Thagros Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	Good news, everyone! Turns out that "Alpha" stuff is bullshit.		Thagros	/r/seduction	05/03/12 03:56 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
9	Sorry, but women are dependent on men. Exactly. As much as I would love to agree with some of the sentiments contained within, it's still an unreferenced editorial in the Daily Mail from 2006. Nothing more to see here.	/r/TheRedPill	19/05/14 09:22 AM
2	"Open Letter to Bearded Hipsters" being shared by girls on my Facebook Unsubscribe from the women whose feeds this appeared in. Done.	/r/MensRights	27/04/14 01:09 PM
21	I got a girlfriend, and suddenly everyone wants to bang This is the concept that women can usually only become attracted to a man if they think/see/know that he is selected by other women as a potential mate first. The more you look for this phenomenon in life the more you will see it. Compare to a man's attraction - you see a woman, you think she's hot, you want to fuck her. You don't care what your friends think. If they're all, "Bro, she's not even hot!" your response is, "Says you, fuckwad." and you pursue her. A woman can feel attraction for a m…	/r/TheRedPill	24/04/14 07:39 AM
4	Responding to the "You talk to other girls" shit test? I like to combine Sign of Maturity with Radical Honesty. So when she says, "Well, they were getting along well with you . . . ?": "Of course they were, I'm a very interesting man. And you don't want a man who can't attract other women." [give wry smile, turn, walk over to couch and sit down, turn on TV. She comes over and sits on my lap to block TV to get attention. She initiates sex.] "Good girl."	/r/TheRedPill	22/04/14 12:02 PM
2	The "Sex God Method." Men, read this book. Cheers mate.	/r/TheRedPill	22/04/14 11:10 AM
-1	The "Sex God Method." Men, read this book. And would you be so kind, mate, if he does so? Cheers.	/r/TheRedPill	22/04/14 11:06 AM
155	McAlphaDick pulls my girl so I respond by pulling another one. She comes back like nothing happened. Great fucking work, OP. I find it remarkable that despite everything this subreddit has to teach us, there are still morons commenting that you handled this wrong; that she "disrespected you", that she needs to be punished, or you should have gone with the Latina girl. I suspect that these are the Iron John anachronistic twats. The ones who mistake keeping a woman on a short, authoritarian leash, with masculine power. What could be more powerful than demonstrating to a woman that you have option…	/r/TheRedPill	02/04/14 05:16 AM
6	[Update] Wife demanded open marriage to ride the cock carousel; OP provides an update Could you please summarise more Red Pill posts. I'm fucking serious. There's gold here but most of the time I have to sift through a lot to find it.	/r/TheRedPill	07/11/13 10:25 AM
1	Can I be a Feminist and an MRA? Oh she totally nailed it.	/r/MensRights	05/11/13 01:56 PM
2	Can I be a Feminist and an MRA? I'd love to respond with something cogent and incisive but instead I have to say AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA!!!! GIRLWRITESWHATYOU'REAMAZINGANDILOVEYOURCHANNELANDYOURVIDEODSANDTHEDISCUSSIONVIDEOSI'VESEENWITHYOUINTHEMYOU'REFREAKINAWESOME!!!!!! [ahem] that said, you've just given me an interesting new lens to view the gender behaviour dynamic through. Cheers!	/r/MensRights	04/11/13 02:27 PM
3	Can I be a Feminist and an MRA? This is a very interesting discussion you two are having. To interject - you said you haven't seen any evidence that femininity is considered weak or how it is considered worse than the masculine. There are innumerable articles on the net like this one advising women to be more masculine in order to succeed in business. Now, I'm actually in agreement with what you've said above, so please don't respond to me critiquing this article as if I support it's message. Please don't respond debating the …	/r/MensRights	04/11/13 09:53 AM
3	The White God is Dead: Caucasians still need game in Japan I have more sexual success in Japan than my own country as a white guy. My game yields more results here. "YEAH, but you still have to have GAME." Yes, and? I'm doing well. Better than I was before. Which is exactly what I wanted. Thanks very much. Ahhhhh the White God with Game lives!! Ah Ah Ahhhhhhh.	/r/TheRedPill	23/10/13 01:51 PM
5	Cyanide & Happiness takes on sexism against men I dunno, man. You say one "was a compliment". Well it is, and it isn't. It occupies the same domain as another sexist concept - to "man up". It is perfectly acceptable to tell a man to "man up". The inference - based on his gender a male should be able to: - Suppress negative emotions and emotional outbursts. - Strive towards a goal without venting/complaining. - Apply more androgenic attributes such as physical strength, aggression, and competitiveness, in order to solve a problem. The "man up"…	/r/MensRights	12/09/13 06:21 AM
1	Male feminist falsely accused of rape, almost beaten by white knights because of it, still says false rape accusations aren't a problem and are very rare You reminded me to watch this bit and forget about the twat who wrote the article.	/r/MensRights	27/08/13 07:11 AM
32	The pinky promise (as kino) Please tell me you flip them off full force beforehand. "This situation calls . . . . [raise middle finger in woman's face, maintain eye contact] . . . for a very special middle finger promise"	/r/seduction	28/06/13 04:05 PM
30	"All your life you are told by others what it means to be a real man..." -Paul Elam If there's one group that needs to hear this more specifically than men in general it's /r/seduction or guys interested in pick-up in general. It's a group I enjoy participating in BUT: A terrifying proportion of them are evangelists to an erroneous and vague notion of 'Alpha'/'Real Man'/'Tribal Leader'/'Warrior'. The problem is that every single person brings their version of what this means to the table. They won't admit that they've inherited the components of their definition from various un…	/r/MensRights	22/05/13 07:18 AM
16	"Practice" Girls - Good Practice or Bad Habit? I had a 'practice' experience recently and it was beneficial for these reasons: I've historically been that guy who falls into relationships. I'm working on one-night stand game. It felt fantastic to know I could make that happen. A real stepping stone. It was something I couldn't do 2 years ago. She had a great fucking time too. I was clear with her from the get-go what my intentions were and she was fine with that. IMO people ITT are incorrectly telling you not to have practice experiences but…	/r/seduction	12/05/13 12:13 AM
0	A Deeper Look Into Body Language Mehh, just stand up straight, move a little slower, use effective eye contact, smile charmingly, and don't hold your arms like this. Then you're fine.	/r/seduction	11/05/13 11:25 PM
15	Little Victories for a Beginner Exactly. This was an important milestone victory. There's an alternate universe where this guy didn't disarm the AMOG and instead sheepishly mumbled, "Yeah whatever" and the girl looked awkwardly at him for a sec and then took off.	/r/seduction	25/03/13 05:45 PM
1	8 Misconceptions of the "Alpha Male" Check out the bottom of the page for butt-hurt evangelist-alpha-bros.	/r/seduction	16/03/13 09:57 AM
1	8 Misconceptions of the "Alpha Male" There's a distinction that needs to be made here: The article was talking about the hypocrisy of saying you shouldn't need external validation and yet clearly basing one's own value on getting laid. And then calling yourself, 'alpha'. It did not say, though, that all guys who get laid a lot are like this, and have no value to a seduction community.	/r/seduction	16/03/13 09:44 AM
3	Keys to (winning) at the game. "A Ha" realizations. YES!! That is really an "A-ha!". When you realise, "Wow, if I go out and approach 50 women and they all shut me down" (which is not likely but anyway) "I will be 50 experiences less-afraid of rejection"	/r/seduction	27/02/13 08:43 AM
43	Keys to (winning) at the game. "A Ha" realizations. You don't have to be comedian funny. You just have to be 'makes girls laugh' funny. This one was big for me when I realised that my friends and I make a lot of intelligent/obscure/bizarre/nerdy (whatever you want to call it) jokes. Hilarious to us. Hilarious to our female friends. But it was not great for creating attraction. I was so sick of seeing (what I incorrectly perceived as) idiots making girls laugh with their humour I decided to throw some of what they did in to my game. Fucking hell -…	/r/seduction	26/02/13 07:17 PM
2	Does anyone else feel like some of the better known PUAs are a little bit full of shit? The advice on RSD is fucking gold, mate, the stuff I've read/watched so far. :)	/r/seduction	27/01/13 01:52 AM
29	Does anyone else feel like some of the better known PUAs are a little bit full of shit? I think any of the more thoughtful readers on this subreddit will have experienced this problem at some point. I think this is mainly due to: 1) Most PUA speakers assert their opinions and experiences as facts, with an inordinate amount of confidence. If you work in a scientific background you know the problems of just stating opinions that have not been empirically demonstrated as facts. These guys assert everything they say, with almost no room for, "Well it could be this way it could be that …	/r/seduction	25/01/13 08:27 AM
7	Nanny jailed for crying rape after one-night stand You're right - but think of it like whiplash. 10-20 years ago you could say you had whiplash from a car accident and no one would question that. You just go to your doctor, say it hurts when he/she moves your neck and boom, you've got a diagnosis and any associated support you seek. Now however, because people started going, "hmmmm, there's alot of people saying they've got whiplash these days, more than before in fact" they did the detective work and realised many claims are fraudulent or vultu…	/r/MensRights	22/11/12 12:37 AM
4	5 Ways to Instantly Appear More Confident Ah, I'm glad you've brought this up because I'd be interested in some brainstorming on this. Since I started being conscious of the eye-contact issue in relation to attraction I've observed that it upsets the energy of normal conversation if you maintain eye contact too heavily. I know, stating the obvious. However, I've also noticed that with attractive women, attractive/'alpha' men, superiors at work or in other social scenarios if I go into an exchange thinking, "I'm going to maintain warm, f…	/r/seduction	11/11/12 09:22 PM
9	5 Ways to Instantly Appear More Confident Stick with it, dude. I completely endorse with what Greenlava said above. Furthermore it really fucking annoys me when people pull the, "You either got or you ain't"-shit. Y'know who pulls that out? People who are threatened by the idea that practically any skill can be started with no previous experience, learned and improved upon, and eventually mastered. They like to think, "No, there's something inherently awesome about me that means I'm good at . . ." whatever.	/r/seduction	11/11/12 09:00 PM
1	Why is self-confidence more of a turn-on to women than it is to men? Thank you for your contribution. Wish we had more like you. When you ask about men wanting to 'play a bunch of women' and that being messed up I think this shows a significant deficit in your understanding of a man's psyche (that's not a criticism; if this subreddit is indicative of anything it is that most men struggle to understand the female perspective). Just as the OP wants to understand a woman's psychology of attraction towards confident men, I entreat you to try to place yourself in the …	/r/seduction	14/10/12 10:07 PM
2	[FR]Abso-fucking-lutely NOTHING! Newbees - you should read this. Splendid report. Saved to remind me that there is no failing if you try.	/r/seduction	14/10/12 09:38 PM
7	I don't drink alcohol. How can I still fit in at bars and parties without being seen drinking? Are you Joe Rogan?	/r/seduction	14/10/12 09:30 PM
5	How to force myself to escalate I agree. This is such an important thing for me to do as well. When I'm meeting new women, particularly in a more 'sterile' environment (work/university) I try to sexualise the conversation at some point early on. For me it's about communicating, "Look, I am not some twerp who finds sex, conversations about sex, or anything about physical intimacy intimidating. These things are fun for me." I think this is important so you don't get lumped in the pile of real life Beavis' and Buttheads (as much …	/r/seduction	14/10/12 09:26 PM
12	Field tested opener that's been working great for me! Actually most of the transformation stories you ever read describe today's PUA's as most definitely NOT 'alpha' types initially - who then go on to 'fake it til you make it'.	/r/seduction	14/10/12 09:15 PM
9	Field tested opener that's been working great for me! Could not agree more, mate. Distilling everything down to "duhhhhhh, that's alpha/beta" only adds an evangelical element to discussions on attraction and self-improvement.	/r/seduction	14/10/12 09:13 PM
0	Stop seeking her approval, and you will notice a drastic change in how women will relate to you. if you think about it, our ancestors, at some level, are all alphas. Ok. Ok, I've thought about it. The thing is I've spent time on many obstetric wards around the world. When you do that you realise that every wingnut and dumbfuck on the planet can drop a litter of mewling cabbages. And that goes on for generations, centuries, millenia. This is not just true of humans, this applies to all other animal species. There is no reason to assume this differed in prehistoric times. Given that those fro…	/r/seduction	27/08/12 11:45 AM
1	Stop seeking her approval, and you will notice a drastic change in how women will relate to you. Dude, what are you doing?! You're gonna burst a lot of alpha-bubbles with that kind of talk.	/r/seduction	27/08/12 11:32 AM
1	The answer to 80% of the questions asked here Tentpole.	/r/seduction	30/07/12 06:46 PM
2	Good news, everyone! Turns out that "Alpha" stuff is bullshit. Hey man, finally got round to reading the link you posted. Thanks a million, seriously. Couldn't agree more.	/r/seduction	30/07/12 06:44 PM
2	I'm ugly as fuck. It's a huge mental block. I can't just "accept" it, and it's crippling my life. How do I proceed? I wasn't making an argument for passivity. I was critiquing the apparent disregard for the complexity of challenges facing some people in this area. For me personally if I want to go to the gym, talk to a girl, be outgoing and social, take on a new challenge I'm at a place in my psychological development where that decision is easier. But the OP is not. And a lot of guys have a ways to go. So you're right - it is for us, it isn't for him. But he can get to where we are with commitment and dedica…	/r/seduction	07/07/12 02:07 PM
2	I'm ugly as fuck. It's a huge mental block. I can't just "accept" it, and it's crippling my life. How do I proceed? Yes, YES!! Sean is a fucking legend and most of my negative beliefs do lie in shards on the floor because of him. OP - this is worth investing your time in. I also recommend the David DeAngelo lectures when Sean speaks if you need something audio.	/r/seduction	07/07/12 11:32 AM
10	I'm ugly as fuck. It's a huge mental block. I can't just "accept" it, and it's crippling my life. How do I proceed? Exactly. Oh you're depressed? Cheer up for fucks sake! Oh you're an alcoholic? Just stop drinking! Oh you're anxious? Relaaaaaax, guy! Smoke some weed! It's not that fucking simple for some of us. If it was he wouldn't have posted.	/r/seduction	07/07/12 11:27 AM
10	I'm ugly as fuck. It's a huge mental block. I can't just "accept" it, and it's crippling my life. How do I proceed? To the OP - listen to this fucking guy if you can. He's right on the money in several places. BUT you may be in a place where you can hear what he's saying but it doesn't feel like it could apply to you. Mate, I've been there. I would hear what chaps like Psyocal would be saying but I would make exceptions for how I could not be like this. I recommend doing mental exercises that allow you to get your foot in the door on yourself, like imagining what it would be like to feel this way, or making i…	/r/seduction	07/07/12 11:19 AM
0	Are white knights overwhelming Seddit? That's a good approach. Nice one. Upvoted.	/r/seduction	05/07/12 11:32 AM
11	HOW TO ATTRACT WOMEN: 4 Effective Ways to Turn On a Woman But . . . he's the only one, right? Nobody else would assertively state an opinion about seduction as if it was fact?	/r/seduction	04/07/12 11:39 PM
3	Are white knights overwhelming Seddit? Let me ask you an important question - why are you not answering his question? (I totally get the point you're trying to make but he won't, so don't get all Socratic, it's rather pretentious in these circumstances)	/r/seduction	04/07/12 12:32 AM
1	Shut Up and Kiss her Hey man, good for you. From what I understand from pick-up psychology, having your values in line (like refusing to jeopardise someone's relationship if you've decided that's not for you) is key to success. Sounds like you've got that area sewn up.	/r/seduction	23/06/12 06:14 PM
7	Shut Up and Kiss her Hahaha! I never noticed the guy's got his fucking arm locked around her face so she can't turn away. That. Is. Brilliant!	/r/seduction	23/06/12 11:24 AM
5	Shut Up and Kiss her Absolutely. Needfakeusername, seriously you get no respect from me if you fuck around when you know someone has a boyfriend. I know, I know, you don't give a fuck about respect from me. Just focus on this - Adez23 is right, nothing good would have come from it. Appreciate you sharing.	/r/seduction	23/06/12 11:21 AM
-1	Advice from a 40-year-old Vietnamese-American natural: One of the most attractive attributes anyone can have. Mehhh.	/r/seduction	02/05/12 11:01 PM
1	Good news, everyone! Turns out that "Alpha" stuff is bullshit. Ok, maybe not bullshit. Just saying in my years of studying seduction materials I've noticed the term "Alpha" is thrown around recklessly to suit the purpose of the person making a point. More specifically, I note it's frequently used to describe and by proxy justify being an overbearing twat; with an implicated, 'self-evident' logic connection that states "This overbearing behaviour is Alpha, females mate with Alpha males, therefore overbearing behaviour is attractive". As the article points ou…	/r/seduction	05/03/12 03:57 PM
7	Rule #1 For Attracting Beautiful Women Yes, exactly, yes. I know plenty of self-loathing, negative people who can attract women consistently. And NO, not damaged women with personality disorders. I'm new to Seddit so i don't know if this is raised all the time - what is with PUA's (are they even called that anymore?) who have to assert everything they say? That is, they imply a ridiculous degree of self-evidence about the points they are making. They're as bad as zealous communists and libertarians stating, "If everyone just did it m…	/r/seduction	22/02/12 01:28 AM