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| 33 | The Chase doesn't appeal to me. Am I cooked? | Logistics | The-Cyberpunk | /r/seduction | 11/08/25 06:25 AM |
| 27 | Flirting resources for men | Logistics | The-Cyberpunk | /r/seduction | 18/05/26 08:46 PM |
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| 13 | It's not your job to preemptively save women from yourself because your desires are not an inherent threat or hazard that requires mitigation even if someone told you that they are.You're right | /r/seduction | 11/05/26 12:55 AM |
| 0 | How can I make a girl laugh?First you need to assess how smart she is and then pretend she is 10 years old in terms of social maturity and accountability. From this admittedly exaggerated point of view, you'll internalize not to overthink what makes a woman laugh because if you tell a high brow joke and she doesn't get it then you can adjust to something less mentally taxing for her like corny dad jokes. Ultimately, the best strategy is to treat her like you would one of your close friends or beloved YOUNGER siblings (Yes … | /r/seduction | 14/04/26 02:59 AM |
| 2 | Is the life of promiscuity worth it?Think of it like going on vacation. Once you've been everywhere you know where you don't want to go again But you never know if you've only been to a handful of countries | /r/seduction | 13/04/26 07:45 PM |
| 1 | Women don’t approach because they are more sensitive to rejectionI don't know what exactly your goals are but I'm having a great time with women. The biggest reason for that is because I do not give them all of my energy. If she's being annoying or confrontational then I put her on the back burner and talk to some other girls who are more receptive. All I do is keep them laughing and happy, That's all it takes. Any good unc will tell you "If you can make her laugh and giggle...." | /r/seduction | 03/03/26 01:33 AM |
| 1 | Women don’t approach because they are more sensitive to rejectionBrother, I am not implying that they do not have a choice. Perhaps I did not choose my words meticulously. Let me be clear "whoever puts in more effort to be a more desirable partner deserves more. whether that be man or woman. And more often it's men lol" | /r/seduction | 03/03/26 01:09 AM |
| -1 | Women don’t approach because they are more sensitive to rejectionIt's not debatable. It is true that if you crash out over a rejection you will certifiably be "scaring the hoes" but every woman regardless of how attractive they are believe they should have the dude with the best stats which is wrong. Anyway, what I mean is that if you are a man that is about your mission and purpose you will attract women by way of being a confident provider. There are other things you can do to improve your chances but the Disney belief that "the one" is waiting out there is… | /r/seduction | 03/03/26 12:52 AM |
| 2 | Women don’t approach because they are more sensitive to rejectionListen little bro, I really do sympathize with you and this grievance but You just got to lock in. Think about it this way, If you put in more effort than the women then you have more ability to choose than them because they haven't earned the right to be picky. I imagine you're pretty young but one day it'll all snap into place for you and that doesn't mean it will get easier but you will understand it all easier. If you want in-depth advice just DM me because reddit mods are hyper liberal And … | /r/seduction | 03/03/26 12:14 AM |
| 1 | What is meant by "Treat her like your little sister"?Was it perhaps a Japanese man that gave you this advice? | /r/seduction | 02/03/26 05:18 PM |
| 3 | The first time you fuck a girl you have to slowly escalate to it without asking. But every other time you can just ask her, why is that?Because women are hypersensitive to their own emotions and Even if they want to fuck you they don't want to feel like a whore and the only way they can avoid feeling like a whore is by doing this whole time inefficient charade. | /r/seduction | 27/02/26 01:03 AM |
| 2 | How Do You Know If “I Have a Boyfriend” Means She’s Not Interested or Just Testing You?The bold become legends the meek are forgotten. The choice is yours whether or not to persist | /r/seduction | 24/02/26 03:44 PM |
| 3 | My fiance called me unromantic for wanting a prenup - why is protecting myself controversial?Don't back down, get a prenup and a postnup and call EVERYTHING off if she refuses. Not only are you protecting yourself but you're setting the record straight: women control access to sex and men control access to the relationship. So flex that God given power and stand on business. The way I see it, a prenup and the rest are safeguards for men. They say to a woman you're free to leave but unless you have your own assets you're not getting any of mine. | /r/MensRights | 20/02/26 03:15 PM |
| 1 | Is irl game as hard as dating apps?When I approach I always do it during the day and at places I happen to visit casually. Places like Target, Walmart, grocery store, bookstores, true Day game places. I don't go to bars too often and when I do it's usually the comedy club where I attend open mics or the punk rock dive bar in my city because those are the only places I really like. Success rate is a noticeably better | /r/seduction | 14/02/26 04:53 PM |
| 2 | Is irl game as hard as dating apps?By statistics alone, I've gotten at least 6x more numbers from IRL than apps despite having lots of matches. I'm no expert on how the ladies think but I'm pretty sure they would prefer in person to apps. | /r/seduction | 14/02/26 03:59 AM |
| 2 | Call to action: A 3–6 month social immersion to finally change your lifeI would definitely like to hear more about this | /r/seduction | 30/10/25 12:31 PM |
| 2 | What’s everyone’s opinion on pubic hair?Personally: I prefer bald, a little fuzz on her is fine too but I do not care much for bushes. They don't gross me out but if I'm kissing her lower lips I prefer not to feel like there's a mustache against my face. Bush reminds me too much of my dad kissing me when I was a kid. At the end of the day it's all personal preference though BUT it is more hygienic to shave and I will die on that hill. | /r/seduction | 24/10/25 09:24 PM |
| 2 | 25f Struggling to PleaseIf the silly method doesn't work then try being forceful, playfully at first but then get serious. He's probably one of THOSE guys | /r/seduction | 11/10/25 02:57 AM |
| 2 | 25f Struggling to Please27m here. You ought to try hugging him gently for a long time and telling him he's warm. A chest/shoulder massage may also work (especially if you sit on his lap while you do it). My personal favorite way to be initiated is being laid on top of. Never fails to get me hard especially if she's wiggling against me. A hug right after you exit the shower (naked) or a suggestive line like "I'm so cold, how ever will I get warm again?" In a southern belle voice. Or if you want to be funny you could say… | /r/seduction | 11/10/25 02:15 AM |
| 1 | Why does this girl resist all physical affection?Remember the Golden rule of dating for men. If it's not a hell yeah, it's a no. As the old song goes they're just not that into you | /r/seduction | 23/09/25 02:26 PM |
| 1 | The Chase doesn't appeal to me. Am I cooked?It's very counterintuitive | /r/seduction | 12/08/25 04:51 AM |
| 1 | The Chase doesn't appeal to me. Am I cooked?Your response gives the impression that you have never been in a similar situation and you have the confidence of Tony Stark. How do I go about determining what to say to a chick on the approach in your expert opinion? | /r/seduction | 11/08/25 08:41 PM |
| 1 | The Chase doesn't appeal to me. Am I cooked?Hell no | /r/seduction | 11/08/25 08:38 PM |
| 1 | The Chase doesn't appeal to me. Am I cooked?Very well said my friend, I can tell you are well learned on the subject. When I used the word chase I was referring to approaching her and qualifying myself in some way or another. I know women are emotional and they live and die by their emotions (for better or worse) But leveraging those emotions against her to get in her pants is like really good advice. I'll make sure to read up because no one really talks about this avenue of approach and seduction. Thank you greatly for your input | /r/seduction | 11/08/25 08:37 PM |
| 1 | The Chase doesn't appeal to me. Am I cooked?I don't think I'm difficult to look at but I am broke. I think that makes me like a 5 | /r/seduction | 11/08/25 08:28 PM |
| 1 | The Chase doesn't appeal to me. Am I cooked?Look out you guys, we got a Chad Adonis over here | /r/seduction | 11/08/25 08:25 PM |
| 1 | The Chase doesn't appeal to me. Am I cooked?Has the lesson you learned from that situation helped you overcome any particular struggles in dating? | /r/seduction | 11/08/25 08:25 PM |
| 1 | The Chase doesn't appeal to me. Am I cooked?I want to be way better than just okay but I appreciate you saying so all the same | /r/seduction | 11/08/25 08:23 PM |
| 2 | The Chase doesn't appeal to me. Am I cooked?Very well said my friend and might I add your name is hilarious. I don't want to seem like a purest or a Disney adult But I really don't meld well with a lot of women in today's dating market. You seem like someone who really knows what's up, what are some places besides a bar I could meet chicks? | /r/seduction | 11/08/25 08:22 PM |
| 1 | The Chase doesn't appeal to me. Am I cooked?I really appreciate this perspective do you have any tips on closing You could give or any articles that you have found to be massive helpful? | /r/seduction | 11/08/25 08:20 PM |
| 2 | The Chase doesn't appeal to me. Am I cooked?Yeah I get what you're saying. I don't know how I feel about looking at relationships the same way I do jobs but I definitely understand where you're going with this idea and I will try to internalize it. I will admit having a consistent lady friend or committing to getting better at seduction definitely feels like a part-time job with low pay but they have pizza parties. | /r/seduction | 11/08/25 08:18 PM |
| 4 | The Chase doesn't appeal to me. Am I cooked?I feel like there should be an attraction to it because it does make sense. A biological magnetism that draws me, something primal. I just don't feel it though And it bothers me because I know I have a primal side maybe even animalistic under the right circumstances but if I see an attractive woman then my first thought is you got to walk up to her and say something funny and then things will go where they go. It probably doesn't help that there is a present fear of rejection And I tend to get d… | /r/seduction | 11/08/25 04:20 PM |
| 1 | The Chase doesn't appeal to me. Am I cooked?I appreciate the advice, thank you | /r/seduction | 11/08/25 08:37 AM |
| 4 | The Chase doesn't appeal to me. Am I cooked?I was with you until the part about "how to get her to chase". On the subject, Can you link some posts that you like personally? | /r/seduction | 11/08/25 08:33 AM |
| 0 | Would you rather?The milf probably knows how to cook. Milf | /r/seduction | 05/08/25 07:08 AM |
| 0 | Is Models by Mark Manson still recommended reading in today's dating scene?All of these books that you have named including models by Manson are highly recommended in my eyes because the advice in all of these books are timeless. Everything to come after them is just a different way of saying the same thing | /r/seduction | 09/07/25 11:19 AM |
| 2 | Girl lost interest after I asked for a kissThe formula: attempt, fail/succeed, reflect, try again (now with more experience) | /r/seduction | 14/06/25 07:01 AM |
| 2 | I’m a girl trying to understand what men actually go through. So what gets ignored the most?Anytime friend | /r/MensRights | 13/06/25 05:38 AM |
| 2 | I’m a girl trying to understand what men actually go through. So what gets ignored the most?Absolutely to everything you just said and asked. Most masculinity is performative but the kind you develop in an extremely volatile and hostile situation is especially performative and toxic then it bleeds over into the women by necessity or proximity which only exacerbates the issue of women being at higher risk of developing BPD and other like mental issues. What a vicious cycle we've created. I don't mean to turn this into CinemaSins but the whole concept of a toxic environment poisoning the… | /r/MensRights | 13/06/25 05:19 AM |
| 6 | I’m a girl trying to understand what men actually go through. So what gets ignored the most?Don't even get me started on how emotional vulnerability clashes directly with true toxic masculinity in certain racial communities (primarily black but not excluding others). Like you can't be into books and anime if you grew up in the hood because then you get ostracized by your own community. If you don't have the strength of character to go your own way you'll follow a crowd who's selling narcos, doing drugs, sliding with gang violence or otherwise burning out. Unrelated note, If you haven't… | /r/MensRights | 13/06/25 04:57 AM |
| 2 | Why do women blame men for their own shitty actionsWomen have a very recent genetic adaptation that makes them allergic to accountability It causes them brain hurty. I believe the diagnosis is just a girly syndrome | /r/MensRights | 13/06/25 04:09 AM |
| 7 | I’m a girl trying to understand what men actually go through. So what gets ignored the most?The fact that men have emotions and cannot express them outside of male exclusive safe space. Another one that comes to mind is how suicide affects men disproportionately more than women. I will admit it's kind of funny but still incredibly sad. Men and women attempt suicide in roughly equal numbers but men are more likely to succeed and the men who don't still have to deal with not having as robust of a support network as women typically tend to have. So they are more likely to try again | /r/MensRights | 13/06/25 04:00 AM |
| 2 | What is the best career for game ?Gap sell | /r/seduction | 31/05/25 08:54 PM |
| 0 | What is the best career for game ?The name of the book is Gap Sell | /r/seduction | 31/05/25 05:47 PM |
| 21 | What is the best career for game ?Reading Gap sell gave me just as much inside into dating as reading both the game & The mystery method | /r/seduction | 30/05/25 11:30 PM |
| 8 | Women hate it when men have ANY standards at allI agree with everything, here's the thing tho, women Don't understand investment or empathy anymore And it's only going to hurt them while men are going to continue to thrive. You know what I call women who have high standards and nothing to provide? "Fool's Gold" because they're pretty and they look valuable but in reality they're just an empty phone box. Don't let the societal bullshit get to you man, Don't internalize it just recognize it and move accordingly. If you work on yourself and work… | /r/MensRights | 30/05/25 10:31 PM |
| 3 | Adult Men of Reddit, What will you guide a teen boy about girls of our age?I've been waiting for this moment lil homie, I got 3 lessons for you. You might have heard this before but it's timeless. Women may control "intimacy" but you control who YOUR girl is. "Happy wife happy life" is propaganda, don't believe it. As a man you need to be able to stand on business because a man's duty is to protect, provide, & teach and a woman who is not fulfilling her responsibilities does not deserve any of those. A woman will ruin a man's life but a man can only take a woman's life… | /r/MensRights | 26/05/25 10:23 PM |
| 1 | Friendly reminder: NEVER take a girl out for dinner on a first dateCoffee and drinks sound so lovely Even for a couple that's already dating. A nice mellow evening that doesn't involve annoyingly loud music or unnecessarily expensive dishes. Just me and her having a deep conversation while the world chatters around us. If I can't have a deep conversation with a woman then we're not going to go very far. | /r/seduction | 24/05/25 07:38 PM |
| 5 | Never hear about "negging" anymore. What other ideas that used to be popular here have become outdated?It seems as though I've studied pick up more than I've actually done it but I think negging became less popular because it was bordering sociopathic and there were more robust techniques like push-pull to get very similar results. | /r/seduction | 23/05/25 10:02 PM |
| 1 | Pushing out of my comfort zone to meet women—any tips?Exposure therapy in order to build your endurance to rejection is the final step in confidence with women. Once you stop caring about the outcome either way then you've won the game and you can move on to more advanced stuff like playing with their emotions (Don't take that the wrong way, women love it when you do that. I know it's counterintuitive but so are women 🙄) | /r/seduction | 20/05/25 06:34 AM |
| 2 | Flirting examples that worked for youLol, you're right at home here on Reddit | /r/seduction | 13/05/25 03:19 AM |
| 0 | What do you guys think of this seduction advice?Mid-risk mid-reward | /r/seduction | 13/05/25 01:16 AM |
| 1 | Flirting examples that worked for youCould I have the link to this article? | /r/seduction | 13/05/25 01:11 AM |
| 17 | Flirting examples that worked for youAre you by chance a woman? | /r/seduction | 13/05/25 01:10 AM |
| 1 | A conversation trick that instantly makes you more attractiveFrom both parties? Easier said than done | /r/seduction | 11/05/25 08:58 PM |
| 2 | Are bars and clubs the best spot to meet women?Clubs for a night, Target for a wife? | /r/seduction | 11/05/25 07:49 PM |
| 2 | Are bars and clubs the best spot to meet women?When you say "the skill set of dating", what examples can you give? | /r/seduction | 11/05/25 07:56 AM |
| 25 | Are bars and clubs the best spot to meet women?kind of goes without saying that bars and nightclubs are the defacto one night stand locations. I don't know what sharp means by "the skill set of dating" though | /r/seduction | 11/05/25 07:55 AM |
| 1 | What was your "red pill" moment?I realize that the reason I was so fucked was because there is an excess of women in my family and they are all responsible for the lack of positive male role models stretching back to my great-great-grandmother. I come from a long line of failed girl bosses And the most amount of forgiveness I can muster is to realize that most women are either borderline retarded or just plain crazy. I'm not forgiving or excusing their actions But I wish I was self-aware enough to realize that women are not on… | /r/MensRights | 06/05/25 07:14 AM |
| 2 | 4 small grooming tips that helped my dating gameDo not sleep on Tiege Hanley! | /r/seduction | 06/05/25 01:26 AM |
| 3 | Why is the majority Reddit opinion overwhelmingly feminist?I think the idea behind why platforms tend to do that (prioritize women) is because angry men are an issue that needs to be eradicated and angry women are just girlies with a tummy ache. Seriously though I think the idea is that men have overt power whereas women have covert power and You just need to fight them accordingly. | /r/MensRights | 06/05/25 01:23 AM |
| 3 | Any young guys sometimes attracted to older women?Older or younger, It has nothing to do with your age, guys are attracted to things that are attractive. I promise you, you could be 142 years old but if you look like hitomi Tanaka or really most chicks on Instagram no one's going to care. Your chances of dating might not be so good but many people will still find you attractive as long as you don't look like a raisin | /r/seduction | 02/05/25 03:31 AM |
| 2 | What are my chances of me catching herpes from this girlGoogle AI says that there's about a 1 and 1,000 chance with a condom and no flare-up but you shouldn't take that chance man. Objectively speaking, If you don't have herpes you're worth more than her on the dating marketplace which means you have many more options. | /r/seduction | 29/04/25 09:35 PM |
| 0 | I find majority of girls boring, what can I do?I hate to say it but if you live in America or somewhere that is viewed as the West then the best thing you can do is to become a very worldly person and find some countries where you can appreciate the culture and search there. Basically become a passport bro. A lot of people, generally women, look down on this strategy but it's absolutely viable if you have the resources and the desire to learn at least one other language. I personally recommend Spanish. If searching outside of America isn't a… | /r/seduction | 24/04/25 11:05 AM |
| 4 | do men and women normally split the bill on a date or does the women normally make the man pay for it?As a man, the gentlemanly thing to do is to cover the bill but that doesn't mean you should pay for ANYTHING she wants especially in the beginning stages of dating. Women have a rather lofty notion of what they are worth And I have met several women who are shameless gold diggers (some of them weren't pretty enough to be gold diggers but I digress) So budgeting is vital when dealing with chicks because they will bleed your wallet dry If you give them half the chance. Always remember brother, Men… | /r/MensRights | 24/04/25 10:34 AM |
| 9 | Femcels : Men-hating women.The strategy to curb these women is just to not tell them how much you actually make or what you do. If they're feeling your vibe they'll stick around and if not you're better off without | /r/MensRights | 25/03/25 03:13 PM |
| 54 | Femcels : Men-hating women.I don't think they're fully removing themselves from the gene pool. I bet they're going to just wait at late as possible and then baby trap some random guy, probably an incel. | /r/MensRights | 25/03/25 01:50 PM |
| 3 | Med student posing with cadaver’s testicles on her hinge profileEqual rights equal pay equal punishment. Maximum sentence, simple | /r/MensRights | 06/03/25 09:32 PM |
| 6 | Someone tried to get pussy pass for her but failed.You might have girl power but you still have girl resistance to pain. Don't overreach ladies | /r/PussyPassDenied | 09/01/25 01:42 AM |
| 2 | Logical man's guide to flirtingSomehow this manages to be comprehensive AND lack the substance we all crave. This feels like it was written by someone in sales | /r/seduction | 22/05/24 06:31 PM |
| 9 | I love it when they play hard to get but you still winOh for sure pathetic but at the same time it's perseverance which is a skill in itself | /r/seduction | 13/05/24 02:33 AM |
| 1 | Tennessee cops fired after wild sex romps with female officerIf police station sponsored orgies that would be the best morale boost for our boys in blue hands down. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 18/01/23 12:45 AM |
| 1 | KarmaI really want to respect women but.... Then they pick fights with guys... And cry when they lose. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 28/07/21 10:20 PM |
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