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The other option is weed.The other option is weed. No. THC suppresses your REM sleep. There is a difference between getting proper sleep, and being sedated/getting poor sleep. Which is why alcohol is also a poor drug for getting good sleep. You don't fall into deep quality sleep, you're just sedated. Here are a few things that may help with sleep: Keep your bedroom at around 17-18 degrees celsius. Go to sleep and wake up at the same time every day No blue light activity at least 1 hour before be…
/r/askTRP08/06/21 04:03 PM
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I have so many issues with the black pill so excuse me if I rant a bit here. The view that looks are essential is not a perspective unique to the black pill and it is not the defining perspective of the black pill. It is important in the red pill community, which is why people stress that you first and foremost need to lift and get your appearance in order. What makes the black pill different from the red pill? The primary difference is that the black pill is inherently a defeatist mindset, peri…
/r/TheRedPill22/03/21 07:30 PM
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I told her prostitutes are cheaper and more enthusiastic (stupid). Hahaha, that's actually not bad. We had a long talk about sex, respect, and my boundaries today Enough talking. Talking is poor as a reactive reparation tool in a relationship, it generally only works when it is proactive. More action and dread. I need to get frame and apply dread, but I have to do it artfully. I also need to reestablish abundance mentality to stop me from sperging. You got it. Set a goal for the relationship dyn…
/r/askTRP14/02/21 07:53 PM
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As if it needed to be said any more: don't fucking get married. You gain nothing of value and lose your only ace in the hole when it comes to relationships - the ability to walk away unscathed.
/r/askTRP14/02/21 07:42 PM
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Homosexual intercourse with a partner's ex is considered a marker of high SMV. It will turn the tide in his favor in the relationship and make her submit to him.
/r/askTRP14/02/21 07:38 PM
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rub wrists together and rub your wrists onto your neck and behind ears No, this is a common misconception. Never rub a fragrance. The top notes are very fragile and dissipate if rubbed. You spray on one wrist and gently tap the liquid onto the other wrist. It should also be mentioned that it depends on the fragrance. Some are very strong and should only need 1-3 sprays to come through while you are perfectly fine spraying 5 or more with others. Look up your fragrance on fragrantica and get an id…
/r/askTRP27/09/20 12:20 PM
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You weren't wrong. I'd say this wouldnt be too bad if this was an isolated instance, but this combined with his previous post is a huge yikes. I'd advice to divest and start looking into spinning plates.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 12:03 PM
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On the one hand, I am in my mid-twenties, entering a highly paid profession, and she is the only girl I have been in a relationship with. You need to make memories and have experienced multiple different women before you can 'settle down' and make an informed decision on who you want to have in your life. Get out sooner rather than later. I will however say though, that it is a good thing that you have had the experience of being in an ltr that lasted longer than 3+ years, because then that give…
/r/askTRP04/04/20 06:28 PM
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I think it's pretty silly to make anything of this example, tbh. I'd agree, but only because detail is lacking. It's not that coherent and obvious, but I just wanted to emphasize the point being AWALT. Literally anybody could have this panicky train of thinking on their first time doing cocaine. It's a hard drug. You think differently. Fair, but the post reads as if she denies responsibility after the fact. Also coke has a pretty short high, so I just assume that's the case. While this is not th…
/r/TheRedPill03/04/20 12:28 PM
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This is why AWALT is so important to understand. Not all women do cocaine and act like it wasn't their own responsibility. But all women are like that. All women are inclined towards plausible deniability. All women are inclined to not take full responsibility for their actions/circumstances. The only differences are the actions themselves and the extent to which they externalize responsibility. So yes she may not be a high quality female, but that is not the point. The point is that women don't…
/r/TheRedPill03/04/20 11:05 AM
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OP.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 06:05 AM
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people get paranoid Ironic. when this corona shit is 10x is worse. Yes for elderly or vulnerable people. spreading the virus. Please understand this before you let the hysteria get to you: The spread is virtually unstoppable. It's not a question of can we stop it, it's a question of how much can we slow it down, so that healthcare institutions can bear the load. More than 50% of people who are contagious don't show symptoms, so there is literally no way to stop the spread without absolute isolat…
/r/askTRP27/03/20 08:25 PM
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Yes he is a cuck in the literal sense. Listen to his podcast, you hear him talking about how he has seen his girl fuck and blow different guys. edit: link for the unaware
/r/askTRP12/03/20 09:24 PM
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Platitude after platitude, you still haven't made a single compelling argument for why marriage is advantageous. Here's your argument: You say most marriages are not beneficial for men, but somehow 10% are. How? You didnt pose an argument doofus You're on asktrp. Do I even need to list arguments against marriage? Family is the main one Because you can't have families without marriage. I'll stop bothering.
/r/askTRP11/03/20 08:14 PM
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Youre using that word wrong "Used to describe the way that women use rationalization to resolve mental conflict and avoid cognitive dissonance" Have you considered reading the sidebar? Anyway, marriedtrp exists for a reason guy Imagine writing something so ironic. Yes MarriedRP exists for a reason, because marriage is the relationship to women that needs RP the most. People make mistakes, that's why the sub exists, guy. Go on then, explain to me the advantages of marriage then instead of dodging…
/r/askTRP11/03/20 07:51 PM
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About a day.
/r/askTRP11/03/20 03:40 PM
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He didn't miss the point. You did. There is no formal difference between a FWB and a plate. It's all about how you treat them. Do you spend time with her other than fucking? Then she's a FWB. What is there for you to lose by 'elevating' a plate to fwb? It just happens organically. If you like her for more than fucking, then you spend more time with her. There's nothing to lose, and thus, no red flags. The only way you lose is if you start catching feelings for her and develop oneitis.
/r/askTRP11/03/20 03:38 PM
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I mean look at the post, it's 5 words long. I wouldn't get my hopes up.
/r/askTRP11/03/20 03:24 PM
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Are we seriously here on TRP hamstering about marriage? The upside (if there even is one) is so negligible compared to the downsides of getting married. How many times is it worth it to throw 100 bucks in a wishing well? 0% of the time, because at best something good happens that would have happened anyway, or at worst you lost 100 bucks. Say it with me: Marriage is worth it 0% of the time.
/r/askTRP11/03/20 03:16 PM
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we should be doing things to improve ourselves because it’s the “manly” thing to do. You've misunderstood. You should implement tactics that help your sexual strategy come to fruition. Most useful tactics happen to be conventionally masculine and require effort. I’ve also read a line that goes something like “your value shouldn’t come from the amount of women you sleep with.” Acquiring a harem of women that want to fuck you is a lagging indicator of your success as a man. It's not the endgame it…
/r/askTRP11/03/20 03:07 PM
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Holy shit that voice is so smooth, totally unexpected for someone who wrestles. He made the right move.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/20 11:33 PM
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What a stupid take. How do you have more time when you don't have a 'real job'? What the fuck is a 'real job' even, except for some conservative meme notion of a way to make a living.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/20 05:18 PM
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Democracy is trash. Where my red pill ancaps at?
/r/TheRedPill08/03/20 05:01 PM
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You're not a woman, you haven't missed your best years. Your best years are ahead of you as a man. You have the potential to make things exponentially better with time, your looks included. Have no real friends This is one of the things you should figure out first. Doesn't matter how alpha you feel if you aren't part of a tribe. Find or make a tribe. Overweight and physically unattractive Fix this immediately with small incremental steps. I hate playing catch up when theres guys walking around m…
/r/askTRP08/03/20 02:23 PM
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What a stupid text. Don't address it.
/r/askTRP07/03/20 07:53 PM
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Yeah, so don't make it obvious. Just soft next him, it's so easy. You got this.
/r/askTRP02/03/20 09:10 PM
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Your analogy is trite, we're not gorillas. You don't have to threaten to kick this guy's ass Why are you telling me that? That's what our hulk friend is arguing and what I'm disagreeing with. Put him on the spot. Let him subtly know you're onto his shit Sure you can do that, but it's not necessary. If you want to tease him a bit for shits and giggs, then go ahead. The friendship is over anyway. This guy is an apparent friend and coworker who is completely disrespecting OP behind his back, it's a…
/r/askTRP02/03/20 07:25 PM
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she told me that he didn’t want to see me around, or that it was going to be an issue. HAHAHA, damn she's just letting him cuck you just like that. She told me she’s “conflicted” and that her hands are tied. Her hands are tied alright. She says nothing happened and that it was simply friendly conversation. What’s you guys opinion? What you need to do is show her she's your everything and that you intend on being there for the children. You should propose to her and raise the kids so he can't.
/r/askTRP02/03/20 07:12 PM
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What if she says yea cause he's just a friend and not attracted? How can I set this boundary? It doesn't matter. If your girl is doing anything 1 on 1 with a dude, then it's a date. Your friend knows this, your girlfriend also knows this. Why is it that he didn't ask you to go? Or asked you both at bare minimum.
/r/askTRP02/03/20 07:05 PM
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What the fuck is up with the mate guarding here. Let the girl show her value and do her job and reject the guy. Mate guarding is saying "my position is threatened". Would you mate guard if some 5'2 inbred incel asked your girl to go to a concert? No, you'd laugh your ass off because you know your girl is gonna auto-reject. Confronting him is literally the only play that makes you lose in this situation.
/r/askTRP02/03/20 07:00 PM
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Girls grow up thinking that their identity it tied to their bodies/sexuality, and that that’s what it means to be a woman. It is for virtually all women regrettably. And they are easily as complicit as 'the culture' that propogates this notion. Women often are often shells with barely anything of substance on the inside. My ex girlfriend was like this. She was pretty hot, but ultimately boring to the core. She has no passion for anything, she has no hobbies, no sense of humor, no quirky and inte…
/r/TheRedPill28/02/20 04:26 PM
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Being in my late 40's with younger kids has one benefit; namely, my career is well established and I could afford the things I wanted. Being redpilled and a father, you can appreciate the nature of kids and what they are and are not capable of. Appreciate the input. This is exactly what I'm trying to argue. When you are red pilled and have been putting in the work and decide to get kids eventually, by that point you most likely have good money, experience and wisdom, and you are in a position wh…
/r/askTRP26/02/20 01:44 PM
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Appreciate the comment man. If you have kids, at some point in your life it’s going to prevent you from doing other things. What was that in your case?
/r/askTRP26/02/20 11:58 AM
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Turns out a lot of people here are antinatalists that don't know what it's like to be around well behaved children. Would like to see more comments from people that are actually fathers and red pilled. I'd like to have kids one day. Children that are raised right are such a pleasure to be around. When I was less red pill aware a little while back I thought I'd get children at around 27, but I'll probably postpone that by 10 more years since you aren't in a hurry to get children as a man. Actuall…
/r/askTRP26/02/20 11:13 AM
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No need to add the last part, this is implicit when she is the one withdrawing the sex. If you respond at all, just respond along the lines of "Alright" or "No worries" And on a pedantic and overanalyzing note, "I understand" comes off a bit sombre. If you want to smash again, give her the impression that it isn't a big deal and she'll likely boomerang.
/r/askTRP25/02/20 11:31 AM
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Love this. It just reaffirms the fact that their value proposition to men consists of mainly sex, even to themselves. Yet they feign innocence and pretend it is men viewing them as sex objects despite them agreeing on a fundamental and internalized level.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/20 11:26 AM
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Is this an LDR and you’re being sketchy by not disclosing that here? Ding ding ding. OP wasted the other commenters time by not mentioning this.
/r/askTRP24/02/20 06:10 PM
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Start applying minoxidil on your face to grow more facial hair and you'll be golden I'd say. A beard really helps a lot with evening out the bald look.. Oh and being jacked also helps a lot too.
/r/askTRP22/02/20 06:23 PM
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It's pretty rare that it is optimal to burn bridges. You get a lot of manchildren here on asktrp saying "HARD NEXT, BLOCK ON EVERYTHING" whenever any minor frustration occurs. If someone is being excessively obnoxious to the point of spamming you negative messages or so on, then you block them. If it is something minor, just think like a girl, and treat them the same polite way you would treat a stranger.
/r/askTRP20/02/20 06:19 PM
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That's how life goes. One bad thing turns into three bad things which turn into nine bad things if they are left unchecked. Same goes the other way around. One good things turns into three good things etc. So you make small adjustments that lead you to do less of the things that are bad and more of the things that are good and you will gain exponentially.
/r/askTRP18/02/20 09:26 AM
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What's the point of asking this? There are two outcomes: People tell you it's a dealbreaker, you go on with your life and try to make money. People tell you it's not a dealbreaker, you go on with your life and try to make money. The answer should be obvious anyway, so just STFU and work with what you have.
/r/askTRP18/02/20 09:10 AM
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There's this one girl at work I wanna fuck.. and I'm coming off a bad experience with a girl from my previous department. How hard is it to understand? Don't shit where you eat. Act normal around her, dont fuck her and don't give the impression you wanna fuck her.
/r/askTRP17/02/20 07:22 PM
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She'd be left in more pieces if he alpha widows her instead of 'beta widowing' her. Honestly just fuck her as much as you like, keep your hand close to your chest and suddenly just hard next her when the time is right.
/r/askTRP09/02/20 01:22 PM
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"I got sexually assaulted, oh well, goodnight!" This is a huuge red flag. Usually I'd give just a slight benefit of the doubt given context, because sexual assault does happen, but what the actual fuck. 99% cheated.
/r/askTRP09/02/20 01:18 PM
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That's awesome dude. Would you be so kind and update us in 20 years and tell us how she's still treating you like a king, and how she's the only woman you want in your life? What the fuck is this horseshit. The fact that your original comment is upvoted is sad. You are playing a losing battle if you're settling down for a lifetime partner, period. Women first of all don't get better with time, so why is this an ideal to you in the first place? Second, if you want kids and a partner to raise them…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/20 02:32 PM
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Be careful with the assumptions, women are women and can still be random and flip you like a light-switch out of the blue. You're not wrong though, fucking them good makes all the difference between casually invested and deeply invested women.
/r/askTRP06/02/20 04:13 AM
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Like how his V-neck just goes deeper and deeper. Chad.
/r/askTRP02/02/20 03:20 PM
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I've literally not seen a single woman on OLD referring to herself as thicc or curvy without being fat. And it's so fucking sad, and was especially prevalent when I was living in the US. I love legitimately thicc and curvy women, not these lard golems that are fat from head to foot. Having curves implies that parts of your body deviate from the rest in shape.
/r/askTRP02/02/20 11:06 AM
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Basically just means find out whether she has interest or not. There are two options: Either she is open and interested or she is not. So you flirt with her and make moves to see if she has interest.
/r/askTRP02/02/20 10:02 AM
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She messages me first and we go back and forth for like 3 days (I was gonna ask her out, but I was busy atm, so I was waiting for the weekend) This is why you escalate and strike while the iron is hot instead of beating around the bush. I'm assuming it's been all friendly and shallow communication and no escalation or flirting, which you should have been doing at least. If you have any interest in her, pretend nothing happened and polarize ASAP to see if she's interested or not. If she isn't the…
/r/askTRP01/02/20 06:13 PM
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if thats the case why not just call the date off completely. She's a woman. She gets off on getting your emotional attention, especially knowing you'd want there to be more included. You need to do more reading.
/r/askTRP01/02/20 02:51 PM
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IRL is better for both, but the easy access to fast-food style dopamine is simply too hard to resist, and I can't say I don't understand it. These tinder girls aren't living their best lives. They might feel validated and they might get to be pumped and dumped by some super high smv dudes. In the long term none of this is fulfilling to them. Things that come easy don't fulfill you, and for women internet validation and semen comes flooding with the swipe of a finger.
/r/askTRP31/01/20 10:19 PM
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Most? No. But of course plenty do, especially the really hot tinder girls. Here are the primary reasons girls use tinder: They are curious as to what their theoretical options are Gives them an opportunity to connect with guys with way higher SMV without risking rejection like in real life Feeds their ego with validation from the absolute boatload of men matching with them and sending them openers and pickup lines Tinder pretty much sucks, but it's low effort and will work if your SMV is 7+ and …
/r/askTRP31/01/20 09:41 PM
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I agree that hate speech needs to be moderated. I'll give you the benefit of the doubt and assume that you mean moderated by private entities and not government.
/r/askTRP31/01/20 04:13 PM
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I'm thinking this must be a shit test. If she is really worried about me dumping her or that she is walking on egg shells, I feel like she probably wouldn't keep repeating this same behavior. Bingo. This is the behavior you're looking for. Keep her guessing. Don't make her become too complacent, although you want her to be just slightly comfortable. Good old 80/20.
/r/askTRP27/01/20 01:37 PM
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a 1 bedroom apartment we’re splitting rent for. Also, my car broke down last month so I’m using HER car. This is why you don't live together. You're falling into her frame, and now you feel the burn. Also the relationship is over. Because of what you did, this gives her a free pass to fuck other guys. Either you demote to plate or don't see her anymore.
/r/askTRP23/01/20 11:52 PM
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You made the right call I'd say. Well played. I know women are gonna women, but I just don't get shit like this. Why'd you let someone finger you at all if you didn't intend to have sex. Like, I get it if you're a virgin and you wanna make it 'special'. But can anyone explain why girls do this? It's so strange to me.
/r/askTRP23/01/20 11:11 PM
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I'd say as long as you see things moving forwards. I recently took a girl's virginity after hanging out with her for like 4-5 times. I got to know her at a party. Next time I met her we kissed. Next time I had her clothes off and fingered her. Third time she blew me and fourth or fifth time we had sex. If sex is a possibility logistically and you aren't really close to the point of having sex by the third date, then it's a next.
/r/askTRP23/01/20 09:18 PM
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Dicarlo escalation ladder is a good short read. TL;DR: if she's comfortable with you escalatingly touching her, then she's most likely interested in kissing. You start with innocent incidental touching to increasingly overt and intimate touching, ie handshake, hug, brushing, close body contact. Eye contact and her subtle body language is also a good giveaway.
/r/askTRP23/01/20 09:11 PM
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I’m doing this because this is something I WANT to do. I sacrificed my own frame and damned a relationship sooner to get where I’m at. In other words, I’m playing my guitar because it’s all I give a fuck about right now. Then why are you here asking what songs to play and which venues to go to to exploit your passion to get pussy. It will happen organically. You're talking about how you want to use it to get pussy. You sound like you're not even good yet! I can tell by how much you're typing her…
/r/askTRP21/01/20 09:45 PM
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Genghis Khan
/r/askTRP17/01/20 12:32 PM
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Justice will be served! They'll probably give her a small fine and call it a day.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/20 09:34 PM
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while watching social media companies like facebook, twitter, google, and amazon basically acquire more power and control on our personal lives How do these companies have control over you when you aren't forced to use their products? What is the alternative? That government controls/owns social media? Last time I checked, Facebook didn't send armed men to your door for breaking their terms of service. Network economics is a tough problem to solve, but what are you gonna do about it? Give power …
/r/TheRedPill14/01/20 08:41 PM
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Looking her in the eyes during sex is very beta and will turn her off. Real alphas keep their eyes closed at all times during sex.
/r/askTRP11/01/20 06:11 PM
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You're welcome. I honestly didn't break up with my ex because I wanted to fuck other women. I was always open to that, obviously, but my ex satisfied me just fine in bed (except that the frequency was too low). To me it was a lot about growing as a person, moving out of my comfort zone and stepping away from the life that I am used to. Beginning a new path as an individual. Seeing what the world had to offer, finding something greater than I already had. I wish I had broken up with my ex at 7 ye…
/r/askTRP11/01/20 05:50 PM
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This. Do not mate guard. You test her back, and see if she follows through with it. If you've already told her you don't appreciate this, and she acknowledges but doesn't care then it's an instant demotion.
/r/askTRP11/01/20 12:05 PM
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Was what worth it? Breaking up? Definitely. I'm so happy with my decision. Of course it's not always fun, and the comfort aspect of it can sometime be missed. But now I made a decision with myself that I am done with comfort. I want to be uncomfortable and growing into something much better and I know that I am on the right path. Honestly I'm just sad I didn't break up with her earlier. I had a HB9 that I was very infatuated by wanting to take her place a few years prior to the breakup and this …
/r/askTRP09/01/20 12:40 AM
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My ex whom I broke up with about a year ago after truly reading through RP and Rational Male. We had been together since we were young teenagers up til our mid twenties, so we both had only been with each other. She was always the low libido kind of girl, sex was great when we had it but it was about every 3 days by the end of our relationship. She had the attitude that she would never sleep with so and so from her university because he was rumored to be a 'player' and all that. That she could o…
/r/askTRP08/01/20 07:00 PM
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You're probably both off a bit from the truth. Girls are more slutty than you think these days, but not generally as slutty as 100 n count at mid twenties slutty. 20-40 hookups for a girl who has generally been single for most of her adulthood is pretty low, especially if her SMV is high If you're a slutty 26 year old you're probably looking at an absolute minimum 40-50 n count. Do the math, it's 5 hookups per fucking year. If you're a slutty girl, you easily go through that in a month if you wa…
/r/askTRP08/01/20 06:35 PM
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I personally wouldn't set boundaries with shit tests like these. Either you are funny and sarcastic, your suggested reply was great. A way to let her know you don't take it too seriously, but also indicating at the same time that it's wrong. Other option I would suggest is to loyalty test her. Something like "Well, if you feel like it then go for it". If she goes through with it, then good for you, she showed that she's low value and you can move on. If she doesn't go through with it you tell he…
/r/askTRP07/01/20 12:11 AM
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That's pretty disrespectful even for a shit test especially when it is out of the blue. I would just make her feel weird for saying that, because she is weird for saying that. So a response like the ones the others have suggested is good.
/r/askTRP10/08/19 10:45 AM
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I'll have to agree with this to an extent. First of all, OP hasn't gotten head in a month? Yikes. If she were in your frame (and head is something you appreciate) she would blow you more regularly. I think pishposh44 is right because you have to go all these hoops just to get what you want. You are operating in her frame, and you're barely getting what you want from it (I assume). Keep up the dread, try to get what you really want out of her. If you aren't seeing substantial results, then find a…
/r/askTRP10/08/19 09:18 AM
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I wear a fragrance every day. Here are some popular ones that a lot of women (and people in general) like, try checking them out: Dior Sauvage (Or cheaper Armaf Ventana) Creed Aventus (Or Armaf Club de Nuit) Bleu de Chanel Acqua di Gio Chanel Allure Homme Sport Eau Extrême Versace Eros I own most of these and wear about 3 sprays, sometimes more depending on the occasion and fragrance. There's never a bad time to smell good, so you might as well wear a fragrance every day.
/r/askTRP20/07/19 02:00 PM
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Pics got me curious about your stats. What's your height, weight and numbers on the big 3 in the last picture (which I assume is the most recent)? Keep up the good work man.
/r/askTRP17/07/19 05:37 PM
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Wow, that post you linked is a red pill through and through. Guy marries college sweetheart Guy lets himself go and portrays neediness (her own words even). This makes his wife lose attraction (compounded by the marriage) Cohabitation. She even mentions herself that "familiarity breeds contempt." Rare self awareness. Handsome co-worker comes into the picture and makes her pussy tingle, she fucks him eventually 'because she got drunk' (plausible deniability). Co-worker begins to "show unhealthy e…
/r/askTRP11/07/19 07:40 PM
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