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Should I text her on the 13th asking when I should pick her for Valentines?
/r/seduction19/01/22 10:44 PM
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Met her 6 days ago, dropped 3 messages and no replies. How would you recommend salvaging the situation?
/r/seduction19/01/22 08:48 PM
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Thanks! Much appreciated.
/r/seduction15/01/22 03:57 PM
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Thank you! I know there are no guarentees in love and war and nothing is for certain, but thanks for sharing your perspective. Tbh, I am finding that I moved on from that needy frame really fast, faster than I expected.
/r/seduction15/01/22 02:10 PM
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Thanks! Now, do I message her at all until a day before Valentines? If I do, how do I convey the lack of neediness and that I learnt my lesson? Should I tell her out aloud with a quick apology followed by invite to hang out or should I skip the whole apology thing? I am a newbie but my best guess is to just not interact at all for a while so as to first let her miss me?
/r/seduction15/01/22 01:07 PM
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Yea fuck texting. If you cant call me, then fuck off.
/r/MGTOW224/02/21 08:21 PM
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No
/r/MGTOW215/09/20 09:04 PM
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You are in heaven, a heaven I can only imagine in my dreams.
/r/MGTOW215/09/20 09:00 PM
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Same bro. I wish I could trade my life with this guy.
/r/MGTOW215/09/20 08:59 PM
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I feel your pain, because you are me. I think we need a new community because you and me, we don't belong to any of the existing ones. We are not choosing to remain single because we are misogynist or incels. We just dont want to play the game because after a rational assesment and experimentation, we have found that the juice ain't worth the squeeze, atleaat in our case. We don't live in illusions either and are men enough to accept reality for what it is. You cant have it all though, and the h…
/r/MGTOW227/06/20 04:43 PM
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Why are you quick to assume that I haven't told her. I have and she is staying, yet not happy about it.
/r/MGTOW227/06/20 04:37 PM
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Bro, I am printing this out to build the strength so I can be FREE as well. This post was f-ing badass Epic.
/r/MGTOW227/06/20 02:19 PM
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Attraction stems not just from the body/face but a lot more than that. You didnt understand what I wanted to convey. If you look at money as a resource, beauty too is a resource. And neither money nor looks are forever. Anyway, I would rather be with an average looking girl who gets me and connects to me than a pretty girl who only has the face/body. Your belief system is really fucked, however I understand your pain as I havent been blessed genetically like Chad. I just chose to do what I can w…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 06:16 PM
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Ya keep wallowing in self pity. Just remember misery loves company.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 06:09 PM
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Just one more thing, after this, I might not reply to your comments because I don't want to spend time arguing. Its free advice, take it or leave it. 1.) Different types of women value different things. Some value looks, others brains, some value personality, etc. I have been with some hot women who were into the same sexual fetishes like me and were attracted to me just because of my personality. They ended up being LTRs because I WANTED THEM TO BE. I never paid them a dime, I wasn't a provider…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 03:23 PM
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Men like you make men look bad. Always coveting what others got, wallowing in misery and full of excuses instead of growing a pair and putting up a fight. You say you "tried" before you gave up. Clearly you didnt learn shit about how a woman's psyche works or anything about game. Either change your approach and try again and again till you suceed or keep wallowing in self pity. No one cares. I am pretty sure millions of women want to date a multi millionaire, and would give him the same treatmen…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 02:57 PM
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So she fucks Chad because of his looks, she fucks me because of my money. She would not fuck Chad if he lost his looks (say got badly scarred) and she would not fuck me if I lost my money. Plenty of successfull and rich Chads out there but not ALL Chads are rich is what I am trying to tell ya. Most aren't. Because they never solved hard problems like me and havent grown the same way. Many of whom I know are gym trainers or bums and dont make enough to live a decent life unless they inherited it.…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 02:47 PM
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Some of them just dont get it.
/r/MGTOW210/05/20 12:04 PM
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Why not get your legs broken and have steel rods installed for increasing your height too? And when you still get rejected or finds her cheating on you, what then? No matter what you do you can't beat the genetics Chad has been blessed with in the looks game. You do have something that Chad dont, look into yourself and find what it is. And why the hell do you value a woman's attention so much? Most of my friends have been/are Chads, my best friend somehow is always a Chad at any point in my life…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 11:22 AM
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I used to be right there brother. But then, it was because I used to value women's attentions a lot. We are men raised by a society of women/simps. The belief that we need a woman and her attention is what the problem is. Now I have so many hobbies and interests, I honestly dont have time for this shit. I now make more money + workout/self improve and I now purchase sex - exactly the kind of sex I want, with exactly the kind of woman I want. If my looks alone cant offer me abundance, then I have…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 10:59 AM
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My first crush/gf, over whom I became depressed and wasted many a good year when we broke up, is now married, fat and unemployed. I am now more fit than I ever was and make more money than I ever did.
/r/MGTOW210/05/20 10:35 AM
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Added bookmark on my home screen. This is beyond Gold for those who have spent time in the monk mode and understand what you are talking about.
/r/MGTOW209/05/20 01:54 PM
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We all are different! Wish you the best mate, may you find what you seek.
/r/MGTOW208/05/20 06:37 PM
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Yo bro! Very inspiring.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 11:02 AM
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No.. its more like..smell of their hair, her naked body on top of mine (no sex, just body to body touch), playful kissing and cuddling, some light/naughty/playful humor with a sexual connotation, etc. You know all those things that make those happy chemicals secrete and only the right girl(s) can make it happen. And yes, I want to be treated like a king, so you could say that I want to be put first in their lives but only for the duration I pay them for. E.g. If a girl as much as touches her pho…
/r/MGTOW208/05/20 09:43 AM
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I aint sad bitch, but you look like an angry cunt.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 09:15 AM
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Its not about the sex, I wont mind seeing a cuddler if I could get that feel of a new girlfriend. A girl I was fooling around with wont mind dry humping or have her breasts cupped while still fully clothed. Its the artificial nature of the transaction that makes me lose interest. No kissing, no touching the bikini areas, no touching with the erection, fuck it, no money.
/r/MGTOW208/05/20 01:37 AM
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You got a better idea?
/r/MGTOW207/05/20 11:54 PM
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Are you saying that if you get an erection and can't follow thru you don't want to cuddle? Yes. I think so, although I've never done it myself. I didn't have a lot of grief to process from my divorce, I was just glad to get out of there, in spite of the high cost of doing so. I just don't have grief from my divorce (actually its not much as far as divorce is concerned). My grief stems from childhood abandonment, denial of maternal/paternal love, or maybe I don't even know why. I need to do some …
/r/MGTOW207/05/20 11:17 PM
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Correct, cuddlers do not have sex, and the session is fully clothed. If you get an erection during the cuddle it's OK, just don't press your erection up against her. Yes, you can spoon with cuddlers, but you may not touch their breasts or ass. And certainly no dry humping. Thanks for taking the time to answer. Your reply to my previous post really opened the door to a new universe for me. By following your posts, I was able to find a whole community of men who are focused and driven professional…
/r/MGTOW207/05/20 07:38 PM
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So apparently you hate a drama-free life free from divorce-rape. Don't complain when you find "the one" and when she walks out on you, having fucked you the way she wanted and you don't even have money to buy glue to fix that shit up. You are living in some fairytale asking for someone to come fuck you up. This is coming from a married guy whose wife ain't fat, never cheated on him, never asked for anything expensive. And one that would give him sex 99% of the time. Yes, its coming from that guy…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 06:27 PM
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Wow, finally some intelligent, practical advice based on reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 06:17 PM
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I just wanted to let you know that I read your story in the sub you created and it touched me. I too have come to many of the same conclusions independently, I don't want kids either, got talked into compromising for other's "happiness" and realized what that did to me in the long run. I also am a type A personality as far as my career is concerned and realized a lack of intimacy has been always sabotaging my professional success. It wasn't until I saw an escort and lived out my darkest fantasy …
/r/MGTOW207/05/20 05:55 PM
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Thanks for sharing! I am terrified to the bone as I make this call to get a divorce in my mid 30s knowing full well I may never have kids and family. Great to see someone happy on the other side. So the cuddlers don't have sex I supposse? What about getting hard after the cuddle? And like do they let you spoon them and squeeze their boobs and all? Like dry humping I suppose? This certainly got me thinking, hadn't seriously considered it before. Honestly my plan is more like seeing a few escorts …
/r/MGTOW207/05/20 05:38 PM
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Anyone care to shed light on the strategy have-nots have towards getting sex and intimacy? I believe incel is a sub category of the have-nots. There has to be another one where the men decided to pay for sex, I for one am not definitely either a have or have not - I am no chad but I have had a wife that I am divorcing in a peaceful manner. However, post divorce I am not willing to do another LTR yet I am not chopping my dick off. I have little dating skills or desire to learn the "game" because …
/r/MGTOW207/05/20 12:57 PM
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An upvote on Reddit is a like, a downvote is a dislike. Anyway don't matter. Thanks for sharing your views brother, I agree you are right. Forget the haters.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 07:48 PM
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Well since you didn't read my "sad" post, of course you didn't get anything and just assumed a bunch of whatever. Unfortunately you do need to read to get any fucking idea of what I actually said. Maybe you dont have time because you are in charge of running your billion dollar enterprise. I literally said the same thing and I am not looking for your sympathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 06:05 PM
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Finally one mature and well thought out reply. I agree with you on many points, its a very well thought out middleground argument for both enjoying your life and being in full control of it at the same time that lets you live life with a positive mindframe. Really surprised to get do many downvotes though. Seems like its inevitable that with so much free time and nothing to do, any pill forum will eventually get swamped by incels. All I said that intimacy is a very important aspect that cannot b…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 05:55 PM
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So being childfree, no intimacy/romantic love from a woman is appealing? Not hating on you, just 99.99% decided on my divorce but having second thoughts about it. Have had the divorce discussion before but I tried to "make it work" several times after and this latest current "trying to make it work again" trial is only a week old and I have actually been angrier and more upset and hurt than I was when we were separated before I got into this mess again. I suppose I am just gathering strength to …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 12:06 PM
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Excellent post OP. But the inherent desire to express one's opinions is so strong, specially if you are lonely, which I suppose applies to many a user in this sub. Then once you make a post here on Reddit, it tells you how many likes you got and how many replies you got. You can't help reading the replies and then, like as if it mattered like a samurai's honor, you argue endlessly. But thank you for bringing it to my consciousness's notice. I have been thinking about it for a while too and it ma…
/r/MGTOW206/05/20 11:54 AM
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The problem is that Reddit tells you when you have a reply to your comments. You can't help reading it and then you can't help replying to it. Just end up wasting hours in the process.
/r/MGTOW206/05/20 11:51 AM
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So if you have a failed dating history and a divorce at say, 35, should you give up entirely or keep seeking? I am in my early 30s, never dated before, fell into the trap of marrying a girl as she hit her wall, was a beta cuck at the time, then started to smoke some weed about a year ago, think differently and started to wake up only to get full red pilled. Now I can't go back even I want to, I am clean and sober but I can't unsee what I have seen and now I am on the path to divorce. While the t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 11:09 AM
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In my world, even men don't care. Everyone is blue pilled.
/r/MGTOW23/01/20 09:00 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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