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ThatCanReallyHappen/r/askTRP22/12/19 03:16 PM
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I left out details on what I brought to the table for her (to simplify my post), so I can see why you might think that brother. So let me clarify and then you can judge away if your so desire. Throughout this (and other) relationships, I made sure she was cared for according to my frame: well fucked (we both have high sex drives) talking to her problems but putting limits to it: I didn't give her all the answers to the problems but allowed her to talk things through, and then I told her to vent …
/r/TheRedPill26/01/20 06:40 PM
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There's a HUGE pressure in those places for women to lock down guys, so if she doesn't see you as a viable marriage candidate who has at least some potential to commit, she won't stick around for long My last GF before taking a year off from girlfriends was a sweet, attractive (8/10 for a Czech) but frustrated/angry Czech chick and this is 100% true. While I actually found one that didn't mine be for gold, I was expected to commit to be mined for my time, attention and baby giving ability. Also,…
/r/TheRedPill26/01/20 04:57 PM
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Agree with this guy. I haven't had a TV in 10 years, don't even stream. I feel like my life is the show, and I make a show out of it. Also, I tend to really get into really TV shows - so I don't watch it. Too distracting. I'd rather travel, go outside, etc. But the guy makes a good point - if you want to netflix and chill, then you gotta have a TV. But by the time a girl wants to do that with you, the size of the TV is not important. Just watch it on your laptop/tablet until your hands start gra…
/r/askTRP17/01/20 04:15 PM
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Then that's on you. YOU ask for that number. Step into your power. You didn't delete Facebook/Instagram etc to crawl back into your cave. You are deleting to go outside of it. It'll feel foreign and perhaps scary, but you're making room where you have to survive and build good habits. Good luck man! And btw where are you based out of? Feel free to PM me if you rather say in private. Again, enjoying the questions!
/r/TheRedPill17/01/20 04:07 PM
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Only if you're living in cave while being off Facebook. Again, crush those fucking dependencies you have in the head. The best thing is you got off social media and there's always going to be a feeling of emptiness - it's like breaking up with your girlfriend. be present with the emptiness, acknowledge it's temporary, start working on yourself in other ways and things will happen. instead of making connections Facebook, you'll make connections in the cafe or in a workshop. You might go to a clim…
/r/TheRedPill17/01/20 03:56 PM
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I accidentally clicked "send" before i finished (that's what he said) , so I was only halfway finished. It finished now so feel free to reread! Thanks for the questions, I enjoyed it.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/20 03:47 PM
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do you think you'll be off social media for life? Let's put it this way - both of my businesses are growing fast (information security consulting and men's empowerment workshops) - and eventually I will have social media for both. I'll limit my engagement to just within the scope of the business, and even that, I'm looking to hire a social media manager to maintain it. Personally speaking, we're constantly evolving, so I would say nothing I will do is "for life" - I've been around the internet s…
/r/TheRedPill17/01/20 03:34 PM
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was worried about losing 10+ years of messages, For me - this was the point. Facebook carried information about me - my past, my pictures. I wanted to kill it and just be present. When there is no power of the past (aside from learning the lessons before quickly moving on), we can do anything in the present, and thus can better create the future. but if they didn't have my number they aren't my real friend anyway. EXACTLY. How active are your phone contacts? Have you gone to the effort of deleti…
/r/TheRedPill17/01/20 09:09 AM
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Aside from Reddit (which i delete after 3 - 6 months usually) and a couple specialized sites (e. g. Couchsurfing), I'm going on half a year fully deleting Facebook and Instagram and a couple of years deleting LinkedIn. Am I missing out on useful tools (e.g. Facebook events and groups)? Probably. Am I still able to find ways to meet people, and find out about events? ABSOLUTELY. To explain: I just tell people I meet I don't have social media. This forces them to give me their number (or not). It …
/r/TheRedPill17/01/20 06:59 AM
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There are women in the bars at night but I feel as if most are attention whores and all come with their pack of hens It sounds like a self-limiting belief. Why don't you approach them anyway. They're there to have fun - give them the fun and if you're high value enough in your game, she'll play with you. You are looking for plates, right? If that doesn't work - well, Manhattan.
/r/askTRP03/01/20 08:02 AM
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😃
/r/askTRP03/01/20 03:06 AM
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It doesn't make sense the pessimism here. There's nothing wrong with creating a men's support group. It's what we're doing here anyway, except online.
/r/askTRP02/01/20 11:56 PM
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^ This is the worst advice, don't listen to this, OP.
/r/askTRP02/01/20 06:12 PM
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Good point. Everybody has different ways of treating the past. For me when I was younger I had a big remember-and-regret tendency so you can say I was already programmed to remember my past. Blast-deleting it helped me move forward. The past is good to learn from and then promptly move forward.
/r/askTRP02/01/20 04:17 PM
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40 year old here so I have had a lot of past to dwell over. Best thing I've ever done was delete my past literally - emails, Facebook, ex-girlfriends pictures / emails / texts (even and especially the ones that I still missed). Then, live life you want to live. OP is still quite young, and there's still a lot of figuring out life for him, sotall I will say is aim for being present most of the time and don't beat himself up for moments he does dwell on the past.
/r/askTRP02/01/20 09:22 AM
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The man has gone crazy recently How?
/r/askTRP02/01/20 08:49 AM
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Live with him but under one caveat: be aware of your own personal development with him and without him, and try to understand that you're both equal as roommates. The danger with someone "more alpha" is one's beta tendency tends to show, leading to a self-fulfilling prophesy where the alpha is taking charge and the beta is backing down to let the alpha do his thing. It's natural. When can control a room walks in, ask yourself, do you naturally step back in awe? Just be aware of that "natural pec…
/r/askTRP31/12/19 07:36 AM
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Mike Tython, ith thath you?
/r/askTRP28/12/19 09:41 AM
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This^
/r/askTRP28/12/19 09:37 AM
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Sounds more like WORST friend than BEST friend. I can vouch for this. I've de friended so many people on Facebook (eventually deleted the whole thing) as well as defriended people in real life, including 2 really, really close friends that were just bringing me down (judging me, pissing me off acting immature, etc) and it's the best moves I've ever done. It eventually makes room for people that you really want in your life.
/r/askTRP27/12/19 05:06 PM
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To be fair, there was a lot being said from all over the place on in the blog-style article. So, basically, a woman.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/19 04:37 PM
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Me throughout my 20's (I'm in my 40's now): Girl: want to watch a movie in my room? Me: watches movie with girl in her room.
/r/askTRP26/12/19 12:50 AM
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Endgame is living the wife you want to live, how you want to live it.
/r/askTRP25/12/19 09:28 PM
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This is a great question, something that I go back and forth on. Sometimes I keep going until the hard rejection, because anything before that we're just "rejecting ourselves" with our perception of being rejected. The other time I don't want to give the woman the comfort power of rejecting, especially if she's attractive. That said, once you get in that zen state of pickup, none of this matters. You'll nice on naturally. It's a nice state to get in, doesn't happen every time, but it does happen…
/r/askTRP25/12/19 04:51 PM
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Well with social circle I consider it warm approach. Cold approach to me means a stranger approaching a stranger devoid of all other context other than potential attraction and that both parties happen to be in the same physical location at the time.
/r/askTRP25/12/19 03:59 PM
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I was in France. Meet a cute Dutch woman there from Rotterdam. Fun girl, kinda flirty when drunk. Tried to ask her out - nope. Dutch people don't go on dates she said.
/r/askTRP25/12/19 03:46 PM
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Username checks out
/r/askTRP25/12/19 03:42 PM
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You'll figure out the right timing on your own OP, but indirect game is best for places where you are sure to see the people again: school, work, common gatherings. However when you're approaching a stranger, some way of showing intent is important so she knows it's man to woman. Either way, there are "pockets of moments" where the woman expects you to escalate. It's almost a silence in the moment where she is potentially interested in you and expects you to do something. The risk with "not show…
/r/TheRedPill24/12/19 02:49 PM
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Then get food with her and find what it's like and be done with it. Or don't and move on with it.
/r/askTRP24/12/19 02:29 PM
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Same here. It sounded very practical.
/r/askTRP24/12/19 02:24 PM
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That's the impression she has of you. So each time you pay attention to her, she's expecting provider, and that includes guidance. If you want pussy, then focus on your game to get it, and not move forward under her 18 year old frame.
/r/askTRP24/12/19 09:22 AM
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It'll also be true when she's 28, 38 and 48. But yes, especially true at 18
/r/askTRP24/12/19 09:19 AM
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