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Is “whole pouch” an anatomical term or?? I’m glad I got a doctors opinion!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 02:51 PM
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All women have fat there unless they’re severely underweight. The difference is you can see it on some and not on others. Guess none of you have cut open people before 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 10:18 PM
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BRAVO! Thank you OP
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 06:08 PM
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It’s literally not my problem if someone is downvoting you and hurting your delicate little feelings 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 05:34 PM
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It’s not and im not the one downvoting you 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 04:49 PM
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Uhhh you realize some women have no interest in being in a relationship, ever. Ironically, it’s you who sounds bitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 04:49 PM
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Statically, you’re wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 03:33 PM
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It does happen often.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 03:25 PM
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Why are you valuing the opinion of the guy over the girl?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 03:22 PM
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That pouch of fat actually hair protects women’s ovaries and uterus. And you’re wrong about everything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 02:37 PM
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Oh my god you’re 21. You don’t need to be anyone fiancé, let alone some douchebags. Little life advice when someone says “I will be xyz for the rest of my life” or “I’ve always been this way”. It’s a red flag. What that means, is that person will not change and has zero intention of altering their behaviour EVER.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 01:38 AM
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I don’t base my opinions on Reddit subs.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 03:04 AM
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Exception to the rule doesn’t break the rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 09:20 PM
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No he never does, we have a division of labour at home. Which is the key to relationship success. My partner is a unicorn, I wouldn’t be with him unless I thought he was special. I’m hanging out on my lunch break; I have no idea what you mean. I said men are whiners and you started whining about it 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 08:07 PM
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Your second sentence is about WWII soldiers, so not only do you lack basic comprehension but you can’t even read what you wrote one comment up. Ah yes, I must be horrible to be around with a loving partner, great career and wonderful friends and family.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 07:41 PM
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Oh I’m sorry did you serve in WWII? No? Then why are you speaking?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 06:08 PM
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I’m sick, I don’t want to take out the trash, why won’t you fuck me, women hate me, you only like tall men 😭😭😭😭 All you do is whine.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 05:32 PM
-1

Being whiney is a distinctly masculine trait.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 04:49 PM
-1

I’m a woman and I’m bubbly and I love to cook and sew. Not because my man tells me to but because it’s so much fun! I love being creative with my projects.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 04:45 PM
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I’m not conservative or liberal. This adds absolutely nothing to what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 03:32 AM
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This isn’t about you the individual, it’s about people who desire companionship and love. Some people don’t find a life of solitude (due to their own selfishness) attractive. We don’t want to marry men like you, we want to marry the men who love us. So you’re really irrelevant to us. Literally not a god damn soul is losing sleep over you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 01:03 AM
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Idk and idc about you. And with that attitude I doubt anyone would try to get marriage out of you, so it’s not something you need to concern yourself with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 10:35 PM
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Personally for me I’m a very emotional and angry person. I self sabotage a lot in my relationship and feel silly about it after the episode. I guess the advice I would give to people like me is to take a breather when things get triggering, walk away, prioritize making yourself feel safe and secure. If that means you leave the bar/party/ wherever, so be it. Take the focus off your partner/ date and put it back on yourself. Therapy never hurts either.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 06:47 PM
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I was a grad student with lots of grants (science field) I was comfortable, I transitioned into biotech I’m way better off now. Makes me sad for people with higher education, depressing what we think is a compensatory wage for highly skilled and knowledgeable people.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 06:31 PM
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Jesus. So you’re mentally ill. Red pill exists because it a group of horribly bitter, unhinged individuals, desperately trying to blame someone, anyone for their problems except themselves. And then their solution is to lie, cheat, manipulate and hurt people to compensate.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 06:30 PM
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I would rather break up before marriage and not get into a legal commitment, only to realize I can’t stand living with someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 06:16 PM
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It’s almost as if women are individuals, and lumping them all together not only makes them hate you, but is the worst way to get one to fuck or date you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 06:09 PM
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I made more as a grad student. Terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 06:08 PM
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My best friend wants a guy who owns his own place, without owning her house.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 05:19 PM
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Ummm this is so impishly simple lol You can be hot and cute. Most men are adorable when they’re in a happy relationship, but they can also be physically imposing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 05:13 PM
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I like really friendly but aloof men. They have an air of always having tons of friends and lots to do, they’re not really hunting for pussy or seem insecure in anyway. I prefer tall men of normal/ healthy body types. I always thought blonde men weren’t my thing, but I guess my partner is super blonde 🤷🏽‍♀️ Dimples are also just precious.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 05:08 PM
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I feel like if you’re a lawyer you should probably look for another job, that’s a shame what you get paid.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 05:03 PM
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One million anecdotes don’t reduce the credibility of one, that’s because anecdotes are not facts. No matter how many. Many families are happy with a stay at home dad, many are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 05:02 PM
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Lol you think elected officials are answerable to voters 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 10:31 PM
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The majority of people in ANY position of power, are men. And I’m talking about every single field.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 07:17 PM
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By your definition of being a trophy wife is akin to being a lambo. So yeah I guess if you view woman as objects, it’s a great thing! Please touch grass
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 07:15 PM
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No one is mocking or blaming little boys for being abused.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 03:12 PM
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Men abuse more men than women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 02:40 PM
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Boko haram mutilate the genitals of young girls. So what’s your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 02:37 PM
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Just date a good man and this isn’t a problem. Women pretend it’s soooo hard to find a good man it’s not, it’s obvious. I mean the majority are trash but the good ones are obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 05:41 AM
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And every man’s
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 10:49 PM
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I would say some conversations are disrespectful because you partner isn’t there to defend themselves. Unless they’re abusing you, why do you need to reveal intimate details about them 1. Without their consent 2. To party they might not be comfortable with.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 07:44 PM
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Yes I had to unlearn that behaviour. I don’t say anything negative about my partner to my friends about our sex lives. Besides the “I wish he would eat me out more”. Everything else I discuss with him
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 07:43 PM
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Yeah my boyfriend has one “friend” who literally only would help women if he could fuck them. We can both barely tolerate him. There’s just something so off and gross about Him.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 02:12 PM
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Uhhh I’ve literally never heard of a single woman liking that. Equating a dangerous fetish to liking a pretty common type of man is plain stupid. You’re not that are you? It’s funny women tell you guys all the time what they wants and you’re like “NO NO, I know you want chad, shuttup bitch.” At this point y’all deserve exactly what you get 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 01:50 AM
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Prove it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 01:11 PM
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18
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 11:36 AM
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Don’t waste your breath. These “men” will use any justification to fuck literal children.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 05:51 AM
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Pedos will say anything to justify their behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 05:50 AM
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I fully know my partner can get almost any woman he wants. Yet he’s so fucking humble. Not sure why.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 04:40 AM
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No idea what you mean by “uncivil”, seems completely arbitrary.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 03:49 AM
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It’s funny how when you don’t like a response you put on the mod hat 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 03:35 AM
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“Population trend” as if you sampled anyone in the general public except the weird stereotypes you have in your head. I said weird and nerdy. I didn’t say all nerds were socially awkward, I’m not you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 03:30 AM
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It’s so weird having women’s tastes explained as if they can at all be generalized. There’s literally 3.5+ billion of us. You don’t think that even some like weird, nerdy dudes??
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 02:58 AM
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People who take advice from known misogynist usually end up losing one way or another.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 01:59 AM
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Bravo!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 10:40 PM
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No one said it was a burden, but we are under no obligation to put up with it. Or do you give out money to every beggar on the street?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 10:33 PM
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The real mental illness is giving into your nihilism and then expecting the world to change your reality for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 10:31 PM
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You don’t know what a straw man is. I’m in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 03:26 PM
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Sex work might help some, but most people want meaningful connection, that’s where the super depressed people wouldn’t be helped. Sex is a bandaid solution, something we’ve been telling you, yet men don’t believe it. If you could fuck your problems away hot women wouldn’t have any issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 03:26 PM
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This is a debate sub, not a “hold my hand and stroke my hair” sub. I asked a question, I’m not required to agree with the answers.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 02:27 PM
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I never said that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 02:18 PM
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Right let’s also force hot men to fuck ugly, drug addicted, diseased women. EQUALITY!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 02:16 PM
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Well if men get to keep their taxes, I want mine too. I need my pedicures (for mental health reasons). Ohhh so you want us to shame people from leaving relationships when they’re happy? Seems like a very chain-her-to-the-stove solution. You know, I find it pretty hard to respect men who suggest wearing down basic human rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 02:15 PM
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Equality in the right to vote, get a job and own property is a human right for everyone. Forcing women to have sex with you is a different idea, I don’t know how much I can break it down. Talking about men’s mental health already happens, there’s literally an international day/month for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 02:13 PM
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Fair and interesting point. I 100% think escorting should be legalized, in the same breath I would never be with a man who uses such a service. I’m willing to admit my contradictions.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 02:10 PM
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Well 600 people replied. It’s not in bad faith, I’m not going to do your reading for you. Also I got like 500 more comments that are way more interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:59 PM
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As a woman who’s slept around a lot. No fucking thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:51 PM
1

Ok then give up your job, and live on the street. I wouldn’t want the homeless to feel bad about themselves!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:50 PM
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Ah yes because basic human rights = getting your dick wet
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:48 PM
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You clearly have no idea how immigration of foreign policy works lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:46 PM
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👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:45 PM
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The source he posted was a pure anecdote
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:35 PM
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It’s not a trope. It’s literally what some people are suggesting in this very comment section. Take it up with your brothers
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 05:32 AM
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Empathy, as long as your solution isn’t to force women into sex or relationships with you, I can give you in spades. Sorry for your situation! Hope it improves
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 05:29 AM
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Citing a “source” like this is the equivalent of saying “well my uncles, dogs best friend said….” Ok…and?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 05:26 AM
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What? You clearly don’t speak English well.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 05:25 AM
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It’s literally not the topic I’m discussing in this post. Do you walk into Walmart and scream at them for not making Ferrari’s? No. Read the room.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 05:21 AM
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Sex isn’t love, it can be, sometimes it fun. Sometimes it’s a release, sometimes you do it out of boredom. Sometimes it’s bad, sometimes it good. Now I get to fuck my best friend for the rest of my life. So all’s well that ends well. It feels like I’m talking to a virgin or a child, these are basic concepts you should know.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 05:15 AM
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Nope. I fell in love. He would never. And neither would I, but for the sake of argument I would also be upset if he cheated on me with an elephant (young or old).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 05:09 AM
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This convo has nothing to do with male suicide or any mental illnesses. Mental illnesses are completely mishandled by most governments, for both sexes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 05:09 AM
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Hear hear
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 05:08 AM
3

Lol fuck no I fucked like 50 people
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 05:00 AM
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My life clearly doesn’t fit with your narrative, so you reject it. Is it nice in the echo chamber? Body count, increases my desire for both men and women (bisexual).The more people you fuck the better you are at sex. My partner and I have an amazing sex life, he’s hot and I’m hot. Your weird internet rules don’t change that. Sorry for your loss.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 04:48 AM
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Yet men rape, a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 04:36 AM
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I have a partner. I didn’t force my partner to like or love me. He just does. If at any point he would have said “no thanks” I would have left. See how easy that is?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 04:23 AM
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That’s not what you’re saying. Otherwise you would express vehement dislike of violence towards women, not use “anger” as vindication.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 04:22 AM
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I found a super hot guy, locked him down no problem. Never lowered my standards. Might have even raised them for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 04:20 AM
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Yikes
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 04:03 AM
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Yeah. I can see why you’ll never be happy. Good luck tho
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 03:58 AM
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Some are, some are just bitter, some are normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 03:46 AM
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It’s the exact same statement men always write to me when I give them pretty good advice. Seems like what most of the dudes on here want is for women to not be able to say no. I was wondering if anyone would go ahead and admit that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 03:35 AM
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They said this to you to your face? I don’t care about these stupid “sources”. So you can stop quoting them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 03:29 AM
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Get off line. Internet culture is batshit, for many reason. Talk to women like people, normally, don’t be any more or less than you are. Improve themselves (mainly emotionally/ intellectually) Strive for a rich and full life. If you ask someone out, make sure it’s an appropriate time/place/person (if they say no, allow them grace and dignity) MOVE ON FROM REJECTION. It has less to do with you and more to do with the persons desires. Desperation is ugly in men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 03:27 AM
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No one says that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 03:21 AM
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Yeah well I cant imagine raping someone over it or shooting up coeds. Guess I just lack empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 03:01 AM
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Lower our standards why? What benefit does that serve us? Sure I’ve fucked 50 people. Badaboom badabang!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 03:00 AM
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It’s a good idea, in theory, but in a culture where people can’t even afford their cancer meds….
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 02:59 AM
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And I think at the crux of things, this is the truth. Which is frankly, terrifying.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 02:48 AM
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You last paragraph just validated everything I’ve said lol ironically
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 02:40 AM
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They’re not feminists then.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 02:40 AM
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I could never let bitterness turn me so caustic. It’s definitely more an internet problem than a real life problem, unless of course you’re in the states.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 02:39 AM
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Most women are polite in their rejection. Those who post it on Reddit, idk why they do that. Unless a person is abusive towards me I have no reason to blast them, most reasonable women think like this. I reject men left and right; only a few (irl) have taken it badly. The majority of rejected online take it badly.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 02:37 AM
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I don’t like to give crazy people any thought. #2 is balls to the wall crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 02:35 AM
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Sounds like a bunch of masochists. In the same breath they want “empathy and compassion”. Don’t forget that empathy is actually found inside the vagina, with a dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 02:34 AM
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Andrew Tate.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 02:33 AM
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Acknowledged. Now what?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 02:32 AM
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Oh no someone is revolted that you made a friendly interaction, sexual. Must be a them problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 02:32 AM
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You’re absolutely, 100% wrong. It’s a waste of my breath to explain this to you. You’re either 14, or you’ve never been around a girl who respects/likes your company. Either way, don’t make it my problem. Guess you’ve been a creep before.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 02:08 AM
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While I see you have taken this platform to word vomit your clear frustrations, nothing you said is actionable. Empathy is apparent everywhere, expect a total stranger to be nice to you and chat is bizarre. Women don’t expect that either. Also it sounds like you don’t have many friends, or a partner. That’s were people get their social quotas filled, not random stranger.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 02:04 AM
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https://vawnet.org/sc/scope-problem-intimate-partner-homicide-statistics
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:54 AM
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I’m sure the world returns the sentiment for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:52 AM
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Well that can’t happen if the women don’t consent to dating them. Your “happiness” cannot be born out of removing someone else’s human right.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:52 AM
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Ok, well, clearly enough of you did kill us to make this a true threat. You might not be killed by a random, but you have a decent enough chance of being killed by a romantic partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:51 AM
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Like you. Not caring about someone telling you they’re not interested. How selfish.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:46 AM
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No. Clearly you missed the consent part.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:46 AM
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Not if someone continuously tries, that’s harassment. Women have been killed for less than “rude”.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:45 AM
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Lot to unpack here lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:45 AM
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You are worried you’re going to be called a creep. Don’t be a creep.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:33 AM
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If they’re not telling you directly, it’s not relevant to this conversation. Reddit isn’t going to get you a wife, so maybe it’s time to have some real-world examples to pull from.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:33 AM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:27 AM
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Women are telling you all this? You can politely say, sorry I’m not able to handle hearing about your stories of abuse. You’re not obligated to hear someone trauma dump.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:27 AM
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Don’t make someone uncomfortable and this won’t be a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:25 AM
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I didn’t ask for sympathy. Oh I know it’s crazy! We don’t want to be romantically approached by men we have no desire in dating! Absolutely bananas.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:25 AM
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Why would we want to make ourselves more approachable to men we didn’t want to talk to?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:18 AM
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You tore him to shreds 😂😂😂😂 Bravo!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:02 AM
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Yeah, it’s profoundly stupid. Idiocy makes my skin itch.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 07:05 PM
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Uh yeah don’t go handing out random women’s numbers. So handle your rejection and move on, there’s no point in trying to dissect her moral character. No I already have a long term partner. I don’t need dating “strategies”.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 04:38 PM
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Yeah you got rejected, and now want to shift the blame onto the girl for being “picky”. You’re using another woman to speak your words for you (if she even exists), classic manipulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 01:53 AM
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So this big brain of a man is asking why the women at his place of work, show intense disinterest and probably disgust when he tries to make a pass at them. Lol. Have you considered you’re the common denominator in why you continually get rejected?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 01:08 PM
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Yep!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 07:00 PM
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Why would someone want to date someone that actively finds them unattractive. What’s getting old is how much you’re reaching
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 07:00 PM
2

Nope. So mind your business and stay in your lane.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 04:10 PM
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No they’re not. You’ve made that up. They’re asking you to not degrade and ridicule them. I’m sure a fat person has no interest in dating you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 03:51 PM
2

I’ve dated a bisexual man, as a bisexual woman. It was a disaster, not because he was bi but because he had so much unresolved trauma / shame around it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 02:35 PM
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No one is forcing you to date a fat person, please stop pretending this is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 02:34 PM
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He made things pretty personal, are you going to remove the post?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 02:22 AM
1

Yeah conservative women. If you live in a conservative country that’s what you’ll get. Men who go to strip clubs are so sleezy, wtf do you mean???
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 06:40 PM
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I don’t know a single woman who cares if sex work is legalized. In fact I know more woman who would loveeeee it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 05:19 PM
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No we’re not. Because we have partners that love an adore us.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 03:56 PM
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I don’t give a fuck what other men do. I only care what my partner does, I would never be with someone that uses sex workers.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 03:47 PM
2

Very true. They are predators.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 07:31 PM
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Less chance of outgrowing one another. Which is why it’s bizarre to me some of the gross men on here talk about how it’s so much better to be with women 10-20 years younger than them. Yuck. Red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 03:13 PM
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Spoken like a true serial killer
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 03:01 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 10:22 PM
2

Yes I guess that’s true. But I did end up picking a guy and settling down so I guess everyone can change. A family/ marriage never appealed to me except now
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 10:22 PM
7

I have a lotttt of bodies. I haven’t fucked anyone that’s not somewhat objectively good looking and tall. With one exception. It’s not hard to get the majority of men, I don’t think anyone is claiming otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 02:01 AM
1

I wasn’t manipulated ever. I have been held down and raped. By an ex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 08:42 PM
1

No. We prefer it that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 07:20 PM
2

Losing weight doesn’t make someone not ugly. Maybe less so.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 07:16 PM
3

Uh I know plenty of hideous tall men. Being 6’4 doesn’t mean anything if you’re 350 pounds.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 06:34 PM
8

In other news: “Would you rather have $100,000 or $1,000,000?”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 06:31 PM
1

Marriage statistics are decreasing because less people are religious and women have more economic power. The women YOU seek to control don’t want marriage. Whether you like it or not, society is changing. You can either stand your ground and get lost in the wave, or you can choose to let go of the bigoted decade you were born in and catch up to the rest of us. I will get married, I’m happy to. I would never have my head so far up my ass to tell others to. It’s not my fucking business. Which brin…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 06:41 PM
2

Not reading into anything, just reading literally what you wrote. If you don’t want to be misconstrued, it’s your job to speak more clearly. Because you’re so concerned with how many men other women fuck. If you’re so in love, you shouldn’t even be thinking of what other women are doing in their sex lives. We’re going to get married in a couple years. I’m still far too young. So what’s your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 05:43 PM
2

Lololo a prize to who? I landed a man who’s 6’2, muscular, gorgeous makes a cool 6 figures. With no ex wives, children and has dedicated his life to me. People in unhappy relationships project their dumb rules onto others. Married 25 years? I can see why you might be itching for something different, I feel bad for your wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 05:30 PM
2

Uhhh happily in a relationship and my partner never once asked. I told him we had a chuckle and moved on. You sounds single.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 05:12 PM
4

I am south Asian but I don’t like to be grouped in like this because of my race. I have worked so hard these last few years to build up my life and confidence after an abusive relationship. So I disagree. I think many women settle for less. Race has nothing/ little to do with it. I think this mentality is frankly, racist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 01:51 AM
13

The ONLY reason my relationship works is because of confidence and good self esteem on both our ends. Compatibility/chemistry/sex all comes after. I only realized this after I ran into my ex who is such an insecure sad little man. It made me realize how quietly powerful I am and so is my partner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 01:49 AM
2

Went out last weekend and a man with a wife told me “my wife would like the exotic out of your ass”. And everyone thought it was a compliment 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 02:38 AM
1

Aw thank you! You sound adorable. I don’t think he’s a lvm. I dated one for 5 years (well he was no value and raped me) so my guard is 10 feet high. A recent wake up call from a guy who was trying to date me before I chose my bf mentioned that to me…and to not let go of a good thing because I had been abused in the past. It’s so hard to tell. I’m working up the courage to have a conversation with my partner and see how he reacts. What I’ll say…no clue 😂 I realized throughout my life not everyone…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 01:47 AM
1

He said he will get a friend in HR to look over his resume. I suffered going to a interview prep course and he agreed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 01:00 AM
1

You’re right something is missing, When we’re out in groups I hardly want to pay attention to him. I just can’t figure out what the root cause is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 12:59 AM
1

Yes, in theory, I agree with you. But for example I don’t work out and he still finds me super attractive and he works out every day…so I guess I don’t see him leaving me because of the physical. I was more or less blessed with a proportional body.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 12:58 AM
1

His carefree attitude towards life is a fundamental incompatibility to me…I take everything super seriously
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 12:57 AM
2

Hahaha I’m an ENTJ I approach everything like I approach work 😂😂😂 No I have no clue. I’m definitely in no rush to move in and he isn’t either. I think maybe after he proves he can take care of me I would consider it. Things I do like about him he has a nice beautiful apartment, that’s usually immaculate. He pays for everything he has. I believe it’s just EI and savings he lives off of now. I will do as the other redditor tells me and slowly stop offering to pay as much. Yep the convo we had a wh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 12:55 AM
1

I think you make a really good point. Everyone in my life loves him, loves how he treats me, loves how much he loves. Friends have begged me not to break up with him. Even my parents are interested in him. I don’t know if I’m taking him for granted or using him to fill the hole my shitty ex never could. My therapist seems to think he’s good for me 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 11:45 PM
1

He works in oil and gas and I work in science so I have no idea what that entails
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 11:40 PM
2

Ugh that’s how I feel. I’ve never been unemployed. I have no idea how people just sit around! I’m getting more and more frustrated
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 10:48 PM
2

I think his EI is probably way more than minimum wage
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 10:12 PM
8

I guess I’m having a hard time articulating what I’m feeling. Mostly because I’m confused. On one hand I miss being around him because he’s extremely comforting and affectionate all the time. He’s attentive to my needs. On the other hand I hate it when he doesn’t stand up for me when random people hit on me (we like going to bars and out on the town a lot). I guess I see that as weakness too. Other things that bother me about him is once he said that child molestation is worse than rape (????). …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 09:47 PM
3

Wow this is the first time I’ve felt seen and heard about this matter in weeks 🥺 thank you. So far I haven’t seen him leech off anyone. He still takes me out for drinks and dinner etc. He’s collecting EI and is job searching, our lifestyle can be extravagant and he’s told me he’s eating into his savings. I arbitrarily want to give him until Christmas, to find work. I think he probably sends out a few applications a day and calls it quits. I just sent him a text asking what he thinks of temporary…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 09:34 PM
15

Yeah I agree. We don’t live together (thankfully?) because the 4 days I spend without him are bliss to me. I feel less guilty when he’s not around. He works out, plays a lot of sports and he cooks. Normally I prefer cooking and he cleans during the weekend. He’s quite useful to me, irons my clothes, even small things like getting stuff for me or making me my morning tea etc. Sometimes he forgets, but takes direction well. If I tell him not to do something he never does it. Sometimes I feel men a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 08:57 PM
11

Yes we live separately, and it’s about 3 hours long distance. Which is not a problem at all, he’s more than happy to drive to me every weekend, and he lives in my home town so I’m more than happy to go there to visit my friends and family. We live with each other on the weekends and apart Monday- Thursday. It’s so hard to take that step back without telling him what’s up. Like our lives are totally intertwined. He’s already taking me to thanksgivings (it’s next weekend for Canadians) his family …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 08:53 PM
24

I dated a shit bag for a long ass time lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 12:15 AM
4

I hope she got every penny
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 07:31 PM
2

Bro don’t get married if you don’t want to. Ain’t no one missing out on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 01:36 AM
10

I’m dying
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 04:51 AM
16

His clout train has left the building without him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 02:07 PM
3

Wtf what? How could that be a joke? It’s irreversible!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 09:04 PM
14

They want us to be so badly like them. To need them. To validate their sexual existence. To fuck them. They can’t possibly conceive that we have no problems letting them be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 04:31 PM
1

Yes, that what I said last time. I said “well you don’t like anal” and he’s like “you’re right”. Conversation ended there. And we had awesome sex haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 04:15 PM
1

He’s stated many many times that he doesn’t like anal. I think either 1. He’s being influenced by an outside source or 2. He wants more “ownership” or “control” since I’ve never done it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 04:07 PM
-9

My partner isn’t at all. One day he randomly asked while he was drunk and I told him he didn’t like anal and he’s like: lol you’re so right! Even nice men get caught up in it due to porn. It’s good to remind them it’s not normal for women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 02:28 PM
6

Yes of course! If in doubt, leave his ass!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 01:15 AM
15

I look at it like this. First not all men are like this, so don’t lose hope! Second, if a man is like this, many are, then the red flags are sooooo fucking obvious from day one. Men are stupid, emotionally and socially. They give themselves away. Avoid at all costs. Don’t take what this dude says to heart ladies!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 05:12 PM
4

I don’t really suck dick. Maybe for 30s but that’s more for my pleasure not his.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 06:04 PM
2

I have no insecurities, got rid of those a long time ago along with every beta in my life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 12:48 AM
20

Ladies, I’m dying 😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 03:09 AM
5

The who point is this is funny, it’s a tweet. It’s supposed to be short and funny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 02:28 PM
11

Only way to prevent is to get frequent testing after each new partner. STDs (most of them) aren’t the end of the world. They’re like any infectious disease, we need to eliminate them. Those who get it shouldn’t be ashamed tho, it’s so sad to me that it’s such a stigma.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 02:26 PM
3

I chuckled
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 03:24 PM
1

I wouldn’t let my spouse spend 33k of our money on a wedding. On an elaborate honeymoon all over the world...absolutely!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 08:17 PM
-3

I would personally not be a fan of this because I love in private.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 04:29 PM
3

All the men on the internet always have the same retort in an argument I’m a whore who struggles to find a man because I’m a hideous cat lady. Which is it boys? Make up your mind 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 06:00 PM
38

Oh to be a mediocre man. Cry some more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 05:34 PM
8

6’2-6’3 I’m 5’3 and this is the perfect height for me especially because I only wear heels Dark hair, dark eyes preferable but not a deal breaker I like ball caps and more traditionally masculine clothes (nothing floral etc) Doesn’t talk too much. I do enough of that Muscular (works out or has a blue collar jobs) Ideal penis (8-9”and thick) my partner is about 8.5” and it took a while to get used to it but now I’m hooked
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 05:29 PM
9

I said it on you last post and I’ll say it again: I LIKE BIG DICKS AND I WON’T LIE. The only thing I disagreed with your post about was colour as that point was a little racist imo 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 02:33 PM
3

This. I’m pretty sure violent crime would be down two fold if they just went to therapy and stuck with it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 04:43 PM
0

Your post literally says “[removed]” and I certainly didn’t report it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/20 04:19 PM
1

Well your post was removed so I guess my logic is fine :)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/20 04:16 PM
1

Debate what exactly? People’s desire? An entirely subjective topic with no way to provide evidence for or against?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/20 03:59 PM
2

Point is people want to. Which makes this entire post a moot point.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/20 03:56 PM
2

Not very long compared to what exactly? No I chose to have an abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/20 03:52 PM
-1

And you seem like someone easily triggered by that
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/20 03:19 PM
1

You’re grossly over estimating how attractive we find the average man. We also have sex with plenty of dudes who are butt ugly miss mod!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/20 03:12 PM
2

Skanky is incel terminology
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/20 08:15 PM
2

Oh yeah and what are your predictions for the answers?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/20 10:12 PM
6

I would love to see this question posed to men and men only.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/20 07:34 PM
4

Why does her race matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/20 06:06 PM
7

Imagine thinking that not getting fucked is a reason to champion the rape of women 🤡 men are brutes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 03:04 PM
5

Some are young some are old. People act up when they’re drunk
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 02:13 PM
2

Oh girl I’m so sorry! It’s time to reclaim your voice and loudly state when any man gets too far!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 05:13 AM
28

I would agree with this normally but I’ve been aggressively groped and hit on by many women. I wish more people would mind their own business!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 02:19 AM
75

I like big dicks and I WONT LIE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 08:29 PM
0

Benefit of the doubt, how so?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 03:24 AM
-1

Because it’s a slur. In the same way you don’t say the n-word. Imagine being this dense. And absolutely incorrect, a slur cannot ever objectively identify a minority population. However, if you want to call yourself a bigot....I certainly won’t object.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 10:20 PM
1

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Most women in the lesbian community absolutely do not care about catering to men’s ideal of beauty, therefore men using the word “dyke” really has no bearing on lesbians. You just look dumb, defending it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 09:51 PM
2

I literally can’t believe men are allowed to talk about women like this on a gender neutral sub. Disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 09:05 PM
4

It’s like you’re forgetting the word “dyke” along with the rest of your bs logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 08:21 PM
1

They do not. One doubling in a single year doesn’t indicate an overall change. Please read more carefully.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 08:50 PM
1

What’s the collection they used in your case? https://www.statista.com/statistics/191226/reported-forcible-rape-rate-in-the-us-since-1990/ This also shows rape rates have not changed at all from 06-2019. I am a trump supporter. So you’re wrong on both fronts.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 08:20 PM
1

That’s funny because this https://www.nsvrc.org/statistics says that rape reports more than doubled between 2017-2018. Almost like your study ends in 2016.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 08:17 PM
1

Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 07:58 PM
2

Until you state why you’re with investing in, you’re just another nasty, dirty man. Your very touch is impure, as you stated. Answer the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 07:58 PM
1

There is no “clear increase” without an empirical study or large meta data aggregate. You haven’t cited any study, you’ve cited random cases that made the tabloids. That’s like saying my father, a fisher man, says all great whites are extinct because he hasn’t seen one in over a decade. No dear, just because HE hasn’t seen one doesn’t mean they’re not there. Further, I proved you wrong already the cases I cited were less than 5 years apart.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 07:53 PM
2

You’re always the “other man” when it comes to women. Why are you the one worth investing in? How many women have you slept with?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 07:46 PM
1

You said “before 1985”.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 07:45 PM
1

You said before 1980s. I completed your requirements. And you have yet to provide me with sources for your claims....so I’m going to assume you’re trolling. You only came up with 3 cases within a century yourself. I can provide you with more cases, if you want. Let me know.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 07:40 PM
2

So you’re telling me having sex with men is nasty? So why should any woman want to have sex with you, if by doing so she immediately lowers her status? Men don’t mind women who are experienced? But you want a woman who is experienced, without having had sex before? Why can’t you be serious with someone who has “been around”?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 07:36 PM
1

Tulsa race riot (1921), rosewood massacre (1923) and scottsborro boys (1930s). Show me your sources, I’ll wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 07:33 PM
1

Why is she considered “nasty” for having sex? Is sex not how all life is created? So if anyone has sex, are they all nasty? Why don’t men want a sexually experienced woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 07:29 PM
1

I don’t think there was rape accusations in the Depp case. And if so that’s 4/96,000 reported rape cases. You also didn’t give me. A source for your claim that the incidence rate of false rape accusation is increasing. Or if they are relative to conviction rates. Or any studies. These are anecdotes at best, and further we have no knowledge of what went on in the legal proceedings.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 07:28 PM
1

It’s an absolutely serious question. Why would someone who has a high body count not be worthy of marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 07:25 PM
1

Increasing trend over how many years and in which countries? Is it relative to conviction rates? Can you give me some sources? Where have you seen these posts? On Reddit?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 07:09 PM
1

Maybe she was raped. Why should be believe your friend over her?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 07:02 PM
1

And why are “hoes” not good to wife up?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 07:01 PM
1

FDS always states than when a woman “goes her own way” she buys like a farm and adopts 6 cats and never speaks about men ever again. When a man does MGTOW, they shoot up sorority girls or go on a rape spree. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 07:00 PM
6

Legislature change is very hard for the average person to invoke. Social change very frequently leads to easier legislative changes ie. gay marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 06:55 PM
8

Rape is criminalized... not sure I follow
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 06:51 PM
12

A woman in a burqa can be raped just as much as a woman in a bikini. If you feel tempted to rape someone because their skirt is two inches two short, got some news for ya, you’re just a rapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 06:47 PM
2

Because you have absolutely no right to comment on someone’s appearance unless it’s fundamentally restricting your own rights somehow.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 06:44 PM
7

I personally will never put in this much effort to secure a man from a dating app but I respect your skills!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 04:16 PM
37

The type of person to cheat is not a whole and complete human being. They can perceive love but their own faults and insecurities take over when they cheat. They are never ever thinking of their partner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 04:13 PM
4

I can taste this photo it makes me uncomfy. Burn it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 07:25 PM
21

WHY THE FUCK IS IT OUR JOB TO BE YOUR REHABILITATION CENTER? What do you even do for us, nothing? Your purpose can be replaced with a vibrating dildo. Get fucked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 03:30 PM
2

Oops idk how do pm on the new phone layout 😅 any tips?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 03:23 PM
2

Will do! Let’s make it happen :))
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 03:21 PM
5

I creeped your post history we’re from the same city yaaaaaay! More FDS supporters ❤️❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 07:40 PM
65

Men in their 30s on average are HIDEOUS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 03:53 AM
6

Bahahaha haha fucking idiot
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 02:31 PM
3

Put perfectly!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 07:26 PM
16

The best compliment someone ever gave me was my mom when I was 8. She said: you’re the bravest person I know! And that’s basically the only compliment that stuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 06:45 PM
7

Um just block him. He could get a friend to contact you on IG too if he really wanted. He most likely won’t. If he does keep blocking every new account and contact the police.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 08:00 AM
2

Well the fact that he’s willing to overhaul his life and probably (falsely)agree to being vegetarian before they have even MET...is a classic manipulation technique. He will never follow through, it’s just a way for him to get what he wants. And idk what the video is she didn’t explain it well, seems like mis-matched sense of humour...him being a weirdo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 02:40 AM
77

Why would you go on a date with someone who you fundamentally disagree with? Do you expect him to change for your after one date? Girl you know the answer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 05:31 PM
2

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 08:37 PM
3

Yeah for sure we should never sink to their level! That’s why we advocating for blocking and deleting. Fighting fire with fire burns the whole world down, and that’s not what I want to teach my kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 08:32 PM
19

I mean if he’s a good man don’t leave him! Those men with bigger house and nicer cars only started liking her because she’s “hot” now. What happens if she gets ill or gets old and can’t look or earn that way more? I don’t like this post, because oftentimes this is the logic men use to leave their wives who get cancer or maybe a physical disability. I can understand why people are mad, OP.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 02:14 PM
2

Oooooh gurrrrrlll I defs chuckled 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 11:28 PM
13

We should start linking to these posts. I want to send these people some private messages. We as women get garbage in our inboxes time to let these nasty ass scotes know what’s what. Hope the commenters defended her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 06:10 PM
7

I’m on the floor 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 07:47 PM
7

Met my ex when I was 21 and he was 27. Somehow still a fucking rapey psycho clown.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 09:52 PM
54

If it’s not a hell yes, it’s a hell no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 04:53 AM
1

Imagine losing your shit over...ice cream. Bahahaha this guy is a child. Not even a child dumbasfuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 03:10 PM
3

Sign a prenup no matter what.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 05:38 PM
6

What I imagine a meth addict’s body looks like
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 03:25 PM
7

Oh for sure those circumstances are (usually/hopefully) not the norm. I’m sorry for you abuse! I hope that man is brought to justice then rots....both of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 06:59 PM
73

My dad never even asked my mom to changed her last name or hyphenate it. And they married in the 90s. No one has an excuse these days.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 03:00 PM
30

Respect yourself king. Lmao barf how deluded is this shitstain?!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 02:56 PM
1

Making fun of? No I’m saying I wouldn’t fuck/date/marry a man that’s this height. Why are you having such a problem with this? I am under no obligation to do that. Makes me think you’re a dude. READ SUB RULES.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 02:53 PM
2

A lot of things are silly. This is not the place to judge women’s standards. Take it to r/Tinder
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 04:24 AM
2

Do you want average? I don’t want average.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 06:31 PM
16

Please report this...how disgusting!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 07:27 PM
5

5’10 lmao ok bud
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 05:53 PM
3

It’s just my brain tricking me because we trauma bonded, with the hurt he caused me. I don’t miss or love him, my brain is just trying to cope.. That’s how I think to help myself move on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 06:42 AM
1

I mean what? Keep my name out of your mouth and we won’t have a problem. She’s OFF HER ROCKER.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 06:13 PM
10

Shallon Lester!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 06:16 PM
8

My ex raped me, got me pregnant, cheated on me, bailed on me dozens of times, never got me any gift or word of affirmation, refused to let me break up with him....and I still stayed because I had that evil seed of hope. Never again. I will never treat MYSELF as subhuman for a man ever again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 09:30 PM
39

Hope that this spreads and becomes normalized so men can stop being assholes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 02:35 AM
1

Um can there be a police report on this guy? That’s clearly a threat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 06:20 PM
10

In more ways than one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 05:28 PM
3

I cannot believe how true this is. It’s like heterosexual relationship are doomed from the start.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 01:48 PM
8

When I first met my boyfriend I was immediately super smitten, he was gorgeous. He ended up blurting I love you on the second date, so I dumped him. He was a notorious playboy, now completely reformed. I let him beg a while and took him back, and that’s what I credit to our success. You really have to let them be the emotional ones.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 08:19 PM
-2

I don’t think it’s a bad thing he’s a lot more sensitive than I am
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 10:28 PM
4

She’s pretty but I guess that’s about it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 06:36 PM
7

Didn’t he literally treat her like shit? Plus let’s face it how many women has he been with? His mental health...the list goes on....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 06:35 PM
6

The one married to JB. Haylie? Sorry not too caught up on celebs stuff lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 04:44 PM
7

Hatfished!!! Omg why didnt I think of that. They do use hats and beards to do God’s work, don’t they 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 04:08 PM
7

This isn’t good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 04:02 PM
10

Should probably be committed. Shes clearly unwell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 03:59 PM
9

You shouldn’t hate anyone for their occupation. However let’s call a spade a spade, sex work is undesirable. It’s a last resort, there’s really no point in glorifying it. They should however be afforded every right and privilege given to other women. They’re not cattle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 03:47 PM
15

Eeek guilty of that. But i don’t recommend it. Don’t lower yourself to that level. I don’t care about any man enough to be the “one that got away” by debasing myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 02:01 AM
14

If my man did that I would loudly say “are you staring at that girls tits” hopefully in ear shot of her. That’s how you do negative conditioning hahahah plus if sounds fun. Men hateeeee to be labeled creeps, it’s the worst for their ego.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 01:59 AM
3

Same. I called a good friend “pathetic and disgusting” when he sent me a dick pic as a “joke” he was super embarrassed and immediately apologized profusely. As they say if you want respect, you have to earn it. Perhaps the only way to earn it these days is through fear...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 01:20 AM
1

Good post
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 05:45 PM
4

Regardless of if I give a soft no or a hard no. No one gets it. It’s the most frustrating, demeaning thing to experience. Your word has no value and nothing you say matters. Luckily it hasn’t gotten to the point of physically being attacked too many times, but I’ve had friends aggressively kiss me or grab me...and that’s under the guise of friendship. Some women are doomed to live this way it seems. I try to not think about it, I just keep my distance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 05:45 PM
11

Regardless of if I give a soft no or a hard no. No one gets it. It’s the most frustrating, demeaning thing to experience. Your word has no value and nothing you say matters. Luckily it hasn’t gotten to the point of physically being attacked too many times, but I’ve had friends aggressively kiss me or grab me...and that’s under the guise of friendship. Some women are doomed to live this way it seems. I try to not think about it, I just keep my distance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 05:44 PM
44

Who would ever be flattered? If one of my male friends ever suggested this I would suggest they take a cold shower and lose my number 🙅🏽‍♀️🙅🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 08:37 PM
30

Not proud but I wrote him a nice lil PM. Honestly, I’m Christian so I can’t say...I hope he rots.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 05:23 AM
27

Yep I’m from a Muslim country it’s literally hell on earth. Thank god I’m a Canadian citizen now ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 05:31 AM
33

Ugh I wanna cry. Makes me realize I’m not strong enough to handle some of the world’s injustices
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 05:25 AM
1

If you think men on dating apps will have your best interest in mind, or you expect them to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 09:16 PM
1

Exactly those people are simply not worth your time. Expecting the world to cater to you is foolish, instead protect your own mind space and seek out people that fit with you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 07:53 PM
1

That’s life not just dating. On the flip side you don’t have any obligation to talk to anyone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 07:45 PM
13

Then that’s deceptive and down right nasty of them, but lol we can’t expect much from people who literally jack off to women being tortured 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 06:43 PM
30

No one needs to explain why they don’t want a relationship. If you get a hint they don’t want one, run. Why the hell would you wanna be with a man who doesn’t want to be with you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 03:49 PM
2

I needed this I’m literally going stir crazy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 03:51 AM
1

In other news: this guy hasn’t seen a vagina he didn’t pay for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 01:40 PM
1

She’s such a victim but yeah true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 11:17 PM
205

The worse you treat men, the better they treat you. And those are rules of respect no self respecting person can get behind. Nasty. I wish I was into chicks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 09:45 PM
1

For you maybe, but not for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 02:13 AM
21

Honeymoon period is a thing people
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 11:15 PM
4

I think the circumstances are acceptable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 11:08 PM
16

Dude. Chill. Go for a jog, drink a glass of water and breathe. Read what you just wrote. It’s completely irrational. If you feel like hurting yourself immediately call the suicide hotline. Life is filled with rejection, this may or may not be your first experience with it. Either way, there’s plenty of heartbreak to come. The only way to protect yourself is to build yourself up from the ground. Focus on goals, focus on health or travel...literally anything that doesn’t have to do with a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 07:39 PM
6

5 years for me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 07:25 PM
2

What kind of BULLSHIT 😦
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 07:24 PM
3

Lmfaoooo every guy I meet has the confidence of a Calvin Klein model with two medical degrees and a trust fund. Men are AMAZING 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 07:23 AM
4

Bahahaha a whole 1.5 brain cells with that one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 12:55 AM
8

Yep the guy who replied on r/tinder is the definition of a scrub
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 06:29 PM
7

My friend says the same! He also has called out my bf many times. Very appreciative!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 06:28 PM
5

Yeah I thought it was so odd!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 06:28 PM
1

We’ve talked about it... what do you mean?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 09:57 PM
8

Dude no one on this thread agrees with you. Stop being argumentative.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 09:56 PM
1

For me that’s ideal. I’m 23, no way I’m getting married before I finish my PhD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 07:34 PM
8

Cool off. Stop double snapping or whatever you kids do lol. Let him set the next date, and plan it out. Talk to other people in the meantime.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 06:00 PM
23

I cook for me. He can have what’s leftover lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 05:58 PM
3

I think a better way to do it, is single until I’m your official gf and then have a strict timeline about when to get married. If it gets to the 4-5 year mark without talk of marriage, bounce.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 05:51 PM
10

No. Don’t be desperate. Mistakes happen, move on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 05:49 PM
20

She is a low value female. In fact she is contributing nothing, because she simply doesn’t have the facilities to make a date! Ergo shouldn’t be dating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 05:46 PM
15

Exactly right. If a person can’t even meet for a date why should any one wait around for them? That’s ridiculous!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 05:45 PM
17

I’ve told a guy straight up I didn’t want to see him anymore. When he asked why. I said: the sex was terrible, please do not contact me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 07:33 PM
14

Hahah that sub is fucked. Basically dedicated to negging women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 03:01 AM
4

Trash belong in the garbage not in your brainspace.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 01:25 AM
9

Yep. While blatantly ignoring my wishes to go on a proper date. He’s like but whyyyyy can’t I see you? You could’ve dumbshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 12:47 AM
5

I never even add people. Yeah for sure I’ve had my fair share of people stalking me. Now I hardly even use IG. He was just on one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 06:18 PM
25

Followed by: I miss you at 1am When I ghosted after this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 05:51 PM
1

I can't really determine if he's a bad person. He just gives no shits about me, which makes my job to leave and never look back...so much easier. Three years down the toilet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 04:56 AM
1

Bless you and thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 10:31 PM
3

You're totally right. What we permit, we promote -Shallon Lester. I actually went on an amazing date last night that was so impromptu but lovely none the less. Really helped me gain some perspective.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 10:01 PM
2

Sorry I didn't check my reddit earlier. I ended up going on an amazing date with a total HVM. I'm super sorry to hear about your asshole. I hope the night wasn't all bad <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 09:58 PM
1

He's gone. He's such a leach I will get a restraining order if I need to!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 09:57 PM
3

Aw thanks for the support girl! You're so right! I only want people I can count on from now on. I don't care who I have to cut out, I won't cry over anyone anymore. I ended up reading a lot of the posts on here and going on bumble and meeting up with a terrific guy. He not only picked me up, made resos at a restaurant, stocked his apartment with the liquor I like then took me out on the town before cuddling up and falling asleep. No sex. No pressure, nothing. One date with this HVM showed me tha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 09:57 PM
2

Thank you so much girlie!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 09:55 PM
2

Thank you so much this sub has really saved me countless times when I wanted to go back to him, this last time I failed and took him back for a grand total of a week. I ended up reading a lot of the posts on here and going on bumble and meeting up with a terrific guy. ​ He not only picked me up, made resos at a restaurant, stocked his apartment with the liquor I like then took me out on the town before cuddling up and falling asleep. No sex. No pressure, nothing. One date with this HVM showed me…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 09:55 PM
37

I'm a part-time hostess and you wouldn't believe how pathetic these dudes are. Like a little alcohol makes them into feral hyenas.
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