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What is preventing you from pursuing your goals and ambitions more earnestly? Is there something else you could do, while taking a break from girls and dating? I'm sure you must have hobbies or things you wish to try out? I believe you can turn this around.
/r/ExRedPill14/07/26 12:01 PM
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That would probably be the OG newsletter posted by Alana, the women who founded the incel-movement 20 years ago.
/r/ExRedPill05/07/26 09:38 AM
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Especially when reading the second to last point of view. He sees no reason to change his mind, or to even consider different perspectives, because "things will always be this way no matter what". OP you cannot fix this
/r/ExRedPill20/05/26 06:46 PM
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You can have plenty of exciting, memorable and enriching experiences without leaving your gf behind. Some of them (like back-packing and going to concerts) can even be done together.
/r/ExRedPill02/04/26 03:42 PM
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That almost sounds like a threat
/r/ExRedPill07/08/25 06:17 PM
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No, please don't listen to this. It's honestly dehumanizing to categorize people (men and women alike) as low- or high value. Individuals who describe others in such a manner, must have a horrible outlook on life and other people. It's really a reflection on them, not on you. A very unflattering one, on top of that. I wouldn't take any advice from those people, let alone criticism.
/r/ExRedPill19/08/24 11:44 PM
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I know, right? I don't know how old this guy is, but I'm dead sure he's seeing prostitutes. Which is another can of worms in itself.
/r/ExRedPill22/05/24 01:44 PM
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I believe Covid-19 did a lot of harm to young people in their well-being and development of social skills. Imagine experiencing this during your most formative years, and then being led to believe that you're the only person who struggled. It will take years for them to catch up!
/r/ExRedPill16/05/24 10:40 AM
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Of course they cannot accept this. Because it would wreck their entire world view, and who wants that?
/r/ExRedPill15/04/24 08:46 PM
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These women you're talking about, are usually friends and family lifting each other up, not just random people, and definitely not everybody. If the men in your environment can't do the same for their same-sex friends and relatives, then that's kind of sad.
/r/ExRedPill12/04/24 09:04 PM
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But it won't hurt your chances to improve yours. You can do it!
/r/ExRedPill11/04/24 05:49 PM
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I'm sure your dad was good looking. But I'm also sure he had decent social skills, which is something that the redpill barely talks about. I've seen plenty of plain-looking guys who got all the girls, mainly because they had enough social skills to approach and relate to them. In the end, your social skills will carry you longer than looks alone. Which is why I asked you this question about your parents.
/r/ExRedPill10/04/24 05:21 PM
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I'll ask you one question in return, hope you don't mind. How did your mom and dad meet?
/r/ExRedPill09/04/24 08:49 PM
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OP mentioned he's 18 years old, which makes it appropriate.
/r/ExRedPill29/12/23 06:15 AM
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Identifying as a woman at varying levels, not really identifying as a man despite being AMAB.
/r/ExRedPill05/11/23 08:22 PM
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I believe that those few, who are seriously considering transmaxxing, were trans (or non-binary) all along. Which is why they're so convinced that their life will improve once they transition... because they finally get to live and be recognized as their correct gender! Their reasoning may be warped, but if it helps them towards the life that they deep down always wanted, I'm happy for them.
/r/ExRedPill05/11/23 10:53 AM
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Cringe asf. I took classes in philosophy, which is an insanely interesting subject in itself. Generally speaking, these red-pill people only have a surface level of understanding, and their interpretations lack any sort of nuance. They'll only cherry-pick a few quotes that sound good, but have zero clue about their context.
/r/ExRedPill23/07/23 06:59 PM
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I believe you're already on the road to detoxing and becoming "normal". If it doesn't feel like that, it's because healing doesn't happen over night. It's a slow and gradual process for everybody. Please hang in there. Expand your horizons and explore other perspectives, it will efficiently take your mind off the RP channels and make you realize how warped they are. This is what helped me when I struggled with depression in my early 20ies. *I edited this a few times, please bear with me and than…
/r/ExRedPill13/07/23 03:24 PM
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I've had lots of crushes over the years. None of them fit into the Chad-archetype. They weren't bad boys either, as far as I know. What they had in common though, was that their lifestyle and values resembled mine.
/r/ExRedPill01/07/23 09:29 AM
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How many muslims has he even spoken with? I know quite a few muslim couples through my job, in my neighbourhood. None of them has this type of lifestyle.
/r/ExRedPill12/06/23 03:47 PM
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There are plenty of women who remarry later in life, well into their 40ies and even later. According to red pill opinion, this shouldn't be possible. After all, these women had previous relationships, even been married with children. But this didn't prevent them from falling in love again, with somebody new. I'm sure you know such a person, either within your family, at your job, your friends mom etc. Just ask around, it's fairly common.
/r/ExRedPill30/05/23 03:25 PM
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Do you really want a happiness that exists on the expense of other peoples well-being? That sounds pretty egotistical to me. I'm sorry your lovelife isn't at its best right now, but this isn't the way.
/r/ExRedPill19/05/23 05:32 PM
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If she has a crush on you, you'll be the hottest, most appealing and amazing person in her eyes. You may agonize over your jawline, body shape or [insert other perceived flaw], but she'll find those traits adorable and endearing. Other men won't be interesting to her because she has a crush on you, not them.
/r/ExRedPill08/05/23 03:13 PM
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If you're at my moms age, 40-60 years old as to speak, girls night out means usually meeting up at a friends place for dinner, wine and talking. Nothing weird about that.
/r/ExRedPill08/04/23 02:33 PM
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I added the main take-away at the end of this post, I believe. It may sound banal but it's actually very helpful when you apply it whole-heartedly in your interactions with other people. I might as well add that 1. most people are trying their best to manage their life, even if they don't always know what they're doing or why, and 2. people are experts at their own experiences. So if someone tells you about their own experiences of something, you better believe them, even if you can't relate to …
/r/ExRedPill01/04/23 08:20 PM
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Sorry for poor formatting, I wrote this on my phone.
/r/ExRedPill01/04/23 08:57 AM
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If you have a weird gut feeling about the whole thing, I would really recommend you to take it seriously. When examined further, it often turns out that there were red flags all along, but you only picked up on them subconsciously because it was too subtle at the time. Hence the discomfort that can't be explained. Discussing it with us in this thread, is a step in the right direction, and I'm quite glad you did it (even if you get downvoted a lot, which is unfortunate and a bit unhelpful - sorry…
/r/ExRedPill31/03/23 02:39 PM
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I understand it to some extent: lots of people don't wait for marriage. But even with casual dating, it would take a lot of effort to reach numbers of +200. Even with Tinder, it still takes time to pursue someone and get to know them. Which is why most men and women don't reach these numbers, despite living in a "promiscuous society". His explanations seem so off. I'm also weirded out by your mention that he's willing to wait for marriage if "we get to do other things before". Like, what is this…
/r/ExRedPill31/03/23 05:20 AM
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