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| 0 | I’m just very supper worried about everything. My wife wants a divorce and she wants 45k lets me have the house. It’s paid off with my money of course. The value is at 220k . I have 3 major accounts with lots of money in it. I have listed them. The agreement has been written by UN uncontested lawyerShe wants to be by herself and live for herself. In 99.9% cases it means she's found someone else to live with. Women are not biologically designed to live on their own. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/02/23 10:55 AM |
| 3 | Is it just me... or is the system designed solely for profit and inequality usually at the fathers expense?!remarried 2 years ago Stopped reading after this. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/02/23 10:33 AM |
| 0 | Tell me she is going to destroy her new relationship.Please tell me she will destroy this relationship Let it go. She's someone else's problem now. Time to think about yourself. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/02/23 09:51 PM |
| 9 | Punished for Service, Providing, and being MaleYou need a new attorney. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/02/23 09:46 PM |
| 5 | Wife probably planning an affair this weekendHate to say it but these meetings have been happening for a long while most likely and your marriage is over. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/02/23 07:27 PM |
| 0 | My wife wants a divorceShe clearly saying that she will not accept anything Women live in the moment, she can change her mind completely in 5mins and rationalize it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/01/23 05:20 PM |
| 17 | Ready for divorce, need help understanding my wife. Please advise. Don't hold back.Why are some women like this? Because they can and get away with this. Because some men are not enforcing boundaries and are walking ATMs. Why work, cook and clean if you do it all? Even though my body is broken, and my health is deteriorating, I continue to carry the family, yet she's not motivated to help me build a future. When she is sick it's your problem. When you're sick it's your problem as well. That's a crappy deal. If you're not putting yourself first nobody will. She just wants to re… | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/01/23 09:34 PM |
| 7 | Down and StressedI didn’t know how to take that completely random message. I know it’s most likely a random “oh look, he he ha ha, we were just kids” situation; It wasn't a random message, the whole point behind it was to shatter you emotionally and turn you into a simp. It was a trap and shit test. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/01/23 12:26 PM |
| 5 | Wife changing her mindAnd you believed that? Wake up, they are playing you like a fiddle. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/01/23 02:07 PM |
| 6 | Wife changing her mindOnce she realized this, she said that she’d be open to work on things if I am willing but that it is up to me as I’d need to be able to forgive her to move forward (we’d need therapy and more). Once a woman cheats on a man all respect for him in her life is gone forever. For the love of God, do not negotiate with a terrorist, kick her in the ass out of your life and get a hotter, younger girlfriend. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/01/23 01:59 PM |
| 2 | New girl wants me to meet her in Las Vegasshe seems very conservative. I am a gentleman and I’m not expecting to see her and have anything physical happen. That’s at least not my intention. You're shooting yourself in the foot with this mindset. Try with this: She's a slut and wants to have kinky sex. You want it too. Why not to go there and escalate? Also it's good to have a back up plan if nothing happens so you won't find yourself in a "what am I doing here" situation. Otherwise it's just a waste of time and money. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/01/23 06:00 PM |
| 10 | I'm in the anger stage of grief, and it has opened my eyes to the truth of marriage.You'll never know until you test. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/01/23 09:31 PM |
| 27 | I'm in the anger stage of grief, and it has opened my eyes to the truth of marriage.Abandoned me and our two toddlers I would DNA test them just in case. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/01/23 07:36 PM |
| 1 | Wife always working but rarely earning moneyHow do I get compensation for all the support given her That's the neat part. You don't. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/01/23 12:38 PM |
| 7 | Joke: no sex tonight"I don't feel like it, I just want you to hold me." Sounds like a shit test. I said "WHAT??!! What was that?!" You failed it by taking it seriously. I'd just laugh it off and escalate. Or just go to sleep unmoved. Reacting to this kind of bs decreases your value in her eyes. "You're just not in touch with my emotional needs as a woman enough for me to satisfy your physical needs as a man." She responded to my puzzled look by saying, "Can't you just love me for who I am and not what I do for you … | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/01/23 11:38 PM |
| 19 | Men, Marriage and Michelle Obamasaid "there were 10 years where I couldn't stand my husband." (Easily Googleable; it's everywhere). TEN YEARS. It's called the light switch effect. Women operate on emotions not on logic. What I see here is just a rationalisation. It only matters how she feels in this particular moment. If you don't 'make her happy' for a while suddenly she can't stand you for 10 years when the truth is she was alright days before. That's why you should look at what she does not what she says. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/12/22 10:42 PM |
| 3 | Post-divorce relationship success storiesThe Rational Male blog (best of year 1) is a good eye opening starting point. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/12/22 08:05 PM |
| 1 | she's finally moving out and...It's a trap! | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/12/22 11:03 AM |
| 5 | ConfusedThis. Women operate on emotions not on logic. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/12/22 07:04 PM |
| 4 | There’s always someone elseI feel like a man Facts don't care about your feelings. This is just trolling. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/12/22 10:46 PM |
| 1 | Early Christmas PresentMerry Christmas to you King! | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/12/22 06:56 PM |
| 26 | We live in a clown world....You deserve what you tolerate. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/12/22 12:32 PM |
| 4 | She just does not know how to be happyThe only counter to this bullshit is putting yourself first. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/12/22 02:57 PM |
| 0 | My marriage was over long before I knew itThey bitch with beta and please the alpha. If relationship is a hard work you're doing sth terribly wrong. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/12/22 07:51 PM |
| 4 | My wife who brings in 5% of the Income is my bossshe makes me walk You're seriously lucky she makes you walk not run. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/12/22 10:08 PM |
| 2 | My wife had an affair, blames me, wants divorce w/ no reconciliation. I’m shatteredor ugly Someone needs to tell this... You had it coming for a long time and ignored all the red flags. Doubled down with needy beta ATM behaviour. You have no boundaries and reward your wife's terrible behaviour. You've been most likely cheated for a long time yet you want to "save your marriage". She's disgusted that you haven't left her yet and put up with her ever increasing shitting on you. You pretty much deserved it. Apologies for the tone, but you need to wake up. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/12/22 02:27 PM |
| 13 | Looking at divorce after 25 years of marriageThis is the way. Treat all guns like they're loaded to avoid a nasty surprise. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/12/22 02:03 PM |
| 15 | Or you can choose NOT to appreciate your partner and end up alone or miserable, as your bitter freaking out would suggest.This cartoon is a male Disney fantasy. Completely delusional. Sth like an obese woman claiming that guys should date her. The world doesn't care about your feelings, doh. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 17/12/22 08:25 PM |
| 2 | Advice for 24year old going on 25 please!!Second this. Reported OP for breaking the sub rules. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/12/22 06:30 PM |
| 16 | LTR admits to lies and secretsSelf defence mechanism. You pushed forward for a full disclosure and received more lies. The truth is most likely they had a fantastic hours long sex and now she lies to you bc now "you make her feel bad about it asking". Isn't it better to assume she had sex with the guy in the first place and not try to get the details? It was before you got together, women have sex, look what she does not what she says. I see no biggie here. This is a red flag. Again she can say whatever, you look at what she… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/12/22 12:30 PM |
| 1 | Some of this is gonna be bullshit depending on what you want out of lifeif you follow EVERYTHING word for word, (which i did for a couple years) i feel like it makes you lose yourself. Maybe you confused red pill with PUA? | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/22 02:44 PM |
| 2 | Anyone’s ex wife not like giving blowjobs?She just doesn’t like giving blowjobs. To you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/12/22 07:05 PM |
| 2 | It’s OverShe has started and intends to continue a relationship with a man that is married (but will allegedly leave his wife) and has 2 kids under 10 and potentially a pregnant wife and literally does not care about what she is doing to them (or me). Hypergamy doesn't care. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/12/22 11:53 AM |
| 1 | Starting To Think About It. Tell Me Why I Shouldn't.I've given up everything You fd up totally by not putting yourself first. And you definitely should. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/12/22 03:32 AM |
| 1 | GaslightingSeems like she checked out of the marriage a long time ago and is just using you for money. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/12/22 03:15 AM |
| 3 | I can't shake the feeling that my marriage is entirely conditionalHere is my upvote. Matter of fact, there's no such thing as love. I'd argue that love is more of an umbrella term and there are lots of different 'loves'. That's why there is so much confusion about it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/12/22 11:10 PM |
| 1 | I can't shake the feeling that my marriage is entirely conditionalOP has some serious emotional issues. In the beginning was pedestalising his wife, then now is hating her for being a woman and is extremely insecure. Not surprised she suddenly wants to see other cocks on the beach. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/12/22 10:58 PM |
| 5 | I can't shake the feeling that my marriage is entirely conditionalHe started judging his wife from his (beta) male projection perspective. She is not a (beta) male. Men and women are different and he's missing that massively. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/12/22 10:37 PM |
| 1 | I can't shake the feeling that my marriage is entirely conditionalAh, the old blue pill cognitive dissonance. It's actually a good sign. Lots to learn and more importantly unlearn here. Please do yourself a favour and read the rational male blog for basics - all the posts 'the best of year one'. If you take the red pill you won't need to ask all these strange questions. If don't, well... you will still wake up in your Disney world in which love has a single definition. All the best to you! | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/12/22 10:32 PM |
| 6 | Why her body count mattersLaw 20: Do not commit to anyone. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/12/22 09:54 PM |
| 20 | If you agree with Briffault's law, you should file for legal separation soon after marriage and a parenting plan when she is pregnantEasier not to marry at all. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/11/22 11:02 PM |
| 2 | My best friend is a male stripper, I watched TRP play out in real life this weekend.I hear what you say, if you are seriously obese you'll need to lose weight first true that. However if you're just a chubby beginner bulking first will save you time because if you've never lifted before you can lose fat AND gain muscle mass at the same time for a while. This works only if you're a true beginner or on roids. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/11/22 10:32 PM |
| 8 | My best friend is a male stripper, I watched TRP play out in real life this weekend.First you bulk eating like an animal focusing on building muscle with heavy lifting. Then you cut the fat, focusing on counting calories to not go beyond your calorie allowance while lifting to retain the muscle mass you previously built. There is plenty of programs, start a beginner barbel one, :starting strength, stronglifts 5x5, gzcpl, ice cream fitness, ppl, damn you can even try a bodyweight program. When you're a beginner everything works for 3-6 months if you are consistent (min 3xweek). | /r/TheRedPill | 28/11/22 09:44 PM |
| 1 | Talk this through with me-This is outright scary stuff. Take children and run tf away before she stabs you in adrunken rage. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/11/22 10:42 AM |
| 1 | It’s my birthday.HB Man! Hint: it's not the dirty toilet that is a problem here. If she doesn't respect you and you allow it it's over man. All the best. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/11/22 10:39 AM |
| -1 | Masculine provider vs beta providerBeing provider is a beta trait. What you meant by "masculine provider" was actually a more alpha than beta man with money situation sorted out. Beta provider is focusing almost solely on providing as his sexual strategy. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/11/22 10:31 AM |
| 28 | The breakup gambitIron Rule of Tomassi #7 "It is always time and effort better spent developing new, fresh, prospective women than it will ever be in attempting to reconstruct a failed relationship. Never root through the trash once the garbage has been dragged to the curb. You get messy, your neighbors see you do it, and what you thought was worth digging for is never as valuable as you thought it was." | /r/TheRedPill | 09/11/22 08:25 PM |
| 1 | I (19M) don't understand if she (21F) is interested or notBeing unsure about a woman's intentions doesn't make you beta. It proves you are thinking about both sides. No Sir. Women give mixed signals when they see you as a provider to keep you in their orbit. If you're alpha enough they won't be playing games with you. Stop throwing out "Beta" like it's some catchword you're parroting. This guy clearly doesn't know about women's dual mating strategy. He is overtly displaying beta behaviour to win the girl over. I'm pointing when he is doing it. Saying "… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/11/22 07:01 PM |
| -1 | I (19M) don't understand if she (21F) is interested or notI don't understand if she is interested or not If she were interested you'd know. Not being sure is beta territory. and i'd say we are pretty good friends. Beta. but I often helped her Beta. so i also started liking all of her stories. Beta. After that i asked her if she arrived safe at home Beta. for a date at a local restaurant famous for his burgers Did you smell that? It's not burgers, it's beta all over the place. Edit: Please if you have another date escalate before it's too late. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/22 08:00 PM |
| 3 | My STBX wife blames me for everything but wants me to keep "trying" to fix the marriage.For some reason 4 years ago, she started to treat me really bad out of the blue Possibly there was someone else on the horizon. Reddit, what do you think? From what you wrote she seems like a horrible person. Don't mind her bullshit rationalisations, she's just shifting the blame on you to feel better. Great that she filed, you'll be a happier person without her. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/10/22 09:19 PM |
| 1 | told me she wants to be with other people a year ago, and now is divorcing me and blaming it on my attitude.Dude, do yourself a favour and DNA test the kids. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/10/22 09:14 AM |
| 1 | told me she wants to be with other people a year ago, and now is divorcing me and blaming it on my attitude.She checked out of that marriage a long time ago. He doubled down on a displaying low value to 'save it' and got cucked like there was no tomorrow. This is textbook red pill. I can bet after a few years he finds another special woman and the story will repeat itself. Then the surprise: 'But I did everything to make her happy!'. The truth is if you are a beta you don't even deserve a card, only disgust. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/10/22 09:13 AM |
| 4 | The Wisdom Of GayLubeOil Put My Penis Inside 5 LatinasYou didn't learn or implement anything new as in mastering game. You moved and started slaying a few days after arriving implementing the same game you had in US. 2. What I learned is that you don’t have to fight against western structures built to hinder your search to find a woman. You can simply leave You've basically learnt how to decrease the game difficulty level, not mastered the game. Again, it's not good or bad, if it gets the job done why not. I'm discussing the fact you're calling it … | /r/TheRedPill | 13/10/22 11:16 AM |
| 6 | The Wisdom Of GayLubeOil Put My Penis Inside 5 LatinasHe's got a point. You didn't learn or implement anything new. You just moved places. You're still the same guy who got rejected in US. Sexual arbitrage does not equal sexual strategy. However I wouldn't say it's a beta move either. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/10/22 07:00 PM |
| 10 | I know what I'm doing right, what am I doing wrong tho?Then she was like "yeah back when you told me that you are not into me anymore, thats when I was into you". Look at what they do, not what they say. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/10/22 02:50 PM |
| 7 | A noob mistake: leaving the self-improvement journey after getting the first high-value womanshe started to fall for me and she doesn’t want that right now. I was like ok That was a shit test. So far you were doing good... but I am falling for you too and that is fine. ...and you failed it here. two days later she dropped the bomb on me saying she doesn't want to fall in love now and she wants to focus on her study and career since she moved here to do these. That was another, bigger shit test. The best response in the world: 'OK' with a stone cold face and soft next. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/22 05:54 PM |
| 68 | Sex is different than I thought it would beFrom an evolutionary standpoint when a woman finds alpha male she wants to get impregnated. One sex act is usually not enough. That's why you'll get sex marathons as an alpha. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/10/22 02:24 PM |
| 1 | Wife makes plans without meI welcomed her and her 4 daughters into my home. I pay for everything: rent, utilities, food, extra miscellaneous stuff. Unfortunately I don't make so much money to afford luxuries but sometimes I feel like my wife resents me for that. No surprise here. You're a beta provider and a cuck. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/09/22 08:53 PM |
| 7 | The philosophical importance of martial arts and meditation. Achieve more than you could previously handle in a short amount of time utilizing practical philosophies, beat fear, be a beast of confidence.Thank you. Bruce Lee was an actor. He was an athletic martial ARTIST and a movie star but not a fighter. Also in real life size matters a lot. Edit: For fighting choose combat sports over martial arts as they are more down to earth and contain less additional bullshit. Live full contact sparring is a king if you don't have it your club/dojo is a joke (aikido, kata etc.). | /r/TheRedPill | 28/09/22 07:25 PM |
| 2 | Anxiety surfaces 9 years post separationYour anxiety, mate guarding, and being scared of the guy will only make her wanting him more. Seems like you are not ready to be in a relationship. Also don't shit where you eat. If you have to hide it you're doing it wrong. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/09/22 09:34 PM |
| 2 | My wife insists she is done,DNA test the kid. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/09/22 09:12 PM |
| 5 | Torn between maintaining a proper workout cycle and doing my 9-5 job.Full body barbell program is your way to go. 3xweek, total around 3.30h per week. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/09/22 04:21 PM |
| 1 | How to up my dating game in 2022?What is your current program and best lifts? | /r/newTRP | 20/09/22 07:25 PM |
| 3 | How to up my dating game in 2022?I wanna know what i need to improve to up my dating game You have sth that lots of people don't. FREE TIME. You can invest it in a serious strength barbell program 3-5 days a week (strong lifts/starting strength). You can join an MMA/wrestling/bjj/boxing club. You can put insane amounts of time into geting social compared to employed ppl (Meetup, volunteering, etc.). | /r/newTRP | 20/09/22 11:03 AM |
| 2 | I shat where I ate, should I expect my friend to follow meIn his case it's just a job so yep that would be selfish of you | /r/newTRP | 20/09/22 10:54 AM |
| 2 | How to dread my plate if I don't go out, don't have friends to party with, no close female friends, etc?You need to learn how to be more social and build a tribe. Have a group to hang out with. More social less individual at this point in your life. | /r/newTRP | 20/09/22 10:50 AM |
| 1 | Any recommended books to destroy neediness?I lift and have been for 7-8 years What are your best numbers and current program? How about trying some wrestling/mma/boxing/bjj/anything with live sparring? | /r/newTRP | 12/09/22 09:00 PM |
| 3 | Should I take this ex back, read it first.Nope. You broke up with her for a reason. | /r/newTRP | 10/09/22 09:53 PM |
| 1 | Divorce and TikTokIt's a well known fact in the red pill community. It's called 'The light switch effect'. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/09/22 05:46 PM |
| 1 | Asked my gf if she would have sex with the actor she loves, she said yes right awaySo now she's your ex right? | /r/newTRP | 09/09/22 04:57 PM |
| 2 | Asexuality is key to a prosperous lifeYou're fighting biology here. Also you're posting in the wrong sub, this one is about sexual strategy. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/09/22 08:18 PM |
| 5 | I am a Blue pill beta cuck. I now fully understand.well i guess it's just a simple formula of confidence and money It's easy to play piano, just pressing the right keys at the right time. Doesn't seem hard. You are still blue pill. Wake up. And don't forget about having a social life. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/09/22 04:57 PM |
| 2 | After 7 years and a 2 year old, wife wants divorce.I’ve done everything I was supposed to do. I’m constantly taking care of my son, doing housework, cleaning, my wife doesn’t cook so I do that as well. After giving everything I bring her flowers, and give her space for her job and time for her friends. I have never been a bad person, I have been there for anything What if I told you she wants to divorce you not in spite of these mentioned things but because of them? You display low value servant-provider aka nice guy aka beta behaviour. Put your… | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/09/22 12:59 PM |
| 4 | FR: This shit works for realdivorce_men subreddit should be mandatory to read for all the red pill sub users. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/09/22 12:18 PM |
| 3 | I am a Blue pill beta cuck. I now fully understand.And yet at that time, I saw myself as a hero from some fantasy book. But in reality, I was just a big head on a really skinny and weak body with a weaker and skinnier brain inside my head; It's quite hard to objectively look in the mirror, good job dude! I started with running By now you probably discovered that running is not ideal for being athletic+strong. If you lift heavy 3-4 x week, hard cardio more than 1-2xweek will affect your recovery, not even mentioning running is not healthy for you… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/09/22 11:31 AM |
| 10 | FR: This shit works for realIdeally you don't marry- fixed it for you. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/09/22 01:12 PM |
| 67 | FR: This shit works for realIt was an overkill. Where one mortar would have been sufficient you used a tactical nuke. Still a win, but she'll never forget this. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/09/22 01:08 PM |
| 19 | FR: This shit works for realFirst she will monkey branch, then she'll start being a bitch and confronted with another untimatum shell call the bluff. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/09/22 01:03 PM |
| 4 | FR: This shit works for realYou have a choice, family comes first, or I'll bring the divorce papers and you simply have to sign it. You went all nuclear... I don't think it was the right choice. Simply ignoring her would probably be sufficient, but hey it's your life anyway. "Ok I'm leaving for my mom's, send the papers to me, I'll sign it." I say "OK". In the meantime, she's packing her things, returns her wedding ring and a diamond necklace I gave her (my dad gave to me to gift her), and leaves. I didn't react. Didn't ev… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/09/22 12:56 PM |
| 3 | Falling into BP mentality with a girl, need someone to set me straightThe red pill is in your mouth now you just need to swallow it. | /r/newTRP | 29/08/22 08:45 PM |
| 3 | Getting hung up on a half-lay, should I pursue even after that spur of the moment?My last concern is that if I pursue her, attachments would develop It seems the attachment has already developed. If it develops for a 40 year old milf you are in a deep mental scarcity. | /r/newTRP | 27/08/22 05:26 PM |
| 2 | Exploring masculinity and creativitymost rock stars are masculine because they fuck 10 girls a day. The cart is not pulling the horse. Getting girls is a lagging indicator of being masculine. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/08/22 01:20 PM |
| 11 | You're only fooling yourself - smoking w**d/drugs are the shittiest way to lose frame. Period.80kg squat 130kg deadlift 62kg bench Gotta pump those numbers up. Those are rookie numbers. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/08/22 09:21 AM |
| 5 | How to get rid of persistent toxic people? Obsessions and StalkingBlock. If he's stalking you persistently after that in real life report to the police. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/08/22 09:17 AM |
| 2 | I feel this Community needs to be more aware of the women who are an exception to red pill’s beliefs.I definitely agree with the red pill, the dating world is pretty much in favor of women. Pretty women and alpha men. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/08/22 07:59 PM |
| 1 | How do you deal with girls who make you "wait for sex"?But do they do it out of disrespect? Biology. Do they understand men and their psyche? Nope. They don't understand men, women and even their own psyche and if someone points it to them they don't really care. | /r/newTRP | 15/08/22 11:26 AM |
| 2 | How do you endure hard times?Lifting heavy weight at the gym and combat sports for a total of 5xweek. | /r/newTRP | 13/08/22 11:21 PM |
| 2 | Met cute girl with bpd and now I'm lostAs far as I remember Rollo said that beta men strategy is to identify with the girl to get laid (she will like me more if I'm like her fallacy), alpha men to polarize (giving masculine vibe). | /r/newTRP | 13/08/22 11:41 AM |
| 4 | Met cute girl with bpd and now I'm lostThe thing is that we come from the same place, we're both children of divorce and there is many things simmilar in our stories The "date" was you being used as an emotional tampon. She shit tested you and you failed giving a 'capt save a ho' vibe. Now logically I should be running away but it would feel to me like leaving behind a drowning person. You can't save someone who doesn't want to be saved. She's feeding on your attention and in lack of drama she even may generate it... I'll tell you wh… | /r/newTRP | 12/08/22 09:01 PM |
| 2 | By all means redpill doesn't mean a man has low Integrity and dignity where they just pump n dump womenJust because the life is unfair doesn't mean we have to stop trying and drop good values and habits for it as the culture is growing and equilibrium will find it's place eventually to the better, we do see life improvement don't we compared to the past It's not the 'life' that is unfair. This is deep into human nature. It has always been that way coz it's how we evolved as a species. There is no other 'fair life'. Wake up or keep on dreaming. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/08/22 09:57 AM |
| 4 | dumb me had an verbal altercation with an feminist girl in my friend circleYou are autistic and your friends are idiots. | /r/newTRP | 10/08/22 10:06 AM |
| 11 | I put the garbage back in the binI'm pretty sure it's a troll post. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/22 09:02 AM |
| 4 | Are you working out or “working out”.Get a plan and stick to the plan first and foremost. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/22 10:13 PM |
| 2 | Girlfriend of 3 years starts shit testing and questions my decisionsRun with her for a couple of weeks, if she's not happy about you joining her it's a big no | /r/newTRP | 02/08/22 01:33 PM |
| 1 | Lies Women Want To HearBy placing yourself in an emotionally fragile position, her natural instincts will be to take care of you. Isn't placing yourself in an emotionally fragile position to get a girl the antithesis of red pill? | /r/TheRedPill | 28/07/22 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Is this reasonable?Second this. OP's ultimatum will only end up bad. Better option would be to just leave when she crosses the boundaries. | /r/newTRP | 27/07/22 03:16 PM |
| 1 | Stupidly shat wear I eat, turns out the girl I liked doesn't like me back, how do I just withdraw from the situation now?Don't shit where you eat | /r/newTRP | 24/07/22 08:52 PM |
| 6 | Angry againDisney happily ever after, with a woman as your whole world so you can shoot yourself when she leaves coz there's nothing left in your life | /r/TheRedPill | 19/07/22 12:47 PM |
| 11 | Angry againYes, some of the most memorable, most happy moments in my life have been with women. Moments when everything else seems to cease to exist. It's you and her and those four walls and time and space vanish and her skin and her heartbeat and her eyes are everything and you want nothing more than that, you could die right then and there. Seems to me that OP still wants to use red pill to fulfill blue pill goals. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/22 03:25 PM |
| 4 | Balance?You should have become a writer or a politician, so many words so little meaning in them. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/07/22 01:36 PM |
| 1 | I cant go to college and dont know what to do.Theres no gym for 10 miles so i haven’t worked out in months That's just an excuse. There are tons of bodyweight workout plans for strength. No gym required, even pull ups can be done on trees. Google is your friend. | /r/newTRP | 12/07/22 08:44 AM |
| 1 | How do you handle deleted text messages?Ignore, ignore, ignore. If a woman is interested in you she will not play games. | /r/newTRP | 11/07/22 01:29 PM |
| 10 | I thought you all might enjoy this old experienceIt's simple solipsism. I feel good so it must be good, on the other hand you are unattractive I feel bad about it therefore you must be a perv. They can get away with it so why tf not. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/07/22 10:48 AM |
| 2 | Weird situation. Met a girl in the park and hit it off. Agreed to go Skydiving with me. After we booked it, she said she has a BFYou made a girl in the park interested in you. However there were some mixed signals from you as you talked 2h and not really escalated. The girl decided to go skydiving with you as it sounded fun ( and let's find out if he's beta or Alfa). Then this past Saturday I asked her what she was up to because I wanted to get drinks or something I think this is where you gave out a beta vibe (too available/needy) and triggered I have a bf shit test. After you booked the tickets your job was to shut up, … | /r/newTRP | 29/06/22 01:29 PM |
| 1 | How to not lose frame when a "friend" looks at you or catches you getting another number from a different person?I just don't want to build the reputation of "that guy" who always gets numbers Why not? It's free publicity and easier access to other numbers | /r/newTRP | 27/06/22 04:21 PM |
| 1 | How Easy It Is For Women To Get A High Body Count And Why "High" Is Not That HighSpergs and trolls all the way, what happened to this sub is unbelievable:( | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/22 03:56 PM |
| 1 | The most hyper feminist women I've ever slept with are the ones that enjoy being degraded and humiliated the most.You're in it you like it or not | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/22 02:36 PM |
| 2 | RPSA: LIFT!Full body barbell workouts for strength: Beginners- stronglifts 5x5, starting strength, GreySkull variants Intermediates- Texas method, Wendler 5/3/1 variants, Madcow, PPL | /r/newTRP | 22/06/22 02:17 PM |
| 5 | Need Help Gents!Second this, if you're not lifting I can recommend stronglifts 5x5 plan, its a real game changer. Also second Rollo's the rational male blog (best of year 1-3) | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/22 02:07 PM |
| 3 | Need Help Gents!Tl;dr OP Started simping over text and she lost interest. How can he get her interest back? Help! Answer for those who haven't internalised the red pill: "That's the neat part you don't. You realise you screwed up then proceed to ignoring her messages, forget about her and move on trying with other girls. Answer for red pillers: "You go soft next, when she starts texting you, reply scarcely and cautiously (to find out if it's interest/beta thirst traps/shit tests), then if she keeps on spamming … | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/22 01:56 PM |
| 63 | The most hyper feminist women I've ever slept with are the ones that enjoy being degraded and humiliated the most.Everything a woman says has an "at this particular moment of time only" asterisk. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/06/22 03:35 PM |
| 2 | Women Use Love To Soften Men UpMagnet, how's your cold approach doing? Got a second number close or not yet? | /r/TheRedPill | 20/06/22 10:21 AM |
| 1 | Strippers and escorts with SO’sSo you abused hormones and now you'll be avoiding tap water and x-rays for a couple of years to make it up...? Now I see why they banned asktrp Edit: autocorrect | /r/newTRP | 19/06/22 12:24 PM |
| 1 | Alpha Widow - Woman Divorces Tall, Handsome, Loyal, Successful Man for AlphaWtf have I just read. Do not marry! | /r/TheRedPill | 16/06/22 12:55 PM |
| 10 | Trust The Numbers GameNumbers game is not a magical solution for getting laid. Without an ounce of game you will get constantly rejected (low self-esteem) and waste a ton of time. Frame and game first then numbers. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/22 04:29 PM |
| 2 | 2 years later, She made no improvement.And crying he spent too much money on her, Excuse me wtf | /r/TheRedPill | 06/06/22 09:31 PM |
| 4 | Don't Be Afraid Of Losing The Women You Actually Do Get To Connect With (Get Correct Contact Info) While Cold ApproachingWho upvotes these weekly ramblings of a sperg with no lays to back it up? btw. If you are getting rejected 100 times maybe it's time to ask yourself why before cold approaching more? | /r/TheRedPill | 01/06/22 09:29 AM |
| 2 | How to test a girl?Ditch the apps and work on yourself Texting for logistics only and screening when you meet up works for me | /r/newTRP | 28/05/22 08:44 PM |
| 3 | Woman who desperately wants to brake your frame.Soft next. Either she comes back nicer or she doesn't at all. | /r/newTRP | 19/05/22 12:35 PM |
| 1 | How big of a deal is this?Do not marry. Ever. | /r/newTRP | 19/05/22 12:21 PM |
| 1 | It was her fault: Fellas, if your ex still isn't married, it wasn't your fault.Has she asked the next man to marry her? Who tf cares she was the problem Smells like the second 'revenge porn' post in which her life is shown to be a disaster is in the making... | /r/TheRedPill | 09/05/22 05:26 PM |
| 2 | The "Not you" ruleRule no 10. 'Do not announce that you are a woman' | /r/TheRedPill | 02/05/22 04:10 PM |
| 2 | The "Not you" ruleReported for breaking the sub rules | /r/TheRedPill | 02/05/22 03:43 PM |
| 13 | Do not be desperate for a gf, not because girls have the supposed desperation 6th sense, but to protect yourself from heartbreakSolid comment as always Sir. I am wondering why aren't you endorsed yet. Then one week after the class ended she told all our cohort at work that I was a creep obsessed with her, and then she told me that if I ever contact her again she would tell HR about me... Briffault's law at its finest. Edit:format | /r/TheRedPill | 02/05/22 03:35 PM |
| 4 | I'm going to start reading this shit every day. Thank you guys.Congrats! I would recommend lifting heavy weights to the dgaf mix. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/04/22 10:37 AM |
| 1 | Am I moving too fast and missing some Red Flags?How about letting go of an invisible friend and looking for sb in real life? | /r/TheRedPill | 16/04/22 06:28 PM |
| 1 | The delusion that your unicorn will change your life. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/03/22 01:03 PM |
| 1 | After 15 years, I finally cracked the code: men aren't designed to be loved. Women are.From a personal perspective, I kept trying to understand why women only wanted me when I wasn't interested or invested. I understood HOW women reacted to me because of this, but "philosophical" I didn't understand why. No offense, the follow up sounds a bit like a rationalisation. Women want you when you are high value, you 'invest' your value goes down. As simple as that. Men like 10s who are good in bed, no need to discuss. It's biology not philosophy | /r/TheRedPill | 10/03/22 10:38 AM |
| 1 | After 15 years, I finally cracked the code: men aren't designed to be loved. Women are.You just killed the poor guy | /r/TheRedPill | 10/03/22 10:31 AM |
| 1 | "I'm going to make women suffer": Post-hangover update.Ive met a lot of hot women, but this one was beautiful and exactly my type. Rollo Tomassi: There is no one https://therationalmale.com/2011/08/30/there-is-no-one/ | /r/TheRedPill | 28/02/22 04:17 PM |
| 8 | Is self improvement really gonna make me better?Second this. Probably your issue is no social life and/or poor socialising skills. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/02/22 11:17 PM |
| 3 | WTF is wrong with me?You take the blue pill, the story ends. You wake up in your bed and believe whatever you want to believe. You take the red pill, you stay in Wonderland, and I show you how deep the rabbit hole goes. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/02/22 11:51 PM |
| 9 | Studies Show The #1 Reason For Declining Marriage Rates Is, "Lack" of Economically Attractive Men. Why is The Case?"So that means there will be a lot of women who reach 40 without getting married or having kids. " There will be a lot of divorced single moms who reach 40. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/02/22 10:14 PM |
| 1 | Any advice for this one?This girl I met and I have a deeply spiritual connection like I met her in another life. Stopped reading after this. There is no 'one' | /r/TheRedPill | 28/01/22 05:48 PM |
| 4 | The Modern Woman’s Guide to Life, and to Defeating The PatriarchyThey need money, they are the primary consumers | /r/TheRedPill | 24/01/22 01:30 PM |
| 2 | The Modern Woman’s Guide to Life, and to Defeating The PatriarchyGood point, the new trends have more and more in common with religion. They're based purely on belief as the facts are simply not verifiable. Challenging their new religion is challenging their ego. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/01/22 01:28 PM |
| 1 | How to get a sixpack before the summer 2022 and put it on tinder to get laidWendler 5/3/1 bodybuilding template works for me on cut | /r/TheRedPill | 10/01/22 08:59 PM |
| 7 | The fate of a simpI'm sorry bro but it wasn't her fault, you did this to yourself. You didn't treat yourself with respect in the first place, the rest was just a derivative | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/22 09:52 PM |
| 26 | Women Don't Want to Grow With You. They Are Waiting at The Finish Line, When You Have it All. Important Reminder.No, it doesn't. It's women marrying healthier and happier men. No woman wants an unhealthy and pessimistic loser. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/11/21 08:31 AM |
| 4 | Is it really better to be red pilled?This sub fell so low even endorsed contributors wish they had taken the blue pill. Unbelievable. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/11/21 09:31 PM |
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