The1_And_Only_ Archive

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2	Why do women blame men for their own shitty actions Woman here: https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTjtHhcoH/ That tiktok is my first time hearing about this album and the cover. I don't listen to her so I can't comment on her music. But this lady shows where myself and those around me view it. She's a young straight woman doing young straight woman things. Most of the complaints I've seen are about her influence on young girls, the example she's setting etc. The same argument was made about Brittney Spears, Rihanna, Beyonce, Shakira, Madonna, Cher etc. Th…	/r/MensRights	16/06/25 12:42 AM
1	Why can't Women understand Male Struggles? The only reason pay hasn't risen with the cost of living is corporate greed. It's funny because the more time I spend here the more I find similarities between the sides. Our common enemy is the 1% and the powers that be. They keep the rest of us busy with infighting so we're too busy to see what's going one. These companies marketing sugary drinks and training children from a young age to be life long consumers don't care about any of us. The lobbyist that ensure we never get affordable housing…	/r/MensRights	02/05/23 06:51 PM
7	Why can't Women understand Male Struggles? It's funny you say that because I get that a lot in real life so it's funny it translates online too. This is why I was asking. I agree with your whole second paragraph. Why don't women care? A lot don't know men have issues. I know that sounds crazy and stupid but it's kinda true. A lot of the messaging given to women from a young age is that women are emotional and childish while men are strong, stoic and impenetrable. Women are literally taught that men don't have feeling anything outside of …	/r/MensRights	02/05/23 06:38 PM
-1	Why can't Women understand Male Struggles? I have a hard time agreeing that women joining the workforce and going to college is why employers see people are replaceable. That's just capitalism. A lot of goepolitical things happened during that time as well. China/Asia became a power house of cheap labor so companies went there. They didn't have to pay those people (a lot of which are children) the same as they would domestic labor which allowed them to become the giants the are today. A lot of things sucked for women back in the day. You…	/r/MensRights	02/05/23 05:32 PM
5	Why can't Women understand Male Struggles? I didn't insinuate anything I literally just asked so I could get a better understanding of the question. I wanted my answer to be tailored to the issues at hand. You come off so hostile and I don't understand why. I am a woman seeking understanding(which is what I see men requesting) yet I'm just met with assumptions and hostility.	/r/MensRights	02/05/23 05:16 PM
-7	Why can't Women understand Male Struggles? Woman here and I want to answer but what issues are you speaking on? Safety? Pay? Health?	/r/MensRights	02/05/23 03:57 PM
6	At what age do boys stop receiving unconditional love? I don't believe there's such a thing as unconditional love. All love has conditions. I don't love my parents just because they're person X and Y. I love them because they are my parents and how they've treated me through out my life. Same with friends, extended family, SO's, etc. The closest we can get is probably a mother/child. But I feel like that too can be pushed to it's limits.	/r/MensRights	21/04/23 06:37 PM
-1	What caused women to go into the workforce en masse? Technology or feminism? War. Women weren’t allowed to work until a huge chunk of the workforce (men) were no longer available due to being overseas/dying. Then the powers that be finally decided to allow women to work because there was nobody else. People stayed in relationships they hated because they literally didn’t have an option, people get divorced more often because relationships are finally voluntary. They’re no longer hostage situations where you have to choose between being unhappy or being destitute.	/r/MensRights	13/04/23 03:08 AM
2	Why do feminists always use this strawman? 1.) Don’t cuss at me, let’s keep this respectful. We’re simply two people exchanging points of view, no need to get emotional. I’m going to try and explain this again. I didn’t say sex is ONLY the physical act of sharing your body, I said the sharing of your body is what makes it different from all the other interactions you can have. Hence why I don’t call family dinner “orgy night.” And you definitely can argue that handshakes and/or hugs are also “sharing your body” (I would disagree) but in …	/r/MensRights	07/04/23 09:50 PM
2	Why do feminists always use this strawman? If they pursue her because they want her specifically then she’s either attractive enough to attract them or they like ugly women. Beauty is incredibly subjective so I’m more inclined to believe that those men just find her attractive. Maybe it’s cause I’m a woman but I’ve never seen a man I’m not attracted too and thought “damn he’s so ugly I should sleep with him.” People are biased to those they find attractive, that’s a fact. But what I’m referring to was specifically about how while women t…	/r/MensRights	06/04/23 02:51 AM
0	Why do feminists always use this strawman? According to the dictionary Analogy is defined as “a comparison between two things, typically for the purpose of explanation or clarification.” I agree with you that the analogy is based on incorrect facts about locks/keys, that’s why I think it’s dumb. You can’t build a factual comparison of of incorrect assumptions. A promiscuous man is a chick magnet because women assume he must be doing something right to get all these women. Mainly being good in bed. I agree that it’s easier for women to ge…	/r/MensRights	06/04/23 01:05 AM
-2	Why do feminists always use this strawman? Woman here and I’m going to attempt to answer these in order. Lock and Key: 1.) If you apply any critical thinking to said analogy it either falls apart of looses its intended meaning. You can’t say you’re not comparing women to locks and men to keys in an analogy about men and women. Analogy is just fancy for comparison. Locks are not made for keys, keys are made for locks. It’s substantially easier to replace a key. Lock’s don’t loose value because you open them with too many different keys, a…	/r/MensRights	05/04/23 09:42 PM
8	I've been accused of 2 people I thought were my friends Part 2 (I'm doing something stupid) I'm going to attempt to put this as simply as I can. 1.) Two things can be true at the same time. They can be bad people and you can be a person who lacks understanding of boundaries at the same time. 2.) For most people if the person rejects you and treats you badly, you do everything you can to distance yourself from them. Not double down. 3.) Your feelings do not justify your behavior. 4.) Nobody asked you for diplomacy, they asked to be left alone. 5.) You need a to seek help/guidance becaus…	/r/MensRights	29/03/23 09:53 PM
7	I've been accused of 2 people I thought were my friends Part 2 (I'm doing something stupid) I knew I recognized your name from somewhere. You need to leave those girls alone. They've asked you repeatedly, the parents have asked you to, even the school has asked you to. This is the post I'm referring to.	/r/MensRights	29/03/23 05:56 PM
2	So, it shocked me how many people believe that if a woman has sex with another woman, and is married it isn't cheating. Are they in an open relationship? Because if they are then I can see how it's not cheating.	/r/MensRights	28/03/23 08:42 PM
-5	I think the programmers of chat gpt are feminists... I agree that this interaction is probably over but I disagree with the rest.	/r/MensRights	28/03/23 11:34 AM
-6	I think the programmers of chat gpt are feminists... It's not. I think seeing women as perpetual victims is out dated and kind of insulting.	/r/MensRights	28/03/23 10:10 AM
-8	I think the programmers of chat gpt are feminists... From my understanding the only reasons women weren't/aren't also drafted is for repopulation/sex. One man can get multiple women pregnant at once as well as having a longer time frame to be able to do so. And it disproportionately effects those below the 1%. Those in power rarely send their own sons to fight, instead they convince everyone else to do it. Child support/alimony isn't nearly as popular as it used to be because women actually have earning potential now. 50/50 is much more common now…	/r/MensRights	28/03/23 09:24 AM
-3	I think the programmers of chat gpt are feminists... Like what?	/r/MensRights	28/03/23 08:11 AM
8	I asked this question on another subreddit, but I would like to ask here as well. What’s the equivalent of giving flowers/jewelry/clothes to girls is to men? Bespoke things (shoes, coats etc), cologne, grooming(beard/hair oils), stuff related to his hobbies. Meat, you can get some really high quality stuff online. Is he into cars? Bikes? Specific sports? Shows? Games? Races? Books? Movies?	/r/MensRights	25/03/23 10:34 PM
1	According to the feminism that has taken over our entire culture, women who show “empathy” are “toxic”. They are deliberately encouraging women never to show empathy or sensitivity. This is something I would expect to see in a badly-written dystopian story, not real life. Trade rep vs a republican from NC This clip is a perfect representative of what my response would have hoped to properly capture. Unfortunately empathy, kindness and even basic manners are often viewed as a form of weakness when coming from women.	/r/MensRights	25/03/23 05:56 PM
1	To all the women coming to my profile to find dirt on me because of my post in offmychest I'm absolutely fascinated by this. I've always been of the the understanding/been taught that you can't change sexuality, so I'm curious as to how you were able to make that transition. I have some questions: Do you love your wife as a woman? Do you guys have an arrangement that allows you to both find your own sexual gratification? What is your perception of her role in your life and your role in hers? Did you know you were gay before or after you got with her? Have you ever gotten the chance t…	/r/MensRights	21/03/23 09:51 PM
42	Am I insecure because I am asking to set some boundaries with regards to my wife's upcoming girls' trip to Miami? A few. But the best it waiting till the next day and having him send a voicenote still pretending to be me. Like just not acknowledging that I suddenly sound like a man😂 Edit: a key part of this plan is that she has your number memorized and that she says her phone is about to die or something to make up for her not replying back immediately. I usually say that I put mine on airplane mode to save battery.	/r/MensRights	09/03/23 07:17 PM
151	Am I insecure because I am asking to set some boundaries with regards to my wife's upcoming girls' trip to Miami? Nope that's completely reasonable. Also an idea my bf had was that I give men who don't accept "no" as an answer his number in place of mine. It low-key was one of the best ideas ever simply because of the hilarity of some of the exchanges 💀.	/r/MensRights	09/03/23 07:00 PM
1	Freeing women from their forced biological roles involved freeing them from their reliance on men in all aspects, and their biological clock. Freeing men from their forced biological roles means doing the same. Considering how atrociously traumatic even "easy" births are, I'm all for artificial wombs. Getting them to be cost effective will be a major thing considering how money hungry the companies that would be involved are.	/r/MensRights	08/03/23 09:06 PM
-1	#StandWithLeo: Feminists are all about my body my choice until men come up. Correlating my body my choice with a middle aged adult dating barely legal adults is a slippery slope. It's not just about the number of years, it's about the amount of life experience and knowledge gained within those years. The difference between 40 and 47 is completely different than 10 and 17.	/r/MensRights	04/03/23 05:32 PM
6	Why is @JustPearlyThings now at the forefront of the Manosphere on YouTube? Her being a woman makes it more controversial which drives engagement which drive advertising/investers resulting in money. You could replace her with any woman and it would probably be the same.	/r/MensRights	01/03/23 10:37 PM
1	ChatGPT says my logic on paternity tests is sound. IE: There's a scenario where it's your significant others shortcoming and not yours if she ends the relationship because you asked for one. I can't really see any downsides to non invasive prenatal testing especially DNA. From my perspective the issue with the question comes with the timing of it. This should be the type of thing you talk about BEFORE you're expecting, not with your heavily pregnant partner out of nowhere.	/r/MensRights	01/03/23 07:56 PM
6	Can anyone recommend any movies that are based on women being toxic? Lifetime/Oxygen movies. But a specific one that comes to mind is Acrimony.	/r/MensRights	19/02/23 07:07 AM
1	Can a woman be interested in you without Sh*t testing you? Yes that's what I'm claiming. Most women aren't psychological terrorists, we're just regular humans trying to find some happiness in this wild reality of ours.	/r/MensRights	17/02/23 10:45 PM
2	Can a woman be interested in you without Sh*t testing you? I feel like this may be a situation of things getting lost in translation between genders. We have vastly different approaches to dating, especially in the beginning. While we may want the same things(love, trust, security, respect etc.) We have different parameters/scales we use to weigh them on. She may just be gauging who you are vs who you may portray yourself to be(like you should be doing with her). Confidence is great but it can also be a double edged sword where too much comes off as bor…	/r/MensRights	17/02/23 06:52 PM
-1	Can a woman be interested in you without Sh*t testing you? What you mean by "shit testing." Like is she specifically putting you in situations/asking you things designed for you to fail? But in general, no we don't.	/r/MensRights	17/02/23 06:38 PM
1	What feminists think of male genital mutilation. As you should and I do to. I think majority of "rational/normal" people would objectively agree that mutaliting and/or sexually abusing children is bad. The issue I find is that when religion/culture come in to play all objectivity is gone and it becomes this weird personal/emotional argument. I think it's because those are major pillars that people build their identities upon and most aren't ready to shake that foundation.	/r/MensRights	17/02/23 01:03 AM
3	What feminists think of male genital mutilation. I only recently (like past five years) found out that they circumcise babies. I had always known it as a religious/cultural practice done as a teen/young adult. Outside of some sort of 1/1,000,000 weird medical reason, I can't justify doing that to a baby. It's not even something I really hear being spoken of/debated because it's seen as right of passage/ cultural practice and people get really defensive about those.	/r/MensRights	14/02/23 10:00 PM
1	TwoXchromosomes I get what your point is/was but what I don't get is what it has to do with her statement at that time. It's like if you told me about being hit by a drunk driver and I decided to respond with how many more people successfully drive home after drinking. Or someone tells you about their family in Turkey suffering after the earthquake and your response is about all the little unknown ones that happen everyday and don't kill people.	/r/MensRights	09/02/23 06:06 PM
3	Is birth control pill turning women into lesbians and bisexual. Idk about it making you bi/les but I do know it can royally fuck you up. The trial and error process of finding a method that works(let alone the specific formula/dosage) is hell. Each one puts you through such a roller coaster of "mild/regular" side effects it's ridiculous. I'm talking libido, appetite, sleep, mood, pheromones, type of partner etc. And that's before the medical risks, ranging from high blood pressure to blood clots and cancer. It's a 0/10. Do not recommend unless medically nece…	/r/MensRights	02/02/23 11:04 AM
8	Women in this sub, what brought you here? Curiosity.	/r/MensRights	21/01/23 11:38 AM
1	Why do we socially consider sexual abuse in underage victims worse if the victim is female than if the victim is male? I think it has a lot to do with how we view each gender's role in sex. Society views sex as something that happens TO women, not as something we DO. Where as sex is something men DO unto others, not something done TO them. It's not only dehumanizing but also removes agency and accountability. The same people who talk down to gay men for "not being men" are the same who have less issue with lesbians because "it's not real sex" because there's no penetration. There's no winners in this system.	/r/MensRights	16/09/22 07:59 PM
3	Curious if there are any women in this sub? Yup, because I want to understand what's going on in the world of men. I think being more cognizant of men's issues helps me be a better support system for the men in my life. I'm limited to experiencing the world only through my own lense, I make it a point to try and get as many perspectives as I can.	/r/MensRights	05/09/22 05:27 PM
0	There’s nothing misogynistic about men preferring a virgin women over a non-virgin. We can argue the semantics of word usage. I call it hypocritical, some call it misogynistic. Either way, I look at from the lense of the current reality/times we live in. I think this mentality only makes sense if you too are a virgin. Maintaining your virginity these days is an extremely personal and serious decision. It comes with a lot of unique challenges that most people can't/don't understand. So, why would a chaste woman want a man that doesn't align with her personal beliefs/values? One …	/r/MensRights	25/08/22 10:04 PM
2	I need help with an argument I'm having currently regarding men's rights and feminism Thank you for the clarification. Heads up, I'm a woman. I think this conversation (and many like it) are doomed from the beginning. Nobody wins in the trauma/pain olympics. Unfortunately predators exist in all forms. Female predators are not less traumatizing than their male counterparts. There are plenty of women that have been victims of other women that can attest to that. Whether is be socially, sexually, financially, physically, psychologically etc. As far as the invisibility is concerned, …	/r/MensRights	04/08/22 06:33 AM
1	I need help with an argument I'm having currently regarding men's rights and feminism What's a "beta experience" with a woman/women?	/r/MensRights	04/08/22 06:14 AM
1	Why is it selfish to want sex? There's nothing wrong with wanting sex. It's fun. I've noticed a lot of the issue lies in how we communicate/view sex. Men and women have different approaches to sex. I recently heard a refer to it as different sexual currencies. While physical attraction may get a woman, it won't keep her. Foreplay begins waaayyy before we start touching for most women. It's a holistic attraction, so one factor falling will have a ripple effect. If you view it as a transaction, it removes the fun. Most women wa…	/r/MensRights	31/07/22 02:53 AM
1	To feminists who support mother bias custody why? Is this your response to my comment about the Florida bar?	/r/MensRights	17/07/22 12:50 AM
0	To feminists who support mother bias custody why? LMAO I can't lie that made me laugh. Let me break it down for you: I know that there is a universe that exists beyond my individual experiences What does this mean? - It means that I know I only have one life to live which doesn't allow me to do experience every single life experience possible. So, I must rely on the understanding and explanations of others. All of us are limited by all sorts of things, gender, race, religion, ethnicity, country, education level, economics, region, ability, etc.…	/r/MensRights	17/07/22 12:37 AM
0	To feminists who support mother bias custody why? The president, vice president and executive director of the Florida state bar are all men https://www.floridabar.org/about/president/ So I'm having a hard time finding the woman to blame in that situation. I also don't live there so I'd have to do a bit more research before truly speaking on it. And I think that ties into the issue, for so many cases it literally just depends on where you are. Some states are more understanding and some are super old school and just see women as weak default par…	/r/MensRights	16/07/22 11:47 PM
1	Why does no one care about male genital mutilation (circumcision) ? Even in my culture we don't do it to newborn, it's a choice given to young men on their journey to manhood. A lot more are choosing to opt out of it but a majority still choose to circumcise for whatever reason. I personally hate that it's done to newborns. I plan on following cultural practices and letting my children create the path they want to follow. I was trying to acknowledge that it's a horrible practice that people choose to participate in for whatever weird justification they choose. I…	/r/MensRights	16/07/22 06:02 PM
0	To feminists who support mother bias custody why? 1.) I don't understand this argument because I'm not of the belief that my direct involvement is the only way things can exist or be true. I've never seen a reindeer and yet I can still acknowledge that they exist while saying I know absolutely nothing about them. I didn't say the problem doesn't exist, just that I prefer to only speak on what I know. 2.) This kind of ties into #3 as well, a lot of courts literally don't give you an option. As soon as you start filling (whether as a divorce or a…	/r/MensRights	16/07/22 05:26 PM
1	To feminists who support mother bias custody why? 1.) No I don't. I tend to speak on personal experiences because though data is subjective I don't find that it reflects most people's day to day experiences. And in my experiences, I've seen both men and women get down right diabolical when it comes to custody/childcare. Everything from trying to run(from the state/country), to declaring the other party unfit(set ups, lies, unfounded charges). 2.) Are you asking me if the government gets a chunk of the child support/alimony? Do you mean by taxin…	/r/MensRights	16/07/22 04:30 PM
1	Why does no one care about male genital mutilation (circumcision) ? I feel like me acknowledging that parents(family decision) do it to newborns, whom we all know have zero information or power is me acknowledging that. My statement was in relation to why I (in my culture/experience) have not seen debated on a mass(legal/moral) ground.	/r/MensRights	16/07/22 04:22 PM
4	To feminists who support mother bias custody why? I don't even know if I qualify as this subreddits of a "feminist" but I'll give it a shot. I believe in doing what's best for the most vulnerable. In cases where the father is the default parent, then it makes sense to lean that way after separation. If both parents are equally involved in parenting then 50/50 sense. But unfortunately a lot of parents will have one partner as the default during the relationship and only pursue custody as a way to get out of child support while pawning the actual…	/r/MensRights	16/07/22 02:24 PM
1	Why does no one care about male genital mutilation (circumcision) ? I 100% agree. And a lot of personal decisions(if not most) are influenced by culture/religion. Which ties into why I believe it's not discussed/debated on a massive scale(in my circle). Not all of us adhere to the same beliefs/practices. We view it as a personal choice and not a matter of public discussion.	/r/MensRights	16/07/22 04:57 AM
0	Why does no one care about male genital mutilation (circumcision) ? I can't speak for everyone but I've always seen it as a choice issue. In most cases it's a family decision either for religious/cultural reasons. In my culture it's a choice given to young men to go through as a right of passage or parents choosing it to be done at birth. But either way it's a choice, so I've always seen it through that lense.	/r/MensRights	15/07/22 08:32 PM
5	How many of you are women and what brings you here? Curiosity. When I would think about feminism, I only thought of it as the movement that gave me the freedoms I take for granted: To vote. Open a bank account. Go to college without a man's approval. To work. Etc. Reddit is fascinating way to experience different opinions and lives that I otherwise wouldn't. I like to think of myself as open minded and I like to go out of my way to gain as much knowledge as possible. So I guess you can say I'm here to learn.	/r/MensRights	15/07/22 10:08 AM
7	Man dubbed creep for using eliptical next to woman I don't think this is a gendered issues, this is just a social faux pas all around. I know in some countries that are a bit more communal this might have gone down differently but in the US it's generally seen as polite to leave a buffer between you and a stranger. If I'm in a park in a relatively empty parking lot and someone comes and parks right next to me, I'm peeved. Hell if possible, I'll even move. Same with airports, if I see a mostly empty section, I'm not going to park myself right nex…	/r/MensRights	13/07/22 07:26 PM