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Actually I work in education, they haven’t stopped having sex. They have sex much younger. I haven’t had to stop any teen sex on the high school campus but at least 3 times a year a student or teacher catches 12-13 year olds having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 11:05 PM
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Well, considering most current high schools grew up in a pandemic that’s normal?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 04:40 AM
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That’s homoromanticism. It’s a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 04:35 AM
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Don’t feed it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 05:14 AM
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Bruh you’re a troll 😂.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 05:09 AM
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No it doesn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 05:08 AM
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Let me introduce you to asexuals. They can feel romantic love without sexual attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 05:07 AM
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A lot of younger men are obsessed with other people’s validation and they seemed to blame everyone for it. “Progressive” dudes will shame a women if she isn’t sexually open and promiscuous or into poly. “Conservative” dudes shame if they’re not virgins or tradfem. There’s no sense in getting to know someone, it’s all a manipulative game everyone created their own rules for in their head. To be fair- it’s likely this isn’t new but just more prevalent with the internet. 14 year old rape threats we…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 01:27 AM
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Over 30 male here- more sexist, just in different ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 10:22 PM
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Yes most of these other men believe women should be uneducated and willfully abused.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 03:21 PM
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Oh we got a badass here 😩. Enjoy mate
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 02:48 PM
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Oh I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 02:47 PM
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No worries, it’s the hair. 😂 I’m just pretty 😌. You can doubt success all you want? Doesn’t really affect me or my life or how I approach people. By treating then with some sort of built in code and one size fits all formula and man it sounds tiring. This manipulation is lying my guy. Especially without statistical evidence. Oh I know the reply is late, work shit had me putting down Reddit for a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 02:46 PM
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And?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 02:43 PM
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Nope, I’m a dude with plenty of my own success but that doesn’t matter because that’s my own experience. And that’s just sad man. If you can’t trust your dudes… You’re just teaching dudes how to be liars, cheats and to work life with a bizarre and non existent formula that doesn’t pertain to anything. That sounds like way more work than my time is worth. Again, if you have the time to do all that go for it. Least you know yourself. However it’s not logical to apply it to everyone. That’s the sim…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 07:20 PM
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I like pet name to fuck around man. Probably comes off weird on the internet but just met with fun jabs. I get what you’re saying but I guess I was adding I think even monkey branching involves some cheating you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 07:16 PM
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Nah man, sometimes homie just needs to vent and I get that. You don’t have that kinda friendship? That’s sad man, I’m sorry. You live in a world with bizarre categories and bizarre rules and limitations that aren’t really there. That’s your right to live that way but that’s on you man. Some of us don’t want to deal with all of that. You’re not wrong in how you want to live your life, but no need to project the delusion. Now you’re just resorting to ad hominem because there’s no argument left.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 07:13 PM
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Sweetie I am a man. If I am being mistreated, yes I am going to leave. However I’m not “trading in” my partner? Nor to expect my partner to be my mother/father. This just sounds like poor communication on the individual and should probably work on themselves because they’ll keep sucking at relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 07:09 PM
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Ahhh I see what you mean. I honestly don’t believe that any “amazing” partner can honestly prevent affair fog. If you’re “monkey branching” then you are at least having an emotional affair and that’s still cheating (depending on the couple’s boundaries of course).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 07:07 PM
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So you have no evidence to support the claim? That’s what I thought. I don’t care about your experiences. I have my own. Anecdotal evidence isn’t real evidence. Your experiences only matter to you, projecting them is the problem. Your arbitrary ideas and claims may mean something to you, but painting with a wide brush is fallacious. Now you are starting another claim about women wanting us to listen and not solve problems? That has nothing to do with the conversation. Isn’t that what all people …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 07:03 PM
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Please provide statistical studies that are not anecdotal experiences from others, that say women largely over history and in the mass of the geographic world- do not prefer direct language (even against what women say). If this does not exist, it is an over generalization. If this cannot be produced because it is impossible to do so, it is an over generalization. Anecdotal evidence means nothing, and it unreliable as many men experience different things. Also, false ethos is pointless to use he…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 06:52 PM
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No, over generalization is literally a logical fallacy. That is what is being done here. There’s already another illogical conclusion as a result of this over generalization. This bizarre, formulaic response.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 06:44 PM
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Well, for one, generalizing an entire gender is fallacious. Simply put, it’s illogical. This will further lead to illogical conclusions and foster blame onto the group that is unwarranted. Therefore leading to misplaced emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 06:38 PM
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Careful, that’s a fallacious mindset that will only lead to bitterness.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 06:35 PM
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HAHWHAHWHWH you think that’s magic? Dude you have some hella warped sense. No, in our conversations it’s very clear and boundaries are easily established. I do generally enjoy the company of people I want to have sex with, or else what’s the point? Are you so damn jaded in life you don’t think people can have honest interactions with good outcomes?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 06:31 PM
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It only takes one? I’m sure some people are into that like some people are into other traits? I know a lot of women who prefer something different. I think you’re spending way too much time caring about this man. Who the fuck cares? Good for them? Hope they’re happy?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 06:25 PM
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Hit the nail on the head.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 06:21 PM
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Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 06:19 PM
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Idk man, works for me 😂. Instead of saying “wanna fuck?” You can say “I would love to spend more time with you but I’m not looking for anything exclusive or committed.”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 06:19 PM
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I’m a dude here to offer another perspective. Incels need therapy for whatever mommy issues dudes have. They’re hateful, resentful and blame everyone and society for their issues. They’re more than misogynistic, they’re entitled, violent and spiteful. They shouldn’t be anywhere near a potential partner until they work through their issues- and there the vicious cycle turns. I don’t thinks players are truly vilified? Or else they wouldn’t be players. I think people just realistically understand y…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 06:17 PM
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I’m a man, and I agree with what she said. Good partners don’t prevent cheaters. Men and women and NBs cheat on good partners all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 04:01 PM
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No, I’ve told you your point in invalid as it makes no sense. You’ve clearly projected or misinterpreted as others pointed out as well. Goodluck with that, can’t help you there.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 03:58 PM
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I think it’s less about the job and more about stability. Though I don’t believe in the pseudo-psychology alpha male shit. But if you’re financially stable and interesting as a person, you’re better off than most.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 03:45 AM
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Not at all, some of absolutely do understand the struggle that afab women feel in this regard. The ones showing insensitivity do not. Again, there’s nothing insulting in that aspect. As men, we have to ability to call out other men for undesirable behavior as we should. The fact you felt insulted is telling.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 02:34 AM
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If you think that’s an insult then I highly suggest some introspection. The fact that you were so triggered by the comment “I’m sorry you have to deal with men who don’t realize how big an issue this is” is very concerning. That is not an insult nor am I contributing to an argument because it’s been said I don’t believe anything would convince these men otherwise. However, letting women know that other men understand this is bad behavior allows us to not be painted with the generalized “asshole …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 03:02 PM
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Hormone birth control is hard on women. That’s why they won’t approve it for me. We can’t take the side effects 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 03:03 AM
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I’m sorry you have to deal with other men in these comments not realizing it’s a big issue. Some of us understand and can think beyond our selfish opinions
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 02:59 AM
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Same monkey, different hat. It’s all a bunch of sad dudes that are desperately trying to have sex without emotional attachments or gather some illusion of control on their lives rather than go to therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 04:55 AM
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Y’all are forgetting how more of us are admitting to be attracted to other men 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 05:32 PM
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That sounds like the beginning of a good time forgive me I had to..
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 04:46 PM
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Affordable housing Maternity and paternity leave Affordable healthcare Stop subsidizing large corporate agriculture in support of family business and passive agriculture. We literally have serfs again ffs. Schools are funded properly and more teachers are hired- though most rights be given back to the states to decide for their population. I honestly think if we do these things we’ll come more together.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 04:44 PM
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Because we can be silly goobers
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 04:18 PM
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Girls don’t like it when we’re exhausting.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 04:15 AM
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HAHAHAHAHAHA I wish I had an award to give you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 04:13 AM
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Same man, same. If two people are really going for it you gotta try.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 04:04 AM
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It absolutely was about legal rights? Medical rights, retirement rights, funeral rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 04:04 AM
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Mine? Fuck yea it has so far. You know how many she’s scared off saying she’s a witch? Girl is gonna own the block at 10
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 04:03 AM
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That we play dnd on Fridays and routinely try out homemade weapons on each other. 🤩😂 Oh, and we’re a suckers Tolkien references.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 03:39 PM
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I don’t think other men realize the 200+ legal benefits that marriage brings. I’m bisexual but more male leaning I’d say and other bi/gay men realized how the legal system treated long terms relationship without marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 03:30 PM
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Don’t forget legal/medical benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 03:28 PM
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I think there’s nuance here? If I’m with someone and we agree there’s no difference to our financial situation etc, then a “forever” relationship is fine? If I met a girl or man that was staunchly against marriage for any reason, I’d advise they get therapy and leave the relationship. I don’t need that emotional baggage.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 03:27 PM
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STOP I WHEEZED LAUGHING 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 03:55 AM
1

I’m convinced “Chad” and the “alpha male” is the latest cryptid.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 03:53 AM
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It’s not gay if our eyes are closed 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 03:44 AM
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I cackled at this 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 03:42 AM
1

Maybe you’re just not your best self? You should be enough, if for no one else but yourself. Ultimately my guy we all die alone, and it’s ourselves we gotta live with.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 03:36 AM
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Well let’s be honest. Forums like this? Everyone is so fucking focused on living a certain way instead of living. Instead of bettering themselves so they can be happy you know? I don’t think people date nowadays for a relationship, I think they date for external validation. Just look at some of the posts her. They’re desperately insecure and blame everyone around them or the opposite gender. Romanticize your life a bit and enjoy yourself. We should treat dating as a journey to meet someone else …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 03:56 AM
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Let me fix this- Get to the gym, build a social circle and improve your diet. Do this because you as a human should work on your mental and physical health as well as emotional self sufficiency without seeking external validation. You’ll find once you starting making improvements for yourself and without expectation that the sees you plant will be fruitful. Also, not being a dick helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 04:48 AM
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Personally man, I don’t think about it too much. Maybe that’s a privilege but I figure if we focus on being our best self, we’ll attract people with their best selves.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 04:29 AM
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I don’t think it’s a gender thing. I’m a man and I guess I fit some “type” because I’ve never once been single that wasn’t my choice. I usually date multiple people casually (with their knowledge) until settling for a relationship. I definitely have my flaws (some I’m currently working on for myself) and I’ve always been surprised how many men and women are willing to look over them? Like damn some of these things should have been deal breakers 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 03:31 AM
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Nah, I’m a man here- this is more accurate. “I’ve been told by my mommy/daddy all my life I’m special and women are hoes and since I’m special I should get prizes for doing the bare minimum.” Least that’s what I see in most western or strict cultures XD.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 03:37 PM
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Again man, Equality =\= equity. Buts that’s it’s own thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 02:15 PM
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Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 02:14 PM
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Shut up and take my money!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 03:56 AM
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Equal =/= equitable. Though I should clarify that I’m speaking only in the case of familial units. Single and childless are on a level playing field regardless of gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 03:54 AM
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Equality and equity are not the same. Equal doesn’t mean equitable. I thinking primary caretakers and children under 18 go first. Generally, this is women. When it’s the man, it should be him. Think you got some unhinged behavior there to work out? You’re being so hyperbolic and dichotomous. No one is calling anyone worthless. Your “all or nothing” mindset is fallacious. and yes, it’s why more biological women are born during periods of scarcity and biological men are born in abundance.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 03:52 AM
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Even as a bi dude it isn’t hard. Some guy on a bike wheeled past and asked me for a number outside a bookstore 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 03:41 AM
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I tend to date multiple people at once and don’t become exclusive until months later if I really clique with someone. If I’m not exclusive, I don’t stop turning down dates or asking for them. If I am exclusive, the dating apps go. Tbh though this isn’t always sustainable. Two-three partners is harder than it seems even casually. I’m actually taking a break from it all to see if I want to continue this or focus on becoming exclusive 😂.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 03:38 AM
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I’m speaking from an anthropological standpoint. Going by gender essentialism (not determinism), women are designed to survive things like famine- even while breastfeeding. Men are (moreso) looking toward solving issues in regards to crisis and force. To me, it’s simply knowing that kids should be with a primary caretaker. Usually this is the woman, but not always. If the primary caretaker is a single dad, he should go. I’m thinking from a standpoint of going where you need to go in a situation.…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 03:34 AM
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Well I’m a man and I don’t, but I hope he picks you eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 03:27 AM
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Sure are, we both just have different strengths. A woman is more likely to survive a famine to feed their children and we’re more likely to stop brute force. We go where our needs are.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 03:26 AM
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Awwww too butthurt to consider a man might view women generally as primary caretakers and therefore should take out their minor children?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 03:24 AM
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I agree. Families, minors and primary caretakers
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 03:23 AM
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Also women tend to be preoccupied with their children (which is of course valid). Depending on the need and situation people who can stay and help should. If they’re childless, they should help if they are able regardless of gender. My thought generally go to keeping at least one parent with children.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 03:22 AM
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Aww poor thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 03:18 AM
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I’m a dude 😂. I think in the situation of emergency you evacuate the younger and their primary caretakers. Single dads are included in this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 03:17 AM
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Meh, I’m still all for evacuating women and children first. This of course includes young men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 06:50 PM
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Have you seen someone for these feelings? It doesn’t sound like you love yourself enough to demand decent respect. You’re not a good or service. You’re not an object, you don’t have market value. You have experiences, some good and some bad. This value myth will drive you insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 04:59 AM
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Thank you my friend!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 04:17 AM
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It’s just internalized misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 04:01 AM
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Not MGTOW, but I am choosing to be single atm for a personal growth period. Men who are neck beards tend to grow into “MGTOW” and generally, when it’s post divorce the men just give up. My uncle is a “red piller” because his brother was wiped clean in his divorce. The kicker? My other uncle LET it happen. He complained about low custody, complained about alimony and having to leave the house but did FUCK ALL to change it. We live in a 50/50 state, did he get a lawyer? No. Did he go to court to f…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 11:53 PM
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Maine Coone pics? 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 04:53 PM
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Guy here, attracted to men and women. Women - too many alcohol pics - purposely shoving their ass/chest to photos (I immediately think they’re trying to promote something) -no hobbies - “I’m not like other girls” - “boss bitch” in profile For men -too many alcohol pics - too many gym/shirtless pics - no book interests - says “females” - fish/boat/car pics (more than one) - “polyamory” (usually just DL dudes not admitting to their so’s they like men)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 04:50 PM
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Maybe they severely suck in your area? Or maybe you’re not asking the right questions. Kinda like the dating thing man, if you go through that many- there’s something you need to change up.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 04:45 PM
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By straw man, you have created a new enemy to defeat. The “blue haired, sjw woman eater”. The one who blatantly hates men and is a caricature. Even at the end of your paragraph, you say you aren’t but in your previous response you mentioned this exact type of women. I won’t battle or attempt to refute this strawman because it’s not the point in what represents the “intelligent woman”. Every other man I’ve been around in a binary culture has had some similar experience. We have to accept we’re a …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 02:22 PM
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If you find the right therapist it does. Took me four to get one that I could connect to.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 02:13 PM
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People on dating apps are looking for people they’re physically attracted to. It’s that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 04:15 AM
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I wish I had an award to give you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 04:05 AM
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I suggest therapy rather and a poorly executed attempt to oppress yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 04:05 AM
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It is a strawman, On the flip side, I have seen men turn down women who are smart, kind and reasonable because “I don’t want a woman smarter than me.” There are men that exist that are intimidated by intelligent women. So no, not all women who say this are a part of a straw man built group of people. It’s entirely nonsensical. An overabundance of any trait can be negative. You can argue a slippery slope (another fallacy) with any trait, including beauty and reasonableness. You are speaking about…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 04:03 AM
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To be far, we’re the same way. Most dude’s lack of hygiene also catches up to them around this time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 03:22 PM
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Mate… you built one HELL of a person with that straw man. Who is a morbidly obese hag? Who is getting a gender degree? Do you associate all intelligent women with tucutes and sjws? That might be your problem. (And previously I meant your language in the OP).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 03:15 PM
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I appreciate the apology. Look, maybe it’s not your intention but the style of language and word choice sent off spidey senses. I don’t want to assume your preferences, but rather this is just a disconnect between them. I personally can’t fathom being with a woman or man that isn’t intellectually stimulating and I get bored rather easily. So intelligence is absolutely more important for me personally as it doesn’t matter how nice a girl is if she doesn’t stimulate and challenge me. I think it’s …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 08:41 PM
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Success is having options and choosing the one best for you and your situation. I would still consider myself successful at the moment because while I may be choosing to be single atm, I have the option not to be if I decide it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 05:40 PM
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I didn’t say “wtf IS agreeableness”. I said wtf as a means to show the distaste you’d have to value that over intelligence. Might do you better to read. You treat women like dog breeds man, fucking weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 05:34 PM
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Yes- in whoever I date. If I can’t talk to them, there’s not point. And wtf “agreeableness”? You sound like you’re talking about fucking dogs.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 01:38 PM
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They’re literally saying that’s not the motivation. Clearly you can’t understand to a degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 07:51 PM
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Oh damn this was perfect
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 05:29 PM
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I’m a dude but I think there’s a small difference because most guys have NO IDEA what weight looks like on women. You got these assholes all “nO FEMALES oVeR 125” and literally can’t tell you what that looks that or that that is unrealistic for most adult women over 5’2.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 05:25 PM
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No one is looking for “providers”. They’re looking for equal providers. They don’t want someone who they have to pull up. Just like most of us don’t want to have to carry someone. It’s just the state of the world right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 05:19 PM
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Nah man, if you’re consistently getting nothing you’re the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 04:06 PM
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I’m a man and I’m here for the entertainment.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 04:27 AM
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Nah, we just switch 😉 r/suddenlygay
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 04:21 AM
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Not to care if they’re a 30 year old virgin and to seek happiness and self fulfillment.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 03:55 AM
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Actually FGM’s earliest documented practice was about two thousand years ago. So MGM still has it beat two millennia. Mid point practices are a fallacy in the archeological community Herodotus wrote that the Egyptians "practise circumcision for the sake of cleanliness, considering it better to be cleanly than comely”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 03:41 AM
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I’m talking about circumcision being the oldest known surgical procedure to be utilized by humans and not having shit to do with controlling men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 03:05 AM
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And? This happened before him. This practice began with the earliest known event dating to the Egyptians in the 23rd century BCE. A good couple millennia before this dude was born.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 02:59 AM
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Circumcision has been happened WAY before 1100 CE. He was in no way is the authority
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 02:27 AM
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Worship your partner in return and it’s a magical relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 06:42 PM
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Suppose so mate
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 06:41 PM
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I’m not a woman. And no, it’s not a bro move. It’s a dick move and a shitty way to treat women and someone else’s relationship when you don’t know about their dynamic. It’s irrational to assume he’s being left in the dark? And it’s irrational to think we are all going to see a woman some way?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 05:45 PM
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Yea that’s wild. I knew people circumcised their sons but we were always against it. I had no idea people acted like that XD.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 05:42 PM
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if it matters to him. That’s a big if. It’s still assuming he doesn’t know or cares. This is why it’s an asshole move to tell him. It’s all based in assumption of knowledge and values You say “reveal” but its not necessarily a reveal because OP doesn’t know the people that well. That’s the issue. This is all baseless assumption. Why is she a bullet dodged? They could have both been hoes and now fully committed together? This is still a weird way to hold relationships you have no business in. The…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 05:25 PM
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That’s so wild! My family doesn’t do this in our cultures? So that’s just insane to me really.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 05:21 PM
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lol, I never said a woman’s choice wasn’t important. I even said she’s more affected by the outcomes of choice but nice there trying to rewrite it as some “gotcha”. I said men and women are equal in this. We still have as much choice to conceive a child based on our actions. It’s rather sexist to put the responsibility on only one party. However, I think this is an issue of cultural perspective upon how the biological function is viewed. In my cultures, the man holds the same responsibility and …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 04:52 PM
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Dude no, this has been recorded for thousands of years 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 04:44 PM
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Actually it’s an old Judaic practice meant for cleanliness. Though they poses no relevance now.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 04:43 PM
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What women to do you know 👁👄👁 Jesus Christ. I’ve never once heard this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 04:41 PM
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But they are both equally responsible for the source of these events? This doesn’t change anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 04:34 PM
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Actually it’s not, not engaging in ad hominem simply means I won’t validate a fallacious statement with argument, merely call it for what it is an invalid. And I’m speaking about pregnancy prevention, to which both parties (assuming a binary gender expression in the couple) have the equal ability to prevent a pregnancy. It does not infantilize women, instead it recognizes men as an equal member in procreation (something many cultures do not do).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 03:02 PM
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There absolutely can be harm? It can cause other issues, and it again- makes the speaker look like an asshole. It’s still devaluing his gf based on something ad arbitrary as sex. The burden of proof is on OP. Most other men in our circle don’t talk about that or bring up that shit. So “every other hypothetical man” is fallacious. You can’t paint a broad brush and anecdotal experience doesn’t apply to everyone. Nah, no beers for the people who insult on assumption.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 02:49 PM
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Aww look, ad hominem. Not worth responding or validating it. A man can very much prevent pregnancy. He can not nut in her. There you go. You bring your own contraception and you don’t finish in her. An abortion isn’t preventing a pregnancy it’s terminating a pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 02:44 PM
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What if he knows? What if he doesn’t care? What if he has a secret life where his kink is degradation? It’s still a shitty thing to do unless you’re close to the person or have insight into it. Assuming everyone is gonna have your same values “sHe WaS a HoE 😱😱😱” could cause you some fights in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 04:01 AM
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Nah you still look like an asshole. If you know he’s being lied to, then there’s ways to bring it up. If you’re shit stirring based off of assumption, then that’s poor form. Maybe he knows and doesn’t care? Maybe they went to therapy? Maybe he was a crusty hoe in the day himself? If you don’t know, then you just come off looking the bad guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 03:13 AM
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The fact that men and women are both responsible for procreation= inescapable biological fact. It’s not a belief. It’s stating a man can prevent pregnancy as much as the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 03:10 AM
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Nah, you’re not talking about a biological reality. You’re making blatantly fallacious statements that strongly stink of early evolutionary psychology that has been widely criticized. This is coming from someone who is trained in biological anthropology and studied in the field.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 09:58 PM
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You absolutely have been insinuating this the entire time. Whether or not the man can run, the responsibility is there. It absolutely does take two to make a child and it takes two people either making good or shit decisions about it. One person may be more affected than the other but it doesn’t create a disparity in the responsibility of the act itself. There are many choices to be made before you raw dog someone and then are surprised pikachu when there’s consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:44 PM
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That’s a false equivalency and a red herring and has no bearing here. It’s victim blaming and leaves a shit taste in the mouth. The point is, it’s not solely the woman’s responsibility if she falls pregnant. Does she have to deal with it more? Absolutely, but it’s not solely hers. We all know the courts are shit with just wanting a name on the birth certificate but that again, is a red herring. My point that it’s just as much our responsibility to avoid pregnancy stands. It really is. We could s…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:38 PM
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Bruh just because a man can run doesn’t doesn’t mean it’s on the woman. That’s some fucking Cirque du Soleil mental gymnastics and you’re giving us bad name. If you’re not ready for a kid, don’t nut in someone. But contributing to a toxic culture because “hurr hurr we can run” is not an actual argument. It’s on us as well and I hope the courts wipe clean the dudes who try to ditch their kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:09 PM
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I think it’s not his business to assume what goes on with another couple. If the dude expressed doubts or told him things that were definitely not true about his partner- that’s another story. Going up to some random dude “lol your gf was a MASSIVE hoe” just makes you look bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:03 PM
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Nah mate
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:01 PM
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Nah, it takes two to tango. If you can’t accept that responsibility then you shouldn’t be having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:01 PM
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They do. The man chose to sleep with her as well. We’re not brainless oafs. If I have a funny feeling about someone or they don’t want protection for any reason, I don’t sleep with them. It’s not rocket science.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 06:29 AM
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Nah that dude be 21 looking 30. That’s the mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 05:22 AM
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I think it’s not your business unless she was cheating on him.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 05:21 AM
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The guy, for abandoning the kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 05:19 AM
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Maybe I live on another planet because I’ve never once had an issue over height, opening up, or aggression/dominance. I also grew up in a predominantly matrilineal society and everyone had equal jobs/ tasks
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 05:16 AM
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