ThatNolanKid Archive

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3	Text conversation starters? Help You ever think that if you're struggling to converse, it might be a sign that there's not so much of a spark as you thought? Go over the things you were talking about. Is there anything interesting happening around that relates to your conversations? You could text them and say "hey I saw this thing and it reminded me of when we talked about this thing. Wanna go?" Spontaneity can be either sexy, or incredibly revealing of intentions and interests. Keep chipping away and good luck, but in my opin…	/r/seduction	23/10/19 01:22 PM
3	Made out with a girl at a party. Now she's very passive. What to do? Are you in any country that celebrates Christmas? Cause it's Christmas Eve. That being said, you need to make yourself less available. Texting back too much or too soon is a thing, and by doing so you very much come off as needy. Look at the situation: you text her, she doesn't respond very soon or very extensive, and you're left here wondering why she isn't giving you the attention you want. You want it to be the other way around. Two things need to happen in order for this to work. The first o…	/r/seduction	24/12/16 11:47 PM
1	Friend I liked told me her boyfriend cheated Always nice and polite. Good character. But don't misinterpret that as letting people walk over you. Now along the lines of listening to her as a friend but "oh hey I've gotta get driving, I'm running late to meet up with people; I've got a date; doing this thing." From now on you're always busy, but not too busy to ignore her every time she reaches out to you, just enough to where she wishes she had you around more. And you'll notice a change in her, because she'll want you more and there's onl…	/r/seduction	06/10/16 12:38 PM
2	Friend I liked told me her boyfriend cheated Exactly my point. Seduction of a woman lies in how much attention she gets initially. That is precisely just enough for her to have to constantly figure out why you stopped giving her attention.	/r/seduction	06/10/16 01:57 AM
2	Friend I liked told me her boyfriend cheated I think it's immature to run away from your problems. Face them like a man, but do it strategically. What does she want? She wants you to be the guy she can cry on. Don't be; be the thing she's missing out on. Be busy, have fun, hang out, and ever friendly. It'll drive her fucking nuts why she can't get your attention anymore than for a moment... When she used to so easily. Don't feed into her emotional cries for help so easily. These are simple reverse psychology things that just work. What doe…	/r/seduction	06/10/16 01:53 AM
9	Friend I liked told me her boyfriend cheated She's using you as a crying shoulder, and she knows she can. This may hurt to hear, but this is also the reason why she never dated you in the first place. My opinion: be a friend, but don't give her all your attention. You're a better person than that and deserve to be desired -if you wish it so. Women are like cats in that aspect, you give them too much attention and they claw/bite/don't want you at all. But giving them just enough to make them wonder why you're not giving them ALL your attent…	/r/seduction	05/10/16 02:36 PM
2	Not getting anywhere with anything, what now? You mentioned you're depressed. Let's start there. Is this because you're single? First, you must be happy with who you are as a person, as a single person, before you can attract the better selection of the opposite sex. The scent of fragility and the mentality of desperation will fuck you up way worse than taking the little bit of extra time in your life to be a happy individual.	/r/seduction	04/09/16 05:14 AM
8	Talked to a random girl for the first time! Need advice Stuff like that is really really difficult to be successful with... Let's start: you're opening an unexpected conversation, in an unexpected place, and that made her very uncomfortable. You don't want to do that cause it spells creep. If she wasn't giving you the eyes or flirting, she most likely didn't want you coming over in the first place. You're looking to get a positive smile or chatter from her, you got "oh." -and not even a good oh. So, your goal is get in and get out, hopefully bump you…	/r/seduction	04/09/16 05:09 AM
1	Is she Interested? Tips or how to tell if we're friends/dating? It's pretty crazy how pressure makes it become so difficult for us men to recognize the signs that a woman wants us around. Here's what I picked up on: she always wants you around. she makes physical contact with you and is comfortable. you haven't made a move by which to establish why you're hanging out with her. Which one of these sounds like the negative of the three? Better step up or she will fizzle out. Take her out and kiss her good night; Lock it in.	/r/seduction	04/09/16 03:10 AM
1	How would you seduce this girl (or would you just try to forget her) You should start by not making out with other girls the second you've piqued her interest. No, sorry, you're entitled to do that... but those things will catch up to you and you'll develop a reputation for being a little too cavalier with your love life; that's not sexy to a girl. Confidence, goal oriented, and straightforward men are what [most] women want. It's often possible to confuse confidence with total a-holes, but that happens, and you're making yourself out to have all these red flags.…	/r/seduction	05/07/16 06:25 PM
1	How should I be talking to girls? There are many variables to this, and there's no cookie cutter answer unfortunately. You should react to the situation at hand with the knowledge you have available to you at the time. Example: She's reading a book, say something about the book. Have you read it? Ask her what she thinks of the author. She's recently changed her hair color, compliment it. "Did you change your hair color? It looks great." She's talking in a group about something, respond directly to her with something intelligent …	/r/seduction	13/01/16 04:00 AM
2	Girl is ignoring me on purpose, how do i get revenge? That's the best, because all the while she'll be thinking and wondering what happened and why you don't think she's special anymore. I hate this sick game they play	/r/seduction	21/08/15 03:48 PM
3	Girl is ignoring me on purpose, how do i get revenge? This. Correct. The opposite of love is not hate, it's indifference.	/r/seduction	21/08/15 02:31 PM
5	In Need of Advice ASAP [M 17] Best advice is to just hang out and have fun. Act natural, take things as they come. A centered man is unstoppable, if you think that way. You are your own man; do things your way, confidently. Make the necessary advances, but listen to her if she's not ready yet. That being said, always try to make your intentions aware with a kiss or you will be ending up in the friends zone regardless. Don't let any rejection get you feeling down. Remember, there are 7 billion people in this world. Don't get …	/r/seduction	29/07/15 05:29 AM