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| 1 | Has porn caused men and women to find different traits attractive in women?Yes. I knew a girl that was so convinced that only overtly masculine, dominant dudes were attractive that she tried to make me feel unattractive for being gentle and nice and stuff even after she got extremely wet when I touched her gently. And this was back when I was insecure and hadn't really developed swagger or assertiveness yet. It seems like there's two different things which arouse people, although the two can be combined to some degree, but are also sort of polarized beliefs in a way. I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/20 07:25 PM |
| 1 | I was never happy until I stopped caring about sex and competing with other dudesWell it’s your choice but to paraphrase good will hunting “that sounds like a great strategy, now you never have to risk getting close to anyone ever again.” I get being incredibly wounded and it’s impossible not to invest somewhat in girls that strike me in some way, but you can learn to disconnect and not truly invest in someone unless you’re sure they’re the person you want. I haven’t been significantly hurt by a girl in years. You don’t have to avoid them to avoid getting hurt. You deserve l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/20 08:49 PM |
| 2 | I was never happy until I stopped caring about sex and competing with other dudesYes, exactly. Then you can truly start to love the thing you’re doing too. My relationship with all of my hobbies has improved since I stopped doing them for social reasons. I dunno if you’ve had a similar experience but everything becomes kind of beautiful. Even weight training changed from a social obligation to like a game I was a trying to beat or a puzzle I wanted to solve or something. Not that I’m huge or anything but my body has taken on a nice shape. Music is the biggest one though. I w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/20 08:13 PM |
| 1 | I was never happy until I stopped caring about sex and competing with other dudesIt’s a legit discussion topic? It seems like the mods don’t want posts that present a legitimate argument against the red pill. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/20 08:08 PM |
| 1 | I was never happy until I stopped caring about sex and competing with other dudesBut also be careful because some girls have some sort of sexual vendetta. Some of do shit to dudes to try and get them to react a certain way. They’re convinced dudes only want sex so they fuck with dudes who dont seem to care until they develop a complex and start caring about sex. It’s just a way for them to feel better about their world-view and take out their own issues on someone else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/20 08:06 PM |
| 1 | I was never happy until I stopped caring about sex and competing with other dudesYea I think so. I could just be 100% myself and it’s the best I’ve ever felt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/20 08:03 PM |
| 1 | I was never happy until I stopped caring about sex and competing with other dudesHonestly when I’m sober and functional, I’m sort of fucking awesome in a lot of ways. Even when I’m a wreck, I’m still awesome in a lot of ways. But now I can actually admit to what I am and not be grandiose to cover or compare with other guys to feel better. I think even that shows through because dudes are usually deludedly prideful and people get sick of it. I took all the self-improvement of the red pill to heart but I just think a lot of the other stuff is a recipe for misery now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/20 07:59 PM |
| 1 | I was never happy until I stopped caring about sex and competing with other dudesJust be their friend. They’ll like you for it and they’ll pick up on the fact that you’re truly not just trying to bed them and they’ll like you for it. It allows you to be free socially too. There’s no more trying to look masculine or impress them in any way. You can just do whatever you want and be goofy and weird and shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/20 07:56 PM |
| 2 | Using Male disposability to men's advantageNo I actually think it really fucks them up and gives them trust issues when they get pump and dumped. I think you're just looking for ways to justify shitty behavior which is common on TRP | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/20 05:35 AM |
| 2 | Women actually love red-pilled lyrics.No I would say redditors neglect their dark side | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/19 11:20 PM |
| 1 | Spending your time worrying about what's beta and what's not makes you a beta.It is literally all about confidence. I think you could walk around wearing a fucking tutu and talking with loud squawks but if you did it with confidence then girls would dig it. Some girls are obsessed with masculinity though to the point they won’t show you attention even if they dig your confidence. Or they’re obsessed with some other concept or aesthetic. Like they’re a punk girl and will ignore anyone who’s not punk or a biker girl or whatever. But I’m convinced that these girls still dig … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/19 03:41 PM |
| 6 | Women actually love red-pilled lyrics.It’s human duality. Rap expresses it the best. They can literally go from fuck everyone else, i’ll fuck your bitch and shoot you to talking about feeling compassion for their brothers (aka other black men) In the same song. Every human has these two sides in them and if one is neglected then it causes chaos. Neglect your light side and you’ll become empty and be unable to love. Neglect your shadow side and you’ll become a pushover and bastion of repressed rage. It’s just we’re in an unspoken abo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/19 07:29 AM |
| 1 | The Red Pill theory is extremely Americanised, and thus not really useful if you are from somewhere else.I already responded to this argument in another comment. It’s the third comment down (after this one) on my profile. Struggle because of not having physical needs met and struggle because of mental chaos are two completely different things. There’s rich kids who literally spend their life addicted to drugs and then fucking off themselves because their parents fuck their heads up and they hate their environment. https://www.webmd.com/depression/news/20110726/richer-countries-have-higher-depressio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/19 04:33 PM |
| 3 | The Red Pill theory is extremely Americanised, and thus not really useful if you are from somewhere else.Yes I do honestly think foreigners have more humanity and are less egotistical than the average American. Not all Americans though. And I still love this country as a whole. It’s just become an incredibly confused place | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/19 03:54 AM |
| 10 | The Red Pill theory is extremely Americanised, and thus not really useful if you are from somewhere else.Yes but those sorts of things also stave off existential crises. Struggle can actually give meaning to your life and it can seem like there’s no purpose without it. The problem is that we’re all trying to fill this existential void with transient pleasures instead of things that grant actual fulfillment. And we do this because the concept of god has died and without it people lost their faith in being good and turned to primal rationalism. They see people as an animal that’s sole purpose is to m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/19 08:32 PM |
| 4 | The Red Pill theory is extremely Americanised, and thus not really useful if you are from somewhere else.Yea and it’s ridiculous because I think the sensitive people were the ones that were keeping society together but now they’ve basically been shamed out of existence and have no self-worth. Sensitive people are usually sensitive to other peoples feelings as well (empathy basically), and they’re usually the ones truly listening to others and moderating arguments between different types and just generally bringing a lot of warmth to society. I think all types of people are useful but that a society… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/19 07:23 PM |
| 5 | The Red Pill theory is extremely Americanised, and thus not really useful if you are from somewhere else.Yea I can’t argue with that. I’m British born living in America and I think the UK is the only country that’s really close. But the rest of the world is catching up IMO. Hopefully they don’t completely corrupt themselves by becoming star-obsessed like Americans though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/19 06:52 PM |
| 8 | The Red Pill theory is extremely Americanised, and thus not really useful if you are from somewhere else.Yea but it’s like we operate on a sort of social capitalism as well. A lot of people are obsessed with dominance at the expense of any other personality traits. Which is sad because a lot of other traits are awesome. I’ll agree that every human does have a drive for power but Americans have taken it to the point that it creates mass insecurity, cognitive dissonance and sadness because no one can just enjoy what they have. We’re just always comparing because we’re obsessed with being number 1. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/19 06:50 PM |
| 32 | The Red Pill theory is extremely Americanised, and thus not really useful if you are from somewhere else.No it’s that we’re greedy, prideful, envious, wrathful, lazy, gluttonous and absurdly lustful. Americans have basically created hell on earth and they’ve done it using an ideology that justifies and romanticizes it. Meanwhile almost no one is happy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/19 04:39 PM |
| 1 | Why is there a belief that less attractive men treat women better?Yea or certain positions. Talking about sex publicly makes me uncomfortable So I’m not gonna elaborate. It’s a British thing I think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/19 02:47 AM |
| 1 | Why is there a belief that less attractive men treat women better?Yea because good looking people can’t be fucked up. I’ve been diagnosed schizophrenic and bipolar. I’ve been in the psyche ward 15 times and have been addicted to heroin, benzos and alcohol. I grew up with a narcissistic, alcoholic, pill addict mom and a people pleaser codependant dad that made me their scapegoat(not blaming anymore becauae I love them and understand). I’ve been basically unable to get close to people or let anyone love me my whole entire life, unless it was a toxic woman. I had… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/19 12:42 AM |
| 1 | Why is there a belief that less attractive men treat women better?Yea it was really bad. She was the only one I dated but I hung out with another 4 bpd girls and 2 npd girls. Mommy issues obviously. And yea I get that. And I guess things can get mechanically awkward if there’s a big height difference as well (if you know what I mean). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/19 11:47 PM |
| 2 | Why is there a belief that less attractive men treat women better?Well the girl who told me this also had BPD and would constantly make comments designed to undercut my self-esteem and destabilize my sense of masculinity so she could’ve just been saying that because I was tall and she knew It’d make me question myself. Why do you go for short guys? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/19 10:55 PM |
| 1 | Red pill dudes always seem like they’re secretly miserable and the girl’s that go for them are serial dating head casesI dunno. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with fashion or having a nice car. It’s just like accesorising your character in a video game. Cool stuff just looks cool. As long as you’re not buying a $200 shirt just because it says gucci on it or something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/19 10:02 PM |
| 1 | Red pill dudes always seem like they’re secretly miserable and the girl’s that go for them are serial dating head casesLol I was just about to sya that if that was the only option the I’d rather go radically religious than trp. At least radical religion doesn’t involved hurting other people. And yes I’ve felt empowered both through religion snd trp. I think there’s a middle ground though. Take all the good stuff of trp and mix it with the good stuff of religion and you’d be the shit theoretically. If you go too far in either direction, I think it causes personal havoc and that people will dislike you for certain… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/19 09:31 PM |
| 1 | Red pill dudes always seem like they’re secretly miserable and the girl’s that go for them are serial dating head casesIt’s fine. At least you’re having honest discussion about it and considering other options. Most rp dudes here literally remind me of brainwashed maoists or something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/19 08:49 PM |
| 1 | Red pill dudes always seem like they’re secretly miserable and the girl’s that go for them are serial dating head casesNo it’s a rant against people that are spreading a shitty hateful ideology that’s corrupting vulnerable people. People can say whatever they want about me. I’m pretty much out of shits to give. They go around making dudes feel like there’s something wrong with them because they’re actual good people and have feelings though. And they do it using extremist language (insults) so I don’t get why I’m being moderated. I can take the insults out if you want though. There’s plenty to discuss without th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/19 08:28 PM |
| 2 | Why is there a belief that less attractive men treat women better?Maybe. A girl said that shorter guys usually try harder to me once. I think it all depends though. I think people with perspective can cope with anything with grace but if you let it get to you then you’re gonna be a dick. And that’s coming from someone who’s on the good end of that deal, as in tall and good looking and whatnot. I have other shit that I’ve been through and had to deal with that would 100% turn me bitter again if I let it. And of course those guys are gonna be demanding and contr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/19 08:16 PM |
| 1 | Red pill dudes always seem like they’re secretly miserable and the girl’s that go for them are serial dating head casesFor thousands of years humans have been trying to figure out these things. They’ve created countless plays, operas, books, albums, paintings and other works of art positing at the true nature of reality and what happiness really is. In modern times, they’ve done countless psychological studies and even attempted to understand it on a purely physical, scientific level (neuroscience). Yet it was all for naut because the answer was so simple all along... What fools we are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/19 05:15 PM |
| 1 | Red pill dudes always seem like they’re secretly miserable and the girl’s that go for them are serial dating head casesNo I prefer to forge meaning and look for beauty in the chaos because I think it’s more sustainable. If I can take solace in the little things then I’ll be able to appreciate life in old age as well. And I only wanna sleep with girls I actually connect with from here on out. It’s just not fun or fulfilling unless there’s an actual connection. I’m so sick of being an unhappy slave to my instincts. And I feel like all that’s stemming from a completely different side of me than the side that say ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/19 04:29 PM |
| 1 | Red pill dudes always seem like they’re secretly miserable and the girl’s that go for them are serial dating head casesI think it’s poison and dangerous. I think it builds on itself too. The more something like trp takes hold, the colder and darker the world becomes and the more people get broken by it and then turn to trp. I’m all for every dude having a tough side but trp is a prison. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/19 03:18 PM |
| 10 | Why is there a belief that less attractive men treat women better?Because they’re trying to make up for other deficits with good behavior. The same goes for sex too honestly. Less attractive girls are generally better in bed. They try a lot harder and care a lot more about pleasing you. This isn’t always true but as a general rule it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/19 03:15 PM |
| 1 | Red pill dudes always seem like they’re secretly miserable and the girl’s that go for them are serial dating head casesSo by that logic Kendrick Lamar and Vince Staples are just straight up killers and don’t deserve to be forgiven for getting wrapped up in gang life and killing people? And trp straight up does promote immoral behavior, or at least it did when I went there. It promotes using women and spreads hate against a lot of people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/19 02:56 PM |
| 1 | Red pill dudes always seem like they’re secretly miserable and the girl’s that go for them are serial dating head casesThe red pill people on this sub are insulting all the time and no one says anything. It’s actually the reason I went that route even though I usually don’t. I’m pretty sure there’s only 2-3 insults in the whole thing though and the rest is an actual interpretation? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/19 02:50 PM |
| 1 | Red pill dudes always seem like they’re secretly miserable and the girl’s that go for them are serial dating head casesMy life has actually been pretty good lately and it’s been because I stopped taking everything so seriously and developed some serious appreciation for what I do have. I would’ve agreed with you not too long ago but now I think I was just so fixated on a bunch of ego bullshit that I got a tunnel vision and couldn’t enjoy anything. That and I was fucked up on drugs or alcohol all the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/19 02:36 PM |
| 1 | Red pill dudes always seem like they’re secretly miserable and the girl’s that go for them are serial dating head casesSure if that makes you feel better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/19 02:33 PM |
| 1 | Red pill dudes always seem like they’re secretly miserable and the girl’s that go for them are serial dating head casesWell people have to take responsibility for their actions but what you said is also like saying you can’t blame a gang for influencing someone to kill someone else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/19 02:32 PM |
| 1 | Red pill dudes always seem like they’re secretly miserable and the girl’s that go for them are serial dating head casesI could have my views changed. I just really think I’m right. And I went in depth with explanations for it so it’s not exactly vague. I guess psychology can never be proven right or wrong. Not yet at least. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/19 02:30 PM |
| 1 | Red pill dudes always seem like they’re secretly miserable and the girl’s that go for them are serial dating head casesBecause it made me obsessed with power dynamics and never showing weakness and it was toxic af. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/19 01:17 PM |
| 1 | Red pill dudes always seem like they’re secretly miserable and the girl’s that go for them are serial dating head casesYea but people would say the same thing about a cult. Keep all that self-improvement stuff and ditch all the woman hate. I guarantee girls will still like you. Just not the girls im talking about in the post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/19 01:15 PM |
| 1 | Red pill dudes always seem like they’re secretly miserable and the girl’s that go for them are serial dating head casesYea there’s good parts to it but people don’g either have to be closed off tough guys or pushover nice guys. There’s a middle ground. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/19 01:13 PM |
| 0 | Red pill dudes always seem like they’re secretly miserable and the girl’s that go for them are serial dating head casesI mean I get it. I’m actually an incredibly emotionally reserved person. It’s gotten better but I still almost never show anything to anyone. I do like to act weird and not traditionally masculine though and I would be miserable if I couldn’t be my weird ass self around a girl. Even if she was ridiculously hot. Which I think is a trap a lot of guys fall in and then they end up relying on the ego boost they get from having this girl in lieu of there not being anything real below the surface of th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/19 06:40 AM |
| 2 | Red pill dudes always seem like they’re secretly miserable and the girl’s that go for them are serial dating head casesI get it. I literally went psychotic largely because of a bpd and an npd girl, both of whom targeted my masculinity (it’s what they do). The red pill made a lot of sense to me after that. But all it really did was make me miserable and cause me to hurt other people. Edit: And also no one liked me when I was like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/19 06:23 AM |
| 2 | Red pill dudes always seem like they’re secretly miserable and the girl’s that go for them are serial dating head casesI almost added the disclaimer that it’s generalizing and people are more complex than that but I think it’s correct overall. I don’t necessarily dislike them. I wrote this all after reading a bunch of toxic shit here so I was emotionally charged but I get along with almost anyone in real life. I like tough guy types when they’re actual tough guys too. They can be really funny and cool and will tell it like it is but a lot of dudes are just pretenders who never actually went through the stuff tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/19 06:18 AM |
| 3 | Red pill dudes always seem like they’re secretly miserable and the girl’s that go for them are serial dating head casesYea and that’s fine but then they go around dragging other people into their shit and spreading this toxic ideology to vulnerable people and that is bullshit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/19 06:14 AM |
| 1 | Is being a beta provider an honorable endeavor?I was thinking about this the other day and sort of realized that beta people probably invented 90% of the shit humans love. It wasn’t the alpha dude who came up with drawing on a rock wall, or singing to express his pain, or inventing the wheel. He was too busy dominating. It was the outcast that probably invented that stuff. Probably omega males actually. There’s no point to this post. I just thought it was interesting to think about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/19 03:41 AM |
| 44 | CMV: Men need to learn to have Self-respect and self-empowerment just like women are doing. Step one? Saying NO when you realize you are merely a "backup plan" in a relationship.Yea, we really have no honor or dignity when it comes to women. If they’re hot, most dudes will fuck them regardless of who the girl is as a person. It enables their behavior since girls can act like pieces of shit and dudes will still go after them regardless of how they behave (part of the red pill philosophy is literally how to ignore and not react to the shitty things these types of girls will say to you (shit tests)). We also sell out good girls every time we go adter shit girls and probabl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/19 12:57 AM |
| 1 | Women are oversaturating themselvesLol it’s the most fun pill. And it works too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/19 01:49 PM |
| 1 | Women are oversaturating themselvesIt’s similar because I would also advocate lifting and dressing nice and all that. But there’s no rules. There’s no keeping your actions or dress code within the bounds of rp’s notion of masculinity. In fact, part of yellow pill would be to embrace your feminine side. I would also advocate maintaining frame at all times, unless you’re making an impassioned plea to get a point across (which should be done sparingly). But you shouldn’t maintain frame in the stoic, statue-esque way rp does. I maint… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/19 01:47 PM |
| 3 | Is womens body or face more important? Or equally important?I like faces | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/19 04:01 AM |
| 3 | Women are oversaturating themselvesMaybe I’ll make a whole sub lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/19 10:43 PM |
| 6 | Women are oversaturating themselvesIt was this crazy theory I had when I was in psychosis. I had to change my tag because I didn’t like my other one and just went with this. I guess it’s just acting however you want regardless of what girl’s think. Basically just trying to impress yourself with your behavior, clothes, work ethic, whatever and understanding that the types of girls you actually want to spend time around would also dig that behavior because they would be like you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/19 10:01 PM |
| 1 | Women are oversaturating themselveshttps://m.youtube.com/watch?v=ltNhwj-F7c8 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/19 09:43 PM |
| 7 | Women are oversaturating themselvesFind different girls then. When two people really like eachother it’s almost inevitable they’re going to end up experiencing some sort of intimacy (emotional or whatever) unless one of them gets freaked out and runs away. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/19 09:34 PM |
| 9 | Women are oversaturating themselvesYea but does it really? You miss out on all the intimacy and connection which I sometimes think is better than the actual sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/19 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Would you wanna marry a guy with a high n count? And if not, then what number would be too high for husband material?How did you get those mixed up? I had a thing with eti for a while (assuming you mean etizolam). You can get it so cheap it’s ridiculous. But yea benzo blackouts are no joke. They can make you really aggressive too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/19 02:20 PM |
| 1 | Would you wanna marry a guy with a high n count? And if not, then what number would be too high for husband material?I haven’t touched a drug or alcohol in 11 months and don’t plan on ever touching either again. I would google a lot when I did drugs but xanax blackouts make you do crazy shit. And I just didn’t care at the time. I was planning on killing myself and just wanted to take a bunch of drugs first. I had a tree picked out and a rope tied into a noose and everything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/19 05:03 AM |
| 3 | What the OKC study also said.The great thing about sarcasm is that you can avoid ever facing anything real as long as you're vigilant in your usage of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/19 03:42 AM |
| 7 | What the OKC study also said.Honestly men also wouldn't find women nearly as hot if they didn't wear makeup. Most women really aren't nearly as good looking once the makeup comes off. Not judging when I say that. Just stating a fact. Having a naturally beautiful face is rare for both sexes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/19 03:40 AM |
| 2 | Would you wanna marry a guy with a high n count? And if not, then what number would be too high for husband material?Me too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/19 11:58 PM |
| 1 | Are women actively hostile to low value men?Some are yes. They’re called shitty people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/19 10:44 PM |
| 1 | Would you wanna marry a guy with a high n count? And if not, then what number would be too high for husband material?Yea it’s really bad to use it how I did. I also overdosed once I think. I did 1250mg and about 60mg of xanax with almost no tolerance to either. The only other time I had done it was when my first girlfriend (she had bpd) gave it to me before she told me she had cheated on me (in graphic detail) basically so that she could try to manipulate me into not leaving her (and also so she could try to convince me it was my fault). Anyway, I only planned on taking one pill (250mg) but the xanax obviously… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/19 09:52 PM |
| 1 | Would you wanna marry a guy with a high n count? And if not, then what number would be too high for husband material?Yea I was literally doing molly multiples time a week at my worst. But I was completely psychotic and couldn’t cope with being alive unless I was extremely fucked up. And I also had a bunch of it around because I was selling it (not a lot, just to like a few people to pay for my own usage). That was only like a 2-3 month period though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/19 04:26 PM |
| 1 | Would you wanna marry a guy with a high n count? And if not, then what number would be too high for husband material?Yea it also just gets complicated once you really consider women as people. Like I would never want anyone to do that shit to my mom or my sister or any daughters I might have one day. I guess you just forget about it when you’re lost in lust. Your animal brain takes over. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/19 03:26 PM |
| 1 | Would you wanna marry a guy with a high n count? And if not, then what number would be too high for husband material?I think a decent guy would compromise. But I feel like rough sex just feeds a completely different part of yourself than the gentler stuff. And that the side that enjoys rough sex is not a side of yourself that you want to feed. It’s like that native american proverb about the wolves people have inside them except with bdsm and gentle, loving sex replacing the wolves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/19 03:07 PM |
| 6 | Have you ever met the male counterpart of a bad boy chaser?That’s me. I didn’t have the best relationship with my mother and spent most of my life going after npd women. I spent a lot of time around bpd girls too but I never really fell for them. A lot of these girls were verbally abusive, cheaters, addicts and compulsive liars though. I even convinced myself that they were better than other women in the same way the bad-boy chaser girls do. I convinced myself normal girls were boring and pushovers and that these girls were real. And I tried really hard… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/19 02:56 PM |
| 2 | Would you wanna marry a guy with a high n count? And if not, then what number would be too high for husband material?I dunno if I’d call it masculine but I don’t think you should try to fit what you want into the label of what society says you’re supposed to be attracted to (masculinity). We’re way too complex for that primal shit and some of the things we like the most make absolutely no primal or instinctual sense (namely art). And yes, I think it does go hand in hand with respwxt for women. I remember reading a post (not on this sub) where a girl said she knew her husband was a keeper because he didn’t try … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/19 02:03 PM |
| 1 | Would you wanna marry a guy with a high n count? And if not, then what number would be too high for husband material?Well dudes aren’t likely to bring it up. For example, my brother heard a rumor that his wife got with someone in our friend group before they were together. He literally said he “had to know” if it was true at one point but I don’t think he ever brought it up. Not to mention stuff like that can trigger a mans strongest primal feelings which means it’s more likely to be repressed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/19 01:59 PM |
| 1 | Would you wanna marry a guy with a high n count? And if not, then what number would be too high for husband material?Yea well rough sex is fucking dumb anyway. I barely have any experience with it but the only time I wanted to do it was when I was at my most fucked up and enjoyed the thought of having complete control over someone. Most of the time, I just couldn’t view a girl that way and thought they’d be upset if I tried that stuff because the whole reason they liked me was because I was laid back and gentle | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/19 01:47 PM |
| 1 | Would you wanna marry a guy with a high n count? And if not, then what number would be too high for husband material?Well pot is addictive and anyone who smokes pot is probably more likely to turn to sex as an unhealthy coping mechanism. I dgaf what anyone says about pot, that stuff can fuck up your life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/19 01:41 PM |
| 1 | Would you wanna marry a guy with a high n count? And if not, then what number would be too high for husband material?Well I think a lot of excessive sexual behavior is a form of addiction so I guess it makes sense that sex and drugs would go hand in hand. If they have addiction problems with drugs then that’s gonna spill over into other behaviors. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/19 01:39 PM |
| 1 | Would you wanna marry a guy with a high n count? And if not, then what number would be too high for husband material?Oh and Mr Brightside by The Killers is completely about sexual jealousy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/19 01:33 PM |
| 1 | Would you wanna marry a guy with a high n count? And if not, then what number would be too high for husband material?It was about technology like every other Black Mirror episode but it was 100% about sexual jealousy in regards to former partners too. Particularly certain types of partners. The dude didn’t like the guy his wife had boned which is why it bothered him more and he got fixated on the details. Obviously it’s a dramatized example but seriously it’s not at all a weird thing to go through. You could argue that Eyes Wide Shut had a similar undertone except it was just the thought of his wife getting wi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/19 01:32 PM |
| 1 | Would you wanna marry a guy with a high n count? And if not, then what number would be too high for husband material?I would describe how the guys react more as threatened but that could be because of societal pressures. America makes you feel as though you have to bed a bunch of girls to be a real man. And it’s also possible they’ve never explored how they actually feel about not playing the field and instead have just glossed it over by telling themselves some mawkish aphorism (I think I'm using this word wrong) whenever they thought about it. Thus they’re sitting on a bunch of unprocessed feelings that get … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/19 05:11 AM |
| 0 | Would you wanna marry a guy with a high n count? And if not, then what number would be too high for husband material?There is literally a very well reviewed black mirror episode devoted almost solely to this theme (the entire history of you). It’s a very human thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/19 05:07 AM |
| 2 | Would you wanna marry a guy with a high n count? And if not, then what number would be too high for husband material?A lot of the girls here are as obsessed with masculinity as trp guys. That’s why they’re all saying they want high n counts. Because it fits into their view of what a guy should be. I think it’s kind of cool to be a virgin. You’re not a perverted slave to your instincts like the rest of us. I was a virgin until 24 but not intentionally. I was just really overweight until 22 and then when I got attractive I was too fucked up and couldn’t fathom intimacy and would just ignore even the most overt a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/19 04:50 AM |
| 3 | Would you wanna marry a guy with a high n count? And if not, then what number would be too high for husband material?I want someone who’s nice and nerdy and won’t start drama and dresses like an oddball (but cool) and doesn’t try to be alpha bitch or whatever and has empathy and is smart and likes actual good music and movies and a bunch of other shit that I can’t think of right now | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/19 04:41 AM |
| 2 | Guys in relationships with women who had casual sex feel like they're losingI think that this is definitely something the guy has to work out his feelings about at the very least. I think some people just say “whatever. I’m fine with it.” Without actually considering the implications and how it actually makes them feel. I don’t think it’s a dealbreaker but I think it can really bother a guy. I personally think Kurt Cobain had these feelings about Courtney Love but that he couldn’t admit to them because he was from a very sexually liberated scene and it conflicted with h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/19 04:18 AM |
| 2 | Would you wanna marry a guy with a high n count? And if not, then what number would be too high for husband material?I started this shit. Asians can join though. I like asians. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/19 03:37 AM |
| 1 | Would you wanna marry a guy with a high n count? And if not, then what number would be too high for husband material?I’ll check it out but I have limited options with the healthcare I have and the place I currently live. I’m doing good but I’m definitely still fucked up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/19 03:18 AM |
| 2 | Would you wanna marry a guy with a high n count? And if not, then what number would be too high for husband material?Yes but what if someone ended up in a world they really didn’t belong in due to a fluke, and because he bought into trp when he was vulnerable and looking for answers. What if this person is just a nerd at heart and is goofy and sort of sweet and just went fucking crazy for 5 years or so? I’m guessing you’ve figured out I’m talking about myself. I don’t really care because I think I could sell myself to someone I really wanted but I am curious as to what women think. Oh and I don’t have a master… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/19 01:59 AM |
| 3 | Would you wanna marry a guy with a high n count? And if not, then what number would be too high for husband material?2 billion | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/19 01:29 AM |
| 2 | Would you wanna marry a guy with a high n count? And if not, then what number would be too high for husband material?What if the person used to be sweet and innocent and traditionally courtly and wouldn’t chase sex and then he went through something fucked up and went crazy and became a drug addict and slept with like 30 women but then he became a decent human again (and sweet) and got a masters in psychology and a good job? And this person is also good looking, funny, smart, fit and good at lots of things. Is that husband material or is he corrupted to you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/19 12:11 AM |
| 1 | Would you wanna marry a guy with a high n count? And if not, then what number would be too high for husband material?Yes but I also thought that I didn’t care about certain things and then I went crazy and it obliterated all my mental walls and defense mechanisms and I ended up confronting the fact that I was very upset over all the opportunities for sex I had missed and jealous and angry at the people who hadn’t messed up opportunities with those girls. In hindsight, it was screaming from the back of my psyche. I even had a recurring dream that would feature girls I missed opportunities with and I would find … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/19 11:24 PM |
| 1 | Would you wanna marry a guy with a high n count? And if not, then what number would be too high for husband material?Maybe he has ocd too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/19 11:18 PM |
| 1 | Would you wanna marry a guy with a high n count? And if not, then what number would be too high for husband material?Yea I agree that all the therapists I saw just acted like friends. I sort of wanted them to just call me on my shit. But I guess I didn’t really shop around or look for a good one either. That’s cool that you’re a therapist though. It’s what I wanna do (assuming teaching or researching psychology is unlikely) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/19 11:17 PM |
| 2 | Would you wanna marry a guy with a high n count? And if not, then what number would be too high for husband material?Lol I was kidding. What if he had slept with 2000 women, half of them models, but was otherwise perfect? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/19 10:38 PM |
| 1 | Would you wanna marry a guy with a high n count? And if not, then what number would be too high for husband material?I’m talking to a lot of people. I forgot which one you were. The fact that people who won’t even consider thay they’re in denial or repressing are usually the ones who are doing it the most still stands though. The only way to get rid of that stuff is to acknowledge and then confront it, which is godawful painful but also better in the end. Not that I’m a perfect human or anything because I’m a super fucked up borderline egomaniac like everyone else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/19 10:37 PM |
| 1 | Would you wanna marry a guy with a high n count? And if not, then what number would be too high for husband material?No I mean I’m pretty good at it in real life but have a tougher time on the internet. I also just mostly said they could be telling the truth because I don’t want to sound like my own biases are causing me to paint someone a liar just so I’ll feel better about my own shit. Basically I’ve thought just about everyone I’ve talked to on this sub has at the very least been (probably heavily) embellishing. And there’s one person here that I think is basically just lying about their whole life. I think… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/19 10:31 PM |
| 1 | Would you wanna marry a guy with a high n count? And if not, then what number would be too high for husband material?You want your future husband to date and love men? Those numvers probably work for girls too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/19 10:25 PM |
| 2 | Would you wanna marry a guy with a high n count? And if not, then what number would be too high for husband material?Congratulations | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/19 10:24 PM |
| 2 | Would you wanna marry a guy with a high n count? And if not, then what number would be too high for husband material?Yes I’m starting to realize a lot of people on this sub are complete bullshitters. Or i guess just the internet in general actually. Although I do think a lot of them convince themselves of the things they say. And some could be telling the truth. Who cares. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/19 10:23 PM |
| 2 | Would you wanna marry a guy with a high n count? And if not, then what number would be too high for husband material?Yes I’m beginning to wonder if low n count men are a lot less insane than other guys. I’m going through a thing I think. I do live in a small town now though but I never really go out to try to get girls. I go to the city. And I could’ve slept with a decent amount of girls out of bars and clubs but I had severe intimacy, body, and trust issues and a crippling fear of rejection for most of my life. I literally had an attractive girl grab my dick once and didn’t sleep with her (and actually really… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/19 10:17 PM |
| 1 | Would you wanna marry a guy with a high n count? And if not, then what number would be too high for husband material?Yea I wondered the same thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/19 10:15 PM |
| 2 | Would you wanna marry a guy with a high n count? And if not, then what number would be too high for husband material?That’s what trp used to say when I went there. I don’t really care what it says though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/19 10:15 PM |
| 1 | Would you wanna marry a guy with a high n count? And if not, then what number would be too high for husband material?Well the nature of repression is that the person doesn’t know they’re doing it. They’re actually doing everything they can to avoid confronting it. If you honestly think you’re beyond repression then you’re probably the exact type of person that does it though. I dunno if I’ve ever met a person that I didn’t think was blocking something out based on reading into what they said or didn’t say. But I don’t want to argue with rp people anymore. I think you’ve all lost your humanity and live in a del… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/19 10:09 PM |
| 2 | Would you wanna marry a guy with a high n count? And if not, then what number would be too high for husband material?No I’m saying the average player could have shifted from the acoholic, addict dude getting in bar fights or singing in a rock band to dudes that dress nice and stay away from drugs. I know trp used to say not to drink when you go out when I used to buy into that shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/19 10:01 PM |
| 2 | Would you wanna marry a guy with a high n count? And if not, then what number would be too high for husband material?A lot of people repress feelings that make them feel inferior. Not saying you are, but it is common. But whatever, believe what you want. I don’t really care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/19 10:00 PM |
| 6 | Would you wanna marry a guy with a high n count? And if not, then what number would be too high for husband material?No it’s actually just really hard. Most men sleep with like 7-15 women. I actually have a high n count but it’s just a complete myth. Go to a bar and count how many women you see leave with a guy. And usually the ones you do see leave with a guy are wasted beyond belief. Girls are biologically programmed to be selective. I did a post where I did a mathematical estimate and I forget what I came up with but the average amount of hours a guy needs to invest per woman he sleeps with was crazy high. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/19 09:55 PM |
| 1 | Would you wanna marry a guy with a high n count? And if not, then what number would be too high for husband material?50+ = high, 100+ = very high, 1000+ = bordering on a mental illness | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/19 09:47 PM |
| 1 | Would you wanna marry a guy with a high n count? And if not, then what number would be too high for husband material?Oh. Are you happy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/19 09:45 PM |
| 1 | Would you wanna marry a guy with a high n count? And if not, then what number would be too high for husband material?How long have you been together? Has he been faithful? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/19 09:43 PM |
| 2 | Would you wanna marry a guy with a high n count? And if not, then what number would be too high for husband material?Do you worry what old age will be like? What was the last thing that triggered an emotional reaction in you outside of your relationships (and not including works of art about your type of relationships)? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/19 09:42 PM |
| 1 | Would you wanna marry a guy with a high n count? And if not, then what number would be too high for husband material?How has that worked out for you? Not judging, actually just asking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/19 09:33 PM |
| 2 | Would you wanna marry a guy with a high n count? And if not, then what number would be too high for husband material?I dunno what it stands for but it’s how many v’s a guy has put his p in. Or how many p’s a girl has let into her v (excluding rape). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/19 09:32 PM |
| 7 | Would you wanna marry a guy with a high n count? And if not, then what number would be too high for husband material?No that’s actually a myth. Picking up women is like a fuckin full time job. Even incredibly slutty women will have like 10 guys at any given bar competing for her. It’s fucking hard to get laid. Dudes just bullshit about how easily they get laid and it creates an unrealistic and toxic atmosphere. So your argument is that if a guy could somehow sleep around without compromising certain things about himself then you’d be fine with it? But that you also think there’s negative things that are intrin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/19 09:30 PM |
| 5 | Would you wanna marry a guy with a high n count? And if not, then what number would be too high for husband material?Well adults are ridiculous people so that doesn’t mean much. In fact adults are more ridiculous than children in some ways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/19 09:26 PM |
| 2 | Would you wanna marry a guy with a high n count? And if not, then what number would be too high for husband material?Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/19 09:18 PM |
| 3 | Would you wanna marry a guy with a high n count? And if not, then what number would be too high for husband material?Acting however tf you want regardless of what women want | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/19 09:17 PM |
| 2 | Would you wanna marry a guy with a high n count? And if not, then what number would be too high for husband material?Do you ever get jealous thinking about his past partners? If they were better or hotter and stuff? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/19 09:13 PM |
| 1 | Would you wanna marry a guy with a high n count? And if not, then what number would be too high for husband material?Is first blood a virgin? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/19 09:11 PM |
| 1 | Would you wanna marry a guy with a high n count? And if not, then what number would be too high for husband material?Yea I would agree that there could be a correlation but that’s probably changed now that trp sort of advocates not being an addict. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/19 09:11 PM |
| 1 | Would you wanna marry a guy with a high n count? And if not, then what number would be too high for husband material?So you think high n counts and things like heavy drug use are correlated? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/19 09:03 PM |
| 3 | Would you wanna marry a guy with a high n count? And if not, then what number would be too high for husband material?Yea but you’re into that. I wanna know what non rp girls say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/19 09:01 PM |
| 1 | Do you have Chad's looks? The go out and be quiet test of your looks level.Yea I always had excuses too. I remember telling friends that I didn’t sleep with a drunk girl that I left a club with because I had an “attack of conscience”. But in reality I just completely fucked it up by not making a move. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/19 04:30 PM |
| 2 | Why are Men more affected by the "Society lied to me" Issue than Women?Yea I think it’s at least partially primal. To a man, admitting that we’re flawed when it comes to attracting the opposite sex triggers a very deep seated primal fear that we don’t have what it takes to survive and pass on our genes, which is instinctually a large part of any human’s drive. So we develop defense mechanisms to avoid facing those feelings of inadequacy and worthlessness and it ultimately just makes things worse. In this way, completely falling apart as a person can be a benefit. I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/19 04:16 PM |
| -1 | Why are Men more affected by the "Society lied to me" Issue than Women?Because we’re ridiculously prideful and don’t want to face our feelings of inadequacy so we turn it into anger and then spew it onto the world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/19 03:32 PM |
| 2 | Do you have Chad's looks? The go out and be quiet test of your looks level.Yea I honestly think that all the other factors don’t really matter if two people love eachother. I just posted this in another comment, but I remember going on that whisper app and a girl made a post saying that her ex had a really small penis but that it was the best sex she had ever had because she loved him so much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/19 02:45 PM |
| 1 | Do you have Chad's looks? The go out and be quiet test of your looks level.Yea but I think love is the biggest signifier of an orgasm. They just couldn’t measure that. Unless you’re into the dom/sub shit. Then the signifiers probably go in a completelt different direction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/19 02:14 PM |
| 1 | Do you have Chad's looks? The go out and be quiet test of your looks level.Yes but I also think that you can’t quantify something like love in whatever study yielded those results. I personally think the best sex is with someone you really like, regardless of pretty much any other factor. I remember going on that whisper app once and a girl said that her ex had a really small penis but it was the best sex she ever had because she loved him so much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/19 02:13 PM |
| 1 | Do you have Chad's looks? The go out and be quiet test of your looks level.No I 100% believe you. It’s just you posted it about a night in which you went out and got hit on but didn’t end up getting any. Which kind of lines up with the motivation for humble bragging that I talked about. It can actually become incredibly frustrating, not that I feel like I have any right to complain about being handsome. But I just remember fucking up every goddamn chance that came my way and then just ruminating about it endlessly. The worst was if it was a hot girl that I liked and th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/19 01:59 PM |
| 1 | DAE see celibacy (from males, when you are female) as a form of empowerment?Thanks and yea I ordered a few of them online. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/19 01:50 PM |
| 1 | DAE see celibacy (from males, when you are female) as a form of empowerment?And don’t steal my outfit ideas yo! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/19 03:41 AM |
| 1 | DAE see celibacy (from males, when you are female) as a form of empowerment?https://ibb.co/4P326r5 https://ibb.co/H4n0f1p https://ibb.co/8j1sXQS https://ibb.co/5RSnSjT https://ibb.co/cD7dJVS https://ibb.co/Y3v9bsx Just a bunch of random pics I had on my phone. The purple and neon shorts one is my gym outfit snd my shirt was wrinkled so it doesn’t look as great as it normally does. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/19 03:39 AM |
| 1 | DAE see celibacy (from males, when you are female) as a form of empowerment?Yea and life is a lot easier when you stop caring. It just follows you everywhere. I would go to the gym Or the grocery store and there would be hot girls and I’d wanna look cool. It just gets so old. I just wanna get back to how I was when I was fat and didn’t care because I didn’t think anyone would want to fuck me anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/19 03:34 AM |
| 1 | Do you have Chad's looks? The go out and be quiet test of your looks level.What’s IOI? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/19 03:17 AM |
| 4 | Do you have Chad's looks? The go out and be quiet test of your looks level.Well you’re sort of going out of your way to tell people how attractive you are which comes off as pompous. I know because I’m attractive and sometimes end up doing this online as well, even though I downplay my looks in person and can barely even take a compliment. I think I would do this because I kept fucking up situations to get laid because of social anxiety, intimacy issues, body issues, trust issues, you name it. But I would still want the ego boost that I would get if I had fucked a bunc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/19 03:15 AM |
| 1 | Do you have Chad's looks? The go out and be quiet test of your looks level.Yea but there’s limits too. If I went out when I fucking hated myself and then got wasted and acted like a fuckin mess then this wouldn’t happen. If I felt confident then crazy shit would happen though. But I’m probably just humble bragging like op. It’s like “hey, look, I’m attractive, and that’s not good enough so I need to tell everyone how attractive I am.” Being attractive makes you insane. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/19 03:07 AM |
| 1 | Do you have Chad's looks? The go out and be quiet test of your looks level.I read that facial attractiveness is the biggest signifier of the likelihood of a girl having an orgasm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/19 03:04 AM |
| 1 | DAE see celibacy (from males, when you are female) as a form of empowerment?Well for me I stopped giving a shit about whether 99% of girls want to fuck me because I realized they’re not the ones I really want anyway. So I guess you could say I’m celibate with 99% of women. Because of that, I started getting really creative about how I dressed and even dyed my hair silver, which I love. It’s funny because girl’s actually seem to love it. Basically I think I’m just trying to impress myself at this point and have realized that someone who I really want to be with (or even … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/19 02:39 AM |
| 5 | Men who are 30+, what are your honest opinions of women around your own age?Well I think they either turn cool as shit or old age gets the best of them (they get insecure/bitter/whatever). The cool ones can be so goddamn cool though. They’re comfortable with themselves and don’t take things too seriously and it’s sort of really hot in a way. They just have this grace about them. I also really notice the immaturity of younger girls now. Some of them can still be really cool but I don’t think I could date one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/19 02:23 AM |
| 31 | Men who are 30+, what are your honest opinions of women around your own age?Well I think they either turn cool as shit or old age gets the best of them (they get insecure/bitter/whatever). The cool ones can be so goddamn cool though. They’re comfortable with themselves and don’t take things too seriously and it’s sort of really hot in a way. They just have this grace about them. I also really notice the immaturity of younger girls now. Some of them can still be really cool but I don’t think I could date one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/19 02:21 AM |
| -1 | Women who claim that being physically fit is an impossible or high standard for women to be held to are lazy as hellYea it’s actually not that hard to put on muscle at first. You can get a decent body in like 3 months. It does get harder though. Or so I hear because I’ve never been super ripped (yet). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/19 02:00 AM |
| 2 | Not wanting kids/marriage/a relationship is fine if you're upfront about it and don't lead people on.I don’t wanna be king. Just happy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/19 06:14 PM |
| 3 | Not wanting kids/marriage/a relationship is fine if you're upfront about it and don't lead people on.My shit is owned | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/19 11:48 PM |
| 2 | Not wanting kids/marriage/a relationship is fine if you're upfront about it and don't lead people on.I guess with mine I ended up visiting my parents across the country and then I got put on probation so I had to stay. Otherwise it would’ve gone on for longer. I just don’t wanna think about girls that way anymore. If I’m gonna just sleep with someone, then I’m at least going to be monogamously casual. I feel like feelings develop in every casual relationship and there’s no way I’m putting a girl through liking me and basically fulfilling all the duties of a gf while I go out 3+ nights a week lo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/19 09:26 PM |
| 4 | Not wanting kids/marriage/a relationship is fine if you're upfront about it and don't lead people on.Lol your User name is appropriate considering What we’re talking about | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/19 08:53 PM |
| 2 | Not wanting kids/marriage/a relationship is fine if you're upfront about it and don't lead people on.I don’t know. I think I did permanent damage to someone who never really did anything but try to love my crazy ass. It was obvious that she liked me and figured that I would come around if she waited long enough. But I was fuckin nuts, not at all over my ex and consumed by the idea of sleeping with a bunch of girls. I just sort of wish I hadn’t brought her into all that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/19 08:40 PM |
| 3 | "Men perceived sexual advances as less negative than women, especially when the advances arise from a (physically) attractive actor."Honestly women always seem to react poorly if you make sexual advances when she hasn’t already signaled she wants things to go that way. Not that I’ve slept with a ton of girls or anything but that’s what I’ve found. I also just feel scummy half the time when I try to mack on some random girl just for sex. If I’m actually having a good time with the girl then it’s different but when I would try to get in a girl’s pants just for sex then it always felt wrong. It’s like sex is better when it’s jus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/19 05:48 PM |
| 6 | Not wanting kids/marriage/a relationship is fine if you're upfront about it and don't lead people on.Yea but it’s also probably best to avoid casual relationships with people who you know are attached even if they say that not being serious is fine. Breaking someone’s heart can bother you for years. Especially if the person was really sweet and you liked them a lot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/19 04:39 PM |
| 1 | People always justify being hypersexual by saying it’s primal and natural but how often do chimpanzees (what we evolved from) even have sex?No I’m fully aware of that. I’m actually really grateful for it. I’ve seen the bottom and I know I’m far from it. I at least have a chance at life, even if it’s hard. A lot of people don’t have that. And I know the shit I’ve been through isn’t anything compared to some people. I heard some seriously fucked up stories in detoxes and psyche wards. Just basically the most horrible shit you can imagine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/19 04:30 AM |
| 1 | People always justify being hypersexual by saying it’s primal and natural but how often do chimpanzees (what we evolved from) even have sex?I’m a big fan of Nolan’s batman movies though so nice work | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/19 04:09 AM |
| 1 | People always justify being hypersexual by saying it’s primal and natural but how often do chimpanzees (what we evolved from) even have sex?Lol. I know you’re joking but in reality I am diagnosed schizophrenic and am still a little bit psychotic. When I say in psychosis in reference to my past, I mean “ranting at random people on the street about how I’m the reincarnation of da vinci” or “sleeping with a knife under my pillow because I was convinced someone was coming to kill me and my family” level of psychosis. I still have to deal with thinking the tv is talking to me and shit like that but it’s weirdly normalized at this point. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/19 04:06 AM |
| 1 | People always justify being hypersexual by saying it’s primal and natural but how often do chimpanzees (what we evolved from) even have sex?Oh I didn’t know that. I guess it makes sense that other people would’ve come up with same thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/19 03:49 AM |
| 1 | Men need to start supporting, encouraging and looking out for eachother the way women doI wrote about it in other comments. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/19 03:47 AM |
| 1 | Men need to start supporting, encouraging and looking out for eachother the way women doYes because everything has to be defined in extremes. Me saying that it would be nice for men to not have to deal with everything by themselves is the same as saying that I think all men should just sob in eachothers arms whenever they feel anything. God you people are fucking ridiculous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/19 03:39 AM |
| 1 | People always justify being hypersexual by saying it’s primal and natural but how often do chimpanzees (what we evolved from) even have sex?The lizard people thing yea but not that they were some ancient race that survived the dinosaur extinction. It was started by a British former politician named David Icke but I think he just thought they were aliens or some shit. I remember googling it to see if he had the same theory as me and couldn’t find anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/19 03:29 AM |
| 1 | Men need to start supporting, encouraging and looking out for eachother the way women doWell I developed psychosis, progressing to a schizophrenia diagnosis, because of a woman with npd, which culminated in a heroin addiction I was lucky to survive. The woman was never held accountable or bitched out by anyone. It’s actually just a thing with traumatic experiences. Feeling like fhere was no justice or repercussions for the offender makes it a lot harder to get over. I still feel bitter about it sometimes. No one in my life knew her though so I guess that’s not the best example. But… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/19 03:26 AM |
| 1 | People always justify being hypersexual by saying it’s primal and natural but how often do chimpanzees (what we evolved from) even have sex?That story ain’t bout shit. Mine will be better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/19 02:57 AM |
| 2 | People always justify being hypersexual by saying it’s primal and natural but how often do chimpanzees (what we evolved from) even have sex?Yea but anything we do for pleasure can become detrimental if we use it as an unhealthy coping mechanism. I’m hardwired to eat but when I did it all the time I was just an addict manipulating my bodies reward system. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/19 02:56 AM |
| 1 | People always justify being hypersexual by saying it’s primal and natural but how often do chimpanzees (what we evolved from) even have sex?I will. It’s gonna have the rock in it. And at least 20 explosions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/19 02:46 AM |
| 1 | People always justify being hypersexual by saying it’s primal and natural but how often do chimpanzees (what we evolved from) even have sex?I posted an article about how that bonobos might not be hypersexual in another comment. I remembered reading it months ago. And from what I found we have a common ancestor with the great apes (chimps, gorillas, bonobos) but that’s as far as it goes. Evolution isn’t one of my strong suits. And rats will literally choose drugs over food until they die if you give them the choice. But that’s 100% addiction overriding instinct, | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/19 02:45 AM |
| 1 | People always justify being hypersexual by saying it’s primal and natural but how often do chimpanzees (what we evolved from) even have sex?When I was psychotic, I had this theory that lizard people were just an ancient, hyper evolved race of lizards that survived the meteorite that killed the dinosaurs (maybe by going underground) and then took over the world via subtle manipulation. Or that they killed off all the dinosaurs because they were a pain in the ass. I still think it’s kind of a cool theory actually. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/19 02:43 AM |
| 1 | People always justify being hypersexual by saying it’s primal and natural but how often do chimpanzees (what we evolved from) even have sex?http://www.bbc.com/earth/story/20160317-do-bonobos-really-spend-all-their-time-having-sex I guess that could be a myth. And all I could find is that humans have a common ancestor with the great apes, which are gorillas, chimps and bonobos. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/19 02:40 AM |
| 1 | People always justify being hypersexual by saying it’s primal and natural but how often do chimpanzees (what we evolved from) even have sex?I typed it into google and it said chimpanzees. It’s besides the point though. If it’s something else then how often did they have sex? edit : “Humans are primates. Physical and genetic similarities show that the modern human species, Homo sapiens, has a very close relationship to another group of primate species, the apes. Humans and the great apes (large apes) of Africa -- chimpanzees (including bonobos, or so-called “pygmy chimpanzees”) and gorillas -- share a common ancestor that lived betwe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/19 02:33 AM |
| 2 | Do you think it's unfair that men find it so difficult to get sex with their looksmatch? And what is the solution to this, if there is one?It’s a stretch but you could replace the word heroin with anything that delivers chemical relief. Alcohol, pot, masturbation, video games, exercise, social media, tv, etc. I’ll agree that life is generally better when you’re getting laid though snd that going too long without it can be devastating. But I’m also pretty sure most of us are sex addicts. And I wonder if it’s even the sex or if it’s the intimacy that helps. I’ve had sex with someone I didn’t connect with and literally have not felt t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/19 02:15 AM |
| 2 | Do you think it's unfair that men find it so difficult to get sex with their looksmatch? And what is the solution to this, if there is one?We could go back to a more chaste society. There’s a reason that the idea developed in a lot of major religions simultaneously. I think it keeps society in order to some degree. I don’t think you can just be a sexually liberal society without it creating problems. Removing any social restraint from one part of our social nature seems to cause the rest of it to come flooding out soon after. It’s like pandoras box or something. Everyone becomes hyper competitive over sex and people start playing g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/19 02:01 AM |
| 2 | Do you think it's unfair that men find it so difficult to get sex with their looksmatch? And what is the solution to this, if there is one?I used to feel the same way about heroin. Turns out I was just an addict. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/19 01:55 AM |
| 1 | Men need to start supporting, encouraging and looking out for eachother the way women doYea but come on. Were they really gonna say “women and children first, except for the little boys. They can go fuck themselves.”? This isn’t just stuff im making up or theorizing though. Men are biologically expendable. But humans are also inherently a bit racist and xenophobic, but that can be overcome with conscious thought and experience | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/19 07:16 PM |
| 1 | Men need to start supporting, encouraging and looking out for eachother the way women doThat’s true actually. Trauma can also bond people together. It’s part of the reason soldier bond and also a way people bond in abusive relationships. I think that’s part of the problem though is that things are just functional enough that we’re not forced to unify. If the situation were a little more dire then we would take action and I almost think that would be better. Emotionally and mentally, modern men are in big trouble, but physically we have all we need and that’s stopping us from doing … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/19 05:54 PM |
| 1 | Men need to start supporting, encouraging and looking out for eachother the way women doBut there are girls that would want to be seen with me the way I am and I’m just better at being this way because I’ve been practicing it my whole life. I would be miserable with the type of girl i had to be a tough guy for. That’s not to say I don’t have a stoic side though. And yes I am good looking. Maybe not as much as I used to be but I’m a lot more confident and comfortable with myself which probably makes up for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/19 05:03 PM |
| 1 | Men need to start supporting, encouraging and looking out for eachother the way women doYea possibly and I can 100% see the appeal to tough guy types. Even I like tough guy types but only when they’re actually cool and not just a powder keg of fragile egotism covered up by a masculine facade. I’ve actually gotten along really well with some tough guy types in the past. But I’m also 100% convinced that some girls have dug me but that I wasn’t masculine enough for them or that they just didn’t know how to interact with me because I wasn’t what they were used to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/19 04:45 PM |
| 1 | Men need to start supporting, encouraging and looking out for eachother the way women doRight but some girls will also not f you if you show all those traits but aren’t masculine. I’ve used this analogy befote but sometimes I think it’s like a metalhead refusing to acknowledge that he likes a pop song because it goes against his persona/worldview/whatever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/19 04:36 PM |
| 2 | Men need to start supporting, encouraging and looking out for eachother the way women doLove is a chemical addiction to someone. A guy won a nobel prize for proving that. It’s also just an adaptive survival mechanism. There is no right or wrong way for a human to live. We’re in uncharted territory. We have no examples to learn from because we’re the only creature we know that’s developed consciousness and civilization. In this scenario, you could 100% argue that pairing off is a legitimate survival strategy, and that it’s possibly better than trying to bone as many people as possib… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/19 04:33 PM |
| 2 | Men need to start supporting, encouraging and looking out for eachother the way women doNo they really do. Being a genuinely good person will make women like you. A lot of dudes are ingratiating though and that’s a turn off. Real empathy usually comes from being broken as a person and is done because you know how the other person feels instead of for social gain or reciprocity. Being intelligent, funny, creative, unique and a whole bunch of other traits will 100% make women want to fuck you as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/19 04:12 PM |
| 1 | Men need to start supporting, encouraging and looking out for eachother the way women doNo the red pill is just a result of social physics. “For every reaction there is an equal and opposite reaction”. Look at music. Hippies (peace and harmony) gave way to punk (chaos and discord). Hair metal (superficial, put together) gave way to grunge (genuine, unkempt). If something pushes too far in one direction, then an extremist reaction occurs. Men became soft and emasculated so the red pill arose. Neither is right though. It’s just people have a tendency to see things in black and white.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/19 04:03 PM |
| 1 | Men need to start supporting, encouraging and looking out for eachother the way women doI’m fucked in the head and have a lot of defense mechanisms to keep healthy women away from me. I convince myself they’re secretly horrible and abusive, or I act uninterested or I sabotage it or I come up with some excuse for why I can’t date them. It’s quite horrible actually and is really hard to break. But I post here because modern men are seriously in trouble and conflicted and it’s just going to get worse. I got my heart fucking snapped by a BPD and then an NPD girl and I had no realistic … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/19 03:41 PM |
| 1 | Men need to start supporting, encouraging and looking out for eachother the way women doPerhaps we should unite against women and start calling them out on their shit as well. There is a lot of shit in this world that’s unfair towards men and it’s never going to be fixed unless men unify and force the issue. People called women ridiculous and denied all the issues when feminism first came about but now things have gotten a lot better for women because they stuck with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/19 03:28 PM |
| 1 | Men need to start supporting, encouraging and looking out for eachother the way women doI don’t really ever whine actually. It’s the reason I use the internet as an outlet. I was as closed off and emotionally unavailable as my parents were my whole life and only recently started to learn how to express myself. I didn’t tell anyone anything until the age of 26. No one had any idea my mom was even an alcoholic until I went insane and started ranting about it. I’m not crying about anything either. Girls can fuck whoever they want. But I’m also not going to just sit here and watch peop… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/19 03:23 PM |
| 1 | Men need to start supporting, encouraging and looking out for eachother the way women doAlso, I’m clearly not the only mentally ill one in this conversation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/19 02:58 PM |
| 1 | Men need to start supporting, encouraging and looking out for eachother the way women doLol ok | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/19 02:53 PM |
| 1 | Men need to start supporting, encouraging and looking out for eachother the way women doNo, being mean to people almost never makes me feel better. I just woke up and read that comment and got annoyed. But you literally told me that your dad was a womanizing musician and then proceeded to tell me that you kept ending up with womanizing musician boyfriends. There’s a correlation there. I had a completely fucked view of women for a while because of my mom. I experienced an almost exact parallel to what women experience with red pill dudes. I explained away their bitchiness and abuse … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/19 02:44 PM |
| 3 | Men need to start supporting, encouraging and looking out for eachother the way women doIt’s because they’re extremist but so were some early feminist groups. Cell 16 literally advocated separation from men because they thought we were so shitty. Remember when “feminazi” was a term too and there were a bunch of man hating feminists? It’s just the nature of any movement imo. It’s an expression of the anger and frustration of being marginalized and ignored. Look at early black right’s groups as well. Malcolm x wanted black people to literally separate from whites in the same way cell… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/19 02:14 PM |
| 0 | Men need to start supporting, encouraging and looking out for eachother the way women doI’m good at lots of things and do go my own way. As in actually go my own way. Not acting like some pandering, color by numbers caveman to impress ridiculous girls like you. I understand that girls are still human and are subject to duality and conflicting impulses, but women are also genuinely empowering eachother nowadays. And I have a lot to say about feminism but I just woke up and don’t wanna get into right now. I just wanted to respond because you were being really backhanded and presumptu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/19 01:46 PM |
| 0 | Men need to start supporting, encouraging and looking out for eachother the way women doYea I think those groups rose because of a lack of unity in men. Men weren’t empowering or bonding with eachother so guys turned to extremist fringe groups that gave them the sense of unity and empowerment they were missing. It’s literally how people end up in cults or gangs and how the nazi ideology took hold in Germany. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/19 12:46 PM |
| 1 | Men need to start supporting, encouraging and looking out for eachother the way women doWell you have a bias opinion because you’re drawn to fucked up men. The two people that got laid most in my friend group are me and another musician guy. Neither one of us are red pilled at all. There’s a lot of other shit that girls are drawn to when they weren’t fucked in the head by their dad. And there’s 2 different kinds of good fucking. I’m sure lovemaking is just beta shit to you but it can be really good if you know what you’re doing and actually have the capacity to experience real inti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/19 12:35 PM |
| 1 | Men need to start supporting, encouraging and looking out for eachother the way women doUmm you can probably eat my butt or something | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/19 04:48 AM |
| 1 | Men need to start supporting, encouraging and looking out for eachother the way women doWell I should note that I'm a schizophrenic, probably bipolar recovering drug addict and alcoholic who's now 11 months sober, has a job, gets straight A's at school and works out regularly. I know full well how the world is. I had to get my shit together myself. I had no one to fucking cry to and no one held my hand. You have no idea how much harder I have to try than the average person does. And I agree that the world doesn't give a shit about any one man. That being said. I don't want other me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/19 04:08 AM |
| 1 | Men need to start supporting, encouraging and looking out for eachother the way women doOh. You didn’t answer my question though. I don’t even know why I’m asking you all this shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/19 03:43 AM |
| 1 | Men need to start supporting, encouraging and looking out for eachother the way women doHell yes rap music is empowering. Rap even empowered me. At the school I go to, the black guys are almost always dressed nice, have nice haircuts and look pretty ripped and confident, while the white guys dress like shit and usually have no muscle. There is a seriously underlying theme of empowerment in rap. I’m guessing you haven’t listened to a lot of it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/19 03:37 AM |
| 1 | Men need to start supporting, encouraging and looking out for eachother the way women doNo I was hella cute. I would literally get checked out everywhere I go. I was tall and everything. My face was straight up gorgeous. I would still get checked out a ton in the bars and nightclubs but things would only work out if I met a weird girl. These other girls would still try to get my attention though. They were just obsessed with status and masculinity and I wasn’t those things. And I still am good looking, just aged a bit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/19 03:27 AM |
| 1 | Men need to start supporting, encouraging and looking out for eachother the way women doOh I’m guessing this was during the whole spin doctors/third eye blind type era What about your next boyfriend? When did you start going for red pilled guys? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/19 03:22 AM |
| 1 | Men need to start supporting, encouraging and looking out for eachother the way women doLol believe me, I’ve been there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/19 03:14 AM |
| 3 | Men need to start supporting, encouraging and looking out for eachother the way women doI’ll agree that we’re competition. And it’s actually fucked up because a lot of guys who consider themselves “nice” are actually just repressing their true nature and their competitiveness comes out in passive-aggressive ways, including sabotage. But I also think we can confront that and realize how much we’re fucking everything up becauase of our own selfish need for transient pleasures that aren’t even fulfilling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/19 03:14 AM |
| 1 | Men need to start supporting, encouraging and looking out for eachother the way women doWhat band? And I meant what was he like personality wise? Red pill/blue pill? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/19 03:11 AM |
| 1 | Men need to start supporting, encouraging and looking out for eachother the way women doWell then they’re traitors. Selling out their own kind for some vagina. Fuck them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/19 03:10 AM |
| 1 | Men need to start supporting, encouraging and looking out for eachother the way women doOh, so what were your first boyfriends like? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/19 03:09 AM |
| 2 | Men need to start supporting, encouraging and looking out for eachother the way women doModernism is dead but I personally like metamodernism even if it hasn’t caught on yet. I like to holding onto my sincerity, while also being able to be flippant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/19 03:08 AM |
| 1 | Men need to start supporting, encouraging and looking out for eachother the way women doI guess but it’s not a movement yet | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/19 03:05 AM |
| 3 | Men need to start supporting, encouraging and looking out for eachother the way women doNormalizing that it’s hard for men to get laid and that it makes us sad. That we all get cucked by some shitty girl at some point. Or even cucked due to just bad timing and an unfortunate situation. That we also have insecurities and feelings. That we all get our hearts broken at some point and probably need to talk about it (I read we actually take it worse than women). Shit like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/19 02:51 AM |
| 1 | Men need to start supporting, encouraging and looking out for eachother the way women doSo a bunch of girls go for those guys and then I become the best looking guy that’s not being hit on. Literally those girls are just ridiculous and are as wrapped up in toxic masculinity as the guys are. I’m havinf trouble talking about this without saying anything else that you’re gonna call a humble brag though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/19 02:48 AM |
| 2 | Men need to start supporting, encouraging and looking out for eachother the way women doNo a lot of men are really ingratiating | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/19 02:43 AM |
| 1 | Men need to start supporting, encouraging and looking out for eachother the way women doMaybe but how do you explain my lack of success at bars and nightclubs then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/19 02:38 AM |
| 1 | Men need to start supporting, encouraging and looking out for eachother the way women doMen don’t really punch eachother either. Fights are actually pretty rare. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/19 02:37 AM |
| 3 | Men need to start supporting, encouraging and looking out for eachother the way women doSo does normalizing the male experience | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/19 02:35 AM |
| 2 | Men need to start supporting, encouraging and looking out for eachother the way women doMaybe. I wanna clarify that I don’t believe in blue pill either though. I do think guys can be too nice and that there is a crisis of masculinity sitting in the modern male’s unconscious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/19 02:34 AM |
| 1 | Men need to start supporting, encouraging and looking out for eachother the way women doNo I’m saying that I acted the opposite of the behavior he was describing and it somehow worked. I never even tried to get with any of them or hit on them. I showed 0 aggression. Ipso facto, trp is bullshit. I almost prefaced it with “I’m not bragging when I say this.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/19 02:31 AM |
| 2 | Men need to start supporting, encouraging and looking out for eachother the way women doThis is tame compared to their normal shit. I dunno what yellow pill is. It's this probably insane theory I had when I was in psychosis. I don't wanna get into it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/19 02:28 AM |
| 2 | Men need to start supporting, encouraging and looking out for eachother the way women doOk cool. Maybe we'll go suck eachother's dicks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/19 02:23 AM |
| 1 | Men need to start supporting, encouraging and looking out for eachother the way women doDid you have siblings? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/19 02:20 AM |
| 2 | Men need to start supporting, encouraging and looking out for eachother the way women doNo I just think modern men are in big trouble and that something needs to happen to help them. And not the red pill. It's a toxic ideology. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/19 02:20 AM |
| 9 | Men need to start supporting, encouraging and looking out for eachother the way women doIt's because half the people here are red pill | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/19 02:18 AM |
| 2 | Men need to start supporting, encouraging and looking out for eachother the way women doAin’t nobody got time to read all that. Really though. I’m all set. I know what I’m about and what I want. It took me a long time to figure out and nothing is gonna change my mind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/19 02:12 AM |
| 2 | Men need to start supporting, encouraging and looking out for eachother the way women doOk. For a lot of my life I had very low self esteem and was completely out of touch with my masculinity and had very little muscle. Yet a bunch of girls tried to get with me when I was like that. But they were all weird girls. It could just be because I'm good looking and had other good qualities but I have also never seen most of these girls go for an asshole. Yet when I went out to bars, I would have very little success, unless I ran into a real weirdo. It’s just those girls, and trying to fuc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/19 02:10 AM |
| 1 | Men need to start supporting, encouraging and looking out for eachother the way women doNot with that attitude | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/19 02:04 AM |
| 1 | Men need to start supporting, encouraging and looking out for eachother the way women doOh. Did she cheat on him too? What did she do when she found out about the cheating? My mom steamrolled my dad too. He fought back at first and they would have crazy arguments but eventually he just gave up. She wasn’t nearly as abusive as other narcissist’s I’ve read about though. She would subtly pick away at my dad’s masculinity, often in front of me and other family members. But would act like the nicest, sweetest woman in the world when in public. And she would power trip like nobodies busi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/19 02:03 AM |
| 5 | Men need to start supporting, encouraging and looking out for eachother the way women doMe and “my buddies” are weird af. True that we pretty much still can’t be truly vulnerable with eachother either but not all men act like jocks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/19 01:53 AM |
| 1 | Men need to start supporting, encouraging and looking out for eachother the way women doYea but I’m a romantic. I like the ideals even if I think they are naive. I don’t want to let go of that part of myself. I don’t ever want to listen to a (well done) love song and just say it’s beta bullshit or something. If it makes you happy to be that way, then fine but it doesn’t work for me. Plus I personally think all of this stuff will be explained by psychology or neuroscience too. All these socialized things like empathy and kindness. I don’t think they are just social constructs. I thi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/19 01:49 AM |
| 10 | Men need to start supporting, encouraging and looking out for eachother the way women doYea and we all have shared experiences as men. Some of which we don’t even think we can talk about because we don’t think society will understand or because we think it just happened to us because we were deficient as men (when in reality it’s common). We should be bonding over these things too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/19 01:41 AM |
| 2 | Men need to start supporting, encouraging and looking out for eachother the way women doI think the general lack of unity, pride and empowerment is why men are turning to trp, inceldom or hardcore right wing shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/19 01:38 AM |
| 4 | Men need to start supporting, encouraging and looking out for eachother the way women doI dunno. Maybe. At the very least we should be breeding male pride though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/19 01:31 AM |
| 5 | Men need to start supporting, encouraging and looking out for eachother the way women doIt’s human nature to some degree but a lot of people let their morality override their stupid monkey instincts. I really think it is just the bar and club girls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/19 01:30 AM |
| 2 | Men need to start supporting, encouraging and looking out for eachother the way women doOh. My mom was an alcoholic, a pill addict and probably a narcissist. I spent my whole life being attracted to narcissistic, addict women because of it and even justified it as if they were somehow better than other women and had things that normal girls lacked when in reality they were just abusive. What do you mean by he beta’ed out to her? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/19 01:27 AM |
| 2 | Men need to start supporting, encouraging and looking out for eachother the way women doWhat was your dad like? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/19 01:17 AM |
| 2 | Men need to start supporting, encouraging and looking out for eachother the way women doYes I’m a lot stronger but I think it made me cold inside too. I lost something and I’m not sure I can get it back. I still see a lot of beauty in the world and I can still feel but the world will never be the safe place it was before I went through all that and I think that’s pretty sad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/19 01:11 AM |
| 7 | Men need to start supporting, encouraging and looking out for eachother the way women doYea at bars and nightclubs they do. Meanwhile all the cool girls are at home watching netflix or doing some nerdy shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/19 01:08 AM |
| 1 | Men need to start supporting, encouraging and looking out for eachother the way women doI know what you mean. I lost all preconceived notions that the world gave a single shit about me when my life completely fell apart and no one seemed to care. It’s biological really. Men are expendable. One man can make endless babies a year, but a woman can only make one each per year. It’s literally hardwired into us to care more about women because of that. There’s a reason why it was “women and children first” on the titanic and it’s because we’re expendable. I’m not sure if it has to be tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/19 01:06 AM |
| 3 | Men need to start supporting, encouraging and looking out for eachother the way women doI’ve probably been to the gym close to a thousand times in my life and I have literally never seen a dude compliment another dudes physique.. Im fact, half the time dudes seem to be locked in some signaling battle where each dude tries to signal that they’re the baddest by puffing their chest out the furthest. Maybe it is MA though. Part of me thinks there’s something really wrong with people in this state. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/19 01:01 AM |
| 2 | Men need to start supporting, encouraging and looking out for eachother the way women doYour fashion sense can communicate your creativity, coordination and uniqueness. I’m fuckin terrible with compliments too. I literally told the backup soccer goalie to stop complimenting me in high school because it made me feel awkward. But that’s because I’m a fairly broken human and I would be lying if I said I don’t enjoy compliments. About my looks, my abilities, whatever. Sometimes I definitely don’t need them because I’m already feeling good as shit or I know I’m great at said thing. But … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/19 12:58 AM |
| 2 | Men need to start supporting, encouraging and looking out for eachother the way women doYea I’ve noticed a lot of alpha obsessed dudes had domineering fathers too. Fathers that were shit to them and sort of emasculated them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/19 12:52 AM |
| 8 | Men need to start supporting, encouraging and looking out for eachother the way women doThere’s a difference between coddling and empowering. I 100% agree that coddling someone can be incredibly damaging. Drug addiction is a good example. If you coddle a drug addict, they’ll never get clean and they’ll milk you for all you’re worth. But you can empower a drug addict while also having firm boundaries and using tough love. If we do that then the world would not seem like such a cold place for us dudes and so many men wouldn’t be turning to trp, incel or hardcore right wing shit that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/19 12:49 AM |
| 1 | Men need to start supporting, encouraging and looking out for eachother the way women doBut I mean you can still talk to them right? They’re just not the inner circle anymore? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/19 12:37 AM |
| 8 | Men need to start supporting, encouraging and looking out for eachother the way women doAlpha and beta are such archaic terms. Alpha is essentially who everyone is threatened by. In primal times, this was clearly defined and didn’t change unless someone beat up the alpha. Nowadays it’s not at all static and it can change rapidly. A guy can be actinht all alpha and then he trips in a pothole and gets embarrassed and suddenly he’s not threatening or the alpha anymore. Or it’s circumstantial. A gym rat will be alpha in the gym but put him in a music club and the musicians are the alph… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/19 12:34 AM |
| 1 | Men need to start supporting, encouraging and looking out for eachother the way women doI have wondered if I need to start associating with new people. I’m getting old but I still wanna be fit and go out and try to be the best I can be. I feel like everyone I know is settled down or just resigned to a subpar fate. But I also love those people so I dunno. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/19 12:23 AM |
| 4 | Men need to start supporting, encouraging and looking out for eachother the way women doWell they’re humans so they’re complex and dually motivated. But I personally think the modern woman is much more empowered than the modern man because of what I said above. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/19 12:13 AM |
| 16 | Men need to start supporting, encouraging and looking out for eachother the way women doYea but most men outside your friend group wouldn’t give a fuck about you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/19 12:05 AM |
| 13 | Men need to start supporting, encouraging and looking out for eachother the way women doGo scroll instagram, facebook, twitter or any other social media platform and I guarantee you'll see something intended to empower women within 5 minutes. I bet you could scroll for an hour and you wouldn't find something meant to empower men. Or go look at a woman's social media profile. I guarantee there'll be tons of girls complimenting her, or supporting her if she's going through shit. But if you look at a dude's profile, you won't see nearly as much, if any, of that shit coming from other … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/19 12:02 AM |
| 4 | Are looks the only way guys measure weather shes a high value women or not?No. I really like personality. Sense of humor, intelligence, goofiness, kindness, weirdness, passion about things, a unique sense of style and all that jazz. Even awkwardness can be attractive to me because I know what it feels like to be awkward and sort of think it conveys the person possesses certain traits. Namely sensitivity, which I think can be a good trait, as long as the person is also tough, because sensitive people are usually sensitive to what other people are feeling as well. Obviou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/19 01:25 PM |
| 1 | Good looking guys and feminine looking guys tend to be much nicer than bad looking guys??I was both bullied (nothing terrible), unaware I was hot and then not hot when I gained a bunxh of weight. And yea, sometimes I have trouble not laughing at the alpha male posturing bullshit. They can get so ridiculous and if you dgaf then they’ll escalate. But no, girls with boyfriends will try to make me jealous for literally no reason. I went to a restaurant to see a blues band and I was just sitting there minding my own business, not even wanting to tlak to anyone, and this girl kept being s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/19 11:30 PM |
| 2 | Good looking guys and feminine looking guys tend to be much nicer than bad looking guys??This is true and not true at the same time. Your own sex will often be shitty to you for no reason if you’re good looking. It can be really frustrating and you’re never allowed to complain about it or people just say you’re being narcissistic. They’ll want you to be dumb or a prick or whatever as a defense mechanism against how you make them feel. They’ll usually be cool to you once they find out you’re cool though. Unless they’re the egotistical, wannabe alpha type, then they’ll just be shit to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/19 10:42 PM |
| 1 | TRP guys advocate for men going their own way and then proceed to act according to gender specific rules that are based on what women like.I just don’t care. It just sucks and I think it does for all red pill dudes because it’s like they always need to brag about their successes in an attempt to convince themselves and everyone else that it doesn’t suck. These “alpha” guys just seem so fragile in reality. Like as soon as they feel threatened by a guy they just crumble into a ball of insecurity and then start posturing and acting ridiculous to feel “alpha” again. It’s just ridiculous and I don’t want any part of it. I wanna dress ho… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/19 04:17 AM |
| 2 | What Do You Get Out Of This?Because we have stupid fragile human egos and nothing we do counts unless people see it and acknowledge how awesome we are. The girl who (Thinks she) can have any guy can’t just be humble and grateful, and neither can the guy with 100+ n count, because both place more importance on the social currency that these things grant them than the actual enjoyment they get out of it. Humans are stupid, ridiculous creatures. And I’m definitely including myself when I say that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/19 03:26 AM |
| 2 | Do TV shows or works of fiction create unrealistic expectations about how easy dating is?Yea, especially in the 90’s/early 00’s. I watched a bunch of movies I saw as a kid a little while ago and that was something that stuck out. Two examples I can think of are the limo driver in the wedding singer and the British guy who has a threesome in the movie Go. Neither are attractive enough to pull that off. Oh and also trainspotting, where the guy is an unemployed 3 day clean junkie that takes home at least a 9 from the club. That one was especially bad because you are so unconfident and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/19 05:29 PM |
| 1 | What does sex mean for guys?It’s a lot of ego. We just wanna feel like we’ve fucked more girls than other dudes because we’re ridiculous. The other guy could probably be a rocket scientist who ends up putting a man on mars and most guys would still feel superior to him if they were a walmart employee but had fucked more girls. Obviously it’s biological in nature, but ego is just an extension of biological/evolutionary function so it’s basically the same shit. It’s just a conscious representation of it more or less. It does… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/19 05:03 PM |
| 2 | TRP guys advocate for men going their own way and then proceed to act according to gender specific rules that are based on what women like.I dunno. I thought they overlapped a lot but I could be wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/19 09:59 PM |
| 2 | TRP guys advocate for men going their own way and then proceed to act according to gender specific rules that are based on what women like.Yea but it’s like musical taste. Sometimes people dig music but won’t openly acknowledge it because it goes against their persona. Like a heavy metal dude digging a pop song or something. If you could get them alone they’d probably fuck you but if you approach them at a bar they’re gonna try to uphold their image. Just like the heavy metal dude will listen to the pop song when no ones around but would still probably openly trash it around his heavy metal friends. Edit: or like Kanye when he was … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/19 09:23 PM |
| 2 | TRP guys advocate for men going their own way and then proceed to act according to gender specific rules that are based on what women like.No I agree but I think it’s mutually beneficial because people like you more when you act however you want anyway. Even girls that are fixated on bad boys seem to sort of dig guys who just literally dgaf (even if they’ll never admit it). I do agree that ultimately socializing is just an act of sorts though and that it’s pointless to just rebel for the sake of rebellion or act in a wya that’s off-putting based on some notion of it being an act of defiance. But I also think that being truly unique… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/19 09:08 PM |
| 3 | TRP guys advocate for men going their own way and then proceed to act according to gender specific rules that are based on what women like.I feel like that’s the same thing people told women before feminism. “You’ll never get a husband acting that way” type of stuff. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/19 08:43 PM |
| 2 | TRP guys advocate for men going their own way and then proceed to act according to gender specific rules that are based on what women like.I do think that people ultimately base thwir personality around archetypes and also that they classify ither people based on archetypes as well, but I think they’re a lot more varied than just blue and red pill. I would say that blue and red pill is an extension of cosmic duality though and that every stereotype starts on one side of that split. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/19 08:34 PM |
| 2 | TRP guys advocate for men going their own way and then proceed to act according to gender specific rules that are based on what women like.Literally fuck that noise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/19 08:10 PM |
| 1 | TRP guys advocate for men going their own way and then proceed to act according to gender specific rules that are based on what women like.Maybe. I think it has to do with people’s tendency to veer towards extremes (black and white thinking). Guys think “being nice didn’t work so being a complete prick must be the answer” without considering a middle ground. Meanwhile certain girls are thinking “Nice guys are boring and pushovers so I need a complete prick”. Basically both sides are thinking in extremes and creating a toxic situation by feeding into eachother when the answer is probably somewhere in the middle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/19 08:01 PM |
| 1 | TRP guys advocate for men going their own way and then proceed to act according to gender specific rules that are based on what women like.Ok | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/19 07:49 PM |
| 1 | TRP guys advocate for men going their own way and then proceed to act according to gender specific rules that are based on what women like.I’m saying that I wasn’t edgy even when I had two disorders that are associated with edginess (heroin addiction and psychosis). And yea, it’s fine. My psychosis has been used against me to negate things I’ve said before. It’s great because the person doesn’t even have to have a valid counterargument. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/19 07:17 PM |
| 2 | TRP guys advocate for men going their own way and then proceed to act according to gender specific rules that are based on what women like.No I don’t dress outlandishly. It’s not like Billie Eilish or Tyler the Creator. I usually contrast something bright with something dark because I like how it looks. Like a yellow sweater with dark blue jeans looks great. Or black leather jacket with yellow hoodie. And I’ve loved bright colors since I was little. I think it’s more using clothes and hair to express my personality. I dress in a lot of dark colors too though. Edit: and I’ve also always been odd and talked with a higher pitched voic… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/19 07:10 PM |
| 1 | TRP guys advocate for men going their own way and then proceed to act according to gender specific rules that are based on what women like.I’m not really at all edgy. Even when I was a heroin addict in full on psychosis, I usually acted pretty goofy and laid back. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/19 07:07 PM |
| 5 | TRP guys advocate for men going their own way and then proceed to act according to gender specific rules that are based on what women like.Yea it’s extremist. And it’s subject to group narcissism like any other ideology that builds a following. They’ll aggressively attack anything that opposes it and ignore or twist facts that contradict it. Cool name btw. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/19 06:27 PM |
| 0 | TRP guys advocate for men going their own way and then proceed to act according to gender specific rules that are based on what women like.Embracing my feminine side, being nice, acting goofy, not using perfect posture, coloring my hair, dressing in bright colors (yellow is my favorite color), talking in a somewhat high pitched voice. Basically just eschewing traditional masculinity but not completely rejecting it either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/19 06:02 PM |
| 1 | TRP guys advocate for men going their own way and then proceed to act according to gender specific rules that are based on what women like.No not at all. I’m just saying that the thing people really love is originality (as long as it’s refined and actually good). And that you don’t have to be the best at everything if you truly go your own way. You don’t have to be the wittiest if you’re witty in your own way. People will get addicted to the originality with which you deliver your jokes. Whereas if you go red pill and recycle their lines or delivery (cocky, sarcastic usually), then you have to be able to do it better than everyone … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/19 05:52 PM |
| 1 | CMV: We're all trapped in a long, drawn-out Taylor Swift song, and it's pure HellI’m fairly sure she has NPD. She reminds me so much of vulnerable npd girls I’ve known. Always playing the victim, always smearing ex lovers, frequent short and intense relationships, superficially glib and charming, fake displays of emotion, vindictive and holds grudges. Reading that scooter braun letter was like reading something my ex would say. And yea, I do think that npd behavior has entered the mainstream. For example, so many people ghost now and this is straight up an abuse tactic npd p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/19 05:41 PM |
| 2 | TRP guys advocate for men going their own way and then proceed to act according to gender specific rules that are based on what women like.Women have liked me more when I’ve directly contradicted a lot of TRP rules.Look at music as an example. You can start a band that just plays standard reggae or some shit and people will probably find it cool and you could get regionally popular. The problem here is that you have to learn how to do this better than everyone else if you want any real notoriety. You have to dress more reggae, have more thumping bass, sing better, do whatever better than everyone else because there are so many regg… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/19 05:13 PM |
| 1 | TRP guys advocate for men going their own way and then proceed to act according to gender specific rules that are based on what women like.Bullshit. It is such a restrictive ideology. There are tons of rules and they’re all based around what they think attracts women. They’re enslaved to women’s vaginas. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/19 04:54 PM |
| 1 | TRP guys advocate for men going their own way and then proceed to act according to gender specific rules that are based on what women like.So we should be however we want and not care about what women think. Take back our power. That’s what feminists did and it worked out for them. We especially need to take back our sexual power. We give it away so easily nowadays. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/19 04:52 PM |
| 1 | TRP guys advocate for men going their own way and then proceed to act according to gender specific rules that are based on what women like.Well yea I think that’s the basis of it. Pop culture popularized being a bitchy girl who goes for bad boys. Those girls went a broke a bunch of dudes hearts by going for said bad boys over them. Those dudes got pissed off and flocked to what is ultimately a poison ideology. And what’s going to happen next is that the social market is going to get inundated with trp type dudes and then there’s going to be a backlash towards people being traditionally courtly and genuine. It’s just how trends go. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/19 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Why not just support decriminalizing prostitution?It’s not substitute for the real thing. That being said, I think it’s been proven that rape rates go down in places where it’s legalized. But I also think if we didn’t have a society that was so sexually emphatic, then people wouldn’t get so depressed about not sleeping with a ton of chicks. It puts so much pressure on everyone and breeds a ton of jealousy and increasing delinquency to get sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/19 11:22 PM |
| 1 | What few Redpill truths, observations or accurate generalities do you think will become mainstream and socially accepted within the next few years?I’m not RP either. I’m somewhere in the middle. What I’m talking about is very specific. Polite society in which anything but positivity is banned, even if that positivity has to be forced. Obviously the chinese and Japanese have a strong code of etiquette, but etiquette and being compulsively kind people pleasers are two different things. I don’t have time to get into it right now because I have to sleep but, on top of what I said above, I think compulsive kindness leads to a denial of people’s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/19 04:14 AM |
| 1 | What few Redpill truths, observations or accurate generalities do you think will become mainstream and socially accepted within the next few years?I have nothing against being polite. I like polite people and I’m usually very polite. It sucks when it becomes compulsive though. When people can’t be anything but polite. That’s when it becomes toxic. I guess overly polite society is what I should have said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/19 03:29 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: Why do you phrase the shift from Alpha traits to Beta traits as a good thing?I think that when you’re young, assholes or “bad bitches” seem exciting. But as you age, that stuff just gets so tiresome and ridiculous. Plus you realize that life is very long and inherently a bit boring and that a slower paced life really isn’t that bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/19 02:23 AM |
| 2 | Being an Interesting and Engaging Person is more Important than being Nice or and AssholeNo I’m talking about dudes letting this guy get away with fucking with them. Honestly, I’m really handsome anyway so I don’t care. But I would feel guilty if that were reality. But I think there’s a lot pf variable influencing those numbers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/19 04:13 PM |
| 1 | Male depression has very little to do with relationships/dating.I think it depends on the time frame. If someones been single for 3 months and they’re blaming their depression on that, then there’s obviously an issue. But being single for 5+ years can be absolutely devastating. That’s why I don’t agree with the whole “I don’t need a man/woman to be happpy” thing. Yea, people shouldn’t use relationships as a coping mechanism. But we’re also 100% programmed to have partners and I don’t think anyone can be truly happy without it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/19 02:42 PM |
| 2 | Why do guys claim they dont like plastic surgery?I used to hate fake boobs. I thought they looked so unnatural. I remember not even thinking christina aguilera was hot anymore after she got hers done, and I had a teenage crush on her before that. I have seen some ridiculously good boob jobs since then and can see the point if it’s done right. I’m a face and personality guy mostly though. I’d take a girl with a nice face and personality over someone with big boobs or a big butt. If they have all of that then it’s obviously better but I haven’t … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/19 02:38 PM |
| 5 | Being an Interesting and Engaging Person is more Important than being Nice or and AssholeDudes really let you get away with that? I agree with turning the other cheek sometimes but there’s a line. It’s a matter of pride by that point. There’s no way you’re keeping that lighter and we’re throwing down if you don’t give it back when I tell you to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/19 02:32 PM |
| 1 | What few Redpill truths, observations or accurate generalities do you think will become mainstream and socially accepted within the next few years?This is very true. I grew up immersed in polite society. Not only do they not acknowledge their own shortcomings, but we placate and pander to eachother. It’s anti-growth. Criticism, as long as it doesn’t cross the line into abuse, can be a very good thing. Not having it breeds mediocrity and honestly makes a lot of people extremely sensitive to criticism because they’ve never experienced it. I don’t trust what a lot of people say because I know they’re just saying what I want to hear. It really… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/19 02:28 PM |
| 1 | Most men have a fundamental misunderstanding of what women experience sexuallyI don’t get that mentality. Isn’t it just fun to make someone else feel good? I feel good if they feel good. Plus it’s like an art form or a game or something and I always wanna be as good as I can at anything I like doing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/19 03:40 PM |
| 5 | Most men have a fundamental misunderstanding of what women experience sexuallyTrue | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/19 03:11 AM |
| 8 | Most men have a fundamental misunderstanding of what women experience sexuallyYea. A connection makes it really hot regardless of how good the two people are. There’s a lack of communication in hookup culture too. Sometimes because people are really sensitive about their sexual performance and take any advice as a criticism/insult. I imagine men could be a lot worse with that than women actually. It’s a lot better when you can just slow things down and talk about what you actually like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/19 03:10 AM |
| 78 | Most men have a fundamental misunderstanding of what women experience sexuallyOn the flip side of that, a lot of women suck at sex too. Some can’t emotionally connect. Some just lay there. Some literally can’t get on top without feeling incredibly self-conscious. Some will ride in a way that puts your penis at a painful angle. Gripping the penis way too tight during head or stroking is another common mistake. I’ve also not enjoyed it and wished that I had spent the night watching movies with someone I actually like instead of doing a completely unfulfilling sexual act. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/19 03:03 AM |
| 1 | What personality traits do guys like in girls?I like all sorts of shit. In my biology class, there’s one girl who’s really funny and sarcastic about her issues. Then there’s another girl who’s quiet and odd. And another girl who just gives off this overwhelmingly sweet vibe. I find all 3 of them attractive. Ultimately I’d like a girl that embodies as many good traits as possible, even if they’re conflicting. For example, confident and brash people usuAlly aren’t that tactful or sensitive, but I think that’s because most people build their p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/19 05:41 AM |
| 2 | that whole "well maybe if you didn't have such a low view of women you'd actually get laid" is the most annoying thing blue pillers say. i mean what's up with that perspective, it's such provable horse shit.Because there’s a difference between red pill woman hate and incel woman hate. The incel hate is just bitter and depressing and scary whereas red pill guys channel their hate into confidence. Not hating on incels when I say that because I have empathy for them but that is how it looks from the outside. I can guarantee you that having a poor view of women will ruin your chances with a lot of women though, and those women are usually the good ones. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/19 05:27 AM |
| 2 | Why does TRP invoke such...PURE RAGE?I’m not red pill, and think the real answer lies somewhere between red pill and blue pill (which is why I’m here), but I can explain why it enrages people. It’s because it threatens a delusion that a lot of people need to survive. That the world isn’t this complex place where everyone haS the capacity to be shitty. That they themselves don’t have a dark side that they’re repressing (the jungian shadow). A lot of people create this image of themselves as perfectly moral and truly believe they hav… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/19 10:40 PM |
| 1 | Red pill guys, do you ever worry about what old age will be like?No I was just really lost and got wrapped up in a world that I really didn't belong in and it corrupted me and now I'm having trouble finding my way back. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/19 02:35 AM |
| 1 | Red pill guys, do you ever worry about what old age will be like?Well I think it was Tobi Vail that really fucked him up but Courtney love was also clearly not the most healthy parner to pick. I personally suspect they had NPD and BPD respectively. Codependency and mutual drug abuse are also an incredibly toxic combination. The couple will endlessly feed eachothers bad behavior. I’ve done a lot of research on Kurt though and I think his issues were very complicated. I was obsessed with him for a while. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/19 04:54 PM |
| 1 | Red pill guys, do you ever worry about what old age will be like?They’re no substitute for the real thing. Ask anyone who’s been to them and they say they’ll leave you feeling empty. I can say thats true from personal experience. I dont even include them in my n count because it just wasn’t fun unless the girl was into me. I honestly think the girls like you described in your original post leave you feeling empty too. And that things just need to keep progressing into more degrading acts until it gets ridiculous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/19 04:33 PM |
| 1 | Red pill guys, do you ever worry about what old age will be like?I don’t think it’s that easy. Remember that even if you fill a niche, so do a bunch of other guys. There’s always going to be intense sexual competition for men, unless you are hyper unique and fill a niche that no one else does or can. Among other things but I’m at the gym and too lazy to type out a whole thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/19 04:29 PM |
| 1 | Red pill guys, do you ever worry about what old age will be like?Yea but that’s clearly specific daddy issues. Have a fat, deadbeat, abusive dad and that’s what you’ll be attracted to until you do the work to heal. I know because I was attracted to toxic older women until I started to heal. If this guy is particularly good at finding girls that fit his niche then I could see him getting a decent amount of ass but I would be surprised if he found more than 5 or so such situations in his lifetime. Edit: it’s an also an extension of a need to be degraded to an e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/19 04:21 PM |
| 11 | If woman are so selfish during romantic relationships, why are they less likely to leave a sick spouse and more likely to donate organs to a spouse?Because they’re not. They’re just hella complicated, like men. So complicated that we can’t understand them with the current knowledge we have. In lieu of that, some people turn to a black and white ideology to make sense of it. And also probably because some girl broke their heart with an assholeish dude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/19 06:31 AM |
| 1 | Red pill guys, do you ever worry about what old age will be like?“It’s better to burn out than fade away”. It’s from a Neil Young song. Kurt Cobain wrote it on his suicide note. Not sure it’s the best advice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/19 05:59 AM |
| 2 | Red pill guys, do you ever worry about what old age will be like?Lol thanks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/19 05:50 AM |
| 2 | Red pill guys, do you ever worry about what old age will be like?“Cuz I’m your suupppeerr herrooo, we are standing on the edge.” Brilliant | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/19 05:45 AM |
| 3 | Red pill guys, do you ever worry about what old age will be like?It’s not that simple. My childhood fucked me up. We moved a bunch, including completely switching cultures at a pivotal time in my development (I’m originally British). Plus I had an alcoholic, pill addict mom that is definitely on the npd spectrum and codependent dad with anger problems who would regularly go through period where they’d scream at eachother for a few weeks and then just go back to pretending like everythings fine. Both were also completely emotionally unavailable to the point th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/19 05:38 AM |
| 1 | Red pill guys, do you ever worry about what old age will be like?That’s a good way to look at it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/19 05:12 AM |
| 1 | Red pill guys, do you ever worry about what old age will be like?Yea but if a girl broke your heart because you were too much of a dick, and blue pill wasn’t looked down upon, then former red pill guys would end up there. I think the underlying factor is a sense of grief (sometimes manifested as anger) and the vulnerability that goes hand in hand with it. Guys lose a girl(s) to a douche and they’re looking for some way to explain what happened and escape the feelings. TRP comes a long and provides an over-simplified explanation and an outlet for all their ang… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/19 05:07 AM |
| 1 | Red pill guys, do you ever worry about what old age will be like?Sorry. I imagine that would be really scary to think about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/19 04:54 AM |
| 1 | Red pill guys, do you ever worry about what old age will be like?I’m not chad. I could’ve been Chad if my childhood had gone differently. I have the face and the body type. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/19 04:30 AM |
| 1 | Red pill guys, do you ever worry about what old age will be like?Wait until they’re saying bigoted shit or being horrible and they still don’t give a fuck. Wait until they do it in a situation that’s completely inappropriate as well. And overly nice people are often a boiling pot of repressed rage that they’re literally unable to express. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/19 04:25 AM |
| 1 | Red pill guys, do you ever worry about what old age will be like?They have a certain appeal, but are also obnoxious in a lot of ways. Just like overly nice old guys have a certain appeal, but can also be off-putting in certain ways. It’s a paradox. Or people just need to figure out how to walk the middle ground. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/19 04:09 AM |
| 2 | Red pill guys, do you ever worry about what old age will be like?It depends. Some dudes really are just alpha, but it’s not what people think it is. The dudes who walk around with their chest puffed out and do that stiff, robotic shoulder sway with each step look ridiculous. The dudes who really just dgaf and like themselves, and thus are liked by everyone, are probably the real alphas. Although I think the definition of alpha is sort of archaic since I think these are the dudes that men and women really like but I also don’t think these guys really try to be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/19 04:07 AM |
| 2 | Red pill guys, do you ever worry about what old age will be like?A woman literally listened to my endless psychotic rantings, put up with me kicking her out of my house because I thought she was a trickster god, put up with me wandering around the mofa looking for clues that supported my delusions and a bunch of other shit. And still was nothing but positive and encouraging. She also gave me money when I decided to move to LA. I was convinced I was in a simulation designed to torture me when I met her and I had a rope tied in a noose and tree I had tested it’… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/19 04:01 AM |
| 2 | Red pill guys, do you ever worry about what old age will be like?If I had to pick one, I’d probably have to go with Nude. But I have literally been obsessed with this band for a long time and there a bunch of songs that wouldn’t be far behind. What about you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/19 03:40 AM |
| 3 | Red pill guys, do you ever worry about what old age will be like?Yea they’re one of those bands that’s so good that they almost make you believe in god because it’s hard to believe something so beautiful can form in an indifferent and unguided universe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/19 03:23 AM |
| 1 | Red pill guys, do you ever worry about what old age will be like?When did I say that? I’m actually really popular with girls. My biggest problem is that I’m broken inside and have trouble getting close to anyone unless they’re toxic or I’m in a psychotic episode, which lowers my inhibitions. Genetics wise I’m tall, handsome, athletic and smart. I’m also from a lineage of extremely hard working men (construction workers). My biggest genetic downfall is the addiction and mental illness running (mostly) down my mother’s side. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/19 03:15 AM |
| 2 | Red pill guys, do you ever worry about what old age will be like?Maybe I’m trying to talk myself the cognitive dissonance caused by the trp ideology because it’s had a negative impact on my life and has caused me to act like something I’m not. Maybe I just want people to reaffirm my viewpoint to quell my doubts. Not even the trp ideology i guess since I’ve permanently adopted some of it. More just seeking casual sex. I just wanna be able to settle down with someone without constantly questioning if I’m bullshitting myself and wondering jf I should get out of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/19 02:56 AM |
| 1 | Red pill guys, do you ever worry about what old age will be like?Maybe | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/19 02:52 AM |
| 1 | Red pill guys, do you ever worry about what old age will be like?Yo my hair looks dope as fuck and radiohead are the shit. Thom Yorke actually explores the complications created by human duality and tries to express it sonically as a way of coping with the cognitive dissonance. Which is way better than just buying into a polarized ideology. The latter is taking the easy way out and is arguably (and ironically) a sign of mental weakness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/19 02:50 AM |
| 1 | Red pill guys, do you ever worry about what old age will be like?Oh, well red pill guys have responded to my posts here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/19 02:31 AM |
| 2 | Red pill guys, do you ever worry about what old age will be like?Lol honestly it’s a lot easier | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/19 02:30 AM |
| 2 | Red pill guys, do you ever worry about what old age will be like?I didn’t see a lot of humility last time I went there | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/19 01:30 AM |
| 2 | Red pill guys, do you ever worry about what old age will be like?Mine don’t. A lot of couples I know have dead bedrooms I suspect. But then again, a lot of the people I know tend to not communicate well and just avoid problems and hope for the best. So I guess any sexual problems would be no different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/19 01:28 AM |
| 1 | Red pill guys, do you ever worry about what old age will be like?I have heard about that. But look at it this way. How many 65+ people do you know? How many of them do you think are getting laid? Even people with partners probably aren’t getting laid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/19 01:17 AM |
| 1 | Red pill guys, do you ever worry about what old age will be like?No I’m not arguing for bluepill. I agree there is an alarming trend in society with men, and that being overly ingratiating or passive is just flat out wrong. I guess that’s why I’m on this sub. I just really don’t think trp will work. But yea, getting old will possibly suck a lot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/19 01:15 AM |
| 1 | Red pill guys, do you ever worry about what old age will be like?My anxiety is ok now, it used to be horrible. I have obsessive type thinking though. When I get into something, I tend to get consumed by it, and trp was no different. I was in therapy for years and I don’t think there’s any fixing the obsessive thoughts. It’s jist the way some people are. I think it’s just hyper-focus, which is something that adhd/autistic people get. It can actually be a really good thing if the person learns how to channel it. Maybe there should be an exit plan or something. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/19 01:06 AM |
| 1 | Red pill guys, do you ever worry about what old age will be like?The point is that 65+ guys aren’t able to be alpha or really fuck a lot of girls anymore and that conflicts with trp | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/19 12:53 AM |
| 0 | Red pill guys, do you ever worry about what old age will be like?I dunno, I think I was pretty accurate. I know the being alpha thing is definitely a big part of the ideology and that the getting women is looked at as the result of being alpha. Obv there’s a lot of other things too, like lifting and dressing good and whatnot. But that was sort of my point. Let’s say the base point to trp is improving your relations with women. Eventually fucking women isn’t going to be a big part, or really any part, of day to day life for the majority of us. Which obviously … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/19 12:51 AM |
| 1 | Red pill guys, do you ever worry about what old age will be like?Yea I know exactly what you’re talking about. I’m 32 and I’ve finally become very aware of the effects my choice are going to have in old age. I also quit smoking and started really taking care of myself.I used to do stuff like sometimes lift with my back because I was being lazy and was still young enough that I still believed I was basically invincible. But lately I won’t do stuff like that no matter what. I even started moisturizing and shit. I think the catalyst was severely damaging my voic… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/19 12:39 AM |
| 0 | Red pill guys, do you ever worry about what old age will be like?Maybe that wasn’t the best wording. I guess I just meant that all the old guys who seem to enjoy themselves look like they don’t give a single shit about being alpha, which is the opposite of the whole point of trp. I could be wrong though. I admittedly haven’t been there in a long time. That place will fuck with your head | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/19 12:34 AM |
| 3 | Red pill guys, do you ever worry about what old age will be like?Yea I guess I used an extreme example. I would also never want to be the old guy that’s shitting himself and can’t walk. But I guess the point was that someone who humbles himself in old age is gonna have a much better time than someone who still tries to be alpha. Even if they’re both physically able. The 65+!guy trying to be alpha is just gonna look like a joke. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/19 12:20 AM |
| 4 | Red pill guys, do you ever worry about what old age will be like?Yea that’s true. Having someone to talk to about stuff and always be in your corner is really nice. It’s one of the reasons I don’t wanna go for casual shit anymore. I just want someone to be there for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/19 12:18 AM |
| 1 | Red pill guys, do you ever worry about what old age will be like?Lol I remember that my plan used to be that I was going to just take an incredible amount of drugs in old age, but now I think it could be worthwhile if I can get the right mindset. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/19 12:16 AM |
| 1 | Men are completely bullshit about how often they get laidGetting a woman on a date and an 80% success rate with any woman you approach are two different things. But 80% for a woman you get in a date is also way high. The average woman who goes on a lot of dates would probably say she sleeps with 5-10% max. So unless you are unbelievably, absurdly, ridiculously handsome and charming, 80% is just not at all feasible. Drake probable doesn’t even have that high of a success rate with the instagram girls he takes out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/19 05:28 PM |
| 1 | Men are completely bullshit about how often they get laidYes I think there’s a lot of misconceptions about getting laid at the bar or the club. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/19 04:44 PM |
| 1 | Men are completely bullshit about how often they get laidYes but certain circumstances can make it hard to ignore. Take for example someone who’s suffered a traumatic, ego-shattering rejection (or just trauma in general). This person is very vulnerable and looking for a way to make sense of what happened, stabilize their world view and alleviate their feelings. Which makes it hard to ignore things that are feeding into their already wounded ego. Enter something like TRP and the dude will grab onto it because it’s a quick way to escape his shattered wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/19 04:24 PM |
| 1 | Men are completely bullshit about how often they get laidNo I don’t worry about it that much anymore, but it does still bother me at times. I went through a phase where I got obsessed with it though and felt like I was missing out on some party that 50% of other dudes were invited to. Then I would project, and posture and bring up the girls I did fuck way too often in an attempt to ease the rampant insecurity it was causing. I think this is a common problem nowadays. I feel like dudes all pretending they get laid so easy was partially responsible for … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/19 04:14 PM |
| 1 | Men are completely bullshit about how often they get laidLol if you met me, you wouldn’t think I hide behind a persona. Obviously I have a lot of pain that it would be stupid to wear on my sleeve, but I literally put almost 0 effort into trying to be what people want me to be anymore. It was exhausting and honestly people like me a lot kore when I act however I want anyway. I’m not exactly open about shit I’ve been through, but I don’t try to hide the fact that I’m obviously fucked up either. When I say persona, I mean an overly constructed one that’s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/19 03:51 PM |
| 1 | Men are completely bullshit about how often they get laidMy wording was bad. I meant I’m not looking for validation that I’m right or to feel better. My life is so goddamn fucked that I just really don’t care anymore. I’m basically a nihilist that clings unhopefully to some extremely sincere beliefs. I’m literally on my way to the gym now though and also in school. I also know how to play guitar and was a really good singer before I started to lose my voice (but it can still sound really good). I’m actually good at a lot of things and have a lot of in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/19 03:43 PM |
| 1 | Men are completely bullshit about how often they get laidYea no doubt there are actually people who are wildly successful. It’s just far from the standard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/19 03:28 PM |
| 1 | Men are completely bullshit about how often they get laidI adjusted for variables. Not very well but I did adjust. I guarantee that if you could get honest reporting on the approach to sex ratio and number of hours invested, that they would be closer to the numbers I came up with than what men report. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/19 03:22 PM |
| 1 | Men are completely bullshit about how often they get laidI’m a complete teetotaler now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/19 03:16 PM |
| 1 | Men are completely bullshit about how often they get laidNo one has an 80% success rate. It’s just not feasible except in extremely rare circumstances. Girls are generally extremely picky. And that’s a biological fact, not an opinion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/19 03:11 PM |
| 1 | Men are completely bullshit about how often they get laidRight and I bet they were all 10s too? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/19 03:00 PM |
| 1 | Men are completely bullshit about how often they get laidUmm I acknowledged the (very few) statistics and presented a counterargument. Kinda feel like you’re a bit bias here because you don’t like what I’m saying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/19 02:58 PM |
| 1 | Men are completely bullshit about how often they get laidIt shouldn’t be that way though. We shouldn’t have to feel the need to pretend we’re a don juan to feel ok. The numbers just put things in perspective. I feel like they make things more impactful than just saying “dudes lie”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/19 02:56 PM |
| 1 | Men are completely bullshit about how often they get laidYea I lived with a guy in LA that was the same. He was good looking, tall and pretty ripped. Constantly making comments about getting head from girls or fucking some girl and everyone else in the house treated him like he was a player. Meanwhile I never saw him with a girl and he almost never went out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/19 02:53 PM |
| 1 | Men are completely bullshit about how often they get laidAll penises are like that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/19 02:50 PM |
| 1 | Men are completely bullshit about how often they get laidNo I’m speaking idealistically. I probably wouldn’t give a shit what a girls count was if I really liked her. I just think that the type of girls I best get a long with might see me as something I’m not because of the shit I’ve done. Which was all sort of a fluke that was set in motion by an almost perfect storm of shitty life circumstances. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/19 02:49 PM |
| 2 | Men are completely bullshit about how often they get laidExactly. But a lot of guys don’t realize how full of shit other dudes are and they feel like something js wrong with them when they can’t figure out how to bang a bunch of 8s. Which is bullshit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/19 02:41 PM |
| 1 | Men are completely bullshit about how often they get laidHis post was filled with personal insults... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/19 02:39 PM |
| 1 | Men are completely bullshit about how often they get laidYea probably but I feel like it’s less likely. Maybe I’m being ridiculous though. I just used to be a nerdy shut in and any girl like that probably isn’t going to get around. What does APALT mean? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/19 02:36 PM |
| 1 | Men are completely bullshit about how often they get laidYes. Here and @ TRP are really bad about it. You can infer it based on the way they talk. Someone who actually gets laid a lot probably wouldn’t feel the need to constantly remind people of that fact. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/19 02:34 PM |
| -1 | Men are completely bullshit about how often they get laidNo I really don’t care anymore. Like about anything, not just the logistics of sex. I just want dudes to know how bullshit other guys are so they stop comparing themselves to something that’s often not real. Thanks for the kind response though. You’re too sweet, really. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/19 02:27 PM |
| -1 | Men are completely bullshit about how often they get laidLol, 80% success rate? Right.... The number of hours per girl was 6 btw, the other numbers factored in wasted time with girls you didn’t fuck. And not to sound like a dick but I’m cute as shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/19 02:25 PM |
| 1 | Men are completely bullshit about how often they get laidBecause I’m still an innocent type of person at my core. I just happened to go insane and ended up doing a bunch of corrupted shit and hanging out with the dregs of society. I still get a long best with the innocent, awkward, goofy girls and they usually have low n counts. That’s still what my personality is. I’ve just also seen A LOT of shit now and am sort of a fucked up contradiction of a person because of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/19 02:18 PM |
| 1 | Men are completely bullshit about how often they get laidFirst, the dudes claiming they’re doing that every week are full of shit a lot of the time (not saying it doesn’t happen). I lived with a dude who always talked about how much he got laid. He almost never left the house and I never saw him with a girl. He was good looking and pretty ripped too. Your cousin is the exception to the rule too. But I did the numbers based on if you look for a girl who’s n count was 100 and the odds were still shit. Even with your cousin, she can be very selective and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/19 02:12 PM |
| 1 | Men are completely bullshit about how often they get laidI’ve been completely sober for 11 months. Caffeine is the closest thing to a drug that I use. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/19 02:06 PM |
| 1 | Men are completely bullshit about how often they get laidYea. I think they’re just backtracking because this post called them on their shit and they don’t want to admit it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/19 02:04 PM |
| 1 | Men are completely bullshit about how often they get laidRight, here’s a video where David Icke claims that all the world’s elite are shapeshifting lizards. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=1w2dMekIJLw I guess it must be true as well? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/19 02:04 PM |
| 2 | Should People Who Can't Get Laid At Will Post in this Sub?Embrace it! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/19 08:54 AM |
| 1 | Should People Who Can't Get Laid At Will Post in this Sub?Yea I dunno. To each their own I guess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/19 08:52 AM |
| 1 | Should People Who Can't Get Laid At Will Post in this Sub?Yea I will agree that men should be more masculine than feminine by quite a bit. But having a feminine side is fuckin fun too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/19 08:47 AM |
| 1 | Should People Who Can't Get Laid At Will Post in this Sub?Oh. Yea I dunno. I used to get turned on by Women that were fucking awful. Then I realized it was because of my relationship with my mom. I know Russia is big on men being overtly masculine so I would say it’s possible that you like it for the same reason I liked shit women, because it’s what you grew up being taught to like. Maybe it’s just who you are too though. And it’s whatever. I can see the validity in sticking to strict gender roles. I can also see why girls like really masculine dudes. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/19 08:41 AM |
| 1 | Should People Who Can't Get Laid At Will Post in this Sub?Personally i like Jung’s theory of the Anima and Animus. That every man has a latent feminine side and vice versa. I like my feminine side. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/19 08:35 AM |
| 0 | Men are completely bullshit about how often they get laidActually fuck it, let’s use odds again. Let’s say 50% approach, and 2% of those to home with a woman. That makes a 4% success rate. Or you could expect to get laid 1 in every 25 nights you go out. Still shit odds. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/19 08:29 AM |
| 1 | Men are completely bullshit about how often they get laidQuite a few. Dudes in Boston have gotten pretty bold at least. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/19 08:20 AM |
| 1 | Should People Who Can't Get Laid At Will Post in this Sub?You don’t feel more strongly for certain people? I’m odd and have odd interests and when I meet someone who’s odd in a similar way, I feel a lot stronger about them than I do other women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/19 08:18 AM |
| 1 | Should People Who Can't Get Laid At Will Post in this Sub?What do you feel about people like Prince and David Bowie? Guys who embraced their feminine side? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/19 08:16 AM |
| 3 | Men are completely bullshit about how often they get laidYea I’ve been to the club a decent amount. I would say that, on any given night, about 1-2% of dudes that go end up leaving with a girl. Sounds like pretty shit odds to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/19 08:04 AM |
| 1 | Should People Who Can't Get Laid At Will Post in this Sub?Haven’t you ever just like held someones hand and it felt really good and like the whole made sense for a second? Don’t you feel like worrying about all the stuff you just said is gonna cloud your mind and prevent you from feeling like that ever again? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/19 07:56 AM |
| 1 | Should People Who Can't Get Laid At Will Post in this Sub?I dunno. Do whatever you want. I’m tired and I have to get up in 4 hours so I’m going to bed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/19 07:52 AM |
| 1 | Men are completely bullshit about how often they get laidAnd I would agree. I’ve almost never had sex with someone I wasn’t friends with. And the few times I did, I didn’t enjoy it honestly. People in the casual sex community are always acting like it’s easy though. I would argue that it’s still hard even for dudes who get laid a lot by societies standards. Say a dude sleeps with 50 girls in 10 years of sexual availability. That’s still only 5 a year, or less than one every two months. Meaning that dude spent a lot of time not getting laid. I think it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/19 07:47 AM |
| 2 | Should People Who Can't Get Laid At Will Post in this Sub?I’m a dude. That’s why I got banned. I guess almost all social interaction is a form of barter at it’s most basic level. I just feel like it’s dangerous to follow rules when it comes to something as complicated as trying to find love (assuming that’s what you want). What if you get all hypergamous with someone that you’d be happy with and ruin it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/19 07:40 AM |
| 1 | Men are completely bullshit about how often they get laidGoo-gel? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/19 07:36 AM |
| 0 | Men are completely bullshit about how often they get laidBut looking at it in terms of odds like that provides perspective right? Dudes act like you can just walk into a bar and get laid. But I’ve been to tons of fuckin bars and dance clubs and I honestly don’t see dudes getting laid that often. The Royale in Boston is basically ancient rome in dance club form. I went a few times recently and I would say on average 1% of the men that go there to get laid actually do. Yet men go to these places and feel like there’s something wrong with them because th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/19 07:35 AM |
| 0 | Men are completely bullshit about how often they get laidBut you can’t argue with the fact that odds-wise, the chances of a girl fucking you, and thus adding another d to her tally, are not good. And that this contradicts what the male population says about getting laid (that it’s not hard). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/19 07:19 AM |
| 1 | Men are completely bullshit about how often they get laidJust wondering. I don’t even know what CMV means and google didn’t tell me. What does it mean? I think that even if a mathematician did similar calculations based on more accurate numbers, they would still come to the conclusion that getting laid is a lot harder than the male population lets on. For example, what percentage of men that have tried to get with you have you slept with? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/19 07:15 AM |
| 1 | Men are completely bullshit about how often they get laidI dunno. What is the point of this ridiculous life? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/19 07:08 AM |
| 0 | Men are completely bullshit about how often they get laidI’m just trying to figure out if you have reasons to be upset with the point I was trying to get across. Or why you even bothered to comment to tell me it sucked in the first olace. I did look through your profile though. Is that you in the picture you drew? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/19 07:06 AM |
| 0 | Men are completely bullshit about how often they get laidI’m just saying that the concepts are solid even if the numbers are just guesses. Breaking it down into terms of odds of fucking any given girl and hours needed to sleep with each girl puts things in perspective. Are you redpill? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/19 07:03 AM |
| 2 | Should People Who Can't Get Laid At Will Post in this Sub?Just any of it. It’s just awful. Your vagina isn’t a commodity. Femaledatingstrategy banned me. Those cunts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/19 07:02 AM |
| 0 | Men are completely bullshit about how often they get laidI think it’s pretty good for off the cuff shit. I don’t really care enough to go through your post history though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/19 06:54 AM |
| 1 | Should People Who Can't Get Laid At Will Post in this Sub?Yea I don’t agree with basically any of that. Wtf is FDS? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/19 06:49 AM |
| 1 | Men are completely bullshit about how often they get laidI just posted about it. Honestly I wish I could go back to being pure though. I feel like I might have to hide that number (not that it’s even that high) from the type of girl I want now. If I hadn’t gone insane and gotten into drugs, then I would’ve stayed innocent (and honestly naive) and would’ve settled down with a girl that had a low n count as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/19 06:46 AM |
| -2 | Men are completely bullshit about how often they get laidIt’s possible. Sometimes I do feel insecure about it. I’ve slept with around 23 girls (and a few others that didn’t get to sex). But I also didn’t lose my virginity until my 20s and balked at a shit load of opportunities because I was a completely broken human who could barely let other humans touch me back then. And by opportunities I mean 20+ clear as day chances, including being straight up propositioned a few times and having a girl (that I wanted to sleep with) straight up grab my junk. It … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/19 06:38 AM |
| 1 | Should People Who Can't Get Laid At Will Post in this Sub?I erred on the side of generosity with all the numbers to prove a point and so that people would be less likely to criticize my numbers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/19 06:23 AM |
| 0 | Men are completely bullshit about how often they get laidI would bet $100 you’re a dude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/19 06:15 AM |
| 1 | Men are completely bullshit about how often they get laidOh snap, that was someone else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/19 06:06 AM |
| -2 | Men are completely bullshit about how often they get laidI just don’t see how you got insecurity from the quote you provided. Sure, I’m insecure about some stuff, but also really confident about other stuff. And overall I actually really like myself (excluding bouts of self-hatred for being a prick in the past) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/19 06:02 AM |
| 1 | Men are completely bullshit about how often they get laidIf dudes are getting laid so much then why do they always feel the need to bring up some girl they fucked whenever another guy talks about getting laid? It’s all posturing bullshit because every dude feels insecure about how many girls he’s slept with. Every dude feels insecure about how many girls he’s slept with because we all keep pretending like we can get laid so easily. So we should just all stop it and admit that it’s really hard for 99% of us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/19 05:57 AM |
| 1 | Should People Who Can't Get Laid At Will Post in this Sub?https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.insider.com/average-sex-number-a-person-has-2017-8 Seven according to this. But women do lie. Go crazy and say the average is 50 and your odds are still shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/19 05:51 AM |
| -4 | Men are completely bullshit about how often they get laidLol, ok? Maybe projecting a bit there? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/19 05:46 AM |
| 2 | Should People Who Can't Get Laid At Will Post in this Sub?I seriously question sexual liberation because I dunno if girls can sleep with a random guy without feeling shitty, or at least somewhat conflicted about it, afterwards. I was in a band with a girl who was promiscuous and she just couldn’t help herself. I feel bad for her actually. She did it to escape and then she’d always feel awful afterwards. Just stuck in a cycle of shame, which I get as a former addict. But yea, that’s what I mean. If you’re above average looks, with an average n count (is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/19 05:44 AM |
| -7 | Men are completely bullshit about how often they get laidThis clearly really pissed you off. A civil argument would be better but whatever. They do say that the more upset someone gets over something, the more likely it’s hit a nerve though. I think it’s possible this post challenges your schema or your idealized internal image of yourself and that’s why you’re so angry. And I’m not sure where all those assumptions are coming from because you don’t even know me. I’m not going to respond to all of them because they’re baseless and besides the point. Bu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/19 05:23 AM |
| 2 | Men are completely bullshit about how often they get laidWhat’s ONS? Is there like a dictionary or something so I can stop asking about terms? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/19 05:01 AM |
| 1 | Should People Who Can't Get Laid At Will Post in this Sub?I did the numbers out for promiscuous girls anyway. But factor in religious girls, girls that get married young and girls that only have sex in committed relationships and 20 is a very generous number. A lot of people on this sub have a skewed view of women but they’re not all chad-crazed sex demons. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/19 04:54 AM |
| 7 | Should People Who Can't Get Laid At Will Post in this Sub?Men are incredibly bullshit about how often they get laid. The fact is that it's extremely hard to get laid. Let's look at it mathematically. Lets say the average girl sleeps with 20 guys in her lifetime, which is probably pushing it because a lot of girls barely sleep with anyone. And let's say that the average girl is also sexually available (has reached maturity and is single or poly for 10 years of her life). So that means that there are 3,650 days in which this woman is going to sleep with … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/19 04:16 AM |
| 4 | Women have much more fragile egos than menI didn’t read all this but I think both are sensitive in different ways. When women make fun of the male ego, they’re talking about our incredibly frail sense of masculinity. Men are admittedly ridiculous with that shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/19 04:17 AM |
| 1 | Men act like women are so ridiculous for going for shitty dudes, but men do the same thing with shitty women.I’m a former fat person who lost a bunch of weight and I have a great personality. It does fuck you up though. Theres a toughness you have to have when you’re attractive and I didnt have that because I never needed it so people’s bullshit got to me. Plus before I just didnt think anyone wanted to fuck me anyway so I just acted and dressed however I wanted. But when I started to think I had a chance, I started pandering to girls which is completely counterintuitive anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/19 02:14 AM |
| 3 | Men act like women are so ridiculous for going for shitty dudes, but men do the same thing with shitty women.(Including butt stuff) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/19 06:38 PM |
| 2 | Men act like women are so ridiculous for going for shitty dudes, but men do the same thing with shitty women.(All night long) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/19 06:38 PM |
| 2 | Men act like women are so ridiculous for going for shitty dudes, but men do the same thing with shitty women.(I’m implying that we did sex) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/19 06:38 PM |
| 2 | Men act like women are so ridiculous for going for shitty dudes, but men do the same thing with shitty women.Your mom wasn’t too shitty last night | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/19 06:37 PM |
| 1 | Men act like women are so ridiculous for going for shitty dudes, but men do the same thing with shitty women.I dunno. I was severely depressed at the time so it could’ve been that. I might like it if I try again. I remember feeling overwhelmed by the depth of it and being too lazy to look everything up, which is weird because I usually get obsessive about stuff. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/19 06:12 PM |
| 2 | Men act like women are so ridiculous for going for shitty dudes, but men do the same thing with shitty women.Oh, I didn’t know that. There’s still a million other songs about dudes going for awful women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/19 05:28 PM |
| 1 | Men act like women are so ridiculous for going for shitty dudes, but men do the same thing with shitty women.Well NPD is a lot more prominent in men but that’s also because of a gender bias when diagnosing. It’s a lot easier for a woman narcissist to go unnoticed because no one expects a woman to be like that. I went to court with a narcissist and it was disgusting. I live in the most liberal, feminist state in the US (MA) and ended up with a female judge and D.A. It was literally a joke. They didn’t want to hear anything I had to say, and took her word on everything. To them, I was the abusive, mental… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/19 05:21 PM |
| 1 | Men act like women are so ridiculous for going for shitty dudes, but men do the same thing with shitty women.No I think society needs to hold them accountable. If someone falls for it multiple times then it sort of starts to become their fault. But some women can literally be savage to a dude that they lead on. Literally teasing him and then doing depraved acts with a dude she knows he would hate for maximum damage. That can fuck up someone for a long time. It fucks up your pride, your sense of masculinity, your ability to trust and taps into some seriously volatile primal jealousy. 50 years ago, women… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/19 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Men act like women are so ridiculous for going for shitty dudes, but men do the same thing with shitty women.I couldn’t get into Persona | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/19 05:02 PM |
| 3 | Men act like women are so ridiculous for going for shitty dudes, but men do the same thing with shitty women.I imagine thinking that way would make me feel pretty empty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/19 08:51 AM |
| 3 | Men act like women are so ridiculous for going for shitty dudes, but men do the same thing with shitty women.I’ll check it out. Cool covers btw. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/19 06:57 AM |
| 1 | Men act like women are so ridiculous for going for shitty dudes, but men do the same thing with shitty women.Does it relate to what I’m talking about? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/19 06:48 AM |
| 1 | “RP” stands for role playI think all guys do this to some degree | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/19 04:43 AM |
| 2 | Men act like women are so ridiculous for going for shitty dudes, but men do the same thing with shitty women.Oh. You should. They were pretty good. And yea I liked both Ni No Kunis a lot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/19 04:34 AM |
| 6 | Men act like women are so ridiculous for going for shitty dudes, but men do the same thing with shitty women.Yea I know what you mean. They’re elusive and have the same anxieties a lot of dudes have which makes it extra hard to get close to one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/19 04:31 AM |
| 3 | Men act like women are so ridiculous for going for shitty dudes, but men do the same thing with shitty women.I’m old so I grew up when all the classics were coming out. Earthbound, Chrono Trigger, Basically every FF game, A few DQ games, Secret of Mana, Dark Cloud 1/2, Xenogears, Pokemon and a bunch of others I can’t remember right now. I tried playing a Fire Emblem game once but I couldn’t get into the tactics games. Except for FF tactics on GBA which I liked for some reason. I played the original Kingdom Hearts too but didn’t finish it. Oh and Zelda obviously but I don’t know if that counts as a JRPG… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/19 04:18 AM |
| 3 | Men act like women are so ridiculous for going for shitty dudes, but men do the same thing with shitty women.Listen to some female musicians. This is from Severed Crossed Fingers by St. Vincent. It’s basically one big expression of empathy. “When you're calling ain't calling back to you I'll be side stage, mouthing lines for you Humiliated by age, terrified of youth I got hope but my hope isn't helping you Spitting out guts from their gears Draining our spleen over years Found my severed crossed fingers in the rubble there Wake up puddle eyed, sleeping in the suit The truth is ugly, well I feel ugly to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/19 03:59 AM |
| 7 | Men act like women are so ridiculous for going for shitty dudes, but men do the same thing with shitty women.I get it. I’m almost 32 and honestly just done with it at this point. Girls like that just annoy me now and I make a point to not even acknowledge them (which only make them try to get my attention more because they’re ridiculous). But some people will surprise you with their sexual prowess. I knew a girl that was a complete nerd and literally hadn’t been with anyone in years when I met her but she was like some sort of savant orally. Plus genuine intimacy just makes everything so much hotter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/19 03:31 AM |
| 9 | Men act like women are so ridiculous for going for shitty dudes, but men do the same thing with shitty women.I guess if you look at that as a source of fun. I dunno if it’s a sustainable form of entertainment though. There’s lots of girls who have no idea how to tease or even act sexual that are hilarious though. Girls that had really weird upbringings that left them sort of unable to socialize properly but also made them incredibly unique and entertaining to be around if you can get them to be themselves. Give me a girl like that over a girl who knows how to tease any day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/19 03:04 AM |
| 9 | Men act like women are so ridiculous for going for shitty dudes, but men do the same thing with shitty women.Lol it would be great | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/19 02:45 AM |
| 2 | Men act like women are so ridiculous for going for shitty dudes, but men do the same thing with shitty women.I thought ni no kuni 1 had a good concept. It was like pokemon mixed with final fantasy basically. And yea the art was rad. The second one was good too. The kingdom building mode was addicting. Ultimately I think that every idea for JRPGs has been sort of exhausted so I dunno what you expect, but I found both ni no kunis enjoyable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/19 02:43 AM |
| 3 | Men act like women are so ridiculous for going for shitty dudes, but men do the same thing with shitty women.People see what they want to see. So if you have that mindset then you’re going to magnify everything bad girls do and ignore anything good they do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/19 02:38 AM |
| 21 | Men act like women are so ridiculous for going for shitty dudes, but men do the same thing with shitty women.Incels should take back the word like black people did with the n word. They should walk around saying shit like “what’s good my celly” and “celly please”, until the word becomes so cool that sexually active people want to use it but can’t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/19 02:32 AM |
| 1 | Men act like women are so ridiculous for going for shitty dudes, but men do the same thing with shitty women.The ni no kuni games are good | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/19 02:27 AM |
| 3 | Men act like women are so ridiculous for going for shitty dudes, but men do the same thing with shitty women.What JRPG’s? I played so many of them growing up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/19 02:25 AM |
| 6 | Men act like women are so ridiculous for going for shitty dudes, but men do the same thing with shitty women.That’s true actually. I think some of them like to give off the vibe that they’re slutty so dudes will pursue them more thinking they’ll get lucky. But yea, I’m from a generational cycle of men that seek out troubled women so I know all about that shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/19 02:01 AM |
| 8 | Men act like women are so ridiculous for going for shitty dudes, but men do the same thing with shitty women.With consent. Grab them by the vj with consent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/19 01:53 AM |
| 11 | Men act like women are so ridiculous for going for shitty dudes, but men do the same thing with shitty women.That’s just not reality. I went down that rabbit hole too but it’s not real. A lot of girls at my school are just nice and awkward and goofy. They’re not all leaving class and then going to fuck “chad”. They’re leaving class and then going home and watching netflix or surfing social media like a lot of the dudes are doing. And that’s including some attractive women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/19 01:50 AM |
| 14 | Men act like women are so ridiculous for going for shitty dudes, but men do the same thing with shitty women.You need to hang out with different women. A lot of them really aren’t like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/19 01:46 AM |
| 9 | Men act like women are so ridiculous for going for shitty dudes, but men do the same thing with shitty women.Honestly I just don’t think we hear about it. There’s a social benefit to a woman looking like the victim to an abusive man. The same has not been true for men throughout most of history (it might be chanfinf though). I can say personally that abused men are often a bit ashamed of it, to the point that they’ll go into denial about it. Men feel like society won’t understand or will look at them as weak. I’ve met a lot of dudes who were getting dicked around by abusive women and if you suggested t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/19 01:44 AM |
| 3 | Men act like women are so ridiculous for going for shitty dudes, but men do the same thing with shitty women.Not really. I’ve had a way different life than most of those guys. I was poor when I lived in england, but was middle class for most of my life in America. I was definitely sort of an outcast at these places. I like fuckin stanley kubrick and radiohead and psychology. The closest thing I had to mutual ground with most of them was rap music and even then a lot of them didn’t like the rap I liked (Kanye, Kendrick (and not just humble or swimming pools)). I just happened to have an NPD mom that set… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/19 01:34 AM |
| 11 | Men act like women are so ridiculous for going for shitty dudes, but men do the same thing with shitty women.Yes but she’s complicated just like her male counterpart is. She’s not like a fairytale princess and she could easily break your heart or do something shitty but it would be a mistake and she’d feel actual remorse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/19 01:22 AM |
| 4 | Men act like women are so ridiculous for going for shitty dudes, but men do the same thing with shitty women.I think the NBA is a good example for my case as well. Paul George left Doc Rivers daughter for a stripper that looks like he’s a huge pain in the ass. Look at how many NBA players go for these instragram girls that probably dick them around and use them for exposure. Look at the girl that accused Neymar of assault for smacking her ass when she probably loves rough sex. Then she films him and tries to provoke him into hitting her. There’s so many examples of athletes going for terrible women. Th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/19 01:19 AM |
| 3 | Men act like women are so ridiculous for going for shitty dudes, but men do the same thing with shitty women.Maybe. I am super fucked up so who knows. I spent a lot of time around shady dudes too. Picking up drugs in rough neighborhoods, detoxes etc. that could’ve skewed my opinion because men like that are obsessed with “bad bitches”. I’m convinced partially because none of them can believe thay they actually deserve to be loved by a good person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/19 01:00 AM |
| 0 | Men act like women are so ridiculous for going for shitty dudes, but men do the same thing with shitty women.Yes. Honestly I kind of think being good looking fucks people up a lot though. I dont want to get into it right now but I do have explanations. There’s a reason why “all the hot ones are crazy” as people say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/19 12:43 AM |
| 3 | Men act like women are so ridiculous for going for shitty dudes, but men do the same thing with shitty women.Yea it sort of is. I feel like it’s not a huge societal issue to women because guys will still fuck them though. They don’t get completely hung out to dry by the opposite sex. They’re just always playinf second fiddle to the bad girls and that’s why it doesn’t reach crisis level. They obviously have reasons to want to stay in denial about it too because it’s not a pleasant truth to face. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/19 12:39 AM |
| 7 | Men act like women are so ridiculous for going for shitty dudes, but men do the same thing with shitty women.Just grab em by the vj | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/19 12:37 AM |
| 0 | Should Western Men Choose Eastern Women?Doesn’t really answer your question but I trust foreign women A LOT more than I do American women. Men too actually. They’re just usually not as fake and ego-obsessed. Not to say there aren’t some really good americans, but in general.... I did know an asian girl that was completely out of her mind though. She was really funny but constant shit tests and backhanded comments and whatnot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/19 01:03 PM |
| 19 | Is this female entitlement? Why does this 30+ woman thinks men should pursue her?No it’s because a lot of women started toying with dudes due to the abundance of options that things like tinder gave them. This gave rise to an ideology that generalized all women as game-players, and emphasized not ever chasing a woman. So now a lot of dudes won’t pursue a girl even if she’s not playing games because they’re terrified of being used. Perhaps what this woman misses is actual courting, and the feeling that a dude wanted just her, to the point that he would go to great lengths to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/19 06:23 AM |
| 2 | The unsung heroes of our societySome of the dealers I knew had habits they were dealing to support. I saw a few of them get out of control habits because they had so much of the shit around and then ended up in debt to the supplier. That’s a bad situation to be in but luckily they weren’t dealing with Nino Brown or anything so the worst that happened is that they caught an ass beating or got out of town and that was the end of it. Except for one girl who got half her finger cut off for ripping off a dealer. Also, dealers getti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/19 12:33 AM |
| 2 | Keanu Reeves hover hand photo with fansLol I just found this place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/19 01:39 AM |
| 2 | Keanu Reeves hover hand photo with fansYes we are. But also I think Keanu is a really closed off person and probably just has trouble with moments like that. I’m speaking from personal experience since I couldn’t even handle hugs or really any touching for a while. Anyone who’s saying Keanu’s actions are great based on some misplaced sense of chivalry is deluding themselves though and probably doing it to feel better about their own timidity with women. There’s literally nothing wrong with touching a woman as long as she’s cool with … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/19 01:27 AM |
| 1 | Is Sexual Liberation a facade?Yea I’ve wondered this. Some women definitely use sex as an unhealthy coping mechanism (addiction) and then hide behind sexual liberation to justify it. I agree that every women seems to experience cognitive dissonance about it, and honestly I’ve never met a promiscuous woman who wasn’t pretty crazy, not that they’re all bad people or anything. But a lot of them, possibly all of them, would play games with men’s feelings. I think they’re biologically programmed towards being selective, so promis… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/19 01:22 AM |
| 1 | CMV: A lot of women's experiences being hit on / harassed by dudes come from the fact that men are still expected to make the first move and be persistent.Yea we live in a society that pitches directly conflicting messages in relation to women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/19 01:05 AM |
| 2 | Discussion: Research finds that women do not prefer "nice" guys; in fact they prefer "bullies" and psychopathsI’m not gonna argue you’re wrong or that they don’t like assholes for evolutionary reasons, because I dunno. But the behavior you’re describing is very similar to narcissistic abuse in a lot of ways. Which is basically just manipulating someone into being chemically addicted to you. What I’m saying is that I think it’s possible that manipulating people is just effective because they don’t know any better. So naturally it’s gonna get you laid more. I get confused because every time I’ve gotten gi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/19 12:58 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Most women are in denial about their unearned power and privilege when it comes to sex, dating, relationships and socializing.I’ve made this exact argument to my friends so many times. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/19 12:22 AM |
| 1 | Can’t figure out what I did wrong?Yea I know. It has heightened importance because I just started approaching women again. I think this one would’ve bothered me even when I used to talk to a lot of girls though. | /r/seduction | 22/09/19 07:16 PM |
| 1 | Can’t figure out what I did wrong?I’m just confused as fuck and looking for a reason I guess. She was there with another dude but she was way out of his league and said she was his wingman (he was talking to another girl the whole night). She got hit on by a bunch of dudes but wasn’t showing a lot of interest. I was the only one that she came back to. I’ve had girls use me to make someone jealous and they’re usually being very superficial and eyeing someone while doing it to check their reaction so it didn’t seem like that. She … | /r/seduction | 22/09/19 06:41 PM |
| 1 | Can’t figure out what I did wrong?That’s what I mean though. If the conversation had started to slip and gradually went downhill then I wouldn’t be so confused. But I’ve never had someone go from smiling and leaning her shoulder into me to just not wanting to talk to me. I’ve been around a lot of mentally ill women and she didn’t seem like she was so I can’t chalk it up to her just being sort of nuts. It’s like she noticed something that was a dealbreaker or there was some underlying issue that I can’t possibly know about. I’ve … | /r/seduction | 22/09/19 06:27 PM |
| 14 | How are guys so scared of talking to women?Well you have to consider some people’s personal psychology. Some people have had brutal rejections in their past and those can have a ptsd like resonance (as in events that remind the person of it bring up all the original feelings). Personally, I used to talk to girls and have girlfriends before getting involved with an NPD girl at age 12 who basically rejected me in the harshest way she possibly could just to hurt me. I stopped even trying after that. I didn’t even know it was happening but i… | /r/seduction | 22/09/19 05:31 PM |
| 1 | Can’t figure out what I did wrong?No I didn’t hog the conversation and yes I was a little nervous but I played it cool. I wasn’t acting overzealous or overly interested and I wasn’t being ingratiating. I wasn’t on my A game because I’m just getting back into approaching girls again but I was doing well and she was clearly interested. Fucked if I know. | /r/seduction | 22/09/19 04:49 PM |
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