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Talk to your bank about a low interest loan or line of credit. There's no reason to carry that kind of debt at credit card rates.
/r/Divorce_Men18/11/21 10:18 PM
1

Men have it worse, but it's the women they care about. Standard Canada.
/r/MensRights26/02/21 04:08 PM
14

Women complain about having it so bad in the 1800's, like most men had it any better. For most of history wealth and power was (still) limited to a handful for rich landowners, and men weren't exactly getting a choice in which war they were being forced to go and fight and die in.
/r/AntiFeminists23/02/21 09:18 PM
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"buying a house". Not Bought a house. Not own a house. Buying, which means she hasn't been able to get one yet. I wonder what the holdup on that is? Also, if she really wanted the family life I'm sure there's no shortage of single dads with kids that she could be a great step mom for.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/02/21 04:20 PM
14

Lots of guys will swipe right on everyone, so they don't miss any potential matches.
/r/PussyPassDenied20/02/21 12:22 PM
1

Odds are fairly decent that she had a credit card and helped herself.
/r/MensRights18/02/21 09:21 PM
6

"You have no career, no income, and all your hobbies are things that cost a lot of money. I'm looking for a partner who can pull her weight, not a leech or a charity case."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/02/21 09:26 PM
7

As I have gotten older and stopped giving a shit, I have happily become the sort of guy that goes to the grocery store in my comfy pajama pants. I have no one to impress and it's wonderful.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/02/21 07:32 PM
5

Salty mods are everywhere. I got a permanent ban from r/canada for saying some things about the natives that the mods didn't like. Things backed up in facts, but not the right facts so there I go.
/r/MensRights15/02/21 12:40 AM
3

Male actors are generally expected to destroy their health on command. Abs like Henry Cavil has in his topless scenes require dehydration to the point where you're about a day aware from liver failure.
/r/MensRights11/02/21 05:05 PM
2

The stats and stories I hear about the modern education system make me seriously afraid for my son's future.
/r/MensRights09/02/21 07:29 PM
3

Modern feminism is a cult. You have a strict yet constantly changing orthodoxy, and god help if you you cross it - even if you don't identify as a member.
/r/MensRights09/02/21 07:24 PM
3

Porn is only a problem for people that want to have an abusive level of control over their partner.
/r/AntiFeminists05/02/21 12:13 AM
7

By traditional role you mean that men should work their asses off to support someone’s comfortable stay-at-home routine? Only been the case in the last ... hundred years, give or take? Back when stuff like dishes and laundry and house heating all had to be done by hand the home life was considerably more work. Plus all the shitty stuff like deaths in child birth. But ya, modern housewifing is basically a life of idle luxury.
/r/AntiFeminists01/02/21 02:32 PM
6

... interracialcupid.com? Really? I think that says about everything.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/01/21 04:04 PM
1

Living alone isn't financially viable for everyone. Ever notice how a lot of poor people jump straight from one relationship to the next?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/01/21 10:00 PM
91

Men don't give a flying fuck about how much money you make or how fantastic your career is. Speak for yourself. There's no way I'd get married again if she didn't have an income similar to mine. Living costs are high enough as it is without a second adult that doesn't contribute. Also has the side effect of insulating you from the alimony laws of a lot of areas.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/01/21 10:16 PM
5

I suspect that none of these girls who want to be provided for like a 50's house wife want to have to do the shitty parts of being a 50's housewife.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/01/21 04:22 AM
11

Just DO NOT get together with a woman who isn't dedicated to being either a good, fair housewife OR one who can't carry her own fair share financially. One of these things is not like the other.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/01/21 06:39 PM
9

She wants a solvent risk taker? What is that, a professional gambler on a hot streak?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/01/21 04:32 PM
4

They support it because they're not the ones going to jail. The clients are replaceable.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/01/21 06:27 PM
97

Fun fact: The body acceptance movement was originally for amputees and burn victims and other disfigured people. I don't think anyone is surprised that it got hijacked by fat people.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/01/21 03:59 PM
3

God help you if you're a single dad and the mother is a cunt and wants to keep the money to herself.
/r/MensRights06/01/21 03:13 PM
2

How about Aggravated Assault?
/r/MensRights06/01/21 03:12 PM
0

Buying a ring for yourself to advertise your high dating standards is self centered but tragic and broken? It advertising your financial restraint and spending priorities, or more specifically your lack thereof.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 06:47 PM
3

At least the girl who bought the new Jeep is getting a reasonably useful vehicle out of it. It should last her a decade or more if she takes proper care of it. I respect her over the girls who drop cash on bling.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 06:45 PM
2

Laws vary wildly with jurisdiction. Talk to a lawyer from your area.
/r/MensRights04/01/21 06:39 PM
3

Fantastic, you can put a kid in a new girl every day if you've got the game for it. Women are doing well to pump out a kid per year.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 05:02 PM
2

If I want a partner that really wants things 50/50 I should just date a man. ... I mean ... you could.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/01/21 04:34 PM
3

I just want men to have the same options as women, whatever they are.
/r/MensRights03/01/21 02:53 PM
2

She likes things that cost lots of money, probably doesn't make much herself, and definitely wants someone who does.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/01/21 05:01 AM
5

Someone in Alberta did the same thing a few years ago. She is now saving a bunch of money on car insurance.
/r/MensRights31/12/20 03:50 PM
2

Are you ok?
/r/MensRights30/12/20 04:38 PM
1

You need to get out.
/r/MensRights30/12/20 02:00 PM
4

Read up about the Duluth model. There's a good reason a lot of guys act like this.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/12/20 01:11 PM
7

Nope, the hard ban on any form of man shaming is 100% the best part of this sub.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/12/20 06:02 PM
103

Pretty standard story, no surprises here. Any indication of how this one turned out?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/12/20 01:17 PM
11

"I know, the fact that you'll let random guys nut inside you is your main virtue." See how long the date lasts after that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/12/20 07:42 PM
96

"What do you bring to the table?" "I am the table." "So you're a piece of furniture? Good to know."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/12/20 03:35 AM
11

I would be thrilled with being a SAHD, or well it just looks like a great deal. Making life easier for the ones you love while not having to play politics, work 80/h weeks. I would love to do that too, but my wife just can't hold down a decent fucking job.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/12/20 02:20 PM
12

I thought we were supposed to be leaving all the best jobs for women because of oppression? Was that not a thing?
/r/MensRights23/12/20 04:36 PM
15

There are some people who've only been with 1 or 2 people their entire lives. The way averages works can be weird some times.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/12/20 04:44 AM
5

Dating sites don't actually want people to hook up - someone that quits the site/app because they've found a happy relationship is a lost customer. They want to sell the experience of dating, since that makes them money.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/12/20 01:13 AM
20

Chivalry is historical fiction written in the Victorian era. The modern notion of it never existed at all.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/12/20 01:58 PM
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Saw that thread in the wild. I absolutely saved a copy of the pic for laughs. Edit: Did the math. This guy spent ~$490 per first date lay. I'm assuming he also got more from girls he went on repeats with (7+ dates with 9 girls), but I don't see an indication of numbers in there to tell what his effective long term cost per lay was. But even with Chad's conversion rates it's still damned expensive to date.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/12/20 03:43 PM
15

It's better to lock down a solid relationship with a good partner before having them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/12/20 03:42 PM
9

I'm quietly hoping that any soldier old enough to be in her target bracket would be able to ID a dependapotamus on sight.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/12/20 10:08 PM
15

It's more about trying to justify the realization that their ovaries are drying up and their looks are fading, and that they need to lock down a wallet while they can.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/12/20 03:19 PM
6

Unless you're only going on dates where she pays or that don't cost anything, it's not even monetarily free.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/12/20 06:54 PM
11

Lots of guys on tinder will swipe right on everyone and then sort through the matches after. It's a lot less effort then sorting through them if you don't even have a chance with them, so I 100% get why they do it. Preggers or not, she's young and cute enough that she could get a 30-ish guy that's looking to settle down if she actually was willing to have realistic standards. And she's clearly open to having sex outside a serious relationship, so there's plenty of guys that will happily use her …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/12/20 05:41 PM
4

If you want have the rich parents needed to excel Fixed that for you.
/r/MensRights09/12/20 07:50 PM
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I've done extensive contingency planning for the occasion. The local relevant laws are fairly straightforwards, thankfully.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/12/20 07:34 PM
30

...Jesus Christ, that got dark.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/12/20 06:25 PM
114

"Out there" is a place you dont want to be. I've straight up told this to my wife a few times, she (says she) doesn't believe me. I feel like one of us is in for a surprise at some point. Though the last time she trotted out the divorce threats, I said fine and started talking about custody arrangements. It sure is interesting how fast she started being amicable after that, and how I haven't heard a pip about divorce since. Should have done that years ago.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/12/20 06:21 PM
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That's about as good a deal as a man can get, of course he took it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/12/20 06:16 PM
1

Get her tested first, say something about the importance of her safety.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/12/20 06:08 PM
20

There's a section of society that needs labels and attention, that's never changed. What has changed is the largely massed acceptance of being a homosexual. Now that no one cares if you're gay it's no longer a good way to get people to pay attention to you. So the folks doing this stuff for attention have to find the trendy new controversial thing.
/r/MensRights08/12/20 03:01 PM
1

I wouldn't say no effort, sounds like a fair amount of cardio was involved.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/12/20 06:21 PM
5

They don't even want it the other way - We all know full well most women will never be ok with being the bread winner while the husband stays home with the house and kids.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/12/20 06:18 PM
11

The kind of man this girl wants can bag someone 10 years younger, easily. I think someone's going to have a rough introduction to her 30's.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/12/20 06:13 PM
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Only if you are freakishly large.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/12/20 12:52 PM
3

You can pretty safely raw dog and nut inside a pregnant girl, and the hormones in some of them will send their sex drives up through the roofs. Main downside is the limited position options.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/12/20 03:47 AM
2

Vaguely. All things considered, I'm pretty lucky to be in a technical field where they don't have much choice about hiring white guys.
/r/MensRights06/12/20 02:56 PM
12

I work for the Canadian government, the op's numbers match my experience.
/r/MensRights06/12/20 01:54 PM
5

Around 240 CAD.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/12/20 02:07 PM
11

The word has lost it's meaning and turned into a generic slur.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/12/20 04:32 PM
5

I always washed my cup/fish/bowl/utensil after its use. fish What the fuck are you doing with that fish?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/12/20 04:31 PM
4

A reliable birth control for men will cause a huge cultural shift.
/r/MensRights03/12/20 04:17 PM
8

One of the major dating sites made their numbers public once - almost all women went after 10-20% of men.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/12/20 03:29 PM
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For much of history a king was expected to lead from the front, and was personally at risk for any major battle. Not so much the case for queens, who could stay safely at home while someone else took care of the bloody parts.
/r/MensRights02/12/20 02:43 PM
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I think discipline is the magic ingredient. If you can give it to a kid, they will have it and respect you for it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/12/20 09:07 PM
10

I'm not automatically opposed to dating a single mom if I ever end up back in the dating market, but there's a hell of a lot of terms and conditions attached to that. Anyone with multiple kids by multiple dads is right out, ditto if they keep talking about their exes. And my willingness to use them for any more then a late night booty call is going to depend heavily on the behavior of their kids. With or without kids, they need to have a real job and career (no MLM/retail) and their own place. F…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/12/20 09:02 PM
2

To be fair it isnt all women. Yes, but this sub really isn't about healthy relationships or women who can have them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/11/20 06:50 PM
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A girl in her 40's could reasonably adopt or be a decent step mom, but you know that's just not what she wants.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/11/20 06:31 PM
2

My parents had 3 kids when they were waaaay too young, and then broke up shortly after. Mom took off and left dad with us, and he really worked hours ass off to take care of us in the following years. The guy mom eventually remarried to also turned out to be a fairly decent guy who treated us fairly well.
/r/MensRights29/11/20 04:43 PM
11

That old social deal hasn't existed for a long time. Welcome to 2020.
/r/MensRights25/11/20 06:43 PM
1

Affirmative action is just legalized discrimination, no surprises there. My field is heavily male dominated, so it's thankfully not a problem I've ever had to deal with.
/r/MensRights24/11/20 08:00 PM
-1

Push her to get an abortion if you don't want the kid, and definitely get a paternity test before signing or agreeing to anything. It's entirely possible that it's someone else's and she's trying to put you on the hook for it. Also, stop sleeping with her entirely. She could easily be faking this to get you to stay with her. Finally, talk to a laywer.
/r/MensRights24/11/20 07:51 PM
8

She's a bisexual feminist, but doesn't want to have anything to do with 3somes or fetishes? What's the point?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/11/20 02:59 PM
10

A man of her age and standards could easily ban a girl in her early 30s.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/11/20 11:57 AM
4

That picture is heavily photoshopped. Shirts don't get THAT black in real life, and there's no way she could have arms and legs that thin with a torso that big.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/11/20 11:55 AM
16

Why on earth would a medieval knightly ideal exist today? It never really existed - modern notions of chivalry are largely historical revisionism from the victorian era.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/11/20 07:05 PM
2

Ya, you really should have kept that to yourself.
/r/MensRights22/11/20 06:27 PM
20

If you want to meet a girl for love, do it while you're a broke college student.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/20 12:53 PM
1

Down voted for truth, I guess. I liked this reddit more before r/incels was shut down.
/r/MensRights22/11/20 12:33 PM
7

Dental and optical are out of pocket in my province. Drugs are out of pocket in most provinces. It's good here, but it's not perfect.
/r/MensRights22/11/20 12:26 PM
27

He would have been left with about a thousand bucks a month to live on, after taxes. And a huge pile of back debt to pay to her and both lawyers. He'd be renting a room while she lived in a beach house on lake Ontario. Moving to the Philippines was absolutely the best thing he could do.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/20 12:21 PM
22

You pretty much won the lottery with that break.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/20 12:09 PM
15

It was absolutely bullshit, but he publicly referred to her as his wife instead of his girlfriend and that makes a big difference to the law in Canada.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/20 12:08 PM
13

I believe that completely.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/11/20 03:11 AM
6

In Alberta it's a couple hundred bucks and a bit of paperwork.
/r/MensRights16/11/20 07:34 PM
2

You're a little delusional, with the incoming administration.
/r/MensRights15/11/20 09:17 PM
5

Good for you. Your country isn't all countries, and that kind of generalization is pretty ignorant.
/r/MensRights14/11/20 12:42 AM
9

Their relationships started out as hot torrid sex affairs, and settled into longterm serious, then even marriage in some cases. To be fair, that does actually happen. My wife and I started off as FWB, and the sex was good and frequent enough that I decided to keep her around. I definitely would have gotten bored and moved on if she wasn't putting out every day before the wedding.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/11/20 10:08 PM
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I take it you're not from a country with a draft. Lots of places in there world where men are expected/forced to spend a year or two with a rifle if the government says so, without giving the men any choice in the matter. Women never seem to have that same problem.
/r/MensRights13/11/20 08:53 PM
2

My main concern is a lot of MRAs seem to have forgotten this detail in the leadup to the election since they chose to vote along party lines. The choices this year were between a douche and a turd.
/r/MensRights13/11/20 04:20 PM
7

Exact length varies from province to province.
/r/MensRights12/11/20 12:16 PM
12

I would rather leave the country with that kind of support. I couldn't even afford to rent a room like that.
/r/MensRights12/11/20 12:16 PM
0

Sounds like your boyfriend has a problem with Apex Fallacy - The people at the very top tend to be guys, therefore all guys are somehow doing great.
/r/MensRights10/11/20 03:09 PM
2

Probably not. Doesn't stop me from following them. Gender issues aside, they have good taste in porn.
/r/MensRights06/11/20 01:22 AM
1

If you want to have kids, kids raised in a stable marraige will come out far better on average. That's about it.
/r/MensRights04/11/20 11:38 PM
8

Gym time and backlighting from behind can make anyone look good, it's a pretty meaningless metric. If she had a pretty face she'd be showing it off.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/11/20 06:46 PM
12

Of course, they need the woke points to please their masters.
/r/MensRights03/11/20 02:59 PM
2

Honestly, I'm surprised that it's women paying in 15% of cases.
/r/MensRights02/11/20 12:36 PM
2

Pretty bad, especially with the current government.
/r/MensRights31/10/20 09:48 PM
3

They're female incels, trying to get a relationship by not putting out.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/10/20 09:54 PM
19

I was FWB with mine for a solid month before we started dating. In hindsight, it was probably the best month of the relationship.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/10/20 09:53 PM
5

It was the closest I have come to genuinely enjoying myself and I’ve been absolutely clamouring to recreate that feeling ever since. I pounced on every opportunity to buy the PS5 for that very reason but every single time they’d become available, the websites would crash repeatedly and come back saying “Whoops all sold out, sorry not sorry lol”. Knowing that they’ll be impossible to find until halfway through next year is just depressing me even more. Ya, I've given up on it and am waiting for n…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/10/20 01:31 PM
1

Please post some examples for those of us who haven't seen it in the wild. 😛
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/10/20 10:25 PM
12

Given how much feminists like to support/abuse the CPS system, I'm inclined to think we should adopt this as a cause of our own.
/r/MensRights25/10/20 05:42 PM
14

By 49 a guy has either already done it or isn't going to do it at all. Even if you got someone pregnant immediately, you'd be pushing 70 by the time the kid moved out (at best).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/10/20 05:56 PM
5

Odds are pretty good that someone that old didn't know any better.
/r/MensRights22/10/20 04:04 PM
1

There's been a noticable downhill trend since r/incels got banned and we got a lot of their refugees.
/r/MensRights21/10/20 07:39 PM
7

I work for the Canadian government. There's plenty of guys working in my agency, but my (anecdotal) experience is that guys tend to be concentrated in technical areas, or physical/outdoor jobs. Groups like Marketing are very heavily female.
/r/MensRights21/10/20 07:30 PM
5

Someone in Alberta did it a few years ago to save a bunch of money on car insurance.
/r/MensRights21/10/20 07:26 PM
2

Please explain how this relates to men's rights. This could probably be an auto comment on all posts on this sub.
/r/MensRights21/10/20 05:40 PM
3

This is textbook abusive behavior.
/r/MensRights20/10/20 01:55 PM
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It's often dependent on relative incomes. Which is why frugal women with no jobs can often coast on welfare and child support for years...at least until their ovaries dry up and the last kid turns 18. Then you've got a few rough years after that, though at least 65 is just around the corner by that point.
/r/MensRights20/10/20 02:34 AM
1

I can sympathize. It was bad enough 8 years ago when I got together with my wife. I don't think I'd bother being serious with someone new unless she had a ton of resources to bring to the table.
/r/MensRights17/10/20 12:23 PM
2

It's really not, but this sub has turned into a bit of a catch all for men's issues. Especially since the incels reddit was shut down, their refugees had to go somewhere.
/r/MensRights17/10/20 12:22 PM
1

Married with 2 kids, but thanks for making a string of stupid assumptions. It's been very entertaining.
/r/MensRights16/10/20 11:03 AM
1

So is everyone who disagrees with you automatically an incel? That's a very FDS way of thinking.
/r/MensRights16/10/20 02:35 AM
3

Those numbers are actually backed up by stats. OKC used to release their numbers and analysis, before they realised the numbers and truth weren't woke enough and pulled them.
/r/MensRights15/10/20 10:42 PM
14

I think feminists get offended by the idea of a female bread winner.
/r/MensRights15/10/20 06:31 PM
23

No shortage of younger guys who have a thing for older women. Gods know I did at that age.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/10/20 03:43 PM
11

Your confidence in the US education system is rather misplaced.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/10/20 12:14 AM
5

She hates everyone equally, so I wouldn't lump her in with the normal man haying feminists.
/r/MensRights10/10/20 03:10 PM
1

You're as dumb as the idiots over in FDS.
/r/MensRights08/10/20 11:30 PM
1

Sometimes the best move in a game is to not play. Our play your own game instead.
/r/MensRights07/10/20 12:35 AM
2

First, this isn't really a mens issue. Second, young people tend to be willing (or not have a choice about) working more hours for less money. This is especially the case in the video games industry where the only old people are the ones running the companies.
/r/MensRights06/10/20 11:46 AM
15

Same reason women don't like to be circumcised, it greatly reduces sexual pleasure.
/r/MensRights06/10/20 01:06 AM
2

You're not, it's a pipe dream
/r/MensRights06/10/20 01:04 AM
2

Lots of countries don't care about that at all. Which is funny, since a man lieing about using a condom is absolutely rape in those same countries.
/r/MensRights06/10/20 01:04 AM
2

You need a lawyer. That said, don't sign anything acknowledging paternity. Insist on a test for it before agreeing to anything. You can't (generally/legally) get out of a child support order, but you're not at all required to be a part of the kids life. If you're really stubborn you could cut contact, ghost her, and move across the country. You're stuck in the US due to covid though.
/r/MensRights06/10/20 01:03 AM
5

It’s why I reject the black pill, those guys are fatalists. Every guy cannot be a 10 or Chad, but unless you have got a deformity or something, you can improve. Fitness, grooming, and hygiene can take even the ugliest guy on the planet to a 7. And 8-9 is doable for most guys if they're not screwed by genetics and have a decent attitude. Getting a 10 needs you to have been born with a strong jaw line, but there's no helping that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/10/20 12:52 AM
3

I do not understand that logic at all.. men LOVE sex.. why would a woman withdrawl that from the guy she wants to be in a long term relationship with? No idea. A huge chunk of the reason why I married my wife was her sex drive, which is still (thank god) pretty damned high after 2 kids and 6 years of marriage.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/10/20 12:48 AM
3

Standard thot shifting to resource extraction mode. She's young and cute enough that she could do fairly well if she kept her standards reasonable. But she won't.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/10/20 12:16 PM
9

Even with a kid in tow, she's young and cute enough (and obviously willing to go bareback) that she should be able to pretty much have her pick of late 20's guys looking to settle down. Either she can't or she won't, and either way that says a lot about her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/09/20 01:34 PM
8

(All prices are using my local figures as an example) Say you take a girl out for a date. Entrees are $20 each, you'll probably have 2-3 drinks each at $8 each. Maybe an appetizer, maybe a desert. Call that $10 on average. That's $90 in total. After taxes (15%) and tips (15%) you're probably spending $120 on average to take a girl out for an evening, and that's before the cost of any entertainments (movies, etc) you have to pay for. And that's with no guarantee at all that you'll get so much as …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/09/20 06:53 PM
1

If I've learned anything from Detroit: Become Human, it's that there's going to be a sweet spot between realistic sex bots and the robot revolution. It's going to be great.
/r/MensRights26/09/20 02:24 PM
7

I've heard Mia Khalifa is doing the same thing. Trying to make her porn career go away despite having an active OnlyFans. Consequences sure do suck.
/r/MensRights25/09/20 04:35 PM
3

I am not looking forwards to when they start feeding this to my kids. Hopefully the catholic schools are better.
/r/MensRights18/09/20 09:46 PM
9

Throw it in the garbage. That's where it belongs.
/r/MensRights18/09/20 09:44 PM
2

Yup, this is a real thing. I have no idea what couples with shared custody do.
/r/MensRights16/09/20 11:10 PM
34

FDS is basically just female incels, crying about how they can't get a relationship. Nothing new or exciting there.
/r/MensRights14/09/20 04:18 PM
1

It was a 14 year relationship in which he paid all of her living expenses and publicly referred to her as his wife, despite the legal formalities having not taken place. So don't refer to someone as your wife for 14 years while paying for her expenses, and you'll probably be ok.
/r/MensRights13/09/20 08:45 PM
1

He made a blatant attempt at loophole abuse specifically against the advice of his lawyer. He publicly referred to her as his wife and paid her living expenses for 14 years. It sucks for the rest of us, but the dude had it coming.
/r/MensRights13/09/20 08:44 PM
3

Read into it more. He ignored his lawyer and tried to pull a fast one on the judge. Judge made an example of him.
/r/MensRights13/09/20 01:16 PM
7

Kids.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/09/20 04:14 PM
12

A string a fights and several divorce threats. She definitely resents me for it, but I can tell she's not fucking around by how resentful she is about it plus some light stalking. The funny part is that we were both talking to people and I had a couple more girls lined up that were hot to trot with me. I wouldn't have cared if it had been basically any other guy but that one ex (we dislike each other for reasons that aren't relevant). Her income is close enough to mine that she would get no alim…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/09/20 11:26 AM
33

My wife was interested in that stuff earlier this year. I figured out early on that she was mainly interested in a specific ex of hers and shut that down before she got past texting with him. Soon after that her interest in threesomes and open relationships and such largely died. Funny how that works. Though we did the threesome in my favour first, so I think I came out ahead in the end.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/09/20 11:55 PM
14

Hygiene, grooming, and fitness will take almost any man on the planet to a 7. This guy was probably also blessed with good genetics. Low standards and cash will also help.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/09/20 11:49 PM
7

He publicly presented her as his wife. Critical mistake under Ontario law.
/r/MensRights11/09/20 11:26 PM
6

Alimony mad sense 100 years ago when women didn't have the same job / earning rights as men. It doesn't make a drop on sense in 2020.
/r/MensRights11/09/20 11:25 PM
1

10 years of support for a 14 year relationship where they never lived together. It's really his fault though - he publicly treated and presented her as a wife even when she specifically refused a marraige contract. That's a clear failure on his part under Ontario laws. The lesson here: know your local laws.
/r/MensRights11/09/20 11:22 PM
1

I’m considering filing a defamation of character or libel civil suit against my accuser. Her actions cost me a great deal of money, damaged my career, and to say my mental health and personal relationships have suffered is an understatement. Talk to the lawyer you used, it sounds like she can help you unfuck a lot of this.
/r/MensRights15/08/20 01:57 PM
1

At your age, consider the air force if they'll take you. Barring a few specific jobs it's generally the easiest place to be.
/r/MGTOW02/08/20 12:33 PM
18

Laws vary wildly with jurisdiction.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/08/20 02:00 PM
42

"12 hour dates for our first 5 meetings" Anyone here think they were meeting for breakfast and spending the day together?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/07/20 03:02 PM
4

Their men die and go to jail way more then the women do. But we don't talk about that.
/r/MensRights18/07/20 10:37 PM
10

I can see why it shouldn't be considered as direct evidence - but courts all over the world allow circumstantial evidence, and previous histories of false accusations should 100% be considered as circumstantial evidence.
/r/MensRights18/07/20 10:34 PM
0

Plenty of countries don't agree with you. And even if you were right somehow, the vast majority of military jobs aren't infantry, they're desk jockeys and other rear area jobs any far slob could do.
/r/MensRights18/07/20 11:39 AM
9

Demand a paternity test before signing or agreeing to anything. This screams baby trap to me. And definitely don't have sex with her again, and try to avoid meeting her in person, especially in private.
/r/MensRights10/07/20 11:06 AM
1

Not everyone is trapped in a toxic relationship.
/r/MensRights05/07/20 09:21 PM
-21

Down voted for truth. The comments on a lot of posts in this sub have taken a subtle incel leaning since that sub for closed.
/r/MensRights04/07/20 01:32 PM
4

The results, which apply to the population as a whole and not individuals, suggest that male brains may be optimized for motor skills, and female brains may be optimized for combining analytical and intuitive thinking. This article suggests the opposite of your theory that men are naturally better programmers.
/r/MensRights02/07/20 03:58 PM
1

Got a reputable source on that?
/r/MensRights02/07/20 01:57 PM
4

I have worked with a ton of male developers with most of the same problems. It's a shitty person thing, not a genitals thing.
/r/MensRights02/07/20 01:30 PM
41

It's adorable how you don't seem to think they could use something like this to clean out a lot of the non-woke subs like this one.
/r/MensRights28/06/20 01:00 PM
2

Apex fallacy.
/r/MensRights28/06/20 12:26 PM
8

If it's the US air force he'll get to move out of barracks and into an actual house, and not have to deal with a whole bunch of stupid petty BS from the officers and NCOs for being out of convenient reach. Plus he'll get a bunch of extra money for it. I haven't served myself, but I'm told it's pretty common.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/20 11:45 PM
5

If you buy high end cookware you can run them through any dish washing machine. Nearly everything can be machine washed these days if you buy the right brand.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/20 11:41 PM
9

Because it's not actually a legal thing a thing anywhere right now, that's why we're asking for it.
/r/PussyPassDenied27/06/20 02:54 PM
2

I dunno, I'm a pretty big fan of not dieing in a war or in the laughable safety standards of early industry.
/r/MensRights27/06/20 11:58 AM
2

Everyone had it worse back then. The men worked 12 hour days in fields or factories, or were marched off by force to fight a war.
/r/MensRights27/06/20 11:19 AM
4

Almost every country in the world offers paid leave for new mothers, and a lot of them offer it to fathers too. As with many social issues, the US is incredibly backwards. Source: an Canadian, had a year of paid leave to take care of my daughter.
/r/MensRights27/06/20 11:16 AM
3

Look into your local laws. On the spot evictions like this are usually illegal.
/r/MensRights21/06/20 12:50 PM
1

Depends entirely on the jurisdiction.
/r/MensRights21/06/20 12:49 PM
7

You're not wrong. One of the major factors in me getting married was wanting to have kids, and knowing how much better they turn out if you can raise them in a stable relationship.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/06/20 02:18 PM
5

She looks fairly decent for 40. Especially for someone that's pushed out 4 kids. She could find someone easily with some realistic expectations.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/06/20 09:09 PM
35

Her reasons for being married are all about how it would make her feel better. Nothing at all about her kid or the man in question.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/06/20 09:05 PM
10

Starting price is $120 for a half-hour where I live. Which isn't long, but it's long enough. If you can make do with twice per month that's under 3k per year to handle your physical needs. Maybe cheaper if you can talk a girl into providing a regular customer discount. Plenty of married guys make do with a lot less then twice per month, and you can still try to score tinder chicks on the side if you're feeling ambitious.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/06/20 08:17 PM
12

Lack of education and birth control. It really doesn't take much.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/06/20 08:54 AM
14

It happens in poor and uneducated areas. My family has examples of it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/06/20 08:54 AM
1

Go look at the vote spread for this comment chain. It says everything that needs to be said to someone who has obviously made up their mind.
/r/MensRights06/06/20 02:23 PM
3

You know how nobody likes TERFs and they drive people away from feminism? That's you. You're an MRA-TERF hybrid.
/r/MensRights06/06/20 12:12 AM
3

I'm right, and you're wrong too.
/r/MensRights06/06/20 12:05 AM
5

He's an idiot. This movement needs all the help it can get, alienating people with stupidity is the opposite of that.
/r/MensRights05/06/20 11:51 PM
4

More then half of them attempt suicide due to the stress of being a man. Please reconsider your stupidity. This is the same position that TERFs take about trans women. I shouldn't have to explain how wrong it is.
/r/MensRights05/06/20 09:39 PM
3

Libido loss can also be caused by weight gain (of either or both partners), or depression or any number of other actual medical medical problems. Not blaming or shaming here, just pointing out the sheer number of factors that can be involved.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/06/20 05:24 PM
1

The treatment is super uneven. In most of the country they're treated like second class citizens. At the same time, they ignore a lot of laws and the cops won't bother dealing with it because that would be racist. As a result the tribes that live near white people and aren't idiots can make a ton of cash by selling tax free gas/tobacco/weed to said white people. I got a permanent ban from r/canada for pointing this out.
/r/MensRights05/06/20 02:31 PM
3

Then UN not feeding men and only feeding women is another one. Countries where this happens very quickly have the men ambushing the women to steal food, and other/worse things. Hungry people don't give a shit.
/r/MensRights05/06/20 02:28 PM
16

Because they get in a lot of trouble when they shoot a woman.
/r/MensRights03/06/20 11:27 AM
1

Kind of. She's got squirrel powers, and she solves a lot of her problems through compromise and negotiating with her opponents, and not just through beating them all into submission.
/r/MensRights29/05/20 06:25 PM
3

Sure it is. Bruce Wayne might be at great fitness for a runner or martial artist, but those generally aren't guys with unrealistically large muscles. And being Bruce Wayne during the day time, he's probably eating a bunch of fancy food during the day time to fit into rich people social events and maintain his lazy rich boy persona.
/r/MensRights28/05/20 03:48 PM
3

I guess no one's heard of Squirrel Girl before? She's usually portrayed as being a bit chunky, and she does fine by having her entire personality not being based around her body size.
/r/MensRights28/05/20 03:44 PM
1

Day care alone runs $900 per month per kid in my area. I can easily see a couple hundred bucks a month for diapers and wipes and clothes and formula. And that's not even touching health care costs if you have the misfortune to live in some third world shit hole that doesn't provide basic healthcare.
/r/MensRights27/05/20 02:03 PM
63

Married for 6 years with 2 kids. I'm not at all concerned about my daughter's future, but simple statistics make me seriously concerned about my son.
/r/MensRights24/05/20 07:58 PM
13

I expect they're getting paid for it, or at least a free vacation out of it when they're not on a camera. Not the worst deal.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/05/20 06:26 PM
1

It's like saying an asian going to Harvard for a math degree is good at math. This isn't about all incels, this is about that one specific guy who played GTA in real life because he couldn't get laid.
/r/MensRights21/05/20 03:04 AM
-2

Couldn't tell you specifically, I wasn't at his interrogation and the articles I've seen only offer so much in the way of specifics. I'm guessing there's something about an active investigation involved.
/r/MensRights21/05/20 03:02 AM
-8

"Terrorist", noun. A person who uses unlawful violence and intimidation, especially against civilians, in the pursuit of political aims. He killed 6 people and injured 13 more by driving a van into a crowd. He cited the incel movement as the reason he did it. If it looks like a duck, walks like a duck, and quacks like a duck, it's probably a duck.
/r/MensRights20/05/20 07:57 PM
7

And as a funny little cap, if you combine the two, you realize that a subreddit which is dedicated to judging strangers.....is populated mostly by teenage girls. Absolutely classic. It honestly explains a lot.
/r/MensRights19/05/20 03:01 PM
2

Terrible taste, but I think it proves the point.
/r/MensRights19/05/20 02:59 PM
3

The one time I posted on that sub I wrote the post to be 100% gender neutral on a throwaway account. People were not shy about assuming my gender, and my spouses gender too.
/r/MensRights19/05/20 02:53 PM
2

Clearly I was missing some important context.
/r/MensRights17/05/20 08:48 PM
3

Blacks owning guns are the reason why California's gun control laws are so strict. The Black Panthers were doing armed patrols with rifles, following cops around in black neighborhoods. Reagan was governor at the time, and we all know the result.
/r/MensRights17/05/20 08:11 PM
3

The vast majority of murders in Canada are guns smuggled in from the US, of types that were already illegal here. Mainly handguns. This assault weapon ban is just getting votes from his largely anti-gun base at the expense of the pro-gun population that mostly weren't going to vote for him anyways.
/r/MensRights17/05/20 08:07 PM
12

Traditional guys looking to start a family will be looking 10-15 years younger than her, and have a strong preference for someone without kids. Because traditional guys don't just want any random family, they want their own family.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/05/20 02:08 PM
3

I feel like the various 'progressive' movements are slowly starting to turn on each other when they're short on better targets. A prime example of this was a few years ago when the Toronto Pride Parade was held hostage by the local BLM chapter until they agreed that blacks had it worse. Intersectional feminism has done more good for MRAs/etc then anyone on the progressive side of things.
/r/MensRights12/05/20 02:13 AM
5

I refuse to use any other acronym than LGBT Some people don't even want the T in there. See r/LGBdroptheT for some reading material
/r/MensRights12/05/20 02:10 AM
2

I can empathize. I'm Canadian, our social safety nets are way stronger then most of the people in this sub are used to. I've used them on a couple of occasions, too.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/05/20 12:31 AM
2

Careful with that talk, this isn't a sub that lines social programs.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/05/20 10:01 PM
8

Damned if I know, I'm not exactly a regular there.
/r/MensRights07/05/20 05:38 PM
14

They auto-ban anyone who has posted on men's reddits. Edit: Never mind, apparently it's just on lock down now.
/r/MensRights07/05/20 03:28 PM
2

Anyone who thinks things in the US are fine are blindly letting themselves fall to apex fallacy. Most of that country is objectively a shit hole for most people, and I'm glad to not live there.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/05/20 02:35 PM
5

God made man, and Sam Colt made them equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 08:56 PM
1

Ya...MGTOW makes a lot more sense when you take a look at internet feminism on your second monitor.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 08:44 PM
3

If I had to start dating again, the first couple dates would be coffee or drinks at my place. Easy way to weed out the gold diggers.
/r/MensRights05/05/20 11:52 AM
2

Good thing I'm not married to the girl in the op's pic then, isn't it?
/r/MensRights05/05/20 11:50 AM
9

Joke's on her. If my wife made enough money to pay for our household and lifestyle, I would absolutely and happily quit my job and be the house husband.
/r/MensRights04/05/20 05:44 PM
6

A lot of subs have bots that will autoban people who post in subs that they disagree with.
/r/MensRights29/04/20 04:24 PM
6

Sudden realization of how expensive kids are?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/04/20 10:58 AM
1

You know I thought about getting a dick a couple times to just not have to be associated with humans like this but come on. You'll do more good for us on your side of the isle, to be honest. You should also look into a book called 'self made woman'... I think it's called. It's about a girl who spent a year living as a man,and it's pretty enlightening. Someone else can probably correct me on the actual title.
/r/MensRights26/04/20 01:22 AM
11

... This is how you get food riots, and people stealing food to survive. Young men that are hungry and desparate will do whatever they have to in order to survive.
/r/MensRights25/04/20 03:32 AM
2

Ya, but we're also playing with a handicap factor next door.
/r/MensRights11/04/20 10:00 PM
11

Talk to a lawyer. Laws vary with jurisdiction, and you need actual legal advice.
/r/MensRights05/04/20 10:48 PM
0

Your brother's teacher has clearly never been to Canada.
/r/MensRights30/03/20 02:23 PM
4

If you can make it work somehow, kids from stable marraiges end up significantly better off. And keep in mind that this sub isn't about the success stores at all, it's strictly about the failures.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/03/20 12:25 AM
4

I just chuckled thinking about a platoon of 100 lbs women going hand-to-hand against men in combat. Think they'll do better if we issue them some guns?
/r/MensRights25/03/20 01:14 PM
5

Work on yourself. Don't get anyone pregnant until you're ready to.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/03/20 12:54 PM
61

That sub has a major bias for women. When I posted on it about something, it was intentionally written in gender neutral language and people were still happy to make wild assumptions that were mostly wrong.
/r/MensRights24/03/20 12:29 AM
4

Not until he's out of quarantine, at least.
/r/MensRights22/03/20 11:08 PM
7

Peterson might have been able to do it if he hadn't run into all his health issues. I can't think of anyone else off the top of my head.
/r/MensRights22/03/20 04:01 PM
10

It's a fairly common tactic for guys to swipe right on everyone and then filter through the matches. I can see the appeal, since it saves you a bunch of time reading through profiles of people who will never talk to you.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/03/20 11:17 AM
10

I don't imagine that too many people will care that you hang out in this sub, as long as you've got the right attitude. The mods are pretty good about cracking down on bad behaviors.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/03/20 01:22 AM
8

Based on the dates, odds are decent that the bill died on the table when the next election was called.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/03/20 01:20 AM
9

However, you can distinctly see that the black guy pops out with the cell phone in the Weaver stance With a black cell phone that could easily be mistaken for a gun. I'm not surprised he kept getting popped, I'd have shot him too.
/r/MensRights15/03/20 11:47 AM
25

At that age I'm going to guess that someone's figured out that the 9-5 actually sucks, and life is better when you've got someone to pay for it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/03/20 12:37 AM
20

Go above the HR Drone's head, with the evidence. Take some time to prepare it so you can be calm and cohesive. If that doesn't work, consider legal action.
/r/MensRights10/03/20 08:42 PM
3

There's plenty of names that get used by both genders. Alex, Taylor, etc.
/r/MensRights13/02/20 09:10 PM
16

That sub has a heavy female bias. If you're going to use it, use a throwaway and write your post to be completely gender neutral. That's what I do when I use it.
/r/MensRights12/02/20 09:50 PM
8

r/AmItheAsshole/
/r/MensRights10/02/20 06:16 PM
37

Last time I used that sub, I wrote the post to be specifically gender neutral. Most people made wild (and wrong) gender assumptions, and I had one person complaining that it was some type of gender bias experiment. It wasn't...but having to do it to get a straight answer kind of proves my point.
/r/MensRights10/02/20 04:18 PM
2

This isn't a good sub for serious advice, FYI. But to answer your question... My wife and I have a lot in common: Sex drive, kinks, life goals, interests. Plus we got together when we were both in our early 20's, which holds up against the pair bonding theory you'll see a lot of in this sub. Keep your expectations realistic and you'll probably come out ok.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/02/20 02:30 PM
1

Can you deduct what you pay in medical from the child support you send over? Send copies of receipts with them.
/r/MensRights09/02/20 02:03 PM
1

Saw that comment on r/dndmemes - can't say I'm surprised at the reaction it got there.
/r/MensRights05/02/20 02:55 PM
2

Won't happen in Seattle, but there's plenty of places it can be done.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/02/20 04:20 AM
3

At that age you could just wait a couple years for natural causes to take care of it. This is just terrible planning.
/r/MensRights02/02/20 01:42 PM
5

Sounds like you don't know how bill's work.
/r/MensRights27/01/20 01:03 PM
2

Child support in Ontario is based on relative income levels. If women's income went up and men's was static, then the child support numbers probably went down over time.
/r/MensRights21/01/20 01:38 AM
14

I saw a study someone did about that one. Statistically speaking, any N count under 8 or so is an ok bet. Virgins are only really safer when the religion card is in play, so you'd better find a God.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/01/20 01:13 PM
13

Bezos could have afforded any prostitute he wanted, and he had no shortage of business excuses to get away. He really was stupid.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/01/20 03:53 AM
-8

A swing and a miss, thanks for playing.
/r/MensRights16/01/20 03:11 PM
-10

I liked this sub a lot more before r/incels shut down and their refugees flooded the other men's reddits.
/r/MensRights16/01/20 02:58 PM
0

What he probably actually said was something like this: "Clinton tried using her gender as a reason to elect her, and look what that got here. Why do you think it'll work for you?"
/r/MensRights15/01/20 09:06 PM
5

The drive to have children can be a strong one. Don't underestimate it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/01/20 04:27 AM
6

I don't have a source, but I heard once that the US had a proposal that any wars needed to be put to a mass vote and anyone voting in favour was automatically signed up for a draft for said war. I feel like such a system could solve a lot of problems in a lot of countries. The way things are going now, I won't be surprised if the US ends up in the sort of rule-by-veterans system you saw in Starship Troopers in 20 or 30 years.
/r/MensRights06/01/20 02:13 PM
7

Don't actually double wrap, the friction actually increases the odds of a tear. Pay extra for a good brand instead.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/01/20 05:33 AM
3

Can't speak for all of them, but here they're really just a marketing exercise to sell cookies. They do crafts and stuff in the off season. The boys groups get to go camping and do outside stuff.
/r/MensRights18/12/19 12:15 AM
2

At that point it's cheaper to get a prostitute.
/r/MensRights16/12/19 06:28 PM
1

Start shopping around, might be a good time to save up for a vacation.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/11/19 03:27 PM
1

This looks more like a TumblrInaction post to me.
/r/MensRights07/11/19 02:36 PM
4

STEM fields tend to deal with objective truths and probably facts. It's hard to bulls hit your way though getting the wrong answer out of an equation or a piece of code not giving the right result.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/11/19 05:09 PM
17

That's about how much I spent on my wife's engagement ring, and we're still married 5 years later. Also, those comments. You can really tell the female bias in that sub coming out in full force.
/r/MensRights03/11/19 12:33 PM
16

If you're in the US, file a Title IX complaint. If you're somewhere else, look up your local laws as there might still be a formal complaint mechanism.
/r/MensRights01/11/19 08:59 PM
1

In the USA, there's nothing stopping either kid from joining the military for support if they need it. Go ahead and cut them off.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/10/19 09:44 PM
1

Depends on your local marriage and divorce laws. Look into who actually owns the house, because if you marry her now a lot of states will have you on the hook for paternity. You're probably better off running away immediately. TLDR, talk to a lawyer.
/r/MensRights22/10/19 02:43 PM
1

Sorry bud, but I think a lot of your dates are just fishing for free meals at nice restaurants.
/r/MensRights19/10/19 06:30 PM
2

Ditto. Government tech worker, have tons of free time.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/10/19 12:10 PM
-4

Way lower expenses. Way lower cost of living.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/10/19 12:02 PM
1

With most of the private sector CS companies I worked at you were lucky to get a COLA. One company only implemented COLA so they could take the cost of living argument away from people who wanted to ask for a raise.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/10/19 05:38 PM
2

I got along great with my step dad, but he also mostly left me alone to do my thing and I mostly wasn't a little shit to begin with.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/10/19 05:35 PM
10

Sometimes the only way to win is to not play. I can totally understand where the MGTOW guys are coming from these days.
/r/MensRights16/10/19 01:44 PM
16

Both partners in a relationship should have a reasonable expectation to have their needs fulfilled by the other partner. I don't think anyone with a successful long term relationship will disagree with that.
/r/MensRights11/10/19 02:50 PM
3

I made my wife pay for a lot of our early dates. Though that was because she kept wanting to go to a restaurant I wasn't big on.
/r/MensRights08/10/19 07:03 PM
1

They'll find male suckers to do it for them. Antifa would probably be happy to jump on that.
/r/MensRights05/10/19 04:12 PM
4

And they often take a lot more time off work for child rearing, so even less time actually working.
/r/MensRights04/10/19 01:35 PM
4

The people who are responsible for our current system are the ones who created it. That's all on the boomers.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/10/19 08:17 PM
13

STEM requires actual technical skill. It's not something where you can get by on social connections and schmoozing and bullshitting.
/r/MensRights02/10/19 11:52 AM
3

I made my wife pay for most of our early dates, because she kept wanting to go to a restaurant I had no interest in. I'd say it worked out well in the end.
/r/MensRights30/09/19 03:51 PM
1

I ain't saying she's a good digger...
/r/MensRights29/09/19 11:44 AM
1

I’d not slept with that many partners. My relationships were most often long and monogamous. I did not think of myself as a likely candidate to have any type of sexual issue. Because of all this, my knowledge of HPV (and other STIs) was little to none. It only takes 1 bad choice.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/09/19 09:41 PM
42

That's clever. How do you call that offensive without admitting that Islam treats women like shit?
/r/MensRights27/09/19 09:18 PM
6

Decades of indoctrination don't go away overnight, and you're an idiot if you believe otherwise.
/r/MensRights26/09/19 02:44 PM
2

That's not always the case. At a previous job, there was a guy who would consistently piss all over the toilet seat. It was bad to the point that I had to take my morning shit by 10:30, or all the toilets would be gross. I'm not cleaning that up. Any later then that and I'd be walking to the coffee shop around the corner.
/r/MensRights22/09/19 06:33 PM
2

Sounds like a great time for an ATIP request.
/r/MensRights21/09/19 06:49 PM
15

the female controlled state will take the money (mostly from men) and give it to the women in the form of welfare That'll only last until women start out earning men. Once that happens, the welfare state is going to evaporate fast. I figure it'll take a couple decades, based on the current college graduation rates.
/r/MensRights20/09/19 03:47 PM
2

It's 18 years of free money, either from the baby daddy or from the government. Why wouldn't they do it?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/09/19 09:34 PM
7

Seriously? Having your own place,a car and a job at 30 years of age is an accomplishment now? For a lot of people these days? It actually is. Especially if the place is owned and not a cheap shitty rental.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/09/19 07:33 PM
13

I think Disney princess movies fucked up a lot of woman with this prince charming idea You got this part right.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/09/19 07:32 PM
1

The urge to have kids is perfectly normal for both genders. It's a major biological imperative.
/r/MensRights12/09/19 05:34 PM
-1

If you want to go your own way, then good for you. Some of us like putting our dicks in other people.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/09/19 11:33 AM
4

Good for you. I made my wife pay for a lot of our early dates, but that was also because she kept wanting to go to a restaurant that I wasn't very into.
/r/MensRights11/09/19 01:09 PM
3

I generally tell people to cap their spending at a coffee or something similar.
/r/MensRights11/09/19 01:07 PM
2

Probably shouldn't assume they're all from the same dad in a case like this.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/09/19 06:09 PM
7

Play through Detroit: Become Human sometime. Game itself was hit and miss, but they actually touched on sex bots at a couple points. Once someone starts selling a sex bot that can clean your house too, all you really need in your life is a dog. It's going to be a massive societal game changer.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/09/19 01:15 PM
6

I would totally do that if gender preferential retirement policies become a thing here. An extra 5 years of retirement sounds great.
/r/MensRights09/09/19 07:36 PM
8

There was legit a guy in Alberta who legally changed his gender to save a bunch of money on car insurance.
/r/MensRights09/09/19 06:43 PM
2

In a low CoL area with good spending discipline and roommates, it's doable. I've done it.
/r/MensRights06/09/19 05:35 PM
2

I'm Canadian.
/r/MensRights06/09/19 03:02 PM
3

The fact that you live if NY or SF or whatever high COL area you're in is on you, 1k per month is enough to live comfortably in many areas. Especially with an SO or roommate to split the expenses with.
/r/MensRights06/09/19 11:57 AM
6

Depends a lot on where he works and what their pension plan is like.
/r/MensRights06/09/19 11:54 AM
12

Can confirm. Have put 2 kids in my wife, and her inside fun parts are still just as fun as when we first got married.
/r/MensRights06/09/19 11:52 AM
10

I completely blame them when their solution is to find a man to leach off of.
/r/MensRights06/09/19 11:49 AM
6

Fun fact: As long as the kid's entirely breast fed you can do it pretty safely after birth, too. The hormones kicked up by breast feeding are a natural form of birth control.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/08/19 01:26 PM
1

Double standards, obviously. The main thing there that surprises me is the amount of effort this guy put into getting a one off pump and dump.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/08/19 01:22 PM
1

Make peace with it, and try to change the system so it doesn't happen to anyone else. If it's any consolation, I've never known the difference and I still find sex enjoyable.
/r/MensRights23/08/19 03:17 PM
6

She probably never would have had the staying power. It's the same reason why Taylor Swift crossed over as soon as her country career peaked.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/08/19 11:04 AM
1

Cars make far more sense in Europe then in most of the US. It's a simple function of transit development and population density.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/08/19 07:00 PM
36

I did it for a year, it was great.
/r/MensRights21/08/19 12:10 AM
-1

Try being a house parent for a few months with an infant that isn't old enough to sleep through the night, let me know if you still think that way.
/r/MensRights12/08/19 02:15 PM
2

I was a house dad for a year after my first kid was born. The worst part by far was getting her to sleep. I don't know a ton of people who can function well when they're being woken up 3-5 times a night. I'd say a lot of how hard it is depends on how many kids you have, and what their temperament is like. My second child is massively easier to wrangle then the first, other then a habit of climbing everything.
/r/MensRights12/08/19 02:13 PM
10

My experience in a Game Dev program wasn't as bad as yours, but it was still a completely waste. They were teaching us to be generalists in an industry that hires teams of specialists. Also, terrible work conditions. Now I make web sites for the government, and have my evenings free to do whatever I want.
/r/MensRights09/08/19 06:01 PM
22

Find a man rich enough to pay for you to not have to work, then poke a few needle holes in the condom.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/08/19 12:08 PM
9

Millennials created this shit. Try again. They were taught it by boomer parents that couldn't handle their children not all being special snowflakes.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/07/19 04:05 PM
5

You...might want to consider skipping the country or something while you can. It sounds like you're going to be screwed no matter what you do, so it might well be time to get out while you can. Most countries without extradition treaties are shitholes, but if you go dark and keep moving you can stay out of sight for a long time.
/r/MensRights30/07/19 08:17 PM
7

That's enough to live off of. Not always living well in some areas, but still enough to do literally nothing if you can control your spending.
/r/MensRights26/07/19 07:29 PM
2

Try it some time.
/r/PussyPassDenied25/07/19 12:14 AM
2

r/MensRights is not bad either, although they have been acting like bitches as of late. r/incels got closed, I think a lot of them migrated there. It's a shame, it was a relatively mature sub for actualy discussions.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/07/19 06:11 PM
5

Easy, all you need to do is focus on being someone a man would want to marry.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/07/19 08:02 PM
9

Chores and child raising don't take all day They easily can with toddlers. I was a house dad for a year, small kids will make messes just as you can clean them up and it takes time before their cleaning skills reach a useful level.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/07/19 06:58 PM
1

That question has saved me from a lot of hassle over the years.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/07/19 06:53 PM
2

This isn't a good sub for actual dating advice. The only reason to get married these days is if you want kids, as it's proven that the children will be significantly more successful if they're from a successful marriage. Common law and divorce laws vary with jurisdiction. Consult a lawyer and consider a prenup if you're serious.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/07/19 02:24 PM
7

I've heard the complete opposite about cruise crews hooking up with passengers. I'm told the companies are terrified of rape cases hitting the media in the #metoo age.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/07/19 09:13 PM
1

Plot twist: He's Canadian. Check his profile.
/r/MensRights03/07/19 12:40 PM
2

Plot twist: He's Canadian. Check his profile.
/r/MensRights03/07/19 12:40 PM
10

Starting around 15 or so you need to have a long conversation with your kids (both genders) about long term plans needing long term planning. Repeat yearly or more, and throw in some basic demographic analysis for flavour. Put it in politically neutral language so you don't have to deal with any of that BS.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre26/06/19 01:25 AM
9

This is why I regret this sub's bandwagoning problem. Sometimes the extra context from the comments is good.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/06/19 11:24 AM
1

About the only thing I miss about being single was all the free time I had. My wife still has her sex drive, so getting laid is generally as easy as "Hey, wanna bone?"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/19 04:19 PM
8

Nope. If you compare baby pictures of my kids to baby pictures of me, it's damned near identical. So I'm not worried about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/19 04:16 PM
11

If you're trying to make a gendered point, pick one that has everything to do with biology and nothing to do with technical training.
/r/MensRights29/05/19 02:11 PM
9

Believe it or not, there are women out there who actively enjoy sex.
/r/MensRights29/05/19 02:10 PM
1

I'm glad you're being practical. A girl wanting to be a SAHM with a big pile of college debt she wants her man to pay off is a huge red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 04:08 PM
2

Depends on the circumstances. If it's an actual upgrade I'd be fine with it. If she wants to open a flower shop or something like that where she'll probably be throwing money away, then not so much. Frankly, I suspect that in most cases where guys are acting like you're describing that there's something else going on in the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 04:04 PM
4

Without any other context, definitely the first one. Partly because a successful relationship requires resources (kids are not cheap). Partly because option 2 is a lot more likely to get bored in a stable relationship and take off or screw around.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 03:57 PM
2

No offense, but you sound like you're projecting.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 03:52 PM
1

I can't speak for everyone, but I don't find them attractive at all. Not having any is one of the things I liked about my wife when I first got with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 03:51 PM
1

I know the drill. Doesn't mean it should be this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/19 07:52 PM
1

Only good if the woman chooses to use them. After copulation, 100% of the agency is out of the man's hands.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/19 07:47 PM
1

Why is it that women are the only ones with birth control options that work after orgasm? I won't believe we have reproductive equality until that changes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/19 06:54 PM
1

No offense, but even liberal US states are pretty conservative by much of the rest of the world's standards. https://www.justice.gc.ca/eng/rp-pr/fl-lf/famil/cons/consdoc/obligat.html This isn't just for legal marriages, either. Most provinces consider you to be common-law spouses after only a year of cohabitation, which is enough for cases like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/19 07:01 PM
1

Where?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/19 06:49 PM
3

A lot less easy to reverse, and not reliably so. Once it's done, there's a good change it's done for life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/19 06:44 PM
2

So why are women the only ones with the option to do something about it after orgasm? Once you've shot your load, a man is basically along for the ride.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/19 06:43 PM
3

Not really. There's plenty of jurisdictions where judges will slap parental payment responsibility on the richest parental figure they can find, because everything is determined by "the good of the child". In some areas it's completely possible to be paying for a child that isn't yours, who you also have no visitation with because it's not yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/19 06:40 PM
32

It would be a starting point. What we really need is economic abortion. Women have plenty of birth control options that work after orgasm (plan B, abortion, adoption). Men have nothing. As long as women can expect someone else to pay for their kids, it's going to keep happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/19 02:00 AM
1

We don't in my family. I'm the breadwinner, my wife is the house wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/19 02:01 PM
1

Mine does after 2 years.
/r/MensRights14/05/19 02:29 PM
2

It makes a lot of sense, honestly.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/05/19 06:48 PM
1

My marriage started off as a casual fling, you never know what's going to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/19 08:46 PM
2

Then you extra definitely need a lawyer.
/r/MensRights03/05/19 01:39 PM
1

You didn't keep a paper trail. Never give cash for this sort of thing, and keep all the records somewhere safe. Edit: Never mind, read the comments. You need a lawyer.
/r/MensRights03/05/19 01:37 PM
2

It's not just the women. I was a housedad for a year, and I'd be happy to do it again if my wife could afford it.
/r/MensRights03/05/19 01:34 PM
3

I feel like you're projecting a bit here. He was borderline breaking down in the front half of IW, and it just got worse for him from there.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/04/19 01:21 PM
2

Did you pay attention to his last couple movie appearances? He had a string of lost fights and failures that lead directly from his people being one of the most powerful species in the galaxy to to being borderline extinct refugees in a fishing town on the north atlantic coast.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/04/19 06:32 PM
1

No, but it's good enough for me and leaving a couple mm also prevents ingrown hairs. It also opens up the option of having a decently groomed beard.
/r/MensRights28/04/19 06:41 PM
57

1) Thor falling into depression made sense. He spent 1500+ years as a top tier warrior coming out on top of every challenge and enemy he ran into, and then failed when it counted most. Though I think he should have snapped out of it when Banner came along with a second chance. 2) Marvel should have been in there either more, or not at all. Having her as she was was basically a Dues Ex machine to make problems magically go away, and that's Superman level lazy writing. 3) The girl power shot was b…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/04/19 06:26 PM
3

She was OP in her own movie too, just for the sake of being OP.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/04/19 06:14 PM
10

I haven't bought a razor in years. Got an electric trimmer with a bunch of length options, and now I save $20 every couple months on haircuts too.
/r/MensRights28/04/19 11:46 AM
17

If it makes you feel any better, having kids is basically the only reason to get married these days. They turn out far better on average in a healthy household.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/04/19 10:01 PM
1

Every single girl I've dated that's tried to play those sorts of games with me, I've gotten bored of them and bailed out. Generally pretty quickly, I don't have the energy to put that kind of effort into that kind of bullshit. With my current SO we started off as friends with benefits and then moved onto a relationship when it became apparent we had a lot in common. We are now a nice happy nuclear family. Withholding sex in the age of promiscuity doesn't work, because men can easily just move on…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 01:56 PM
1

They're not enforceable in a lot of jurisdictions.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/04/19 01:24 PM
0

It changes hands in the 30-35 area. It's a magical time for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/19 05:41 PM
5

That depends heavily on the jurisdiction.
/r/MensRights18/04/19 02:35 AM
2

I got both kids out by 30. I don't want to be super old and chasing down kids, they're already exhausting enough right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/19 02:58 PM
5

Actual adoption involves a great deal of informed consent. Being cheated on and finding out your kids are someone else's is basically the opposite of that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/04/19 01:56 AM
2

You'd think so.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/04/19 12:13 AM
7

Nope, just a roommate that didn't want to leave. If you've got someone living in your house/apartment (SO, roommate, couchsurfer, whatever) and their name isn't on the lease/mortgage, then the law considers them to be a house guest that can be removed at any time you like. There's a specific exemption for this in the Residential Tenancies Act. Edit: Typos
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/04/19 06:49 PM
8

If she had called the police on him the moment her stuff was outside, they most likely would have prosecuted him for wrongful eviction. Depends entirely on the jurisdiction. In Ontario, in this specific set of circumstances it's 100% legal. I did it to someone myself once when they refused to move out of my apartment.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/04/19 06:44 PM
3

I'd say it's trash and communication failure across the board here. There's a string of honest discussions that should have happened before the wedding.
/r/MensRights06/04/19 06:37 PM
1

I was interested in having kids, and she wanted a nuclear family. We also have a lot of compatibility, and since we got together when I was pretty much broke I wasn't exactly worried about her being a gold digger like I would be if I had to start dating again.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/19 01:46 AM
2

Dude. Take this time and enjoy it. I took a year off after the birth of my first kid to be her primary caregiver. It was a God awful pain in the ass, but worth every minute of it.
/r/MensRights15/03/19 11:55 AM
2

Any idea on how to enter the security field? Not really, I'm mostly a web developer. My best guess is to take all the related classes and advanced math classes you can, and apply for intern and junior positions at companies that do the work you want.
/r/MensRights13/03/19 02:04 AM
18

Yup, it's the exact same advice for intern positions.
/r/MensRights13/03/19 12:58 AM
12

As a junior developer, the main qualities people are looking for in you are initiative, work ethic, and learning ability. Focus on those (and a decent portfolio, quality over quantity).
/r/MensRights13/03/19 12:52 AM
48

As a junior developer, the main qualities people are looking for in you are initiative, work ethic, and learning ability. Focus on those (and a decent portfolio, quality over quantity).
/r/MensRights13/03/19 12:52 AM
6

You need a lawyer.
/r/MensRights12/03/19 09:11 PM
8

Depends somewhat on the jurisdiction.
/r/MensRights11/02/19 12:23 PM
2

Your province probably has some sort of Human Rights Commission. File a complaint with them.
/r/MensRights14/12/18 02:56 PM
15

If you're in the US, make a Title IX complaint.
/r/MensRights23/10/18 02:00 PM
8

Every time I see the left turn against itself, I laugh a bit. They're all in a pissing contest to see who is the most oppressed, since oppression bucks make them the top dog and let them say that everyone else must shut up and deal with their issues. The spat in Toronto that BLM kicked up blocking the pride parade was a great example of this.
/r/MensRights06/09/18 12:24 PM
1

Gotta be honest, I'd be more interested if most of your big name attendees weren't attending by video conference.
/r/MensRights03/09/18 12:29 AM
-5

Most countries that aren't shitholes offer leave to the fathers as well as the mothers. Try living somewhere that doesn't suck.
/r/MensRights30/08/18 05:57 PM
39

When the right learned that they can use them too.
/r/MensRights07/07/18 03:02 AM
2

It does happen. I was a house dad for about a year while my wife worked. Best year of my life.
/r/MensRights25/06/18 08:00 PM
10

Classic activist judge. Nothing surprising here.
/r/MensRights15/06/18 11:04 PM
0

The only way it really has a chance of sticking is if you part on good enough terms that she doesn't challenge it in court. Most courts straight up ignore these things. Good luck.
/r/MensRights30/05/18 09:57 PM
12

Talk to a lawyer ASAP, though in half the planet he's probably screwed.
/r/MensRights26/05/18 09:03 PM
1

It's been obvious for a while now that no one in the left wing in Canada has learned a damned thing from Trump. I rather doubt they'll figure it out this time around either.
/r/MensRights30/04/18 03:38 PM
39

I have loved every bit of this series of posts. Congratulations on your new legal gender and it's associated benefits.
/r/MensRights29/04/18 04:32 PM
1

My wife's family paid for mine. All it cost me was a new suit, which I needed anyways for the occasional job interview and such.
/r/MensRights27/04/18 11:14 AM
1

Depends entirely on the jurisdiction. Your friend needs a lawyer.
/r/MensRights27/04/18 11:12 AM
1

Get involved in politics if you want to change things.
/r/MensRights11/03/18 11:20 AM
29

Sucks for her. Stuff like this doesn't get changed until it starts negatively affecting women though.
/r/MensRights02/03/18 01:37 PM
5

Because Canadian society is still at the point where unproven rape allegations are enough to destroy a man.
/r/MensRights25/01/18 10:28 PM
2

It was by far the most exhausting thing I've ever done. Kid won't sleep more then a couple hours at a stretch for the first while and will want to be fed every few hours. It took us a year to get her consistently sleeping through the night. Diaper explosions are things of nightmare. Crying is the only method of communication for a very long time, so you'll get PTSD from it. That being said, the bond I have with my daughter now is incredible. It was totally worth it.
/r/MensRights05/01/18 03:24 PM
1

I did the housedad thing for a year after the birth of my first child. Best year of my life.
/r/MensRights05/01/18 02:41 PM
18

Saw it last night. Was ok, but not great. Felt like Rose, Holdo, and that hacker guy were all kinda forced in there.
/r/MensRights24/12/17 07:44 PM
1

For the love of god, keep it and give it to a lawyer. It's the only thing that will keep you out of jail.
/r/MensRights07/12/17 12:18 PM
1

Can't say I care too much. They've been sliding downhill for years.
/r/MensRights06/12/17 10:04 PM
2

And this is why I always led with a coffee date back when I was dating.
/r/MensRights31/08/17 03:47 PM
9

Get a good lawyer on retainer. Explain the situation. Do whatever they tell you to do.
/r/MensRights13/08/17 11:57 PM
2

I feel like you are badly underestimating the amount of work that a kid takes. Good luck, though.
/r/MensRights01/08/17 10:11 PM
2

And thanks to the Good work that feminists of yore I am able to take a full year or more off from work on Paternity. I think I heard that as of July 1, 2018 paid paternal leave could be up to 18 months. It's the same amount of money over a longer period. And assuming you're in Canada (which it sounds like), it's 37 weeks for you for the base period. ~3 months of that time is dedicated to birth mothers. Still worth it though. I took a huge pile of time off for my daughter's birth, and it was tota…
/r/MensRights01/08/17 12:44 PM
4

The reason there weren't enough lifeboats was because boat traffic was common enough that it was expected for another boat to come along to pick up the survivors before it actually sank. Life boats were just for ferrying people across to a rescue ship.
/r/MensRights21/07/17 10:20 PM
9

Not in Canada.
/r/MensRights09/07/17 07:44 PM
1

Ontario is single party consent for recordings. Couldn't tell you about the other provinces.
/r/MensRights07/07/17 11:32 AM
3

Not mine. Terrible morning sickness through the entire thing.
/r/MensRights29/06/17 11:47 PM
1

If your splitting that hair, then you might want to differentiate between parental and paternity leave. Father specific leave is paternity, just like mother specific leave is maternity. The term parental is for both patents. As of right now, your labels and your numbers aren't lining up at all.
/r/MensRights22/06/17 01:52 PM
1

This chart is wrong for Canada. Canadian parents get a year of paid leave that they can split between them. I took a bunch of time off when my daughter was born. Loved every minute of it.
/r/MensRights21/06/17 08:41 PM
2

Judging by my experiences in online gaming, actively avoiding voice comms with males.
/r/MensRights06/06/17 07:04 PM
2

talk to a lawyer. You're on the glide path to divorce anyways.
/r/MensRights06/06/17 02:08 PM
2

There's just as many female gamers as male gamers.
/r/MensRights06/06/17 02:07 PM
5

Your one specific not at all related surgery does not in any way represent every medical process that happens to people. You obviously have little to no knowledge of the child birthing process, and your idea is regressive for just about everyone outside the USA . You are also super biased against children and breeding and propagating our species in general, so I suspect you'd probably be more at home in r/theredpill
/r/MensRights28/05/17 11:12 AM
3

Unpaid is still regressive for just about everyone outside of the US. Most decent countries give paid leave to both parents.
/r/MensRights28/05/17 11:01 AM
15

As someone who is on his last weekend of 9 months of paternity leave, this is honestly a terrible idea. The bond you develop with your child during their first year is incredible and irreplaceable, and both parents should be given the chance to get as much time off in their children's first year as they possibly can. Also, you're clearly not familiar with just how strenuous it can be to push a living human being out of your body. It can take a long time to fully recover. Finally, young people ha…
/r/MensRights27/05/17 05:30 PM
9

I think the MGTOW/MRA relationship is going to parallel that of Malcolm X and Martin Luther King. They'll talk to the latter when they get desperate enough because there's no way anyone in their right mind will talk to the former.
/r/MensRights12/05/17 06:46 PM
2

It's an accurate term for third wave feminism.
/r/MensRights16/04/17 12:42 PM
18

Don't sign your name on any paperwork until you've gotten a paternity test. Decent odds it's not even yours, and she's just looking for the money.
/r/MensRights12/04/17 12:58 PM
1

If it's just a thing where you want to spread your genetics around, you could donate to a sperm bank.
/r/MensRights12/04/17 03:37 AM
2

You don't even need to be formally married in some places. Look up something called a Common Law marriage.
/r/MensRights12/04/17 03:36 AM
15

Canadian dollars. Still twice what a teacher should be making. There's a reason their unions go all out during election season.
/r/MensRights10/04/17 11:29 PM
4

Of course they are. Dead men can't pay child support or alimony.
/r/MensRights06/04/17 12:14 PM
8

This is the sort of point where I would stop trying, tell the judge what to do with himself, and take the jail time.
/r/MensRights05/04/17 01:14 AM
11

6k per month to one woman? She doesn't need to work at all.
/r/MensRights29/03/17 12:08 PM
6

Get a lawyer.
/r/MensRights22/03/17 12:04 PM
5

The guy was lucky that it was a BC court. In Ontario the judge would have given her support either way, and it would have been a huge chunk of his income.
/r/MensRights14/03/17 09:09 PM
1

Toronto is one of the SJW shithole capitals of the country.
/r/MensRights09/03/17 10:12 PM
4

Most people aren't in the US. In Ontario it's automatic after a year of cohabitation.
/r/MensRights06/03/17 02:44 AM
7

Read up about something called Common Law marriages.
/r/MensRights06/03/17 01:38 AM
3

At my office our HR department consists of 1 guy. British chap, fairly reasonable fellow. Still the HR guy though, which means you can trust him about as far as you can throw him.
/r/MensRights04/03/17 08:21 PM
3

The priorities are as follows: 1: "It's her body" 2: "It's for the good of the child" I agree that large parts of the modern system are bullshit. I was luckier then all too many, my having kids was a consentual choice on my part.
/r/MensRights03/03/17 09:59 PM
1

Lawyer, and repeated calls to CAS of you can prove she's abusive. Remember that it's single party consent here, so have him start recording as much as he can.
/r/MensRights03/03/17 09:54 PM
1

Feminism and Islam are complete opposites. She's clearly got issues.
/r/MensRights25/02/17 03:40 AM
1

I agree completely. We have enough of our own problems just with our indian population.
/r/MensRights22/02/17 03:01 PM
26

Here in Canada, that's just considered basic manners.
/r/MensRights22/02/17 03:00 PM
6

Economic walkaway laws are the best solution. Laws like this just make things worse for everyone.
/r/MensRights15/02/17 04:05 AM
85

The title here is terribly worded, but it's nice to see a good ruling.
/r/MensRights13/02/17 07:28 PM
16

Press charges. You were assaulted.
/r/MensRights11/02/17 05:03 PM
1

It won't surprise me. Things were quite good when we first got married, but she's getting to be a little more and more like her mom every day. Don't marry a girl if you don't get along with her mother.
/r/MensRights09/02/17 03:49 AM
15

Like what? People finding out about their partners cheating on them?
/r/MensRights08/02/17 03:42 PM
11

And this is why paternity tests should be mandatory for all births.
/r/MensRights08/02/17 03:16 PM
249

If and when me and my wife ever break up, I'm going to make this clear to her. I live in Canada, our prisons are surprisingly comfortable.
/r/MensRights07/02/17 07:10 PM
6

Good luck. Don't get caught.
/r/MensRights04/01/17 04:50 AM
3

Make recordings of it. Take it with you next time you have to go to court.
/r/MensRights04/01/17 04:47 AM
1

Depends a lot of jurisdiction and income levels. Often the more you make the more you'll have to pay.
/r/MensRights04/01/17 04:46 AM
3

Just like with anything else, there are exceptions. I'm fairly happy with my wife overall, and with my kid and our plan for our family. But if it does fall apart, I'm probably going to freeze some sperm samples and then get snipped.
/r/MensRights04/01/17 04:46 AM
1

Not that I've heard.
/r/MensRights03/01/17 03:02 PM
1

You need a lawyer. Our provinces family laws suck, and this situation isn't going to change without one.
/r/MensRights30/12/16 03:27 AM
18

A reliable male controllable birth control option will cause some huge changes in our social structure. I'm rather looking forwards to it.
/r/MensRights29/12/16 05:58 PM
3

This is why there needs to be a blanket protection of the identity of the accused of a crime. An ungrounded false accusation can be just too damaging.
/r/MensRights14/12/16 02:07 PM
2

Sounds like you need to start sending a string of anonymous tips about drug activities there to the local law authorities.
/r/MensRights04/12/16 01:56 PM
1

There's still some holdouts of course, but it's almost like some of them are starting to realize that equality is a two way street.
/r/MensRights28/11/16 02:39 PM
2

WordPress is plenty good enough for your needs. It would be nice to have a central location debunking various forms of bullshit, so I wish you the best of luck. I actually make Web sites for a living, so if you need any advice on the technical end feel free to message me.
/r/MensRights12/11/16 12:45 PM
16

my ex knew that if i got fucked hard id rather live on the streets than pay her. Good for you. Making that clear at the start can sometimes be the only way to make sure you get a reasonable agreement out of it.
/r/MensRights29/10/16 05:22 PM
3

In that situation I would make it clear to her that if she's going to go after me for money, I'm going to after her for visitation rights. Even odds it makes her back down. The reverse of that is how things ended up with my brother and his kid.
/r/MensRights21/10/16 11:11 PM
2

That is good to know, thanks.
/r/MensRights21/10/16 11:09 PM
-10

Because if you're stupid enough to have unprotected sex with a woman that's cruising for a meal ticket, then you've got it coming. If you don't want to have kids, get yourself fixed. Have some samples frozen first if you might ever change your mind.
/r/MensRights21/10/16 11:04 PM
1

It's the only fair way to do it. Otherwise you need to prove a reason for it or get destroyed by the judge ... and you can guess how their biases tend to go.
/r/MensRights14/10/16 12:27 PM
1

Most contacts will have exit clauses built into them.
/r/MensRights14/10/16 12:25 PM
3

Parental leave is protected in Canada for both men and women, and it's definitely worth taking off its available to you. I'm currently on it, and happy to be doing so.
/r/MensRights13/10/16 03:37 AM
1

Most non-American governments have a program that provides paid parental leave. And most of the better ones let both the mother and father split it equally. Some even have dedicated components for each specific parent. The highly messed up state of American parental leave is a fairly localised situation. John Oliver did a segment about it a little while ago that's actually pretty informative.
/r/MensRights09/10/16 03:34 PM
2

Flushing it is more practical for most people. The financial safety outweighs the environmental damages.
/r/MensRights30/09/16 08:23 PM
1

You should probably contact an abusive relationships helpline, because it sounds like you're in one.
/r/MensRights23/09/16 04:34 PM
1

It looks like something a teenager could make with a bootstrap template and some token effort.
/r/MensRights19/09/16 01:17 PM
12

Paternity tests should be automatic and mandatory on child birth. It'd save a lot of people a lot of hassle.
/r/MensRights18/09/16 06:45 PM
1

I had no idea this was even a thing here in town. Do they have a web site or something I can look up?
/r/MensRights18/09/16 02:41 PM
1

Yup. This is why we can't have nice things.
/r/MensRights17/09/16 12:18 AM
2

Your next few years are going to be a royal pain in the ass. Canada has no equivalent of title 9, so it's completely ok to discriminate against men and whites and straights, and especially all of the above combined. The best thing you can do is to keep your head down, get everything useful you can out of your time there , and get out as fast a you can. The main advantage you have is that Ontario is a single party consent for recording jurisdiction. So if your going to try to get it on with a gir…
/r/MensRights14/09/16 01:43 PM
2

It's laughable. Canada uses a system based on the reasonable expectation of privacy for stuff like this, and there generally isn't any in a public place.
/r/MensRights31/08/16 07:09 PM
1

When I read that part I read it as collaborators in the style of people in certain European areas 70-80 years ago.
/r/MensRights28/08/16 11:40 AM
8

Sucks, but hardly a surprise. I've heard of some jurisdictions where the judges will just straight up decide that since it's better for the kid to have the mom getting the extra money, then the not-dad has to keep paying.
/r/MensRights24/08/16 03:15 AM
1

I wish you the best of luck, but I honestly can't image how a left-wing men's rights group would work in the current political context. I think the closest you could probably get would be something libertarian.
/r/MensRights19/08/16 10:02 PM
9

The UK doesn't have a formal constitution. Most of their former colonies developed one as a direct result of suffering the abuses of their governments idiocy, during their separation processes. Since the UK never separated from itself, it never had a real need to create one.
/r/MensRights19/08/16 03:00 AM
2

It's going to be a huge cluster fuck either way. Makes me glad I'm Canadian.
/r/MensRights08/08/16 01:10 PM
1

It depends greatly on his jurisdiction.
/r/MensRights28/07/16 04:09 PM
1

Get the best lawyer you can possibly afford. Borrow some money for it if you have to. It'll be worth it in the long run.
/r/MensRights28/07/16 12:21 AM
1

Putting her on the mortgage will probably hurt you bad. Talk to a lawyer about it though, he will have actual advice for you that is relevant to your jurisdiction.
/r/MensRights20/07/16 10:25 PM
1

The auto insurance system in general is messed up. I'm pretty sure that insurance prices would drop like rocks if they stopped being mandatory for everyone.
/r/MensRights20/07/16 01:58 AM
1

I got married at 26 (2 years ago). Our first kid is due to drop any day now. I think it helps a lot that my wife and I have a lot of the same life goals and beliefs and such. I wasn't too sure about getting married before we got serious (I've heard and seen plenty of horror stories), but we're quite compatible in pretty much all of the important ways for making a relationship last.
/r/MensRights17/07/16 11:45 AM
1

You might want to look into a paternity test.
/r/MensRights13/07/16 03:01 AM
10

If you're not happy about the work mix in your relationship, talk to your spouse about it. I'd she's not the type that can admit she's getting an easy ride, go at it with notes of what each of you respectively do. This seems like more of a relationships and communication thing then anything else.
/r/MensRights10/07/16 12:33 PM
1

Thanks.
/r/MensRights29/06/16 02:01 AM
1

Do you have a source on those numbers? I'm curious.
/r/MensRights29/06/16 01:31 AM
1

Sounds like you need to get in touch with a lawyer. And/Or enroll him in some self defense classes anyways, and tell him to stand up for himself. I've got a friend that teaches Ju Jitsu, I'm probably going to enroll my kids in some classes with him when they get old enough for it.
/r/MensRights21/04/16 11:31 PM
1

Anonymous is going to steamroll right over them if they actually do manage to get it off the ground.
/r/MensRights18/04/16 12:11 AM
1

That is several different types of sad - yet it honestly doesn't surprise me at all. I'd honestly be tempted to blow it all doing stupid shit before she could actually get it, just as a point of principle.
/r/MensRights07/04/16 12:29 AM
9

That's how a trial by jury works. Sucks to be him, but making a judgement call over whether a judge or jury is less likely to screw you over is a part of the legal system. All things considered, his sentence did end up being pretty light.
/r/MensRights03/04/16 04:08 PM
1

Reach out to lawyers in your area and ask about it. Most should at least give you a free consultation.
/r/MensRights30/03/16 10:35 PM
6

When the case is lawsuit material (like this one looks like) some lawyers will work for a chunk of the eventual settlement. Ask around.
/r/MensRights30/03/16 09:00 PM
0

It's Canada. Between concurrent sentences and generous parole laws he'd be out in 5-10 years.
/r/MensRights27/03/16 02:19 AM
-10

Point of order: a not guilty verdict does not necessarily mean he is innocent, just that the prosecution didn't have enough evidence to justify a guilty verdict. Though it would be nice if both of those could be options for verdicts.
/r/MensRights25/03/16 03:00 PM
3

I think that people accused of any crime should have their identities hidden pending a guilty verdict/plea. Merely being accused of most crimes is enough to ruin your life.
/r/MensRights25/03/16 12:56 PM
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