ThatsNotteHat Archive

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2	When it comes to who pays for dates, many women say that the gender wage gap justifies the expectation that men pay for dates. However, amongst the demographic that is dating (i.e., single people), single women outearn single men. Therefore, by their own logic, women should pay for dates. It doesn’t to me. I prefer it. It’s economical and creative. I’m sorry some humans can be shitty/insensitive/user-abusers. That’s inevitable, unfortunately, but it isn’t everyone, nor even the majority of people. Don’t give up. You’ll eventually find a person of character to date.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/21 11:22 AM
1	When it comes to who pays for dates, many women say that the gender wage gap justifies the expectation that men pay for dates. However, amongst the demographic that is dating (i.e., single people), single women outearn single men. Therefore, by their own logic, women should pay for dates. Just take turns treating each other. Or get creative and plan free dates.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/21 10:39 AM
5	A woman relaxing and gaining 50% of her BW after marriage is equivalent to a man relaxing and taking an easier job with a 50% pay cut after marriage. Sometimes age, health issues, and childbirth factor into reasons for weight gain and stubborn weight loss hindrances… I don’t think men or women should stay fit to keep a partner, but should aim for fitness because it helps them function at their best. Keeping the partner is secondary, but feeling good is the primary concern in a secure man or woman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/21 07:22 PM
1	What do women gain from being married in this day and age? I’ve read studies that indicate good marriages increase lifespan and overall happiness. Picking the right partner is key. Healthy levels of serotonin, dopamine, and oxytocin make a big difference in marriage quality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/21 07:07 AM
1	What do women gain from being married in this day and age? Deep intimacy- mentally/emotionally and physically. Companionship/best friendship. An ally/family.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/21 07:02 AM
1	Women Uphold Toxic Masculinity in Dating More Than Men Do Well reasoned. ^	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/21 02:20 PM
–	Porn use is a symptom, not a cause, of male sexlessness I advocate watching ethically made porn- because learning about what some of the actors go through is… sickening. Some of its very dark and twisted, and for the porn that’s made safely with consenting adults, I don’t think they get paid on free sites like porn hub. While this isn’t exactly on topic, it’s relevant because so many watch it and it’s important they’re educated- especially about the abusive scenes- so they don’t emulate it in real life and hurt people. Another article more on topic: …	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/21 12:54 AM
5	Why do Red Pillers think almost every woman has Borderline Personality Disorder? BPD is a post traumatic response that typically forms after recurring abuse— I genuinely think my mom has this disorder. Therapists used to refuse these clients, but nowadays clinicians are claiming it’s treatable if the client is willing to put in the work- dialectical behavioral therapy. I’ve begged my mom to get help. I think she’s too ashamed. Our relationship was a lot like the musical Wicked when I was a teen- she was like young Elfeba and since turned into the wicked witch. I have a lot o…	/r/ExRedPill	16/06/21 03:46 AM
4	Why do Red Pillers think almost every woman has Borderline Personality Disorder? Yes. This has been my experience. ^ ^ I’m striving for balance between the two extremes.	/r/ExRedPill	16/06/21 03:24 AM
8	Men need to take a woman's income into consideration because when there's a big income gap, the woman will most likely see you as a mark I see your point some, especially historically when most women didn’t have access to higher education and stellar employment opportunities. Before the advent of the birth control pill, pregnancy was higher risk, so women might have been more selective because having many babies would leave her vulnerable physically and financially. It makes sense that she would be pressured to find a “respectable suitor” aka someone with potential to lead. I think I’m terms of evolutionary priming: female brains…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/21 01:04 AM
5	My 30th birthday is this weekend Hahahahaha this is hilarious. Thanks for giving me a good, unexpected chuckle.	/r/ExRedPill	15/06/21 12:26 AM
8	My 30th birthday is this weekend Lol I turned 30, and literally kid you not, my gum line receded this year and I need surgery to fix it so my teeth don’t fall out. Premature grandma! Thankful there’s hope to correct it via surgery. Flossing isn’t optional, apparently haha. I always brush twice a day, but got lazy about flossing. Don’t make my mistake. Happy upcoming 30th, beautiful human!	/r/ExRedPill	15/06/21 12:25 AM
2	Women shouldn't expect to be paid for on the first few dates I agree- I like and practice mutually taking turns treating for dates and vacations. It shouldn’t be an entitled expectation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/21 02:32 AM
2	Women shouldn't expect to be paid for on the first few dates Where are your data sources? Anecdotal evidence doesn’t count.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/21 06:28 PM
3	Women shouldn't expect to be paid for on the first few dates Yes! Connection not transactions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/21 06:27 PM
1	Women shouldn't expect to be paid for on the first few dates You possess reason. agreed \<sup>\</sup>^	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/21 06:25 PM
1	Women shouldn't expect to be paid for on the first few dates Every person has individual preferences- my ex boyfr and I would take turns treating each other to dates. Ours was a relationship based on wanting to treat each other versus resenting it or feeling obligated. Dates can also be planned where minimal money is spent. If the argument is paying for pussy, okay, see a sex worker. Pay for sex. I think it should be legal and regulated. Or just tell a woman up front, I am only looking for sex and no attachments. Someone will surely feel the same.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/21 06:22 PM
0	It is true all women want different things in a guy but the preferences are quite one dimensional. I want a man with developed critical thinking skills, adept at debunking fallacious reasoning. Kind and compassionate. Smart sense of humor. Honest. Dedicated to commitments. Neurotic nerds are sexy AF to me. The traits you’re listing seem pretty petty and juvenile, which is understandable if your dating pool is limited to below 25. 25-26 is the age at which the prefrontal cortex closes. This part of the brain is responsible for reason. Back brain is more in charge until then, and it is responsi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/21 06:12 PM
2	. The thing is... if I were younger than 30 and heard a man advocating this stance, I wouldn’t sleep with him. I’d think many women are sexually attracted to kindness and conscientiousness. And if he slept with me against my will, I‘d think deep down, he would not feel confident about it. RP men have low self-esteem and could benefit from counseling. The leaders are likely psychopathic. Anyone overtly telling their followers the best ways to manipulate women has no qualms about covertly manipulati…	/r/ExRedPill	09/06/21 12:37 AM
2	Reminder: Red Pill Women is not a women-run group. It is being run by men and has been for quite some time. Ex-RPW are welcome here as well to detox. Please report any harassment to the mods. RPW tend to get quite a bit of it if they're found out to be women. Stay safe, ladies! I wonder if for some, upon seeing the ‘fem’ in feminist, the automatic conclusion is to assume it’s a movement in defense of matriarchy, when it’s properly practiced as equal opportunity. I never participated in RP lifestyle, but my ex seemed to dabble in pick up (not the rape advocacy kind) but the manipulative kind. He used to joke about having a name acronym- DAN D-desire A-acquire N-neglect. I thought I saw through to the sensitive side of him putting on this act to seem cool, and because he…	/r/ExRedPill	09/06/21 12:14 AM
1	Is alpha/beta really a thing? Deliberately trying to present as “alpha” and announcing alpha status aloud lacks genuine confidence and competency. I don’t believe human behavior is fixed, static, and immutable- the same person could exude both so-called alpha and so-called beta characteristics at the same time. And in different scenarios, both sets of characteristics might be more or less appropriate. I also think the popularity of this alpha beta existential crisis has something to do with fear of mortality. I think most of…	/r/ExRedPill	06/06/21 10:49 PM
2	Trust Your post resonates. Thank you.	/r/ExRedPill	02/06/21 05:40 PM