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| 8 | Having a good fwb is much better than having multiple ONSGenerally speaking I agree. But there's is something about sex with a stranger that a FWB can't fully satisfy | /r/seduction | 16/12/21 09:22 AM |
| 2 | In the age of tinder + bumble, what's the point of hitting up bars and clubs?It's not good to find yourself in a situation where you're primary interaction with women is through the internet. Like they're options on a digital menu to pick. I personally feel like that kind of mentality lends to the objectification of women and what not. Real life keeps you grounded. Also, if you can't pick up women in real life, your game is wack. Don't rely on a crutch and forget how to maneuver in the real world. I think tinder and other apps should be used as passive ways to get women,… | /r/seduction | 03/02/18 03:45 AM |
| 1 | How do you know if she is interested but don't text alotTalk on the phone with her | /r/seduction | 19/12/17 04:47 PM |
| 2 | Is artistic talent just completely fucking useless?Wut? Singing is a huge plus to women. At least where I'm from. Like if you can sing some Maxwell or D'Angelo that's gold. | /r/seduction | 17/09/17 06:47 PM |
| 2 | What to do post number? How to closeI would highly suggest talking on the phone. It goes a long way. Or FaceTime if you both can. | /r/seduction | 25/07/17 08:34 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone else feel weird dating "good girls" after improving ?If I was in a situation like that then sure id apologize and move on. If there's no malicious intent on my part so be it I suppose. But in order to avoid those situations as much as I can, I just don't go for inexperienced ones. There are women who are familiar with casual sex and know they want it. I'll stick with those. | /r/seduction | 20/06/17 02:08 AM |
| 1 | Does anyone else feel weird dating "good girls" after improving ?If I have sex with a woman and she ends up having negative feelings for whatever reason, I'm going to feel bad as a result. So when we're talking about "good girls" who are not experienced in hook up culture, I take extra precaution because they are more likely to regret it. Sure I could be like "we both made a decision as adults and I don't feel guilty" but I want to leave them better than I found them. If I think it'll cause distress, I won't. There are so many other women in the world. http:/… | /r/seduction | 20/06/17 01:43 AM |
| 1 | Does anyone else feel weird dating "good girls" after improving ?Even then I weigh the options. I don't want them to do something because they "like me", it could make them more willing to compromise themselves. At this point, I just try not to have casual sex with women who aren't about that life. I don't try to bring women into that life or help them figuring out if they want it either. What if they regret it? I'd personally rather not be the guy who caused it. It may sound white nighty or even condescending, but I've been hurt and I've seen people hurt an… | /r/seduction | 19/06/17 05:10 PM |
| 3 | Does anyone else feel weird dating "good girls" after improving ?I look at it as a respect issue. So I take into account their views and expectations on sex and relationships before I try to sleep with them. If they don't line up or, I know they might want more than I do, I don't go for it. | /r/seduction | 19/06/17 05:27 AM |
| 6 | Effect of weed on gameDamn near smoked myself autistic this semester. I've noticed when I go out while smacked I talk less, and so have other people. In a one on one situation there's no issue. | /r/seduction | 04/12/16 06:24 PM |
| 3 | I'm Asian. I just scored a date with a beautiful black girl. And now i am... FREAKING THE F OUT.Oh shit I see now. Like "I talk very, well... the opposite." I read it like, "I talk very well. The opposite." | /r/seduction | 22/07/16 11:46 PM |
| 1 | I'm Asian. I just scored a date with a beautiful black girl. And now i am... FREAKING THE F OUT.I talk very well... the opposite. Pro tip. Change that kind of thinking or you're gonna get an earful. Different dialect =/= bad. Should I just speak the same I always do or try at least a little to match. Please don't do this. | /r/seduction | 22/07/16 11:36 PM |
| 1 | Online daters, how do you get a girl to trust you enough to meet you in person?Phone calls and Skype are really good for this. Don't try to talk for too long online. Get her number (or her kik if you have to), then suggest Skype or call her. If you gave an iphone, FaceTime makes this much easier. You want to get personal, and that's hard to do by just reading words. The last woman I met on Tinder it went Snapchat to Kik to Skype. | /r/seduction | 27/04/16 02:27 PM |
| -1 | How do you grind with a girl?Of all the twerk fests and house parties I have been to while living in the DMV, all you do is walk up from behind and grab their waist. Even at a hip hop club like Ibiza in DC or whatever. I was just at Midtown this past weekend, same deal. Just don't be scared when you do it. Demographics probably play a role in all of this though. But if a twerking song is playing, and she's twerking on the dance floor, that's when I make a move. | /r/seduction | 18/11/15 03:01 AM |
| 1 | How can I have confidence?Other than the typical seddit sidebar (my sister says TRB has some good stuff but I haven't looked) I was kinda forged by fire living in the DMV. I'm not sure of any books to read on the matter. | /r/seduction | 30/09/15 07:34 PM |
| 6 | How can I have confidence?Become proficient at an intrument, lift, learn how to banter. Meditate with the intent of "raising your vibration," and do it everyday for some months. There are a lot of things you can do. Pick up hobbies like basketball, calligraphy, kendo, boxing, there is so much to do in life. When trying to gain confidence don't focus on women as much and focus on yourself. It shouldn't be an on and off thing but a general state of being for your person. Yah sometimes you'll go through periods of expansion… | /r/seduction | 30/09/15 05:13 AM |
| 2 | Can learning how to play the guitar help a guy get laid?Play Asturias and every Oasis noob will pale. A rasgueado goes a long way. | /r/seduction | 04/08/15 01:52 AM |
| 6 | Can learning how to play the guitar help a guy get laid?Note: In my experience, the biggest advantage seduction wise to playing an instrument isn't just getting a lay, but presenting your qualities and building a positive image for yourself overall and in the long run. I play classical and flamenco guitar. I'm about 5 years in. It can help if you're serious about it. Knowing how to play any instrument well is a good look, not only for yourself and personal gain but for your reputation. Playing Malaguena at my high school concert sent my social proof … | /r/seduction | 03/08/15 11:19 PM |
| 4 | Went to a nightclub last night - not sure if I'm ugly or not now :/Black and 6'0. I usually go to hiphop clubs too because I simply love the twerk. A lot of DMV parties involve dancing with someone else. Seems to me that all you have to do is dance well and not stand creepily. I'm always cranking while the music's playing. Knowing who seems willing to dance with a partner and when helps. If she's talking, standing, texting, or not on the dance floor, obviously you'll be rejected regardless of who you are. Waiting for the right song is a good idea. If anything b… | /r/seduction | 08/05/15 08:55 PM |
| 0 | What's a better way to say "How are you?"I usually open with "Hey what's good with you." It's sucessful enough to become my standard opening with almost all women. | /r/seduction | 24/04/15 10:38 PM |
| 3 | How would you have responded?She'd probably agree and amplify | /r/seduction | 23/03/15 06:37 AM |
| 2 | Should you tell them your a virgin?Just because you're a virgin doesn't mean your game is weak. Girls don't see virgins as lesser or as being turn offs inherently. Virginity is an indicator for more than one thing. If you pay a hooker to take your virginity and your game still sucks, then she's gonna know your game sucks. | /r/seduction | 19/10/14 07:55 PM |
| 3 | Where can I meet women that don't want to hookup?You should take caution when dating women who are serious Christians if you are not already one. God could be very important to have between you two in her eyes. If you don't want the same thing it could end badly. | /r/seduction | 28/09/14 09:05 PM |
| 80 | Be bold when textingTip for everyone else reading this: Don't go around calling girls cunts. This guy gambled and won. | /r/seduction | 27/01/14 08:46 PM |
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