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I never go direct, u have to make them comfortable first. Woman don’t know u, they just judge u from how u look. If u don’t look top tier, they’re going to base their interest off of that. So go in, make a statement about something u noticed regarding them. “U probably wouldn’t be into guys like me, u look like ur into, guys that r from ______.” Woman are built to respond to things there brains are built for communicating. So they’ll 99% of the time respond. After her response that’s when u can …
/r/seduction16/01/25 12:13 PM
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Nothing more to say to u. It seems like u commented on my comment & arent willing to be open. That’s ok. Wish u the best, take care
/r/seduction13/01/25 01:26 PM
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HANDS down… wat u say doesn’t matter. HOW u say it matters. Play & evoke emotional and mental energy. Woman are meant to be submissive, so it’s best make yourself seen or I guess appear, like u dominate the situations. Bcz that’s way men do, we don’t simply say. No u pick me up, and we’ll go on said date. Oh & BTW ur paying right? Men have the burden to be doing those things. It’s just the way it is in the U.S/western world (in my belief @ least)
/r/seduction12/01/25 03:39 AM
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lol u do u, not trying to influence ur decisions… “She can provide for herself” Sure she can, but will she live in poverty? Never being able to get ahead, meanwhile the rest of the world is buying material object that she begins to long for? This isn’t the 40’s & 50’s anymore. To raise a family in the world we live in. U can’t rely on that lol. Understand that… ur not a woman & im not either but statistically speaking. Woman already make less than the avg man does Google it
/r/seduction10/01/25 07:23 PM
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Vulnerability is best when you’ve already established report & hooked up etc… IMO @ least.
/r/seduction10/01/25 05:52 AM
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Woman don’t get a say in that. Ur missing the point bud. Example: I’m talking to a 36 Y/O right now. I’m 33, she flat out told me she wanted me to be her BF. I said nope, not going to do that. She basically had a panic bcz I wouldn’t be her BF. Woman want men who are financially secure, they’re not going to have kids w/ some bum they can pick up on the street, right? Think about it, how will that man provide for them? Or will she be doing EVERYTHING from A-Z to 123… See my point?
/r/seduction09/01/25 11:01 PM
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Ahhh bcz they’re trying to settle down & have kids. Unless ur talking about Post Menopause. That’s a diff story.
/r/seduction09/01/25 08:32 PM
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U never do… but that will become the basis of why u want the answer aka initiating said approaches
/r/seduction09/01/25 05:52 PM
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That’s the best part… men don’t have to navigate ‘an age gap’. (Obviously to a certain extent) But men aren’t looked down upon for dating down 5-7 years or even up the same. The older u get the better it gets. The more confidence u get, the more everything
/r/seduction09/01/25 04:43 PM
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ALWAYS
/r/seduction08/01/25 10:59 PM
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EXAMPLE: Bcz I myself found your post & I couldn’t hold myself back. Next thing I knew I was DMing u. And well now we’re here. But since u asked such a direct question, mind if I take u out so we can talk more about (____ topic @ hand). I also want 2 just make sure ur real, cuz u r attractive in my opinion.
/r/seduction08/01/25 03:35 PM
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Talking or txting? Those r 2 different things. I prefer talking, gives me more of a sense of who they are & they can get a sense of who I am. Take control ur the male, call her.. If she txts u. Txt her back & just say ‘Hey I like talking on the phone better, that ok?’
/r/seduction07/01/25 05:27 PM
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I love eye contact. It makes me feel like I’m in control. Don’t run from it, stare it right in the F’n face 🫡 There’s no other way around it 😳🤣
/r/seduction07/01/25 02:51 AM
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I was a shark @ the end of this passed summer. Now since winter has hit. I’m not about going to the bar or even outside as often. I’m sleeping in later, I’m just not as confident? U could say… It’ll come back, winter is a low season for everything. I have a FWB, and that’s ok for now. I just want to get back out & tackle 2025’s summer 🫡 I’m right there w/ u
/r/seduction06/01/25 11:44 PM
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The more attractive, the more fragile the ego… do wat u want will w/ that info
/r/seduction06/01/25 10:17 PM
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I wouldn’t necessarily say ‘gym’ is how ur viewing it. I think if it was ‘my world’ every single person, in a relationship or not. Should go to the gym. Here’s why: Self improvement comes from going to the gym. Self confidence comes from going to the gym Making yourself uncomfortable comes from going to the gym (aka growth) Discipline comes from going to the gym It’s not the ‘looks’ it’s more of the benefits u get from making yourself do something that’s seemingly easier to accomplish for the in…
/r/seduction06/01/25 03:02 PM
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Psych… 🤣 I love wasting people’s time. My guy i’m on an IPad… swipe down on A and u have @ U waste my time by commenting something that isn’t relevant to my post
/r/seduction05/01/25 03:20 AM
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Even if ur on a computer… right
/r/seduction05/01/25 01:51 AM
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My ninja warrior… yeah I said that bcz ur not who u truly are. Ur giving a false narrative & faking it. Men are hungry and want to impregnate. So go for the move dude, she’ll probably be a freak once she’s comfortable. The quiet shy ones tend to be crazy. They just hold back for sake of being judged etc… enjoy, tell urself you’ll never get a moment to be more perfect then when u see her. PERIOD
/r/seduction04/01/25 10:37 PM
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Be who u truly are… don’t get nervous. If u r she will be nervous. Be a ‘nice asshole’… aka when u r with her, treat her with dignity & give her A1 treatment When u r not w/ her, she never was in ur life (live like that). Woman need constant attention and when u w/ draw ur attention from her when u r not w/ her. She will begin to long for u. It’s a cat/mouse game, be VERY confident when ur together. Show her ‘YOU KNOW THE WAY’ (even if u don’t, fill the void).
/r/seduction04/01/25 10:26 PM
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I HAVE 2… One of my buddies telling me a woman was eyeing me @ a bar. I approached w/ the line “do u just stare @ all men & wait for them to approach?” Her friend interjected & said “she’s actually on a bachelorette party and she has a fiancé. Tail tucked between my legs walked off 🤣 NEXT ONE: I was @ a singles event, there was a pretty solid 9 leaving & I was w/ my at the time friend. We were also leaving, I saw her across the street from me. Feeling obliged as I didn’t want to miss the opportu…
/r/seduction04/01/25 07:15 PM
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U know, religious woman need their fix 2 🤣… i mean, don’t judge a book by its cover as the saying goes. As a male myself, u realize that woman are the hornier sex out of the 2. Men just don’t have a social construct to maintain. Woman do, they don’t want to be called names from other woman, they want to be seen as standup humans. 😝🫢 I said wat I said lmao (also time of the month is a BIG factor for them)
/r/seduction03/01/25 07:06 PM
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Let me tell u something, the minute u stop focusing on other people. Is the minute u will understand that there is SOOO much more to life than wat others are up to. U only see the ‘good’… bcz let me tell u, everything good has been thro & will go thro rough times. Every lake experiences the highest it’ll ever be & the lowest it’ll ever be. There is no high without a low. So, hear me out… it’s 1 foot in front of the other. DO NOT LOOK UP… bcz looking up is taking ur focus on yourself & comparing …
/r/seduction03/01/25 12:31 AM
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U better bet u can… how old r u?
/r/seduction01/01/25 03:25 AM
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I’m not one to lie. But when I tell them, usually we’ve already slept w/ each other. If they want to say good bye, let them… have that conversation. One of them, that’s probably coming to hang tonight. Said ‘we shouldn’t talk anymore, bcz i don’t want a relationship & when we hang out we just want to get in bed’ Next day I had my phone off bcz I was studying. Turned it on, 3 txt messages later last 1 said ‘call me when u get a chance’ She basically said she needed to bang, no emotions involved. …
/r/seduction31/12/24 04:57 PM
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Woman are hornier… men don’t give AF to hide it. Trust me on this 1. We think we’re horny? Lmfao… get a girl on a date, make her comfortable. Let her open up, idk wat ur looking for. But if it’s a GF, she will open up to u eventually. Once a certain threshold is crossed w/ u & her. N she’s comfortable w/ u. Ask her why she likes you to dominate her in bed? Why’s she wanted to be in vulnerable situations etc… She’ll tell u, I read an article woman tend to be WAYYY more horny then men. We just don…
/r/seduction30/12/24 03:30 PM
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I think u should do a couple things. Make sure ur confident like tip top confident. *remember she, is nervous meeting u. She’s human, just as u r. It can go 1 of 2 ways. Ask to see her hands bcz u want to compare them to yours Ask if she’s up to go for a walk w/ said coffee’s and guide her from the back w/ ur hands above her 🍑. Then move to holding her hand as u get next to her. From there, the ‘touch barrier’ has been lifted & u can see how reciprocal she is to allowing ur touch. If she denies …
/r/seduction30/12/24 04:53 AM
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I ask for week, it’s less pressure IMO and gives them the opportunity to tell u multiple days/times. Pick 1 and execute… decision making is a big turn on for women. If she’s into u, she’ll make it easy
/r/seduction30/12/24 03:55 AM
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Seduction isn’t about being put into 1 basket. lol I’ve seen posts on here, comments etc. w/ utmost respect to woman and the likes.
/r/seduction28/12/24 10:26 PM
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Wats not easy & is perceived as SUPER hard. BUT, by far the most liberating feeling once u step out of the box!
/r/seduction27/12/24 12:36 PM
2

Make a remark that would make her respond to it. For example, u make eye contact. Just state the obvious, could be as simple as: Ur quite attractive, I’m _____ wats your name? Or comment on something she’s wearing. ‘Nice _______ (glasses, dress, shirt, etc…) they definitely fit ur look, by the way I’m ____ wats ur name?’
/r/seduction26/12/24 11:48 PM
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U know I should plan a bowling date! It’s been a LONG time since I’ve been bowling, period 🎳!
/r/seduction26/12/24 11:17 PM
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That only will kill the attraction if YOU think it will kill the attraction. Mind over matter, flip it. WOW u have bigger hands than ME. I wonder if woman hand size is a reflection of that ______ (pick part of her body u admire)
/r/seduction26/12/24 03:20 PM
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Dimples in ur own lower back are a good placement, but her back
/r/seduction26/12/24 02:40 PM
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Ask to see her hands, measure them against yours. Hold her hand. When she’s walking guide her w/ ur fingers pressed in her lower back just above her 🍑. Once u have her hand, take ur hand away & play w/ her hair. Ask her what’s the longest she’s ever had her hair before? Message her neck… I mean if that hasn’t sealed the deal & u dnt kno the next step. Lord help u lmao
/r/seduction26/12/24 07:02 AM
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I make my situationships pay there 1/2 unless we got to dinner or something I got that
/r/seduction26/12/24 05:32 AM
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Confidence, gym, feeling good, KNOWING u look good. Testosterone as a matter of fact that alone is the counter. We get dirty, we do dirty, we r dirty and we don’t give AF rofl
/r/seduction26/12/24 03:44 AM
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lol… I hear u, once it’s a match, I typically will say some funny punch line curated towards their profile someway. Then just get RIGHT to the point: “Hey Savanna u know this is fun & all, but I don’t want 2 be a snake in ur grasses, let me take u out & see wat u r about, send me ur #?!” Then conversations on said apps aren’t being dragged out. If they don’t respond, I chalk it up to. I say to myself “hey, that’s there loss! I was going to treat them with dignity & respect. They don’t want to ge…
/r/seduction24/12/24 06:36 PM
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I think u have fair arguments, but at the same time. The world is changing, we need to practice gratitude. The world wins when positivity is presented to not only yourself but to the person behind u & in front of u. It’s not right vs left, boomers vs Gen z so on & so forth. You choose what u want to pay attention to. What I choose to focus on is what I CAN control. being, MYSELF. Focusing on your own goals & understanding that all the problems aren’t actually ‘problems’ it’s simply noise. Noise …
/r/seduction24/12/24 05:27 PM
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Other commenters are not wrong just to b clear, do the whole thing. Mix it, cold approach, O.L.D… do them all, bcz ur chances will go up by doing them all. As far as paying for an O.L.D prescription… I paid for a lifetime membership for bumble. Worth it? IMO, yeah for sure. Life time for $275, i’de do it again. Unlimited swipes, 5-super likes each week, 30 min of ‘spotlight’ (so I appear 1st once they bring up the app) I can see who’s like me, rematch w/ former expired matches if I want, etc… to…
/r/seduction24/12/24 07:38 AM
0

Options limited, they’re trying to find a husband. Most want to settle down, that’s up 2 you ultimately lol
/r/seduction24/12/24 01:51 AM
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100% Agreed, I think pebble commented w/ out asking, or inquiring further information on the matter. To each their own, nonetheless…
/r/seduction23/12/24 02:32 AM
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It’s sad, bcz the introduction of O.L.D has given the world FAR MORE than we kno wat to do with. I mean that’s why I shop @ Trader Joe’s. 2-3 options pick 1. Unlimited amounts of options @ out finger tips. It’s quite ridiculous in all honesty. Ridiculously Sad actually
/r/seduction23/12/24 12:45 AM
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Hey pebblebeach, I’m happy for ya, tell everyone how well ur doing? How much $ u have in the bank? Wats ur retirement look like? How much poon have u slammed? Just lay it all the table for everyone on Reddit, right?
/r/seduction23/12/24 12:16 AM
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It’s fake, unless u want to run your life on a hampster wheel to keep the persona that ‘u make alot of $’ So I have to buy the nice car, the nicest outfits, the dope watch, the nicest apt or house. That’s called living above your means. Not how u want to live IMO. I try my best to live within my means
/r/seduction22/12/24 08:27 PM
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I see your point, I do… I think once u get in the mindset & understand that we all die. So there is absolutely nothing to lose. We die as we came into the world, naked. Every opportunity u miss is an opportunity that u could’ve made into reality is key. Understanding that on a personal level everyday, is another story. I understand that, & I’m not discounting wat I said. Bcz it’s taken me ALOT of rejections, starting overs, near death experiences & the likes to get to this point. But like I said…
/r/seduction17/12/24 12:31 PM
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Age… I said in my post.. u can date up, down, & around. lol the older men get the more value we have. Hence we aren’t ‘born beautiful’ like woman are. We have to FIGHT for our own confidence & create a story for ourselves. Proving to ourselves that we ARE that person that we’ve always said we r… bcz X,Y & Z… Woman are attracted to that
/r/seduction16/12/24 10:55 PM
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That’s why I perceive myself as the former. Even if u aren’t ‘attractive’ if YOU believe u r. (Which when I look in the mirror I see a big honker of a 👃🏼, & other imperfect traits which I could careless to describe here) But if u perceive yourself as ‘attractive’ & execute on certain qualities about yourself. You will go further than most. It’s just belief in yourself that’s it
/r/seduction16/12/24 08:56 PM
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Better than ur 20’s if ur a male. But that depends on how u view it. Personally I date up, down, & all around 🤣. To each their own tho. I found ultimate confidence in my 30’s. Everyone can find it, u just have to put yourself out there, go to the gym, go to clubs, find your passion and run with it.
/r/seduction16/12/24 08:44 PM
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Tell her, I had a conversation with/ this exact same scenario. She kno’s im not in the position to be exclusive w/ any1. But be HONEST, I tell EACH woman, once we begin. I WILL not be putting a label on wat happens. I don’t believe in the whole BF/GF thing. So I just want to be clear about that. If you catch feelings etc. I don’t want u to feel like I’m forcing anything or anyone to do things. Maybe in a few years. I’ll be in a different space. I got back from a Thanksgiving trip to see my famil…
/r/seduction16/12/24 02:44 PM
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Yo I stopped reading, @ “Annie was a witness to the rejection” In all honesty, just hear me out. Once u stop putting the attention on the validation u get from woman. They’ll be on u like ur a magnetic, but learning to keep your cool. Bcz @ the end of the day, having woman good looking woman around u should be normalized if ur single. Having a negative self image and negative self talk is only reinforcing the fact that you need to change something. It’s easy for humanity in general to get lost d…
/r/seduction16/12/24 09:51 AM
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Focus on yourself, make people laugh. Laughing is the best way to come off as a showing self confidence & comfort. When u show comfort w/ in yourself by self deprecation or making woman laugh by showing sincere affection, (u have to know they’re into u first tho) so this would be say if ur on a date that started w/ O.L.D for example. Flirt, banter, push pull… easy peasy lemon squeezie. It’s ONLY as hard as you tell yourself it will be
/r/seduction16/12/24 01:40 AM
1

Just knock on her door & ask to do the sexy time, tell her u want the sexy time
/r/seduction15/12/24 11:58 PM
0

Names & #’s my guy… names & #’s… Repeat that… to yourself out loud. Names & #’s. That’s what u need & all u need
/r/seduction11/12/24 02:37 AM
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Talk to randoms, If u see someone doing something that intrigues u. Ask them wat they’re doing, how they go into wat they’re doing etc etc…
/r/seduction10/12/24 01:05 PM
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You have a better understanding of humans and how they interact & work. People are ’emotional’ and when emotions are involved u learn to appreciate logic more than emotions. Now are there negatives to ‘seduction’? Yeah of course, but I would rather understand the negatives and be a beast than the alternative 🤷🏼‍♂️
/r/seduction10/12/24 01:02 PM
1

Nope, not 1 bitty
/r/seduction08/12/24 09:13 PM
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It’s ALWAYS best to ask for HERS… BUT, I have thought about giving mine before. It just doesn’t work the same, woman who ‘are into you’ & want to get 2 kno u WILL give u there #. It was a solid go to see if she was into u, & @ the end of the day u could probably tell bcz she blushed etc… Good sign, just don’t be afraid to ask for her phone #. I’ve made this mistake myself just to b clear. I’ve learned to slow down, ask questions for example. You could’ve changed ur follow up w/ her & said “Hey, …
/r/seduction06/12/24 02:41 PM
1

Yeah, I agree w/ most people’s opinions. Move on, once she realizes that the guy she’s infatuated with doesn’t see her the same way. She’ll come back to u, & that’s when u make the decision. Bcz right now you’ve lost ‘your power’ (only term I can think of) by being vulnerable. When she comes back, 2 u. You will be in a position of power & u can make that decision. We’re all humans… we always think the grass is greener on the other side.
/r/seduction04/12/24 03:27 PM
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I wouldn’t change a single thing, I TRULY believe everything that has happened to me in my past was meant to happen when it happened. U can’t think about the past, only the present & future. Now if I put that aside & was to choose ONE thing? I’d probably go with my stubbornness to make changes in my life & implementing those changes sooner rather then later
/r/seduction02/12/24 03:31 PM
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Yeah it’s scary, but I BET u… HE WILL be open to it. There was a study & woman have over a 90% success rate in dating men that THEY choose. Weird right? I’m not a woman so I can’t speak for u guys. But that’s super successful, statistically speaking!! Go for it, wats the worst that’ll happen? He’ll say “no I don’t see it that way”… ok then u say “alright well we can stay friends that’s NBD” That’s all, it’s a very simple conversation to have. Practice by yourself, it takes the tension off of wha…
/r/seduction30/11/24 02:32 PM
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Seriously, u have to jump in w/ both feet. It is scary for both sexes (Man & Woman) Yet, the only way to find out is to just ask him out… coffee or wat not. Start out as friends, get to know him. Maybe he has a GF? Maybe he doesn’t?
/r/seduction25/11/24 07:23 PM
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Friend zone them… was in this predicament myself. However, I need to draw myself back to this space. I might’ve ‘lead’ a woman on… 2 much & I think she thinks we’re an item now. Not a good idea for her. She’s a good person I need to tell her what my thoughts are. :/ not going to be easy!
/r/seduction25/11/24 05:08 PM
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Stop, look down… think about your friends shoe size & how bad it’s going to hurt when it’s up ur 🍑 hole. Then continue the journey to approach that woman u were just telling him u were going to talk 2. NO REALLY lmao… the key is DO NOT THINK. Just do, psych yourself into being in a situation where you’re trying to find something, someone, a chair, table watever. Approach & talk like they’re the ones who know where everything is.
/r/seduction19/11/24 02:23 PM
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Then simply say wat others have said. A simple “hey I want someone to go to an event w/ me & I feel like it’s been a while since I’ve seen ur smile, & to b honest I kind of miss it (That’s a very forward DM BTW) If u want to be more subtle ask ChatGPT to help u in regards to framing a message 🤷🏼‍♂️🫡 U got this
/r/seduction19/11/24 03:30 AM
1

South Afrikkan 🥴🫡
/r/seduction19/11/24 03:28 AM
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This seems like the best way to go about it. No need to DM. Hiding behind the phone could b taken as ‘avoidance’ If ur comfortable (which u probably aren’t) force yourself to interact w/ her. u/cookies993
/r/seduction18/11/24 10:10 PM
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Yeah… I’ve got 1, about to add my 2nd on Friday. I mean, idk rofl. I think u can open yourself up emotionally to them & potentially hurt yourself doing it. Or do this & be closed off w/ no emotional connection on ur end @ least. I do want to be w/ just 1 in the end however. I opened up 2 many times in my passed & it F’d me up. So no more, for me, for now @ least. We’ll see… if Mrs. right comes along I might have to throw in the towel 🫡🤷🏼‍♂️
/r/seduction18/11/24 01:29 PM
2

Just moved from East bay.. I’m in Texas now :/
/r/seduction16/11/24 03:04 PM
1

She feels wat u feel, she’s nervous like u r. Run with it, talk to her. Ask her questions, ur 17… shes literally waiting for u to say something to her. Ask her wat she’s been up to so far this week. Ask follow up questions based on her answers. She will get further attracted to u bcz ur interested in her.
/r/seduction15/11/24 04:48 AM
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Example: On a date w/ a woman, we were @ a sushi restaurant. She Str8 up asked me “So wat are u looking out of this” I straight up said to her, no hesitation no stuttering in my words “In all honesty, I’m not even sure. But wat I do know is that I don’t want 2 put labels on anything. We can hang out just no labels” She was cool with it
/r/seduction14/11/24 04:05 AM
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Yup… ur right, that’s why u tell them. Curate a way to tell them w/ out making it explicit. Make them laugh, crack a joke… For example, “wait until u meet my dog” When they don’t know the dog I’m referring to is the 1 in my pants 🤷🏼‍♂️🫣
/r/seduction14/11/24 04:02 AM
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If I scare them off, that tells me everything I need to know. They’re not for me, I’m not trying to attract the ones that get scared off. Woman are attracted to men who KNOW wat they want and ARENT afraid to be themselves around them. Period. I don’t need a woman that gets scared off by my boldness. That tells me all I needed to kno about them
/r/seduction14/11/24 04:01 AM
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Start working out, be assertive, & most importantly BE YOURSELF.
/r/seduction13/11/24 01:19 PM
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I’m VERY upfront… like mind bogglingly bold & upfront. I suggest u do the same, it will weed out any type of people who aren’t on the same game plan u r on.
/r/seduction13/11/24 04:09 AM
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Simple… TIP #1: DO not overthink it. The more u think about it the less likely u will feel compelled to start talking to them. This is wat u do, lets say u go to the sauna & they come in after u. You look at them in the eyes, u say “hey, I think I’ve seen u guys in here before, I just moved in x (months/weeks/days watever) ago. I’m trying to meet new people. How long have u guys lived here? That’s ur start, as u get to know them over time, u can build on that. DM me if u need further tips
/r/seduction13/11/24 03:52 AM
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That’s bcz ur not being the assertive man when they’re around. Take action, be a provider of entertainment. Even to her FRIENDS. When u gain her friends respect & attention by making them laugh. SHE will value YOU more bcz her friends will be saying “he’s so funny, he’s this he’s that” when ur not around. As opposed to talking behind ur back. It’s ok, tho the way I think of people that do that. They’re talking behind ur back for a reason. That reason is because THEYRE behind u for a reason. Don’…
/r/seduction13/11/24 12:09 AM
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Hear me out… YOU need to be that, u need to be assertive, confident, & all those things u listed. PERIOD. I learned this way later than I wish I did. But it’s the truth, thro & thro
/r/seduction12/11/24 11:38 PM
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U need to establish a sense of humor or be assertive & establish dominance thro ur assertiveness. I find it easiest to just ask ur ‘date’ out of the blue. ‘Hey let me see ur hands’ upon her showing u her hands. If she’s wearing nail polish, compliment it. But take her hands & just tell her. Be honest, if u like her hands the size, the shape, watever. SAY THAT. Hold them, tell her again u (how soft, small, watever adjective comes to mind) If u don’t feel comfortable with the hand gesture. Let ur …
/r/seduction12/11/24 10:51 PM
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I agree & I do… & u should!! Bcz I did, everyone’s drinking.. everyone’s horny, hormones are in the sky lmao. Drink ur ass off, dance ur ass off, fuck ur ass off lmao. We only live once, so live that shit to the fullest!! I just started HATING behind absolutely useless the following day(s). But everyone needs 2 experience wat u said. To understand… I see u & keep @ it
/r/seduction11/11/24 01:37 PM
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Learn to b like that when ur sober & u will walk around, woman will kissing the ground u walk on. It’s a different type of confidence. I used to drink, to go out. Now I’m sober, conversations flow better, ur more on point, more aware. Etc etc.. Once u break thro a barrier, sober. It’s hard to go back to drinking & going out. It’s f’n weird
/r/seduction11/11/24 04:34 AM
2

Get it done, or I hope it went smoothly. The only way to go is to go out sober. Drinking is a band-aid on a wound. It’s a false confidence. IMO @ least lol
/r/seduction11/11/24 01:45 AM
3

Yes but it was quite a while ago, I thought a girl was into me. Read her wrong, it was uh not good TBH
/r/seduction08/11/24 10:11 PM
33

Yeah I passed on a DIME when I was in college bcz I fucking had NO experience. And it kills me EVERY time I think about her. She was younger than I, her name was Heather & she had the PERFECT body. Perfect ass, perfect chest. Face & everything to match. Regret not spanking it 🫣. Don’t be in my position, take FULL FING advantage. Bcz u won’t get another 1!
/r/seduction08/11/24 01:39 AM
1

Here’s an alternative: U can look her in the eyes, & say… I just want to touch them. They’re beautiful & perfectly made for u” Cheesy? Yeah… does it work? Yeah PS. Don’t touch them lmfao. It’s just meant to convey to her that she is infact perfect thro ur eyes etc
/r/seduction05/11/24 07:22 PM
1

Paid for lifetime bumble, never have to pay a single cent again. Definitely worth it IMO
/r/seduction05/11/24 03:36 PM
1

Everyone gets down on themselves it’s natural & allowing yourself to do so is wat will make u & help u understand growth. I do get down on myself, but the key difference is that, I don’t allow myself to STAY down. I give myself a window of time. It’s weird I don’t tell myself “this is when I can self pity” rofl. It just happens, I feel terribly insecure, my self-esteem takes a hit. Maybe for 1/2 a day, sometimes longer. But I begin to remind myself of ALL the wins I’ve been thro, all the things …
/r/seduction05/11/24 03:36 PM
1

Ew? He asked a question. I answered. Keep ur “Ew” if ur not saying something constructive… that’s helping wat OP asked So ew…
/r/seduction05/11/24 12:23 AM
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Communicate it? Lmao… ask, “Hey I want to meet u in real life, make sure ur not fake, u kno like the Tinder swindler or something, cuz u never know wats ur _____ #/IG/watever” Can always ask ChatGPT as well
/r/seduction04/11/24 10:08 PM
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There’s a point, u come to crossroads. Either she’ll bring it up (normally) or u can. 2 weeks ago I was on a date. She asked me: “So wat r u looking for in this whole thing?” I said: “well I’m not looking to put labels on anything, but I’m open to exploring more of YOU” She said that works for her. Simple, easy… no hesitancy on my end. She was cool with it
/r/seduction04/11/24 01:12 PM
1

So many opinions up in here… guys head is probably spinning on a pole 🤣
/r/seduction04/11/24 03:21 AM
1

Woman love being submissive. I’m not OP however, if she’s showing signs of interest when ur touching. Just grab her, push her against a wall & go for the kill. I like sitting NEXT to my dates so for example, last weekend I met a girl. We went & had sushi. I requested a table for 4. Simply bcz it’s WAYY more intimate when u r sitting NEXT to her as opposed to across from her. It gives u that sense of ‘intimacy’ & she’ll appreciate that. If u believe u can do something, as in like manifest it. U c…
/r/seduction02/11/24 09:43 PM
3

I tend to agree on this
/r/seduction02/11/24 12:38 PM
1

All I read was the first 4 lines… can’t do that to myself bout to highlight it & tell Chat GPT to summarize it for my ass 🤦🏼‍♂️
/r/seduction01/11/24 11:47 PM
1

🤣🤣
/r/seduction01/11/24 11:45 PM
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