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I just did nothing. She seems good now. I just have to read more and interpret for myself before I act like I know what I'm doing. I am trying to create a much better version of myself. "Ok babe, I understand you have issues. " may have been worse in this case than just ignoring her. Attacking OR kissing her ass just didn't seem to fit. I had no words for her tantrum anyway, I just listened when she stopped whining and finally opened up. All is well, for now. I need to take this transformation s…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/02/15 12:25 AM
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I fucked her like she was my slave. She's been on a happy high lately but stated she has issues giving up control but wants to.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/02/15 04:12 PM
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Damn! I can't digest the material fast enough. I assumed it was a shit test. :(
/r/MarriedRedPill16/02/15 03:11 AM
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Thank you!!
/r/askTRP16/02/15 02:56 AM
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I agree. Thank you. I just have a lot to learn before I understand female physiology (the real stuff, not liberal arts SJW garbage)
/r/MarriedRedPill16/02/15 02:42 AM
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What? I wish I remembered where I bought the digital but it on sale for 12.99. Apparently it's free! Thanks u/BowsNToes21 http://www.pdf-archive.com/2014/06/11/daniel-rose-sex-god-method/ Sorry they are not hypelinks. I'm on mobile
/r/MarriedRedPill16/02/15 02:39 AM
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This worked!!! Thank you so much. She had a minor breakdown after sex and I thought she interpreted my "do what I want sex" as me being a selfish jerk, but quite the opposite. She said she has some issues to work through with self image and releasing control. After sex, we had a great date and she asked if we could have sex again later tonight.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/02/15 02:35 AM
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I will check that out too. I'm very thankful that I have years worth of reading. I must master dread. I want it to be subtle yet powerful.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/02/15 02:14 AM
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I see. I am reading up on it. I want to make sure i do it correctly. We did have sex. She put up all kinds of blocks but opened up in a few ways. I didn't push to hard to do things I wanted to (at least not all of them). about 15 minutes afterwards she started crying. I held frame... or at least my understanding of frame. She said that the bad sex is her fault and she has self image issues and something about low estrogen and can't get it fixed because of blood clots. I'm not sure I believe that…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/02/15 02:12 AM
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My wife and I had a great date. She said i would get some tomorrow (today ). I'm struggling to decline her and will attempt to hold frame. I really love my wife. I'm turned on by what people consider low SMV. She may be doing this to keep me as a lapdog so i don't run off. I'm not sure and have a lot of reading to do. She likes BDSM but i fuck up that experience in 2009. I think i can bring it back though.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/15 06:23 PM
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TRP believed I could restore my marriage too. They also recommended I repost here. Thanks for the dread game link. I know very little about the concept at this point. I was a proud beta (not realizing it of course) for mamy years and pedestalized my women. My goal is to be very subtle with dread. Her feelings are important to me and I always despised the use of jeoluosy in relationships. We have had so much connections over the years that I had to think long and hard just to consider no sex a de…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/15 05:50 PM
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I just got that book and WISNIFG. I'm about a 3rd way through MMSLP. I am still concerned about accepting lame sex. I won't be able to please her sexually if she lays there and "allows" me to have sex with Her. I'm torn because I want to rebalance the sexual power away from her; at the same time I care deeply about her feelings. Either way, I have to decide quickly because her gift of "here, I have to technically give you sex to still call this a marriage in my head" will be offered soon.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/15 05:40 PM
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Well crap. I didn't even know that sub existed. Been combing through redpill for "wife" keyword. Most topics there seem geared towards single people. Reposting now.
/r/askTRP15/02/15 04:05 PM
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For one thing, I need to read up on Genghis Khan! Seriously though, I am taking this advice... at least when I decide she is worthy of getting fucked. It's also a good idea to not gush love like you say. I remember we experimented in kink before, but I got obsessive because I was so happy and excited. Those episodes didn't last long and I recall her saying I was too nice. If I start fucking her good I will store it in an encrypted file in my head and secretly enjoy the ride. If she continues to …
/r/askTRP15/02/15 03:38 PM
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Thank you. I have a long way to go. I've read a little on dread game and unfortunately I am not ready to play that card. I am not experienced enough to do it correctly and I wouldn't want her to play it me. Her ex-boyfriend hits her up on private messages on FB; she doesn't know that I know this but I'm not worried yet. For someone who was supposidly a bad-boy, he seems lame and needy and she brushes him off well. She is also down to earth and logical, yet sees herself as low value. I fear that …
/r/askTRP15/02/15 03:33 PM
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Thanks so much for the help. This will be a difficult but necessary move on my part. I won't miss the lame sex, but I do love her and don't want to hurt her feelings. I have to put that on the back burner though because this is the only way to establish some form of dominance in this unbalanced relationship. She's said before that she likes it rough, but instead of "allowing" (the problem I see now) me to be rough, she ignores me and reads bdsm books. It's all so sureal now of how I have screwed…
/r/askTRP15/02/15 02:57 PM
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I will read that. She never uses sex as a reward for chores and whatnot, but she does think i am lucky to get some... like she is doing me a favor. She gives the usual "I'm tired" stuff when I attempt to initiate( which I have stopped initiating ).
/r/askTRP15/02/15 10:18 AM
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This makes a lot of sense and sounds kind of fun on my part. I'm happy there is a chance to save the marriage too. I resented her "low sex drive" until i realized it was me not exciting her.
/r/askTRP15/02/15 10:14 AM
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I think I will. How should I handle the aftermath or if she asks why in not interested?
/r/askTRP15/02/15 10:11 AM
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