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ThatNVguy/r/seduction26/01/16 05:08 PM
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Talk to couples that are alone at the bar, especially if they appear to be waiting on others to arrive.
/r/seduction22/09/24 11:55 PM
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Some yeah, that is dating. Then you find one that does.
/r/seduction22/05/22 04:36 PM
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Thanks for making a quality post.
/r/seduction02/11/20 06:01 AM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Taurus_(astrology)
/r/seduction21/10/16 05:51 PM
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Any resources you would recommend?
/r/seduction17/06/16 09:17 PM
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Nice theory and write up OP. I always think of this video if i get hesitant: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v-MApVvos2Y
/r/seduction12/04/16 01:44 AM
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Suck his lip. Yes/maybe this is when your being more sexual and this is typically how foreplay starts. Depends on the guy some might like it some might not. The best kissers I've had didn't try to stick their tongues down my throat. They also didn't just open up their mouths. The best kissers basically presented their tongues to the front part of their mouths/partially out and allowed my tongue to massage their tongues. The worst kissers hid their tongues basically I had to stick my tongues way …
/r/seduction30/03/16 03:07 PM
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Thanks, have been with quite a few girls and have a few at the moment. They are all nice and I could see myself being with each of them. But none are "perfect" and I'm not sure if that me just not wanting to be close and looking for an excuse not to be or if they are not what I'm actually wanting. Thanks again. you're insite helps with how this type of relationship works. I've never been one with abundance with women, till the last few months.
/r/seduction16/03/16 03:36 PM
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Thank you, I'm guess I'm just on the fence about what I really want. I'm still in my old habits of keeping women at a distance and at times scared to be that vulnerable. I'm ok with being single, I'm not sure if I want to be anymore, but I don't want to waste time with someone that I know probably won't work out.
/r/seduction16/03/16 02:50 PM
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How did you decide what women to make into a girlfriend. When do you stop seeing a woman?
/r/seduction15/03/16 06:52 PM
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Perhaps, Do you give a compliment, and then wait for her reaction. or are you giving a compliment and expecting her to stay and talk because of the compliment? if you are these can come across as needy or creepy. Give out a complement like its not a big deal and you are not expecting anything in return.
/r/seduction24/02/16 12:26 AM
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Practice empathy
/r/seduction23/02/16 11:40 PM
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In models he also discusses that true confidence is that you know no matter what happens you will be ok, you will survive. You also need to be process oriented and less outcome oriented. I have used honesty in everything I've done in my life, over the last 6+months. And it shows you are human, less robotic, you make mistakes, but you have your own interests and you bring your own energy. Socially I've noticed i've made more friends and my old "friends" are actually friends instead of acquaintanc…
/r/seduction23/02/16 09:56 PM
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I found (recently) that it makes a great ice breaker, gives you a chance to talk/brag about what you are into, and gets her a way to start asking questions about you. also Makes you seem extremely approachable, they already has a opener to open you. However i found it extremely difficult to escalate esp if one of your hands is a drink and the other is in a cast. So don't hide it, dont flaunt it, but its a part of you and your story. OWN IT (credit /u/murfdigity)
/r/seduction17/02/16 11:26 PM
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Just like THIS!!!
/r/seduction28/01/16 11:19 PM
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Yeah i'm pretty sure the girls are thinking that you think of them as ugly or that you have some sort of physical/emotional sexual baggage.
/r/seduction28/01/16 09:19 PM
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Women have their own reasons why they do things. Don't worry about it. and hell man I've had a couple girls take several days to get back to me after giving them my number (in a similar rushed state). A couple panned out most don't, thats just the way getting numbers works out. why does she wait to text back?, The 3 day rule, needs to build up courage, busy with other things, who knows, be happy with yourself for making the move. nice write up.
/r/seduction21/01/16 11:41 PM
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thanks can you make me a list of different goals like you did. I feel like i'm not progressing, I think this would help. Thanks.
/r/seduction05/01/16 04:42 PM
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Reno
/r/seduction28/12/15 09:10 PM
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you did fail to pull the trigger, but I think it's more because you were going into uncharted territory. You did good. Next time, if you don't get a chance for isolation write your number down and pass it to her: "hey, [cute girl name] i think you dropped this/is this your's/you forgot this" and hand her your number.
/r/seduction28/12/15 08:49 PM
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Nice, had a pretty similar experience started hitting up a good looking girl at a bar, started to talk, turns out she has a boyfriend but she invited me to be an extra in a small indie film she was in. The next day I was a stand in for her onscreen boyfriend and basically I was supposed to hit on her. It was terrible (sarcasm) "pretending" to have a conversation and actively, blately, practicing kino.
/r/seduction16/12/15 10:41 PM
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Its a scary prospect to start to grow you think you are killing your formal self. You think that you are becoming fake. Its kinda true, the good parts of you will still be there but the bad parts can be replaced. but the new you will eventually stick and the old you will become a long fading memory.
/r/seduction08/12/15 09:14 PM
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Damn, me too. All i could see in this video was my former self. The self loathing and hate was strong back then. Thanks to this subreddit my life has changed, I am no longer scared to experience life or to have feelings or to show those feelings.
/r/seduction08/12/15 09:07 PM
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Reno
/r/seduction20/11/15 04:53 PM
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Nevada
/r/seduction20/11/15 04:53 PM
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USA!!!
/r/seduction20/11/15 04:53 PM
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North America
/r/seduction20/11/15 04:53 PM
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Reno
/r/seduction20/11/15 04:51 PM
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Nevada
/r/seduction20/11/15 04:51 PM
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Great post!! I'm introverted and used to be shy. Gaming the shy girls now is hard and easy. Its easier to connect to them and talk to them because the lower energy is my natural state and they want more direct conversations. But its hard because the IOI, are nearly zero, (but body language is still there, how much of her body is facing you?). You don't have the external social cues so you just kind of have to jump in blindly with the physical escalation.
/r/seduction10/11/15 05:26 PM
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Also if you win over the group the group will help you out. This happened to me this weekend, approached a table of 3 guys 4 girls all mingling couldn't tell if anyone was dating each other, but approached anyway. Eventually girls became my wingmen setting me up with the one single girl of the group.
/r/seduction03/11/15 04:08 AM
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yo, join me at /r/Renoseddit, its new so add to it. (i've been lazy)
/r/seduction01/10/15 07:11 PM
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Dude I think you just wrote about my past relationships (that never worked out). Very similar, IF you are a "nice guy" not just with this relationship but every relationship you have (friends, potential dates, even work colleges) then the best thing I would recommend is ordering No more mr nice guy by Robert Glover. Read it and do the exercise, re-read it again and again. Stick with it it will take months if not years of training to unlearn bad behaviors. But with this relationship and far as wh…
/r/seduction30/09/15 08:58 PM
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I would enter into any relationship long term with whatever chick would open her legs and would show me attention. When it was obvious that the relationship was not going to work out I would be to scared to break it off, instead delaying the inevitable for another year (or two) also trying to make her happy to delay her calling it quits. I seriously had no idea how to talk to people and an even lesser extent how to attract women. I eventually stumbled onto seddit and from there read Models (whic…
/r/seduction30/09/15 05:50 PM
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pretty much same thing here, I would enter into any relationship long term with whatever chick would open her legs and would show me attention. When it was obvious that the relationship was not going to work out I would be to scared to break it off, instead delaying the inevitable for another year (or two) also trying to make her happy to delay her calling it quits. I seriously had no idea how to talk to people and an even lesser extent how to attract women. I eventually stumbled onto seddit and…
/r/seduction30/09/15 05:50 PM
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I'm still an newb at this stuff but I found I was denying my own sexual desires and suppressing them. Maybe do to christian upbringing and the old thoughts that women are not sexual, whatever the reason it's unhealthy to think like that, move past it. Once I got past that way of thinking. I had much less trouble escalating, and kino. It really helped move my game much further than learning how to escalate and kino and taking the lead.
/r/seduction28/09/15 10:15 PM
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