 09:18 PM
6	The reasons divorce sucks for men are social, not financial I completely disagree about it being social and not financial. To me the financial hardship would be the worst part pf all especially with children involved. Some men pay 30%-50% of their income for child support and only get to see their children twice a month. Many have to work multiple jobs just to stay afloat. Some men have even had to pay alimony from divorce until their death.... I call BS... https://mensdivorce.com/suicide-rates-high-divorced-men/	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/24 08:57 PM
-1	Why do women on dating apps ask what men do for work? They are asking what you do so they can estimate your income. They known it would be a turn off to ask your income....	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/24 04:30 PM
1	Do you think women should be able to be sued or convicted of a crime for paternity fraud? That's exactly what men in general are asking for. The argument though has been that men should just trust the woman in what she claims...	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/24 06:04 PM
2	Do you think women should be able to be sued or convicted of a crime for paternity fraud? That's why it's their responsibility to ensure that the potential father knows this and is aware it really may not be his so he can make informed choices...	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/24 03:39 PM
0	Do you think women should be able to be sued or convicted of a crime for paternity fraud? Another good reason to do away with "no fault divorce."	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/24 03:35 PM
2	Do you think women should be able to be sued or convicted of a crime for paternity fraud? What is this "due diligence" supposed to look like? You have a woman promising she's loyal and her friends are backing her up. While the entire time they all knew they were lying. I mean men are dragged online, including here, for not trusting their significant other when being suspicious and trying to do due diligence and then blamed for not doing due diligence when they find out the child they thought was theirs turns out not to be...	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/24 02:38 PM
1	Do you think women should be able to be sued or convicted of a crime for paternity fraud? Because fraud was committed and there needs to be recompense... The only way to get that is through an established law....	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/24 03:32 AM
2	Women: have you ever exploited a man's interest for you own gain? Explain.....	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/23 12:24 AM
3	There’s no reason not to get a paternity test unless there is some n fact doubt That sounds fair to me... It's eventually going to happen anyway with all the ancestry dna kits being sold. Look at all the grown adults who have found out that the person whom they thought was their biological father really wasn't. Then there's also all the half siblings people didn't know they had. If you grew up in a small rural area wouldn't you like to be sure you weren't hooking up with a half sibling? My wife's mother has never told her who her biological father really was but through all…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/23 02:12 AM
1	Anyone else noticed an uptick in women approaching? I wouldn't know. My wife would instantly kill any woman who tried. Maybe she already has and I just don't know about it....	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/23 07:41 PM
4	Its fine if its agreed that the breadwinner doesn't do house chores Most SAHM aren't actually staying home....	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/23 09:41 PM
1	Its fine if its agreed that the breadwinner doesn't do house chores To me it doesn't come down to income since men, in general, make more money than women. It should come down to actual work time and physical effort. If one spouse works 8 hours in the office and the other does 2 hours of house work then that is not even close to being equal when you consider marriage being a partnership. Also consider spouses who work a full day doing heavy physical labor. It won't last if one partner's effort is significantly less than the other. What I have seen are spouses wh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/23 08:21 PM
2	CMV: Personal responsibility seems to go out the window as soon as a man is expected to vet women. If this society has taught us anything it's that even if you trust someone 100% that doesn't mean they won't stab you in the back in a heartbeat. I'm not trying to be cynical just trying to be a realist and all the love and trust in the world hasn't stopped people from cheating on their spouse.....	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/23 12:38 PM
2	CMV: Personal responsibility seems to go out the window as soon as a man is expected to vet women. Apparently the latter ....	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/23 12:23 PM
2	Men who want to be loved for "who they are" and not "what they provide" are not being reasonable Very good reply ...	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/23 09:47 PM
3	Men who want to be loved for "who they are" and not "what they provide" are not being reasonable But your argument would also go with what happens when she finds someone who makes more money and can provide more. Isn't that the same as all your other examples? Men's real argument is that women, generally speaking, never seem to be content with what they currently have and are always looking to upgrade even if what they currently have fills all the boxes. Men, generally speaking, tend to be happy with being stable and having peace in a relationship. They don't really care that their partner …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/23 04:49 PM
–	Am I wrong for not wanting to financially support an unambitious man? This is so funny because if the roles were reversed most of the people here would be attacking the man.....	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/23 02:58 AM
1	Why should men commit? What makes being my wife better than being my GF A lot closer to 80% than 50%.....	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/23 06:25 PM
1	Why should men commit? What makes being my wife better than being my GF Article on study finding where women initiate 70% of divorces and if they are college educated they initiate 90% of them... https://www.eviemagazine.com/post/70-of-divorces-are-initiated-by-women-due-to-various-mismatches-more-story	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/23 05:59 PM
1	Why should men commit? What makes being my wife better than being my GF https://www.google.com/search?q=study+where+women+initiate+80%25+of+divorces&oq=study+where+women+initiate+80%25+of+divorces&gs_lcrp=EgZjaHJvbWUyBggAEEUYOdIBCTE2MTUyajBqNKgCALACAA&client=ms-android-google&sourceid=chrome-mobile&ie=UTF-8	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/23 05:54 PM
-1	Why should men commit? What makes being my wife better than being my GF In today's culture there is no real benefit getting married if you're a man. People still live together and have kids together without getting married first. Somewhere around 80% of women initiate divorce so why would a man get married if he's got an 80% chance of losing half of everything he's earned during the marriage. He would still be responsible for child support whether he was married or not. So that doesn't make a difference. A house bought together would still have to be split but if he…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/23 05:49 PM
2	Casual sex is worse for women and makes them sad and untrustworthy You can't argue that this one discussion means I or "we" don't criticize men...	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/10/23 03:36 AM
4	Casual sex is worse for women and makes them sad and untrustworthy I'm sorry I can't find the logic in that statement. Peace...	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/10/23 03:32 AM
2	Casual sex is worse for women and makes them sad and untrustworthy They already do everything you said so what does it really matter?.....	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/10/23 01:24 AM
–	Asking for Paternity Verification Should Be Done Before Marriage and/or a Baby. Waiting until the woman has worked to earn the man’s trust to have kids. 100% trust does not equate to 100% his child. It absolutely is not the same thing. How many times has a man broken down after finding out his wife was cheating and said "She broke my heart even though I trusted her 100%"? Probably in the millions.... Having kids via artificial insemination, IVF or surrogate so he will 100% know it’s his. Again artificial insemination or IVF doesn't guarantee it's his. The procedure may not …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/23 12:21 AM
1	Why is asking for a paternity test a relationship ender? If you've ever watched an episode of paternity court you will find that women who do cheat and then think they may have gotten pregnant because of unprotected sex will also immediately pressure their partner for sex so they wont be suspicious when they do get pregnant... I think honestly that women, as a group, cannot understand a man's position in this because women will always know that they are the mother but a man can never be 100% certain without a DNA test. The only thing more humiliating …	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/23 03:57 AM
2	What does TRP make of the fact that so many women selflessly take care of their Ill and disabled husbands? Oh wow that sucks....	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/23 02:51 PM
-1	What would you say are the chances of being falsely accused of sexual harassment by a woman? The chances are about 5000%. +/- 10%.....	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/23 01:42 AM
3	Women are becoming more educated and wealthier because they aren't obsessed with sex. I think its probably the least horny men who outcompete actually? Most salaried men with the 6 figures are sexless, because theyre stoic virgins. Show me the study to prove this because I can't find it. Most high earners I've seen are very much the opposite of this ...	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/23 08:04 PM