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| 2 | Just wanted to say thank you and an updateThat truly sucks man. There's been so many times I felt like giving up. The ex is playing the long game, hoping to win a war of attrition with the kid. I've managed to press on while fighting on other fronts, such as the financial wreckage post divorce, fighting loneliness from the shitty dating scene I experience (not all guys have this problem, some meet a great woman post divorce but I've met only women that are too transactional for my taste), and fighting to be the best version of myself si… | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/01/26 03:21 AM |
| 1 | Question for divorced men. Why do some of you see an fwb instead of a prostitute for sex and vice versa why do some of you see a prostitute instead of a fwb?It starts out as regular dates. Dinner, movie, bar, etc., if we have sex of course it's consensual. The times I say no it's because the ask is ridiculous (I said no to one woman because she asked for $500, which I had but that was ridiculous) and we just never had sex again but still text as friends. It wasn't the first time it happened with a woman either, but I have got out of the dog house later on by doing something nice like giving a few hundred for a special occasion like birthdays, Christ… | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/12/25 09:46 PM |
| 3 | Question for divorced men. Why do some of you see an fwb instead of a prostitute for sex and vice versa why do some of you see a prostitute instead of a fwb?Not always. If they are star fishing it then I won't come back. There are women out there that actually like sex, and there are some that fake it to make me comfortable. Which is fine. And I'm not a male model but I'm also not ugly. You can try to please her if you like, ask her what position she prefers, if she like cunnilgus, etc. I don't eat out sex workers but some guys do because it makes them have the "girlfriend experience". By the way, I have had sex with a lot of regular girls who don't… | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/12/25 04:34 PM |
| 5 | Question for divorced men. Why do some of you see an fwb instead of a prostitute for sex and vice versa why do some of you see a prostitute instead of a fwb?I see Sex workers on a semi regular basis because I want sex when I want it, how I want it. And if you got the cash, you can get it that way. Sometimes I want a model thin petite frame to toss around, other times I want a voluptuous, tall, curvy (not fat) woman crushing my pelvis getting death'd by Snu Snu. I went sexual exploration with different body types to figure out what I like best and I realized variety is the spice of life | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/12/25 08:20 AM |
| 3 | How to reduce alimonyThis is exactly why I was deathly afraid of trial. my situation was a little different because of recent law changes eliminating permanent Alimony but I didn't want to leave it up to a judge. They're human, affected by past experiences, emotions, and even what side of the bed they woke up on for your day in court. It's also a tough task to reverse a court's decision. Guys, don't try to win in mediation. Take the deal even if it's slightly irritating. No one is happy with a good compromise. I'm n… | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/02/25 08:48 PM |
| 3 | Who all is spending Valentine’s Day alone?Refused to sit at home alone for V day. And Christmas. And New year's. And every other family/partner themes holiday. So I went to work at my 2nd job at night. I haven't found a good way to cope yet so I've gotten into the really bad habit of going to work at 2nd and 3rd jobs when I don't want to be alone on days like these | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/02/25 04:49 AM |
| 2 | I'm in a weird space. Didn't want to date post divorce. Now 1.5 years later can't stop trying for relationships.I'm starting to lean this way. Going out trying to get laid on a dry spell leads to desperation and that turns women off. I'm not into p*rn due to the research showing it's a net negative in so many ways. And like other posters said the dating pool past 30 is trash, at least where I'm at. Probably the reason why I got in the phase I'm in. I saw myself becoming the best version of me and my dating prospects really didn't improve to the level I thought it would do I started to take my foot off the… | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/02/25 08:50 AM |
| 1 | I'm in a weird space. Didn't want to date post divorce. Now 1.5 years later can't stop trying for relationships.I recognize there's still room for improvement. I also realize that I'm not gonna lock down a model anytime soon, but that's not my goal anyway. I want the best dating partner I can get, for my league anyway. My problem is I know I'm not where I want or need to be. And while I had some success bettering myself, I'm a risk of getting complacent and I'm asking guy that kept evolving but stopped because being lonely kinda sucks, what happened? Did you find a way to refocus? Just said "I've done eno… | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/02/25 08:37 AM |
| 0 | Seduction/PUA is on the rise again...will this sub go down the rabbit hole?Another strawman argument... TRP evolved out of the Manosphere first concerning 'divorce rape'. Maybe the misguided former incels (who have no credentials to offer credible advice on how to get women besides anecdotal evidence BTW) on this sub decided to add a little 'game' to it. In this own sub, the "Required Theory Reading" says nothing about game but focuses on the nature of women and the reason for their programmed interactions with women. Game had no origin in the beginnings of TRP. The fa… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/14 03:52 PM |
| 1 | Study shows that higher number of sexual partners equals higher chance of divorce. Least likely to divorce? Virgin brides. (Article in comments)I wish I could a provide a link to the research, but one of the main studies on premartial sex stated that if the bride had less than 5 sexual partners before the marriage, the chances of divorce decrease dramatically. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/14 12:58 AM |
| 6 | Documentary: African american men are pissed off by women in america, travel to Brazil and have a fantastic time. Black women in the US ban their husbands from even talking to them.This is true. Black men are in odd situation as far as traveling abroad goes. Racism is very much prevalent in all countries, in spite of having the benefit of the doubt of being American (and most of the time, the finances to along with it) | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/14 12:21 AM |
| 0 | RP rap lyricsMoney, Power, Respect http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YAOgWDLo--w | /r/TheRedPill | 18/01/14 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Women who sleep around at university are 'more likely to become depressed'I meant 5 dicks combined in all orifices. Had to clear that up | /r/TheRedPill | 16/01/14 11:44 AM |
| 2 | Women who sleep around at university are 'more likely to become depressed'If any of you are hell bent on finding a unicorn, she better have as few sexual partners as possible If she exceeds 5 dicks in any orifice, then she's not a unicorn and you should move along | /r/TheRedPill | 16/01/14 02:19 AM |
| 1 | Woman decides that she wants to ride the cock carousel before she hits the wall and ask her BF for an open relationship. BF responds like a boss.that guy is alpha as fuck | /r/TheRedPill | 10/11/13 01:17 AM |
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