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You should look into studies about what women actually get aroused by. You’re a dude so you don’t have girl brain so it’s ofc going to sound like bullshit bc you project your perspective onto women. But girls are psychological not physical bro. The insecurity, on the other hand… Edit: I’m saying this to try to help, seriously. It’s actually good news bc you can do something about the insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 12:07 AM
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Hey is anybody else starting to think that exercising and wanting to be the best version of yourself is becoming a serious problem??
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 12:24 PM
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Yeah hey turns out you can be single and still hang out w girls if you want, who knew
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 06:54 PM
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As a guy you’re like a telemarketer promoting this exciting new gf position, you gotta generate hype and then flip the script.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 09:57 PM
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I just don’t see why this is so complicated guys- I think if you’re not having the kind of relationships that you want there are two options, either lower your standards or make yourself more attractive. Gender is kind of irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 04:32 AM
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This what no sex does to a mf
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 05:24 PM
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I would argue that once we learn to recognize that our needs are legitimate, we become much better at identifying ways to fulfill them. We have a lot more agency than we sometimes think! Uh but obviously, demanding a relationship or acting entitled and bemoaning the unfairness of the state of things is not a very effective strategy. IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 05:30 PM
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Why do you think everyone deserves a partner to create a family with? I think the problem w these posts is that it completely abdicates any responsibility away from the self, when there are things that everyone can do to make themselves more attractive towards the opposite sex. I could very easily envision a similar sentiment written from a woman’s perspective btw. Sure the specific challenges would be different, but the underlying externalizing locus of control would be exactly the same. I’m ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 05:26 PM
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It seems that pointing out people’s agency and ability to affect their outcome in dating is taken as somehow controversial and also an attack.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 11:48 PM
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So men should develop themselves to become attractive to women. This post sounds very entitled. Or go to a prostitute. Or learn to value yourself beyond how attractive you are to women. What alternative solution are you proposing exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 04:27 AM
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Yeah I agree with you there! I have no idea what you’re on about at this point lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 04:05 AM
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I mean it’s pretty obvious the concern here, right? If a girl’s sexual behavior with you is significantly different with you than with her exes, then maybe she’s not with you out of genuine attraction. Which I think happens a lot! Why is it so surprising that men are aiming to avoid that situation? Edit: to clarify, if she did these things with others but not you, maybe she actually does enjoy them, just not with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 03:55 AM
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Hm, interesting point! I guess the bridge in my mind is that a girl whose sexual behavior or proclivities with me being markedly different than her exes would raise some concerns and warrant some kind of explanation, right? Like why are we not doing the things that she ostensibly used to enjoy? I’m mostly speculating here bc I really haven’t had this happen to me before, and maybe these are issues that could be worked through, but they do seem like valid concerns if they were to arise. What are …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 03:36 AM
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Perhaps- but let’s consider my hypothetical partner here. If I am not able to satisfy her as well as some other guy from her past, then doesn’t that jeopardize our relationship to some extent? Maybe feeling insecure is not so irrational in such a scenario. I think at the end of the day I’m confident in my ability to be the best my romantic partner has ever had 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 03:22 AM
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I think that, conscious or not, people are going to compare their current partner to their previous relationships. This seems inevitable to me. I certainly would not want a partner who seems less sexually open with me than in previous relationships. But I think that is just a piece of the larger picture, where physical connection and chemistry is a high priority for me. Perhaps that makes me insecure but I think I just have high standards 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 02:57 AM
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Something something all sex is transactional
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 08:48 PM
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Pick up some easy stars
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 08:45 PM
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Isn’t it possible to meet someone who has done that work to process their trauma before having met you?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 03:53 AM
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I think the best way to get the partner that you want is to focus on developing yourself. I don’t know that it’s a “cope” to say that there are things about myself that I want to change and improve that might make me more attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 03:41 PM
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I suppose if you’re trying to attract a man whose relationship ideal is “she’s so impressed w me therefore I must have value” then yea ig it’s easier to impress a young naive 20yo. I believe a healthier dynamic where both parties are experienced, have developed themselves, and are able to challenge each other and grow together is probably more likely to last. If the only thing you’re bringing to the table is “I’m half decent but she doesn’t know anything better” then yeah it makes sense why you’…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 01:48 PM
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Yeah hey I mean. Everybody has fantasies that are socially unacceptable. I have to imagine being on the receiving end of it makes you pretty uncomfortable. I’m imagining it’s similar to being hit on by gay guys for me and I didn’t really like when that happened to me. But do we really think all sexual fantasies are bad and evil and should be repressed? Bc just repressing stuff really doesn’t work, and neither does denying that it exists. Ya know what I mean? I’m really not trying to come across …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 03:40 AM
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Is it fair to say that some women wear revealing clothing because they want to feel attractive / want attention from men? Edit also bonobos are like hypersexual right?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 12:54 AM
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Lotta thought crime happening in this thread. Rest assured the authorities have been alerted
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 12:34 AM
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I mean literally technically speaking, he is an animal right? So are you. Unless you’re one of those AIs that I keep hearing so much about 🤔🤔🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 12:30 AM
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This reads like satire lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 12:06 PM
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The only thing I would add is that developing oneself and becoming more authentic and confident seem to be pretty universally well received regardless of who you want to bang.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 05:21 PM
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Ok was a bit skeptical about this post but the replies are so wild, turns out it was a great question! 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 02:25 PM
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One thing I find really striking and the reason I’m still here (apart from the more general Reddit dopamine fix) is the amount of projection that you notice from various OPs and commenters. BUT I think what’s actually interesting about this sub specifically is the fact that there are all these opposing viewpoints, it gives a kind of unique opportunity to engage with people who have very different (and frequently super wild) perspectives. Obviously this tends to devolve into arguing in circles bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 01:37 PM
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Men need to develop themselves to become not easily replaceable.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 07:09 PM
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Pretty obvious troll but it’s like the equivalent of saying don’t get married bc your wife would leave you for Brad Pitt
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 09:07 PM
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Hasn’t that always been the case though? Like if you’re a guy and you want to get a gf you have to work on yourself to become attractive to women. And either you’re successful or you aren’t. Sure you can get mad about how unfair you perceive things to be, and plenty of people do, but it’s not a very productive strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 05:50 PM
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What a take!!!! Lmao Edit: I always thought Fiona fell in love w the BGC
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 05:58 PM
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Very interesting, I think you really nailed it!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 12:55 AM
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Hey look man, I agree w some others that like the prevailing cultural attitude seems to be pretty confused and sending a lot of mixed signals to guys. But truly it is not a crime to hit on women. Respectfully. But like even the fact that I’m saying respectfully shows how distorted the culture has become. Because obviously right? Hm. Pretty wild. Feel really bad for guys rn ya know bc the culture is really in a weird place wherein it’s like you’re a loser if you don’t and a predator if you do. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 04:03 AM
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Jeez man, that’s not a very healthy mindset
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 05:22 PM
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Not being ghosted is a human right 😂. Guess we’re gonna have to fly her out to The Hague
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 04:49 PM
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LOL what a great take. I do think the pity party stuff is pretty funny, and best of luck to all the men trying to weaponize guilt to get laid. Only thing I’ll say is that yeah, you’re prob right that you could get most any single man to enter a “relationship” but I think the coveted exclusivity is more challenging. But we can bang, for sure. ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 03:55 PM
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The data is pretty clear- growing up without a strong father figure as a role model can be pretty psychologically damaging. I’m not saying it’s insurmountable or anything but it does make life harder. I don’t think we should be minimizing that fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 09:45 PM
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Ok now we’re getting somewhere!! Why do you think the two are mutually exclusive?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 01:20 AM
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Maybe someday I’ll learn to read
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 11:06 PM
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I just didn’t really get what point you were trying to make
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 09:38 PM
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Ding ding ding ding OP if you’re reading I would recommend reflecting on why you’re repressing your sexuality. I know I’m being blunt but it’s the internet, and you chose to post this 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 07:34 PM
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Hey OP, I can barely follow what you’re trying to say here but maybe you can clarify. I don’t think there’s any question that thirst can cloud one’s judgement and make people do ethically dubious things, but what do you propose to be done about that? It almost seems like you’re suggesting repressing one’s sex drive and libido, which doesn’t seem the healthiest. Do you think the thirst can be channeled in a positive direction?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 07:28 PM
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Hahaha how do you think any of us got here?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 07:22 PM
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Beautifully put. Like I’m horny for your body sure, but also your mind!!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 07:21 PM
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I don’t think I agree that being selfish makes you an asshole, that’s interesting. At least not necessarily. I’m curious why you have that association
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 07:17 AM
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What solution?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 05:14 AM
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Hahaha ok man
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 05:08 AM
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If you have a shitload of money but you’re terrible to be around, most people will still not take that deal. The people who WOULD take the deal, well pretty easy to imagine why they’re doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 03:56 AM
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I think you can be nice without being a pushover
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 03:52 AM
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Really interesting idea. My only issue is being an asshole doesn’t make you powerful. But I think you’re on to something here
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 03:51 AM
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Therapy might be the only way I know of to turn it around. Lol at taking a class
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 03:47 AM
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Aren’t guys always showing off pics of their girl on insta to the boys? Lolol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 03:44 AM
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That is really funny man. Agreed!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 03:40 AM
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Hm I like this thought quite a bit, it does seem to be a lot of projection like a guy believing women are only interested in his wealth or status is actually a reflection of him only valuing himself in those ways. Interesting, good post OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 07:12 PM
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Seems like a pretty easy thing to screen for? One of my buddies would buy a cheap bottle of wine and take girls to the park. I like to do bar first date bc I just like having an excuse to go out and drink, and it’s very ez to bounce if the girls not a good fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 07:04 PM
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